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if the guy didnt go to jail then it was amicable
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 09:16 PM
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In addition to the lung problem, I also have degenerative joint disease in both knees. However, 9 months of sitting around unable to do anything seems to have let them heal some. I can walk easily without pain now, and I can be active most of the day and not be laid up for two days after. Its sad, the things she wished she could do with me, like hikes, walks, and adventures, are things I do now because my knees arent constantly hurting me. She is so shortsighted she leaves when things are just a…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 06:32 PM
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Thankfully, she didnt take anything and didnt ask for any support or alimony. I made out ok with this one, especially compared to the first one. Never again. Not for any reason. The only reason we made it legal was so she could get health coverage from the VA. She used that to get her tubes tied, and a few other things, and then went on a carousel ride with losers.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 06:29 PM
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Thanks, but I am done with marriage. I do not hate women, but I know better than to trust them. I dont trust males without reason, and females are no different. I missed my chance at a woman such as yourself. It was 23 years ago, we met in Germany, and the marriage was prevented by a handful of people that had a problem with a white guy marrying an Arab woman, on both sides but mainly on mine. She is married now, has two teenage kids, has a dead bedroom, no love in the relationship at all, but s…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 06:26 PM
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Automotive paint, isocyanate. My lungs functioned ok according to the DR, but it felt like someone was sitting on my chest, or I had something constricting me. My life had been very active until that point, so I didnt know how to change things without a crazy amount of exercise. I did it anyway. Never going back to how I was, no matter what happens.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 06:20 PM
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Born again and again, but way harder this time.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 06:17 PM
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I think you are the first person to actually hope she comes back safe. Yeah, you are the only one. other than myself of course.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 02:00 AM
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My kids are teenagers, the oldest is 19 now, her and I have reconnected. The younger one, she is just like her mother so I cant stand to be round her. She thrives on drama and conflict, and I cant deal with it anymore. As for finding peace, I am staying pretty much to myself and working on my project cars. I cant trust women anymore, and the only one I ever could lives in Germany and cant come to me even if she isnt married. Sadly, I will be one of the guys who lives alone for the rest of my lif…
/r/MensRights02/07/13 08:11 PM
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Me too man. I am in my 40s, working on the second divorce because the one woman I could trust decided to go screw a 24 year old kid and then accuse me of battering her during our marriage. The whole community thinks I beat her, but we never even argued, and I never even yelled at her except for when she was with the kid one time two months ago. All she had to do was go in and complain and she got a restraining order, when she has never been in danger from me and never will be. She managed to go …
/r/MensRights02/07/13 02:18 PM
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Agreed. Didnt mean to insinuate it was only the women, because guess who is on base/post while the spouse is deployed.
/r/MensRights01/07/13 06:15 AM
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I have found that even a rational and calm woman can still lose her mind, act on emotion, throw logic and reason to the wind, and become everything the worst of them are.. and she did in one day. The change in her was like someone flipped a switch, and suddenly she was as immature as a 14 year old girl, not thinking of the future or what might/will happen if she does what she did. I dont think I can ever trust a woman again, not after the only one in my life who earned it threw it away so callou…
/r/MensRights30/06/13 05:45 PM
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I am one of those men. My first ex took my kids, claimed abuse, moved 1500 miles away, got more than 70% of my income, full custody, and prevented me from seeing my kids for ten years. Right now I have a soon to be ex and her mother spreading lies about me that I abused her, mistreated her, and controlled her and limited her freedom. Its all complete bullshit, and she knows it, but all she had to do was say it and she is believed. She was able to get a restraining order easily, despite there bei…
/r/MensRights29/06/13 08:57 PM
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My first wife did this to me too, damn near to the letter, along with physical abuse of me and the kids. The second wife didnt do it like this, but she used some of the techniques like gaslighting and shifting the blame to justify to herself when she decided to go fuck someone else that talked sweet to her. Now I am really wary, will probably never let anyone live with me again, and I think I will stay alone now. Its damn hard for me to trust anyone. I thought the second one was completely diffe…
/r/MensRights12/06/13 09:38 PM
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So then my wife has been raping me for almost ten years, because she ran off to be with a kid that lives with his dad. So she is cheating, she is raping me. Makes perfect sense.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 03:26 PM
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No shit, a lack of respect for herself and for me is why my soon to be ex fucked up our marriage last month. My first wife didnt respect herself or me either, she did the same fucking thing. I want to find a woman who respects herself enough not to fuck around on the guy who is there for her. I just dont think they exist in single form, they are always taken.
/r/MensRights02/06/13 03:44 PM
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Mine is throwing away a loving supporting guy who only asked that she be honest and always come home to me, for a guy who only wanted a booty call. I am completely out of the picture, and he dumped her. She blames me for it, but he apparently got what he wanted from her, some pussy. She is too naive to see it, and well she can just be alone now. I will not be having another relationship, but I will have female friends with benefits.
/r/MensRights02/06/13 03:25 AM
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That is exactly what both my wives did. WHAAAAAAAA POOR ME! And everyone runs to help them and fuck me over, when I am doing the right thing and they are doing all the wrong things. Then they get rewarded for it. Fuck em.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 04:47 AM
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same here, dont need validation from having lots of people I know. I know a shit load of people and most of them I dont like.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 04:58 PM
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You know, I did that for years. Every one of my ex's cheated on me and left. They all did far worse after me too, the guy they cheated with usually go them knocked up and left, but some just wanted a piece of ass and used them for it. Leaving them alone and me wondering what happened. Well to say I dont trust women is only half the story. I dont trust guys either, they like to move in on women when they are vulnerable, use them and dump them. I mean who really wants to be with someone when they …
/r/MensRights31/05/13 03:43 PM
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Maybe he isnt. It could be he was no longer sticking his dick in it, but she really wanted the rape charge so she seduced him in an effort to make herself look like a victim. Women are good at wanting to be a victim.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 01:31 PM
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There might be a better way than lying to everyone, cheating, and getting restraining orders on fabricated shit too, but it seems some women cant do anything without some sort of deception and drama. Maye they dont really want out of the relationship because their spouse pays for everything, they just want to do whatever they like and feel there are no consequences. When consequences for fucked up actions arise, then they get pissy and start trying to cover up the horrible shit they have done, a…
/r/MensRights31/05/13 01:30 PM
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Its not pride, its more fixing it rather than numbing it. Also the side effects dont work well with me, everything I have tried made shit worse in some way. I do it the hard way, not out of pride, but because I can and it works. Its just harder to deal with it for a little while, then its easy.
/r/MensRights30/05/13 12:28 AM
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Agreed, my wife has that and the meds really help her. Its why I dont want to take the health care from her despite her being somewhat lacking in judgement of late. The meds for what I have tend to make me a zombie or have side effects I just cant deal with. So I do it the hard way, without the crutch, and after the latest bit of stress and life sucking ass, I am doing quite well. So I have fixed lots of it.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 11:16 PM
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Domestic abuse is a mens issue, millions of men are abused by thier wives and partners. I was one of them, and could do nothing to stop it because she held all the cards. If I left, she got everything. If I fought back I went to jail. If I tried to get her arrested I would be arrested. If I just defended myself I would be arrested. All I could do was take it, from a woman who was 100lbs lighter than me.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 07:58 PM
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I have an appointment with them every week in June, and one tomorrow for exactly this. I dont do pills, to me that is putting a bandaid on an oil leak in my car, or just adding more oil. I would rather fix the leak, and you cant do that with meds.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 07:42 PM
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Thanks, I am trying.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 06:26 AM
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Never heard about it until now. Will look into it. Mostly what I have done is replace memories with new ones, rewire the synapses that took me to rage from small but specific things so I dont go crazy and kill something. I have flooded myself with things so I dont have as great an emotional marker on my memories, and that has really helped. I focused on the rage issue, but still have to deal with the depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 03:13 AM
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Wow, such insights. Just because I am white and male makes life easier for me, and pointing out that if everyone had the same sort of fucked up life, they would either be dead or incredibly strong is passing the buck. The fucked up thing is I didnt marry the wrong person the second time. The first time, yeah and for all the wrong reasons, but not the second one. What the problem would be with this one, is that she is young, naive, inexperienced and still makes stupid mistakes. She is the right p…
/r/MensRights28/05/13 09:40 PM
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I know there is a strength inside me, a resilience to adversity, and a profound desire to say fuck you I wont do what you tell me. Its the part of me that spit in my dads face one time when he was beating me, just to make him hit me harder. Its the part of me that has continued to struggle and work towards a better life, only to have it ripped away again and again by selfish people. The problem isnt with that part of me, its with my health, my body, the pain I feel constantly. Everything hurts, …
/r/MensRights28/05/13 09:31 PM
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Compelled by the desire to not let my kids suffer alone from the same shit I have since the 70s.I had nobody, and now I am the only person they have who understands and actually cares. If I am gone, then they will have a life like mine, I dont want to wish that on anyone.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 09:26 PM
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If it would stop hurting so much then it would be better. Right now there isnt much left to do but endure it. Im not going to end it, but it crosses my mind all the fucking time. More annoying than anything. Depression has been part of my life for over 30 years, so it feels like an old comfy blanket when I get it during something fucked up like this month. Thats why I try not to have months like this. Problem is, I didnt have a choice in the matter.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 09:22 PM
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I do it for me. I try again and again, work on improving myself, I rewired my mind three years ago to make my PTSD and other issues less of a problem for my wife. Hardest thing I ever did, just so I could be happy with her again. She is gone now, hopelessly in love with a 24 year old guy that very few people like because he is a know it all asshole that stalks women he works with, that lives with his parents. She fucked up the one good relationship I ever had for this loser of a kid that wont la…
/r/MensRights28/05/13 02:13 PM
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My ex is bi polar, living with her was hellish. I feel for you as well, nobody should have to endure a life like that. I should have ended it with her the first time she started a fight over nothing, or the first time she hit me. I endured 8 years with her and it made me crawl father inside myself to avoid her. I wouldnt leave because of my kids, I needed to protect them from her swings and rapid cycling that made her abuse them. I have always endured to help or protect others. Nobody does it fo…
/r/MensRights28/05/13 02:01 PM
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My eyes are open. You may have been born with some privilege but dont just assume I was because I am a white male. The military was my only way out, and I had to take it twice, its not much of a choice. Live in poverty or join the military where I can work on getting an education and be gainfully employed, until the state takes 72% of my pay and gives it to the ex. I have and never had privilege. What I had was a grim determination to get out of where I was, and from under the people holding me …
/r/MensRights28/05/13 01:57 PM
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And nobody will give a fuck.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 01:37 PM
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Im 100% disabled, 90% service connected, permanent and total. I didnt have much left on my degree, but I dont need it now. They wont let me work, even if I wanted to. I am somewhat dangerous to others in stressful environments so they try to keep me stress free as much as possible. Served in both the 90-91 war and OIF/OEF. Other people dont give a fuck, the ex stresses me constantly, the state she lives in keeps me stressed most of the time over child support and other bullshit. Now my wife and …
/r/MensRights28/05/13 01:36 PM
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I know, I was commenting on the link provided in the top comment from the asshole who thinks everyone else has it easier than he does. This asshole's article I have no issues with OP, but seeing those photos brings back memories and lots of hurt for me. That isnt why I posted that above, I read what the jackass said in his article and have heard from so many people that I had it easy because I am a white male. If I had it easy then everyone should be just as strong, experienced, and horribly fuc…
/r/MensRights28/05/13 01:10 PM
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It doesnt feel like we matter, it usually feels like people are simply using us to make themselves feel better, or to push some agenda. We are people, we feel, we have needs and wants like everyone else, but people just see us in a way I cant quite put into words, but its like a trump card to win an argument or an object used to make others feel guilty. Other than my father in law, and the VA (who has to help me by law) I dont have much else giving me a hand with things. A few friends to talk to…
/r/MensRights28/05/13 01:00 PM
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Ok, but just so you know, I dont think of the better gender or which sex is superior. To me its people, some people have it better than others, some have it far worse. Gender does play a role in mot places, but not always. The fact of the matter is we are all human, and those guys on the other side had families and people who cared about them just like I do. We are just as human as the women, but we are seen as disposable since we are males. Its a social construct and it does men no favors. I ha…
/r/MensRights28/05/13 12:56 PM
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Maybe you sit at home all day on the net, and havent served in the military or been to war, but that does not mean we havent. Nice sweeping statement about reddit users complaining about sweeping generalizations. I am a combat veteran. I have PTSD. I have all the horrors of my life locked in my head where they come back to me at random times and in horrific dreams. My life is a living nightmare, a hellish bundle of terror, pain, and broken relationships. I find little comfort in this world, and …
/r/MensRights28/05/13 11:56 AM
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I wish I could not feel, I wish I could not remember and just live a blissful happy life. I cant, so instead I often wish I were dead. People depend on me, so I cant be dead even if I want to be. I continue suffering so they can have a better life. Yes Catherine, I am enduring it so you too can have a better life. I do it because I care, and that means I feel, and it fucking hurts to live this life.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 11:46 AM
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Straight white male is the lowest difficulty? SERIOUSLY? This guy saying that shit to this disabled veteran who lives with chronic pain, PTSD, nightmares, anxiety, major chronic depression, and a body completely worn out from working physically demanding jobs for only 15 years, is not only insulting, its pathetically condescending and wholly ignorant. I have had a hard life, severe abuse, war, divorce that left me homeless while active duty military, and women just taking what they want and usin…
/r/MensRights28/05/13 11:41 AM
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Well that is eye opening! DARVO is what my ex and my current wife both do. Turn everything around and try to make me look like the one doing the bad shit. Both of them cheated and tried to blame me for what they did. The ex was abusive and still claims I abused her, she actually believes it. Cant wait until the woman I am married to now starts accusing me of being abusive. She has already claimed I am controlling, just because I wanted my wife to live with me and not shack up with some kid in hi…
/r/MensRights26/05/13 02:30 PM
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Its not giving up, its choosing to not allow myself to become this enmeshed with someone else, because invariably they use it to harm me.
/r/MensRights25/05/13 06:05 PM
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Not faulting them for not being attracted to me, sorry if it came out that way. Its a different way of looking at it. You have a pool of women or men, each with their own unique personality and traits. Of them some will be attractive and some wont, some will be attracted to you and some wont. Then you have those who fit ok, fit good, and fit great, and each time you move forward in those, the pool gets smaller and smaller. So it becomes a numbers game. You go out, ask everyone, kiss lots of trol…
/r/MensRights25/05/13 04:32 PM
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I'm lucky enough to have found a beautiful girl who's also fiercely independent and intelligent, who loves me as much as I love her. I hope you can find the same. That is exactly what I just had and why it sucks so much to lose her to an asshole kid that cant provide shit for her. I wont change who I am, but I will improve upon myself. I can find women easy enough, but finding the non crazy ones is tougher. At least I have my PTSD and anxiety under control (for the most part) and I am not nearly…
/r/MensRights25/05/13 04:13 PM
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Yeah it might, but I know there are great women out there. Its just those great women dont want me, yet they bitch because they want a guy who will treat them the way I do, but they want it in a better looking package.
/r/MensRights24/05/13 09:01 PM
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No worries, I will be out chasing tail. I just wont get attached to them. I do not have self esteem issues, what I have is an objective self image and I know my strengths and shortcomings. You cant be a 5'8" guy with a 52" chest, 21" neck, and 22" arms and think you are going to get the best of the best. I look like a fucking brick and women dig skinny guys. This asshole my wife is fucking is 150lbs soaking wet. I could kill him with one hand. I just know my limitations, and she was way over my …
/r/MensRights24/05/13 09:00 PM
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She deferred to me all the time, let me decide on everything. I know why that is, but when it comes to a new cock she wants, nothing I do or say will change her mind. Its ok, she will find out the hard way about this loser. 150lbs of moist dishrag is all he is. She wont take that for long, then she will find herself alone again, and wondering what the fuck she was thinking and doing to make me move so far away.
/r/MensRights24/05/13 08:56 PM
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I did find a good one, and I was happy. That is why I dont think there are good ones anymore. They all go bad.
/r/MensRights24/05/13 08:51 PM
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There are no more directions in which to ride. Already been there, repeatedly. I suppose I could go for a huge or incredibly unattractive woman that has such low self esteem that she would be grateful to have a man in her life. The idea of having someone who is that desperate and beholden to me would be abhorrent to me. I want an equal partner, someone smart enough to talk to so she can understand and converse about multiple subjects. She needs to be intelligent because it causes problems with t…
/r/MensRights23/05/13 03:19 PM
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You again. 30+ countries, 40+ states, 4 continents, over 30 years. Had two go over 2 years, but most were less than 6 months. Each and every one of them lying, cheating, then leaving. They have been all types, nationalities, races, religions, classes, sizes and shapes. After three abusive ones I changed everything, again. How many people does someone meet in their lifetime? I have meet about 5,000, dated around 160 now, and have seen countless other women do exactly the same thing to other guys.…
/r/MensRights23/05/13 03:11 PM
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Agreed, the entire post perpetuates the fragile little victim, and women dont have to be that way, and some I have been with certainly have not. I am still friends with quite a few of my ex girlfriends, even if they cheated, lied, or just outright left because they wanted a different dick. Some I am not friends with, and I would rather not deal with my ex, because of her mental issues and how it affects me. I will probably remain friends with my current wife after this is all over, even if I dec…
/r/MensRights22/05/13 05:10 PM
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Women are not victims just because they are women. Every man is not an abuser just because he is a man. Some women are the abuser, and some do the hurting.
/r/MensRights22/05/13 02:38 PM
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Im trying. Its damn hard with the shit going on right now.
/r/MensRights21/05/13 07:55 PM
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I supported my wife through college, firefighter training, three jobs she hated, and only wanted her in my life. Now she is off fucking a 24 year old guy who lives in his parents basement. Its tearing me apart, but you know what? FUCK THAT BITCH. I took her back the first time she did something like this, now she is just using me to pay for her cell phone and provide her a car so she can go fuck this loser kid. I just dropped the insurance on the cars, only my summer driver is legal now. So no c…
/r/MensRights20/05/13 03:08 AM
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This 40 year old male is fighting both of those right now. Why cant I just stop breathing?
/r/MensRights20/05/13 02:54 AM
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Thanks man. I am working on that, but its just so fucking hard being alone and unwanted with my past. I am living for me now, and I will be damned if I let any woman ever get this close to me again. I dont hate them, not in the least. I can be friends with them, fuck them, but never again will I live with one, and never again will I tell one I love her. This one wasnt a bad one, far from it. She is naive, grew up sheltered and has never been hurt, cheated on, dumped, or anything she is doing to …
/r/MensRights19/05/13 03:03 PM
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The oldest and I are rebuilding, but losing all that time sucked. The youngest is damn near a lost cause, she is just like her mother. She is on boy number 17 this week, and she is only 16. Just the tip of the iceberg really, she has been caught doing all sorts of stupid things from shoplifting to having a friend tattoo her.
/r/MensRights18/05/13 03:59 PM
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Sorry if my post came off as I had it worse, not my intent. Its more about changing the laws of states and opinions of people, judges, and state workers so more fathers dont end up like OP and me.
/r/MensRights18/05/13 03:46 PM
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Sorry man, Im sorry you have joined the ranks us us who have been fucked by the state laws and bullshit system. I would have been grateful for 25% of the time, in 7 years I got 12 days. It took another 5 years for me to reconnect with my oldest, who is now 19. I had no choices, no options, and no opportunity. She took my kids and moved 1500 miles away with them, without telling me. The state rewarded her with over $75 of my income, when the law stipulates no more than 68%, and they cannot put so…
/r/MensRights18/05/13 02:35 PM
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Until yesterday, I was concerned I would be homeless if I have to move. Then I remembered there is a piece of land for less than $30k a mile from here. I could build a shop with a living space, and build it how I want it. Have part of it heated, part of it for storage. I could live there and not have far to move my tools, cars, and parts. Plus I would still be in the part of the country I actually like living in. The best part is she doesnt have to know I even live there, except for the fire dep…
/r/MensRights17/05/13 08:09 PM
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I dont think I want to bother with women if this one leaves. I have had enough female bullshit, entitlement, dishonesty, lying and cheating. I wont mind having them as friends, but thats it. Monday could very well be the last time I got laid. the VA shoots me up with some every month, it has made a difference, but still I need to get busy at least three times a week. Less than that and I start getting irritable, and it gets worse from there. 6 months and I start having homicidal thoughts. Its ki…
/r/MensRights17/05/13 08:02 PM
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The state she lives in wont give me a PPO, I live 850 miles away, they just laugh and laugh. She cant possibly be abusive, but I am if I ask them to do something about her. It would be nice to enjoy my life for a while, instead of having to deal with assholes trying to fuck me over. If this kid the wife is talking to doesnt stop his bullshit, he will find himself finding a new job since they are both firefighters. Kid already got fired from one job, so it wouldnt look good on a resume.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 04:14 PM
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I knew about that US Code when they took my money the first time, but the judges wouldnt allow me to sue the state over it. They just said tough shit, you are a deadbeat dad so you deserve to be punished for it. The state of Nebraska does not see a difference between a deadbeat dad who wont pay, and a disabled dad who cant pay. They dont care as long as they get the money. That is why my military pay was $1740 a month, and the state ordered me to pay $1000 of it to her. The only way I was able t…
/r/MensRights17/05/13 03:54 PM
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The VA wont pay for it, because I am not bad enough to do that. They only give me two or three days if I start seriously thinking about offing myself. Sometimes I just need some support from strangers, a sounding board to keep my head in the right place. That is what you guys are doing for me. If I go in a hospital the wife will be fucking that kid she likes and will move me out of the house. I have to struggle through it and do it the hard way.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 03:44 PM
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I tried to help her, I know I am the best chance she has at learning to be a productive member of society instead of a carbon copy of her leech mother. She lived with me for a year, she made it a living hell for me and my wife, nearly drove us apart then, and its affecting what she is doing now. Because my ex wants her to come back to us, so we can fix her screw up. I was an NCO in the AF, I know how to motivate and manage people, get them to do the right thing without beating them if you will. …
/r/MensRights17/05/13 03:42 PM
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They have taken it twice, and they changed the law in 2010 so they could take it for child support. Let me tell you, it hardcore sucks to have your bank account emptied when you have no other source of income, the day you get paid so all your automatic payments bounce. Both times I had arrears but I was paying them, and of course the payment bounced too, and they charged me extra for that and shut off my access to the website. Its hard not to end up in arrears when you have zero income for over …
/r/MensRights17/05/13 03:29 AM
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Oh and despite being a disabled vet who can barely walk, I build muscle cars to keep myself busy. The GTO is going out for a drive this week. Driving one of my Pontiacs always makes me feel better.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:59 AM
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I did the random chick thing. I need pussy more often than one night stands, and the number of women I have slept with is stupefying for a very hairy, thick but short guy who is mediocre looking. It takes so damn much effort to get laid, and with my ludicrously high drive I get into really bad mental states when I am unwanted and rejected for too long. Jerkin it doesnt provide a fix, it makes it worse. We think its due to my low T levels, so it makes for a living hell without a steady woman arou…
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:56 AM
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Thanks. I tried to keep it short too.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:52 AM
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I thought the same thing when my abusive ex left. What was it that made me find all these women who wanted to use me, beat on me, then go fuck all my friends? I started looking at myself, and traits the women had, and realized I was 'comfortable' with the abusive crazy bitches. So I changed what I was looking for entirely. Seriously, my wife now is nothing like my ex. Polar opposites actually. The reason she keeps wandering on me is two fold. Im not making excuses for her, I just have realized w…
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:52 AM
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Aim High, you too jarhead.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:38 AM
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The way I am leaning is just walking away. Being a beach bum for a while, and living as frugally as possible. Maybe even do some panhandling, using the crippled veteran status I have. Just go off, find myself, and get right with the world again. This coming week I think I will drive the only thing of value I managed to keep from the ex, my 1970 GTO. She didnt want it because it wasnt shiny, so I got to keep it. Its shiny now, and it really needs to do a big smoky burnout. I have been thinking of…
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:36 AM
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In the USAF, AMC, if you are E4, you live off base. If you are married you can live in base housing. If you are separated from your spouse, you cant live on base at all because they pay you BAH. Well the courts decided my BAH would go to the ex instead of me, along with 68% of my gross pay. That means taxable and non taxable, so after taxes, no BAH, I had about $300 a month, and $200 of that went to pay for my storage unit. Cant live on base, cant afford to eat or put gas in the car, so I lived …
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:22 AM
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One kid is here, and its been great being with her. The other one, who is 16 and has been fucking boys left and right and getting drunk since she moved back to her mothers a year ago wants to come back. Fuck that. She is nothing but drama stress and expecting me to hand her everything without her earning any of it. Her mother can deal with the shit she created.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:18 AM
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Tip of the iceberg... They still do it today. They visited me at one base while I was in the military, and have been to three of my brothers bases multiple times. Next week will be the second time they have been to Ft Rucker. They have come to where I live once, 7 years ago, stayed for two days at a resort nearby, and left. My sister deals with the same shit from them. She lives 1.5 hours away from them, they have been to her house once, and it took them 8 years to get there. My other sister liv…
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:17 AM
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I actually considered that. Just leave everything here, my tools, household stuff, and take one car and just go travel in it. Maybe be a beach bum for a few months, and vanish for a while. Its been a while since I went walkabout, might do that after my kid goes back to college. Until then, I will hang out with her and play Portal 2 and whatever else.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:14 AM
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I read all the time, and despite my physical limitations and chronic pain, I work on old cars. The cars were my family until I met my current in laws. Got them all dirt cheap decades ago and have been slowing going through them and rebuilding them. Keeps me busy, lets me have a sense of accomplishment, and if I ever sell one a financial windfall. Driving a 500hp GTO or a 700hp Formula Firebird really makes me feel better. The GTO is coming out of winter hibernation tomorrow, its going to be a fu…
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:12 AM
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I do, thanks. Had a good day today.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:09 AM
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I dont hate women, not at all. I dont even hate my ex, maybe a bit of loathing, but not hate. Now when it comes to trust, that is something that has to be earned with me, no matter the gender. It isnt given freely to anyone. Now my brother, I suppose you could say I hate him. When someone makes your entire life a living hell, because of all the fucked up shit that causes you to see the world like I do, then they warrant the hatred. I dont hate too many people, but it doesnt mean I come close to …
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:09 AM
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I wont, its the one thing I know I cant do because of my kid. The thoughts have been there for most of my life, and I am sick of dealing with them too, so I am working on getting rid of them. She is making it kinda hard, but I am making progress in that area. Thanks.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:02 AM
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Thanks. I talked to my mother in law last night, they are supporting me in this and think the wife is being fucking stupid. It really helped me, because I know I wont be homeless if the wife takes off with some other guy. They own the place where I live, like I said they have done more for me than anyone in my life ever has before. I love them more than anything too. Nobody has even come close to doing a fourth as much as they have for me. I wet through the BS rape and DV charges too, the former…
/r/MensRights17/05/13 01:01 AM
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I couldnt live on base when I got over E4, married or not, when I was active duty. I got fucked up on my last deployment in 04, so now I am 100% permanent and totally disabled. Walking causes lots of pain, as does standing, so it limits me but the VA and Social Security pay me. Its livable, but the ex gets half the SSDI, and the VA comp is just barely enough to keep a roof over my head. They dont give us a whole lot to live on. I have known some women who were awesome, I certainly dont hate wome…
/r/MensRights17/05/13 12:52 AM
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Nah, tried it and cant stand the way the meds numb my mind. Pain is preferable to being a zombie, and most of the side effects are worse than emotional pain. celexa is an interesting one. I am contra indicated for it. Usually it kills sex drive, but it ramps mine up and makes it impossible to finish. My pain goes nuts on prozac, welbutrin makes me not give two fucks about shit, so I dont eat, and just stare at walls. They put me on all sorts of stuff, and everything made something else worse. I …
/r/MensRights17/05/13 12:43 AM
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The mobility is already gone. I am a crippled vet, got fucked up in 04 on my last deployment, walking is painful and running will never happen again. With all the other stuff wrong with me from my life, and the military experience, I will be surprised if I make it to 65. What I do with my time. I used to be a master technician, so I rebuild old muscle cars, mostly GTOs and Firebirds. I have worked around my physical limitations somewhat, but I am damn slow about it. It keeps me busy and lets me …
/r/MensRights17/05/13 12:38 AM
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The youngest lives with her mother, and they are wanting to send her back to me because of the way she is now. Her mother raised her poorly, no guidance, crappy supervision, and it has turned her into a younger version of her mother. Its yet another part of my life that sucks, having to fix the bad parenting of the ex, while still being forced to pay her support despite the kid living with me. They didnt make her pay any, and I still had to send her mother half my disability when she lived here …
/r/MensRights16/05/13 04:53 AM
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Everyone here just drinks. The VA shrink is full until next month, and she doesnt help much anyway.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 11:00 PM
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I'll volunteer to be culled.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 10:04 PM
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Happened to me, no less than 4 times. Wasnt abuse, rape or actual touching. It was harassment accusations, one of which was saying "You look nice today" in a matter of fact way. Another was a female coworker and I were friends, had a give each other shit sort of way, and someone didnt like it. The rest were just me speaking to women who didnt think I looked good enough to speak to them. I stopped talking to military women unless it was work related, and would ignore any conversation that wasnt d…
/r/MensRights13/05/13 04:10 PM
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Damn, yes I did forget that. At this point anyone mentioning patriarchy should automatically be assumed to be using sarcasm... even the feminists pushing that bullshit idea.
/r/MensRights06/05/13 06:31 PM
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She doesnt get my VA comp, but she gets almost $1500 a month from SS thanks to me. She was already remarried when I got hurt. They give her half of my SSDI. Yes, its a wonderful thing.... :) Its for child support, even when the kids lived with me, she still got it. You know why? Patriarchy.
/r/MensRights06/05/13 03:03 AM
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Yep, she gets half of mine along with her own despite not being married to me when I got fucked up in the sandbox.
/r/MensRights06/05/13 02:51 AM
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My ex didnt pay ANY into SS, yet she gets more from them than I do, and I am a disabled veteran.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 04:55 PM
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No politician, other than the bible thumping type, wants to look like they are rape supporters/enablers that hate women. The bible thumpers just want women in the kitchen, doing womens work. Yeah I can dislike and feel insulted by both mindsets, the harpys that complain about shit and want everything handed to them because they feel entitled to it, and the people who follow a really fucked up book that hates women.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 04:33 PM
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You left out one part of it though, how if you are a great guy but arent wealthy, relatively short, and average looking then you are creepy and sexually harassing her by speaking to her, even to say hello, or clearing your throat in an elevator. Its platinum pussy complex.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 04:29 PM
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Yeah because women are weak, incapable, and helpless in the eyes of the states. If they werent, then these laws would not exist. Mind you I dont think women are helpless weak and incapable, quite the contrary. I know how physically violent and abusive a 140lb woman can be. I know all too well, and so do my kids that the state worked real hard to keep with her, even when she tried to kill herself.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 04:15 PM
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Get someone to disappear in Nebraska, go off the grid and move out of state and see what they do. They will just do it if they want to, they dont give two fucks about Federal law as long as they can get away with it, so why would they care if they dont have laws for going after someone when they surface years later? How do I know they dont give a shit about Federal laws and US Codes? Because they violated one regarding me, and there is nothing I can do about it.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 04:13 PM
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The only thing that seems plausible to me as to why the state laws are how they are is: Because women are helpless, weak, and incapable of supporting themselves, so the only right thing to do is make the man live in abject poverty because he is to blame for her leaving. It is obviously something he did that made her leave or be slightly angry, women are never violent nor abusive in that state. Never.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 01:03 AM
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Depends on the state. If it were Nebraska you can bet your ass there would be arrears if it was the father taking off. Probably not with the mother though.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 12:45 AM
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If I had gotten my kids I would have done the same thing, not forced my ex's worthless ass to pay me, because it would have never showed up. The sad thing is she wanted the gravy train, and the state rewarded her with exactly that. Well the gravy train is coming to a screeching halt this year. She had a good job before she took off, its not like she was my ex who is little more than a spongy pox on humanity. She could have supported the kids, but instead chose to cut and run, but she gets a pass…
/r/MensRights05/05/13 12:43 AM
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Tip of the iceberg. Thankfully, the ex and I are getting along well now, because she is medicated for her bi polar. It only took 13 years of her doing everything she possibly could to harm me.
/r/MensRights04/05/13 07:22 PM
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I really shouldnt be laughing at this, but I am.
/r/MensRights03/05/13 12:44 PM
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Admittedly, the thought does cross your mind when you are put in the situation of living on nothing and working to support someone abusive who cheated on you and neglects the kids when she isnt beating on them. You have to stop and think though, who is prime suspect #1 if something happens to her? Even if something happens to her and you had nothing to do with it, they will still come after you.
/r/MensRights03/05/13 12:16 PM
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No the ex has no idea reddit exits, she pawned the computer I sent to the kids and now that she finally got one for herself she is only on facebook. She isnt into computers much. Apparently someone thinks I am making shit up, it upsets them, or somehow it dosnt apply to the conversation.
/r/MensRights03/05/13 11:53 AM
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The thing is, the state usually wont go after mothers who owe arrears, or simply wont require them to pay. If it were a man, then the support would be from the time he left and everyone would agree to it. He would now be tens of thousands in debt to the state and to her, since its a female, there is no debt and the state doesnt care to make her pay.
/r/MensRights02/05/13 09:26 PM
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When my ex left I was ordered to pay support, which amount to most of my income leaving me with $100 a month, and our divorce wasnt final for 4 years. I paid support the entire time. Then when my kid moved in with me, she was still being paid child support by me, and was not required to pay me anything. It is not about best interest of the child, it is about punishing fathers while rewarding mothers.
/r/MensRights02/05/13 07:42 PM
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Sometimes I think I should have gone Marine, they would have appreciated my muscle mass and physical capabilities. The AF just wanted me to be skinny, thin, and unable to bench my own weight. I didnt fit the AF standards from the day I went in, until the day I was done. They wanted me smaller than I was as a wrestler in high school, it just wasnt happening. My kid would do well there, but without a diploma she is not going. Also if she gets in trouble, gets arrested, knocked up, whatever, she is…
/r/MensRights02/05/13 06:39 PM
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The military owns you and we have ways of making you do what we want you to do, getting a kid to straighten up when there is no obvious incentive for them is a bit harder. She thinks she can go through life like her mom, just getting people to give her stuff. She will probably end up with me again, and she will hate almost the entire time she is here because I wont accept any bullshit this time. She is 16 and its time to get her shit together.
/r/MensRights02/05/13 02:55 AM
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Military guys are dogs, no doubt about it. Some embrace it and just go with it, others end up divorced. Lots of swapping and cheating going on at every base/post. Ask some old Navy guys about a box of Tide laundry detergent in the window some time, or an Air Force guy about "key parties." A key party in Dover was busted a few years back. The problem with my ex is she is bi polar, wasnt medicated back then, and has a plethora of other issues like childhood sexual abuse and her dad taking off when…
/r/MensRights01/05/13 06:39 PM
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I got married to her between my enlistments, got forced out with the big drawdown in 92. Went back later because they were hurting for people and I never wanted to get out back then. She was with me for a year, and then she started fucking this E4 and his wife who lived two blocks away in housing. She other twat claimed I was abusive because I wouldnt allow my ex access to the money, she said I should be giving it all to her because women are entitled to it. Talked my ex into leaving when they P…
/r/MensRights01/05/13 06:20 PM
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My oldest is in college, she was fed up with her mom when she was a freshman in high school, but wanted to go to school there. The youngest has huge issues due to how her mother neglected her and taught her shitty behaviors, she acts just like her mother. Entitled, demanding, loves drama and arguing, and very materialistic. Her mother cant handle her so she wants me to take her and fix the fuck up she has created. Once again I am left fixing the shitty job of others. My wife is child free, doesn…
/r/MensRights01/05/13 06:01 PM
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My base pay was $1740 per month, the state hit me with $1000 a month support for two kids, and started me 6 months in arrears. I lived for two years on less than $100 a month while on active duty. I lived in my car and on friend's couches for the time I wasnt in Korea. Right now, she has one kid living with her and she is getting nearly $1500 per month due to me being a disabled veteran. My kids tell me they are out of food within two weeks, and completely broke with none of the bills paid, and …
/r/MensRights01/05/13 05:35 AM
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My ex was kind of like your dad, except she is bi polar and horrible with money. She can blow $6k in a week and have nothing to show for it, she does it almost every month with her new guy, so it makes me wonder what will happen when the child support runs out. Anyway, if she had access to the money, we would be broke and overdrawn in hours. The job I had when I was with her paid me weekly, and once she was on the account, we were overdrawn by Tuesday, the bills wouldnt be paid. Friday I would g…
/r/MensRights30/04/13 09:37 PM
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Its still like that is small rural communities, especially where winter weather isolates people and power outages happen often. Its not US and them, its We around here. Its why I like it here.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 09:27 PM
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Are you honestly trying to turn it into a sweeping generalization so its is more easily knocked over? I would be inclined to agree that women in the US have learned this behavior, not all mind you, but more than half have. Where do I get my info? Having dated around 150 women, (not sleeping with them, just getting to know them) I met two that were what I call unique. The rest were varying degrees between my violent abusive ex, and the girlfriend who would cheat on me with anyone. Its not scienti…
/r/MensRights29/04/13 05:24 PM
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Exactly the point I was making. :) Have a little orange to brighten your day.
/r/MensRights28/04/13 01:46 AM
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It could be the other one too, but I do think you are correct and that is the word he was looking for.
/r/MensRights27/04/13 05:26 PM
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Indeed, that is why I like the merit based system. If you can do the job, you are doing it. If you cant, we put you where you can do the job, or just put you out so you can not get in the way. Doesnt matter what gender someone is, the only thing that matters is their capability, and of course work ethic.
/r/MensRights23/04/13 08:40 PM
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Here is a near textbook example of psychological projection. a defence mechanism in which a person unconsciously rejects his or her own unacceptable attributes by ascribing them to objects or persons in the outside world instead. Thus, projection involves projecting positive or negative qualities onto others, and is a common psychological process. She accuses men of doing exactly what she is doing herself. I learned about this little thing with my ex, who was cheating and accusing me of sleeping…
/r/MensRights23/04/13 08:37 PM
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The fighter plane thing does work, some women can withstand more G forces than males can. Subs not so much, because of the issue with the mechanical restrictions, same with tanks. They are so massive that the size of the crew space isnt such a huge deal. As for our current enemy not wanting to shoot girls, they have absolutely no issues with harming women who are doing things men are supposedly supposed to do, like read. It pisses me off that some people use the way those assholes act and treat …
/r/MensRights23/04/13 06:43 PM
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Far to often that is the case, they are ignorant of history, facts, and world events. Its about time women are allowed to serve in combat units, the Navy has allowed it for some time now. If they can do the job, they should fill the slot. If they cant do the job, they should be placed in a job they can do. Its a system based on merit and capability, but just saying one entire gender is incapable of doing the job, well that is bullshit. Im a veteran who has had absolutely stellar male and female …
/r/MensRights23/04/13 06:19 PM
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When was the last time Switzerland was not neutral and was an actual player in the wars? Its been a long time. Still good point, and women are not helpless incapable nor are they weak. Sure some are, but then some of both genders are.
/r/MensRights23/04/13 04:16 PM
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Hetero whites arent bullied as much as gay whites. Right. Um listen here twat, my gay friend I have known since High School took far fewer beatings and bullying than I did, and I am damn near arrow straight. The other two gay guys didnt get fucked with at all either, but I sure as hell did. I knew I couldnt afford to go to college, and my parents couldnt afford to send me either. They could afford to send my sister, but not me. I went to the military to pay for my education, I worked for it and …
/r/MensRights22/04/13 03:51 AM
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It would be a curious thing to know who was more anti war, you or I. I like to grill and bake, really enjoy breads. It wasnt my job in the military though. I was air cargo, which does not sound like a combat oriented job. However, a brief look into Mobile Aerial Ports in Vietnam will eliminate the notion that non combat sounding jobs are non combat. A short perusal of AMOG and AMS histories will also show how dangerous any military job can be. Getting to go out and do things in the AMOG capacity…
/r/MensRights18/04/13 11:15 PM
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Ah, cooks are more capable of dodging mortar shells, sniper fire and IEDs while doing convoy escort duties. Got it. The USAF cooks are also the guys who take care of mortuary services, yeah they repack the bodies in ice for air transport, among other things like picking up hamburger that used to be someone. How about you go lie down and stop posting stupid shit before you hurt your brain?
/r/MensRights18/04/13 10:28 PM
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You're so cute. Its adorable, really. You have no fucking clue about how the laws work, if you did you would not say they are designed to keep everyone productive. They are designed to keep one parent productive and the other can benefit from that productivity. Its not about the best interest of the child, not in the least. Its about making sure the woman has everything she needs, because if it was about the kids, there would be some accountability to where the funds actually go. One parent, the…
/r/MensRights16/04/13 09:21 PM
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If he never has a girlfriend, wife, or relationship, then how could a female benefit from his work? Not every marriage is like that, not every relationship is, but damn the state laws sure makes it appear that the only thing a man is useful for is paying the helpless incapable woman so she can stay at home until she wants to go shopping. If he never gets a date, never has a relationship, then how can he get used, unless he is manipulated by women who have him in the friend zone? They dont have t…
/r/MensRights16/04/13 02:17 PM
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How will some precious princess ever be able to benefit from his hard work and diligence?
/r/MensRights16/04/13 01:34 PM
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As a crippled disposable vet, who had zero privilege in life and thus had to work my ass off to achieve anything, what you said quantified what concerns me most about the idea of patriarchy. How the fuck can they lump guys like me in with the top few percent who actually are privileged? How can it not be sexist to assume that I had it easy all my life like some son of a wealthy old money CEO just because I am a white male? To the law and to women such as your colleague, I am little more than a w…
/r/MensRights14/04/13 07:54 PM
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So she feels entitled to something because the guy was married to her, and he has the kid? Her water was shut off and she didnt go get a fucking job to pay for it? Hey lady, get off your dead ass and go earn a fucking living like the rest of us have to. Your vagina does not make you special.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 01:20 AM
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Ah, so she is a misandrist. I wonder why she hates men so much. What has gone so wrong in her head that she can hate people simply based on the genitalia they have. I wonder because I have been abused by women, fucked over by the state so my ex could benefit, and most women I dated used me until they no longer found me useful. A couple then pronounced me a rapist. Yet I dont hate women as a whole.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 04:22 PM
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Yeah, he had a better wife that wasnt psycho. They had huge financial issues, and I worked to help him learn how to manage it. Still when she is getting most of his paycheck due to alimony its hard for an E3 to make it. How fucked up is it that she beat him unconscious numerous times, left visible scars on the kid, and put him in the ER three times, and is still rewarded with alimony? What the fuck. Actually, that is why I am here. He got fucked, I got fucked, and both times it was by the state …
/r/MensRights07/04/13 04:10 AM
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My kids are acutely aware of what she is and how she acts. The oldest is even more pissed at her than I am, because of what she allowed to happen to my kid. To add insult to injury, when she found out our daughters were molested she said "Well, that happens." Didnt even bother to get the police involved, probably because there is no monetary benefit to her, and she doesnt get attention from it. I never was afraid of her, not in the least. I was well aware that the laws were heavily biased agains…
/r/MensRights07/04/13 04:05 AM
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Similar thing to misinformed, I am well trained by the military (but not Special Ops), even wrestled for my branch in Europe as well as wrestling in high school. Grew up severely abused and that lasted until I could defend myself. I am heavily muscled due to my military job, though few on reddit believe my max bench ten years ago. I havent lost a fight since I was 16, and I fear nothing and nobody after two wars. Yet my 140lb ex used to beat on 220lb me, verbally and emotionally abuse me as well…
/r/MensRights06/04/13 04:59 PM
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I had a subordinate in the military that had an ex like that. Mine didnt brag about it, she just claimed she was a victim. Sometimes getting someone out of your life is the greatest feeling ever. I know it was for me. Glad you got out too man.
/r/MensRights06/04/13 04:25 PM
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That is what got the whole situation started. Her gravy train is running out, in two years the money form me will end. If the guy she is with now leaves her she will have nothing, if he dies first she will get about $1300 a month to live on for the rest of her life. The dude is in his 50s and has a huge assortment of health issues already. I hope he dumps her ass and she is left with nothing. She has been abusive, manipulating, and controlling to him too, and he has left before. Thankfully, payb…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 04:18 PM
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I wish my ex was more like you. She took my kids, moved 1500 miles away and did everything in her power to prevent me from being part of their lives. She was unmedicated bi polar, always cheating, abusive to me and the kids, and yet she was rewarded for it by the state. I wanted nothing more than to be part of their lives, watch them grow, teach them how to think and be responsible adults. She robbed me of their childhood, and robbed them of a caring father who would have protected them from the…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:45 AM
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The school says since it happened off school property they wont be punished. If it were three boys attacking a girl like that you can bet your ass they would be expelled. Oh its just a prank, he should be thrilled that girls touched him and gave him attention.
/r/MensRights02/04/13 08:34 PM
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Its not a blind spot, its there intentionally as far as I can tell. When you are going through this type of thing they heap more shit on you as if its your fault she left, took the kids, and everything she felt entitled to, and will now get most of your paycheck leaving you homeless. Happened to me.
/r/MensRights01/04/13 07:18 PM
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Not at this moment, but personal experience shows its more than that. Not so great looking guys like myself seem to get it often, even if we dont even talk to them.
/r/MensRights01/04/13 02:12 AM
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Just .6% of all cases are false.../s
/r/MensRights31/03/13 03:40 PM
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I would agree with that. Having an independent equal partner is highly preferable to having a dependent that provides nothing while expecting the other to make up for their lack of productive effort. I've had both and I prefer the former, which is why she is still here.
/r/MensRights31/03/13 03:15 PM
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"Priests have a lot to talk about pedophilia."
/r/MensRights31/03/13 12:40 AM
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I lost custody of my kids to a woman who abused them and me while the police looked the other way. Then the state rewarded her with 74% of my pay and left me homeless while serving in the military. The judge also started me out 6 months in arrears which caused me to lose my security clearance and the house I owned to be foreclosed. The ex later blamed me for losing it when she had more than enough income of mine to pay for it and live there herself. Later when I was injured on my last deployment…
/r/MensRights30/03/13 11:44 PM
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Its gotta be! The US government paid for the room, and I got a free gourmet breakfast every day when we got back from the airport, but they stuck me on the front side of the building to snub me because I am white.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 10:00 PM
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She says, "probably yeah" edit She commented a bit more just now. In an idealistic way, anyhow. I realize it isn't really achievable, but I think striving for that is good. I get frustrated with the idea [from a feminist perspective] that we all constantly need to walk on eggshells to 'not offend anyone ever.' Also, you can be both egalitarian and feminist they are not mutually exclusive. I also think men and women are fundamentally different, but that doesn't make them unequal.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 09:47 PM
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Not all of them, my wife is one and she thinks this kind of shit is deplorable. Sadly, it took her first hand knowledge of the bullshit my ex causes me through the state to understand why there is an MRM. Suffice it to say, she gets it completely now. Living every few months on nothing because the state just takes it from us has made it obvious that its about punishing men more than taking care of the kids. The vocal ones that come up with incendiary bullshit, why yes of course. Send those twats…
/r/MensRights22/03/13 08:22 PM
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What the hell could possibly be a disadvantage for women in custody battles? That they cant be incarcerated and still retain custody? Or is it about what happens in Saudi Arabia or Kuwait when there is a divorce?
/r/MensRights22/03/13 04:38 PM
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Dr. Phyllis Chesler, a psychotherapist and prominent feminist who had just released a book detailing the disadvantages faced by mothers in custody battles. Seriously? The laws favor them heavily yet they face disadvantages? Is it a disadvantage to be able to take off with the kids, cross several states with them, without consent of the father? My ex did it, and she was rewarded for it. The laws are enabling women like Carde to do this type of thing with impunity, and then be rewarded for it time…
/r/MensRights22/03/13 04:03 PM
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Windows that dont show the parking lot? Ok, well the Hilton room I had in Kuwait City showed the front entrance, the other side showed the beach so I got screwed then too!
/r/MensRights22/03/13 03:47 PM
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a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race. Hhmmm I dont see anything about power, privilege, or only being something white people can do.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 03:44 PM
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Like a friend of mine who did 5 years for statutory rape of his wife with whom he has three kids and they have been together for almost 20 years, because she was two months from being 17. Their age gap is smaller than the gap between my wife and I who was 21 when we met, and nobody thinks anything of our 13 year difference.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 09:21 PM
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They seriously think that kinky people are brain damaged or mentally ill? I guess when someone is so unkinky/uneducated that they can make the local estuary smell like vanilla then that will happen.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 09:17 PM
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I have three stories like that, but none of them involve any touching. Just female friends I had, one was a lesbian yet still someone thought it wrong that I should be talking to her about work. The other two were married and had a similar sense of humor to mine so we got along. This was 3 different bases, and each time it was someone else having an issue with me talking to a female. Come to think of it, in each occurrence, the person who had an issue with it was overtly and devoutly religious. …
/r/MensRights20/03/13 09:06 PM
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Well holy shit. I am only 0.6 percent. Because one female who accused me of rape wanted to drive my car in the snow while drunk after fucking me, and when I said no suddenly I had raped her. Its good to know it doesnt happen very often, because I have talked to other guys who have also been falsely accused. I suppose that DV where the female is the perpetrator is exceedingly rare too. Good to know it only happened to me, and two of my airmen, and each of us was falsely accused by our spouses of …
/r/MensRights20/03/13 08:57 PM
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Exactly why I stopped talking to them. Far too often a simple hello, or a friendship with back and forth mutual BS overheard by a 3rd party ended up with me being counseled about harassment. I just stopped talking to them unless I absolutely had to. Found plenty of women off base to talk to, hit on, and get intimate.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 06:47 PM
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Simple solution I adopted in the military: Dont talk to females unless it is absolutely necessary.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:48 PM
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I taught my daughters not to be abusive like their mom, but she had more time with them.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:44 PM
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And crack down on the false accusations, because silence is complicity.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:43 PM
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While in South Carolina at a car related event, there was a guy selling T shirts. He was going on about how women are supposed to be at home, dont need an education, and should be concentrating on raising the kids and cooking. He was saying this to my childfree, college educated, firefighting wife and I. The guy was in his 60s, so that might be part of it, but obviously its also the environment he was raised in. I dont hate women, yet I have been accused of being misogynist because I feel women …
/r/MensRights18/03/13 10:09 PM
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It doesnt matter if you cant work or arent working and you are male, you are going to pay or go in debt to the state. The pussy pass means that women are not held to the same standard in family court, and they are ordered to pay less and its rarely enforced.
/r/MensRights15/03/13 05:17 PM
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Well shit, then every time my wife is in the mood and comes to me with that sad "please fuck me look" and I am busy under a car, or building a computer, I am being raped if I say ok and go to it with her.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 08:36 PM
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Well if he leaves then he has to pay her, so she can do with him as she likes. He is her indentured servant, and in the bible it says you can beat your slaves as long as they dont die within a couple days. So a stabbing he doesnt die from is irrelevant.
/r/MensRights07/03/13 12:32 AM
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Did you hear that near miss of it going over your head? Man you should get checked out to make sure you didnt get windchill damage. Stay at home parenting is one thing, and child support is supposed to take care of that. This is alimony, which is paid to a woman because she cant take care of herself, not because she has a bunch of fuck trophies for which she is getting child support. Then you have the other side of it where the kids suffer because the custodial parent wont go out and get a job, …
/r/MensRights07/03/13 12:25 AM
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In this day and age it is telling women they are helpless and wholly incapable of supporting themselves, so they have to accept payment from the guy they used to sleep with on a regular basis.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 07:01 AM
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While they are getting shot 'defending freedom' in the home and getting degenerative joint disease from being physically overworked 12-14 hours each day.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:25 PM
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That is what I was getting at, but when i was writing I was quite tired, and I am trying to not be nearly as verbose as I have in the past. Thank you for the clarification.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 04:56 PM
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Well, to boggle your mind further, she was 21, I was 34 when we met. She was a virgin, going to college, and thought she would always be alone. She is 5'7" and 114lbs, and isnt a supermodel, nor is she the type who wears makeup and requires high maintenance, she has only recently started styling her hair, so she wasnt trying to attract your average guy. Most of them had far too limited a vocabulary for her, and the ability to turn her off with just a couple sentences. You dont want the 'hot' wom…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 02:58 AM
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Men need to think differently and protect themselves in different ways than women, because most of our peril is financial in nature. Not that living with an abusive wife is a picnic, when she can assault you with impunity and then take your kids and most of your income as a reward for her behavior. I began to learn to protect myself when I was 23 about saying no, that was 20 years ago. Unfortunately I still fell into an abusive relationship despite being falsely accused of rape. I guess it is di…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 01:05 AM
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It is interesting that some women will get wet when they are treated roughly, and really wet when they are slapped in the crotch. It isnt just women with a fetish, there is something about human physiology that causes them to get physically aroused even when they dont want to have intercourse. Not saying all women get wet when they are hit, but it does happen. So if getting hard is consent, then so should getting wet be consent for women. It isnt viewed that way, but there are things in us that …
/r/MensRights04/03/13 12:54 AM
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If you are male and have sex, its obviously consensual because you obviously have to be willing. If a man doesnt want it, but we know they always do, their body has ways of shutting it all down so they cant be legitimately raped. You cant rape a man, he always wants it.... yeah right. Thinking back there was more than one time I did not want to have sex with females, I said no but they persisted. They kept pushing and pressuring me, and touching me to get me hard and worked up enough that my bra…
/r/MensRights03/03/13 07:17 PM
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I got out of the gene pool a few years ago, one of the best things I ever did for myself. I had my kids taken from me by the ex, and I was prevented from being part of their lives for years. Now, no woman can ever take my kids away again, because I am not having any ever again.
/r/MensRights03/03/13 07:14 PM
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Good to hear your daughter is doing better with you and realizes how bad her mom is. It almost sounds like your ex is the same person my ex is. $42k a year income and cant afford support? Lets see, for a man in the state where my ex resides that would be up to $2380 a month in support totaling $28560 a year... roughly. They can take up to 68% of your pay for support, for just one kid. For women in the same state, it is somewhat less, or at least they take far less from them, so despite having th…
/r/MensRights02/03/13 08:14 PM
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We cant have someone not getting her share from the man she slept with a few times, even if she has some other guy now. That is all men are good for, income so women dont have to work if they dont want to. I applaud the mothers who go out and earn for their kids, and those who do right by them. The problem is, I know more of the worthless ones than the stellar parents put in a rough situation.
/r/MensRights02/03/13 12:50 AM
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Peterborough, England Yeah, had to be. No way in hell would a court in the US ever make an ex pay back the child support when the kids are not his.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 04:22 PM
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Well certainly, men are expendable unless they are providing you with money.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 03:58 PM
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Everything you read or see on the internet is true. ~ Marie Currie
/r/MensRights24/02/13 06:12 PM
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Hell I was making $20k and she was getting $13200 of it. My ex got more from me than you make, leaving me with far less than you make to live on. Now she and her new guy get a total over $5500 a month, and they cant be bothered to keep the lights on or pay the phone bills. They rely on my oldest daughter's student loans to pay them. She is a wonderful mom.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 12:07 AM
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No they cant, women are helpless and incapable of supporting themselves because patriarchy. It is even more prevalent today than it was over 100 years ago. Sex is obviously just men subjugating women, because no true womyn<sup>TM</sup> would ever want sex with a man.
/r/MensRights22/02/13 06:18 PM
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I am lucky to have graduated 30 years ago. It appears my generation is full of idiots with an overactive knee jerk reaction. I wanted to know how everything worked, not because I wanted to build it, just how does it function?
/r/MensRights20/02/13 03:42 AM
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Good to hear you had different cops that understood that it isnt always men who are abusive. Just once I would have appreciated having a cop like that, my life and the lives of my kids would be so very different now.
/r/MensRights19/02/13 03:11 AM
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Its benefiting some lazy bitch who has no problem exploiting her dead child for money. How it works with far too many recipients of support payments.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 12:03 AM
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From my experience with the family court system, if you are military and your wife leaves you, she gets whatever she wants and they take most of your pay and give it to her. You have near zero chance of getting custody, and it does not matter what she has done, if she is abusive, mentally unstable, or completely unmotivated to earn her way through life. You end up paying for her and the kids. It really doesnt matter if the kids are yours or not. What matters is you are military, she is female an…
/r/MensRights16/02/13 01:05 AM
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Sure a minority, like less than half of fathers are not allowed near their kids, have overwhelming support and alimony. Minorities dont matter, unless of course they have a vagina. If you want the other side of the story, she will tell you I was abusive, cheated on her, beat her constantly, didnt want anything to do with the kids, and only saw them as a way to get money. Projection is a hell of a drug. Ask my kids and you will see the marked difference. Would you like to converse with my 18 year…
/r/MensRights05/02/13 05:23 PM
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I have not been on Jerry Springer, and I am not alone in what has happened to me and how my ex has been. I was active duty US military and homeless due to the state taking everything I earned and leaving me $100 a month after taxes. They sent me to Korea so I could live on base instead of in my car, because married and over E4 cant live on base without their dependents, except in Korea. It is the reason I am in this subreddit, because both parents should be equal and share the responsibility equ…
/r/MensRights05/02/13 04:55 PM
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Saw this and thought, well what are the chances it could be in the US? Looked at the article and well no shit, not in the US. Good luck ever getting a cheating ex wife to repay child support and damages for not allowing the man to have kids. Its just not going to happen.
/r/MensRights04/02/13 12:51 AM
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It would be nice if society would care for the kids so the father doesnt have to live out of his car, or need the help of friends just to sleep inside while employed. Sure, they have a duty, but what happens if the mother shirks it? In my experience, not much. However if the father shirks or simply cannot pay then he goes to jail, has his credit ruined, and cannot get a passport. We agree, but there are some distinctions and obvious inequalities in the current system. Both parents should provide…
/r/MensRights02/02/13 11:50 PM
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Is equality one staying at home while getting all but $950 a month (before taxes) of the ex who is working 60-80 hours a week? I guess if its appropriate then that must be equality.
/r/MensRights02/02/13 11:20 PM
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Most of the hard work I have put into things has been for zero gain, mostly thanks to the ex. I wouldnt quit, didnt just give up and let go of some of the things I worked my ass off to get, and just accepted the losses I couldnt stop. People often say kids are courageous for fighting cancer, its just what people do when bad shit happens. They dont know how to not keep going, and if they see no purpose they end it themselves. So you either endure or you off yourself, those are the options.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 10:01 PM
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Not financially no, I got fucked up in a useless war so I only own a bunch of muscle cars. :) I meant not trusting them, and thus far there are only two females in the entire world I trust, and neither are my mother. I meant that I didnt allow any woman to get close, and still dont trust the vast majority of them enough to let them live with me. I didnt get married in the military, they forced me out with the budget cut in 92, no job so I was Mr again. Went back in 2000, after getting the "ooops…
/r/MensRights30/01/13 05:58 PM
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Even if you fight, she will most often win, and you will just be out a huge sum of money spent on a lawyer. I fought tooth and nail, she still won and I was left homeless while in the military. I was like you for a few years, then I found one not like the others. Seeing what I have gone through with my ex, and what the ex has done to my kids has made her realize there is a reason for MRA. Still I waited nearly 8 years before I got her medical insurance. She sees this type of woman the same way w…
/r/MensRights30/01/13 04:37 PM
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I used to get that constantly, they meet me and are put off because I am not over 6'. That was the only thing they didnt like about me, just not a tall enough guy at 5'8". When I would ask them about what wrong with shorter guys, they would get pissy and often irate and start accusing me of having a self confidence issue or a small dick. Fuck em, I found a woman who cares what a man is like, not what he looks like, how tall he is, or how much money he makes. She is 5'7" and the sex is glorious. …
/r/MensRights30/01/13 07:00 AM
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I agreed with you on that too. Hell Japan celebrates christmas and very few of them are christian, its just an opportunity to give gifts and go shopping, just like here.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 01:25 AM
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Yep it sure is a national holiday. Santa isnt part of the religious holiday, but the tree has been grabbed for religious use. I find that hilarious because it was pagan in origin, and the bible says not to bring a tree in your house and fix it so it doesnt move. You should hear them bitch when its not called a christmas tree, or when someone tells them its a pagan ritual.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 01:12 AM
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Well yes, of course they will. Public funds being used for religious reasons is something they get pissy about, and rightly so.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 06:34 PM
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I know both types, those who sit around, or pop out kids for more checks, and the type who busts her ass to support herself and her kid. I am far more prone to want to help those who help themselves rather than insist they are entitled because they have a fuck trophy. My wife calls them fuck trophies, and I like the ring of it. My ex calls them her means to extort money from me so she doesnt have to work.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 10:20 PM
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Some of them want to be full equals, others want to keep all the men pay, work, and support the woman parts while reaping the benefits of supposed equality. Equality to me means if she wants to be a single mom, she gets off her ass and goes to work, among other things.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 08:47 PM
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I would be inclined to agree, but sadly I can see an instance where a draft would be warranted. I just hope it never comes to that again. If we could get the entire world to agree, lose religion and other divisive bullshit, and work together we wouldnt need a military. Until the rest of the world (and the idiots that keep getting elected here) stops being ignorant "MEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEME!" types we need military capability. Something like Vietnam or the latest useless conflicts in the desert are n…
/r/MensRights26/01/13 08:44 PM
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He's got a streak of the white knight in him, no? What you did there, I see it.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 04:15 AM
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They want equality and fairness, well this is part of equality. As said by my feminist wife. She is interested in actual equality, not being more equal or getting special privileges.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 04:05 AM
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Oh no there was a crime committed, he told the guy behind the counter he wanted a pack of smokes while she made up her mind. Right there was the crime, he was white and male, so obviously he is guilty. If it wasnt so close to being true, I wouldnt write that. I really wish shit was different, but nothing happens because of the double standards obviously displayed here.... unless she was arrested for assault.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 09:42 PM
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Nah that was his privilege showing.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 09:37 PM
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Isnt it obvious that educating yourself, working hard and earning what you have is privilege? It victimizes everyone who is actually entitled to what he has, they deserve to have his fame and fortune because of their gender, and he does not because he is white, old, and of course blatantly male.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 12:19 AM
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Sometimes the crazy is subdued until she has moved in and expects to have access to the bank account.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 12:32 AM
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As a 43 year old guy, dont take them to dinner or spend much money on them. Get to know them before you ever head out the door to meet them, you can avoid lots of crazy like that.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 09:36 PM
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Also Sims. Mostly women play that, and WoW is rife with females. Its just rare to see them in FPS and RTS games.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 07:09 PM
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Gotta do something with that useless Psych BA.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 07:06 PM
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We lived on $36k a year with two kids and a mortgage, had to work 70 hours a week as a CNC machinist/programmer to earn that. I make more as a crippled veteran than I did busting my ass. She got in a month what the four of us lived on for a year. Fuck that twat.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 06:55 PM
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Quite right, this doesnt do much for us. Had two females that could do as much as the average guy, and one female that couldnt lift a 3 gallon Igloo cooler, she could barely slide it. The rest were somewhere between those two. Some use the "I am cute and I flirt so I dont have to work" method, while others got out there and busted their ass with the rest of us. It varied, but damn it sucked picking up the slack for the lazy, useless, and weak people, be they male or female.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 08:56 AM
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Sometimes, but all the damage is done on my end, and it is irreparable. The best I can hope for it to tell people what happened to me and the effects of that on my kids, and hope they realize that men arent monsters, and women can be violent and abusive as well. If someone in the state governments actually gave a shit, maybe so many fathers wouldnt be living in cars and subsisting on almost nothing like I did while serving in the military. Instead they enable shiftless people to sponge off the p…
/r/MensRights17/01/13 09:23 PM
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I gave up and try not to think about it. Really I should stop coming into r/mr because it reminds me of everything shitty that has transpired.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 09:01 PM
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That alone, no, but everything else about her does. She lived with me for a year, and in that year I learned how she is. Thrives on drama, just like her mom, feels entitled to everything, just like her mom. Demands everything earned is spent on her, guess who that is like. She has been back with her mother since August and is on boyfriend #8 now. They cant put up with her shit for very long. Her FB page under relationship should just say "Unstable." All of it makes me sad, because her mother was…
/r/MensRights17/01/13 08:24 PM
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Very doubtful. The oldest has a girlfriend, is into computers and cars, the youngest is into shoes, shopping, boys, and acts just like her mother does. I have a female son too it appears.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:52 PM
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The woman I am married to now was in 3rd grade when I was in the first gulf war. Apparently I am a dirty old man. Sadly, they live with their mother. There was no way the state would allow a veteran to have custody, even when their mother is abusive and neglectful. The 7 years I got to spend with the oldest before she was taken from me was put to good use. She is a thinker, and a doer, not a sit back and feel entitled then bitch that the world doesnt hand you everything you want. The youngest, n…
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:42 PM
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Where were you 20 years ago when I met the most shiftless and controlling woman I have ever known? Let me guess, grade school. I hope at least one of my daughters turns out like you, self sufficient, ambitious,and independent. The second woman I married is like that, and its quite preferable to the former.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:27 PM
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I am closer to Canada than I am to my kids. They are 850 miles away, Canada is 150. Obama is trying to "terk mah gunz!!" Wonderful. Same shit, different day. Im tired of all the political crap, man hating, and indentured servitude. I dont even want to read anymore, just avoid the news and everyone outside a 7 miles radius.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 06:40 AM
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Not sure why I get it so often, and most often it is a small guy acting the fool. I just go about doing what I do, trying to blend in and still far too often someone will start getting aggressive and trying to intimidate me. The last time it happened was about two years ago, and this college kid was with his friends and acting tough. He was holding an open bottle of beer when a cop pulled up, got out, took his beer and dumped it out. You could see the kids balls shrink into his chest. Honestly I…
/r/MensRights17/01/13 06:21 AM
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I know you know, now we both know. Knowing is half the battle.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 06:16 AM
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The circular nature about it sucks.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 06:07 AM
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I act like a civilized person until someone doesnt treat me like one, then I tend to ignore them and walk off. If they push the issue or become more of an active threat, things change fast. I stay home because it happens far too often when I am just in the area, usually when someone has been indulging in liquid courage. Too many years of people fucking with me for no good reason. It has made me avoid people IRL, and my online persona is somewhat varied and unpredictable.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 06:03 AM
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I know how lucky I am to have met her. We talked for 5 months before meeting, and almost the entire time was like an interview. I had specific wants and somehow she managed to fit them all. I am 13 years older than her, so hopefully I go first.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 01:58 AM
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Dad was violent when he was frustrated or mad. Started hitting me around age 8, stopped at 16. Older brother has some kind of mental issue, he made multiple attempts at killing me including poisoning, stabbing, and throwing steel rods at my head and hitting me in the head. It was a constant barrage of beatings, and at school there were more. Older brother started a rumor I was gay in school. This is early 80s time frame, rural Nebraska. My brother is an asshole so I also got beatings because the…
/r/MensRights17/01/13 01:52 AM
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I was bullied and severely beaten growing up. I would try to walk away, they would follow, and I would get beaten if I defended myself or not. Not trying encouraged them more. Eventually I learned enough to defend myself, I got stronger, but was still quite a bit shorter than everyone else. It only took one beat down by me on three people to end the abuse, one was my older brother, one was my father, and one was a kid in school that called me a faggot. If I didnt learn to defend myself, the beat…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 11:01 PM
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US. Nebraska more specifically.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 10:49 PM
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A nice tidy little war would fix that for them. One of the things that concerns me about China. ~US veteran.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 10:48 PM
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One of my best friends is like the latter. The guy is successful with his business, but in building it he didnt invest in learning to talk to the ladies. He cant get past a second date and is a genuinely great guy that would treat a woman like an equal partner, because to him she would be. His location is part of the problem, and its why I no longer live there. Women there want all the benefits of a relationship, with all the control, with none of the responsibility. Give them the credit card an…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 10:37 PM
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My experience of men is that they want love, loyalty, kindness, all the good things other people can give you. That is what men want, the older and more experienced they get, the more desirable it is. Sadly, finding it in a female is often quite difficult, not that women who can do all of that and still be independent and an equal partner are not out there, they are just damn hard to find. After getting raked over the coals enough times, cheated on, used, and having her try to manipulate and con…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 10:29 PM
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Never again will I deal with crazy. Not even online. If I get in a discussion, and the other person starts going into nutjob alternate reality, I am out. After the kid was here, I stayed to protect her from her mother. Then the second one came along, and the ex really had issues with her. It was a daily thing keeping the ex from hitting her, throwing her around, pulling her arms, saying ignorant hateful shit at a 3 or 4 year old. Yet the state said I was the abusive one, and gave her full custod…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 09:07 PM
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The reason this should be posted is to help people identify when the person they are in a relationship with is toxic. Its a MR issue because men are expected to just hand over their spine and testicles to a woman like this, yet no woman would ever be expected to submit to a man who treated her in the same way. She is incredibly immature, and guys can be too immature to see that someone like her is poison, and the chances she will grow up and change to be an equal partner rather than demanding al…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 08:55 PM
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The reason for sharing is to show how fucked up it can be when you are not allowed to be there for your kids, because their mother is a vindictive abusive twat.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 08:48 PM
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I should have dumped her before she got pregnant, and I wanted to be there for my kids. It was the only reason I endured her bullshit for 8 years. She decided since she couldnt control me that she would take the kids and not let me see them. She succeeded and I had 12 days total with them over the next 7 years. She let them both get molested, giving the oldest two STIs, and when confronted about it she said, "Well that happens." She is responsible for her actions, I am partly responsible for giv…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 07:41 PM
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Exactly, but you have nobody to blame but yourself for staying with those types of people. edit. We have nobody to blame but ourselves.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 07:32 PM
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She sounds just like my borderline personality disorder/bi polar ex wife who is almost 40 and still acts just like that. My take, albeit from a somewhat personal view is she really is a self absorbed entitled nutjob like those you see on SRS.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 07:07 PM
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Hopefully this person does a lot of soul searching and realizes how her behavior was the cause of the breakup, not his. Fat chance, she will just get her hooks into someone else, tell a sob story of how she was abused by this guy and his dad, and then left at the altar so he could throw a party and fuck girls that like old cars.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 07:03 PM
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Women are ALWAYS the victim.... at least some try to tell themselves that. Definitely all of them in SRS are percieved victims.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 06:57 PM
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Men dont matter, check your privilege. The only thing men are good for is a paycheck so she can stay home when she isnt out shopping.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 06:57 PM
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If they do have feelings they arent worth dating, they are only to be used for what they can give you while firmly in the friend zone.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 06:54 PM
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First you have to be self absorbed and self centered. Second you usually have to be female, although males can be that way as well. Third you have to feel entitled to everything, so you demand you get it even if it isnt yours and you have not earned it nor have any claim to it whatsoever. Its a chick thing really, but I know guys like that too.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 06:52 PM
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spend the rest of her life convincing herself that she was abused and just barely escaped with her life That is the option my ex took, although she found a desperate sap who was stupid enough to marry her. My ex still claims I abused her, yet I never hit her and only ever defended myself, and I never started a fight with her. I was the one with the cuts, bruises, and she was the one cheating and blowing money like it was water. Yet I am the abusive one. Part of me wants to show her what abuse ac…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 06:49 PM
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They always have to find a way to be a victim, and justify any behavior of their own by seeing themselves as the victim.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 06:41 PM
17

There is a point to what rykocolor said, and the point is not to just settle for someone and endure the bullshit they dump on you. I have an ex who is quite a bit like the WOSAO who wrote that. It was my fault for staying with her when the irrational fights over nothing started. It was my fault she got knocked up, because I should have broomed her the first time she started a fight over nothing. Sure, my ex is to blame for being abusive, disloyal, vindictive, shiftless, and expecting the entire …
/r/MensRights16/01/13 06:32 PM
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If they did get married, the divorce is inevitable since she wants to control everything including him. That shit doesnt work unless you have a guy that enjoys submission, or at least allows himself to be submissive to her rather than equal.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 06:24 PM
1

Rape? Really? They must really adore rape.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 05:12 AM
1

Wiping shit on the walls is a sign of a rather deranged mind. The shit splattered on the wall shows how deranged.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 05:09 AM
2

Dont give up, keep fighting her crazy vindictive ass. Hang in there, keep fighting, and do everything you can to protect your son, because nobody else will. He is innocent in this, and he deserves to have a decent life not filled with the bullshit and hardships she would inflict on him. I lost my kids, all appeals, and now the last lawyer I hired has fucked me over by waiting two years to file shit I needed done when she got the money. The state has railroaded me, the ex still gets most of my in…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 12:37 AM
2

He was lucky to get a PPO, I was unable despite proof. Because I was a war veteran, they took her word for it that I was abusive despite never having hit her, and enduring everything she dished out and holding back everything my mind and training were telling me to do to end the threat. I had supervised visits with my kids for a few years because I have PTSD, not because I am violent or have ever harmed anyone. Being make and surviving fucked up shit is enough to make you a monster to the state.…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 12:14 AM
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Those of us with PTSD, training, and enough muscle are really the wrong people with whom to fuck. It takes a tremendous amount of self control to not bash in the head of the woman who is beating on you, throwing stuff at you, and starting fights because she knows you will react. Honestly if a male attempted anything my ex did, he might have awoken later in intensive care. Since it was a female, I knew I would be going to jail if I did any more than very lightly restrain her hands so as not to br…
/r/MensRights16/01/13 12:10 AM
1

Yunicks dont matter, apparently.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 12:01 AM
3

I have no problem with prostitutes whatsoever, provided they are in it for themselves and are not forced. If they are inclined to earn money that way, more power to them. The difference is, they are actually earning it rather than expecting it as an entitlement. Being forced, or needing to feed an addiction is different and deplorable. The way it works in Germany and other EU countries makes sense. The ban on it here is yet another example of telling women they're incapable, but this time its th…
/r/MensRights14/01/13 09:41 PM
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But women are helpless and wholly incapable of supporting themselves! They need to have a man pay for them even if they decide to move on to someone else because patriarchy. I wonder if anyone has pointed out that this practice says exactly that about women? That they are helpless and needy so they must have the ex pay for them even without kids. It declares that a woman cannot support herself, cannot actually work and earn to survive, so she is still dependent on the man she no longer wishes to…
/r/MensRights14/01/13 07:26 PM
2

I was agreeing with you as well. The actions speak far louder than rhetoric and propaganda.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 07:06 PM
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Like a protest blocking the doors to a seminar, shouting down everyone that tries to enter and needing the cops to keep them non violent?
/r/MensRights14/01/13 05:01 AM
1

Of course it is bad for females if men get killed more often, by workplace, combat, or suicide. If they are dead, they cant earn money to hand over to a female. You see that is how women are the primary victims of war, they then have to find a new man to support them or they have to support themselves.
/r/MensRights13/01/13 05:46 PM
2

FYI same thing is going on in Kuwait and the other small countries. I dont know about Saudi but I will assume it is so due to how prevalent it is in the rest of them.
/r/MensRights13/01/13 05:41 PM
3

I found a geeky one, she was 21 and had never dated, has always worn baggy clothes so you cant see her body. She is independent, child free, educated and employed so she isnt depending on me to support her. So very different from most other women I dated or knew. I always find it humorous when someone tells me to be happy living alone, when I have an example of what feminism should be living with me.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 02:59 AM
3

My mom gave up, but what can she do to influence a 43 year old man that has been through two wars?
/r/MensRights08/01/13 02:22 AM
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I agree, and I have found decent women as well. I knew there were some, but they have been so rare in my life. I was looking for the wrong attributes and kept finding the wrong women, maybe your friends are also looking for the wrong thing and putting too much emphasis on it. It just saddens me that the way far too many of us males are treated shows that we are only considered a source of income, and otherwise expendable. Going through a divorce put a very fine point on that for me.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 02:19 AM
3

My wife says the same thing. Wish the state and society in general felt the same.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 01:22 AM
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Of course they do, but remember kids, boys do not matter except as a source of income.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 12:54 AM
0

Well she does have to protect herself from unsavory looking men that dont look like Bret Favre or Justin Bieber.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 12:45 AM
2

Just think if he had a Trans Am! He would have been a meth addicted pusher rapist!
/r/MensRights08/01/13 12:43 AM
0

Best thing I ever did was get laser surgery on my eyes. It dropped the harassment charges leveled against me 90%!
/r/MensRights08/01/13 12:42 AM
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Men shouldn't be.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 12:35 AM
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Googly eyes.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 12:34 AM
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You are going to end up being quoted and then they will find your home address so they can tell your mother you hate her. After that your job/school will be informed that you are dangerous and want to harm women because you hate them. Its a slippery slope my friend and you are on it without crampons!
/r/MensRights08/01/13 12:32 AM
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No the boys should not be asking the girls, that is harassment. Only the best looking boys should be allowed to the dance, and then they should then let the girls dance with him if they want to, or not. Its the only safe way.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 12:29 AM
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That is enough for a sexual harassment charge in the US military, well at least it was when I was in.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 12:27 AM
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You have got to be the oldest person on reddit!
/r/MensRights08/01/13 12:26 AM
4

You might have centipedes in your vagina too, you should check just to be sure.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 03:29 AM
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Its not hard to find, if someone really wants to look. It happens often enough that a man is used to get someone pregnant without his knowledge or consent that finding examples is not a chore. I dont go looking for links because all it does is piss me off that others get fucked over like I did on a regular basis. The wife likes me better when I am not pissed about the ex and the state acting as her shylock.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 08:42 PM
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You didnt say it, the state does. You can hope that if a woman decides to get pregnant though deceptive means that the man wont be held accountable, but I doubt you can find any instance of that happening. There is outrage if a man convicted of rape wants to meet the kid or be part of the kids life after serving his time. Reverse the genders and a woman who gets pregnant without the mans consent is still considered a victim. He still has to pay and probably wont get any parental rights to the ki…
/r/MensRights04/01/13 08:26 PM
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Because women are seen by the state as being weak, incompetent, incapable of supporting themselves, and downtrodden so they deserve to get anything the man they used to live with earns. If he doesnt earn enough, then he goes to jail, has everything garnished, and his credit is absolutely fucked. Its not about children, its about rewarding women and punishing men. If it was about the kids then women would have to pay the same percentages in child support when the father gets custody, yet I have n…
/r/MensRights04/01/13 05:50 PM
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I believe it, but nobody gave two shits and a fuck when I was an active duty military member living in my car and on friends couches because I had $100 each month. Its a great thing that Mr Foley can get someone to notice, because nobody cares about guys like me that arent famous, they just say we deserved it since we fucked the woman.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 05:44 PM
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If the man can be punished while having kids, and have to pay someone else while he raises the kid, then why not the other way around? Are you saying women are helpless and incapable of supporting themselves? Its ok to put a man well under the poverty level, but its not ok to do the same to a woman? Even while I had custody of my kid, I was still required to pay the ex who also got money form Social Security because I am a disabled veteran. So she was getting money from two sources for free, wit…
/r/MensRights04/01/13 04:15 PM
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Good luck with that idea, the reality of it says something completely different. If you are the father, no matter how the mother got pregnant and for whatever reason, guess what. You are on the hook for at least 18 years even if it was deceptive. The idea you have is based more in women being considered equal, competent, capable, and not at all unable to raise a child on their own. The state doesnt see it that way, they only see the poor helpless woman who got knocked up by some mean man that do…
/r/MensRights04/01/13 04:07 PM
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If you ever want to feel intellectually superior to a vast number of people, just read youtube comments for an hour.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 08:18 PM
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Taxpayer money funded the wife and myself getting out of the gene pool, but that isnt due to feminism. Its thanks to the VA. If she gets pregnant then maybe we shouldnt be atheist, it would be a miracle.
/r/MensRights01/01/13 09:53 PM
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All they would have done to me if I had taken her back to court to show that she couldnt keep the lights on and food on the table, is take more from me leaving me with absolutely nothing. They would not have required her to get a job, they would have simply required more of me.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 08:03 PM
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Thankfully, here in the states the one bright spot is the mother of my two daughters is actually responsible for shit the youngest does and gets caught doing. Mainly because I live 850 miles away, but the ex did her best to keep me from the kids when they were younger. They are teenagers now, and the oldest is 18, so her mom is off the hook for her. I was prevented from being around my youngest from the time she was 4 until she was 14. We had at most a couple months to spend together over those …
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:00 PM
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Probably, pretty sure she never took it since she graduated in 65 and women werent forced to take it back then. edit Camaros are slow catfish looking heaps that should feel lucky to share some parts with Trans Ams and Formula Birds. ;)
/r/MensRights19/12/12 03:49 PM
2

Well it wasnt the Coast Guard. Some AF people tried to play like they were Special Forces all the time, making up shit to do and putting emphasis on chicken shit because they could. My brother is Army, we go round and round with the rivalry. Got three cousins in the AF and a cousin that was in the Navy, she retired a Captain, and two Marines in the family. When we are all together its lots of fun.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 03:48 PM
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Which of course, they are not incapable.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 06:38 AM
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No, I didnt feel the need to cut fingers nor toes off them.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 06:37 AM
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Used to be Airman, got out as SSGT. Soldier is for the people with low ASVAB scores. :)
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:53 AM
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Interchangeable, you can use the Syndrome or not. Sometimes we would just say she had the 'drome. When I was in Korea ten years ago, you can bet I was checking out the imports. The former Soviet bloc countries sent women to us in droves. I learned lots of interesting Russian phrases, and had a wonderful time with a few of them. I have a Finnish yooper now, she beats all the imports by a wide margin.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:32 AM
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Well you could see it like that, but think of it this way. You live in a bible thumping state, about the same as South Carolina, Georgia, Florida etc. The bible says women are weak, helpless, incapable of anything on their own and less intelligent than men are. So what the law is actually saying is, if you hit a woman its like hitting a retarded child. Talk to some of the older people who live in the back woods, like around Hickory if you like. You will find that sentiment everywhere. A womans p…
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:25 AM
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Im an AF war vet, and I agree with the sentiment about using us to score points. Was wondering how far down I would have to look to find this. Semper Fi, Jarhead.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:16 AM
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Was going to say something akin to this. There are no REMFs in the desert, there are no front lines, and everything is a potential ambush. Unless you are in the states, or in a non hotspot overseas, you are in harms way. Khobar Towers proved that anyone, in any branch can get killed at any time while they are deployed.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:13 AM
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Its a quote with some dispute about who said it.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:08 AM
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We called it "Golden Pussy." When they are overseas and the male to female ratio is about 300:1 they think they are incredibly hot and attractive. You get accused of sexual harassment if you arent good looking enough to talk to them and you say "Hello." Get back to the states and they bitch about how they cant get laid. I made it a point not to date military women. Not because of the job, or because they might cheat, it was because if you date them you have to ask them out sometime. Asking them …
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:06 AM
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Used to... long time ago, far far away.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 04:26 AM
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Do not tempt me! Crap, out of bananas. You win this round.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 04:26 AM
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It makes sense. How many famous chefs are female.. ok famous female chefs that dont use donuts to make a hamburger? Im a war veteran, who builds muscle cars, a CNC programmer, one time power lifter, and am married to a hot Scandinavian woman 13 years my junior and I love to bake. I think some croissants are in order tonight. Made cornbread the other day, it came out excellent...
/r/MensRights18/12/12 11:44 PM
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Just for a slightly bigger picture, this also happened to me. Every time the cops would show, it didnt matter if I had ripped clothing, blood streaming from cuts, bruises, scratches, or anything else showing that I had been attacked. All that mattered was if I hit her or hurt her in any way. I was married to her for 11 years, but only with her for 8. We had two daughters, one was 7, the other almost 5 when she left. She got full custody and I had supervised visitation for the first 3 years becau…
/r/MensRights18/12/12 11:23 PM
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Well damn, its good to know that I was entitled to the severe abuse I endured that gave me nearly overpowering urges to kill the fuckers who beat me constantly. Good to know it was my privilege to live with PTSD and wish for my own death for decades. I wasnt promised a fucking thing, I busted my ass and struggled while everything was taken from me and given to an entitled female who never worked a day in her life. The most she ever did was spread her legs and piss and moan that I didnt give her …
/r/MensRights18/12/12 10:53 PM
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I have tried to be a moron, it didnt take. Now I am completely without religion. Or did you mean women are wimps?
/r/MensRights18/12/12 10:44 PM
1

But we cant do that... Women would never make up things like that or say that they were abused when they are actually the abuser. It just doesnt happen, because women are kind, gentle, and not at all ruled by emotions.
/r/MensRights18/12/12 10:44 PM
1

Same thing happened to a friend of mine, but he went to jail for her. They are still married 15 years later.
/r/MensRights17/12/12 06:41 PM
1

It was all about looking good in uniform, and when you are 5'8" and have a 52" chest, 28" thighs, 20" neck, and 22" arms, you look more like a brick in BDUs. Didnt matter if I had a washboard going on, I never got under a 37" waist, just too damn thick. The new system the AF went to would have put me out if I hadnt gotten hurt in 04 while deployed. I would have had to run faster than Olympic sprinters to stay in, even though I could max everything but the run for 20 year old kids when I was 34. …
/r/MensRights17/12/12 07:35 AM
1

That wasnt my dad, mine was more like Christopher Titus's dad, but not nearly as funny. Much more violent and disapproving. We have gotten better in the last few years, since he is almost 70 now. I have been trying to get him to do the Hot Rod Magazine Power Tour with my brother and I, but he isnt sure if he can get off work for a week and drive around the country in his 70 AAR Cuda clone. I wanted to be there for my daughters, but I wasnt allowed to. Now I talk to my oldest as often as she can,…
/r/MensRights17/12/12 07:17 AM
1

Also called them 15%'ers, as in they do 15% of what everyone else does. You know what really irked me? They worked me so hard in the first war that I gained 40lbs of lean muscle mass. Now I am freakishly huge, and then they wanted to fuck with me because of the weight program forever after. Calling me a dirtbag, Jabba the Hut, and all sorts of shit. They made me this way and then wanted to fuck with me over it. Then we have losers who eat fast food constantly, dont ever run, cant life 40lbs over…
/r/MensRights17/12/12 07:00 AM
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Cant argue that. I just like to give the benefit of the doubt, and also point out my outstanding Airmen that happened to be female. My biggest shit bag was a guy, holy fuck that kid was a soup sandwich.
/r/MensRights17/12/12 12:11 AM
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Its that most men dont really have much choice in the matter, they are just thrust into the dangerous jobs and women are coddled more. We pretty much agree, but its a few small points and a wording difference.
/r/MensRights16/12/12 09:23 PM
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Nah, she is a yooper, Finnish descent but born in Michigan. She grew up in a family owned business like I did, hers boats and cabins mine was a farm. My ex is the typical American female, "give me everything, why should I earn anything?" After dating some European women, and being engaged to an Arab, I learned what I wanted in a woman. Just lucky to have found one here in the states. Definitely one of a kind.
/r/MensRights16/12/12 09:18 PM
1

If you join the military on the basis of pay, you joined for the wrong reason. Even once you get paid a living wage commensurate with the civilian world, you have zero free time, huge responsibility, and you still have to work like a minion. My experience has been different, since I never worked in an office or 9-5 type job. We had women who worked there too, but usually far less was expected of them, which was bullshit.
/r/MensRights16/12/12 07:36 PM
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Precisely. That is also why I was accused of sexual harassment so fucking often. I treated them like anyone else, expected them to work just as hard as anyone else, so they would claim I hit on them. I guess expecting people to do their fucking job means you hate them, or want to fuck them.
/r/MensRights16/12/12 07:26 PM
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That guy is awesome, one of my favorite bit actors. Nah, she is all female but she doesnt act like an entitled self absorbed twat like my ex. Finnish women FTMFW.
/r/MensRights16/12/12 07:24 PM
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Some asses the risk involved and choose where to go and what to do. I had other options than the military. It was over a year and a half after I graduated before I enlisted. It wasnt a last minute decision. Who had any idea that Iraq would invade Kuwait the second year I was in? Who knew what would happen ten years later in NYC? I had alternatives, but I assessed the risks and made a choice to do a job that would last at least 4 years with Reagan in office.. I was never the type of person who co…
/r/MensRights16/12/12 07:21 PM
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Ok, I can agree with that. My wife wasnt exactly coddled. She is the only woman I know who can back up a trailer or tow a 40' boat across two states. Her dad had no sons, so his girls did the work with him. We have often observed she is more like a man than a woman when it comes to work. Compared to quite a few military women I knew who flirted to get an office job so they didnt have to sweat and bust their asses like the rest of us including the attractive women, I would tend to agree most are …
/r/MensRights16/12/12 07:05 PM
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I do all the cooking, load the dishwasher, keep the fire going because we use wood heat in winter, do my own laundry, as well as keep the vehicles running. The wife takes care of the dogs, does her own laundry, and does at least half the yard work. She is a firefighter/EMT, I am a disabled veteran. This is how it is supposed to work, each of you doing what you are good at and not bitching about who is doing more. She doesnt want to work on the cars, and I am ok with that. She stacks firewood wit…
/r/MensRights16/12/12 06:59 PM
4

I knew more people who died from accidents, and were injured from the inherent dangers of our job than people who died of enemy action. One guy was crushed by the spoiler or flap on a C17 while in the states. That could happen at any major airport. The first death of Desert Shield/Storm was a guy run over by a truck. Leaving the military out because some of us are killed or wounded in enemy action ignores the rest of us who get fucked up due to the dangerous nature of the work we do at a high op…
/r/MensRights16/12/12 06:48 PM
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I could go on for hours about picking up the slack in my physically demanding military job that women left for us, but I wont because it would sound like they are all worthless, incapable and I hate them. Some were worthless, some werent, but damn the ones that couldnt even lift a 5 gallon igloo of water and move it two feet? What the fuck was she doing in the US military? How would she ever compare to the work I did because I was saddled with her? I did all of her work in addition to mine. I di…
/r/MensRights16/12/12 06:36 PM
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So women are wimps and men are stupid? Gee thanks for that astute observation on why I joined the military and have worked dangerous jobs. I must be a fucking moron. I wonder what that makes my wife since she is a firefighter.
/r/MensRights16/12/12 06:31 PM
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Come to think of it, all my friends (7 total) who have offed themselves, and everyone I know through others who has done it, have been male. I cant think of a single female in my life that has done it. The stress heaped on me during my divorce, both by the state which wouldnt allow me to see my kids and left me destitute, and by some people in my unit who made my life a living hell trying to get me to "man up" nearly drove me to suicide constantly for three years. If you go through a divorce in …
/r/MensRights15/12/12 05:03 PM
1

True, unless they happen to be in the combat areas, munitions dont give a shit about gender, age, race, or anything else that differentiates people on such a very superficial level. Its impersonal and indiscriminate. You are in the wrong place or you arent. BTDTGTTS. People back home, far away from the war and any danger are secondary victims of war at best.
/r/MensRights15/12/12 04:46 PM
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If women lead the world there would be no wars? Seriously? Seh actually believes that? If the women leading are as emotionally unstable and violently unstable as my ex, I would say we would have more wars. Add in the vindictiveness of her and so many other women, and how they lead in child abuse, and it unfathomable how women would be less prone to violence given power. Sure women were raped during armed conflicts, after the men were killed or captured (and more recently sent to labor camps). So…
/r/MensRights15/12/12 01:22 AM
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Its hard to not make it personal since most jobs I have had were very dangerous, have been in combat, and deal with the results daily. Hearing about how women are the primary victims of it, or should leave guys like me pisses me off almost as much as cartoons/conversations using us crippled veterans to make people feel guilty or to win arguments. Being considered little more than a wallet for my ex so she can sit around, contribute nothing and abuse our kids really pisses me off, but that is how…
/r/MensRights14/12/12 09:43 PM
1

Well shit, then I didnt get mine, since my wife is a firefighter with a degree and I do the cooking. She sucks at cooking... I learned how to make almost anything taste good while surviving on MREs in the first gulf war. Crap, I guess I have to get divorced and find a woman that cooks better than I do... fat chance.
/r/MensRights14/12/12 09:27 PM
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Indeed, my mom and ex are the primary victims of me going to war twice.
/r/MensRights14/12/12 09:12 PM
1

Sure you can be, as long as you arent the type that feels a womans place is in the kitchen. If you want actual equality then sure, if you go with the hard line of the far right, then it would be best if we didnt have you. :)
/r/MensRights14/12/12 09:11 PM
2

It appears she has MRAs confused with Republicans and religious zealots.
/r/MensRights13/12/12 09:43 PM
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Unless of course, men are in dangerous jobs, combat, or dealing with the aftermath of such experiences. Then men have to man up and deal with it, while women should leave them for men who arent dealing with so much trauma.... and have more money.
/r/MensRights13/12/12 09:41 PM
2

Well you are mythical.
/r/MensRights13/12/12 09:38 PM
3

But kittens are so very tasty on a stick with BBQ sauce... babies are just as succulent, but a bit harder to come by.
/r/MensRights13/12/12 09:35 PM
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You know, if he has PTSD, there's a good chance he was not fit to be around children. Some asshat posted this. I am a veteran with PTSD, have been living with it for decades and never, not even once did I harm my kids because of it. My father and older brother do not have PTSD and they harmed me daily growing up, the older brother went so far as to try and kill me on numerous occasions. Poisoning, stabbing, all sorts of things, and its the main reason I have PTSD, the wars I served in didnt help…
/r/MensRights01/12/12 11:56 PM
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Just something I noticed. Due to my employment while dating as a young man, if a woman said "no" I stopped, no matter where we were. Every time they said no and I stopped entirely they got pissed. Seriously pissed. Yet this is what I was told to do, go no farther because no means no, so just stop what you are doing. The fucked up thing, I was still accused of sexual harassment and had a false rape accusation leveled against me despite always stopping entirely when they said no. Two of the harass…
/r/MensRights01/12/12 11:37 PM
5

Some disabilities are not readily apparent, I look ok, can walk, but I have a pronounced limp, and nobody ever offers to let me sit down if the seats are full. The fact of the matter is I can only stand for about two minutes at most, and can only go about two hundred yards a day walking, some days are better than others though. The looks I get when I park in a handicap spot usually change when they notice I walk all fucked up and when I have some clothing that shows I am a Persian Gulf veteran. …
/r/MensRights30/11/12 11:52 PM
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You're a dude, no fucking way is someone going to be nice to you.
/r/MensRights30/11/12 11:43 PM
1

Another good line of defense is to not brag about how much you earn and make sure she has good paying job. You dont even have to even meet her, she can levy the charge at you without any proof. Some states will just take her word for it and hit you with support. I tend to agree that most men give it away and help perpetuate the bullshit, and women are loathe to fix it because they benefit from it so much. It puts men in the realm of not trusting any female, and women automatically go into the ca…
/r/MensRights21/11/12 02:47 PM
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Your ex sounds like my self centered ex, expecting me to make all the decisions, shoulder all the responsibility, but she gets all the privileges. She blames me for our marriage ending, claims I was abusive, and said I didnt spend time with her or try to make it work. At the end I just wanted to avoid her, so I withdrew into my own little world and didnt want to deal with her. Any time I did something nice for her she would start a fight, get violent, then lose the fight when I restrained her so…
/r/MensRights21/11/12 06:20 AM
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Had one female back me into a parked 747, she was still waving me back when I got out and walked back behind the truck to see what why the truck wouldnt move anymore. They stuck me with her because I could pick up her slack, she was utterly worthless. I always got stuck with the worthless twats (male or female) because I could handle so much more than everyone else in my duty section. The factory I worked in had most of the women doing inspection, the guys were running the dangerous machines and…
/r/MensRights21/11/12 06:13 AM
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How delightful is that? A man cant make a false accusation, he needs proof. Some people are more equal than others.
/r/MensRights20/11/12 11:16 PM
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Yes, sadly you are missing something. In most states the woman can claim whatever she likes, and nothing will be done to her legally because it is a divorce proceeding. Also it is very rare there is any legal action taken when a false rape accusation is levied against a man. However, if the false claim wastes police manpower or funding in some way, then she will be prosecuted, but likely receive a much lighter sentence than a man committing the same crime. But of course, men are privileged. My e…
/r/MensRights20/11/12 09:34 PM
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That was the same way I ran my shift in the military. It did not matter if they were male or female, they all did the same job and the same work. Our job was a physical one loading cargo on planes and building pallets to put on planes. Everyone was expected to put in the same effort, and most of them did. I would not allow someone to stand around while everyone else worked because she had 3" nails, which arent allowed by regs anyway. She found herself working, sweating, and those fake nails she …
/r/MensRights20/11/12 09:25 PM
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Because it doesnt work that way, even if it isnt a very good reason.
/r/MensRights20/11/12 08:46 PM
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Ah but any random woman can accuse you of being the father of her fuck trophy, and force you to pay her despite never having fucked her. Once you are paying you are stuck even if it isnt your kid. If you dont make it to the court hearing or get the summons, she wins and you pay in many states. All she needs to know is that you have a good paying job, and she can work the system to fuck you over and you dont even have to know her.
/r/MensRights20/11/12 08:23 PM
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Doesnt matter that he is a prosecutor, he is male and she wont be charged with anything.
/r/MensRights20/11/12 08:19 PM
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It gets better, takes time and effort on your part but it does get better later in life. Im 43, and from about age 8 I was physically and emotionally abused by my parents, older brother (who actually tried to kill me on many occasions and was the source of the majority of my abuse) and kids at school whom my brother told I was gay. I got beaten for being gay, when I am not gay. I endured the same kind of shit you did from your ex as well, and that changes how you think just as much as beatings d…
/r/MensRights20/11/12 07:03 PM
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Physical strength, training, and the capability to severely injure someone are worthless when you are incarcerated and your life ruined if you ever use them to defend yourself against a female. She can beat the shit out of you, hit you with anything, stab you, and assault you in any way she deems fit in some states, and if you retaliate or do anything other than run away, you go to jail and pay fines. She might have to pay a fine if you dont hit her... I am much larger and vastly better trained …
/r/MensRights19/11/12 07:53 PM
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I was told that "not all women are like your ex" which is true, but out of the 150 women I have dated only two werent like my ex. All the rest were on the same power tripping wanting to control me and make me pay for their shopping sprees, and allow them to fuck anyone they wanted. The 50 or so I had long term relationships with all started fights with me over bullshit, wanted only to get into my bank account or get something from me for allowing me the privilege of fucking them, and more than a…
/r/MensRights19/11/12 07:48 PM
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There you go defending rape and advocating that women get raped. /s
/r/MensRights19/11/12 07:32 PM
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Exactly. My ex wife was very abusive, physically violent, and would fuck anyone who bought her a drink or looked at her like they wanted some. Should I have filled her snatch with epoxy?
/r/MensRights19/11/12 08:41 AM
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I asked because I am a disabled desert veteran. My feminist wife agrees, the dude is spot on.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 08:02 AM
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Oh, really. Yeah about that.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 07:57 AM
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What is the toughest job in the world?
/r/MensRights19/11/12 12:31 AM
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I eschew shaving, I keep it trimmed so I dont look like a member of ZZTop or a banjo strumming three tooth guy that demands you to squeal like a pig. One doesnt have to look like the unabomber or an Al Qaeda member... I shaved for most of my adult life in the military, and I just dont see a point to it now. I am not trying to impress anyone. If you dont like my face fur, kiss my ass. If you cant grow one, no worries, soon the hair will grow so thick on your face you will need two razors to knock…
/r/MensRights19/11/12 12:14 AM
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Men can never be abused or assaulted by women and if they are they must not defend themselves because what damage can a girl do?
/r/MensRights11/11/12 09:44 PM
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Death isnt so bad, unless it happens to a cute blonde.
/r/MensRights11/11/12 09:41 PM
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Personal responsibility? Surely you jest! We cant be having that now can we? The helpless who will not to anything to protect themselves need protection even if its from irrational fears! Everyone needs to be bubble wrapped and all the men need to be locked up because they have all the equipment needed for rape and sodomy!
/r/MensRights11/11/12 09:40 PM
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Also a list of these so called "one off" stories shows a trend. Without knowledge of these trends there will be no studies or stats.
/r/MensRights09/11/12 05:30 PM
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My feminist wife doesnt think it is hating on women, just showing that people can be twats. Perhaps you are putting too much emphasis on the genders, whereas others just want to point out that women are not all sugar and spice. It might be hatred to you, but its reality to the rest of us. Maybe I am just more realistic about it after having to live with an abusive woman for 8 years, who then took my kids and got rewarded for this type of behavior by the state. She was very physically violent and…
/r/MensRights09/11/12 05:29 PM
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Considering there is a theme of women getting lighter sentences, an underlying myth that women dont lie about things that will affect someone's life, its good to bring these stories to the attention of others. There is an obvious trend towards taking the woman's word for it simply based on gender here in the US. It happens in schools and in the courts. Its based on the myth that women are the only people abused in bad relationships, and that anything they do is justifiable because obviously the …
/r/MensRights09/11/12 06:58 AM
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If he wants to get kicked some more, or cut while he sleeps.
/r/MensRights09/11/12 06:28 AM
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My med Dr changes every couple years, lots of fun there. Seems like its some sort of community service for them. I usually know more than my VA shrinks about PTSD and living with it, so if I see one of them its more to help them learn about it than to help myself. Sad but true. I have only had one shrink who actually helped with it, but he was at an outside practice and they cancelled the contract back in 09. Right now I am having medical issues more than mental, they keep trying all sorts of st…
/r/MensRights08/11/12 02:29 PM
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That is tough to deal with, I went through that back in the 90s. The ex knew not to shake me to wake me up. For some reason, having kids did lots to fix it for me. Thankfully I havent hit the wife I have now, but she has been scared before, and she usually just talks to me to wake me from a nightmare. DOnt worry about getting back in time. I have had VA appointments all week, another one tomorrow. Hopefully they can figure out whats wrong and fix it.
/r/MensRights08/11/12 06:19 AM
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"I'll never get over Macho Grande" Thats funny, its the same thing that came to me. The macabre humor that goes with this thing in our heads is all over in that movie. The wife calls me an "inappropriate sim" because I am prone to saying and doing things that most people wouldnt, due to the filter being skewed. You can get better at dealing with it, but sadly it will never be gone. You can utilize some of it to be advantageous though. I dont get speeding tickets because I spot the cops long befo…
/r/MensRights02/11/12 11:36 PM
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I spent years trying to find someone like her, 8 years of it in a horrible marriage with an abusive woman. The ex taught me what I absolutely dont want in a relationship, and that allowed me to see what I wanted. Then I started looking for a woman that had most of what I wanted, and found one that had almost all of it. Simple stupid luck and asking questions of others found her. No small task. Every relationship I had before her failed almost the same way. They left me for someone else. It took …
/r/MensRights02/11/12 11:29 PM
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I've lost 7 friends that way, and more thanks to two wars in the desert. I have come very close myself, and its a constant struggle to keep those thoughts at bay. In the roughly 30 mental health professionals I have talked to over the last 35 years, two were helpful. One female on my base in Korea actually said I was far more advanced at dealing with this shit than she had been educated, and all she could do is give me some meds. At least she was honest. They have no idea what its like for guys …
/r/MensRights01/11/12 03:35 PM
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I was told to grow up, get over it, and stop worrying about the past by everyone except for one shrink. He helped me get through it all and document everything so I could get SSDI and survive easier after getting fucked up on my last deployment in 04. The VA cancelled the contract with his practice for us desert guys, but the Vietnam guys can still have their group there. Now I have a female shrink through the VA that is like the OP described. I scare the shit out of her too. Having PTSD doesnt …
/r/MensRights01/11/12 03:09 PM
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She didnt ask for alimony, if she had I would have had nothing to live on, and there is no way I could have paid it all. Her lawyer probably advised her against it, because I made jack shit at the time the stuff went through the courts. He probably knew she wouldnt get anything, and all it would do is drive me to offing myself. There is no way to have second and third jobs while active duty with the current deployment system, so I would have been paid nothing, and the military would have ended u…
/r/MensRights01/11/12 02:25 PM
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Supposedly capped. They said no more than 68% of my pay would be taken, so with pay of $1740 a month I had to pay $1000 a month. They also claimed that they would leave me with at least $950 to live on every month, but for an entire year it was $100-$150 a month. Apparently taxes dont matter, because she doesnt have to pay them on the money she gets for simply pushing kids out of her. Even when my ex got remarried the amount was not lowered, now I am supporting both of them, and neither of them …
/r/MensRights31/10/12 05:12 PM
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He lives in poverty so she doesnt have to work to support herself or the kids. That sounds like my life.
/r/MensRights31/10/12 05:05 PM
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I dont mind paying support, but being left with $100 a month while on active duty was a bit much. If the parents split, both should work to support the kids, not just put one in poverty so the other can sit around the house and get fat. She got most of my pay, nearly 80% before taxes, and I was left living on friends couches and in my car while serving my country. When I was disabled back in 05, I had no income and they still wanted me to pay the full amount. They would not budge on lowering it.…
/r/MensRights20/10/12 01:13 PM
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Well sure, but who pays for the minor? The parent. Its not her responsibility until she is 19, until that age she is either mine or my ex's. So having her arrested or put in a group home would be a pretty fucked up thing to do to her, and I would still have to pay for everything. Meanwhile her mother gets off with nothing, and she is the fucking cause of the problem.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 01:05 PM
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There are some good ones out there. The woman I am married to now understands how I am getting fucked over, how bad my ex has fucked up my kid, she is intelligent, educated, ambitious, driven, and we treat each other as equals. We have not ever had a screaming match and certainly no abuse at all, we might argue about something but it is reasonable and logical. She is everything my ex isnt, and that is why I married her. It was for her benefit so she could get medical/health care from the VA syst…
/r/MensRights20/10/12 12:58 PM
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Yeah she can suck off the government tit after her current provider leaves her.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 12:54 PM
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Run, leave the kids so she can then abuse them? The only other option is to just stand there and take it to defend your kids from their crazy mother. Been there done that, and managed not to get arrested when that bitch should have gone to jail and lost the kids. The fucked up thing is she was rewarded for being abusive and I was punished for being a good dad. Reality sucks.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 12:51 PM
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I am used to it now. I dont expect to get a fair deal when it comes to women and the state.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 08:38 PM
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They wanted to make sure she knew it was wrong, and now I am unable to reinforce that idea in her head since she is back with shoplifting mom. edit I am a disabled veteran living on a very fixed income and her mother was getting a big chunk of my money even when the kid was living here. The state wouldnt make her pay support, instead they made me pay her for not having the kid. It just gets better and better.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 08:37 PM
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Kinda what my ex did. The fun part is now she is almost 40, 5'4" and 240lbs, married to a guy that is fed up with her shit, and once the child support runs out from me she is screwed. The only way he has enough money to support her is through me, the guy has no spine, but I know he wont take her bullshit much longer, besides the guy is 54 now with a heart condition... It comes back to bite them, because people like that dont think about the future, they only think about right now and what they c…
/r/MensRights19/10/12 08:28 PM
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She was fined $250, which I had to pay, 45 hours of community service, and she had to buy $80 worth of stuff from the store and donate it. Plus she had to pay the store $200. I got stuck with the bill because she was living with me for the year. Her mother never told her shoplifting was wrong, as her mother and step sisters do it constantly. When I made her work to pay it all off, she then decided to go live with her mother again. She had been living here for two months, and was staying at a fri…
/r/MensRights19/10/12 08:11 PM
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Not surprising to me. The cops who showed at my house laughed when they found out my ex was abusing me. Par for the course when a woman attacks a man in some places.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 07:01 PM
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My kid got more than that for shoplifting $80 worth of shit.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 06:56 PM
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Very very true.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 05:23 PM
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Sounds more like she was trying to cover her ass after fucking up and letting kids see her pics. So she has to be a victim and start the ball rolling to make them appear to be in the wrong, otherwise the blame will fall on her and she will lose her job.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 05:15 PM
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I know not everyone with bi polar is like her, so no need to apologize. I was relieved and actually happy when she finally left, the bad part was she took my kids and I didnt get to see them for two years, and then over the next few years only got to see them for 12 days. 7 years and less than two weeks with them, it was rough, I feel like she stole their childhoods from me. The worst thing is she let both of my daughters get molested, and then she didnt give a shit about it. She just said, "Wel…
/r/MensRights17/10/12 04:56 AM
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I didnt downvote you at all. Also shove your arrogance and ignorance up your ass, ok? I am rather large, muscular, a combat veteran, and used to wrestle in school and in the military. Trust me I can defend myself and someone who can move a 1500lb box by hand is not what you would call a wimp. Yet I was married to someone who was bi polar and rapid cycling. She was about 100lbs lighter than I was. 140lbs vs 240lbs. I was laughed at by the cops for the exact thing you claimed, that women cannot se…
/r/MensRights17/10/12 01:38 AM
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Its not sarcastic nor hateful, it is simply an accurate and non sugar coated assessment of my life and experience. Veteran (disabled after two wars) Divorced and left to live out of my car while serving my country. Abused by my ex who also abused my kids and she was rewarded for it. They are still taking my disability despite her having an income greater than mine, and neither kid living with her. Sorry, I am just a wallet or an ATM. edit I dont hate women, I truly feel they should be equal, not…
/r/MensRights17/10/12 01:23 AM
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So I can go around slapping women because it is just disrespectful. Ok got it.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 07:12 AM
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That is what I was referencing. Men dont matter, we are expendable, only our income matters.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 07:02 AM
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Men dying in wars? Misogyny! The real victims of war are the wives and mothers!
/r/MensRights15/10/12 11:05 PM
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I was making a statement about how people assume women are helpless, weaker, non violent, and almost always victims. Its the underlying reason there are people who claim the driver was wrong, when he surely could have gone much farther than he did, he showed quite a bit of restraint. Let me preface this: I grew up severely abused, beaten almost daily for 8 years but family members and people in school, then later by my 130lb bi polar ex wife. My nature is not violent, but I have been trained by …
/r/MensRights14/10/12 09:57 PM
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Fuck this namby pamby take the beating and run away bullshit. What the fuck has our country come to? Just let someone assault you and hope the police show up to save you?
/r/MensRights14/10/12 09:09 PM
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Oh but its just a helpless defenseless woman, what harm could she really do to him? She is too tiny and insignificant to really hurt anyone, these poor victims with vaginas need protection from the aggressive ultra violent males and their external genitalia. He needed to man up and just take it, let her on the bus for free, and then have himself arrested for even speaking to her. Fuck that shit. If people decide they can be violent, they should be replied to in kind. There has got to be conseque…
/r/MensRights14/10/12 09:02 PM
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I guess having been in the military changed my way of thinking. People are not judged by gender, race, country of origin, or creed when everything is working as it should. There were some who decided to be prejudiced and biased due to one of those, but it is prohibited so they have to do it under the table and work with others to justify fucking someone over. We had atheists, christians, muslims, jews and a sikh in my last unit. We had all manner of races even a guy from Ukraine. Men, women, gay…
/r/MensRights12/10/12 11:18 PM
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Plus she gets most of his income until she dies.
/r/MensRights11/10/12 09:19 PM
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I think I would take wearing high heels and painting my toenails over dealing with the end result of combat, having my kids torn from me and my abusive ex rewarded for it, and being financially ruined by the state while serving my country. That bitch needs to pull her head out of her entitled little ass and smell the aroma of reality. Some people actually have to work for a living, some risk their lives at their jobs, not just enduring the terrible threat of a broken nail.. My wife would bitchsl…
/r/MensRights10/10/12 09:33 PM
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I agreed with your assertion about the title, and I agree its better to stick to logical arguments. The problem arises when logic doesnt work because there are no studies to show that women are violent abusers more often than the rare mother who drowns or stabs her kids.
/r/MensRights09/10/12 06:51 PM
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To me it shows me I was not alone in having a wife abusing me. The fucked up thing is she accuses me of abuse, projection is a rather strong skill of hers. Where I came from men are not considered victims of spousal abuse, they can only be perpetrators. There is a reason I dont live in Nebraska anymore, and that is most of it.
/r/MensRights09/10/12 09:58 AM
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If she is abusing you, get documentation, photos, recordings, video, whatever you can to prove you were defending yourself against an aggressor. I had cops show up and all they did was laugh because a 140lb woman was beating on her 230lb ex military/powerlifter/wrestler husband. One even said "learn to control your wife" if you can believe that. If you dont have proof of her shit, they wont listen to you at all and you will get fucked over while she is rewarded for being horrible.
/r/MensRights09/10/12 09:55 AM
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I agree the headline is misleading. only that they are responsible for 70% of a specific type of DV That would be the kind where the man doesnt fight back because he knows if he does she gets everything and he loses his freedom for an unspecified time, along with his reputation being shattered. She can often do whatever she wants with impunity, because if he fights back she wins, if he doesnt she still wins because nobody gives a fuck about men being abused. Throw in the guy is far larger, she i…
/r/MensRights09/10/12 01:26 AM
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One way to improve on ideas, methods, or almost anything is to be critical of it. If you cant be critical of it, then it is static at best. If they simply delete comments they dont agree with, they are just being tin pot dictators, not moderating a discussion. Everyone agreeing and dissent being removed will only take things farther down the rabbit hole to oblivion or tyranny.
/r/MensRights07/10/12 08:02 PM
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If a woman cheats its because the man didnt fulfill her needs adequately, its obviously something he did wrong, she is a victim of his inadequacy. If a man cheats its because he is lowlife scum and she is the victim in that case. You see men are incapable of resisting temptation, if we see an ass shaking in front of our eyes, will will fuck it. If we see a girl look our way, we will fuck it. We are slaves to our genitalia, and helpless to stop anything we do. That is why women dress like beekeep…
/r/MensRights07/10/12 06:48 PM
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Yep, you're scared of going in the military. Its ok, not everyone is mentally capable or physically able. I dont need to protect my ego and I have made good choices and bad, enlisting was not one of them. The main reason being, now I am retired (since age 35) have free medical for the rest of my life, and my wife is taken care of until she is gone too. Compared to how I grew up being abused and treated like shit and civilian jobs keeping me from going up when I was the most qualified, the milita…
/r/MensRights04/10/12 05:30 PM
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Obviously you have no idea what you are talking about. Been watching too much Full Metal Jacket, or perhaps you are simply afraid to serve.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 03:14 PM
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I know, its obvious she was not into it in the pic. She should never have married him, she wasnt cut out for what disability entails. Some people arent. There is another veteran who lost all but one appendage, his wife stayed with him and cares for him instead of finding someone else. Its not because she is bound by law or public opinion, its because she cares about the guy and wants to be there for him. The issue I have is that the Marine was not the only person who could have stopped the marri…
/r/MensRights02/10/12 10:24 PM
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That is some fucked up logic along the lines of if you sign up you deserve it. Its akin to saying because you have a drivers license and a drunk driver hits you, you agreed to come home fucked up without a car. Everything we do in life is based on risk assessment, you take risks every day, doesnt matter if you walk to the store or drive, there is a chance something could kill or maim you on the way, or even at home if you stayed in. That becomes especially clear when you come home without a scra…
/r/MensRights02/10/12 07:37 PM
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I wouldnt marry anyone because they deserved it, but if my wife that I have right now got burned on one of her firefighting scenes, I would not divorce her. Yes I am a disabled veteran, she is a firefighter, and no I would not leave her because of who she is. She didnt dump me when I got fucked up in the desert, and she works around my limitations along with me. It is who we are, not what we look like as to why we stay together. Id she were shallow or only concerned with how I look, she would be…
/r/MensRights02/10/12 06:59 PM
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Oh of course he is at fault. Every one of us veterans that get fucked up should just live alone and have nobody who cares about us, so we dont harm anyone else. Maybe after serving and coming home less than we were when we left, we should just shoot ourselves in the head because obviously the Taliban/insurgents didnt get the job done right.
/r/MensRights02/10/12 06:20 PM
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The fucked up part is that is not an example of a strong independent woman, instead its a self absorbed manipulative twat. The guy being late might have been the best thing he ever did, who would want to be with someone that shallow and ill behaved??
/r/MensRights02/10/12 06:33 AM
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Well I didnt get seriously involved with any of the women I dated after my ex took off with my kids, until I met this one. It took quite a bit of looking, knowing EXACTLY what I wanted in a partner, and some dumb luck. After the one I was married to before, anything was an improvement, but I wanted to have more than someone who was ok, I looked for the one that fit me best. Equal partners fits me best, we both have our own lives, and share one together is the best way to put it. If women dont wa…
/r/MensRights02/10/12 12:39 AM
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I dont have a problem paying to support my kids, if she would actually do that rather than neglect them like she has. When it left me homeless and living in my car, and on friends couches for two years while serving in the US military because I barely had enough to eat all month, then it was more than just supporting my kids, it was punishing me. Seriously, $1000 a month support for two kids, and my pay was $1740 gross. The only benefit I got those two years was I got paid the earned income cred…
/r/MensRights01/10/12 08:44 PM
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If you dont weigh the evidence and just go on the word of the accuser, what you have is a Witch Trial, not a Judicial Proceeding. My wife identifies as feminist, as in she wants equality for both genders and doesnt see a difference as far as law, evidence and responsibility. She agrees that women who falsely accuse someone of rape should be punished for it, including jail time, because of the effect it has on men and on women who are legitimate rape victims. She knows I was falsely accused, and …
/r/MensRights01/10/12 08:25 PM
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The thing is it is all fucked up. I know women who pay nothing despite having jobs, others who cant work that are in debt like I am to the state, men who live out of their cars because the state keeps upping the support, and disabled women who get a pittance from their ex compared to what my worthless ex gets from me. The disabled woman lives half a mile from me, I fix her car for her so she can get around, has three kids gets $600 for them. What the fuck. She cant work and has to live on next t…
/r/MensRights01/10/12 08:11 PM
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Spending money on lawyers just makes them richer, it doesnt do shit for us because the lawyer cant change the laws, they can only put things in wording the courts will like. Try getting a lawyer when you have $100 a month because they are taking the rest for support. Try to get the state to follow their own laws regarding how much they can take and how much they have to leave you to live without a lawyer. Apparently there are two things going on here. 1. The idea is women are helpless, incapable…
/r/MensRights01/10/12 05:40 PM
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Holy shit, that is exactly how I was treated, both by a rather embarrassingly large group of women, and also the state of Nebraska. Just a wallet, a source of income for her despite all the abhorrent shit she did. It makes sense now. Sexism can only be against women, if its the other way around then its equality, right?
/r/MensRights30/09/12 10:54 PM
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I agree entirely. Men get almost no benefit from marriage, it is all to the womans benefit. That might be part of why so many people have an issue with gay marriage, there is no helpless lesser gender to give everything to that the other has worked for.
/r/MensRights28/09/12 03:29 PM
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The problem is, after the divorce you will still be required to pay her most of your income, because she is helpless and incapable of sustaining herself.
/r/MensRights27/09/12 05:24 PM
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Shit I was doing it in 5th grade, along with my class, and the only girl at the parochial school. Everyone is right, this has nothing to do with anything about why we are here.
/r/MensRights27/09/12 06:36 AM
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I agree, but if they dont want a man in their lives, then they will never see it. Also some women are aware of it being fucked up for anyone regardless of gender, so we dont always need to show them. I was as surprised to find that out as anyone, I always thought women just thought of us as a wallet, a means to go shopping where we work and they spend. Then I met this one and found out differently. It was refreshing.
/r/MensRights26/09/12 12:43 AM
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My mother in law and wife are kinda like that. They dont want to be better than men, they just want to be treated equally. About the only thing my MIL and I dont agree on in that respect is I love porn, she doesnt. My wife doesnt give a damn about what I look at or watch, she is also a firefighter and understands how men are getting so fucked over by so many laws. She is aware of it because I have been fucked by family law and my horrible abusive ex. She can see it first hand, and she knows abou…
/r/MensRights25/09/12 07:21 AM
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That is the reason I dont go there. I give advice that isnt based on the white knight bullshit, and suddenly it is never to be seen again from the down votes. They dont want to hear it from someone who has been there, fine, fuck em.
/r/MensRights24/09/12 07:19 PM
1

Try older women, they still like phone calls and can text too.
/r/MensRights22/09/12 06:07 PM
2

The woman I am married to now is childfree, and I got out of the gene pool a few years back. Nobody will ever hold the power to take my kids away from me again. I never really wanted kids, the ex kind of did the "oops Im knocked up" thing. The only reason I am married now is because she has some health issues and I have coverage for her from the VA, otherwise we were more than happy to just live together. As it is, she and I are free to leave or do whatever we want, as long as we are honest abou…
/r/MensRights21/09/12 08:33 PM
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Then people would have to go out and work, actually do something to earn their way, we cant have that for helpless victims. I dont mind supporting the kids, but she should put something in too, not just sit around watching TV and going shopping with the money she gets due to my lifes work.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 08:27 PM
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Thanks for that I will pass it along. I grew up abused, physically, emotionally, but not sexually. I wanted my kids to grow up without that in their life. The ex seemed to want them to have it, but I think really she is just too self centered and self absorbed to understand what it does to them. They are a justification for her, a bargaining chip. All I wanted to do was protect them from all of that, and I failed. Everything I have used to find ways around my PTSD from my life isnt useful to the…
/r/MensRights21/09/12 08:26 PM
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None of the gay friends I have wear their hair that way, I really dont have more than 4 gay friends though.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 07:32 PM
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Women dont actively seek sex.. They should talk to my wife.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 07:29 PM
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Its all about punishing the male. It did not matter she was abusive to me and the kids, that the cops laughed at the marks, bruises and torn clothing on me and asked if I hit her or left any marks on her. She got the kids, and I got the bills. She got the paycheck and I lived on friends couches and in my car for two years while serving in the US military with $100 a month to my name. Then she wanted to bitch at me about the house being foreclosed, well she could have moved in and paid for it wit…
/r/MensRights21/09/12 08:32 AM
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I make it a point to be a kid in an adult body. Sure I am responsible and respectful and know when to act it, but I appreciate the little things, find fun in almost anything. My toys have gotten more expensive, but I am still just a big kid. So is my brother who teaches people to fly choppers in the Army. It is kinda surreal having her tell me about what happened to her in 1988, about the same time I was in basic training, and she was just a little kid. She sent christmas cards to us military gu…
/r/MensRights21/09/12 08:06 AM
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Indeed it does get messed up. The really fucked up thing is how many of the kids suffer because of one parent's lack of planning, loyalty and any sense of responsibility or morality. I have a wonderful woman now, who is independent, uses logic and reason, is ambitious, educated, and has a drive to succeed despite the challenges put before her. Its the closest thing to equal partners I have had, and though I have more passive income than she does, she has much more responsibility. Sadly I couldnt…
/r/MensRights21/09/12 07:48 AM
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The second half is interesting. The problem is, in the state where I grew up, if the mother isnt doing right by the kid, the state just takes them. The father gets no say in it at all. The being in jail part fits, but they treat military members like that. In my home state you are unfit as a parent being a male in the military. Guess how I know.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 06:41 AM
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They can also take more than you earn. If you get a second job, you have to pay more. If you become disabled for any reason, you still have to pay the same amount, even if you have no income at all. Guess how I know.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 06:39 AM
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Maybe thats how it works in your state. Mine is take 68% of what the man makes, give it to her no matter what. They are supposed to leave you at least $950 a month to live on, but they sure as fuck didnt with me. They actually got almost 80% from me. What was the ex putting in? Not a fucking thing. She worked one job, in a rest home, and quit before they fired her for being abusive to the residents. Bitch is almost 40 and has worked a grand total of 3 months in her entire life. For the last 19 y…
/r/MensRights21/09/12 06:37 AM
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Indentured servitude has its drawbacks. Have come quite close many times myself, and one of my friends lost her BF to suicide just last year. The reason he did it was the same as the one I nearly did. Having our kids taken away, and then our financial ability to survive being taken, and the manipulative controlling freak we had a kid with getting rewarded for being horrible while we are punished. Combine that with everyone telling men they are idiots, incapable, worthless, and its funny when we …
/r/MensRights21/09/12 01:33 AM
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We arent the only ones. Its quite common to have women treat men this way, and then they are rewarded for it or treated as victims. That is part of why this subreddit exists. To let other guys know they arent alone, and to let them know what to do when faced with this kind of shit. The problem is, people tend to believe that women are helpless and never abusive until they live it. At that point they think they are alone, then they come here or meet one of us and realize the problem is much bigge…
/r/MensRights21/09/12 12:43 AM
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The state is now aware of what happened to my youngest when she was 13, havent heard how its going. I thought the ex would do something about it, get the state involved, but no she blew it off. The state found out when my kid wrote an essay about it and the teacher flipped. The oldest (18 now) has repressed memories coming back, along with nightmares and other shit. She says something happened when she was in first grade, give or take a year. That is right after the ex left with them, and was sh…
/r/MensRights21/09/12 12:32 AM
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That is what she did when we were married. She would push and push, getting more violent until she got the reaction from me she wanted. The one thing she never got from me, that she obviously wanted, was for me to hit her, pound her into pulp so she could show everyone she is a victim. Escalation is the name of the game with manipulative women. She also tried desperately to make me do what her dad did, pack up and leave. Ended up she left and accused me of everything she had done. She needed no …
/r/MensRights20/09/12 06:48 PM
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Same here with my ex, its all about vengeance and money so she didnt have to work a real job and earn her way. She wanted a handout, no responsibility, but all the benefits. Well the child support is ending, her current husband is about tired of her shit, and she lives off him and my checks. Once he leaves her, she will have nothing and nobody will want her.
/r/MensRights20/09/12 06:34 PM
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Exactly what I would do. My ex does that, finds more subversive ways to do things once she is called out on her bullshit. Just let them rant and rave, and be aware that the state will take her word for it, and there isnt enough proof you can provide to show how nuts, abusive, or violent she is unless she robs a bank. Even then they will probably throw you in jail for it.... ok maybe not, but I bet they want to.
/r/MensRights20/09/12 06:31 PM
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Same exact thing my ex does. Everything she accuses me of doing, she is doing herself. It becomes especially apparent when I have done no such thing, yet she harps on it as if she knows it happened. It did happen, but she did it, not me.
/r/MensRights20/09/12 06:17 PM
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So they still want to feel superior to other atheists so they start A+ in an effort to do so. Sounds like they miss being theists and the ability to feel better than everyone else over trivial bullshit. Gender should not matter nearly as much as it does. They are just as bad as the people who think women are second class or property. They help perpetuate that myth.
/r/MensRights13/09/12 05:22 PM
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I showed on SRS once. It was about being raped through my wallet, which kinda fits because the effects of being homeless with $100 a month to live on leaves a lasting impression. They took issue with it, I ignored them. In the end this is a website I dont have to visit, karma buys me nothing, and their opinion matters not. If I really wanted to get their attention it isnt hard. I just dont give a shit about their agenda, I just dont want anyone else losing everything because they happened to get…
/r/MensRights13/09/12 05:19 PM
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So, that means unless you subscribe to the ideology that men are scum, and women are superior but downtrodden, you arent educated enough to speak there?
/r/MensRights13/09/12 04:14 PM
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My name is not on there. How the hell can that be? Also took issue with this particular bit. In order to be an MRA that rejects feminism, you have to believe that there is a massive conspiracy among social scientists that are hiding the truth in favor of an agenda. That's why many prominent MRAs are also conspiracy theorists, for example GirlWritesWhat denies global warming. So many assumptions here. I dont need a social scientist or a conspiracy theory to know that I was homeless while serving …
/r/MensRights13/09/12 04:11 PM
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I was 38 and disabled when I started the process, my wife is 13 years younger than me and child free. We definitely didnt want kids. At least the VA was more concerned with me suddenly wanting kids and wanting ti reversed, which is more expense for them. Its simple really, I didnt want any kids graduating high school when I was over 65, and I didnt want anyone being able to take kids from me again then rake me over the coals financially. I climbed out of that gene pool so I wouldnt have to be an…
/r/MensRights13/09/12 03:50 PM
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Mine was 09 and the VA asked me about 50 times if I was sure, even while in the room with my junk on display and 5 nurses playing with it. The last thing I want is another kid, and they gave me the run around for almost a year before they would do it.
/r/MensRights13/09/12 03:29 PM
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I am still surprised I finally found a good partner. Had to kiss lots of trolls to find her. Moral of the story, dont settle for someone that treats you like shit.
/r/MensRights13/09/12 12:54 AM
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I was abused by my ex too. Didnt trust any female for 4 years after she finally left. I took my time and found a woman that wasnt abusive or violent, and dated then lived with her for 7 years before we got married. The only reason we got married was so she could get health insurance, she was more than happy to just be together as was I. So now we are coming up on ten years together and have had zero fights. We argue and disagree, but we dont get mad at each other. Its a world of difference when …
/r/MensRights12/09/12 05:27 PM
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Nobody is on your side. Welcome to the privilege of having external genitalia. My ex would beat me, hit me with stuff, was very abusive towards the kids and myself. Yet she was the protected one and she was rewarded for her abusive behavior. I am still being punished for nothing more than being male, but thankfully only four more years to go before my youngest is 19. After that I will have no contact with the ex and her family at all.
/r/MensRights12/09/12 05:17 PM
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When this happens to a guy, they take everything and if he gets a second or third job they take all of that too, there is little recourse left. I would agree, its wrong to kill her but ruining her life is near impossible. I got fucked over by the state and my horrible ex too, but she didnt ask for alimony. If she had, she would have gotten nothing, because I would have eaten a .45 ACP or 12 gauge 00 buck. She has ruined our youngest daughters life, made her into a twisted version of herself. Tha…
/r/MensRights05/09/12 10:49 PM
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Well he fucked her you see, so now she is damaged goods and no other man will want her. So she has to get the farm his family had so she can support herself, because no man will support her now. She cant have his dead parents on the property because that is just creepy, its not like they worked for it or earned the right to rest there or anything. This is a helpless creature we are talking about, she cant do it all on her own, so he must give everything so she can live comfortably. Makes perfect…
/r/MensRights04/09/12 06:25 PM
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To me it falls under the "No shit" category. Most males are not rapists, pedophiles or murderers, just like most women arent. The only people I have heard making the argument that men cant control themselves and women must wear modest clothing that covers them are religious types. The idea that we are incapable of doing the right thing unless an invisible sky wizard threatens to punish us is ludicrous. Like someone else stated, people are not born rapists, they learn that sort of thing from the …
/r/MensRights04/09/12 05:34 PM
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I dont know, how about we go to Saudi Arabia and ask someone that holds that belief at their very core? It can be male or female there. Myself, women could walk around naked and I still wouldnt go around raping them, wanting to rape them, or even thinking about raping them. It just isnt part of the way I think and certainly not what I want. The less they wear, the more I will look, but looking isnt rape, it isnt objectification, its just looking.
/r/MensRights04/09/12 05:24 PM
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Pretty sure the guy isnt in the US so federal and HIPPA doesnt apply.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 08:37 AM
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Honestly, being military was the only reason I liked republicans. Now that I am out and disabled, I dont like them so much. Of course that is before they got taken over by right wing nutters pushing religion into everything, wouldnt have liked that even while I was military. Job security meant keeping the military budget up, because I lost my job in 1992 when they decided we didnt need so many people after the Berlin Wall came down in 89. I went back in 2000 because I heard they were going to th…
/r/MensRights29/08/12 05:54 PM
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It used to be far bigger when Reagan was President. That is when I went in, and the military was a very different animal back then. Now they have decided to limit manpower but keep the equipment, so you end up working and deploying at the rate five or more people would have when Reagan was the boss. What saddens me about all of it is that we could be much better off if we halved the defense budget, brought most of the people home, and invested the money here instead of in protecting oil fields. …
/r/MensRights29/08/12 05:15 PM
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I was remembering the four closest to us combined. Thanks for the correction.
/r/MensRights29/08/12 04:56 PM
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Quite. The 1930s werent exactly rife with equality for the genders, and that is when the draft system we have now was put in effect.
/r/MensRights29/08/12 04:37 PM
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It depends on the scale of the conflict and who we are fighting. The chances of draft are slim unless there is a coalition against us or China. Part of why we havent needed the draft is we spend vastly more than everyone else combined on our military, which is a double edged sword.
/r/MensRights29/08/12 04:36 PM
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We are supposed to take the beatings, not tell anyone, and just endure it until we are big enough to do it to others. When he gets a bit older, get him a .357 and teach him to use it, that is the 'mans' way of doing things.
/r/MensRights26/08/12 10:05 PM
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BUT WOMEN NEVER DO ANYTHING VIOLENT LIKE THIS! It has to be a setup by the patriarchy!
/r/MensRights24/08/12 10:44 PM
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The chance of getting an STD is about the only thing I see to feel any regret about with how many women I have been with. Thankfully I didnt catch anything, but to say I used those women or hurt them in some way is ludicrous. If they ended up being a one night stand it was their choice, not mine.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 04:29 PM
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Its the only way to perpetuate the victimhood they want to keep, they want to control everything but still be victims. Bullshit like that is only a power struggle, and it does nothing to further a gender or make things better for everyone.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 03:41 PM
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Its just plain how it is. You see women are helpless, and they need all they can get, so any man who gets to even see her vagina must pay for it. If he fucks it, then he must pay for it until he dies. Kansas says women are 2nd class beings less capable and worthy than men, that is why men must pay even if the woman rapes him.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 07:38 AM
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Not only award her the kids, but they awarded her 80% of my pay. Supposedly the law in that state says only 68% of your pay can be taken, but they left me with next to nothing and rewarded her for being horrible. Its not like she spent any of the $1000 a month she got from me on them. She lived in HUD housing and had to pay $6 a month rent. Got food stamps, and everything else from the state she could. When the state made her get a job, she quit before she was fired for abusing the rest home res…
/r/MensRights22/08/12 04:28 PM
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Yet people wonder where the hostility comes from.
/r/MensRights22/08/12 01:24 AM
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Ive been accused of both of those, the former for not giving her a car after we had sex, and the latter for saying "Hi, you look nice today." Sounds like made up BS, but its what actually happened. I stopped talking to women, especially those in the military with me, for years and resorted to meeting women online so I could get to know them before meeting them. I was an abused spouse to a woman 100lbs lighter than me. Cops laughed at me. The state took my kids from me and rewarded her for cheati…
/r/MensRights21/08/12 09:07 PM
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I have PTSD, childhood abuse and two wars have made me an interesting person to live with. Having a bi polar spouse did not fit well with my disorder. It got to the point where I was doing anything to avoid her, working 70 hours a week, spending all my time in my garage working on my cars, anything to not be around her. She would start a fight over anything, and then get very violent. The neighbors would call the cops and I would be bruised, scratched, bleeding, and have shit thrown so hard at m…
/r/MensRights21/08/12 03:42 PM
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I know, meds kinda work for her, but she stops taking them all the time. The worst part of my life was trying to figure out what was wrong with her before I had any idea what bi polar was. She made everything out to be my fault, and I believed her. I honestly empathize with anyone who has that disorder, and anyone that lives with them. Her days of rapid cycling were the worst, and I couldnt do anything nice for her without her starting a fight so she could feel like a victim again, instead of fe…
/r/MensRights21/08/12 03:02 PM
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I want a show where my ex wife gets a jolt of 50k volts with almost no amps every time she misbehaves toward our youngest kid. Maybe the shock therapy would help with her bi polar and being an abusive bitch. I dont have to live with her or even see her, but the poor kid does.
/r/MensRights21/08/12 02:47 PM
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I was in the US military for two wars, didnt get killed, and have only known a handful of people who did. Most of them died due to accidents both related to duty and not related. Two were killed by friendly fire in northern Iraq while supporting the Kurds and enforcing the no fly zone. I know this isnt very popular with the younger generation, but the military isnt as terrifying as people seem to think it is. It isnt a death sentence and you get some very nice benefits even if you dont get hurt,…
/r/MensRights19/08/12 05:43 PM
2

I've been quite successful at finding exactly what doesnt work through many mistakes.
/r/MensRights18/08/12 02:21 PM
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I dont like strip clubs, its like mental masturbation with no payoff, but it costs you to get in and then if you are stupid enough, tips. I am glad to hear that you avoided that in your life, speaks volumes about you. I dont watch it often, and if I do check out another woman its because I appreciate the aesthetics of the human form, much like how I appreciate nature. My ex was a bitch, part of the reason she was so jealous is she was fucking every willing swinging dick she could find. She is ab…
/r/MensRights18/08/12 02:12 PM
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My wife has your attitude about pron, she thinks its funny at times but doesnt get turned on by it. She isnt self conscious and doesnt find it threatening, and she has no problem with me looking at whatever I want, even other women in public. We point out people to each other that we think are interesting or attractive, so she is lots of fun. Contrast her with my ex wife, and I didnt even have to be looking at another woman and she got mad because some woman was walking down the street I was dri…
/r/MensRights18/08/12 01:45 PM
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How about we use more creative words than the typical 13 year olds limited vocabulary can provide? I know I can come up with vastly more inventive and utterly repugnant words and phrases than most gamers are capable of uttering. Does it have to only be those two tired and largely ineffectual words?
/r/MensRights18/08/12 03:50 AM
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I think its kinda funny too. Nothing to get irate about, its just silly.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 01:50 AM
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That makes you want to punch a wall? Interesting. Somehow I just dont see the issue with the pic, which might be because it is so silly and retarded that it cant be serious. Sure someone might take it seriously, but if anyone doesnt know themselves well enough to know what they actually like or not and why, well they have plenty of growing up to do. Sorry, I just see other things that are more important to get worked up over.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 01:40 AM
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Agree with girth, it can really put a damper on the fun, but with some effort it will usually go ok. I found some women are shorter inside than others, generally the shorter women have less depth, but not always. So many things are different about each person, its hard to quantify things like that. I bottomed in my ex-wife all the time, and the woman I am married to know could take two more inches than I am, but my girth often makes her sore. Too much emphasis is put on silly shit that really do…
/r/MensRights15/08/12 03:36 PM
3

Then who would pay the child support, taxes, and serve in the military?
/r/MensRights14/08/12 08:33 PM
2

We cant let facts get in the way of emotional appeals.
/r/MensRights14/08/12 08:32 PM
3

"Would you like some Brussels sprout flavored ice cream?"
/r/MensRights14/08/12 06:51 PM
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Not needed once they are teenagers.
/r/MensRights14/08/12 06:49 PM
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They stamp their feet and demand to be relevant while screaming they are only doing whats good for everyone. The squeaky wheel gets the grease I suppose.
/r/MensRights12/08/12 03:15 PM
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This would be an accurate assumption for many of us. I come here to bitch sometimes, other times its to share solidarity with another guy who is getting fucked by the state that rewards a woman who was not the greatest person. I dont hate women, but I dont trust them until I know them. The thing is, I dont trust anyone until I know them, why should women be any different? For that I have been labeled a misogynist. Meh...
/r/MensRights12/08/12 03:37 AM
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Why let it bother you? What the fuck do they matter to your life? They dont aggravate me, nor annoy me. Its not like they are my boss or I owe them money. Nobody forces me to come here, and nobody will give me a fucking thing for karma, so why do they matter? Im hated by many more than just them, it keeps the nutters, bigots, and first year philosophy majors away from me.
/r/MensRights12/08/12 03:34 AM
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Shit, I dont give a fuck in a bucket of scat if they ban me. I say let them, its not like I care to go post there anyway. I will be happier once the kids are back in school, the teenagers are just so 'edgy' and of course they know so much about everything. :) I know I did when I was a teen.
/r/MensRights12/08/12 03:31 AM
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So they are the WBC of reddit? Cool. I wonder if they will post this one, so far I have only been quoted once by them.
/r/MensRights12/08/12 03:26 AM
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Its only sexist and not politically correct if it is against women. Duh!
/r/MensRights05/08/12 06:48 PM
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I have a wonderful rape dungeon, I wish he were still around so we could compare notes.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 06:46 PM
1

I have talked to the kid at length, like an adult. She is going back to be with a boy. Near impossible to dissuade her. I do avoid the ex, like the plague. I wouldnt piss on her if she were on fire, unless I pissed a flammable liquid.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 06:14 PM
2

yeah she got them too.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 04:55 PM
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She never wanted a career. She never wanted to do anything but go shopping. When I wouldnt just hand over my pay to her because I had to pay bills, she left and took my kids with her. The only job she ever had she quit before they fired her. She was working in a nursing home and abusing the residents. So yeah, she deserves everything she got from me, because she truly is helpless, incapable, useless, and unmotivated.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 04:55 PM
1

Damn, you're right. I have all the equipment right here and I am not afraid to use it!
/r/MensRights04/08/12 04:53 PM
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People hardly ever believe a woman can be abusive. At least she is larger than he is, when the woman is smaller then she gets all the sympathy and nobody thinks she can do much to harm a big guy. I went through this with my bi polar ex. She was abusive to my daughters and to me, emotionally and physically. I had my 15 year old living with me for the last year, and now she has her moving back. She has told her she is better and some other bullshit, so my kid is going back to a mother that treats …
/r/MensRights04/08/12 02:38 PM
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Indeed. I have all the power, but the ex gets all my money, half my shit, and I can do nothing to change any of it. I am one hell of a powerful man in the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 02:06 AM
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My daughter got in an argument on FB about the father being required to pay support starting at conception.
/r/MensRights02/08/12 03:17 PM
2

But women never lie, and nobody would claim they were touched that were not. Wont someone think of the children?
/r/MensRights02/08/12 02:37 PM
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I tend to open doors for anyone going into buildings, its a way of being polite. I do it for my wife sometimes, but she would rather open her own door. Independent, educated and self assured women are the best.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 02:30 PM
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Oh trust me, when it gets to that point she will know I had already figured that out. The really fun part? She was never over 145lbs when she was with me, currently she is right about 220 and she is only 5'4". Now she is married to a guy 10 years older than I am, and he is tired of her shit. They have almost divorced 9 or 10 times, but she knows if he leaves she is on her own so she does anything to keep him. Hell they have only been together since 2002 and married since 05. There will come a ti…
/r/MensRights29/07/12 06:56 PM
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I have been there too. Barely survived on $100 a month when they took 68% of my pay based on what I got during a deployment, not on what I got stationed in Korea where I made $1000 less a month. The ex tried to kill herself, and when I petitioned the courts for custody, the judge said her boyfriend could take care of my daughters age 5 and 7, and I couldnt have them because I was in the military. My base pay was $1740 a month and they took $1000 of it. I was homeless on active duty. She would mo…
/r/MensRights29/07/12 12:11 AM
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Even my 'feminist' inlaws call it Victim TV.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 02:47 AM
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Hell they have a TV channel to prop up the victim mentality.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 01:59 AM
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I dont doubt they have a boring sex life, but you dont need to get your spouse wasted to have fun. I wonder if she would turn the guy in for sodomy if he slipped and it went in her ass? Course, it might be difficult with that stick in there.
/r/MensRights23/07/12 02:56 AM
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and child support/alimony.... Unless the recipient is male.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 05:44 PM
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I thought it was all women who were like that, but now I have found one that is an equal partner. Its fucking awesome too. Her dad fishes, but he loves it so much he takes other people on charters. My ex, hell every woman I was with except for two are the type that thinks men have to pay for everything. One of the women was from Dubai, the other from northern Michigan. Go figure. There are some good ones out there. The rest should enjoy being alone and guys should not bow to their charms and pay…
/r/MensRights22/07/12 05:43 PM
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I dont like #5, they are simply witnesses to the fake rape at that point.
/r/MensRights17/07/12 04:36 PM
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It sure feels that way. I have been punished by the state for having kids with her. She was rewarded for being horrible. When the cops would come by on a domestic call, I would be scratched, bruised, torn clothing, and shit broken all over the house. The cops would laugh when I told them she hit me, and then ask her if I hit her or anything. They only wanted to arrest me, never her. I have no proof of her abuse, though my First Sgt could tell when I went back to the military in 00 but she only s…
/r/MensRights16/07/12 07:07 PM
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I live in Michigan, but the ex lives in Nebraska so I have to go through the courts there. They wont let me do shit in that state, and telling my lawyer about the statute I have researched has always ended with them getting pissed, like someone going to a doctor and telling them what they think is wrong. I have told this one what isnt being done to my satisfaction. Its rather specific when you tell her, its been a year and you havent done anything. I detailed exactly what I wanted her to handle …
/r/MensRights16/07/12 06:07 PM
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That is an understatement. The state wont allow us to do anything without one, and they milk it for all they can get. Cant really sue a lawyer, all you can do is complain to the BAR and then they just laugh about it.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 05:20 PM
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I would, but the guy I hired before just pushed the paper through and got me fucked even harder than the state wanted to fuck me. Now this twat has $3k of retainer that I cant get back from her. My only recourse is to contact the BAR in that state and see if I can motivate her ass that way. I mean come on, a fucking year to do nothing?
/r/MensRights16/07/12 07:31 AM
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Doesnt matter, they will just say you have to pay this much, and if you dont they throw you in jail. They took almost 80% of my pay leaving me homeless on active duty. Was supposed to only be 68%, but they did things they werent supposed to do, and left me with $100 all to myself every month.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 07:28 AM
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Just please, dont hurt me in those fantasies.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 07:26 AM
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The thing I learned was never be nice, never give in, never listen to shit she has to say, and keep your temper in check. Just an FYI though, might want to get a 55 gallon drum of KY, because the woman almost always gets whatever she wants, even if she is a loathsome vindictive tw@.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 03:25 AM
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Would you like to cast some voodoo that you do on the fuckwits involved in my problems with the ex? Even my lawyer is against me, might be due to the fact she owns a vagina. One year after I paid the retainer, she has done exactly shit, but still managed to charge me $800 for fucking nothing.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 03:23 AM
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You can fantasize about me any time, but only you. Anyone else will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. Why is it only you? I like the way you use English.
/r/MensRights15/07/12 10:21 PM
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Yes, as well as 1984 and Brave New World. Should be required reading. I read Fahrenheit 451, but I dont remember much of it because it was nearly 30 years ago.
/r/MensRights12/07/12 07:29 AM
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What should we do, go to war with women and white knights? I just want to change some laws, but it doesnt look like that will happen any time soon. Germany seems to be making progress in this area, but the US will keep telling women they are helpless, incapable, and unable to support themselves, and the women wont give up the gravy train willingly in the name of equality even if it is demeaning to them. Who gives up a free paycheck where all they had to do was fuck some guy, then get a lawyer an…
/r/MensRights10/07/12 03:56 PM
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Well, it happens to plenty of other guys. What irks me is how she did absolutely everything wrong, was abusive to me and the kids, is terrible with money, neglected the kids, cheated, lied to the state and everyone else, lived in HUD housing under false pretenses, tried to off herself with an OD, then claimed I was abusive and they took her word for it with absolutely no proof. I had to provide proof of her abuse, and the cops who showed would only ask if I hit or harmed her in any way, and offe…
/r/MensRights10/07/12 02:52 AM
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Of course I see how she tried to dodge it, she has no fucking clue how things work and that is obvious. I was simply surprised that she got so close to reality.
/r/MensRights10/07/12 12:30 AM
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What about being told she wont get pregnant, is on the pill, or you are dating her while she is fucking someone else? What if she decides to pull the jizz out of a condom and put it in her? Oh wait, women NEVER do that, do they? They never lie, never cheat, never go OOPS! All she has to do is claim you are the father, and if you cant afford the test within three months, in many states you are now the responsible party. Sometimes even with the test you are still the one on the hook for the kid. I…
/r/MensRights09/07/12 09:22 PM
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Of course, its reparations for all the women in history that other men have held down. Not that we have done that, but we sure have to pay for it.
/r/MensRights09/07/12 06:47 PM
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Too bad reality doesnt allow for men to choose anything outside of who we stick our dick in. Even then we can still be held accountable for the offspring of some other man, even when it is proven the kid is not ours. We have no choice, but we have all the responsibility and accountability.
/r/MensRights09/07/12 06:26 PM
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Some jobs you just need a certain amount of strength to do. Its interesting what she said, because that is how they do it. They drag you out on the floor if possible. Firefighting isnt like the movies. Man, my wife hates the movie Backdraft with a passion. I am twice as heavy as my wife, and she can pull me across the floor while wearing all her gear. Not bad for a 125lb chick. I think she hates it almost as much as I loathe the Nick Cage version of Gone in 60 secons, Fast and the Furious, and a…
/r/MensRights09/07/12 04:33 PM
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Oh, so they are taking a page from the theist handbook and just making words mean whatever they want them to mean, regardless of actual definition. How quaint.
/r/MensRights09/07/12 06:52 AM
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I would have left too, unless they were willing to get off their asses and do some work. Thankfully in the military I could force them to do the work, or get rid of them and send along some paperwork showing how inadequate they are. Before my first enlistment I worked for a seed corn company in Nebraska. I unloaded trucks the second year, and worked with one other guy who regulated the flow of ear corn on the conveyor belt. Night shift came on and there were 5 guys doing the work the two of us d…
/r/MensRights08/07/12 11:23 PM
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Yep, its usually guys giving them the easy jobs. I was equal opportunity, everyone got dirty, everyone worked. If you were standing around afraid to break a nail, then you got something special to do all by yourself. The only difference between a male and a female for me in the military, was I didnt talk to the females except when work required me to do so. Far too many of them claimed sexual harassment from my just saying hello. That went a long way towards me treating them equally and making e…
/r/MensRights08/07/12 05:57 PM
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I worked Air Trans in the USAF, it is a physically demanding job, and 80lbs is light stuff. More than 200lbs we usually used a forklift. Single pallets of cargo could weigh up to 10,000lbs. A train of five pallets could weigh 50,000lbs, but rarely did. It was usually in the 15k-25k range for a T5. Most women were absolutely useless when pushing the really heavy loads, but that isnt to say that every male we had could do much either. It ended up being the big guys like me, who can bench over 350l…
/r/MensRights08/07/12 05:30 PM
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I dont know about all volunteer departments, but the ones here in Michigan require women to meet the same standards as men. My wife is a firefighter, and she has been doing it for some time now. She had to pull a 220lb guy across the floor, and she is only 125lbs. I like hardcore chicks. They dont carry people, they pull them, and usually its two firefighters working as a team. Two in, two out is the system they use.
/r/MensRights08/07/12 05:13 PM
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What is interesting to me, is that the jobs I had where women worked with me, they were all paid the same as men at the same level. It was a factory job where the women were mostly inspectors doing the less dangerous and completely non physically demanding jobs, and men did the dangerous stuff and heavy lifting. We all got paid the same based on time working at the job. Then there was the military. A few women could keep up with the guys, but some couldnt moving cargo and pushing it on planes. I…
/r/MensRights08/07/12 05:09 PM
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Ah, no true Scotsman right here and in vivid technocolor. Cant tell if you are serious or sarcastic, either way its beautifully done.
/r/MensRights06/07/12 08:26 PM
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They also need absolutely no proof, they just have to make the claim and we have to prove ourselves innocent.
/r/MensRights05/07/12 06:05 PM
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Mine sure was, but if I had hit her even once it was jail time for me whereas she never had to answer to anything she did. Besides, if the judge fined her, I would have had to pay it.
/r/MensRights05/07/12 06:04 PM
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Well they want total domination under the guise of equality, in other words they want to be more equal.
/r/MensRights05/07/12 06:00 PM
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Indeed, the feminists some of us oppose are the "women should be more equal" types that seek to subjugate men or relegate them to little more than a wallet or ATM.
/r/MensRights04/07/12 08:22 PM
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Yeah, and I had a nice comeback for it. "Oh, you think I was asking you out? Nah, you arent my type, but thanks for the compliment." Add a bit of a chuckle to it and it works quite well. Honestly, if they go into the just friends thing, I dont want anything to do with them intimately anyway, no matter how hot they are. Rather presumptuous on her part, and I like people who arent quite that shallow. I have had no problem finding women who are interested in me, provided I have the right attitude a…
/r/MensRights02/07/12 03:56 PM
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That would be the rich, cute or hot guys.
/r/MensRights01/07/12 12:29 AM
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Had a horrible one of each(parochial so its a bit different), but the ones that really directed me to a better life were men. The best female teacher I had was an art teacher, best male was English. The difference is I graduated high school 25 years ago.
/r/MensRights30/06/12 08:38 PM
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That is precisely why I ceased to talk to females in the US military. If I was not good looking enough for her, or someone else had a problem with my speaking to her about anything, it was off to talk to the chain of command about my unwanted sexual harassment of women. Just for saying Hello, not for asking them out, slapping their asses, groping, or any sort of contact. Just fucking 'HI' and the worst one was "You look nice today." That one almost got me kicked out. Simple solution, women are j…
/r/MensRights30/06/12 08:27 PM
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It also means there can be enormous inequality when it comes to family law. Women predominantly get full custody and men are far more often saddled with crushing child support and alimony payments. Women are victims so they need to be more equal than men.
/r/MensRights30/06/12 01:50 AM
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Just a tip of the iceberg man. There is so much more to the story, and none of it is agreeable for the male gender.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 11:26 PM
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My ex tried to kill herself, ended up in the psych ward for a month, and while she was in there the judge said her boyfriend could take care of my kids. There was no way in hell I would get custody.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 02:11 AM
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Well of course the women are the victims, when they lose their man, they lose their sole means of support. They obviously cant go out and make a living for themselves, and with no man they are helpless. Apparently that is how she is viewing it too. Fortunately, it isnt accurate and women can support themselves. ~ disabled war veteran.
/r/MensRights24/06/12 04:33 PM
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Its getting better. After I came back from the first gulf war in 92 they didnt do shit for us. Now they take care of us pretty well. Still dont compensate us much, but its better than nothing.
/r/MensRights21/06/12 01:50 AM
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Well the wife figured out the guy was an idiot, we both did some growing and learning, and the shrink is now infinitely more aware of her body language and the way she says things. All it all, it turned out pretty well, but it was seriously ugly there for a while.
/r/MensRights21/06/12 12:58 AM
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Its a long story, but the wife and I were having some issues. She was being manipulated online by a PUA/meth addict. Since I was her first everything, she was very naive about guys, especially online. When we went to see the shrink, she mentioned she had a guy she was interested in, and the shrink's body language unmistakably told me she was happy that my wife found someone and would soon be rid of me. I am a rather intimidating and intense guy, so it kinda makes sense. Still thinking she would …
/r/MensRights21/06/12 12:44 AM
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I just asked my wife what she thought. She said it is far easier for a woman to go out and meet someone to get laid than a man, provided she isnt entirely unattractive. Mind you she never dated until she was 21, and when she found me I was 1500 miles away. She had never met anyone even remotely interesting, but she is far more cerebral than after physical attractiveness. I am a short guy, 5'7", very heavily muscled so I look fat to most people, and I used to wear glasses before I met her. For me…
/r/MensRights20/06/12 10:00 PM
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I had a great shrink, dude was helpful and I made a ton of progress. The VA canceled the contract and hired a female who had never worked with veterans before. All she had done was kids and women from abusive environments. Took her almost two years to learn that us PTSD vets can read her body language and facial expressions as if she were telling us exactly what she is thinking/feeling. She is divorced and had never heard the other side of how men get fucked by the state even when the wife is th…
/r/MensRights20/06/12 09:53 PM
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I got over that in junior high, asking every girl in the school out on a date, twice. Being nice about it, but just letting them say no, over and over, and over, made it so I dont give a fuck if someone turns me down, I just go ask another.
/r/MensRights20/06/12 09:29 PM
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I think you are on to something there.
/r/MensRights20/06/12 09:23 PM
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That is exactly why I stopped talking to women in the military while I was active duty. If I wasnt good looking enough for them, I was harassing them just by saying hello. The only woman I would talk to in my unit in a non professional capacity was a lesbian, she and I were great friends and could talk about anything. The rest of them, well I learned my less on quick and just shut them all off completely, because I didnt want to get kicked out for saying Hi.
/r/MensRights20/06/12 09:15 PM
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And a girl like that honestly deserves to be alone. If someone is too good to be with another person based on some arbitrary or superficial thing, then they deserve to be alone. Its no different from an average 45 year old guy who is out of shape but wants to have only the hottest of women, and wont accept someone who isnt superficial and is only mildly attractive. One of my best buds is the guy, and I met tons of women like that in the last 25 years of dating.
/r/MensRights20/06/12 09:13 PM
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I am wondering how man males are 100% disabled veterans from OIF/OEF for every 100 females who are 100%.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 05:31 PM
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Sounds to me like the author of this would prompt Clint Eastwood to simply state "Nag, nag, nag." Stamping her feet and demanding to know everything about anything, and then being bitter because the cute guy didnt like her.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 09:25 PM
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Just like anything else, people need to be aware of the problem before change can happen. Most guys like me are ridiculed or disregarded as nothing more than bitter guys who dont want to pay child support. Also the stigma about not being man enough to control your wife crops up, which is bullshit for the reasons I mentioned before. As long as people dismiss, ignore, or ridicule it, nothing will be done about it. That is why a very muscular war veteran is coming out and saying what happened, so p…
/r/MensRights16/06/12 04:14 PM
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If he wasnt on that black bitchbox all the time being a kid, maybe he would get the honeydo list done!
/r/MensRights16/06/12 01:02 AM
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Its what some are trying to be, and trying to get the benefits of being such. Not all, but asshats like him help it along.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 01:01 AM
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My VA shrink is female, we just talked about my ex the other day and how she was only 140lbs when we were married. She didnt feel that my ex could do any damage to me, then I explained it. Now she gets it. The previous one was a guy and he was well aware of abused men, and he never did say anything like 'man up' or 'what could that little woman do to you?' She did the worst thing possible, she took off with my kids and put them through hell while I wasnt allowed to see them or be part of their l…
/r/MensRights15/06/12 10:02 PM
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Might be lots of guys like me out there, who were laughed at when a 140lb woman was abusing a 220lb combat veteran who can bench 500lbs. Nobody believes us, we cant defend ourselves because if we do we go to jail, even without hitting her. Before you think I am one of those guys that thinks women arent abused, and men are abused more, Im not. I dont think anyone should have to deal with abuse, male or female. Nobody should be pounding on their spouse or emotionally abusing them. My point is that…
/r/MensRights15/06/12 05:46 PM
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Plus she doesnt feel attractive so she doesnt want to get naked nor does she want to fuck. Obviously its the guys fault for jerking off because she wont get him off.
/r/MensRights14/06/12 02:03 PM
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Both my parents were abusive and neglectful to me, sure dad was worse than mom. I wanted to stop the cycle, but I got the wrong woman pregnant and she was even more abusive to my kids than my parents were, just not nearly as violent as my dad. She took off with them and told the state I beat her, so I wasnt allowed to be part of their lives for almost 7 years. I needed proof of abuse to get my kids, she didnt. The kids suffered for it, but finally they arent with her anymore. Fucked up thing, my…
/r/MensRights13/06/12 02:44 PM
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Or just straight up try to kill their kids, or actually kill them. Like this one in Chicago that starved her kid. She got 18 months probation and has to go to parenting classes. Lets reverse the roles and make it the father that starved his daughter. Dude would be in jail, and never get to see his kid again. Time and again its the woman who abuses the kids but people see her as a victim not as the perp. I am a thick muscled intimidating former wrestler and military vet who was abused by a 140lb …
/r/MensRights12/06/12 08:22 PM
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Well its good to have the best of both worlds. What it sounds like to me is she is pushing the women cant do as much as men thing. They need men to help out when they stay at home, but after work they need the stay at home man to do it all because she cant handle it. Some people want to be more equal than others.
/r/MensRights10/06/12 08:33 PM
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Yeah I dont think I could deal with a woman who was little more than a large child, with no responsibility, who is completely incapable of doing anything herself. Thankfully most arent like that even if society and the states treat them that way.
/r/MensRights10/06/12 08:18 PM
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Im one of those bitter men, but what made me bitter is family law. That the abusive ex cheated and took off with the kids without warning is secondary to how the state rewarded her for simply being female, despite how she is. I want equality, even though I am bitter about what happened to me. I have daughters, I dont want them to be subservient, helpless, or incapable, but that is what the state I am from wants. Make it equal and it will be better for everyone, its a long damn way from that righ…
/r/MensRights10/06/12 05:41 PM
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Indeed, I had short guys fucking with me too. Some people are jerks. Its just funny to me when a tall guy thinks he can whup my ass because he is taller, and knows nothing about me. Happens with short guys too, but they just think they are badasses or have been drinking.
/r/MensRights10/06/12 05:35 AM
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Its good to know that when women feel well, we all do, because I feel like shit right now. So who is the nice young lady who isnt feeling well that is fucking up my world with pneumonia?
/r/MensRights09/06/12 04:59 PM
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Like the laser vision correction that was paid for by the USAF, my exit from the gene pool was provided free of charge by the VA. Two days of discomfort and many years of being able to leave it in anywhere I like and not have to worry about someone taking off with my kids. So I dont know what they cost. Some insurance plans do cover it, the one I had while working in a factory between enlistments did.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 03:10 PM
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In my years in the military I had exactly two incompetent women in the physically demanding job of Air Cargo. Two out of a few hundred I worked with over the years.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 01:31 AM
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That is what my shrinks said, just how I carry myself, how I walk, and the way I look. No doubt women are as well, but most people assume women need protection. Sounds like you live in a big city where people are rude on a daily basis.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 09:23 PM
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Im inclined to agree with you and cabalum. The first subject in the article is a lack of training, not something inherent to females. Teach them what the hell the part is and they will know. If you go into the local Lowes, everyone on the floor can tell you where something is, even if its an obscure little part, doesnt matter if they are male or female. That is training. If you dont train your people to be knowledgeable in their job, they wont be. The author is not helping us at all with his opi…
/r/MensRights08/06/12 09:18 PM
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I dont make them move, they just do. I only noticed people doing that after I realized I have been living with PTSD for the last 30 years. Part of it is childhood, part is two wars in the sandbox. Once I recognized that most of the things I do every day when I am out isnt normal, I noticed other things. One of them was people coming towards me would move out of my way. If I was behind them, they wouldnt notice me, but facing they would move. I dont make them move, they just do. I dont try to be …
/r/MensRights08/06/12 09:04 PM
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That is how it should be, but it isnt. How about you fix the laws so it reads that way instead of how it actually is?
/r/MensRights08/06/12 08:44 PM
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I hope my daughters arent empowered like that. So far they dont seem to be, despite that is how their mother is.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 07:35 PM
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Or to take off with the kids, travel to a different state, then tell that state the father is abusive. Then the state will go after the father, take all his earnings, give them to the mother, and limit his visitation even if he isnt abusive. Then she is free to marry or fuck whomever she wishes, and always has money coming in. She can neglect the kids if she wants, because outside of her death, the kids are stuck with her until they are old enough, or decide dad is a better environment. That is …
/r/MensRights08/06/12 07:13 PM
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Because women are helpless incapable creatures that cant survive without a man providing for them. That is what the state says. Women dont change it because they can get paid for doing nothing.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 07:11 PM
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Well I make the wife go out and work while I sit home and play video games! So she is oppressing me, isnt that how that works?
/r/MensRights08/06/12 07:09 PM
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My two friends who are 5'4" both seem to compensate by working out, which is cool but people give them a hard time about it. Like they are supposed to be little wimps and just live alone forever. Fuck that shit, its damn hard for them to find someone, but when they do she is a keeper. Both those guys are capable, sure they cant lift as much as I can, but 99% of the people on earth cant either. Tall guys dont fare well in fights against short guys who know how to handle themselves, especially whe…
/r/MensRights08/06/12 06:39 PM
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You shouldnt have too much muscle either, I have only met two women who like it on me. Had a couple say I was too scary for them because of how big I am. Add lots of muscle and a bit of fat and you look like a brick. Gray hair seems to help though.. :)
/r/MensRights08/06/12 06:24 PM
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Well dude, you could dye it and lose your soul, then people would say they will never give you up, never gonna let you down....
/r/MensRights08/06/12 06:20 PM
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Found similar things here. I was the shortest guy in my class, and I was 4'9" until I was a sophomore. I had a fucked up diet when I was a kid due to allergies, so that might be part of it. I was constantly fucked with, beaten, and treated like shit in school. There were other things in play other than stature, but being shorter than 5th graders didnt help any. Im 5'7" or 5'8", depending on time of day, the AF called it 5'7" and a half. Anyway, I lost out on lots of women, even very short ones, …
/r/MensRights08/06/12 06:18 PM
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Especially since damn near all the women about your height want to be with guys who are 6'2" and taller. My wife is 5'7" just like I am, she has female friends who are taller than us, and they have a damn hard time finding someone. She cant figure out why the short women want the guys almost twice as tall as they are. I was annoyed by it for years, because a woman would find out I wasnt 6' or higher and shut me off right there, even when we got along great otherwise. Good luck man, all of my fri…
/r/MensRights08/06/12 06:02 PM
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I went one better, vasectomy. Never going to let anyone have that much power over my life ever again.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 08:49 PM
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When I went to court I had just gotten back from a deployment, so my pay statement had all sorts of deployment money on it, most of which is not taxable income. My state laws at the time said non taxable military income was not to be included when factoring support. Instead of taking out the non taxable stuff that is very subject to change, they just went with the gross. Base pay of $1740 a month, and they hit me with $1000 a month, plus the judge started me 6 months in arrears. So I was suddenl…
/r/MensRights07/06/12 04:58 PM
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Well that is only assuming the father makes about $2000-$2500 a month. They will take 68% of what you make, and are only required to leave you with $950 to live on. The fucked up thing is they left me with less than $700 a month to live on for almost two years. The ex and I agreed on a much lower payment so I could see them again and not live on friends couches or in my truck while on active duty.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 03:32 PM
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With a pittance of $60 a month, that is what you are doing now. I agree with you, but since you married him she still gets a free pass. At least he doesnt have to pay her worthless ass.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 12:13 AM
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Shit if you were a woman you could bank on $1500 a month if you lived in Nebraska.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 12:09 AM
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Oh yeah, I am disabled and didnt get compensation for almost two years. Still had to pay the full amount, since I couldnt I am behind and have interest piling up. Now the kid lives with me, and I still have to pay her for support and for the arrears. Its not about best interests of the kid, its about telling women they are helpless and incapable of doing anything for themselves. Of course they benefit from it, so why would women do anything to change it, unless they are in your position.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 12:06 AM
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Why would someone with a trust fund or an incredibly wealthy family join the military? I wouldnt want them there as an NCO, if they have more money than they are getting, whats the point of them being there? If someone wins the lottery they will discharge them, or give them the option, depending on how much money they get. I suppose some wealthy types would join, but it would make more sense to be an officer after college. I see it as an opportunity, not as the only means to get ahead. I am #2 o…
/r/MensRights07/06/12 12:00 AM
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It is quite a bit like that, it depends on where you are from. Most of my Flight in basic were from Michigan, near Detroit. It was bad in MI 20 years ago, and hasnt gotten any better. There are other options, but not many with the benefits and experience you get in the military. I suppose if you can barely pass the ASVAB then it would be a scary proposition, but intelligent and relatively well educated people dot get meat shield type jobs unless they want them.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 08:15 PM
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Not everyone I served with was poor, sure it was a bunch of us that came from families that arent wealthy. Most of us were just middle class kids who wanted to do it ourselves, or had other reasons for joining. The GI Bill was a benefit, and I only met one guy who joined just for that. He was a reserve bitching about being deployed to Kuwait where it was safe. He was unaware that he would actually have to do something to earn the education benefits. I first went in when Reagan was president, tri…
/r/MensRights06/06/12 07:07 PM
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Im with you man, the guy sounds like Rush or Beck. Makes me not want to be associated with anything they do or say.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 06:57 PM
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You still have to register even if you enlist, and I agree with you entirely. The military is a great way to get ahead, get an education, and see the world. Not everyone has to be infantry, and not everyone has to go Army. I like to think of it as a job that pays you to travel and you cant get fired from unless you do drugs.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 06:37 PM
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In North Carolina, and the rest of the south, women are helpless incapable creatures that need more protection and handouts just to survive. It says so in the bible, and in the south women are supposed to be in the kitchen. they are utterly helpless while out shopping for dinner. Seriously, that is the way it was when I was stationed in SC. Not so much with Gen X and later, but with the boomers and before that is how it is.
/r/MensRights04/06/12 12:24 AM
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No, not being overly negative, just want to see them go a bit farther and eschew the male vs women thing entirely.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 09:28 PM
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I dont think I defined weak or strong. I dont disagree with what its saying, and you are correct that in what it says. There is an underlying theme to it though, and that is with what I have an issue. There are many men who dont give a damn about the gender role of needing to be a leader, they dont want to be ever. I have a bigger problem with men who always insist on being the leader, even when it isnt their job or they are not qualified for the position. That is a military thing, and doesnt ad…
/r/MensRights30/05/12 09:27 PM
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Sure, but it doesnt even scratch the surface of problems for males, thus making us look weak while empowering women. Why cant we empower both genders instead of trying to make one look better than the other. Why does there always have to be a fucking power struggle?
/r/MensRights30/05/12 06:05 PM
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Well of course, they are fighting for us so we can cry in public. They are doing all the work, as usual, and thus deserve all the credit because we are just big stupid rape machines, unless we have kids with an ex then we are an ATM.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 06:03 PM
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Im somewhat used to having to do it the hard way while others get ahead in less time. I've often wondered what I might have achieved if I had been supported rather than hindered most of my life.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 05:56 PM
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Good luck getting a woman deemed unfit. Anything short of felony convictions for violent crimes, or incarceration is useless. My ex tried to kill herself a number of times, she had no problem keeping custody after she took off with my kids one day. She was nearly the most abusive person I have ever known, only two people top her in my lifetime, and not by much.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 04:31 AM
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So am I, both for the redundancy and because its what I am for the state and the ex.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 04:28 AM
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Somehow I am low on their radar. The fucked up thing is I did man up, did it the hard way, as usual, and never stopped trying to better my life. So maybe that means that a white male in the US can do it without handouts.. :) Yeah completely racist/bigoted/sexist remark.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 12:44 PM
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Getting the loan, paying it back with about 14% interest. Worked my ass off at a full time job while going to school, the ex talked me into taking a semester off to help with the kid, and kept me out of school for 5 years. I went back, paid for it all myself again, and once I finished my Associates I went back to the military. Now after I was in for just short of 6 years, and being worked like I was 19 but at the age of 34, I am now a disabled vet. I use what I did in school as my hobby, I build…
/r/MensRights29/05/12 01:48 AM
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Im not disagreeing with you really, just pointing out what might be part of the reason for the downvotes. I was muslim for a while, mainly because I was engaged to a woman from Dubai and her parents insisted I learn and convert. Long story, but we never married. Not due to her family not liking me, but more to do with a pentecostal bigot I had for a supervisor in the military. I dont have much of a problem with most muslims, but man the christians sure do.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 01:05 AM
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I discovered that in 1993. The military drawdown in 92 left me without a job, so I decided to use GI Bill and go to school. At that time, 12 credit hours meant $640 a month from GIB, and it didnt start until after I was enrolled. I was unemployed, looking for a job that fit with school hours, and homeless because school was 80 miles from my parents farm. So I waltz into school, thinking ok I can now use my benefits. Well, they tell me the only way I can get into school is a student loan. You see…
/r/MensRights28/05/12 06:51 PM
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When it comes to family law in my home state, you are required to have a lawyer. I paid one last year to have custody changed and child support updated to reflect it, and she has only screwed me over. So I am out even more money, the ex still gets paid by me for the kid that lives with me, and the state wants it that way. Im just a little irritable with family law and all the bullshit it involves.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:44 PM
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That is how it should be, but with lawyers making the laws, judges who are also lawyers enforcing them and setting requirements for their courts, it is unlikely. Job security is more important to them than what is right.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:41 PM
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Playing the rape card gets you out of all those other problematic things.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:10 PM
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I learned that in the desert of Kuwait.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:07 PM
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Fuck lawyers too, the problem is they are the only way we can do things in the legal realm. The states wont let us do it ourselves, we have to pay some hack thousands of dollars to do nothing for us.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:05 PM
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Not only that, but they reward her for it. She doesnt have to pay support for her kids because she is a helpless incapable female. If someone, male or female, is truly helpless and incapable then they should be helped. She doesnt sound like she is helpless, just worthless as a human being, so she should earn her way like the rest of us.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:04 PM
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Well, its kinda racist and not really what MRAs are going for.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 04:01 PM
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Oh, just another way to punish people with external genitalia for not having internal genitals.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 10:02 PM
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Hey California, fuck you and Nebraska you misandrist cunts! Nebraska says my ex doesnt have to pay me for the kid that lives with me now, I still have to pay her. Now even when I had zero income before my disability compensation started, I was still required to pay her, yet she gets off easy and I still have to pay her for being a terrible parent.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 01:19 AM
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No worries, I was just pointing out the stupidity of the AF fitness system. The fastest I ever ran a mile and a half was 10 minutes flat, that was a long time ago. You see, if you dont meet the standards you dont get to stay in. So I was 'lucky' they worked me to the point of my body pulling a Cartman and saying "Screw you guys, Im going home" on my last deployment. Now I get benefits for life and I dont ever have to work again. It does kinda suck that I cant ever work again, but I like to look …
/r/MensRights26/05/12 07:26 PM
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You can do it cheaper with a Mustang II front end, or with some ingenuity and fab skills. Those shock towers are damn close on the early Mustangs. I have a 71 Maverick and a 64 Fairlane, I stuffed a 4V Cleveland in the Maverick for a while. The Fairlane might get a Jegs chassis since the floors are gone. A straight axle under the front and an FE under the hood, man that would be a sick ride.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 04:57 AM
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That is the point. There is no way I could do it. You get a certain number of 'points' for your waist size in the AF for the fitness test. The most is 30 and below with 40 points, the least is 39 at 1. The time you run is also awarded points varying on how old you are and how fast you run it, as is the pushup and situp parts. Your height is factored in and its all based on BMI, which is a measurement of starving French people in the 1700-1900 years. So a very muscular guy like me, with a very he…
/r/MensRights26/05/12 04:51 AM
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Would be fun, lots of work to make a mod motor fit. Get a glass body and a tube frame and you can make it happen easier.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 12:54 AM
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I helped start one in Charleston back in 2000-01, got taken over by racist jesus freaks. Been thinking about it, a guy with a 70 fastback wants to, but really I need to get something old drivable. I just dont get much respect in a 98.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 12:29 AM
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That is the weird part, there isnt a club up here. A few guys who know each other get together once in a while, but thats it. Its mostly 4x4s and snowmobiles here. I have only met two other guys like me that rebuild anything, so its very strange to me. Lots of people online are following my builds, but nobody local.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 12:15 AM
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Pull the window out, clean any rust and crap out of the channel, then urethane it back in there. The Mustang I am doing had severe rust and collision damage, I dont think anyone else would have saved it. Only paid $20 for it, but it will run again very soon... unless I die or something.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 11:58 PM
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Heh... Here is my third Mustang. Its called the Pit of Despair. Its the second rustiest vehicle I have started a rebuild on. The worst was a 65 GTO that is almost done. I need to have it done this year, the shop space is required for a double Firebird build. This is how far it went in tear down before I started putting metal back in.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 11:05 PM
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I have had a VW and a BMW in the past, but most of what I own is Pontiac. Im a hardcore car guy, have been collecting stuff since 1982 when I got my first car a 67 Cougar. The one I drive most during the summer is a 98 Formula, the one I mentioned in the post. Winter beaters are the only V6s, and I dont care if they rust into the ground. Other stuff I have is the 79 Formula that is currently pissing me off, but I will make the fucking thing work. it eats high end starters faster than a fat kid w…
/r/MensRights25/05/12 10:51 PM
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Ok yeah, that was a dead give away that it was not going to be even close to the Nick show.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 10:35 PM
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I was USAF, and I have guns. No problem with shooting around me, I grew up with them so that was never a problem. The only problem with them is there are two handguns in my desk where I am sitting, a SPAS12 shotgun and SKS loaded and ready to go by my bed, an AR15 within easy reach, and a Ruger 10/22 floating around different rooms. I try to keep them put away, but they find their way out so I can go shoot a bit. Target practice relaxes me, gives me something to focus on, a challenge if you will…
/r/MensRights25/05/12 06:40 PM
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Ah, that would explain it. The only time I approach strange women is when they are working, like the checker at a store. That is the only time I speak to them, because as my shrinks, family and wife tell me I am very intimidating and intense. So usually I try to make people laugh around me to set them at ease. I will avoid women walking alone just because I know I will scare the shit out of her if I even say Hi. There is no way they are more aware though. Sure I might be biased after living with…
/r/MensRights25/05/12 06:12 PM
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Ive been back since 04, out since 05. I moved to a sparsely populated area because cities are trying to kill me. I am always in defensive mode when I am out, but having her around is like having my dogs at home, she alerts me to things and also gives me a focal point to keep me from watching everything. Her having a nice ass does wonders to keep my eyes and mind occupied. I have worked damn hard and diligently at rewiring my mind to limit its effect on others, and to give me some rest, so I am g…
/r/MensRights25/05/12 06:07 PM
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Im only 5'7" tall but big guys get out of my way. Its not like I am trying to intimidate anyone, I am just on edge and wary of everything around me, sizing up everyone as a threat or non threat. Must be my body language, but it could also be how thick I am, dont have a neck and 22" arms might be part of it.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:48 PM
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Yeah the twist ending was that it sucked because dickhead made it too serious. Lost all the charm and allure of the Nick series. I think kevin Smith would have done much better directing it than that hack did.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:41 PM
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They have no idea, seriously no fucking clue what its like and how it wears you down. If everyone had it maybe the world would be a better place, but I wouldnt wish this shit on anyone.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:38 PM
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I am better if the wife is with me in a crowd, she is like early warning, and also a buffer to keep me from exploding on stupid twats blocking my path. Cant go to concerts, movies, stores on busy shopping days including the first day of the month, but I have been doing better in traffic lately. That was my big challenge after driving in the desert and avoiding roadblocks and shit.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:36 PM
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women are always in a constant state of awareness of their surroundings. Where exactly are these people claiming this? I am a man with PTSD and I am excruciatingly aware of my surroundings at all times. Guess what gender most often tries to run over my bright red and rather loud 300hp V8 urged car. Yeah, females. Usually on a cell phone, but most often just being unaware of what is going on around them. Women are also the easiest to startle if you walk up behind them, not even trying to sneak or…
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:32 PM
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The reason we are here as MRAs is far too many feminists, judges, and lawmakers have been swinging everything to domination. If we dont push back to equalize things, it will just keep going until we are left with nothing. I fought for custody, the ex was abusive to me and the kids. She claimed I was with no proof and I was limited to supervised visits for 6 years or so. I would have had proof if the cops who showed up had taken anything seriously when I was bruised, cut, had ripped clothing, but…
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:00 PM
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Oh, I dont long term store it, I mail it out to a couple female friends who like it in their coffee.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 04:41 PM
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Sounds like a great dad to me man. Right now I am working very damn hard to straighten out my 15 year old daughter who was raised by her mother after she took off with them. She is coming along well, and except for a couple scrapes doing shit her mother taught her to do, like shoplifting, she is doing better every week. Saying I am a MRA is only half of it. I honestly believe your gender should not matter in family court or any other part of society. It should be equal, not catering to one gende…
/r/MensRights25/05/12 04:03 AM
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That would be a correct observation IMHO. Some of the women had something to prove, others were just there to take up space. Had a few airmen who thought all they had to do was show up to get the college money. One rental bitched for weeks in Kuwait in 04 about being reserve and how all he signed up to do was two weekends a month and two weeks a year. Once it was revealed to him how the reserves work he stopped his incessant bitching. You gotta earn the college money no matter your gender.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 03:26 AM
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I love you Aussies. They were even more fun to hang with and talk to than the Dutch. I unloaded their planes in Kuwait back in 01. Absolutely wonderful people down under. Its one of three continents I have yet to visit, and as soon as I can I am coming to visit.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 01:46 AM
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Some will talk to anyone, others will only talk to people they know and trust. Usually we only talk about certain things with other veterans, and often the guys who tell big stories never did a damn thing. Still, if they want to talk about it, that is good, keeping it in doesnt do us much good. My hometown VA rep is a Nam veteran, he talked to an Iwo survivor that went to a school and told the kids about his experience. It was the first time in 60 years that the guy had said anything about it, a…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 06:57 PM
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The thing that struck me about Kuwait was all the shopping bags stuck in fences along the 7th ring road. Apparently littering isnt considered 'haram' or a forbidden sin. Everything about the place is strange though, not strange in a bad way really, but in an interesting way. I never made it to an Iraqi city, just remote desert airstrips.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 06:35 PM
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They are just starting to look into it. Not much attention was given to PTSD before some of us coming back from the sandbox started doing crazy shit and the rash of suicides on active duty. They know quite a bit about what causes it and the effect it has, along with how to identify it, but treatment is still mainly just make everyone with it a zombie. I have been living with it for 30 years. In that time I have learned how to cope with it, and have made huge advances in being able to limit the e…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 06:32 PM
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Gaming is good therapy for PTSD, because we know that it isnt real but we can replace or dull our memories with it. Before video games all we could do was crawl in a bottle and have society hate us for not being able to man up and get past the memories.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 06:06 PM
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Me too, but I injured my knee years before Skyrim... They stole the idea from me.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 06:04 PM
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Pron is also complained about by the religious nuts who think sex is bad and should only be used for procreation and anything else is a sin that you should guilty about.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 06:03 PM
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I use old 35mm film containers.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 06:01 PM
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Before 9/11 we could go shopping, that was nice. After that they wouldnt let us out. If you want to really be intimidated go to Dubai, those people have money and they flaunt it. If they are dirt poor then they arent from Dubai, they just moved there to find work.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 05:37 PM
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I got out when I was 35 and I could do that many of those too, even though I only had to do about 25 or 30 due to my age. I never got a maxed performance report because I was always big, even when I had washboard abs they would mark me down. I seriously should have been a Marine, they would have been thrilled to have a guy like me that can move shit without a forklift.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 05:35 PM
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I think PT should be the same male or female. If we need to do 60 pushups and situps so do the women. They can get stronger and that will make them more capable. Allowing them to do the run in less time is also bullshit. I know women who were a bit thicker who could hang with us guys, but I guess they dont want to make the pretty little things upset or have to force them out. My female Captain could do almost as many pushups and situps as I could, and her runs were pretty quick too. I wiped out …
/r/MensRights24/05/12 04:38 PM
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Cant help it, I sacrificed my health because they told me to go over there. It pisses me off that our people get fucked up fucking up their people just so someone can make a profit on it. I have lost too many friends defending profits and oil fields and then it is justified with a holy war on the side. My brother has been on 7 deployments in the Army, he has lost lots of friends both when he was driving trucks that haul tanks, and while flying helicopters. He hates war as much as I do, but we go…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 04:33 PM
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well damn that explains it. Under the new AF system I was on my way out even if I didnt get hurt in the desert. I am overly muscular and I am built like a brick with arms. I would have had to run 1.5 miles in about 3 minutes to stay in because even when I am at 8% BF I am 38" around my waist because I have a 52" chest, 22" arms and 21" neck while I am only 5'7.5" I could max the other stuff easily for my age, and even maxed everything but the run for 20 year olds, but they base everything on BMI…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 04:13 PM
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It depends on where you are billeted. If you are on a post or camp, you get paid $3.50, if you stay in a hotel on the local economy you get paid more. We couldnt get billeting on post in 04, so we stayed downtown and that meant per diem. Since you are Army, you are not going to get paid like us AF guys did, but not all of us get to stay in hotels. Out of my 5 desert trips I did once, and most people never get a good trip that pays them back for the shit.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 04:07 PM
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Oh so you want to blame us for that. Ok. How about we put the blame where it should be, on the political assholes who sent us there. On the religious zealots who tried to turn it into a holy war. I will agree with you that we should not have invaded them, but to say we can change policy or decide who to invade is a bit naive. Both times we fought with them, I had already been in and we were doing things elsewhere. Apparently you never heard that we have already been to Iran. They had a rather la…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 03:59 PM
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Hell yeah, Arfijan or Doha? Last I knew we were out of Doha, but I might have been misinformed. Kuwait is like going to Disneyland, its even better when you stay downtown because then you get seriously paid to be there instead of $3.50 a day. Fucking loch ness monster anyway. It is like being paid back for all the shit you have to go through, isnt it?
/r/MensRights24/05/12 03:43 PM
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The fact that you dont know what we did is enough for me. I like to think of it this way. Even though I didnt agree with us going into Iraq, and I knew it was bullshit political posturing and little more than war profiteering, I and all the others went so you didnt have to. We volunteered so you didnt have to be drafted to fight in that shithole to make others wealthier. It speaks volumes to me about the places I have been being completely unlike the country in which I was raised. Where kids gro…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 03:19 PM
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I agree, somehow the Navy personnel I encountered were of the morbidly obese variety. I always wondered how a woman with so much corpulence could stay on active duty. AF was pretty rough on that shit, even to the point of kicking out guys who were simply too muscular. Most Navy guys I met were ok, but I have no idea whats up with the females. Mind you I didnt get to meet thousands of them, just a couple hundred who came to us for 463L training.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 03:11 PM
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Kuwait after 91 was nice. No complaints at all about my 04 trip, hell we stayed in the Hilton and the Radsison and got $86 per diem. Nothing was happening in Kuwait then, and damn was that nice. Its like the AF paid me back for all the years of fucking me over and sending me into shit I shouldnt have been in. The only part that sucked was we could only stay 101 days, well that and fucking reserves were running the show. The 01 Kuwait trip sucked, mostly because we got there August 28 and after 9…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 03:09 PM
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Not denying that, my point is even those people in the rear with the gear arent exactly in the rear anymore. My first war I was going to austere airstrips to load and unload stuff, and trust me, we were very exposed on those trips. Being part of a MAPS, AMOG or TALCE means you are not in a base or camp, well until you get one set up.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 03:04 PM
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Its interesting you asked. I had two guys I supervised who would do anything they could to get out of work. One bragged about how awesome he was at working, but he was utterly worthless. Had one guy who would take 15 minutes to put his coat on so he could get out of work. With some people it is a constant thing, it wasnt limited to the girl who worked in an office and had 4" nails standing around watching everyone else tide down stuff when she was tasked to come help out. I sent her ass back to …
/r/MensRights24/05/12 02:51 PM
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I agree, it does a disservice to women who do so much more, and also paints men as being mindless drones. Until it truly is equal between men and women, we will have this kind of shit. We will also have punitive measures against men for the benefit of women in family law. All of it is telling women they are weak, helpless, incapable, and worthless while men are seen as expendable. They arent weak and helpless, there are no damsels in distress, no hapless maidens being tied to railroad tracks or …
/r/MensRights24/05/12 03:48 AM
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Not hardly. I worked on the flightline. Cargo guys are a priority target, if you stop the flow of material you stop the effectiveness of the people being supported by it. Talk to anyone who was at Balad AB from 03-07 about the random mortars and sniper fire. I had my 'fun' in the first one, Desert Shield/Storm. My 04 trip was to Kuwait City so I got lucky not to get shot at again. My first time to Kuwait was a bit more eventful. The time I spent indoors while in the military was miniscule compar…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 03:43 AM
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Agreed, but I still find it relatively objectionable to say that men do the fighting while women just look pretty. Some women go and serve. Not all men go, some are scared shitless of the military.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 03:36 AM
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Ok guys. War veteran here. 5 trips to the sand box between 91 and 04. There are no front lines anymore, you can take fire anywhere in the AOR. Just because you dont have a combat job, like an 11B, doesnt mean you wont be in harms way. Shit can go down anywhere at any time, so even the office weenies can get shot. Women serve along side us men, women have died in Iraq and Afghanistan as well as Vietnam, Korea, and WWII. Sure it is mostly males going off to war, only we are required to sign up for…
/r/MensRights23/05/12 11:11 PM
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Yep. Try being ex military, very muscular and intimidating, then having a woman 100lbs lighter than you beating the shit out of you. She can because if you even try to stop her, just to restrain her from hitting you and leave a mark, you are fucked. So you have to just man up and take it. So many times if my ex were a man doing the same shit, I could have claimed self defense for why she would have woken up in intensive care. Since she is female, I couldnt even try to stop it, all I could do was…
/r/MensRights09/05/12 03:14 AM
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I feel so sad. I am only #58. I must do more to piss off the tools.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 09:37 PM
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That is the plan. Have to fix all the shit the ex fucked up first. Its been a rough year, but she is getting better every week.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 05:11 PM
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Nope. I still have to pay her. The state doesnt care who has the kid, only that she gets paid. Got a lawyer working on it, but she has been sitting on her hands since last June. Holding her feet to the fire now, tired of the ex getting rewarded and riding the gravy train while I support the kids. The oldest goes to college in the fall, and I am footing the bill for that too, and the ex still wants support from me despite not providing ANYTHING for the oldest. After all that, I dont hate women, b…
/r/MensRights01/05/12 05:11 PM
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Nah, I wont leave my kids ever, even if I am not their biological dad. The oldest turns 18 next week, and the youngest, 15, lives with me now. Working on fixing her issues that their mother caused. I never wanted to be away from them, and was willing to stay with their abusive bi polar/borderline mother just to protect them from her. Its a long story, but suffice it to say, even if they arent mine, I treat them as if they are.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 05:08 PM
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All the other females didnt do that to me. Do me a favor though, when you hear someone contemplating or bragging about doing things like this, set them straight. See if you can make a difference for other people out there. Its too late for me, the system has already had its way with me. I will never get back the years I missed because they wouldnt allow me to visit my kids, just based on her saying I was abusive, and her moving, changing phone numbers, and other things to prevent me from being p…
/r/MensRights01/05/12 02:51 AM
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Do yourself a favor, never get married and always wrap up before you go playing. Be ready to do a paternity test at any time. Its how my life got fucked up, and the kids and I are pretty sure I am not the biological father.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 02:29 AM
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My ex used the money for clothes, shoes, smokes, and going to the bar. My kids only ever got clothes from me and my mother, and I got their school supplies every year. She got $1000 a month from me, and spent damn near nothing on the kids. Now the youngest is fed up with her shit, lives with me, and the ex wants me to continue paying her worthless ass, while I support the kid. She only wants the gravy train, she doesnt give a rat fuck about anything else. She was really pissed today when the kid…
/r/MensRights01/05/12 02:25 AM
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Fuck that, its s privilege for a woman to fuck me, because its only then will she ever have the chance to get in my wallet.
/r/MensRights28/04/12 10:44 PM
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Well really though, who wouldn't want to suck off a president... other than me of course...
/r/MensRights23/04/12 05:59 PM
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Or if they do have failings and monumental lapses of judgement it is not to be spoken of. Fuck that, if you're an idiot, you deserve to be called out for doing stupid shit no matter your gender.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 05:58 PM
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Dude I feel ya. My ex was like that. She wanted to be able to fuck anyone she wanted, but if I even looked at another woman, or there was a woman in the general direction I was looking she started a fight. Life is too short to spend it with someone controlling. Im not telling you to kick her to the curb, I am telling you to talk to her about it. Stand up for yourself and dont let her play the divorce/alimony/child support card to control you. I have a woman now who doesnt mind what I do, who I l…
/r/MensRights04/04/12 05:28 PM
2

Meet whom, the ex or the current? Ex I was drunk and chasing down a 54 Chevy with my friend driving. Asked her if she had a boyfriend, when she said no I asked if she wanted one. I was pretty damn hard up, but she changed after being with her a year. BIG change. Met the current through a friend I gamed with online, she was his girlfriend's high school friend. I was her first everything, she had never dated nor had anyone interested in her before, she intimidates men with her intellect.
/r/MensRights30/03/12 12:38 AM
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Reprisals and the human nature of power corrupting easily. If you have some, you want more or all. That is how it went from them being repressed to being oppressors. How religion skews all of this and fits in, along with putting women on a pedestal, well its complex because on one hand it says they are wonderful but at the same time vile and corrupt. The big thing that has the most effect though is how women are perceived to be incompetent, unintelligent, and helpless needing a big strong someon…
/r/MensRights28/03/12 11:31 PM
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The second one is my ex, she felt she deserved everything but had to put nothing into it. She wanted all the money but wouldnt go earn any herself. I busted my ass to do the things I wanted to do, like building one of my cars to run 11s in the quarter, doing things on top of my job. 50% of the money earned by doing car stuff for people after working at my factory job went to the car, the other half went to the family, and she still bitched while sitting around watching TV. She blames me for the …
/r/MensRights28/03/12 10:50 PM
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Same here man. It took me until I was almost 40 to completely throw the religion shit out of my head. The indoctrination that happens to people here is horrible, both religion and putting women on a pedestal. The idea that men have to submit to their wives, or vice versa is reprehensible. Relationships should not be a power struggle or manipulation, it should be partners working together towards common goals, while keeping their own dreams, desires, and hopes intact. Somehow religion and its aff…
/r/MensRights28/03/12 10:41 PM
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Applied knowledge is power. :) Knowing but not implementing is useless.
/r/MensRights28/03/12 07:53 PM
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I guess to say it was around 31 wasnt quite accurate. That is when I decided to make changes to everything I did and thought. Living with a bi polar abuse machine just to be near my kids wasnt worth it. She still stole 7 years of their childhoods from me, and now I have to fix the problems she created in our youngest. I caught on to women playing games and shit when I was 16, when this one wanted me to drive her everywhere and would hint that she would fuck me, but then ditched me. Let her do th…
/r/MensRights28/03/12 06:36 PM
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Good thing man, I hope you never make the same mistakes I made. Growing up in the 70s and 80s was different, you didnt have access to as much information as you do now. Its much easier to protect yourself from this kind of bullshit. Knowing that is what they are doing helps plenty.
/r/MensRights28/03/12 06:26 PM
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Hot damn, its catching on that men dont need to deal with women who are manipulative and play bullshit games like that. Just curious, how old are you? I figured that crap out about 31, just after I lost 155lbs of ugly fat in a divorce.
/r/MensRights28/03/12 05:06 PM
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Well hot damn, we are now at 99%!
/r/MensRights17/03/12 03:46 AM
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My ex did the same thing. Getting $1000 a month, plus her new guys income, would have the power shut off, phones shut off, and getting evicted so she could blow it all on clothes, smokes and other bullshit. The only time my kids got new clothes was when I took them shopping, then they would wear them out until the next time I got back home to get them more stuff to wear. The main reason she left me was because I would not allow her access to the bank account. When she had it I was overdrawn two …
/r/MensRights16/03/12 05:30 PM
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The problem is if we go around killing judges and shit before offing ourselves, then other men suffer more. They will enact laws to prevent it, such as losing your 2nd amendment rights when going through a divorce, rather than actually change the fact that men are being financially ruined for a woman who could work, but wont, or in cases like this. The only way it would possibly work is if we self immolated on the courthouse steps. Even then it is swept under the rug and attributed to being craz…
/r/MensRights12/03/12 02:30 AM
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That works too, as long as there is no extradition or you dont mind never seeing your kids again. I was screwed, she left and the state fucked me while I was in the military. Now a disabled dad, I am dependent on the Gov to survive, and of course the state wants most of it for her. Lucky for me, its not this fucked up judge, because my only option would be a bonfire in the yard and eating a .45 ACP.
/r/MensRights12/03/12 12:56 AM
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Rush is indeed a fucktard. Not really a bad joke, just hard to catch it in text. :)
/r/MensRights12/03/12 12:54 AM
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Fuck yeah.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 04:21 PM
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I am all for birth control as well as not getting married.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 04:19 PM
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Simple solution? Suicide instead of divorce.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 01:44 AM
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Read that as women should be entitled to most of what the man they used to be married to earns, so they can do nothing or actually go make something of themselves. Men are only around to provide the income for the woman in payment for any sex and support she might have allowed him while they were married. So in essences, Wendy Murphy is saying women should be prostitutes that get paid continually after they are no longer fucking the John.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 01:31 AM
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This makes me feel honored to have a woman who doesnt try to hint her way to things, and doesnt believe I am only there to protect her and give her money. It seems like the majority of the women in that thread are just like my ex. IMHO all of them should be forever alone, they dont deserve a man in their lives if they cant treat us right and think of us as equal humans.
/r/MensRights29/02/12 05:52 PM
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As a man who was physically abused growing up, assaulted almost daily in school, survived two wars in the desert, has been hit by a car, and now has PTSD, I would tend to feel I know about threats and violence. Then consider that I lived with an abusive spouse for 8 years, she was the most violent person I have ever known. Which if you know about my older brother and how he treated me, is no small thing.
/r/MensRights29/02/12 05:29 PM
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Regarding my ex wife, since she has a hammer lock on immature, she should know it pretty fucking well.
/r/MensRights28/02/12 07:02 PM
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Perhaps I will write an article about that, except I have never seen a reality TV show, just read about them. Perhaps I am not in a position to write such an article... You know, too busy doing shit to watch TV and waste time doing nothing.
/r/MensRights28/02/12 07:00 PM
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Fuckin eh. I am 42, married, and have spent the better part of my life in the military. I game almost every night, mostly FPS and the woman knows it is enjoyable for me. Its actually good therapy at times, as it lessens issues I have from serving in two wars. I also build way over powered muscle cars, some think that is the realm of 16 year old fantasy. Fuck that, its what I do and I am good at it. Neither of these pastimes are indicative of not growing up, even if I still choose to act like a v…
/r/MensRights28/02/12 06:56 PM
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That is because it isnt them, and they never see themselves being disabled and owing lots of money. The really fucked up thing? My sister had a kid with a guy, who was supposed to pay her $60 a month, and rarely paid it. They wont do shit to him, but they are fucking me and cost me almost everything I ever worked for.
/r/MensRights28/02/12 07:17 AM
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Men can be homeless even when they are employed. I was homeless while on active duty in the US military, because they took $1000 a month from E4 pay, which at the time was $1740 a month. My house back home was foreclosed, lost my security clearance, I was constantly harassed by my units for financial problems, cant get a passport now due to arrears after being medically discharged and ending up 100% disabled. The fucked up thing? My 15 year old daughter is now living with me by choice, her mothe…
/r/MensRights27/02/12 11:34 PM
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My wife, who is the Chief of the local department, would agree that women should be able to do the same task as men. She had to drag a 240lb guy out of a building. She has to haul the hose around, and do all the work the guys do. She gets incredibly pissed when some other female comes to a training meeting and cant or wont do her share. Around here it isnt like the military where women have to do much less than men do for a fitness test. They have to do the same things.
/r/MensRights27/02/12 09:04 AM
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Of course, I am ugly as fuck. I know I am ugly as fuck. They used to call me Farva when I still wore glasses and had a mustache. You know "I dont want a large Farva" even though I am not nearly as fat as the actor who played him. Funny thing, after I reached 35, and even more after 40, women of all ages are staring at me with a different look than when I was in my teens and 20s. Its the same look I get when I met a woman who didnt take external appearances over who I was. Must be a daddy issue. …
/r/MensRights23/02/12 06:14 PM
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I was cargo in the AF, consider it a physically demanding job, as well as attention to detail and spatial skills. Being big and very capable, I often got stuck with the women who either wouldnt put in the effort, or couldnt. The worst was an anorexic looking E5 that couldnt lift a 5 gallon igloo, she was utterly worthless in a heavy lifting job, and of course I got stuck with her. I never said anything bad to her, but damn I busted my ass making up for her. Then there was the E3 that came from a…
/r/MensRights22/02/12 08:36 PM
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Apparently you are better looking or more attractive in some way. That is the only thing I really noticed a big difference in how men were treated by women. Of course not all the women were like that, the few female friends I had were not like that, except one was a lesbian. I was the only guy in the unit who knew she had a girlfriend, and we got along great.
/r/MensRights22/02/12 08:30 PM
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Want to know the ludicrous part about it? I am not a small guy, though I am only 5'8" I have benched over 500lbs, wrestled for the AF at the base level in Europe, and have all sorts of interesting training, yet my 145lb ex wife used to beat on me. The cops laughed about it after they saw me, like what could she do to me? Living with her was pretty fucking rough, every day she would start a fight and throw shit, hit me, scratch and rip my shirts. Finally one of my 1st Sgts realized I was the abus…
/r/MensRights22/02/12 07:25 PM
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That sums up what I had to do in the military. I was counseled for telling one female in my unit 'you look nice today' because I didnt look good enough to talk to her. Overseas that happens more, they get hit on so much even the fat ugly ones think they are super special. We called it "Golden Pussy Syndrome" and it was worse in the desert. Males do it too. I had a female NCO who augmented my duty section when we were incredibly busy. Her and I got along great, we had a banter we did together and…
/r/MensRights22/02/12 01:48 PM
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There is a different hotline for us veterans, they wont call the police and tell them we are barricading ourselves in the house with guns. They know that almost all of us have guns, and they do a wonderful job of helping us get through rough patches. The last one I had was back in 10, and the mother in law called the state police and they came and talked to me. Two separate occasions and they didnt do anything like what happened to this guy. It really makes me less apprehensive about the police …
/r/MensRights08/02/12 12:04 AM
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That is exactly what the ex did. She would use it as a weapon and a manipulation device. Do what I want and we can do it. Then when we get ready to do it she says, 'how about when we go to bed?' Bedtime arrives and its 'lets do it in the morning.' Morning arrives and its 'lets do it later today' and on and on like that. I just gave up on fucking and ignored her ass when she wanted something. It was easy to ignore her when most of the time she just wanted to start a fight so she could feel like a…
/r/MensRights07/02/12 11:45 PM
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Not statistics, more like experience. I was on the verge of being the type of guy who considered women a nice moist warm place to jack off, because that is what far too many of them acted like. Lucky for me, and probably for a few actually decent women out there that I would have met and used, I met someone wonderful. It only took 30 years of trying, looking, and meeting women from all over the world. I see the shit some guys are going through due to the princess mentality, self centered and ent…
/r/MensRights07/02/12 06:37 PM
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I hope you do, I just want more people to feel that way and practice it. Since most say one thing and do another, it would be refreshing to have more people actually treat others equally.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 08:28 PM
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why does a woman like those in the articles is so obsessed with it? She sees all the other women who get something for years after being the worst person imaginable, and she wants the money flowing in to her as well. I find it interesting that when the woman cheats, is abusive, and takes off with the kids she is rewarded for it. Somehow both of my sisters got shafted by the system, and they didnt cheat or do any of the horrible things my ex did. There is no sense to all of it. Why do I as a male…
/r/MensRights06/02/12 08:22 PM
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No one should ever be shone preference in society just because of their sex either way, men or women. Well do everyone a favor, and get others to feel the same way, and then practice it. I am all for it and will support you. If it were equal for everyone, I would be completely for it.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 08:13 PM
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I learned it the hard way ten years ago. I am still paying for it. I tell every young guy I meet who is talking about getting married to think about what happened to me, and to millions of other guys out there. There is absolutely no incentive for a man to marry, none.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 08:09 PM
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I got one who isnt, after over 150 tries with others. That is 150 out of around 3000 women I have met, worked with, or known in 40 years. Two of them were worth being with long term. The rest were just like the women described in the article, and comments in this thread. They can be alone, they can be self centered, they can want to be treated like a princess and expect not to have to put anything in the relationship. Nobody said they were entitled to a patsy who would bow to the platinum vagina…
/r/MensRights06/02/12 08:06 PM
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That worked quite well for me, but I still lost 7 years of their lives to her because of the lies she told them.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 12:16 AM
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I had much better luck with the women outside our country.
/r/MensRights05/02/12 06:41 PM
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I wonder why it is always a woman who decides she needs to enter the lane I am currently occupying.
/r/MensRights29/01/12 06:58 AM
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Im disabled military, so I know exactly what you're talking about. She didnt get special treatment at all. Funny thing, she is the chief now, mainly because its a small department, everyone else is older than her, but with less training. She is an EMT and has a bunch of other medical certs (or whatever they are called) and is also a wildland fire fighter. I am 260 and she can move me pretty well, despite being half my weight. Being an AF cargo guy, and a big one that could lift or move more than…
/r/MensRights29/01/12 06:49 AM
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My wife prefers I go first as well when its an unknown environment, even though she is quite capable of taking care of herself. If it is somewhere she knows and is comfortable, she doesnt give a rats ass who goes through the door first.
/r/MensRights27/01/12 05:12 PM
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My wife is a firefighter, yeah really she is, and she had a guy apologize for opening the door for her. She just told me the story about it happening two nights ago at a training event. She agrees that its a no win for men because some women get pissed if we dont open it, while others get pissed if we do. Let me tell you, its nice having a woman who sees herself as my equal without trying to be my superior. She doesnt believe in special treatment because someone has a vagina, but she also doesnt…
/r/MensRights27/01/12 05:10 PM
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Nope, in my home sate I have no recourse. I am on the hook and cant get a damn thing from them.
/r/MensRights16/01/12 05:02 PM
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Sort of, I am a disabled veteran living on VA and Social Security, so if I were to leave the country, if I could get a passport which I cant, I could lose my compensation. Not being able to work a normal job would pretty much prevent me from actually living anywhere else. The PTSD component makes me rather volatile under stress, something I dont deal well with that work environments seem to foster. My only way out would be to set fire to what I own, and put a bullet through my brain stem. Or jus…
/r/MensRights16/01/12 04:02 PM
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I dont know for sure whats happening yet, the state drags their feet but damn its been a year of me having to pay her and I have custody.
/r/MensRights16/01/12 03:52 PM
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I was homeless while serving in the military because she took off with the kids, claimed I was abusive without proof, and they took all but $600-$800 of my pay every month. Trust me, I felt the consequences of marrying someone who was untrustworthy. It got worse when I was injured on a deployment, put out on a medical, and had to wait almost a year for the VA compensation to start. When it did start I got barely enough to survive, no way could I send the ex her $1000 pound of flesh each month an…
/r/MensRights16/01/12 01:14 AM
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Well a woman here can get away with taking off with the kids, then being rewarded for it. Why would Sweden be any different despite laws against it?
/r/MensRights14/01/12 04:18 AM
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I like the way you think, and I see some relevance in that. It still confounds me how many women want to simply use a man for everything from a ride to climbing the social ladder, and expect to give nothing in return save for the promise of sex.
/r/MensRights09/01/12 04:05 AM
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laughing black women are hot.
/r/MensRights09/01/12 02:17 AM
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and the women who dont look good in a bikini are pissed because they cant get anything.
/r/MensRights08/01/12 05:44 PM
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Im 42 and most of the women I date are between 19 and 45. So yeah, that might be part of the problem. Be smart, wrap up before you go plowing the field.
/r/MensRights07/01/12 10:37 PM
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No worries, that bullshit doesnt happen when you get older. Once you hit 40 things change for the better, just dont fuck up and have kids with some harpy and end up being destitute from paying her child support. When you get to this age women are available from 20-60, and the ones over 40 usually just want some good fuckin without the bullshit. The younger ones look at you as a father figure or someone not to be trifled with, and somehow gray hair is seen as a good thing on men by quite a few yo…
/r/MensRights07/01/12 10:35 PM
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If we do fight against it it is a waste of what limited funds we have, because they arent going to change the laws. Also, we get fucked by the system even harder.
/r/MensRights07/01/12 10:12 PM
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No matter how much I squeak, nobody cares. Not even that I was homeless while on active duty in the military because they left me with less than $800 a month. It is irrelevant if we are the actual fathers or not, all that matters is that we pay whatever they require us to pay. If you say it is wrong or too much of a hardship, then we are whining and trying to get out of paying for our kids, even if they arent ours. This I know from first hand experience.
/r/MensRights07/01/12 10:10 PM
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Honestly I love sluts, and I really appreciate women who dont sleep with every swinging dick they meet too. To each their own, its not like every man needs to have, or will have, more than 50 partners in his lifetime, women need to find out who they are too. It is irrelevant to me how many partners anyone has had, provided they are not spreading an STD. Its their business, and if they want the attention that dressing a certain way gets them, then hey they can enjoy it or deal with it if it gets …
/r/MensRights06/01/12 04:07 AM
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Also she sounds pissed she was born with a vagina and later grew tits, which makes her resent anyone who isnt like her. I suppose it might have been exacerbated if/when she was turned down by some jerk she found attractive. I like women, I just dont trust them as a whole, on a person to person basis, well everyone has a chance to be trusted. It must be terrible that I appreciate that some people are born with vaginas and grow tits later on, and some dont.
/r/MensRights05/01/12 02:27 AM
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I think they learned it from religion.
/r/MensRights05/01/12 02:21 AM
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I would buy more guns, but it would cut into the funds I spend on muscle cars. I dont spend anything on porn, so that is a plus.
/r/MensRights05/01/12 02:15 AM
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Nah, they only have to work until they can get someone to pay them alimony. Stack up a few suckers and never work again.
/r/MensRights05/01/12 02:12 AM
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You know what most people did when my ex would hit me? Laugh. Even the cops laughed that a 140lb woman was hitting a 220lb man who could snap her neck like a twig. Same thing with one of my subordinates in the military, his wife was 17 years older than he was, and she would hit him with pans, skillets, and whatever else was laying around. The cops laughed about that too, and they were in a different state when it happened. If a woman hits a man, it is ok. I try not to hit anyone because I can re…
/r/MensRights30/12/11 08:40 AM
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Same shit my ex did. I have spent roughly $20k on lawyers trying to get it all worked out, and they made me pay for her lawyer as well. Its so fucked up that my youngest is living with me, and I am still paying the ex for support, and she is getting Social Security checks for my kid because I am disabled. She gets everything and I am supporting the kid. The state wont change it, they just want to fuck me over. She left when I was active duty and I got to see my kids 12 days out of 7 years. She m…
/r/MensRights30/12/11 08:29 AM
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Some of us never even got the 3%. It was her show entirely, nothing I said mattered, I was just there for the dog and pony show. The ex did the same thing to me, and had the state enforce supervised visits for a while. After they saw how the kids interacted with me, and talked to the kids and myself about how abusive she really was, at least they dropped the supervision. It didnt do shit to help me later, even when she tried to off herself with pills.
/r/MensRights25/12/11 05:45 AM
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Its getting better, but financially I am screwed until I die. I will never own a home, or be able to get a loan for anything. That is ok, I would rather deal with cash instead of credit. My chronic pain is manageable now since I have a good mix of meds, and I never have to work again if I dont want to. The problem is, the states dont see a difference between a disabled dad and a deadbeat. Things are getting better, it just takes time.
/r/MensRights25/12/11 05:39 AM
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I play video games to do that.
/r/MensRights25/12/11 05:35 AM
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Hell that is why I am divorced. She tried to control me, wanted to run the money and keep me from doing anything she didnt want me to do, including finishing college. She tried for 8 years and said fuck it. I was quite relieved when she finally left, but taking the kids from me was the worst thing I ever endured. There are good women out there, but they are hard to find. I lived with the current one for 7 years before we got married, and we are not having kids, she kept her name, and its more of…
/r/MensRights25/12/11 05:34 AM
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I have only seen a couple episodes of that show, it just didnt do much for me. If there is anything good I will watch it, right now I am going through 'Breaking Bad' and 'How I met your mother' while hoping WIMYM will get better, though NPH is pretty funny in it. The laugh track kinda ruins it for me. From what I have seen I try to live more like Charlie, just without the huge number of drugs, and trying not to have as many one nighters as NPH. I think I finally found a decent woman, so its kind…
/r/MensRights25/12/11 05:31 AM
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King of Queens, Home Improvement, Family Guy (to a lesser extent since all of them are idiots) Raymond, and the list goes on and on.The basic formula is a fat retarded guy with a hot wife, and he fucks up everything so either he has to face her or ultimately do what she advised in the first place. I want a sitcom to show the life I used to live. With a bi polar woman ho started fights hourly, kept me overdrawn despite a weekly paycheck, cheated on me, and eventually left me to fulfill her life g…
/r/MensRights24/12/11 08:59 PM
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She has an idea now, but its from only one person. The silly twat who has the problem with her at work needs to fix it. There is no reason to treat anyone like that, the problem is I get it all the damn time if there is a kid around, even my own. Actually especially if its my own kid, it kinda sucks having a beautiful daughter and looking like I am only about ten to fifteen years older than her. Women have a HUGE problem with her being near me. I think the interesting thing is the bitch calls he…
/r/MensRights24/12/11 08:50 PM
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One almost certainly isnt. Its a long story, and somehow she came up positive on a pregnancy test the day after we did it. The oldest one, not nearly as sure as the youngest, but going by the track record of the ex, it is seriously doubtful. Things she has said to both of them have confirmed her own doubts to them. She is worried the gravy train will end if they arent mine, but the state doesnt give a damn. When a 14 year old girl is an inch taller than her supposed 5'7" father, and the ex's pre…
/r/MensRights21/12/11 04:24 AM
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Karma doesnt pay my bills. If they can figure out how a 14 year old girl is taller than her 'father' (and his entire family) when her mother is 4 inches shorter, and also fill in the blanks about her conception, then they would understand why we are relatively certain about her being someone elses kid. I dont mind paying for them, I do mind being financially ruined so some deceitful woman can sit around doing nothing. Women arent the problem in this case, the laws of my home state are.
/r/MensRights21/12/11 04:01 AM
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Oh, if it were only support that would be one thing and not a problem. Being forcibly put into poverty and left homeless while serving the the Armed Forces, that is entirely another. The law stipulates they must leave you with $950 a month, they left me with between $500 and $850 for more than a year. Still, how does one survive on $950 a month when rent is $600+ each month, and you need to keep your uniforms up, eat, and have transportation? Then consider being disabled during a deployment, bei…
/r/MensRights21/12/11 03:56 AM
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Its also why I should have gotten a paternity test rather than trust her.
/r/MensRights20/12/11 08:35 PM
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In Nebraska the woman can, by simply leaving the kid somewhere. The man however, he is fucked even if it isnt his biological kid. I got out of the gene pool, my swimmers cannot escape, just to prevent someone from claiming any kid is mine. Been there, done that, got anal raped through my wallet by the state.
/r/MensRights20/12/11 07:48 PM
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Yeah, I was prevented from getting custody when the ex tried to kill herself simply because I was in the military. Anyone else would have gotten the kids, but not a military member. The first problem was I married a crazy bitch, really she was crazy and still is. When she is on her meds she is not nearly as bad. The onset of her bi polar and other shit was about two years into the marriage.
/r/MensRights04/12/11 07:01 PM
2

I was active duty military when she took off with them one night. Not much I could do about it, the state and my unit kinda fucked me over on it.
/r/MensRights02/12/11 08:06 PM
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My ex has raised our youngest daughter (15) to be like that, or just like she is. Make me happy or I will leave. She couldnt handle living with her mother, so she moved 850 miles away to be here with me. When she realized she would have to work a little bit, she started saying "I am going home to mom" and using it as a weapon. Her mother is abusive, screams and yells at her, and her step father likes to look at her in the bathroom through a crack in the door. If those two ever split the ex will …
/r/MensRights01/12/11 09:09 PM
1

They use best interest of the child as justification for that. All it does is create animosity between the parents, and I have yet to see it go the other way. If she is owed money, she will get it regardless, if she owes it, nothing will happen from what I have seen. Sure it may be different in some cases or states, but that is how it works with everyone I know. I am rather thankful she decided not to get alimony from me, if she had I wouldnt have had enough left to survive. As it was I lived fo…
/r/MensRights30/11/11 04:22 PM
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Only in Australia, no way would the US courts ever decree a woman should pay the man back when the kid is found not to be his. I am pretty certain my youngest is not mine, hell she is taller than both of us and she is only 15. The circumstances with her conception are also very suspect, and I now know my ex was cheating often with multiple partners. My case is a bit different, and since I cannot get anything back I have paid to that woman, we are not about to get a paternity test. That would onl…
/r/MensRights27/11/11 08:27 PM
3

Well shit, now I kinda like the kid even if his 'music' annoys the fuck out of me. Kick her lying ass young man that looks and sounds like my 14 year old daughter...
/r/MensRights17/11/11 05:04 PM
2

That is why I got out of the gene pool a few years ago. Men can still get someone pregnant in old age, so I decided after 37 I didnt want any more kids... ever. Never again will I allow a woman to have that much financial, emotional, and physical control over me, hell I wouldnt allow a man to, why would I let a woman? When the ex took off with the kids and had the state rape me, it really changed my point of view. It only took one more cheating woman after her to convince me that was it.
/r/MensRights05/11/11 08:21 PM
1

Mine was two years ago and it was vastly more expensive. I got the procedure done for free, but to get that required serving in two wars and getting broken in the process. It was nice getting out of the gene pool and the wife likes it too, she always hated condoms. I used frozen peas on the first day, after that it wasnt too bad. It was really fun having 5 slightly older women prep me, and then having a woman from the front office who was thinking about nursing watch. Next to the PRK eye surgery…
/r/MensRights03/11/11 10:08 PM
2

That first sentence happens to men all the time, and the woman has all the incentive she needs to take off. She will be compensated for it at his expense, even to the point of leaving him destitute living in a cardboard box. There is plenty of reality behind the quote "Instead of getting married, I will just find a woman I dont like and buy her a house" they get anything they want, no matter what it does to the man, and no matter what she might have done to fuck things up. She will get rewarded …
/r/MensRights31/10/11 01:46 AM
2

Most often with the first four, E1-E4. They get paid shit and do most of the hard labor. I was still an E4 when all this happened, thats why I didnt have enough to live on. Most of the younger people dont have two kids when the spouse leaves them in the military, but I was 32 when she took off. Its hard to make it at the lower ranks, and even harder when a state takes all but a couple hundred bucks of your pay from you. I got promoted in Korea, but the pay didnt come through until I was back in …
/r/MensRights27/10/11 05:35 PM
1

As long as they dont take everything away from me, I am staying a while. I have rebuilt my life, again, and have a good wife who fits me almost perfectly. As it is I stay busy building old cars that I collected for decades, now some of them are worth something, but I dont want the ex to know about them. They were non running and looked like shit when she was with me, so she had no idea of the value and didnt want them. If she had known what they are worth, they would be gone, she would have clai…
/r/MensRights27/10/11 05:12 PM
2

Perhaps, but do I want to endure more pain and poverty because of letting my voice be heard? There is a reason I didnt put this in IAMA. I dont want them coming after me again.
/r/MensRights27/10/11 06:24 AM
2

Our wallets do quite often.
/r/MensRights27/10/11 06:21 AM
3

Damn. I feel like I just read a biopsy of my first marriage. Why yes she claimed I was abusive because I used logic, and also because I wouldnt allow her to spend all the money I made the afternoon I got paid. Women cant abuse men, that is what one of the cops said when they showed up from things being thrown in the street and yard, by her of course. I found a logical woman with a high intelligence, and life is much better now. She cant imagine me being abusive in any way, but it did take me 5 y…
/r/MensRights27/10/11 06:21 AM
3

Other religious types who fucked me over. 1st guy. Ssgt supervisor in Germany. Pentecostal from Jacksonville Fla, didnt like that I changed my religion from Lutheran to Muslim to marry an Arab woman. It also bothered him that a white guy was marrying an Arab, and one of the black female NCOs in my shop overheard him bragging about how he was going to fuck me over, she told me and got in big trouble herself. He got off scott free on that one. He also fucked over my leave and manipulated things wi…
/r/MensRights27/10/11 06:12 AM
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It just so happens both of those topics are related. A southern baptist guy was my supervisor in early 2002 when this went down. The wife had left in June 01 and moved 1500 miles back to our home state. I had a break in service, so I was older but without much rank and the supervisor was about 7 years younger than me. I did not share his religion and he was not very discreet about his feelings on the matter. I had a court date coming up, so I had put in for leave. It was to start on Saturday and…
/r/MensRights27/10/11 05:54 AM
2

I know. Someone mentioned I should post this, and I probably could have worded things differently. I dont see it going anywhere on reddit, simply because most dont give a fuck, and those who do are so few in number we are insignificant. I know why Thomas Ball did what he did, and similar thoughts have crossed my mind repeatedly. Even mentioning him gets you loads of hate. I am just waiting for everything I have worked to rebuild again is ripped away from me. I am too old and crippled to start ov…
/r/MensRights27/10/11 05:31 AM
1

No, not sure. I dont want to find out since laws and sentences are vastly different from men to women. Especially militarily trained men who can bench 500lbs.
/r/MensRights27/10/11 05:21 AM
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Another post I made not long ago, fills in some history. Dad was a farmer, and farming in the 70s and 80s was rough, so he was frustrated often. He would take his frustrations out on me. I was beaten, kicked, slapped, screamed at, berated, called a lazy worthless piece of shit, thrown around and I was afraid of my dad until I was 16. That year I ended his physical abuse, he swung his arm back to hit me and I knocked him flat out. He didnt get up for fifteen minutes or so, and never tried to hit …
/r/MensRights27/10/11 01:16 AM
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I was homeless for over a year while on active duty in the USAF. The state took 68% of my gross based on a month where I was deployed, which ended up being 80% of my regular pay, including the non taxable allowances such as Basic Allowance for Housing/Sustenance (BAH/BAS). The non taxable allowances are subject to change with permanent change of station and other factors, so they arent supposed to be included. They left me with less than the $900 the state of Nebraska law says they have to leave…
/r/MensRights27/10/11 01:14 AM
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Good idea...
/r/MensRights27/10/11 01:14 AM
3

Same with my ex, she gets a reward, money for nothing, and I end up homeless for a couple years... and technically I still am. I would be a liar if I said the thought had not crossed my mind.
/r/MensRights27/10/11 01:13 AM
2

Its up, with a short summary. It isnt a chore, but people often dont like to read my long winded replies.
/r/MensRights27/10/11 12:16 AM
2

So you want me to write a book, or a handful of short stories broken up into the segments of my life. Why not. I will put up an AMA and see where it goes.
/r/MensRights27/10/11 12:01 AM
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So, since my ex wife abused me, and my older brother beat me mercilessly for 16 years, I could go back and kill them now? Oh wait, it wont work. I dont have a vagina.
/r/MensRights26/10/11 06:05 PM
1

Would you want the entire story, including childhood abuse as well as the raw deal I got in the divorce, and from religious nuts in the military?
/r/MensRights26/10/11 05:51 PM
1

Did that too, they stuck me in a psych ward for a week, put me on a suicide watch, and was part of the reason I had no days off for the last two months. The Colonel who was the head shrink on base thought I was just trying to get out of going, so he toyed with me, and ended up making things worse for me. The only nice thing about it is now all my mental health issues are service connected.. :)
/r/MensRights26/10/11 05:49 PM
1

I have not but my wallet has quite often.
/r/MensRights25/10/11 06:52 PM
2

I've thought about it, not really sure where I would start. I have been fucked over by men and women, abused by both as well. Its only partly about mens rights, its also human rights and common decency. Also most of my replies are novel or short story length, but if people are willing to read, I am willing to share my history. I would hope someone else would have a better life or be inspired to change something if they knew my story, but Im not sure people would care. If people in here want me t…
/r/MensRights25/10/11 06:36 PM
2

Base legal wouldnt touch it. They dont get into civil matters. I got to stay in the dorms for a couple weeks prior to PCS to Korea, because I was sleeping at the duty section. The Shirt and Msgt thought I was trying to get out of going, so they were no help, and the MSgt actively tried to force me to sell my car and tools, and even went so far as to manipulate the situation and prevented the only guy in my unit on my side from getting my car into storage. The Msgt knew if my car stayed on base f…
/r/MensRights25/10/11 06:25 PM
3

A fucked up childhood often results in an adult life rife with mental issues and trying to make them better by making everyone laugh. Its how I dealt with mine for years, making people laugh made me feel better. Im glad he was able to get up and stay up, it isnt easy.
/r/MensRights25/10/11 06:04 PM
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Im better now, but still fighting with Nebraska. I have custody of my youngest, but still have to pay the ex for her, and the ex gets the Social Security Disability payment for my kids. I am a disabled veteran now, and they are still rewarding her for being a worthless piece of shit. At least my daughter is out of that abusive hell she spent 14 years in with a pedo step dad.
/r/MensRights24/10/11 11:08 PM
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I was homeless for over a year while on active duty in the USAF. The state took 68% of my gross based on a month where I was deployed, which ended up being 80% of my regular pay, including the non taxable allowances such as Basic Allowance for Housing/Sustenance (BAH/BAS). The non taxable allowances are subject to change with permanent change of station and other factors, so they arent supposed to be included. They left me with less than the $900 the state of Nebraska law says they have to leave…
/r/MensRights24/10/11 10:44 PM
2

Obviously the author has never been to a WalMart.
/r/MensRights21/10/11 05:39 PM
3

Dads arent supposed to have custody, they are supposed to provide the wallet. Good on him.
/r/MensRights13/10/11 06:55 AM
0

Well of course, that kinda goes without saying. Rarely is anything black and white. Its also why I dont hate all women, just those that try to harm or limit me in some way. I dont harm or limit them, I should receive the same courtesy.
/r/MensRights08/10/11 01:58 PM
0

So what is it when the ex wife has the kids, wont allow visitation, doesnt pay the bills and runs out of food mid way through the third week of the month because she spends all their money on bullshit? My youngest is living with me now, because her mother cant handle her. It pains me daily to see how that woman fucked up my daughter. Why didnt my ex ever do the right thing? Why is she still rewarded for doing all the wrong things, and I am still paying her despite having custody?
/r/MensRights08/10/11 05:38 AM
6

feminists can be male and female. Its not exactly gender exclusive.
/r/MensRights08/10/11 04:38 AM
0

You are right, everyone has that opportunity to do the right thing. Why is it that so many wont, even if they will benefit from it?
/r/MensRights08/10/11 04:37 AM
1

Its difficult not to hate some of them when they have been so heinous to us. Doesnt mean we hate all of them.
/r/MensRights08/10/11 04:34 AM
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Yeah sure, in Australia. No fucking way would that happen in the states. Once they get it, its gone forever. Even if you arent the father, you still gotta pay if you have ever paid.
/r/MensRights08/10/11 04:31 AM
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But doing that would mean more men are not utilized properly as wallets.
/r/MensRights08/10/11 04:30 AM
3

Why do so to men? They cant be utilized as wallets for single mothers if they dont man up, knock her up, and then get fucked over when they inevitably have to lawyer up.
/r/MensRights05/10/11 12:30 AM
1

She is married to a guy ten years older than me that she can control. If your mom was 5'4" and 240 then she would be perfect. How close are you to Nebraska?
/r/MensRights29/09/11 02:11 AM
3

The abusive twat I was unintelligent enough to marry did exactly that, started shit daily if not hourly.
/r/MensRights28/09/11 05:04 PM
9

Men are on their own, if they cant afford to live then they arent worth thinking about. If they cant pay to support a female, then they have no purpose in life. All we are is wallets, wallets dont need a house to live in.
/r/MensRights24/09/11 11:48 PM
10

I know, I am being sarcastic. The cops would always want to haul me off when the ex would attack me. I never hit that bitch, but she really deserved it, I knew I would be going to jail for sure at that point, no matter what she had done to me.
/r/MensRights23/09/11 04:51 PM
11

It was a plea for help, not an attack on someone.
/r/MensRights23/09/11 04:38 PM
5

I wish there was a legal difference between a deadbeat dad and a disabled dad.
/r/MensRights19/09/11 05:36 PM
9

As a disabled dad with a state breathing down my neck I entirely agree. Particularly when they take everything in my account the day after I get paid, leaving me nothing for a month. They have done this twice now when I have been paying. Now I have my youngest living with me, and I am still paying the ex for her, since the judge thought I should pay the ex instead of being able to spend if on my kid. Fuck all this shit. There actually is a US Code that prohibits anyone from garnishing or seizing…
/r/MensRights19/09/11 04:48 PM
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You are more right than you know. They hit me with $1k a month child support when my income was $1740 a month. Knock 22% off for taxes and suddenly I am well under the $900 a month they are supposed to not put us under. Just starting out I was under it, so not only did they abuse me, they fucked me. Ended up losing my security clearance because of it. The list goes on and on, and they have had their way with my credit as well as my wallet. There was two times when they cleaned out my bank accoun…
/r/MensRights19/09/11 02:53 AM
1

Not much you can do when you are guilty before you do anything, and guilty no matter what anyone else does.
/r/MensRights19/09/11 02:07 AM
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I am ex military, been in the last two wars, wrestled in high school as well as in the military, and at my peak could bench over 500lbs. That did not stop my 140lb ex wife from attacking me with thrown objects, anything she could pick up, hitting me, and scratching me while ripping my clothing. I grew up being abused by my father and severely beaten by my older brother until I was 16, and I havent lost a fight since I kicked the shit out of my brother and father at 16 ending my cycle of abuse. I…
/r/MensRights18/09/11 07:42 PM
8

If only Nebraska would allow me to sue the ex for the kids that arent mine. It would be nice if I could make her pay for fucking them up with her crazy and bullshit too, but that wont happen. I just get to fix her fuck up.
/r/MensRights17/09/11 02:07 AM
6

I was deprived of the chance to be that kind of dad. I was punished for being that dad when they were little when she took off with them and the state left me with less than $100 a month to live on. I was punished further by her stealing their childhood from me. 7 years I spent without them in my life due to her. While serving in the military I was not allowed to see them very often, they said I was an unstable parent, and wanted to only allow supervised visits. It was less than 15 days in those…
/r/MensRights06/09/11 07:55 PM
1

Ah but it only goes one way... usually. Thats my bitch. I wasnt really disagreeing with you, simply shooting for clarification.
/r/MensRights04/09/11 10:27 PM
2

Well, its interesting. About two months before I was going to Korea, the ex tried to kill herself by overdose. She spent two months in the regional center, and the kids were with her new bf. So I get on the phone with the judge and he says her bf can take care of my kids, because I am not a stable father due to being military. He gave the distinct impression that if she were to have succeeded in her attempt, I would still not be getting custody of my kids, he would or her mother would. It is all…
/r/MensRights04/09/11 03:22 PM
4

Shit man, the ex wouldnt even let the kids go to my parents house to see me on the webcam while I was deployed, stationed 1500 miles away in the states, and she completely vanished and cut me off for the entire year I was in Korea. Its shit like that which has to change. It wont, because men dont matter for anything but a wallet.
/r/MensRights04/09/11 03:36 AM
3

I am a misogynist and I will fuck them any time of the month. Doesnt make a damn bit of difference to me. It is often quite difficult to get most women to swallow it when you pull out for the money shot if they are menstruating....
/r/MensRights03/09/11 07:22 AM
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Even though I have custody of my youngest, it doesnt look like they will be relieving me of paying her mom. Best interest of the child my fucking ass. It has always been about supporting a worthless piece of shit mother, if she works then she doesnt get shit. If she stays home and eats pints of ice cream then you pay through the nose.
/r/MensRights02/09/11 03:21 AM
1

I can get behind that, at least make it hurt and not end up with probation or some other slap on the wrist bullshit. Maybe I am sensitive since I have been falsely accused too.
/r/MensRights01/09/11 12:26 AM
1

sometimes.. I dont hate all women, just the ones worthy of it, which sadly enough is far too many of them, all the time, and most of them quite often. There are a few I dont hate, but those that I am unfond of to the extreme would still be loathed were they men. The difference is women often get a free pass due to gender when it comes to violence and outright spitefulness, whereas a man would definitely end up in jail for the same shit.
/r/MensRights31/08/11 02:58 PM
2

I agree, how long does someone get for perjury? Its not like she accused him of turning her into a newt, it was a serious charge that they made up.
/r/MensRights31/08/11 02:54 PM
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So typical women then, increase intelligence and decrease evil and vice versa... just my weekly misogynistic comment...
/r/MensRights30/08/11 04:14 PM
14

Thats what I was thinking, what if he hadnt taken pics and proved they wanted to be there? How many years would dude be spending behind bars for one night of consensual fucking? 20 months is nothing compared to what they wanted him to endure.
/r/MensRights30/08/11 04:12 PM
6

I had not realized that yet, thank you for pointing it out. Women over 35 take it as a compliment, while with the younger ones it depends on how hot you are to them. Why yes I appreciate good looking women over 40, they are rare, and hell why not, I am over 40 too.
/r/MensRights25/08/11 01:13 AM
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Admittedly the only class I have taken about womens studies and feminism is the one where I was schooled by the state about me being nothing more than an income for the witch who cheated on me and claimed the kid was mine. So the school of hard knocks. It taught me the result of the classes everyone else took.
/r/MensRights24/08/11 04:22 PM
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Oh no that is different, women are not wallets.
/r/MensRights24/08/11 04:19 PM
1

Who says I am proud. I am lucky to not have some infectious disease from all the trollops and skanks out there who have shared partners with me through others.
/r/MensRights22/08/11 07:41 PM
1

5'7" and between 220 and 260lbs. True lots of it is muscle, but not many women like thick guys. You want me to teach you personality and how to make women laugh? Laughter is the key to her panties on your floor.
/r/MensRights22/08/11 07:40 PM
1

That, and knowing what to say and what not to say. For an average looking short guy to get as much as I have, you have to know something.
/r/MensRights21/08/11 11:24 PM
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Oh no worries I have gotten more than my share, even with much worse attitudes than that. You are unaccustomed to honesty?
/r/MensRights21/08/11 11:22 PM
3

That is not something I wanted to do, making enemies of women on base was ill advised. It was more fun to spurn their advances when they got back to the states from an overseas tour. We called it Golden pussy syndrome. The attractive women had Platinum Pussy Syndrome.
/r/MensRights21/08/11 06:22 PM
-1

I will do almost anything to get laid, and if being nice is what it takes, I am nice. ;)
/r/MensRights21/08/11 05:36 PM
7

I learned about that first hand. 6000 males less than 300 women on my base in Germany. After three months in country the females changed attitudes. Every female I said hello to I was sexually harassing, according to them after those first few weeks or months. Prior to that I was just a nice guy showing them around Frankfurt, or saying hi. The funny thing was I never chased women on base, I just didnt want a relationship with someone I might be working alongside.
/r/MensRights21/08/11 04:27 PM
-2

They want the external validation but not to be objectified. If your comment doesnt meet with their desired level of validation it is automatically objectifying.
/r/MensRights21/08/11 04:13 PM
0

Indeed, and it gets worse as the male to female ratio differs greatly to men severely outnumbering women, such as on a military base.
/r/MensRights21/08/11 04:11 PM
2

Yep, Nebraska and South Carolina were where the woman could not be the abuser. Nebraska was worse though. Lucky for me I dont live in either of those states now, nor do I live with a crazy abusive bi polar twat.
/r/MensRights15/08/11 04:11 PM
8

That is you going to jail. When my ex would hit me and the neighbors would call the cops, they only cared if I hit her or did anything to her. They didnt give a shit that I was bruised, had ripped clothing, scratches, and had obviously been beaten. They just didnt give a fuck. If I had hit her, I would have been hauled off and charged on her behalf. Believe me I wanted to pound her into dust, but I had to just take it, and try to defend myself without touching her, and certainly without hitting …
/r/MensRights15/08/11 06:11 AM
1

Sounds like my life bro. I never got stabbed, I could take most of the weapons away from her. I was crazy and stupid to stay as long as I did, but I wanted to be there for my kids. Well she ended up with them, and royally fucked me over in the process, because she also has a vagina. I will never stay with a crazy woman again. The first time she starts a fight for no fucking reason, I am out. Get out of my house bitch, go find someone else to abuse with your psycho shit. If my current woman ever …
/r/MensRights12/08/11 08:33 PM
-7

I consider marriage to a crazy violent bitch to be a mental illness as well.
/r/MensRights12/08/11 01:35 AM
5

But it’s your job to help say to some degree, 'Your mom’s an okay person and loves you.' So she should be saying the same thing, not just the man. Damn, I had to constantly prove myself again and again to my kids because of what the ex would tell them. My oldest wouldnt talk to me for three years because of her mother and the lies she told her. Who looks out for the dad? Nobody.
/r/MensRights10/08/11 05:54 AM
1

I would be doing much better if I had not already been subjected to far too many biases against males, particularly in the financial realm.
/r/MensRights09/08/11 08:40 PM
1

Osama already got in a fight, who will you get to play him? OJ Simpson perhaps?
/r/MensRights30/07/11 03:36 PM
2

Being a guy with lots of muscle mass, most women dont dig big guys. Some do, but most dont. Maybe guys thinking they have to workout and get huge is a form of penis envy. Having too much mass sucks. Maybe its that I am not over 6' with 6 figures income too...
/r/MensRights30/07/11 02:59 PM
-1

It depends on your body type and your genetics. For me it is incredibly easy to build muscle, others I know can workout for years and not gain much of anything. In less than six months I went from 15" biceps to 21", 45" chest to 52", and my neck grew from 16" to 20" all in lean muscle. Of course, you really dont want to do the amount of work I was doing to get there, none of it was in a gym. The first Gulf War did it to me, I worked air cargo and all of our forces and their equipment went by air…
/r/MensRights30/07/11 02:55 PM
1

I wasnt disagreeing with you, just expounding on the idea. Certainly not criticizing you or berating either. :) I agree with you entirely my friend. Sorry if I came off as being harsh or judgmental.
/r/MensRights30/07/11 01:45 AM
3

It happens all the time. Women want equality, but the state still views them as weak, incapable, and subservient. If she had the money and she left him, what the hell would he get? Nothing, he would be considered able to work and have to fend for himself and the kids. Its fucked up how so many want all the benefits without any of the drawbacks that we men live with. Violence isnt going to get anywhere, and harming the mother of your kids, no matter how horrible and greedy she is, would not be th…
/r/MensRights30/07/11 12:27 AM
5

A glimmer of hope that she will remarry and pay back 95k pounds? YEAH FUCKING RIGHT! That is not going to happen, she will surely hook up and just live with some guy while her ex scrapes along and has to live like a homeless guy so she can have a nice new house. I guess I have the same thing going, since they want me to pay most of my disability to the ex so she can make over $6k a month while I can either live indoors or eat, but not both.
/r/MensRights29/07/11 05:38 PM
1

Shit man, I paid WAY less than even the girls do when I was 18 and driving a 6.6L Trans Am. Even adjusted for inflation to 20 years ago it was less. You guys are getting screwed.
/r/MensRights27/07/11 05:03 PM
4

That is what happens when anyone puts too much emphasis on shit that doesnt matter, like money. Find someone who fits you, that you can have long conversations about any subject, and be able to communicate any problem, issue, or dilemma without anger or hostility, and you have just found a very good mate. Let them be alone. Let them wish for tall dark handsome with 7 figures. Let the guys hope to get some super model when they eviscerate their manhood. If they want the impossible ideal, well fuc…
/r/MensRights25/07/11 03:21 PM
7

You know what? If she wont date a guy because of income despite personality and all the other positive traits, well fuck her. She doesnt deserve to have anyone. There is more to life than money, and if they are too shallow to see that, well tough shit. They can be forever alone. I dont give a damn.
/r/MensRights25/07/11 05:35 AM
2

So it is all fair when a woman cheats, is abusive, lies, and gets rewarded for it by the state, but a man deserves to be mutilated because he wants to leave her? Well, if I ever do go off the deep end and go full retard, she will be on the short list. Doesnt look like that will happen any time soon though, I gots me a female lawyer.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 02:43 AM
6

Appreciated? Men are just wallets, we are not worthy of anything else.
/r/MensRights21/07/11 07:45 AM
9

I am going to call extreme bullshit on that comment. I agree with you and have something to add. My ex simply cannot manage money. She rarely spends it on the kids, the only new clothes they ever got were from me or my family. Her phone is always shut off, the lights get turned off every few months because she wont pay the bills. My kids spend the summers with me and are astounded that though I get less money from the VA than she gets from both me, the state, and from her new husbands disability…
/r/MensRights21/07/11 07:43 AM
1

Yes I would as well. Very young guys tend to look at the physical attributes, but older men look at far more than that, except as noted above that the stupid men will keep doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result. It takes quite a bit more to keep an intelligent mans interest than physical looks. To me, looks dont matter nearly as much as how intellectual she is. Really it is as simple as dont be morbidly obese and take care of yourself and that is good enough. Even a larg…
/r/MensRights16/07/11 01:56 AM
2

Well you know the state, anything to keep the man down.
/r/MensRights14/07/11 05:17 PM
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Fuck Hugo and that Laura bitch from the comments, it isnt about loving the kids you silly twat. It is about dishonesty and being rewarded for it. The man who didnt knock her up has to pay because she was dishonest, unfaithful, and she reaps the benefits of being a vile repugnant succubus. What we are afraid of is having our lives/finances ruined, more than half of our pay garnished, and the kids we thought were ours taken away from us because the woman is treated as helpless and pathetic by the …
/r/MensRights14/07/11 06:04 AM
1

A distinction for most yes, but there were also people drafted who would have enlisted when we had a draft. Also not everyone who is drafted is unwilling, some will do the job they are assigned very well. We also got people without a draft that would not or could not do the job they were assigned. My thinking stems from how quite a few women are taught to be entitled, and forcing them to serve against their will would result in huge problems for NCOs and the people serving with them. We had a fe…
/r/MensRights13/07/11 03:10 PM
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Shit dude I was already on delayed enlistment when I registered. That was almost 25 years ago, and honestly I wouldnt want drafted women in, we have enough trouble with the ones who want to be there. Of course I wouldnt want anyone who was drafted to be working with me, unless they wanted to be there.
/r/MensRights13/07/11 03:30 AM
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Exactly, but it is a Victorian view of women. You cant say breast or thigh, you cant see them as sexual beings, women are not supposed to enjoy fucking like rabbits or being dominated in bed. They are weak and helpless, so we must give them everything even to the detriment of the man who chose to be with them. Few ever outside the cult claimed that the religious right is reading and using the entire bible as a means to live, they pick and choose. They have no choice because slavery is illegal, a…
/r/MensRights09/07/11 09:35 PM
1

Did you say this twice? If not my reddit is screwed up. Im not in disagreement with you.
/r/MensRights09/07/11 07:46 PM
1

I do that sometimes. Lots going on between my ears, and it wont shut off. The voices! the voices tell me.. ok its not voices, I just do that sometimes.
/r/MensRights09/07/11 07:42 PM
1

Well said. I agree, but see minor differences more prevalent in one gender than the other. Not exactly the same, but the difference is insignificant when it comes to genetics, it could be more a case of nurture than nature.
/r/MensRights09/07/11 07:40 PM
2

I dont have to imagine it, I lived it. While stationed in Germany, that was an option for us if we really wanted to. It was off limits, but rules dont stop people. With 6000 men on base and around 300 single women, the chances of me meeting a woman who would want me over the rest of them was nil. I did pretty well off base after learning some German and a few other languages, but there was always the red light. None of us were harmed, none of them were harmed either. Mutual benefit without the b…
/r/MensRights09/07/11 07:37 PM
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Who is denying reality? I was merely pointing out where those imperatives have gotten us. Identify the issue, then act on repairing it. Unfortunately, sometimes repairs require judicious use of C4 prior to rebuilding.
/r/MensRights07/07/11 01:59 PM
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I agree complaining is not a solution. The effect it has on men does not go anywhere towards fixing the problem due to our reaction to being treated like cannon fodder or an open wallet. The weak men who let people walk on them just let it happen, others when backed into a corner react violently. When that reaction comes they claim it was the mans fault, that he was violent, abusive, and evil, not that he was defending himself or reacting the only way he had left. ref Thomas James Ball It comes …
/r/MensRights07/07/11 01:27 PM
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So it comes downt to having a golden vagina. All hail the vagina.
/r/MensRights07/07/11 12:55 PM
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We are a wallet, a source of income for women, and if she decides to leave for any reason, then we are punished for it. If women commit a violent crime, they get lighter sentences than men do. Men dont matter, except as a wallet that can be seized and given to a woman.
/r/MensRights07/07/11 12:54 PM
2

Paris was bad, everywhere else in France it wasnt that bad and they were polite and relatively nice to me. I can see Parisians having an attitude with all the tourism they endure, but damn you would think they would give a French speaker a chance. Me, I dont know jack shit in French, just little bits and certain words, but being dicks to your Canadian friend, well that is fucked up.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 09:56 PM
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I found the same thing. Only one was a prick to me, long story but I learned Wo ist der toiletten from it. It probably didnt hurt that my entire family came from near Dresden, though we stopped speaking German in 1918 when a guy in my home town was tarred and feathered for speaking German. The only place I found where people were rude and unwelcoming to us USAF members, was France. The Army wasnt welcome very many places, they liked to get drunk then start fights. USAF was no problem in the Fran…
/r/MensRights05/07/11 06:46 PM
1

She was both actually, she had been raped before and couldnt be with a man again. Her and I hit it off great though, and we met in Kuwait, so its not like she hadnt been hit on by horny guys. There were two occasions where I had a female I worked with who was friends with me, and someone else in the duty section had a problem with our friendship. Now that is some shit, having someone else accuse you of harassment when the one you are accused of harassing agrees you are nothing more than friends.…
/r/MensRights05/07/11 06:18 PM
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They sure liked me when I was there, and so did the women from other countries. All I had to do was get off base and say hello. On base it was a nightmare of golden pussy syndrome...
/r/MensRights05/07/11 05:50 PM
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Perhaps its an intelligence thing, since my woman has a degree, and is very intelligent. Her sister is too, but she has had a horrible time finding someone decent, yet she isnt the type to blame all men. My ex mother in law, she hates all men, and she hates my ex's current husband more than me, so that is a plus. She isnt very bright either, so that might be a correlation.. Intellect and not being a crazy bitch.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 05:47 PM
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I got that constantly when I was in the military, though I am not gay, and women would even go so far as to report me for sexual harassment for saying hello. Just being courteous and following the way we do things, greeting others in uniform as you pass, etc, and these females would freak if I said anything. No less than 5 different instances of someone, not just the woman whom I spoke to, taking issue with me talking to her and reporting me. Obviously, I did nothing wrong because no charges wer…
/r/MensRights05/07/11 05:44 PM
1

Sometimes, in the right light, a baboons ass can look quite inviting... There are many many women in the world that no matter how they look, I would not want to have anything to do with them. Looks is about third on my list, and I prefer slimmer girls to larger ones, but large still works if the important thing is there.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 05:37 PM
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Not quite, but where i live most people dont realize it is part of the US. Women up here are survivors, they gotta work to live here so they are down to earth and for the most part logical. Might be the Finnish ancestry too...
/r/MensRights05/07/11 05:33 PM
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I think they are tired of nobody paying their way, that could be part of it. Spend enough time alone and you begin to wonder why.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 12:35 AM
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You guys know what the cool thing is? I have been meeting women who arent hateful bitches, who actually appreciate a man and dont want to control him. Shit, it might be that I am older and look more distinguished now with the gray hairs. They must think I am rich.....
/r/MensRights05/07/11 12:29 AM
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I know I dont want to bone her, I have standards after all. My standards are not based on appearance, I feel sorry for those that are.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 12:26 AM
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Its already getting that way, but the women dont see it like that. All they see is the good ones are taken, meaning the rich good looking ones already have women. The rest of us just wont do for them, we arent eligible to even speak to one of these golden vagina females. If we do speak to them it is a horrible crime, just because we arent tall dark and handsome. Fuck em.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 12:21 AM
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No kidding they arent all evil. I got mine, do you have yours yet? I have a truly independent, self reliant, and self assured woman. One in a billion she is.
/r/MensRights04/07/11 02:16 AM
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Want in one hand, shit in the other. Right my friend?
/r/MensRights04/07/11 02:13 AM
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Thankfully not all women are like this, but far too many are. My issue is not with the women who earn their own way in life and put in the effort to make life better for themselves and their families, it is with the others. I want them to be equal, but they really dont want to be. They would lose custody and have to pay substantially more in child support. They also would not be entitled to alimony payments because they would not be considered weak and helpless as they are now. They would be eli…
/r/MensRights03/07/11 11:37 PM
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Yeah those women who want prince charming with the 6 figure income until they are 35, you dont want them. Ignore them no matter how hot they are. I was 35 when I finally met a decent woman, it took lots of looking and I spent a shitload of time with fuck buddies. I wasted 8 years with the most vile abusive woman ever. The best thing I learned is never put up with that shit, kick her to the curb the minute she starts a fight about nonsense. Get rid of her the first time she starts a fight about a…
/r/MensRights03/07/11 01:14 AM
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I own a 79 Trans Am that had a woman attack it. It was prior to my owning it, but you can still see the axe holes in the doors and the hood if you look from behind them. I have to admit I have been lucky not to have any of them do that to my cars. I think they know that would possibly result in a severe beating or worse. I would sure as hell be tempted. Perhaps it is also because I would just sand it down and fix it, and thus negate their efforts.
/r/MensRights03/07/11 01:01 AM
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Well then she is a lying cheating abusive whore. Perhaps not, but that kinda pales in comparison to being falsely accused of rape. I know I havent raped anyone, nor will I. I've had enough of my freedom and liberty taken on the behest of a female, no way would I ever consider doing something to allow it to happen again.
/r/MensRights03/07/11 12:57 AM
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Well then why do I believe this is how it really is? Why is it that is exactly my story as well? Why should I be nice to vile repugnant people who lie, cheat, and have the state be their enforcer? This is exactly how the state looks at women, as if they need a white knight to rescue them because they are helpless and downtrodden. The state agency in my home state is run all by women, and they treat it like it is punishment for anyone with dangling private bits. I am not saying ALL women are like…
/r/MensRights02/07/11 08:54 PM
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No it is impossible for a woman to hurt a man. Women are weak, helpless, incapable of doing anything wrong. We should reward them for any achievement even if it is just stating some random man raped her, or that she decided to fuck all his friends and her friends husbands. She should be commended on helping to punish another man for crimes he most certainly committed due to being male.
/r/MensRights02/07/11 03:19 PM
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I would, but I dont deploy anymore. The view from the second floor of the Hilton in Kuwait City is breathtaking though.
/r/MensRights01/07/11 01:00 PM
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I stayed in better hotels when I deployed. Thank you tax payers.
/r/MensRights01/07/11 12:41 PM
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Welcome to my world, this is not news it happens all the fucking time.
/r/MensRights01/07/11 12:36 PM
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The way I see it is it is not the place of the government to tell you what you can or cannot do with your body. That goes for smoking weed, having a fuck trophy yanked out of your snatch, or getting a tattoo. It would be nice if the feminists got into the fight against religious extremism, but I think they will just see that as the man keeping power over women, and many of them are religious as well. You wouold think with how the extremists and fundies want to put women in a permanent second cla…
/r/MensRights28/06/11 08:01 PM
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I agree, that she had him locked up for months, cost him $50k in legal fees, put a black mark on him for the rest of his life, lied, committed perjury, filed a false statement, and beat herself up just to keep him away from the kid should mean more than a heavy fucking heart gives custody to the dad who isnt a psychotic pathological liar.
/r/MensRights28/06/11 07:54 PM
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Yeah no shit, my ex is VERY capable of making shit like that up. Not only that she is violent, abusive, and manipulative. The fact that she has a vagina does not change how vile, corrupt, and inhuman she can be.
/r/MensRights28/06/11 07:50 PM
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I cant get any help with any of this, everyone I contacted has blown it off even the Glenn Sacks guy. So fuck it. I will just sign over my entire compensation to her and go live in a fucking cardboard box. Fucking lot of good asking or ranting or wanting anything to change has done. Utter waste of fucking time
/r/MensRights26/06/11 03:34 PM
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Hell Nebraska wont absolve me of anything if the kids arent mine. I am on the hook no matter what, and get this, when my youngest comes to live with me this fall the ex wont have to pay support because she cant work. Yet I am disabled but I still gotta pay her when I have custody. Its not about the kids, its about making me pay and her having a free fucking ride.
/r/MensRights26/06/11 03:20 PM
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Yeah I dont hold it against them that they are smaller, but I do blame the ones who dont want to work and think they dont have to because they are pretty. Had one low ranking female show up to tie down cargo with us from another unit, she was very obviously office people. She had 4" nails all painted up and shit, not something that is allowed in uniform. Well she stood around and watched because she would break a nail, and talked to the people busting ass to get the job done, slowing them down i…
/r/MensRights25/06/11 04:09 AM
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Of course it hurts them to give them most of our income, they should rightfully get all of it and we should be their slaves. It hurts them that men are using precious oxygen they could be breathing. It hurts them that they have sons who will also abuse women by not handing over the paycheck or being subservient to her. Yes we hurt them all day, every day and they dont do anything to deserve it. They never are violent, they are never abusive, they never have mental conditions, and it isnt cheatin…
/r/MensRights25/06/11 01:58 AM
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I was in a very physically demanding career field in the military, air cargo transportation. Lots of heavy lifting, pushing, moving heavy tie down chains and devices, and only the ugly women got the opportunity to work on the ramp with us. If they were attractive they got an office job or something low impact, while the less attractive ones had to lift with us. Some could do it, most couldnt so we had to take up the slack they left. Since I am able to lift quite a bit more than most men, lots of…
/r/MensRights24/06/11 04:04 PM
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This is how I see it, not just veterans going into politics, but having the leaders do the actual fighting once they are elected. Otherwise they just dont give a rat fuck about us and how we come home all fucked up, then make us live on a pittance.
/r/MensRights24/06/11 12:26 AM
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Reading a bit more of that, she sounds an awful lot like my ex, except mine doesnt drink nearly as much. She is however bi polar and probably a few other things, and she is ok when she is on her meds. Off them she acts like this guys ex. I dont understand how a person with that sort of mental condition where they are abusive and manipulative can be considered the better parent.
/r/MensRights24/06/11 12:21 AM
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Well that is what she apparently doesnt want to continue, helping others, be they male or female. Apparently the courts should decide everything. That is how it worked in my case, no matter what I said or provided, it was irrelevant because she has a vagina.
/r/MensRights24/06/11 12:05 AM
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Well I got fucked by the state on behalf of an abusive lying bitch that did everything wrong in our marriage and took my kids from me. I had no legal recourse at all through this whole thing. I chalked the false rape allegation against me to a crazy drunk bitch who thought she could get anything she wanted by fucking me. Turns out, you have to get me to marry you so you can have everything I have.
/r/MensRights21/06/11 02:35 AM
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Ah but we can make them look stupid before their peers as well as in the public domain.
/r/MensRights19/06/11 08:50 PM
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Holy shit. My ex has done ALL the things on the list in that article. What did I do? I got behind because I got fucked up on a deployment then medically discharged and left unable to work. Fuck him, and cut off his nuts so he cant infect the rest of the world. :) Sorry I was channeling Gunnery Sargent Hartman.
/r/MensRights19/06/11 08:08 PM
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No fuck that. Thinking that I like to look at women more attractive than that fat bitch is going to make me molest kids is abhorrent. Why not just say that because my heritage is German I will start gassing jews, gays, and gypsies?
/r/MensRights19/06/11 08:05 PM
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you said it my friend, we know full well what kind of person is capable that. What I want to know is how she changed so much after only a year. I will admit some of my outbursts, and others like it dont help us much. Its hard not to call the ex what she is though, but not all women are like her, just most I have met.
/r/MensRights19/06/11 05:38 PM
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Well I am happy to know that it wasnt abuse I suffered since I am not female. I feel so much better now. I think I will use my voice.
/r/MensRights19/06/11 03:49 AM
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I think it sheds a poor light on us and our position when we take them with us. Our kids are innocent, the wives probably not so much but still we should not deprive our kids of them. They can learn from even the worst mothers and with guidance we can show them how not to be like their mothers who are horrible people. The way I see it is when we are backed into a corner, when the state wants everything we have and more. When she gets rewarded for being the worst possible person. When they take a…
/r/MensRights17/06/11 03:57 PM
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The worst thing that ever happened to me, even after serving in two wars and growing up physically/emotionally abused, was having my kids taken from me. I missed everything for 7 years because of her and the courts that believed her with no proof other than her word. My word did not count, only hers did. They keep pushing me, they keep making my life harder as if I never cared about my kids, and they are all I care about. I am trying to make it so they have something of substance when I am gone,…
/r/MensRights17/06/11 03:44 PM
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I think he was a man who was pushed too far and felt he had no other option. Then again I might be biased because I am in a very similar situation except I didnt ever hit my kids or the ex. She was equal opportunity with her abuse though. A person can only take so much, and when they want even more some of us just say fuck it.
/r/MensRights17/06/11 04:04 AM
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Shit my wife did that and still does yet she got full custody and I was the one with supervised visits and only got to see them for 12 days in 7 years. I am fucking tired of this shit. Men dont matter anymore.
/r/MensRights17/06/11 04:00 AM
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Well fuck, another veteran who was unable to pay his support being fucked over. Nobody is willing to help us and the states only see us as a wallet. This isnt the way I would go about it, but I know exactly how he felt and what he was thinking. I would be lying if I said I havent harbored similar thoughts lately. I dont feel human anymore either.
/r/MensRights17/06/11 03:58 AM
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So its my fault the bitch took off to go fuck her best friends husband and have three ways with the guy around the corner? How she vanished with my kids with no warning after being an abusive cunt is irrelevant? What I endured just to be near my kids so I could protect, guide, and teach them does not apply? Well thanks CNN for letting me know my kids are worse off because of me despite doing nothing wrong in the marriage, while she is perfect and did everything wrong. No I am not bitter at all. …
/r/MensRights16/06/11 02:25 PM
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I try, but I have known so few women worth of a label other than cunt. :) Perhaps they could do something about that themselves. Its difficult to not be bitter when you are reduced to little more than a wallet they can clean out at will.
/r/MensRights16/06/11 02:13 PM
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When it comes to this issue, men have no rights. I know first hand, and that is why I got out of the gene pool. No woman will ever hold that over my head again and ruin me financially for the rest of my life.
/r/MensRights16/06/11 02:11 PM
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Frank Marino trying to cover his ass and the police forces ass. Fear is a stinky cologne.
/r/MensRights16/06/11 03:12 AM
1

Well, even if she is submissive in some respects she can still be independent and ambitious. The only way I know that for sure is because I found one just like that. However, it took dating over 150 women on four continents and 37 countries to find this one. Like I said, rare.
/r/MensRights15/06/11 08:06 PM
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So a misanthropist?
/r/MensRights15/06/11 07:33 PM
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Anyone who doesnt want to be part of their kids lives is beyond my understanding. The worst thing that ever happened to me perpetuated by another person was her taking my kids from me. I stayed with that horrible repugnant abusive cunt just to be near my kids, and to protect them from her.
/r/MensRights15/06/11 07:32 PM
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Women are not special. I find the majority of them are vile repulsive spiteful bitter cunts. Unfortunately the ones who arent dont make up for those who are. Give me an independent woman who doesnt want a power struggle or a hand out. The rest can rot in a ditch somewhere.
/r/MensRights15/06/11 05:21 PM
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I am solidly in the first category. I have found that your last sentence is spot on. I also agree that porn isnt the start of it, nor is it a large part of the problem. Far too many men try very hard or do anything to get laid, they will hand over anything and everything for some stinky. The false allegations towards me were due to my not letting her have my car. It was much the same with the divorce, because I wouldnt hand over my paycheck and yes she used sex as a weapon. She tired to manipula…
/r/MensRights15/06/11 04:46 PM
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Its tragic when a man takes his own life because then he cant be used as a wallet.
/r/MensRights15/06/11 04:18 PM
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Wow you really missed the point of what I meant. Its ok, I was a bit vague. By getting free I mean financially free, where I dont have anyone taking from me. Not being free from my kids. That is what she wants, me to have no contact with my kids, so she is pushing and manipulating to that end, I wont let her win and I wont let my kids down. I know I am entirely dependent on the government, that is one thing that really chafes my ass. Being dependent is not something I have looked forward to nor …
/r/MensRights15/06/11 04:13 PM
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Let her have a son that gets fucked over like the rest of us. It usually changes her mind about him at least. Just dont be the one to start that pregnancy. Let someone else get suckered into it.
/r/MensRights14/06/11 10:03 PM
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Yeah they are less violent, more truthful, sensible, and less prone to emotional outbursts with incredible self control.... and I have some ocean front property in Idaho for sale too!
/r/MensRights14/06/11 10:01 PM
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Already done, and I am taking steps to ensure it cannot happen again. It just annoys me they did it when I already have a payment plan in place. They can have the money they took this week, I just want something done about all of this so I dont have a sharp blade hanging over my head like I am some French Aristocrat in 1848. The stress and anxiety from all of this is killing me, I just want to be left alone. At least it is motivating me to get free from that fucking cunt, the state, and a few ot…
/r/MensRights14/06/11 09:59 PM
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They dont care if she lets me be part of my kids lives or not. She is legally required to inform me when she moves or changes phone numbers. She never has and the state would do nothing to help me find my kids when she did it. Nebraska wont put a woman under the poverty level with child support, but they will take everything from a man. I have yet to hear about a woman having this shit done to her. This ongoing bullshit and my quality of life is pushing me to think about things I dont like to th…
/r/MensRights14/06/11 07:04 PM
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She has always wanted the gravy train, she left me because I would not just hand over my military pay to her. She was not allowed any access to my accounts because writing bad checks while in the military means losing stripes, time off, money, and my freedom. She is bi polar and horrible with money, so to keep my career alive she couldnt have access. She felt I should just give all the money I earned to her, apparently because she fucked me once in a while, when she wasnt sucking off or fucking …
/r/MensRights14/06/11 04:17 PM
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We werent fraternizing, just working together and talking while we did it. Same rank, but she was augmenting us due to the ops tempo during the war. He had nothing on me and she said I never made any hint of anything otherwise, so it ended up just being my supervisor and his two lackeys fucking with me. That supervisor was the worst I ever had, his last opportunity to fuck with me was preventing me from getting married to a woman from Dubai. He felt it wasnt right that a white boy was marrying a…
/r/MensRights14/06/11 02:23 AM
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Disciplinary counseling is the same, always at least three. These are just feedback that is supposed to be between your subordinate and yourself. I would have another NCO from another section join us.
/r/MensRights14/06/11 02:16 AM
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Forgive me, I am unaware of who Glenn Sacks is. I am waiting on the media until I contact a lawyer. If the lawdog says its ok then I have even more information pertaining to what they did while I was active and deployed. If they do not release my funds they will start a shitstorm I will not end.
/r/MensRights14/06/11 02:14 AM
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Another law they are breaking. Thanks for the info, tomorrow the search for a lawyer worth a shit starts.
/r/MensRights14/06/11 02:04 AM
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This is my current problem that has come to a head once again today. For 5 years I could not pay the $1000 a month support due to being permanently disabled. It took me that long to get Social Security, and they pay for my kids now. The problem is, I still have arrears, and interest building on it, my credit is horribly fucked (very low 500s), and its not like I can go out and get another job to survive. The thing is, nobody is going to do anything about it. Nobody cares if you cant pay, they ju…
/r/MensRights13/06/11 10:43 PM
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I am in that position exactly with the state of Nebraska, and there is no way in hell they will let me recoup damages or not pay for the kid who isnt mine. Although if the kid who isnt mine biologically wants to come live with me, I cannot have custody of the child because I am not the biological father, but I still gotta pay.
/r/MensRights13/06/11 10:29 PM
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Why? Probably because I am a thick kind of guy, intimidating, and the bitches with golden pussy syndrome figured I wasnt good looking. That is about all I can figure as to why. Well for instance. I said Hi to one female and got hauled to the Commander for sexual harassment. All I said was Hi and not in any leering or creepy way, I just wasnt good looking enough to speak to her. Another I said you look nice today, sort of off hand and not like some drunk guy in a bar trying to pick up some ass. S…
/r/MensRights13/06/11 10:23 PM
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I had to have someone else present when giving feedback or counseling to my female Airmen while in the Air Force. Same shit, but if she says it happened, we get fucked over no matter what. That kind of thing follows you, and I had lots of problems with females accusing me of shit I wasnt doing.
/r/MensRights13/06/11 05:43 PM
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Ask them why all women are cheating lying money grubbing cunts. They might see the similarities then, but I seriously doubt it.
/r/MensRights12/06/11 05:13 PM
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Aahhh... I speak bovine... mooo uhoohooooooo
/r/MensRights12/06/11 01:11 AM
0

You actually enjoy large crowds in box stores? Within five minutes of being in a crowded store I start getting combative. Half an hour and I might hurt someone. Kinda sucks, but its fun to go shopping at 0300, as long as it isnt the morning after Turkey day.
/r/MensRights12/06/11 12:52 AM
1

Pretty much, if they choose to suffer through life being afraid of those scary men, well they are missing out on life.
/r/MensRights12/06/11 12:50 AM
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I stay home on those days. Me and large crowds of stupid cattle dont get along. Cattle meaning anyone who is out there regardless of gender or size of their corpulent posterior.
/r/MensRights11/06/11 11:32 PM
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Shit I make men afraid, only a truly strong self assured woman is not going to be afraid of me. Honestly. I'm with you bro, I wont do anything to make them feel afraid, but I am not going to change my life and let them dictate where I will go or what I will do. Most of them want to judge me solely on my appearance, never take the time to get to know me, though if they do talk to me they find out I am nothing like I look. Most dont however, I say let em be afraid of their own shadow, I am no rapi…
/r/MensRights11/06/11 11:30 PM
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Well I have PTSD from the Gulf war and abuse as a kid, so I never really feel safe except on base surrounded by other military members. Its not a good combination having that and living with a bi polar woman. She would start fights with me daily, or any time I did anything nice for her, so I was always on edge and didnt sleep very well with her around. I am not a small guy, only 5'8" but I have interesting training and lots of muscle mass, like benching 400lbs mass. I could restrain her, but eve…
/r/MensRights11/06/11 10:53 PM
4

But men cannot be abused by women, women are just defending themselves from the stronger more violent man. Just like my crazy ex wife. No matter what she did I was always the one the cops would ask to leave or threaten with jail. There was no way I could defend myself against her like I would a man, if I had I would still be in jail for hitting a poor defenseless female. We just have to take it, then give them the kids and half or everything we have worked for when we have had enough and leave t…
/r/MensRights11/06/11 02:43 PM
3

What is the fucking difference? They are words, sounds put together to form a word. People put their own value on words, be it a negative or positive value and it is often disparate from others round them. Last time I checked nobody has the right to not be offended, and it is a choice to be offended by simple words. To me this is just a bunch of finger pointing to get people off track and away from the real issue, that people everywhere are assholes, pricks, or can be at some point or another, b…
/r/MensRights09/06/11 06:23 PM
27

Dont stick your dick in crazy. I did and I am still paying for it.
/r/MensRights09/06/11 06:01 PM
8

No shit it does. I was accused of rape by a bitch who wanted me to give her a car too. After I fucked her she got pissed because I didnt just hand over the keys. As if I am going to just let anyone drive my car, and while inebriated too. Thankfully the early 90s were a bit different than it is now.
/r/MensRights09/06/11 05:58 PM
1

I just want you to know something about some of us XYs. We might come off as being incredibly misogynistic and hateful, but it isnt towards women such as yourself, and a few others I have been fortunate enough to meet in my lifetime. I for one appreciate a woman like in the video or yourself more than I can express. The problem is there are so damn many women unlike you, whom the nice young person is talking about, that it is incredibly difficult and rare to find one like you. Please, be vocal, …
/r/MensRights08/06/11 04:44 PM
1

upvote for TPS reports.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 07:05 AM
-3

Fuck that bitch. Fuck her in the ass with a 6" sewer pipe slathered in jagged rocks held on with crumbling concrete and rusty nails. Why the vitriol? Well it just so happens that I did all that shit, and more when I was married to the ex. She wanted to take care of the money and started fights about it for months until I relented. Once she had access to the accounts I was constantly overdrawn despite being paid weekly, bills didnt get paid, and I would come home to the lights being off. Just hav…
/r/MensRights07/06/11 07:03 AM
3

OMG you are so right.. The highest concentration of crazy cat women in the world. Think of the possibilities for producers of Hoarders...
/r/MensRights04/06/11 05:36 PM
1

I like the pet idea. We should all have dogs, or cats if that is your fancy. Or option #other. Be polyamorous, dont give a fuck who is fucking who as long as protection is used, and also be child free. Lots of women dont want kids now, go find one, take three days off and get out of the gene pool, and fuck anything that moves. Just dont get anyone knocked up and be absolutely sure you cant. Its working quite well for me. Much better than the first wife, who is a mix of the worst possible outcome…
/r/MensRights04/06/11 05:30 PM
8

Imagine how morbidly obese and bi polar that city would be.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 05:22 PM
8

Hey it works for me, I am not terribly fond of fat chicks, nor do I appreciate women who try to control me or want a power struggle. If they hate us, oh well have fun with the dildo while complaining about being unwanted, we will find someone who isnt crazy or manipulative.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 05:21 PM
3

So if someone would shoot at me in church and make it exciting I wouldnt be atheist? Didnt work in the desert, doubt it would work in church..
/r/MensRights04/06/11 04:55 PM
1

Ive never had any complaints, but then again I dont go after the high maintenance bitches either. My woman loves it and so does my FWB, so I dont give a rats ass about what some dumbass chick thinks of them. :)
/r/MensRights04/06/11 04:51 PM
2

after rolling them in flour to find the wet spot, the bread shows on its own. Adds new meaning to the term 'whisker biscuit'
/r/MensRights04/06/11 04:04 PM
1

Like the loaf of bread she has growing out of her snatch?
/r/MensRights04/06/11 07:51 AM
6

They also feel good when impaled on our turgid members.
/r/MensRights01/06/11 06:23 PM
1

Ah but these people tend to change after a while, once they know they have you the crazy comes out. It happened to me, though I did have a couple of hints prior to the full retard starting. Having kids with her made it worse. She was fun to be around, adoring, and close to me for about two years, while starting fights about twice a month. After three years it was a fight daily and plenty of cold. By the time she moved out the first time I was relieved to have her gone despite sleeping on the flo…
/r/MensRights27/05/11 12:25 AM
3

Dont forget the immense number of down votes you get for calling a woman fat on here. Some guys like the fat ones, and I happen to be a fat guy. I dont have much trouble finding a skinny woman who wants to be with me, and even less trouble finding a larger woman who is willing, must be a numbers thing. Yet when I call someone fat its down votes from hell.
/r/MensRights24/05/11 12:13 AM
7

Well of course a female judge gave the lazy cunt $25k a month...
/r/MensRights21/05/11 06:09 AM
1

Ah they would enforce it against me, since I live in another state and she has custody. Just amazed they enforce it when a male has custody is all.
/r/MensRights20/05/11 04:43 AM
4

Im just amazed that they are enforcing the visitation. The other amazing part is he is the custodial parent. I had to come home on leave from Korea then search three towns just to find my kids when the ex moved and shut off her phone. Finally found them through her ex friend, the wife of one of the guys she had been fucking. The cops wouldnt do a damn thing for me, wouldnt even tell me where she lived, and the courts just ignored it entirely.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 09:22 PM
1

That is Nebraska.
/r/MensRights17/05/11 04:48 PM
3

But women dont lie!
/r/MensRights16/05/11 05:29 PM
6

Good luck getting custody. Currently my ex is trying something like this, she wants me to pay support, but our 13 yr old doesnt want to live with her anymore. So she wants a paternity test. My daughter is as tall as I am and only 13, her older sister is just barely over 5' tall. There are other things too that make us all suspicious, but in the end I am her dad no matter the biology. The thing is, if I am not her biological father, I cannot have custody of her. Yet I will not be relieved of my s…
/r/MensRights16/05/11 04:31 PM
1

Are you a dumbass or just being obtuse for kicks? Since my wars were both in the desert, it would be difficult to have been in a jungle. I missed Panama because I was in Europe at the time. That was my only chance at the jungle, unless you are aware of some other conflict in those dates that had jungle. I take it you are not one of us, since 'you talk to vets.' I am not saying ALL women can do what we do, physically or mentally. That isnt the point. I have not told you much in the way of stories…
/r/MensRights05/05/11 04:48 AM
1

First fuck you and your IF I am a vet of both wars. I enlisted in 1988 and got out 100% disabled in 05, been on five deployments and have far too many friends I will never see again. No, a veteran is a veteran, gender is irrelevant. I am not brainwashed, women take on the same risks we do, not all men are in combat roles either. My job wasnt, yet I ended up getting shot at too. Just because there arent women dying as often as men, doesnt mean they are free of risk. Women in my unit were treated …
/r/MensRights03/05/11 11:19 PM
2

I agree with some of your thoughts, but being a veteran myself and having served in both gulf wars, I tend to feel that gender doesnt matter to me when it comes to who is dying in a foreign country. To me they are a dead veteran, they served and even if they werent in a combat job they still died as a result of being there. I am probably the most misogynistic man you will meet, but when it comes to military members dying, I just dont see gender. I had good airmen and bad ones of both genders. Wh…
/r/MensRights02/05/11 11:21 PM
3

If you have divorced one then it isnt surprising when they are crazy or malicious, its surprising when they arent.
/r/MensRights02/05/11 11:06 PM
1

I was just the safety NCO. I was active duty, she was reserve, and we had a reserve E7 running the shift, you know in an E5 position. I had to answer to them, and they wouldnt pull her license or even reprimand her. I had to fight an uphill battle to get her banned from driving, and it pissed off all the fucking rentals. Its a long story how the rentals got in charge of day to day shit, but the short of it is my base got swamped with cargo, so they sent in reserves to pick up the slack. They wer…
/r/MensRights24/04/11 04:46 PM
0

I agree, I watched the bitch slapping video and found it quite interesting. Ron Reagan really smacked her good, I wonder if Nancy liked it rough. Not all of them made me laugh, but some did. Airplane and Blazing Saddles are two standouts, and there is lots of silly violence in those movies. Sometimes it is funny, sometimes it isnt, depends on the context. Also some people get off on being abused or hurt. The Pepsi commercial earlier this year was different though, it showed men in a different li…
/r/MensRights24/04/11 02:54 PM
13

Same here in the military moving cargo, particularly one woman who honestly couldnt move that 2lb box. She actually got paid more, but I did ALL the heavy lifting because quite honestly she was incapable. I had more responsibility too, since she was incapable of supervising, yet she got paid more. Another who got paid much more kept driving forklift tines through barrels filled with oil, paint, and solvents. Being the safety NCO I had a special hate for her. However not all the women I worked wi…
/r/MensRights24/04/11 03:21 AM
3

Ya know, I might feel differently about this had I not been falsely accused of raping someone. I wouldnt let her drive my car around while she was drunk, and the next morning I was a rapist.
/r/MensRights19/04/11 12:16 AM
2

Where are they? Keeping quite so they dont get accused and expelled.
/r/MensRights19/04/11 12:14 AM
2

Well that sounds completely reasonable. Who would actually have a problem with that? I mean anyone who isnt more than a wallet or source of paycheck garnishment... You know, the type of person with external genitalia...
/r/MensRights19/04/11 12:07 AM
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What? You mean actually date a short guy? Or one with hair on his chest? Yeah right. I say let them deal with it, let them fuck themselves with a purple dildo because they want some status symbol guy who will treat them like shit because he can, instead of one of us regular guys. Fuck em. They dont deserve someone who will treat them right, let them rot and that cherry go sour.
/r/MensRights16/04/11 09:56 PM
1

We still had those types manipulating the vote long before women got the right to vote. Do me a favor, dont put me in a position to defend women. There are few who I would want to defend, most I tend to loathe, but there are some I would support. However they all have to earn that support from me, just like anyone does.
/r/MensRights16/04/11 02:25 AM
1

Ah but there were females in my unit and on base who did act that childish, flutter their eyelashes to get out of things, etc. I was simply surprised I got two decent female airmen.
/r/MensRights16/04/11 02:13 AM
2

Same here, they would have a huge fight on their hands if someone said I was the father. I am not going through that shit again.
/r/MensRights16/04/11 01:47 AM
-1

I think they should vote, it adds some balance to things, and a bit of crazy. A little crazy can be beneficial, it makes you think outside the box.
/r/MensRights15/04/11 12:47 AM
0

I can see some of that, quite a few women I have known were very immature, even my own mother who is in her 60s does things someone should stop doing when they are preteen. Not all have been though, I had two female Airmen I supervised in the USAF and they were stellar workers, very capable, driven, didnt bitch about shit, and were much better than two of the males who were always a problem. One female was just as capable as my best male airman. The woman I live with uses logic, reason, has very…
/r/MensRights14/04/11 04:01 PM
-5

They would find she is a typical American female. Why bother with the study?
/r/MensRights14/04/11 06:16 AM
3

Tend to agree, but it is the only way I could have any rights. Also the woman I am with is working on getting out of the gene pool too, just to make absolutely sure we arent having any crotch fruit. My ex actually got knocked up by someone else and said it was mine, then she cheated on me for the second one. I dont actually have any biological offspring, yet I am paying for some other guys kids. I dont even get to be much of a part of their lives, even though I want to. They are innocent in all …
/r/MensRights14/04/11 06:11 AM
0

Three days of discomfort for the knowledge that no woman can "Ooops" me and force me to pay child support again? Yeah It wasnt that much pain in my nuts, my wallet hurt much more and for quite a bit longer because of the ex. Why the hell wouldnt they let me get out of the gene pool when I was 22 like I wanted to is beyond me.
/r/MensRights14/04/11 04:04 AM
0

I cant see it happening here in the states. Hell all a woman has to do is say she is abused and the whole world comes to her rescue, even if she is the abusive one. If your wife is abusive, you have to take it like a man, you cannot hit back or prevent her from harming you, if you do then you are the abuser. Simple solution, cohabit with a calm woman who likes to be submissive in the bedroom. She can be smart, funny, independent, driven, ambitious, but she wont be abusive. Fuck those power tripp…
/r/MensRights13/04/11 03:29 PM
1

Well your problem would be assuming that everyone isnt a liar.
/r/MensRights13/04/11 03:23 PM
19

I got those kinds of looks last year at the YMCA when my daughter went along with me while I worked out in the gym. Women kept looking at me, some with seriously pissed looks on their faces, others with some look I dont know, but they continued to stare at me. My daughter is 13 but she is 5'6" and looks more like 19 or 20 to most people. Still I am old enough to have a 20 year old daughter, what the hell is the problem with people anyway? Its not like she was being a pain in the ass or bothering…
/r/MensRights13/04/11 03:14 AM
1

We are little more than a wallet, a paycheck for her to do nothing if she chooses, we have no rights in this area of law. Women get a free ride on our backs, I guess to make up for the ones who get screwed over. Speaking of which my sister got knocked up in college and the guy left the state. Somehow he only had to pay $50 a month to my sister. I wonder how the hell he got over on that one, shit for me it was $500 per kid, why not him? My niece is now almost 18 and my sister is one who got screw…
/r/MensRights08/04/11 07:11 PM
16

You know, the thought crossed my mind quite often. The thing that sticks with me is even if she is a worthless welfare and child support sucking cunt, she is still mom to my two girls. I just couldnt bring myself to deprive them of her, even if it might be better for them. They already see her for what she is, they know how fucking crazy and abusive she is, but she is still mom to them. As much as I hate that woman, I love my kids so much more. Still part of me kinda hopes she gets hit by a bus …
/r/MensRights08/04/11 12:41 AM
3

You need to have my ex wife throw some shit at you and start swinging with whatever she can pick up. Trust me, they can still hurt you and we cant do a damn thing to defend ourselves. I am not a small guy and I have been trained to not only defend myself but to severely injure others. If a man had done to me what she did, he would have woken up in intensive care and it would be defending myself. With a woman all you can do is take it and try to keep from from really hurting you, like puncturing …
/r/MensRights07/04/11 10:08 PM
3

I envy you man. I had nothing but trouble with cops and the bitch I was married to.
/r/MensRights07/04/11 10:00 PM
11

Yeah I have. Bitch is bi polar, emotionally and physically abusive, manipulative, and will lie about anything. When teh cops would come by they would ignore the cuts, scratches, and bruises on me, and ask if I hit her or anything. They would laugh about a 140lb woman beating on a 230lb man. She took off one day after I told her I didnt want her being abusive to our 2 year old daughter, she went to the womens shelter, said I was beating her, and they never asked for proof of anything. I was barre…
/r/MensRights07/04/11 09:59 PM
22

Hell my ex wouldnt even spend the $1000 she got monthly for the kids on them. It was all about her getting new clothes, a 52" TV, and other shit. She was living in hud housing and paying $8 a month for rent and utilities. I was active duty living on friends couches because I was only getting paid $1740 a month before taxes and support. Hell no it isnt accurate nor fair, its all about rewarding the woman for having a vagina.
/r/MensRights07/04/11 09:44 PM
28

Only 60%? Nebraska can take 68% of it, then figure 22% -24% for taxes and there isnt much left for a man to survive, unless he is making $200k a year. The fucked up part of it is a woman cant be put under the poverty level by child support, in Nebraska, but a man can. Fuck Nebraska. Welcome to my world pal, well the world I finally have turned around so I dont have to pay her even a thin dime.
/r/MensRights07/04/11 09:39 PM
5

Even if he has proof that she abused him or the kids, even if the kids want to live with their father, even if she tries to kill herself, the chances of a man getting the kids is slim. I thought I had proof but the cops who showed up seemed to think I was the abuser, not her, despite me being bruised, scratched, torn clothing, and her with not the slightest scratch. And yeah my ex did that shit to me. Claimed I was abusing her and the kids, hid them from me while I was active duty, prevented me …
/r/MensRights06/04/11 06:23 AM
2

Two years probation.
/r/MensRights04/04/11 08:16 PM
2

Yes it is natural for men to want younger women. Duh. Older women want younger men too, big fucking deal. As for 20 something women not wanting 40 something men, well I am 42 she is 28. It happens and I am no Johny Depp while she isnt exactly Jennifer Anniston either. Age is just a number, its what you do with your time here that matters. Like staying out of the sun so you dont look like a leather handbag at the age of 35.
/r/MensRights31/03/11 04:24 PM
1

Nebraska doesnt care if we cannot pay, if they find us they will put us in jail until the hearing. I never allowed myself to get caught by them, so I dont know what happens after, but they got my cousin for being one month late and he spent a week in jail before the hearing. So I didnt want to chance it. Doesnt matter if its UCMJ or not when you are out and living on VA compensation since the UCMJ doesnt apply to us anymore.
/r/MensRights25/03/11 07:49 PM
1

No way will I ever live in California, just isnt going to happen. I like my old cars way too much, and even if I cant drive them from October to April I will stay here.. :) Once I learn more about HTML and a few other things, I might do some computer stuff.
/r/MensRights25/03/11 06:41 AM
1

Nebraska. They might have changed the laws since I was screwed over. I grew up there, and I was stationed in South Carolina when she left. If I had filed first in SC she would be hanging over a barrel and I would have my kids. I live in Michigan now, no way in hell will I live in Nebraska again. A friend of mine had his wife leave and not want the kids. She is paying the $250 child support, and he told me they said she wont have to pay more than 30% max, because they cant put someone under the p…
/r/MensRights24/03/11 08:58 PM
6

yeah right, women held accountable for actions? What dream world would that be? I think of my youngest as mine but its pretty obvious she isnt, and since my state wont do anything about it anyway, why bother finding out? Its not like I am going to get back the money I had to give her mother. I would love to sue the biological father and recoup my funds, force him to fix my credit, and do the same to the ex when the kids are grown. It just isnt going to happen because men are less equal when it c…
/r/MensRights24/03/11 05:00 PM
2

No things are better now, I describe what it was because it happens to other men. I managed to fix most of the problems, but still have lousy credit. I still have back support I owe, so I still have to send something eventually. It sucks having no income for two years, then not enough for two more and getting behind. She lives in another state, if I lived there I would have been in jail a long time ago, and lawyers are a sore spot for me already. Worthless expensive bastards.
/r/MensRights24/03/11 04:46 PM
3

Thanks for the compliment. The way the VA works is if I work I lose lots of my benefits, such as medical, and more than half of my subsistence. The medical is huge with my problems, and there is no way I could afford to pay for it myself. Finding a job that will let me work two or three days a week with the special requirements I have that will make that up is rather difficult. Anything that would is probably a high stress job, and that doesnt go well with some of what is wrong with me. In essen…
/r/MensRights24/03/11 05:17 AM
3

Well that is the fun part, when she was getting most of my check he didnt work at all. He stayed home for 6 years and didnt do a damn thing. When they were getting over $2k a month because of me his unemployment goes a long way. He wasnt supporting my kids, I was and him too. Buying a 52" TV, decorative swords, and other bullshit then my kids would be hungry for the last two weeks of the month. While they were doing that she was living in HUD housing paying all of $6 for rent, and they paid her …
/r/MensRights24/03/11 04:58 AM
17

Might be due to being a disabled veteran that the state raked over the coals until I was awarded SSDI. Cant work, but they still wanted $1k a month despite that being non taxable income intended to ensure I am not homeless. There is a US code that states they cannot seize or garnish my disability check before I get it, or after disbursement to me, yet they did exactly that in 2009. They emptied my bank account on the 2nd of June leaving me with zero funds, in direct violation of the US Code. I n…
/r/MensRights23/03/11 09:32 PM
19

Disabled veterans have a problem with this, some states wont accept he is disabled and will still want the pound of flesh. If he cant get Social Security Disability, then he has to hand over part of his $2000 a month the government gives as a subsistence to his ex. If it is $1000 that doesnt leave much for him to live on, and its not like he can go out and get a job. It is often quite difficult for a veteran to get both, because the VA and SS have different criteria to satisfy to get disability.…
/r/MensRights23/03/11 08:29 PM
1

was rather tired at that point. Redundancy is redundant.
/r/MensRights21/03/11 03:34 AM
2

Worked my ass off to pay the child support, lost everything I ever worked for, busted my ass to rebuild my life, and just barely prevented it from happening again after I got hurt. I continued on because there was nothing else to do, since I didnt really want to shoot myself and I had things I wanted to do someday. Its rather fucked up that someone serving in our military would be homeless because of a divorce. Its even more fucked up that she did everything wrong, including cheating, stealing, …
/r/MensRights20/03/11 06:41 AM
3

So is a woman who sleeps with you in an attempt to get you to give her a car a sexual predator? Just curious because it happened a couple times. I know very well about abusive women, and yeah nobody believes it when a 140lb woman beats on a 230lb man.
/r/MensRights20/03/11 01:56 AM
2

I dunno, it really isnt that difficult to find willing women to sleep with, even if you are cosmetically challenged as I am. The problem as I see it is that we tend to not know what we want and what we need, as opposed to what we really dont want. You can usually tell if she is going to be a problem within a few months to a year. Just dont get her knocked up, and dont get her pregnant, while you learn from your mistakes and about her. Eventually you will figure out what you need from a relations…
/r/MensRights19/03/11 08:08 PM
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I reject women constantly, even if they are hotter than the sun. If she is nuts, enjoys fighting over bullshit, wants a power struggle or tries to control me, then its see ya later bitch. The only thing I am ever rejected over is my appearance, and that includes my stature. They want a tall guy and that is all they care about, so no problem here since I dont want to be with someone that shallow. If they arent willing to find out who I am, then they arent worth talking to anyway. It works both wa…
/r/MensRights19/03/11 06:42 PM
1

I didnt like France much, but then again they could tell I was from the states and military. I was surprised at how dirty Paris was, and how it smelled compared to Germany, but after learning about the sewer system it kinda makes sense. From what I saw the 7th ring around Kuwait City was cleaner than Paris. Germany had the best brothels by far, any size shape or color you wanted. Models on the first floor, really large women on top floor, cheaper as you ascend. Most of the women working there we…
/r/MensRights18/03/11 08:24 PM
1

Please done weed me out, I dont hate all women, just certain ones.
/r/MensRights18/03/11 06:10 PM
5

I actually like cheap whores, they arent too full of themselves and they are willing to do a good job without being pretentious. Ah Germany, I miss you.
/r/MensRights18/03/11 06:07 PM
3

Oh just some random guy who happens to be walking by, or working in the building next door, he will do.
/r/MensRights18/03/11 12:17 AM
-5

What I enjoy being derogatory?
/r/MensRights18/03/11 12:11 AM
2

The woman I am with now is child free, so no there wont be anyone with kids being married by me. We have a semi open relationship, so conceivably someone could sleep with a football team and me, then try to say I was the dad. I am not exactly up front about being out of the gene pool, because if I am enjoying someone else that night I wear a jimmy. There is only one person in the entire world with my name, and he is in Ohio. Its really doubtful he could cause problems for me.
/r/MensRights14/03/11 04:00 PM
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