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| 1 | Best Tips on making Hard Decisions?Nope, he really doesn't. Usually he's just having a lot of meetings, then he just hangs outs. plays video games for an hour or two. He said it didn't always used to like this. He recently hired people to do all of the repetitive/ boring work and now he doesn't really have much to do except sales. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Best Tips on making Hard Decisions?Thank you for this. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Best Tips on making Hard Decisions?No idea on books, we did talk about housing today though. He's leveraging his debt to purchase multiple properties, renting them out while their value appreciates over time, and supplements all this with his high figure income in sales for housing. He says it's risky, but you also don't become a millionaire by playing it safe. My monthly rent is apparently already paying his mortgage on this house we live in now. Regarding his job, he just worked for the richest dude get could find in housing un… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Best Tips on making Hard Decisions?It's like any sales job, just bigger numbers in each sale. He just happens to continually work his ass off for it, and leverage any advantage he's gotten so far. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Best Tips on making Hard Decisions?Will need to try and do this, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Best Tips on making Hard Decisions?Housing Market/ Sales. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 03:46 PM |
| 10 | I’m in college and want a relationship, but girls only want to hookup and I don’t want that, what’s wrong with me?If you are anti "one night stands" you are in the wrong place to do dating. All women you will find in that environment (college/dorms) will be sleeping around, because there will be no consequences to doing so. There are no parents to shame them, and cut off their funds. There are no slutty reputations among women there that you will know about, unless their behavior is worse than normal. You can't have your cake and eat it too. You can't expect to find a nun in a whorehouse. General Advice? Fu… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Tips on incorporating red pill when I become a mother.Can we have some blanket rule that requires women who post here to be directed to the red pill women's sub if their question is directly related to being a fucking woman? Not to get irrationally angry, but I see a lot of women posting here when there is another very clear place for women to discuss being a woman/ mother. We don't go to the women's sub asking how to be men, please don't come here asking how to be a woman. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do women always want to fucking change something about you? Please HelpThat's what I suspected. Thank you for the advice. The only way to end it is to call out the main chick doing it in front of the other ones. Usually make a joke out of what she's asking. If she persists after that, tell her in front of the others that it's not happening because I don't feel like it. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/17 11:46 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the highschool sweetheart scenario?It really only works you two decide to stay in your home town while attending college/ commute from home. Some people say that it ends because you go away to different colleges. (That's not true). It would still end if you went to the same college together. It ends because the structures that originally made your relationship work have changed. You are no longer the top dog in the arena, her parents aren't there to keep her sluttyness in check, and her friends won't be there to have any voice of… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Are marriage and relationships impossible all over the world, or just in the USA?Marriage is possible, it's just extremely difficult. There are certain core principles you have to have in place, and you can never just "do it alone"/ without a community. You also do have to start early, you also have to date young, and you also have to avoid women with sexual histories of more than 1 man before you. You can't spin plates, and expect to upgrade one to a wife. You can't go to a bar, and expect to meet a Cinderella. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 09:09 PM |
| 7 | LTR went solo travelling + came back my ExWomen like to go out and cheat, the only thing that keeps them from doing so is the ridicule of their community for doing it. Did you have a good relationship with her family? Are your communities and parents mixed in together? If so, her parents would verbally beat the shit out of her for cheating/ ending a 3 year relationship. A woman's family is what keeps her in check. It's her community, and reputation, and she will guard that with her life. If you had these cards in play, things may have t… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | How did you face your fear of isolation?Yea, I agree with that. I want to head to the city so that I never feel alone, but I know that's a band-aid to a deeper issue. Considering staying one more year in the suburbs to figure this out (while still going out of course). Can you tell me more about your experiences? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 01:54 AM |
| 14 | How to friendzone women?Oh shit, something I actually have experience in. (Note, the equivalent of friendzoning to a woman is being a plate. But let's assume you mean literally just being friends) This is only useful when you'r constantly in proximity with women in a work environment or any area where you would not like to shit where you eat. Out of all the women, only pick one that you're willing to talk to. Someone not attractive, but high status. This is your "rock" Ask her about her day when you see her, this is th… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you take out your anger at the end of the day?How did you do that? | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 05:44 AM |
| 5 | Is there any better age than 18yr olds for hooking up? Seems they get more difficult with every year after this.No better age than 18. Always, always, always date younger. Women go through life differently than men, and are pretty sexually used up by 25. If you're cool with that, go for it. If not, stick to 18. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 12:32 AM |
| 2 | My mind is fucked up boys, need some adviceDon't do it, there's plenty of one use bitches out there. But don't refuse her up front either. if you hurt her ego, she'll tell her guy friend that you made a pass at her. Honestly, stick with a close group of just guy friends for future reference. If You mix women into the equation, you get situations like this coming up . | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you stay confident, even when you're not?Thank you for the advice, will work on having a more positive attitude/ joke about the bad times. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Catch 22 in Dating LTR Material Chicks. Thoughts?Could you elaborate on your experiences there? Would help me make a smarter decision. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers who now or eventually want to have children and raise a family, what is your outlook/how will you achieve it?You can't do things on your own. In order to have a wife/ kids then you ideally want parents or parental figures to assist. You also want to be in a close knit community. This worked in the past for several reasons. Women guard their social status with their life. They will not leave you just because they don't like you, or something better has come along. They just can't, they'll lose everything they have, and will be an outcast. There will be times you need to leave. Community makes sure she's… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Acted like a beta bitch with cheating ex, how to get revenge/closure?Don't LTR college chicks. If she drinks and goes out to parties/ lives alone/ does sketchy shit, don't fucking LTR her. You're not Sherlock holmes, it's not your job to detect her N count or her bad habits. She has no family to reprimand her, and her reputation there doesn't matter in the real world. Fuck the college girl who lives on campus, and LTR the bitch that has a curfew and lives at home. There's a reason these rules worked in the past. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being happily married?Yes, but community/ family makes things easier. A close group of family you trust both helps with child care, and keeps you grounded. A close knit community also prevents hypergamy (Women guard their social status with their lives). I also feel you need to have shared purpose/ goals. If you just sit around being "married" for 3-4 years without doing anything or having kids you really just encourage her to branch swing when she's bored. Guys like you are less likely to take her when she's got sev… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Catch 22 in Dating LTR Material Chicks. Thoughts?Thank you for your input. I agree with everything you're saying, I've been pretty isolated for the last 4 years working on myself, My two priorities right now are time with important immediate family, and building a community. I have the option to move to a big city (less reliance on a car) but I see issues with building a dependable community there vs the town center of a small town. (Gorgeous women and extremely friendly and hard working people). With cities, you get priced out every year and … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 01:02 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread June 21How can you establish/ find a good male role model? Women in my family are very easy to talk to, but that's all women in general. You call them, they'll let you talk about whatever you want and help out in any way that they can. Men though are another story. You can help out with things/ find common hobbies. But you have to fight tooth and nail to establish those relationships unless you were just naturally born with a good father. You don't just call them and talk, that's a pussy thing to do. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/17 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Please clear my head for a bit, guys.Sounds like a comfort test. You also described her as an LTR, not a plate. Minimal romantic/ conversational effort (where you don't initiate at all) should fix this for a while. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:50 PM |
| 2 | You're not Beta. You're Codependent.Was actually just researching this myself and recently made a post on ask trp about it. Will be doing more research on it as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/17 07:05 AM |
| 4 | What's the secret of plain guys with hot girls?The answer you're looking for is proximity. You can be the most attractive guy in the world, but if you live in a desert you can only date camels. You can be a plain nobody, but if you work with the hottest women in the world and have OK game, you'll eventually have proximity, status, and time. Stick a man and a woman in the same room long enough, they will eventually fuck. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Why am I going through another anger phaseTRP does work, but it works best on the cheapest and easiest women. The more self esteem they have, they higher quality they are, the faster RP tactics begin to fall apart. You still need to be a man, but you also have to show her you're vulnerable for her to believe anything else you're doing. Doubting/ questioning and testing everything you read here is a must. (Recently re-went through all of TRP phases of anger and such after a relationship with a near perfect girl did not work out. The reas… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 04:56 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] What was your reason for not killing yourself when you had the chance?That's actually a pretty damn good reason. I'm too young to have a daughter, but kids is a great purpose/ reason to keep going. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/17 10:55 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread April 05How do you get over a girl, without just sleeping with other girls? A friend of mine told me that I could sleep with other girls to get over a girl, but it wouldn't fix the root of the problem (myself). I've tried focusing on daily/ weekly goals and having a better social life. I guess it's about having self confidence, a good social circle, and frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a girl without talking to other girls?I appreciate that sentiment, but she really was the exact type of chick I was into. Good morals, low to no n-count, very pretty, and extremely witty. I didn't bend any of my standards, and she still met them. The issue is needing to know how best to get over a chick without just talking to other chicks. It seems like distracting yourself with other women can mask the real problem. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over a girl without talking to other girls?My problem is I'm just strict with the women I spend my time with/ bother with. I prefer LTR, so I vet really carefully. This girl in particular went out of her way to bother me for months at the coffee shop I do my work in, and was the one to ask me out. She held all of the values that I look for in dating, and she showed clear interest. This one is just really hard for me to get over easily as I know it will be a while before I find a similar match, if at all. I try not to flirt with all women… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 07:17 AM |
| 5 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread March 27I've noticed that every Man's 10 is an 8, while every Woman's 10 is a 10. Anyone have thoughts, or input on this? Edited Explanation: When Every guy I know meets a girl he wants to be in an LTR or Marry, all other men (upon meeting her) would normally rate her as an 8. I think that this is a part of some desire to find and commit to a woman that you know all other won't be chasing every day, and adds to the allure of finding a true "hidden gem" Women seem to chase after/ commit to guys that ALL … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/17 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Breaking MGTOW habits? and rant about hookup culture.The older you are, the harder it gets to find a great LTR for kids (If that's what you want). You will always find easy girls to sleep with, but, much like post wall women, It's much harder to lock down a future long term partner. Also, an LTR is give and take. You can't expect her to be all in (and committed) while allowing you to have one foot out the door. The only girls that works with are easy to bed, or just stupid. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Getting tired of mashed potatoes every night in an LTR.Totally Fair. Kids do suck, but it's how kings/ conquerors ensured they had some sort of legacy. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Getting tired of mashed potatoes every night in an LTR.It kind of was your fault. Truth is, there's no point in an LTR unless it's going somewhere. That usually means kids. Doesn't matter how perfect she is, you'll still get bored. So if you weren't planning on having kids, getting bored/ wanting something new is inevitable. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 08:01 PM |
| -1 | What do you do if you dont like hookup culture/clubs/bars?You probably live in a poor person place (like many of us do). Rich people places have women (pretty women) everywhere. Think places where you can accidentally run into people you don't know, and everyone has to walk. Town centers, cities, colleges, etc. Work hard, get there. You can do all of those things, and still get laid on accident. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How often do you clear your mind?Every night before bed, step outside for about 20 minutes. Set a timer, and just sit out by your car and think. Look up at the sky, if you want, and let your mind go wherever it wants to go. It clears your thoughts, so when you get to bed it's actually much easier to sleep. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/17 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Is it ever worth it to fight for a girl?No. The woman determines if you dance, while the man determines how you dance. As long as your intention to date/ltr her is clear, there is nothing more you can do. Work on yourself, try again when she comes back around or nab the next girl that's interested in you. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/17 06:19 AM |
| 14 | So I went full beta blue pill tonight. Girlfriend who I was very emotionally invested in wanted to break up over some petty shit. I convinced her to do it to my face tomorrow instead of over the phone after pleading with her to reconsider. Is there a way I can end this with dignity?The woman determines if you dance, the man determines how you dance. Work on yourself, and try again when she comes back around if you want her then. (they always come back around) | /r/askTRP | 21/03/17 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Where the quality bitches at?I think it's neat that a comment I made created further discussion within the RP community. Thanks for the love | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Where the quality bitches at?I think it's neat that a comment I made created further discussion within the RP community. Thanks for the love | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How can someone not consider most women prostitutes when it literally costs money to just be around them? (College/bars/ clubs/ expensive places)That's not what I mean, look at the bigger picture. Women are bought and sold every day, and found in expensive locations. You want hot 18-22 year olds? Shell out the cash to be in proximity of them at a state college. You want to go to the best clubs? Shell out the cash to be in proximity of them in a downtown area. Women need comfort, and it's given to them for free by richer men so they can be near them. With this mindset, even talking to women costs you money, so how does this not automatica… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 08:35 PM |
| 241 | Hooking up on a daily basis is cool but it can get boring and hurtfulIf you look in the gutter, all you'll ever really find is trash. To find quality women for an LTR, go to quality places. Vet Carefully, make sure she's interested, and know her friends. The only thing that prevented blatant hypergamy in the past was tight knit social circles. A girl would dare not slut around if she knew her friends and family would outcast her for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How can someone not consider most women prostitutes when it literally costs money to just be around them? (College/bars/ clubs/ expensive places)I get it, and I'll get there. I just can't help but be angry at the fact that all women are inherently "pay to play" How can I ever respect a relationship when deep down I know that I had to purchase it? This is beyond just looking good, this is having to spend money to even enter the competition. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 12:32 AM |
| 22 | Being good in bed: of a woman is a virgin and an alpha RP man typically wants a girl that's good in bed, how can she be a quality woman if she hasn't had sex?Quality sex is the last thing men look for in a Quality Woman. As a guy, I literally could not care less if a virgin woman is good in bed for a long term relationship. I actually prefer that she isn't any good because, ideally, that means she hasn't been with many other men. The sex is something we can work on long term. Your statement is like saying a guy should have had as many previous marriages as possible for practice so that he really knows how to treat his real future wife well when he fi… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/17 11:19 PM |
| 6 | How to know if a girl is LTR materialHere's an easy overview: Her Age. The Younger/ More inexperienced, the better. You want a girl who isn't bitter, or had time in the CC, or had an ex husband. She'll pair bond with you right away, and give you plenty of leeway to fuck things up with beta tendencies before she considers leaving, or cheating. (if you have too many of those) Her friends. If they're mostly sluts, then no go. What she does in her free time. If it's reading/ checking out interesting places with her friends (which are m… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/17 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Found a unicorn and let her go. Now regret it.If she did something disrespectful, then breaking up with her was a good choice. If she did nothing wrong, and you guys got along great, then I've got some bad news.... You've made the same decision a woman makes when she's in a relationship, and wants to ride the Cock Carousel before settling down. While it's perfectly fine to make this decision, stating you regret it is like wanting to have your cake and eat it too. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | College campus vs being a bachelor in a major city, where do you think a guy has more opportunities in regards to getting laid and driving up that lay count?Why not both? Try finding a major city with college campuses in, or near, its center. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/17 05:36 AM |
| 1 | If women are known as being more socially adept then men in groups, why the fuck don't they communicate directly with you when there's a problem?Fair Point. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Should I sacrifice my next three months to have a 3.5 gpa or settle for a 3.475 and not worry about it?Locating a job after college will have its own set of challenges, and sacrificing 3 months for a .03 boost in your grade is more of an emotional decision, not a logical one. No employer will care. Its your call, but I would say spend your time socializing and pursuing hobbies if it means you can keep your 3.47 | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do I self sabotage?You self sabotage becuase you aren't adjusting your goals to your success. If your life goal is to (for example) make $10, and you get to $9, wouldnt you slow down? Constantly raise the bar, constantly aim for better. How can you self sabotage if you still aren't anywhere near your new goal? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I would rather settle down with 1 traditional, virginal girl than "bang" a thousand hot Stacies. Reading and engaging in TRP communities over the years, I sometimes feel like a bit of a minority. Is there a word for this style of thinking?I'm asking you because they are your words. It's alright if you don't know the answer. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 10:09 PM |
| 1 | I would rather settle down with 1 traditional, virginal girl than "bang" a thousand hot Stacies. Reading and engaging in TRP communities over the years, I sometimes feel like a bit of a minority. Is there a word for this style of thinking?You aren't answering my question. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 09:32 PM |
| 2 | I would rather settle down with 1 traditional, virginal girl than "bang" a thousand hot Stacies. Reading and engaging in TRP communities over the years, I sometimes feel like a bit of a minority. Is there a word for this style of thinking?As an advocate Red Piller, I have a Serious Question. If the same advice was given to a woman by another woman: "You will never know what a real quality guy is until you have dated, fucked, loved, hated, whatever a whole fucking lot of guys and experienced everything you have read here for yourself." Would the advice be wrong, or right? If so, why? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How to make other men RESPECT you? Is it necessary to FIGHT?9 times out of 10, a fight isn't necessary. All you need to do is sternly tell someone there's a problem, and they'll back off. Point is though, no matter what, always be willing to fight. Have lines that you don't let people cross, because if they know that you can be walked over without fighting back, they have zero reason to stop. In that scenario, (if it really bothers you) ask him in a serious tone if you two have a problem. If he says yes, offer to take things outside. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/16 05:35 PM |
| 4 | How to make other men RESPECT you? Is it necessary to FIGHT?Yes. You don't have to fight, but you have to be willing to fight. Once people know you'd be willing to take it there, they will either back off or fight you. Either way, it's your job to always be willing to take it there should they push you, even if you lose. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Advice on forgiving (or not forgiving) shitty parents?I appreciate your response. All I want is to live in a new city, with a job I like, and people my age to catch up on the things I missed out on. (I'm 3 - 4 months away from this goal) The only win in visiting her would be to at least discuss what went down. There would be no real win from talking on the phone about this, but this has also lead to me not wanting to talk to her at all now, which might be a dick move near christmas. The benefit from not visiting is I get more time to secure my life… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/16 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill Single Dad (cross posting from red pill parenting in case they're some knowledgable people here on this subject that don't frequent that sub.)Whoever you work for, they're fucking you over. You're working 11 hour days so that some lazy fuck above you (who's probably making more than you for no reason) can spend time at home with his kids. As the other endorsed red pill guy who posted here said, before she listens to you shes going to need to like you and respect you. In order to like you and respect you, she needs to spend more time with you. She's old enough now to notice you aren't all powerful and ever reaching, and trying to enfor… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 04:37 AM |
| 1 | What's your advice/ experience with getting an easy plate while in Monk mode?Right, that's the thing. I agree in not seeing any women while in monk mode, I've just never had a girl this attractive make it so obvious she's into me. I know it's not a good idea, so If I make this mistake i'll learn from it. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/16 08:04 PM |
| 1 | No ideas for cold approaching womenif you've done the things described above, then the rest is on you. Don't cold approach women to start, try and make guy friends first on your daily commute. (It helps you in the long run as it increases your perceived social status among girls when they see you talking to all these people). As active as you are, you should not have any problems making good guy friends. If you do, then there are deeper issues here that I honestly am out of me depth to help with. Best of luck. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 06:14 PM |
| 9 | TRP worked too well...If your ideal girlfriend is someone who says yes to everything, has no opinions of her own, has no ambition of her own, agrees with everything you say, you never have to compromise with because she'll cave in to any demand... then please take mine. I want someone a bit more interesting, but TRP seems to completely stamp that out of them. I kinda understand now about the opening pages of The Game explaining how it can ruin women and relationships for you. Although I'm not into PUA at all it still… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | No ideas for cold approaching womenI could write a book on this (I Won't). Here's an easy starter: Step One: Living situation Sex/ relationships is just a numbers game. The more densely populates a place is, the better. Move to a city where you have to walk everywhere and you'll open yourself up to thousands of situations you miss out on when driving to and from work/ errands. Step 2: Extra Curricular activity. Do things that are co-ed and are fun for you. Soccer, Volleyball, Snowboarding, surfing, etc. You'll automatically meet … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 05:26 PM |
| -3 | No ideas for cold approaching womenDon't cold approach, that's for the birds. Have a solid social life, and put yourself in social situations with plenty of women and let things evolve from there. You'll pull 100x more girls, and the ones that are truly interested in fucking you will automatically trust you since "You're so and so's friend" And if she trusts that friend then she'll trust you. P.S. While there's really nothing wrong with cold approaching, and can get you laid, it should be something that comes after already having… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Study session at a girls place- adviceIt's hard to know without much information, but the true answer is: "It doesn't matter". Go hang out, joke, and make a move. If she turns you down, move on. P.S.: If you never really speak to her in class and she requested this, she is absolutely interested. If you speak to her every day in class, and joke about the weather, life, her boyfriends, tampons etc. She sees you as a friend and just wants someone to listen to her life complaints while pretending to do homework. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 05:00 PM |
| 11 | TRP worked too well...Bruh, There's nothing wrong with coming onto asktrp and requesting advice, that's perfectly fine. What you're doing here, though, is humble bragging. Even if all of this were 100% true, it's not information anyone here needs to know, or further helps us understand your question. Moving aside all of the filler in your post, your question looks to be this: "Am I too good at The Red Pill, or am I just better than everyone else around me?" Is that your question? Or is it something else? If so, pleas… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/16 04:55 PM |
| 21 | [UPDATE] Cheated on GF, shit keeps going downhill in a weird waysIn this situation, you were better off telling her the truth (about why you take that pill). It's embarrassing enough of a situation to where she would have believed you right away since people rarely lie to make themselves look bad. She would have gossiped about it sure, but that happens with women no matter what you say. She also would not have suspected infidelity (unless she started asking about when you took it, etc) Instead you told her you took drugs with a girl late at night. If a girl I… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Over the years, I've learned that most of getting laid isn't really having game or even top tier looks, it's about circumstances, logistics, lifestyle, and location. Your thoughts?I agree completely. My belief is that you should first focus on body, then on finances, then on location. Once you've locked those three down, then worry about game and enjoying yourself. Body and location will get you 90℅ of the way there. The only problem is that location is going to cost you. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 03:26 AM |
| -25 | I'm Fucking Done with Bar Crawling College GirlsJesus, what happened to this sub. The first night we got together she blew me, threw a condom at me, and took her clothes off. We didn't have sex by my choice. (Too nervous as still in monk mode/ Didn't like her extensive sexual history). Sleeping with women is easy, that's the first thing you should have learned here. Ignoring them to pursue higher quality life goals/ Higher quality women is what's hard. No pussy in the world is worth a bacterial infection/ disease. And while no woman is fully … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 10:09 AM |
| 23 | LTR was sexually assaulted, I broke up with her, got ostracized from my social circle. What do I do next?Did you break up with her within 2 weeks of this event happening? If so, that's no good. You've already made your decision, and that's fine, but let's take a minute to try and understand why it could have been handled better. When a guy leans on a woman, she leaves him. When a woman leans on a guy, he's her rock. When an event like this happens, you're supposed to be her rock. I mean, if she was a plate, who cares, but you made the decision to publicly date her. This is where politics get involv… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | What keeps you going after you've hit your goals?There's always goals to go after at any age, but what I've noticed in my life is that people matter above all else. So make good friends that you keep for life, or start a big family that you watch grow, or help poor people all around the world to change their lives. Having millions of dollars and a mansion won't matter when you're on your deathbed, its the people you surround yourself with. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 06:36 AM |
| 8 | Workplace harassment/hazing. What's the best way to handle it?Solution: When anyone give you shit in any situation, stop what you're doing, look the person who gave you shit in the eye and calmly say (Without breaking eye contact). "Is there a problem?" You know what every argument between any two people boils down to? A fight, a physical fight. You don't have to be able to win, just be able to fight. If the other person knows this, they will either engage in a fight or back down. Your goal is to either make them throw a punch (be willing to fight) or make… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Pros and cons of dating a girl who has five brothers?Sleeping with or Dating? When it comes to dating her, brothers and dad's aren't a problem. Just take time to get to know them, and never show them any sort of fear. You don't have to be disrespectful, but stern. If you're dating their daughter, they want to try and prove to the world that you're a wimp, unworthy of protecting a woman in their family. Your job is to to not break. It's the male form of a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 05:41 PM |
| 11 | Plate slept with my roommate?You don't have to soft next, it's just an option. I personally would, as even though there's nothing wrong with a plate sleeping with other men, it's a sign of disrespect when she does it in front of you. Remember, it's just like a kid. You show her you don't mind her sleeping with other guys, she doesn't know where the boundaries of disrespect begin and end unless you feel the need to put that time in. Get another girl, let your friend take this one. There's plenty of other ones out there. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | When to exit monk mode?Honestly? You're ready when women start coming up to you/inviting you out to events. Thats when you know your smv is getting there and all you have left to work on is your game. I used to think women wouldnt do that but It's only when you hang out with extremely attractive guy friends that you notice women are not shy | /r/askTRP | 18/04/16 02:59 PM |
| 3 | People who work from home, where to do get your socialization from?Ive experienced this. Pick one coffee shop with a great internet connection nearby. Preferably one with very pretty girls working there. Don't hit on the women that work there, but be friendly and keep your distance. Go to that same location over and over and over again for work and you'll start making friendships with the other people that frequent that location. The women working there being friendly towards you will make other women more interested in speaking with you when you're there. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 03:25 PM |
| 1 | What would you have done? (Discussion: Was I right in not making a move sexually, or am I blue pill hamstering?)I'll correct it. I mean well off, not rich. Upper middle class. I'm super lower class, so to me it seems rich. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Appeal to her body, not her brainI really appreciate you for posting this. Absolutely phenomenal advice about the laws of attraction, and it was just what I needed to read to make sense of things that were bothering me. Will be increasing and perfecting my workout regiment ASAP. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I do well in the game but it seems like something is missing socially and excitement wise, am I too old to have the kind of life I envision?I appreciate that, but its really not. Litteraly anyone can do it if you're persistent enough and have an online focused skill. First you take your skill (animation, programming, designing, character modeling, rigging , marketing, etc). Then you find clients any way you can imagine (cold call, cold email, etc) then you find ways to get those clients to pay you monthly for your services in some way, then you hire out people to do those services for you, then eventually you either keep growing or … | /r/askTRP | 21/02/16 12:45 AM |
| 2 | I do well in the game but it seems like something is missing socially and excitement wise, am I too old to have the kind of life I envision?Thank you. Honestly, there are quite a few more then people realize. I can't name all cities like that off of the top of my head, but almost any city will work if you're smart about it. It's not just about the city as a whole, but rather the smaller parts of it. Just look for high density areas near you, then study, study, and study to find the area of that city that's the 'coolest'. Most won't know where that is in the city, because if they did then it wouldn't be cool as gentrification would s… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 11:46 PM |
| 3 | I do well in the game but it seems like something is missing socially and excitement wise, am I too old to have the kind of life I envision?I believe what your missing is culture, and the spontaneity of fun social events. (Just running into people and getting invited to things). As opposed to planning to go out weeks in advance. I would say move to a higher density area or city. A place where you can walk everywhere. I recently got a job in a city where that's the exact case, and it brings me right back to my high school days. I'll walk into a coffee shop, run into a friend I know who happens to be with a pretty girl I'm then introd… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 09:41 PM |
| 2 | How much does location matter for 30+ year old American guys?Yes, location does absolutely matter. Think of it this way, when you're in a tribe and you need to hunt you go where the food is, you don't stand around and wait for the food to come to you. Make more money (Something you should always be trying to do) and move to a big city with actual culture to it (Think music, dancing, festivals, etc). Live in a place where you can walk to work and you'll be surprised how many people (and sexual adventures) you'll run into. Avoid online dating (unless it's a… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 09:26 PM |
| 0 | How to counter women you don't really know being playfully disrespectful? (Without escalating sexually as it's at work)It's starting to turn into that, if I can't handle dealing with this one girl. She's never done it out of spite, she's had a crush on me and doesn't know how to get more conversation out of me then by doing things like this. Right now it's really only her, but I know it can turn bad if I don't learn how to interact with women better. Thanks for the advice, in this situation I should have done option B and (in a way) called her out in front of everyone. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 01:27 AM |
| 0 | How to counter women you don't really know being playfully disrespectful? (Without escalating sexually as it's at work)I can at anytime, but I'm not going to. I need to both work on my SMV, and my social interaction skills. I feel like this is going to be the place to do so. I'll keep trying until I get it right. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 01:24 AM |
| 0 | How to counter women you don't really know being playfully disrespectful? (Without escalating sexually as it's at work)I actually never thought about that, and you've brought a great point to my attention. This could be more of a 'mastering my emotions' issue. Today we were all sitting at a table when I got up to grab something. In that time, someone came by and asked if the seat was taken. One of the girls (who's been the most playfully disrespectful) said "Oh you can take that seat" and then smiled and looked at me. I had no idea how to respond to that, and I'm not even personally attracted to that girl to boo… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 12:23 AM |
| 0 | How to counter women you don't really know being playfully disrespectful? (Without escalating sexually as it's at work)Thank you for the advice. Sometimes I'm exhausted and pissed at something else though and don't feel like being playful. What do you do in those situations? Coming up with a witty response is impossible for me in those times, and only seems to bother me more if I try and fake enthusiasm. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 12:09 AM |
| 1 | A genuine question on controlling your sex drive. How the fuck do you do it?Yea, parents and brothers/sisters traveling for the holidays to visit grandparents for a week. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:10 AM |
| 2 | A genuine question on controlling your sex drive. How the fuck do you do it?My living situation is alright, but not great. Renting a house with roommates, no girlfriend or anything. I've spent the last two years working on my career as an independent contractor, and improving myself physically (gym) and I feel it's finally starting to pay off. I'll still be broke as hell for another three months but things are finally really starting to look up. I'm planning to focus on women after I secure the roof over my head. I think you're very right in that statement of 'It's not … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 10:53 PM |
| 2 | It seems as though many RP men say to never get married. What about the successful marriages?I don't understand what you're stating, so go ahead and clarify your point clearly. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/15 03:30 PM |
| 9 | It seems as though many RP men say to never get married. What about the successful marriages?I honestly want to get married (with a prenup) The girl will have an extremely low partner count (zero partner count if possible) and 18-21 years of age. I want kids dammit, and a marriage is possible if you know how to behave yourself and what red flags to look out for in a woman before marriage. Focus on yourself first though, go workout and go make money and find a girl along the way that matches your needs. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/15 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Showing high SMV at college parties.woohoo! Glad I could help man. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Showing high SMV at college parties.Even during all of this, you can still make male friends while occasionally hitting on/dancing with women throughout the night. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/15 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Are there benefits to refraining from swearing?You've got yo be able to have Lower class swine. /s | /r/askTRP | 18/01/15 09:05 AM |
| 9 | Showing high SMV at college parties.Yup, or just one or just two. Start with "So who do you know here? I'm so and so and I'm just stopping by tonight." Then go from there, just like having a conversation with anyone else. Be funny, never talk about your job or money, keep the conversation relate-able and always include others. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/15 02:42 AM |
| 19 | Showing high SMV at college parties.Start with the guys, ignore the girls. You start by building up a 'home base' if you will, by speaking to as many different people as possible. If a girl happens to be in a group of guys you're talking to, and she engages conversation first, speak to her but 'friend zone' her. Your goal is to build your social tower, not hit on women (at least not yet). As the night goes on, you'll start building more and more rapport with the men, and you can occasionally talk to a pretty girl if she shows inte… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 10:51 PM |
| 1 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.There's a MASSIVE difference between those two things. I'll let you figure out what that is. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 01:27 AM |
| 1 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.Its not about experience, its about self control. People don't have sex to understand each other on a 'deeper level'. They have sex because they're horny as shit. People reduce sex as an act as simple as smoking a cigarette, fuck that. Its as close to someone as you could physically be, and I don't want to be with a woman who treats something like that with such blatant apathy. I'm about as intimidated with a woman who's had 50 partners as I am with a fat kid who's eaten 6 packs of cookies. All … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 01:02 AM |
| 0 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.This right here man. That's what helped me get over all of this to be honest. It's not about what life throws at you, it's how you throw it back. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 10:29 PM |
| 1 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.I've only had one previous partner, and the girl I'm dating better be on the same partner count as me or less. I know what I'm going to offer in a relationship and she's going to be held to those same standards. Don't assume you know someone, it makes you as bad as those redpillers out there ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 10:07 PM |
| 3 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.I want to be a film director, and i'm working towards that goal now (at 24). I'm working every day to understanding how film and marketing works, and I'm slowly edging my way into that business. I also work out 5 days a week, eat healthier, dress better, and just generally feel better about the world around me. The only thing that's going to get me where I want to be, is me. For the first time in my life women are not the center of my attention (trying to gain back that lost mother love yo) haha… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.Sleeping around before commitment/marriage. I don't hate her for it, just wish she would have married him first or got to know him better before sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 06:23 PM |
| 2 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.I truly appreciate this, and thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 06:00 PM |
| 3 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.If all you want is sex, and she's not giving any, next her. If you want a relationship, but there's a high chance that she's had a promiscuous past, go find another girl. She's not worth it. If you want a relationship, there's a very little chance of her having a promiscuous past, she's close with her family and friends, and psychologically stable; Date her. There's nothing hypocritical about The Red Pill. If you're a woman, and a man is willing to leave you because you're not offering sex, than… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 05:55 PM |
| 16 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.Agreed, I hope they all find The Red Pill or something similar. Makes lives more meaningful, and much more focused. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 05:01 PM |
| 1 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.I do love my mom, and we get along fine now that I don't live there. I don't know anything about my real dad enough to dislike him, or even like him. It's fairly neutral. The message I'm trying to say (if any) is that these traditions are there for a reason. It generally makes things easier on everyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers.haha, I'll make sure not do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Is her fascination with gay culture/effeminate men something to really worry about or just a given you have to deal with nowadays?Story time? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Proud of Nephew / How To Deal With Rumors and Gaslighting?This is the greatest story I've ever heard, as that's some insta-karma right there. Most guys would only dream of such a chance to turn down our old exes like that. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 05:23 AM |
| 1 | How to obtain a genuine abundance mentality, that will stick when im down?Is this about abundance mentality or abundance reality? Look at your surroundings, if you don't believe you're in a place where you'll meet a lot of high quality women (and it's not a financial negative to do so) move. There are great cities with active nightlife and an over abundance of quality women, and there are places where there's nothing left but scraps. What's the point of being a successful man, if you're alone in the middle of the desert? You move to where the women are, like all men h… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/14 10:18 PM |
| 2 | If men are the gatekeepers of commitment, why does a breakup usually take a much bigger toll on the man than the woman?I think it may be because women always have options for more men offering time, while men don't usually have that lined up for them. So, for the top 10% men this is never a problem and they move on quickly as well. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/14 06:03 AM |
| 1 | AskTRP: Can I Do This Without Appearing Too Interested?Both of you, read the side bar material | /r/askTRP | 25/12/14 10:30 PM |
| 67 | The Parable of Mark and LaurenYou know what's funny? After running into the red pill, I now agree with this story. Both sides of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 06:03 PM |
| 4 | AskTRP: Can I Do This Without Appearing Too Interested?You know what the funny thing about onenitis is? Its a subtle, nefarious emotion that bleeds over from the emotional side of your mind to the logical, rational side. 'Men are emotional creatures pretending to be logical, and women are logical creatures pretending to be emotional.' You've got oneitis my friend, just like many of us have had it before. Don't message those women shit, you're in college and I'm sure you'll see them again. Wish them a late merry Christmas in person, and joke about ho… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/14 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Going to a small holiday party, and ex best friend will be there and it will be impossible for me NOT to interact with him. How should I think about this?Wouldn't not going because his ex friend is there mean he hasn't moved on with his life? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of moving to college town primarily for the better quality feamles next year. (I work online). Best places to move?This is the best decision I believe. I hear it's a great place for startups (with google fiber) and it contains all age ranges I'm looking for (19 to 29). It's small enough to where if you live in the downtown area you can run into people consistently, and it's generally known for being a very active city. The fact that there's a college there is a huge plus so for now my decision is resting on this. (Plus I have family in Dallas, Houston, and San Antonio) | /r/askTRP | 23/12/14 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Thinking of moving to college town primarily for the better quality feamles next year. (I work online). Best places to move?I see, will definitely remember that. I've got family in MA which is why I considered it, and it's very near to NY as well. The North East just seems like a nice area. I've seen pretty girls up there every time I've gone, but I did see them in Boston so I could be biased. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of moving to college town primarily for the better quality feamles next year. (I work online). Best places to move?Well shit, I'm writing this one down. Thanks so much, will be definitely looking into this. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Thinking of moving to college town primarily for the better quality feamles next year. (I work online). Best places to move?I agree with you there, though I do work hard at deflection as well as being generally sociable. I've learned that the most important thing in an environment like that is to establish rapport with the men, then move in to the women. They do care about the fact that you're older and they find that odd at first, but if they like you any excuse you give will do. I know an 18 year old girl who's giggly over a 27 year old in college (his excuse is foreign exchange kid there temporarily.) So it works,… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of moving to college town primarily for the better quality feamles next year. (I work online). Best places to move?There's A&M as well, but I really want to avoid going there. A lot of my friends went there for college as well as a girl I was into is going there now. Big party scene, but they're very vocal about their loyalty to the school. Outsiders are very easy to spot for them, and I imagine they get blocked out quickly. I'll keep this option open, but I don't think my business partner is keen on staying in Texas (We're all moving in together) | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of moving to college town primarily for the better quality feamles next year. (I work online). Best places to move?Yea, I'm worried about the standing out part. The good thing is that I can have a literal reason for being there for the women that ask (looking for talented web developers, and working on some things in film.) When they know I'm not there to get women, they usually then allow me to get women. Odd how that works. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of moving to college town primarily for the better quality feamles next year. (I work online). Best places to move?True, but those jobs are very competitive and I don't need the money. Also, bar women aren't really my thing, house parties have a much much higher success rate with hookups (no need to take her anywhere the majority of the time and drinks are free or super cheap if you bring your own) I just need easier access to a social scene and I can easily work my way in from there. All it takes is knowing one good girl, being on good terms with her, and being introduced to all of her friends. The work fro… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of moving to college town primarily for the better quality feamles next year. (I work online). Best places to move?It's big, but the best options are currently at SMU. I don't live near that area, and it's a very difficult social scene to get into unless you're literally attending classes there (something I don't have time to do). My ideal place is a small college town where everyone is forced to run into everyone. Amherst, MA is looking like a good place with a 37k town population, 30k of which being students. Small enough for the house party scene ( I hear you can just walk around a certain area and run in… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Tantrum Tuesday - 12/09/14 - In your anger phase of swallowing the pill? This is your thread.Brave new world we live in. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 02:44 AM |
| 15 | Tantrum Tuesday - 12/09/14 - In your anger phase of swallowing the pill? This is your thread.I feel like when Neo is sitting alone in his bunk aboard the ship after first being unplugged from the Matrix. As Morpheus walks in, Neo half halfheartedly says "There's no going back, is there?" (May not be exactly what he says, but you get the idea) I'm working on myself and trying to come to terms with the fact that love isn't the love I thought it could be. Music isn't the same anymore, movies don't leave me with that sense of wonder, and there are no longer unlimited possibilities for love … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Reminder: There is a DIRECT correlation between a woman's sexual past and divorce rates.This is great, but does anyone have any data (not behind a paywall) That mentions the correlation between how many partners before marriage a guy has and his success rates? I'm genuinely curious, because if I ever find myself bringing this up in a conversation, I would like to have evidence showing why this does, or doesn't, affect men as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 09:14 PM |
| 2 | FR Request: What Have You Done To Improve Your Life and SMV lately?Learning that I"m not yet worth dating, but I can be if I work hard enough. Learning to get up by 6:45 am so I can be at the gym by 7:30 am. Working to making more sales to make money for my business. Working towards eating healthier and cooking from home as often as possible. Working towards cold approaching a pretty girl at least once a day. Working towards getting a great body and better style so that for once girls actually 'brag' about hanging out with me by taking photos together and taggi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill, I failed.I agree. I try and give myself an hour and a half before I respond to something emotionally. When she blew me off for the weekend I got upset, but I waited an hour and a half to see if I still felt like responding the same way. I still did, so I sent that text. Eh, you live and learn. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/14 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill, I failed.Thank you very much for this Drake, if I could award you a point I would, but I don't think I've been here long enough to do so. I'm trying to eat healthier, working out 5 days a week, and trying to get my own business off the ground. I've also begun to cold approach at least one pretty girl a day. I don't have any great successes with it so far, but it helps me get rid of the onenitis feeling I get in situations like this. I had a big moment after this went down where I thought "Am I sad becaus… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/14 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill, I failed.Also, onenitis is a fucking bitch. I completely had that with this girl and that's why this is bothering me. You're putting another person entirely in control of your happiness. She just seemed like a rare catch. Home schooled, good upbringing, nice family, decent beliefs, and now she's probably going off to college to ride the fucking CC. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill, I failed.You're right on that part. I lost a bit of focus with this one. She's younger (18, I'm 23) , religious family, very strict on waiting until marriage for sex, etc. She was a great conversationalists as well but I wan't escalating properly. I've hard nexted women before, but I had trouble doing it with this one. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/14 02:16 AM |
| 3 | What's wrong with this video? It seems quite agreeable.I find it funny that she states feminists having hairy armpits is just a stereotype, and then she proceeds to show us her hairy armpits later in the video... | /r/askTRP | 31/10/14 07:38 PM |
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