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| 106 | I (24F) told the man that I'm dating (26M) about my sexual trauma and I haven't heard from him since. I don't know how to feel about this. | A_LittleSad | /r/askFDS | 11/02/21 04:29 PM | |
| 0 | I (24F) told the man that I'm dating (26M) about my sexual trauma and I haven't heard from him since. I don't know how to feel about this. | DISCUSSION | A_LittleSad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:36 PM |
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| 7 | I (24F) told the man that I'm dating (26M) about my sexual trauma and I haven't heard from him since. I don't know how to feel about this.I will definitely think a bit more about why I need more aftercare or what it means to me. I think that I need to ground myself after any sexual experience (even if everything was in a loving and tender way), what helps in those moments is being held, etc. I'll genuinely think about everything you've mentioned | /r/askFDS | 11/02/21 06:22 PM |
| 8 | I (24F) told the man that I'm dating (26M) about my sexual trauma and I haven't heard from him since. I don't know how to feel about this.Thank you for your kind words! <3 | /r/askFDS | 11/02/21 06:19 PM |
| 8 | I (24F) told the man that I'm dating (26M) about my sexual trauma and I haven't heard from him since. I don't know how to feel about this.I've been in therapy since my 18th and my (trauma) psychologist always encouraged me to disclose that information before the connection/relationship got physical, if I felt safe enough to disclose that information. That's why I'm a little bit confused. I do agree with that statement, I'm only a little bit afraid because those things weren't always reasonable with some past partners (or at least 2 of the 3 partners that I've slept with) That has happened before (although, since a few years, I've … | /r/askFDS | 11/02/21 06:15 PM |
| -4 | I (24F) told the man that I'm dating (26M) about my sexual trauma and I haven't heard from him since. I don't know how to feel about this.Thank you for responding! as I've asked another person, I do have a small question in regard of not disclosing trauma to the people that I'm dating/in a relationship with. Personally, I do feel that I need to disclose that information as I, for example and among others, need a little more aftercare when it comes to sex. It is an important aspect to know, especially since I would want them to take those things seriously and not think that I'm overreacting. I just don't know how to vulnerable phys… | /r/askFDS | 11/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 82 | I (24F) told the man that I'm dating (26M) about my sexual trauma and I haven't heard from him since. I don't know how to feel about this.Thank you for responding! I'm definitely cutting ties with him | /r/askFDS | 11/02/21 05:39 PM |
| 12 | I (24F) told the man that I'm dating (26M) about my sexual trauma and I haven't heard from him since. I don't know how to feel about this.Thank you for responding, I do have a small question in regard of not disclosing trauma to the people that I'm dating/in a relationship with. Personally, I do feel that I need to disclose that information as I, for example and among others, need a little more aftercare when it comes to sex. It is an important aspect to know, especially since I would want them to take those things seriously and not think that I'm overreacting. I just don't know how to vulnerable physically, without disclosing tha… | /r/askFDS | 11/02/21 05:37 PM |
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