A_very_Salty_Pearl Archive

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3	Can someone explain why red pill guys are successful with dating and hooking up? Those guys show model-like women in their videos either standing there, posing like he bought her in auction, or in a group of multiple others doting on him like a harem. Smiling, nothing behind their eyes. They say women are easily programmable robots, and pay them to act as exactly that. No matter how attractive or magnetic someone is, nobody acts that way other than prostitutes/models that are being well paid to be used as props and entertain. Remember the people telling you those lies are se…	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/24 07:54 AM
2	Red Pill “Bad Boy/Nice Guy” Dynamic Most women who go for "bad boys" aren't looking for a boy who's bad. They want someone who loves them, who is kind to them, and who is loyal. "Bad guy" claims to be all of that. Plus, he is handsome and exciting. What's not to like? The abuse creeps in slowly and creates more attachment. It's not that we like his "bad" side, it's that we love his "good" side. He conditions us to think that the "bad" is our fault, and we should work really hard into making him return to good. It can take a few ye…	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/23 04:40 AM
5	Why are specifically male suicide rates so high ? Other people already said women do attempt suicide and etc. But I'd like to add, that women self-harm. I am not sure why, I'll be honest. Women have a higher pain tolerance, and i don't know if its because the idea of hurting ourselves is less scary I don't know if it's our because our pain is more directed to "I hate myself" than "I hate the world" I don't know if it's because self-harm is seen as a girly thing and therefore it's a chicken-and-the-egg. But self-harm is a way to hurt yourself th…	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/23 04:03 AM
13	Is the rise of Andrew Tate simply the result of a nihilistic consumer society? No. I have seen PUA/redpill/the manosphere have awave of success years ago (2014 or so? Ca. "Gamergate"), and I thought it was a unique thing that was happening back then, and was so upset everything was getting suddenly worse for women. Then they sort of disappeared, I was so relieved. Yey, the creature is defeated. Imagine my surprise when Andrew Tate appeared and the whole trend restarted. I felt like "HOW MANY TIMES WILL I HAVE TO KILL YOU???" The thing is, it didn't start in 2014. I researc…	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/23 03:34 AM
1	How can one break away from this view of the world when it's been their exact reality? Would it? You'd rather have sex with a hairless 85 yo without legs or a nose who smells of rotten fish than not having sex at all? Didn't think so.	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 12:11 PM
1	Male Strip Shows I have never been to one, but I've seen videos. I never finished the Magic Mike movie - it did nothing for me, just looked funny. Those men aren't attractive for me, nor is their dancing. (For honesty's sake, I did see a video or too that made me go "oh, ok, THAT I'd watch" but they always kept even their pants on.) But if I happened to be at one of those shows, would I go "woooo" and put dollar bills on their thongs and let them use me for a lap dance? Of course! Just cause that's the environme…	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 10:28 AM
2	How can one break away from this view of the world when it's been their exact reality? Well, I'm proud of you for achieving that. It's impressive. I hate exercising so much. Honest best wishes.	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 06:43 AM
2	How can one break away from this view of the world when it's been their exact reality? I'm so glad I could "picture" you and I'm so glad I could give some advice. I often see men like I described on Tinder and such, and sometimes even find them attractive, but I've never ONCE swiped "like". I've often honestly wondered "what are they thinking? It's so scary and intense for no reason". Did you even watch American Psycho? Try to watch it from the perspective of a woman dating that man - the way he looks at himself in the mirror when having sex with you, for example. That's the appro…	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 06:32 AM
1	Women of r/exredpill what is the most important quality(ies), when it comes to men? You think you know women better than they know themselves, and are unwilling to reconsider. Unsure what you're doing on "exredpill", but alright. Also, most men don't want to commit well into their 40s. Been trying to marry since 18 yo now, twice engaged, both times with older men. Left when it was finally time to actually do the whole marriage thing. Now I'm nearly 30, all I wanted was marriage and children. Giving up on it, because though I'm not conservative, I myself was raised with very tra…	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 06:08 AM
2	How can one break away from this view of the world when it's been their exact reality? Oooh. I'm picturing you better in my mind now, I think. This was online, I imagine? The "gross" thing in regards to having very little fat and taking pride in it might be because... wait, I'll narrate the thought: "That seems like a very negative and harmful idea to have about body fat. I have some body fat, so what? Do you think that makes me inferior? Do you think you're superior? That's gross." The "intimidating" part was likely cause you're apparently so muscular, and, if my "mental picture"…	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 06:05 AM
1	How can one break away from this view of the world when it's been their exact reality? I don't picture myself or anyone I know feeling the sudden urge to tell a man with big ears he's gross or intimidating. I meet unattractive men and women all the time, and I am, at a minimum, polite to them. I don't even measure attractiveness unless prompted to, tbh. Even if one flirts with me, my reaction is "no, but thank you, I'm flattered" or something. Being unattractive isn't a crime, and I don't think any woman other than Regina George would be mean. And even in that situation, the chose…	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 05:46 AM
3	How can one break away from this view of the world when it's been their exact reality? And if that's true, so what? Just because any woman can probably find someone willing to date or sleep with them, why is that even a good thing? A woman who has to pick between being alone or a man she doesn't like, who isn't kind, and who she isn't attracted to is by no means more lucky than someone who has to choose between being alone or approaching women. Or more lucky than someone who's simply alone, for that matter.	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 05:38 AM
3	How can one break away from this view of the world when it's been their exact reality? Your lived experience is: You haven't had much luck dating. You are are 5'7', bald, with big ears. That's true, both things are your lived experience. But you're the one connecting the two. When you talk about what women have said to you, you said they called you "intimidating" and "gross". They didn't call you "big eared, bald and short", right? My perspective, as a woman, is the following: When i call someone "gross", unless they just farted or something, it usually means "immoral". A stranger…	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 05:30 AM
1	Women of r/exredpill what is the most important quality(ies), when it comes to men? Deep breath I have the impression a big problem with redpill is the following: Its men whose ideal situation is to have a harem of very attractive women who sleep with you with the least effort possible. Personality, tastes, morals - none of that comes into play - just attractiveness and willingness to sleep with you. Since you don't live that life (and women don't approach you), you create this fantasy that "most women" and attractive men just live like this, which is not true. "Most women" can…	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/23 04:55 AM
1	Women of r/exredpill what is the most important quality(ies), when it comes to men? Well, first of all, attractiveness is subjective. Just because you find someone incredibly attractive, it doesn't mean everyone does, and same goes the other way around. Second, attractiveness is just one factor. It can be a very important factor, of course, and I wouldn't be with someone I don't find at least a little bit attractive. But between Jason, a male model who doesn't do anything around the house and treats me like crap and "John next door, he has pretty eyes and is a very good writer.…	/r/ExRedPill	17/12/23 11:57 PM
2	What you have thoughts about modern feminism and modern masculinity on internet? These things have always existed, and it's not a gender thing. White people hating on black people, black people hating white people in return. Christians hating Muslims, Muslims hating Christians in return. This is not the fault of America or the fault of other countries. And so it is and so it goes. And the only way to move forward from that is stop focusing on hate and see that all people are people, capable of wonderful and of horrible things, capable of fear, of love and of hate.	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/23 03:50 PM
6	Women of r/exredpill what is the most important quality(ies), when it comes to men? Seeing me as a human being, with feelings, with qualities, with defects - being willing and excited to see them all. Respecting those feelings, that is: acting with empathy and compassion Loyalty, being there for me for better or for worse. -Trustworthy: no tricks, no games. Tell me what you feel and I'll do the same. Having your own inner universe: being passionate about something. What can you teach me? What can you learn from me? Hygiene: Daily showers, wear deodorant. Rarer than you think. B…	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/23 10:52 PM
12	What you have thoughts about modern feminism and modern masculinity on internet? Every human being is a complex universe. 6 ft or 3 ft tall, male or female, rich or poor, educated or not, attractive or not. Yes, some women hate men, and some men hate women. They have their reasons, though some have bigger reasons than others. The secret is understanding that. I'm not more real than you are, and you aren't more real than I am. Once you truly comprehend that in your mind, it will be easier to comprehend other people and cope with all the good and the bad that they bring. Even …	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/23 10:27 PM
2	I hope he picked her Yeah, moment I read that I was like "ah! It's a man. Get it."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 03:05 PM