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‘The Coquette’ is a book that might interest this community. Written back in the late 1700’s. It was written by a woman. It’s basically about a woman struggling between alpha fks and beta bucks and is read through letters different characters write to other people. Lots of red pill examples in there as well as some explanations about why women settled for beta bucks in that time period. It also gives some insight into how women play men and why. It’s pretty fascinating to read since this book is…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 04:45 AM
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I think friend circle game produced more substantial fruit than pickup at bars and clubs for me. If you are going for quality, this is my choice.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 03:30 PM
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How does anything he said hate Hispanic or black men. I am genuinely curious to hear your response. I will not flame you for it.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 06:54 PM
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Every gospel needs preachers.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 01:04 PM
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I think when you have read enough TRP to get angry, that’s when you need to walk away and start employing what you have learned. It’s counter productive to bitch and moan on here all the time. It’s very easy for guys to just come here and continue to feel sorry for themselves instead of make a plan to change their circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 04:04 AM
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The only short guys I have known to be successful are ones that work out. They did just fine, but you have to compensate for the lack of height. It sucks, but that is life.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 07:20 PM
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Today, Feminism is mostly a political movement driven by multi-culturalism, a truly cancerous ideology on the left. Basically every group is oppressed in some way and at the very top you have men as the greatest oppressor, and on top of that white men, the greatest of oppressors. The whole shtick of feminism today is to destroy maleness by eliminating the differences between men and women. Of course this means that you end up having to correct a lot of things in men. You have to eliminate the in…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 06:08 PM
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That's a good question. You could ask the same thing about men too. I think the reason for this is people don't live meaningful lives anymore. Lots of the things TRP prescribes men are meaningful things to do for men(lifting, active hobbies, sports, etc.), which is why they turn guys lives around here in a good way. In many ways I think TRP is teaching men what men need to be fulfilled as men because society has forgotten that. On the other hand, social engineering has attempted to push women in…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 02:31 PM
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Peterson talks a lot about the relationship between men and women pre 1940's-50's. He says that men and women generally worked together in order to reduce their shared suffering through rough times. Monogamy was beneficial in rough times because you needed someone you could count on. I generally think this makes sense and agree that monogamy worked for both men and women very well in these times. However, we live in some of the softest times ever. There is very little conflict, very little suffe…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 03:21 AM
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I think the better lesson to learn here is the basic truth of trying to belong to these leftist collectivist groups and people. Rule #1 of the SJW types is that they always turn on their own(#2 they always double down on their ideology). Their ideology is like a religion and they love to call people sinners, especially those who appear to be devout. These people do not judge you based on the character of you as an individual, but the collective sins of your racial/gender/ethnic past and present.…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 04:19 PM
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he was talking about practice sessions in school where he is pretending to be a client and the girl pretending to be the therapist gave him her number. She was the one being unethical...
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 02:59 PM
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Get ready for the accusations of rape culture in the scouts when underage sex starts happening and they start throwing young boys in jail and juvenile facilities.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 11:47 PM
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I must have missed the post in question...I can't believe there are really guys on here that think sex dolls are the future. TRP is about creating a healthy future with women, not some creepy forever alone future with a fuck doll.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:47 AM
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She is not with you because you pilot the ship, she is with you because she does. She does not respect you, she manipulates and controls you. She does not want you to be the captain and will never accept that kind of relationship with you. You are making the mistake of negotiating for control from her. You are not the captain in the relationship because you are NOT a captain. Captains make a mutinous crew member walk the plank for insubordination, you kept throwing her off the boat and then pull…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 10:22 PM
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It is very disturbing to see how platforms like reddit and YouTube are actively censoring speech and world views that don’t align with left leaning ideology. It is even more disturbing to me that left leaning people who supposedly believe in free speech don’t see how these actions threaten the very fabric of free speech in western society.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 12:24 PM
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what you call bubble gum steps seems more like stage 1 flirting than any real escalation. This is the type of flirting I would categorize as everyday flirting you may do with women you know or meet day to day.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 03:07 AM
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I find a good way to battle anxiety is find ways to be active in your conversations/interactions. One of the reasons cigarettes "look cool" is because you are active doing something you want while talking to someone. It makes you look at ease and in command of what you want to do. Another way to look at it is the action of smoking keeps you present, instead of in your head(This is not an endorsement of smoking, just an example. You could even be drinking water and be active that way.). Mastering…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 02:46 AM
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Where does TRP stand on helping guys like OP here if he gets accused and needs help with legal fees? We do gofund me?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 03:39 AM
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Women at my place of employment are much more of a hassle to employ. They require more management to stay productive and on task and they are physically incapable of doing certain tasks in a reasonable amount of time. There are next to none of them in management because they don’t go the extra mile like more of the men do. #metoo is just another reason to hire less of them. They are shooting themselves in the foot.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:08 AM
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I think what you are really getting at is a misapplication by some of alpha traits. An alpha isn't by definition a jerk, he is a man who uses his power without hesitation but also understands that he doesn't have to bring to bear his complete power on everyone at all times.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 01:42 AM
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People read TRP and absorb the concepts here. After that lots get stuck not actually doing the hard part, getting better, improving every day, applying the things you actually learned.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 01:05 AM
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There are reasonable ways to explain it(remaining loved ones taking up the fight after their men have all died for the cause-no more men left), but they don’t(likely because it’s written by feminists who think it’s perfectly normal to have an army whose force is mostly women). A feminist writer would have to admit a defeat in their own ideology by providing an interesting or believable story behind a largely female army because it implies that there wouldn’t be one in the first place without ext…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 02:37 AM
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They made many mistakes with the story No real training between Rey and Luke on screen(they filmed more, but didn't show it). Didn't kill Leia off when she was vacuumed into space Had Rose in the story and the whole hacking subplot(It would have been fine to leave it at they were making their way to that old rebel base to let escape pods get away) Never delve deeper into snoke's character Cheat the movie out of maybe what could have been the most impactful moment, finn's sacrifice, for some stup…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:51 PM
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Questions you should ask yourself every day if you are mgtow/incel I have a body, why am i not working it out? I have a dick, why am i not using it? I find that girl attractive, why am i ignoring that?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 03:17 AM
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The thing is, most girls that go to this response just want to get rid of you. There’s maybe a 50/50 chance they actually have one.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:43 AM
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Yes. Social Anxiety comes from not being comfortable around people you don’t know. Easiest way to get comfortable is talk to people. When you become comfortable making conversation with anyone, social anxiety just kinda falls away.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:40 AM
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It could be possible to generate an image of a woman with no makeup with the new capabilities of the iphone X's two cameras. The depth maps captured might be usable to restore the natural tone of their faces vs the fake ones they apply with makeup through sampling skin color and applying to their face with the depth mask. Of course its still not the original, but you might be able to get pretty close. Blemishes and things like that would probably still be mostly invisible.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 01:39 AM
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No lie. I was at work tuesday and my coworker was talking and his height was relevant to our conversation at the time(can't remember what it was) and he told me 5'7". A female coworker came over and said, "excuse me, how tall did you say you were?" He was like im five seven. She was like,"nuh uh, you ain't no five seven, cuz I'm five three and you sho ain't tall enough to be no five seven. Then she looked him up and down and smug laughed at him and walked away. The dude was suddenly shifted into…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 01:32 AM
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Nope not suggesting it get watered down at all. If you have ever peeked into subs like two x and TBP, you would realize all these people know about TRP is what they hear about it in their own sub. Even those that come here to check it out never read the side bar, most guys here don't for that matter. They don't matter though. My whole point was it would be a good idea to have a clear singular statement of TRP philosophy right out in the open, so when TRP say gets accused of promoting rape or som…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:21 AM
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The point is not caring how they look, the point is you are operating from a position of strength. They are the ones that are the fools having to defend a foolish position. If trp doesn't get ahead of the curve on this, they will have nothing to cite, nothing to clearly distinguish themselves from the fake representatives cited by CNN or other subs on reddit. None of us have anything personal at stake here, but the entire sub is definitely at risk. Whether or not the sub getting taken down matte…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 11:51 PM
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Everything you need is there on the sidebar, but you said it yourself, there are lots of guys that come here, or go to asktrp and don't ever read it, and you can forget about getting them to read stuff from the book list. This is less about guys coming here for help than it is about preparing for future attacks on the sub from outside. If you can't get a guy who's not getting laid and hates himself to go into the side bar to read stuff to make his life better, you aren't going to get women and b…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 11:11 PM
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I agree that this sub is nothing like incels, but people outside this sub people don't make the distinction or find other reasons to hate it. The reality is the war of ideas is already here, and the burden of proof is going to be on TRP when they come to take it down. Having a statement of what TRP stands for will be invaluable to taking down any witch hunts for this sub based on false information and to shoot down false arguments made against TRP that don't even represent what it is about.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 10:41 PM
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I think you might have taken independence of outcome a bit too far. Connections to people are important, it's recognizing what connections are valuable and what are not. If you have friends going nowhere and doing nothing, that's when you may need to decide to cut them away. One thing is certain, you don't need to spoon feed your friend TRP. If he has started on the path then he will learn how to get where he is going on his own terms, you can't hold his hand and take him there. The whole point …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 07:53 AM
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Jordan Peterson had a great stance on politics and when people should be active in them- If you haven't gotten your life together, if you haven't lived(still in high school, living with parents), what makes you think you are qualified to have a stance on how to take care of others? It's something to think about when making posts here. I happen to think that you don't have to be slaying pussy on a daily basis to have good things to post, but I do believe you have to be living out TRP honestly and…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 05:46 AM
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I think the main difference is in the article, the 'Jon Ham' says who cares to assaults to his frame because he's working off a script, I'm saying you shouldn't care because you have actually become comfortable with things that you might break frame about. I don't think that's the direct opposite, I'll give it another reread.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 06:04 PM
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Wow yeah I replied to another thread 5 minutes ago with a similar notion but not worded anywhere as well as you have here. The trick is to be honest about yourself, and to not modify yourself to please others. The energy gained you are talking about comes from not being burdened by decision fatigue or social fatigue. When you are truly being your honest self without a filter or persona, you are no longer burdened by all the extra strain of maintaining that persona and the complex decisions and b…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 06:32 AM
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I thought about making a post on this. Lots of the things TRP prescribes work to help fill holes you may have been trying to overcompensate for so you don't have to anymore. This will naturally make you attractive and confident but it will still leave holes. What can instantly help you before you reach all your goals is sitting down and meditating on what you feel are your biggest faults or shortcomings. Really think about what they are and how you compensate for these things. If you can decide …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 06:22 AM
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They got married when they were both mid 30's. Shes was a business woman most of her life. I suspect she settled(not that she was an amazing catch either). My dad is a nice, charismatic, hard working guy. My mom is super controlling. I don't think she could ever respect him because he never commands it. He has always been too deferent to her whims and wishes and lets her lead often times because she 'wants to'. She's a crappy leader and always gets frustrated at him for not taking charge, but pa…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 03:47 PM
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Haha. I'm definitely not. Pops could definitely use a dose of red pill.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 02:59 AM
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Most people that come here to TRP, and understand it, realize that it IS them that are the problem. Go read the sidebar >>>
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 12:40 AM
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I asked my mother once why she alwyas refuses to move forward with anything my dad suggests(life decisions, where to eat, when to go get dinner, doesn't really matter), even when she doesn't even care one way or the other what the outcome is. She said to me that she has never fully respected my dad, or the choices he makes, so even when she might agree she just disagrees anyways. She says no to watch his world(and indirectly hers) burn I guess. Just further proof to me that women's opinions don'…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 06:35 PM
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Like others have said, tinder is an app based on gut reaction. You can only inspire that through pictures when using tinder, but in the real world there are many more ways to do this. I went to a bar a few weeks ago with some friends I hadn't seen in a while. We decided to have a little fun and started a game of one upsmanship. I ended up singing some sublime to a group of women at a table off on their own. I got a number from one right away and had two approach me throughout the night after and…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 03:53 PM
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TRP exists because its turns out masculinity and femininity are extremely important. A man who is not masculine is set up for a miserable and depressing life. If you have done any reading on here at all, then you would understand that blue pill men have been living your dream of being label free. Of abandoning their natural masculine traits for more feminine inclined ones. Women don't want them. You need to be on two X chromosomes asking women to stop being attracted to masculinity if you want t…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 11:12 PM
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Relationships with women are a dance, not a negotiation. The biggest truth bomb a BP man can endure is that his niceness will never lead to him cashing in. You need to learn to have fun with the dance instead of approaching things from the perspective of a negotiation you always lose. Life is too short to live it frustrated and alone man.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 07:27 PM
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Fictional- Lex Luthor. The ultimate self made man. He fights against superman because superman is the biggest threat to humanity. He believes superman takes away their will to learn to fight for themselves and their ambition to improve and grow. He is also a Genius scientist and inventor. Non-Fictional- The Rock- Ill be happy if I can achieve half the charisma and muscles he has
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 07:13 PM
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Tyler has a lot of great videos, but this one does a good job of talking about how to be more engaged and less attached to outcomes AKA living in the present. He also talks about things like decision fatigue, self criticism fatigue and stuff like that and how it can really screw with the energy you have left to focus on other things you are doing. He has some good stuff(and some just ok stuff) in his playlist that helps with women and life in general. I recommend just picking out videos that hav…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 03:18 PM
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Your problem is you are in your head. Go watch some videos by rsdtyler. He deals a lot with frame and how to change your inner voice and how you perceive the world and people around you. Being a virgin doesn't matter, never being kissed doesn't matter, what matters is you are not present when you are interacting with these women. You are too busy worried about all these things you think disqualify you. Because of that none of your energy or attention is focused on the woman in front of you and s…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 03:45 AM
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There is a difference between being present/engaged versus emotional. It's the difference between a man remarking on the Beauty of a building versus a man crying because he thought a building was beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 03:21 AM
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Hey guys if you are interested in this kind of stuff you should check out RSDtyler. He talks about stuff like this.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 02:35 AM
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I said diversity of thought isn't necessarily a bad thing to pursue. If you are a company looking to diversify what you do or offer, you may pursue employees with different educations or backgrounds that can bring new ideas and experience to your company. Pursuing diversity for the sake of diversity itself is never something worthwhile. People who want everything to be completely diverse across the board fail to realize that its impossible. There will never be an equal number of blacks and white…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 02:18 AM
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Let me me elaborate. When we die, we will be the sum of what we did. What we did are our achievements, big or small, important or mundane. Live your life and maximize the time you have to do what you think is important and do it to your best ability is basically what I mean. Life is action and many guys here struggle doing it. Don't be afraid to live, it's what we are here to do. If you see a 10 and you want her, you owe it yourself to go and try and take her. I do respect that every guy here ha…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 07:51 AM
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The knowledge of pigments(used for creating various colors) to cave men was very limited. Perspective wasn't even truly understood until the Renaissance era, But the greeks starting playing with beginnings of it as well as more realistic sculpture. The cave paintings they made were probably the best they could produce for their time.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 05:49 AM
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I think TRP should institute some sort of test, to see whether or not you have read the material and require a 100% score before you can post here.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 03:16 AM
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Last Thursday I was out with friends. One of them still hasn't had a girlfriend or sex. I spent the whole night trying to find women who would dance with him. Not a single one would. Women don't give their dogs treats for free, they have to do tricks for them. They LOVE their dogs, so you sure as hell aren't going to get something from a woman out of pity(for free). All of life is a dare guys. You have to be the one man enough to take life up on it. Do shit that scares you, you will be a better(…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 02:54 AM
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My friend starting smoking cigarettes occasionally with his brother. He said he wasn't addicted and would never buy a pack himself so it would never be a problem. Fast forward a few months and he buys his own packs now and needs to smoke a few times every day. And that's just plain cigarettes.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 05:34 AM
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Read Rollo's second book. It will help you understand Tom's experience.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 05:44 PM
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I have mistaken you for the Auvergnat, the topic originator, Scurve, and I apologize. I saw trp endorsed and didn't pay enough attention to the handle. My original comment still stand as it regards to him.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 06:21 PM
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I did read your post, And if they are not where they want to be yet, they sure as hell don't write their unproven opinion in a post on the main sub If you agree that posts like the one i mentioned are valuable you should rewrite your words above. I understand what you are speaking out against. You don't like the circle jerk posts like the fake FRs and Hate posts. I agree with that. However, your words above and the sentiment in your post in general express that the only posts of value come from …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 04:35 PM
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I think you are forgetting the part of TRP that promotes men being the best version of themselves. Through being the best/most successful version of you, you naturally attract women(and feel more fulfilled). The journey to becoming that is different for everyone and does require some personal self reflection. Some posts here are helpful in that aspect by being self reflective but don't necessarily have anything to offer on sexual strategy. For example I remember a guy on here posting about quitt…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 03:43 PM
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I disagree with this somewhat. Rollo had valuable posts he made even before he became the 'Guru' he is now. The problem is all the fake stories and hate threads. This sub needs a weekly thread for posts in that vein.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 03:24 PM
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You totally missed the point. The opening of my comment literally says that men never have to worry about procreation. Its not a critical thing because we can do it at our leisure. Its more important to a woman to prioritize her reproduction because she has limited amount of time with which to do it. The third paragraph addressees the rest of your comment. Truly what we fear most is being alone. It is why it's so hard to give up on the idea of marriage. On the idea of having kids. If you decide …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:17 PM
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A man can have kids whenever he wants. Women cannot. Procreation is never something we have to worry about. If we want to do it, there is nothing stopping us. Women are slaves to procreation. If they don't settle down quickly, they miss their chance. Procreation is their biggest fear, not ours. They have an expiration date, we don't. Our wealth will not expire, our success doesn't expire until we decide to retire, our value in society doesn't falter unless we grow complacent or indifferent, our …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 08:12 PM
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This is general advice about changing yourself. If you can't understand that I feel sorry for you. If you can't see the value in that, I feel sorry for you. Yeah, I like video games, I'm also an artist, a photographer, I write, and make music, and do many other things outside of that. I don't Reddit about my entire life. It would also help you to think about the fact that not everyone visiting this place is at the same point in their life. Not everyone is a Don Juan the Pussy Slayer overnight af…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 12:59 AM
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The whole purpose of this post is to help others overcome their mental battles and get out of their own way. Last I checked TRP is about self improvement AND sexual strategy. This post is speaking to those who are having issues on their journey of self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 06:10 PM
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The best way to know if they can be saved is to vet. Drop crumbs here and there and see what they think. I found the red pill on my own. It was pretty easy for me to swallow. Deep down I knew lots of the RP truths. The hard part is learning to externalize it. A lifetime of Blue pill behavior has to be overwritten. It's too definitive to say that you shouldn't unplug other guys. That they have to find it on their own. There are some ready and some that aren't. You can't know for sure until you gi…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 07:55 AM
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Too angry man. TRP is not about treating women like shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 01:58 AM
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I used to ask myself this question too. The reality is, everyone has their ups and downs. With the red pill, at least we can avoid a lot of the downs.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:47 AM
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Sometimes people need more than words man. He's up there alone with a life sucking leech. If you and your other friend showed up to visit, and offered to drive/fly him back he might just go with you guys.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:43 AM
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Make this a short film or a music video
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 12:59 AM
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Good post, this kind of thing is right up my alley. Ill give it a try. I think I'm going to start out tomorrow night British(instead of American) and see how that goes. It will be highly amusing to try my 'American accent out for them and see what they think of it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 11:53 PM
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On a personal level, I have mostly moved past the anger phase. I accept that most of my anger was due to my lack of understanding of the true nature of myself, and women. I think guys that can't move past the anger phase are still stuck in fog of the blue pill. They are furious at women for not being what the blue pill makes them out to be. They also fail to internalize that their happiness is not dependent on women. Self improvement is so important because it makes you into a complete man. It m…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 07:25 AM
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You care way too much about what women think man. There is rarely a time when anything they say is truly worth spending some thought on. It sounds to me like inner game is your monster to slay. There is no logical reason to care this much about people stereotyping you as that one guy, when you are in fact not that guy. You have nothing to prove man. You are already not the stereotype. Never forget that women can smell doubt and frustration when they shit test you. You clearly feel a little of bo…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 06:46 AM
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Who are you guys talking about? I guess I'm not here often enough to notice.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 05:13 AM
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Of course this is in canada. Man they have really let the inmates run the asylum there. This is truly disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 06:31 PM
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It would be a mistake to believe just because she hasn't mentioned divorce or other men that those aren't real things happening in her mind or in the now. What exactly do you think she's doing with all that free time? It sounds to me like you lost her hamster a long time ago. She is past the point of rationalizing how you are better than she is and that she is lucky and happy to be with you. You are at the stage where you are now lower than her. She is burdened with you, and you are lucky she pu…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 10:49 PM
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What about femmprehension instead?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 09:25 PM
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I think seeing a lawyer and talking a strategy through with them is the best bet before you throw out any sort of ultimatum. Your wife will not need a strategy at all. The courts are built to favor her and do so with ease. You need to figure out what you want your situation to be after marriage. Do you want your kids? How often? What do you want to walk away with financially? There is lot to consider here. Sit down. Figure out your strategy. Then execute. Do not throw out ultimatums half cocked,…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 09:18 PM
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from how OP describes the convo, it sounds like she made a general statement into a personal attack against her.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 09:07 PM
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Me: "ok...how's the foot coming?" I think most guys aren't ready to be unplugged until they get out of a relationship like this. He would reject anything but the dream he's living with his girl right now. He can't see the truth until he sees chad who's hiding in the closet after finishing up a session with his girl.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 09:03 PM
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In my eperience tinder has more flakes and fakes. OKcupid has served me better. I think its worth having several apps on your phone and see which seems to work better for your area.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 02:46 PM
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Reading 'The Manipulated Man' had to be one of the most angering things ive ever read. It stuck with me for a while, but I got over it.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 02:32 AM
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What you are feeling is a lack of fulfillment. You are still looking to a woman to full fill you from the sounds of it. The first thing I would ask you is how many really good friends do you have? Do you see them often? Do you guys do things for fun? Do you have a sports team you play with? Do you have any sort of extra curricular that you enjoy and do with a group? If you don't have good friends, or good mates that you go drink or have fun with you need to get some. The big lie about women is t…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 02:53 AM
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Women are not meant to be interesting dude. They don't exist to fulfill the intellectual or mechanical things that interest you. That's what your friends are for.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 01:59 AM
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Emotions are catching and addictive. If you are happy emotional often I would not try to get rid of it. YOU are like a drug man. Women will fall over each other for some of that energy. If you go up and down often then maybe try to work on catching yourself mentally before you to far one way or the other. But in general I would say emotionality can be used to your benefit.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 01:39 AM
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Honestly, now sounds like the perfect time for him to get a dose of red man.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 11:22 PM
1

It's really easy to fight sjws. Just list off the facts. Their whole ideology is based off of bogeymen, ghosts, and feelings. Rationality and facts always shut them down. The problem is they seem to be getting violent.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 11:07 PM
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Social justice is not justice. Justice is justice. Social justice was conceived to bring justice to groups that regular justice just wasn't enough for. It's a very dark line of thinking. There can only be one kind of justice. It's not justice if the punishment changes depending on the junk you have, the junk you like, or the color of your skin.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 10:56 PM
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Yeah, the problem is, you gave away your all your assets for free man. How can she respect a man that is willing to give away his 'wealth' to anyone without anything in return. You are basically slutting out your most valuable commodity, and doing it for nothing in return. A woman has to earn the kind of treatment you were giving her. If there is not an equivalent exchange, then things gotsta change.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 07:04 PM
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There is always a woman out there that is willing to be with you. You have to be real with yourself. What women can you score right now? If you haven't lifted, if you haven't worked on game, if you haven't improved your working life, then you are going to be stuck with the bottom of the barrel man and go look there for what you can score. If you want to improve your chances with women, then you have to improve yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 01:48 AM
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Then the woman who screwed over her current man can find another 'member' in society to claim parenthood lol. This is the biggest load of crap.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 01:12 AM
1

Read the game by Neil Strauss. It's a decent place to start and a fascinating book. There's another great book, by the guy who wrote the laws of power but I forget the title. I'm sure someone in here remembers though.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 12:55 AM
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How does that even make sense? Like I don't even see how you rationalize that being something that should be illegal.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 12:28 AM
2

Race doesn't really matter. It comes down to n count. I feel bad for my Hispanic friends where I live though. I can't tell you how many younger guys I have met who say things like, 'Man, I love my girl. I'm scared she'll leave me, but if I get her pregnant she'll stay.' Their cultural mindset about pregnancy is so different.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:56 PM
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The good old ride into the setting sun. It's not for everyone. I would only do this if things were very bad. Like she get half you shit, alimony, and child support payments. If that happens, it would be worth considering.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:36 PM
1

You found your purpose man. TRP gives you things that help you build a purposeful mindset. A man with purpose is a man always looking to achieve. You can't achieve until you improve to the point you achieve. You can't improve until you get real about what you need to improve on. You have done step one. You realize what you want to improve on. Write down every single thing you want to achieve. After that pick the two or three of the most important to you and write down what you can do first thing…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:14 AM
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There is no need for a filter. The process filters itself. Women will never even remember these guys they next them so fast. Guys that are below average on looks on dating apps and sites probably don't last more than a week or two before they uninstall the app or never open it again on their phone. The real problem is our society today. It creates chumps. Its sells lies and philosophies to men today that don't work. Ugly men have as much to offer and more sometimes than an attractive guy. As men…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 11:53 PM
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Yep, I think the whole waifu movement stems from this too. They realize the woman they want doesn't exist so they seek it in forms they do.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:55 PM
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Yep. I forget which user posted this quote here, but essentially it was that men run races and women wait at the finish line. They all want to be the prize for the guy that finishes first. This is why the self improvement aspect of TRP is so important. Be the best you can, because women inherently expect the best.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:30 PM
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I think there is a big difference in how guys treat an average looking woman vs how women treat an average looking man. An average looking woman will still get positive attention from men and still have johns lining up for a slice. The average looking man will be lucky to have a woman acknowledge his existence.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:17 PM
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I think most TRP posters would find your comment acceptable. Looking for the truth and understanding people(mostly women in this case and ourselves) is what this subreddit is about.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:13 PM
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The whole point of TRP is you CAN win man. The blue pill has you playing checkers in a game of chess. With TRP you see the game for what it really is and have the strategy to win what you can instead of just losing. If you pedastalize women and seek the fairy tale girl, you will always lose. If you believe the lies of popular culture about women(that they want a good guy, someone who will love them and care for them), then you will lose. If you believe the lies about what attracts them, you will…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:10 PM
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Looks will always hold you back. But they hold you back the most in online dating because you have no way to compensate with other skills. There's very little you can do to get a woman's attention if she didn't find your profile shiny and purdy enough. The best you can do if you aren't super attractive is make yourself look like a rockstar.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:00 PM
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like this? haha We have a few rap battles recorded. Fun as Fuck
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 02:28 AM
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Before I found TRP lots of these truths became clear to me the more I learned about my mom. She has been married to my father for almost thirty years. She blames him for everything wrong in her life(though he has nearly killed himself working to keep her in luxury and put myself and my sister through school). She says he was never a good enough father or husband. Maybe 3 years ago she was visiting my grandmother and 'met an old friend from high school'. She was secretly seeing him when she would…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 12:11 AM
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You took a step forward OP. maybe not the best step or the ideal step, but still it was a step forward.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:43 PM
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Such a vivid picture you paint
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:40 PM
2

People are always looking for band mates on Craigslist man. Find someone to jam with. Get a little tipsy if it helps you play. I was scared to death of singing like I meant it when my friends wanted me to do vocals for them a few months back. I was so worried about being bad and about making a fool of myself. You just have to idgaf man. Now it's not a big deal for me.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:23 PM
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Read the sidebar material. Just reading the forum is not enough. I would say though that what really shook my view initially was 'The Manipulated Man'. It presents lots of things you've experienced or seen others experience in a way you never thought about before.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:04 PM
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I don't have any great suggestions on physical groups as far as meditation goes, but I do know there are tons of different people out there who do 'guided meditations' If you are looking for something to guide you through the process. You should be able to find plenty through google search, youtube, and itunes. What made meditation really click for me personally was a book called 'Declutter Your Mind' by SJ Scott and Barrie Davenport. It also helped me in general with problems ADHD related. I ho…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 06:05 PM
2

People change over time. What gives your life meaning changes with you. People don't want happy lives, they want meaningful ones. We can work jobs we find meaningful, but sometimes the meaning gets lost. This is true of most things in your life. Try to figure out what it is you find meaningful now, since clearly the meaning you felt before is now gone. If you feel boring, and that your life has lost its importance, chances are you don't have enough important people in your life. TRP seems to mis…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 09:50 PM
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Do you have any sports you like to play? Any Hobbies? These are the best way to make friends. Find people with similar interests and go do things. If you like to sketch, join a sketching group, if you like sports, join a local league, If you want to learn karate, find a local dojo. I recommend Meetup. I do photography and have found several great groups that way. I saw further down in the comments that you have tried meditation but have bad ADHD and couldn't do it. DO IT. DO IT DO IT DO IT. I ha…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:09 PM
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Its not really a theory so much as something I think would be beneficial. My friends and I have been meeting up a few time a week to play music together. No one wanted to do vocals(too scared) so I said F- it, I'll do them. I've noticed that as I've improved on them, my control over my voice in normal everyday conversation has improved as well. Being able to just playfully hit notes correctly in a song that's playing over the radio is also a useful bit when doing pickup. On top of that, I find p…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:54 PM
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You feel this way because you have no connections dude. You do stuff to better yourself(like lifting, good job, etc.) but you have nothing else. If you have a friend that lives 3 hours away and don't see them often, you don't have enough friends. Don't take that critically or feel bad about it, just try to get a circle of guys you can hang out with man. Women will never make you feel better about your shit dude. Never. They don't have the capacity to look past their own issues. Find some guys yo…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:46 PM
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Yeah, this really is the big problem. The reason the red pill works is because it exposes the truth of how things work. The truth used to be much simpler decades ago. You had men who knew these truths and weren't considered sexist mysoginysts(can't even spell the damn word right) for speaking it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:17 PM
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There really are people that have issues within their body that make them fat. For those people it is much harder to maintain a better body. But it is still not impossible. It just comes down to what you are willing to sacrifice for the things you want.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:08 PM
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No one 'deserves' to be treated the way betas are. Betas are functioning off of a system they were taught to believe works. They operate with a blindfold on believing they can see. Women will never feel empathy for us, that doesn't mean we should also throw away empathy for our fellow men. Save the betas you can.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:47 PM
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The problem has become such that 30 years ago, maybe more, women were actually taught to respect the charity that men offer them. If you had changed a woman's tire she might have offered to buy you lunch/breakfast/dinner/coffee. Women today have no respect for the things men do freely. They have no honor. As I posted above, If you do things like change a woman's tire, do so knowing that you are doing so out of charity and to not expect anything in return.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:43 PM
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There is no inherent problem with buying a woman drinks, or anyone for that matter. The real problem comes from expecting something from a person because you bought them a drink. If you are going to give someone something freely, make it free. Don't expect something in return for an act of good will.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:38 PM
3

It sounds to me like you need a good circle of friends man. Like close friends. I'm still on my RP journey and haven't quite gotten to the level of slaying it sounds like you are at yet, but I have felt exactly the way you have felt about wanting to feel connected to a woman you are with. Like others have said, the reality is, you will never get that connection you are looking for from a woman. I used to feel lonelier, but I make time for the quality friends in my life and I don't feel that way …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 12:04 AM
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Nice description of amused mastery. Reminds me of the count of monte cristo where they had 'king of the moment'. When one of them had that, they would toss the other a king's chess piece to recognize it.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 02:20 AM
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The first time I read it, i remember being very angry. I think its important not to feel anger or disdain for women after reading this. It gives insight into how both men and women operate. Understanding what motivates women helps with getting them, but it also illustrates just how ridiculous our blind compulsion for them is when its not really a net gain in any way. At the end of the day, having a life partner is fulfilling. It important not to feel alone. Women give us something, real or not, …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 10:37 PM
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Did you read The Manipulated Man in the side bar material? I think it will help you with breaking your fixation on what women think of you. As men there is nothing greater than being validated by women. We are trained to think this way, and i think you are still stuck on that(hell even I haven't completely broken this mindset yet). Give it a read if you haven't and let me know what you think after.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 05:19 PM
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Read all the material in the sub side bar to start with. I haven't read No More Mr. Nice Guy yet, but i have heard it is a must read. I would also recommend RSDTyler on youtube. He has quite a few good videos and many relating to inner game(one of your biggest areas of improvement from the sounds of it) which i think are very helpful. His videos are long, but its usually worth watching them the whole way through. Remember that this is YOUR life. Focus on making it awesome for you. Don't fall int…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 07:41 PM
1

Do you want something more than friendship from her? You can't buy a woman's affection. You are sinking emotion and support into her and are waiting or for the returns you think you are owed. You aren't owed anything and if she thinks you think you are, you aren't getting any. Think of your behaviors and the time you have put into her practicing these behaviors. The more you have done them, the more she responds in a way you find unfavorable. Every time she hasn't suddenly realized how you were …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:15 PM
1

Walk me through how you define a 'Jerk' and specifically what things you find you objectionable and I'll try to explain.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 10:44 AM
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I think your post touches on what another post here mentioned recently, the rite of passage ritual. We don't have them anymore for men. We don't have things that test us and transform ourselves into 'men' the same way we used to. We are naturals at overcoming challenges and rites of passage allow us to see how good we really are at survival and overcoming the obstacles in our path. I don't think solo travel is necessary for this, but is one way to test our mettle. You are absolutely right though…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 07:12 AM
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If you are only looking for a friendship, there's nothing wrong with it. It's important to understand though that women are always trying to fit you perfectly in their puzzle. The things red pill teaches us is what behaviors fit us where in their designs. It also teaches us that if we wish to have healthy relationships with women, for them and for us, we should never let them figure out exactly how we fit.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 08:46 PM
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If you are a friend with a woman, you have generally been defined by them. They understand you, you are figured out(as far as they are concerned). They know how the ends of your puzzle piece fit into their own giant puzzle and feel secure about how it fits. Their security in this understanding of you is a form of perceived control for them. You don't have to be manipulated through games and looks. They aren't trying to jam your puzzle piece in every different part of their puzzle trying to figur…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 07:43 PM
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If you are a friend, they don't have to worry about losing you. You are a controlled part of their life. A constant. They are not working for your affection, they have it already. Of course there is a push and pull to any healthy friendship but generally women aren't in fear of losing you to another friend. Women are constantly worried about losing a man they feel romantically about. This makes them feel out of control. As a friend you are perceived as a given, a constant, and therefore controll…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 06:51 PM
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Don't be an idiot. I was super late to the game in high school. I was very clueless to the signs girls were interested. Learn what signals girls use to let you know they want you. Don't get hung up on one girl. Don't get discouraged easily. That applies to anything you do. Social circles really aren't as impenetrable as people like to think. I floated between the preps, jocks, nerds, and emos. I had friends in all of these circles. Make friends in your classes no matter what circle they belong t…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 05:42 PM
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Listen, no where in this post do I say you should not give women these things. It's important to be social, to be empathetic, to have a capacity for kindness, to be charitable. Every man needs these qualities to be successful in different aspects of life. I specifically mention friend zoning being a product of giving these things unconditionally. Never give unconditionally. There is a difference between a woman seeking emotional support and actively offering hers in return and a woman who seeks …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 08:10 AM
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This isn't a post dishing on women friends. It's more to help guys understand behaviors that get them stuck as a friend instead of what they want to be.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 07:26 AM
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Having women as friends can be good. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Women can be great friends who have things to offer in a friendship that even your guy friends can't. The friend zone is a place, just as you said, you don't want to be if you want something more than a friendship. It's not inherently and evil thing, it just feels like hell when you are there and don't want to be and can't figure out why you were put there to begin with. I would also caution taking relationship advic…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:41 AM
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The power of a good looking woman is sometimes too much, even for the best of us. Sad thing is, this guy may have been a balanced dude at first, but he's likely been beaten into submission with all her gender studies bs. He probably sees himself as a hedonistic, mysoginistic ass hole now which will screw him up for a long freaking time.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 01:16 AM
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As blue pill prof said, having female friends can help a lot with meeting new women if they like to play matchmaker or include you in their nights out with friends.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 11:25 PM
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This just in: Hamersterton Institute confirmed to also find safe spaces ideal settings for an academic setting. Safe spaces increase study effectiveness by a whopping 200% according to their recent studies.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:51 PM
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honestly, Even the truest alpha would probably have problems holding frame while keeping a LTR with a kardshian. Not worth it imho.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:47 PM
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Go over what you know from red pill about women's pairing drives. Money, power, security, looks, sex. She was with you because of some of these, and left because she obtained more of some of those for herself, or thought you didn't have enough for her anymore. She may have seen you as suitable for short term, but she shifted to long term desire and didn't find you suitable for that. Be happy she didn't take half of your stuff with her ;)
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:59 AM
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As someone who has played lots of video games in his life and who has recently begun to phase them out, ill say this: Video games fulfilled my competitive drives. With these fulfilled i had no reason to be competitive in reality. I think the same holds true to some extent for porn too. As men, one of our most potent tools we have is our competitive nature. We need to embrace it and nurture it to be our best selves. Getting stronger, more fit, or any physical activity is good for improvement sure…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:30 AM
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How was you kino? Physical contact? It sounds like maybe you didn't escalate enough on that front. It also sounds like you didn't get her invested in the conversation. This is coming from someone still improving himself on these fronts too, but here is my assessment. It sounds like you didn't come at this date from the frame that YOU are the prize. By being the one doing all the talking, you lost control. Being dominant in the conversation does not mean you do all the talking, it means you contr…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:02 AM
2

In a world where the alphas are dying off, and the betas huddle scared in dark corners across the earth, you are the only one left. You are the last savior of poon everywhere. Be the man these wet women need. This is your mission should you be willing to accept it.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 08:46 AM
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Maybe you suffer from being too similar to what their type already is? I could see the crazy logic behind 9s and 10s being more entertained/interested in what the hell a 6 or 7 is doing talking to them that they at least give them a shot to make a case for themselves?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 08:42 AM
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Our sexual instinct, to pursue and take, can be shaken or falter when we encounter women of a certain level of attraction. I think this is equally true for women. Their default sexual instinct is to sift and sort so as to properly choose the right sexual partner. When encountering a man of a certain level of attractiveness, this sexual instinct falters in them too.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 05:30 AM
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If only women acted more like trump and grabbed men by the dong when they want some. Confusion would be no issue.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:48 AM
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Yes. It's fascinating seeing democrats actually believe this hitler, racist, sexist, homophobic, villain they created for the election. Obama was a hard pill for republicans to swallow while he was in office. But seeing how hard it is for democrats to suck up losing is just comical. Its really quite fascinating to see them say we should be held accountable for casting our vote for a racist villian, yet they shouldn't be held accountable for voting for a woman who corrupted the office of secretar…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 05:58 PM
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