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Abadalta/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:19 AM
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Abadalta/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:22 PM
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Looking at this completely objectively, you should find a woman that meets your standards for marriage. While she seems to be a great woman who's mind and Faith is in the right place, that does not mean that you have to marry her. You will not get over the fact that she's making you pay more for what others got cheaply.
/r/RPChristians24/05/21 12:45 AM
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That's fair, thanks for responding.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:55 AM
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Did she show up?
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:30 PM
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Let us know if she bails on that special night you two been planning. Seriously, I'm genuinely curious about this.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:15 PM
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OP needs to update us if this comes to pass.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:59 PM
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COVID 22
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:43 AM
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Staying bald requires as much work as Rogaine. All attraction requires work. Dressing well, working out, having a business. Look into the reddit Tressless community and decide from there. Finasteride is scientifically the best solution, but it's a devils bargain. You look better, but there's a small chance your dick won't work. I wasn't getting laid so I took it. The finasteride worked, and luckily my dick still does too.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:27 AM
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She's keeping an eye on her investment. Last thing she needs is your guy friends to recommend you date someone else (same thing girls do in groups). Think of women as natural spymasters.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:39 PM
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Attention. Men are also incredibly easy to manipulate when they simp. Another woman would immediately call her out or could compete for said attention.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:28 PM
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It's a trap. If you get mad, he wins, if you do nothing, he wins. As Patrice O'Neal said, the only play is to act happy for her . Be glad she's off with someone else and pull yourself another girl. At the end of the day, all she has to offer is pussy. Are you in shape? Do you dress well? Do you hang out with groups that involve other women? These things help mitigate losses like this and should be occuring at all times. Know you have choices, don't let her believe she's your only choice.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:39 PM
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Thank you, this information is incredibly useful. From your experience, is it possible at all to have a work life balance on your journey to attaining these things? I've got 3 employees now but will be scaling up, and am working on software solutions for clients but these are both things where I need to work as hard as I can for an indefinite period of time (As you said, initial low return and high effort). I'm cutting out all cheap entertainment (Netflix, Porn, Video Game) as well as cheap outi…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:21 PM
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Thank you. Can this only be done with software? I have a service based business and am working on hiring out most of the labor and just managing a team. I'm working on software tools as well but final release is a few months away. So essentially, from your experience, would you think this is possible with a service based business or only a software/licensing based business?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:54 PM
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Thank you, and same here. I'm just trying to find a schedule where I don't ever need or want a break all year. So enough time to have a life while still trying to acquire as much revenue and savings as humanly possible. Looks like I've gotten some good responses now. One thing I've read from another successful Redpiller (and am implementing) is cutting out all forms of useless entertainment as much as possible (Netflix, video games, and porn).
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:23 PM
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Thank you, I just got past the part where I don't have to work for someone else. Next objective is a house so I can rent out rooms, then next objective is enough money to "retire" and work on whatever project I want.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:19 PM
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I completely understand and agree with what you're saying. I've spent the last 7-8 years creating my own small business and last year was finally able to quit my job and do it full time. I worked nonstop all week, every week. I love my line of work. I want to be the best, and I my clients can tell. I could do it all day, all week, all year. The problem is that I'm not spending any time with my grandparent, who raised me, have vast resources of knowledge, and are great people who are only getting…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:22 PM
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All she will ever be worth is her pussy. This is as good as life will ever get for her. You are a man, your worth increases exponentially based on the work you put into your life. You can attain 5 women and be called a king. The most she will ever have is one man, and he HAS to be better than her.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:59 AM
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As a guy who loved approaching and hitting on all types of women at all times of day, they're never worth it. Yes you get practice and can become incredibly smooth, but that's also time you could have spent doing literally anything else. I also stopped because I got tired of feeling like a dancing monkey for women, and also noticed that high value men don't need to even attempt to be smooth. (I thank God for hanging out with a buddy of mine who was just naturally attractive. He always had women …
/r/askTRP16/05/21 09:56 PM
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There is no one pill wonder that makes you over her. Take all of TRP advice, and then take all the time you need to get over her. Don't simp, but just understand your body and mind need time. One day you'll just be over it, and you won't know why. It comes through self improvement, knowing your worth, and letting your mind catch up to these changes. Also, listen to Patrice O'Neal on YouTube. He makes it very clear that as a man, you can do great things. But all a woman will ever be is her litera…
/r/askTRP15/05/21 05:59 AM
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Beta bait. Incredible Machiavellian play on the woman's part. She knows you get the notifications, and she assumes that like ringing a bell you will reach out to her. Great way to put herself in a position of power as you will now be the one reaching out to her. For some reason as men we just assume a woman had no ulterior motives and just wanted to check in on you. Maybe even forgot that you could see when she did so. Fucking A1 play. Top tier. She made the first move while still retaining full…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:56 PM
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She's got you hooked my man. You are the prey, she is the predator. You can never get the truth by asking her, you usually discover it by hanging out with her friends and family. She's eliminated all of those things from you for a reason. I'd say plan for the worst. She is not LTR worthy. Plate at best.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:34 PM
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Try and follow same rules as they did in the past. She must have always lived with her parents, minimal to no guy friends, good hobbies, usually religious, and the younger the better statistically. Every girl I've followed these rules with have been top tier. You have to meet them in person though. Not on Tinder or at a bar.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:54 PM
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That's completely normal. You don't have to LTR women that have been passed around. You'd actually be made fun of for doing that in the past, because you're now "buying" milk that everyone got for free. Only commit to women that you can plant flags with. All other women are just plates.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:52 PM
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Don't EVER "LTR" a one night stand, there are higher quality women out there. This is a plate at best. You've been warned.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:05 PM
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I'm right there with you. From my experience, you will find men you respect in the church. It will just take time. They're hard to find because they're usually already married, and out doing real men shit to provide for the family. They also don't just do whatever the church tells them to do. They know the difference between what their faith asks them to do, versus what the church wants them to do so the church can get rich.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:53 AM
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If they are truly disrespecting you, mutual combat is an option and protects you legally. (Only to be done if it's a social circle issue, not a rando) If you're afraid of getting hurt, that's a bigger problem you need to address with yourself first.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:52 PM
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You're right, Check my comment history. I've seen these same posts where the majority answer to disrespect was "ignore the bullies". That might work with a rando on the street disrespecting you as you walk by, but it doesn't fly in a group social setting or in school.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:59 PM
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She's already decided to break up with you. She's instigating fights to get you to react so she can tell friends and family she has just cause. No move that you make will be the right move. She's already sunk the ship, she's just looking for the scapegoat now. Trust me, in 6 months you'll be "the bad guy" for some reason and she'll be onto the next dude. (who she already has lined up and waiting on her right now). It's incredibly clever. The only play is to try and not play. Ask her if she's sur…
/r/askTRP01/05/21 10:52 PM
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Good advice. What does it mean to leverage to "10% below breaking point?"
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:05 PM
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Can someone translate what this means philosophically. I think I'm autistic.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 06:37 AM
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She found another dude. Also, be ready for the "I'm late" call when she wants to pull you back in.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:58 PM
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It's complicated. Let's try and make things incredibly basic for simplicities sake. You're a caveman. You're the strongest caveman there. Someone pushes you. Now you are confused as to why they would do this (not angry) because you're the strongest caveman there. You think it's funny. They push you again. You kill them. You go about your day. No one says anything because you're the strongest caveman there. Same scenario, but now you're the weakest caveman there. Someone pushes you. You're mad, y…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:41 AM
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The only thing that keeps a woman "loyal" is pregnancy. Because no one wants a pregnant woman. Having an LTR with a woman that isn't carrying your child is just playing pretend. She's just a plate, treat her as such.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:59 PM
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They know it's a male space. They also know they can dominate attention if they are the only women here.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:59 AM
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Because it's disrespectful, and odd. Ghosting didn't exist in tribal days. You'd literally just run into each other again the next day.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:45 AM
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She's talking to/interested in another dude. I guarantee it.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 12:36 AM
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It's about power. People who usually have no power being able to wield it like a kid with a gun.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:50 PM
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You're not gonna be able to write down witty responses for every situation. It's all about your confidence. Next time, pretend she's a 5 year old saying these things to you. It's almost funny to you that way, and you'll respond appropriately. "Yea, I get that response a lot. Have you had your nap yet?"
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:49 PM
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Stress isn't normal. If you're stressed, it means someone else is sleeping like a baby. Find that person, wake them up.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 10:10 PM
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If you're already attractive to begin with, yes.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 09:04 PM
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If she wasn't a plate, what would your advice be?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:50 PM
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You've got more trouble incoming. Now that he knows he can get away with publicly disrespecting you, he'll move towards publicly aggressing you. You're an easy target for him to look good, he won't give that up anytime soon. It will get worse.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 02:57 PM
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I learned this today. Be more present in the conversation and moment. You might be thinking about your business. Don't. Stay in the moment, people can tell when you aren't.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 04:31 AM
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She's not interested in you sexually, she's trying to turn you into an orbiter. You tried to fuck her physically, she rebuked. She then baited you ("something important happened!"!). You called, she fucked you emotionally ("listen to all my problems!"). Then, like a one night stand, she said she'll talk to you again soon and she won't. Not till she feels like having you listen to her problems again. I've been there man. If she really wanted to vent to someone, she'd have female friends to do thi…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:41 PM
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Not enough
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:39 AM
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Women act like what they want to fuck. Men do this as well. That why women talk about their jobs, career, money, and sexual conquests. While some men talk about how emotional, soft and supportive they are. They're both signalling what they want in their partner.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:33 AM
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Modern LTR's are fantasy. Old school ways worked for a reason. Keep her pregnant. No one wants a pregnant woman, and she'll literally be too dependent on you to implement hypergamy. If you don't want kids, don't LTR. You're just playing house till she finds the next branch.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:35 PM
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Look through what you wrote again except imagine she's your 5 year old daughter saying these things. She needed discipline.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:11 PM
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That's literally what we all used to fight over.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:02 PM
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Must be nice to be above it all.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:16 AM
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Your statement is completely correct, but we are still animals. If a guy in your group randomly asked you to step outside, and you responded with that sentence, you'd lose group respect and your girl. It's better to be a warrior in a garden rather than a gardener in war.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:06 AM
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They are bullying. I wouldn't tell my kid "just ignore the bullies". If he dealt with the same thing.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 01:33 AM
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There's jokes, and then there's direct disrespect that you can't really laugh off. Always be willing to step outside with someone if needed. Don't just hit them out of nowhere, ask them to step outside. Mutual combat covers you both from legal trouble. Also, do not be afraid to talk back to them. Don't get angry, but feel free to intimidate. They make snide remarks to her because they are afraid to say it to you. Talk back, ask them to say it again. Ask them to clarify. Your girl is really the p…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:09 PM
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It's hard man. The same people that encourage "not giving a fuck" need to realize this is the same advice teachers tell kids that are bullied in school.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 10:35 PM
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It's not about what you say her, it's about what you say to them. Find the most dominant guy in the group, talk to him, lead the conversation. If they talk about something that bothers you, say "how about we talk about something else." Or better yet, don't even acknowledge him, change the conversation for everyone else. If he brings it up again, make fun of him in front of everyone else. If he gets pissed off, you can ask him to step outside if he really wants to squash it right then and there. …
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:37 PM
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You most likely got Amog'd that night. Also, when she asked if you were ok with the conversation, she was testing you. She wanted you to say something to them. They all knew it bothered you.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 07:10 PM
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Experience, and time. Consistently skim the 48 laws of power as well.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:19 AM
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All good, just be cool and take your time with her. If she's your boss, that makes this more difficult. Also be aware that lead hen doesn't always mean official work boss with women. There could be another woman of lower official status that has higher social status. Dealing with male bosses should be easier. They're much more rational. Don't outshine the master. I recommend reviewing the 48 laws of power again, even if you've already read it.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:50 PM
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It's easy to look like a strong man to a woman when you're the only man in the room. It's gonna take practice. You have to adjust to social settings now. Learning how to not be quiet, but also not be annoying, but also not be a clown. You'll also have to learn subtext, how to defend yourself, and how to Amog if needed. Learn a combat sport if you haven't already. This will give you the confidence to hold your own socially against other men.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:45 PM
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With women, locate the lead hen and be her friend and her friend only. Ask her about her day, listen to her problems. Don't do this with any other women there, but be polite to them all. She'll now feel special, and she's now the person that represents you when you're not around. You can now focus on work again. In olden times this is what your wife would be for you in social circles.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:32 AM
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Can someone explain the differences between watching porn and simply just masturbating? I agree that porn is bad. But why would just masturbating be bad? Even dogs do it when they dry hump objects.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:49 PM
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Being physically fit, financially stable, dressing well, having your mental health in order, are all NOT normal traits that the average man has. That's the whole point. It's not normal, but it's ridiculously easy to get in the top 20% by knowing this, and working toward these things.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:29 AM
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For women, there is always "a better man". For men, there is always "the next woman" Both are instinctual and addictive habits. That's why you want to pursue excellence and not women. Because there is no such thing as "enough women" for a man. That's why porn addiction is a thing. That's why Celebrities can go through 100 woman in a day and will still want more in a week. Consider sexual conquests the "forbidden fruit" because its a wheel that never ends. Its addictive, and overall its purely se…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:57 PM
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We're dealing with modern problems using caveman emotions In caveman days you just trained up then killed the dude to became the group "alpha". She then either had to fuck you, or run. I'm not saying that's a good solution (too much work), but be aware things used to be simple and violent. They aren't anymore. You gotta make peace with it.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:09 AM
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Be careful with this. You don't want to enter "Blank slate equalism" territory. We are both sinful genders, but each more inclined to sin in specific ways.
/r/RPChristians25/03/21 12:01 AM
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Move somewhere that allows you to walk everywhere. Multiplies your social interactions tenfold and without effort. Also join social groups based on a common hobby and are co-ed.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:01 PM
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Replace the word "videogames" with "heroin" and read your post again. Might give you a different perspective.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 04:13 PM
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It's on him, i don't even know what to tell him honestly. Feels like I'm losing a friend. He was a bit effeminate, but I thought it was just his environment encouraging him to be that way (around a lot of girls)
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:07 AM
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Dealing with the same thing. I think he sees living life as a woman as easier. He's straight, still likes girls.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 12:45 AM
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It can suck if you aren't red pill aware. Women create cliques at work where they gossip and determine who they can "kick out of the group" for no reason other than easy drama. The female motto for this is "be there or be talked about." Meaning if you focus on work, and not chatting, the women will pick a reason they don't like you and attempt to get you fired/socially exiled. Childish shit.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 12:14 AM
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Back in the day, you'd get laughed out of the room for wanting to commit to a girl that wasn't a virgin. This was probably for a good reason.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 10:07 PM
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Thank you, this makes sense.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:59 PM
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We aren't getting back together in any capacity. This is more about public etiquette with an ex.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:52 PM
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Like black coffee? Also do you drink it hot or iced? I'm thinking of getting invisalign and habitually drink coffee.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:35 AM
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Can you drink coffee? Or iced coffee through a straw perhaps?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:11 PM
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I agree. If I see her as a sustained problem, I'll find another group.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 07:19 AM
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Small town. The group is overall positive for me and has a good variety of other women. Been in it for years, and has solid potential if I can just properly ignore and manage the ex. Also great practice grounds for solid social interactions.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 07:03 AM
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This is great, thank you.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 02:19 AM
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Yes, and it is a waste of time. Imagine the headache solved by just purchasing good pussy on demand and spending all that extra time on bros and family.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 06:07 AM
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"Honor" and "love" don't exist. They are both imaginary concepts made to manipulate and control men.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 02:27 PM
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Society kept women in check. The tribe would kill women over infidelity, or making her children live without a father. Single moms used to be looked down upon, now everything's changed.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:34 PM
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Don't look for all in one, but rather segments of things you want to learn more about. Maybe one friend is a financial genius, maybe another is a combat and nutrition expert, maybe a third can talk economics or philosophy. You'll find them in group activities or through friends of friends.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:34 PM
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I wouldn't know. But back in the day, getting a hot woman pregnant meant she was then actually yours. Everything else was just keeping the seat warm. Also if she divorced you, she would be the one in financial trouble.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:40 AM
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She ain't really yours until she chooses to carry your child. A pregnant woman who can still get a job at Hooters and cheat is actually rather impressive.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 11:53 PM
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"There's more to life than money, so why is money the only thing all my homeless friends think about?" While you are right, the absence of a basic biological need overrides your logic until that need is obtained. Sex is a necessity.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:47 PM
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Great question, and I've done research on this from patriarchs I've met who have that life. (Good wife, well respected, 8-10 kids). One did it in the 50's, the other in the 80's. These are the patterns I've observed among both. Have a set faith/religion/belief. This is what keeps you from cheating on her. Be in the top 20% of men physically and otherwise. She has to be sexually attracted to you almost always. She'll become unattractive, but that's on her to fix that. Be her first, or damn close …
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:01 AM
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I'm going through the exact same thing right now. Also roughly the same age as you. Rian Stone has a YouTube video that covers this topic pretty well. I forget the name but he basically said that most problems people have in life are "opt-in" problems. Meaning they choose to have them. (Simping over a girl, bad job, etc) When it comes to abuse, you never opted into it. Meaning you had no say, and therefore it wasn't your fault. So just delete it and focus on how you're being treated by your pare…
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:02 AM
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That's fair. It's not Christianity's fault. As a matter of fact, I don't think the bible/ Christianity has any thoughts on dating in any way other than "No Sex before marriage"
/r/askTRP02/02/21 12:28 AM
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I see what you're saying here. My counter is that the women who do settle for monogomy in Christianity only do so after having sex with high value males and "striking out." Leaving the average joe to pick up the leftovers. There's no negatives to her doing this within Christianity since she can just say she's "changed her ways".
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:42 PM
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I'm totally lost in this field as well. Thanks to TRP, I focused all of my 20's on being self employed. Now that I've accomplished happily that goal, I don't know what I'm supposed to do next. Every guy wants a family/ kids. But it's the woman's job to decide if that happens. The problem is that 99% of the women available are ran-through. I could just sleep with them at will, but the most Alpha guy I know (My grandpa) is Christian, successful, long term marriage with 8 kids, and he does not reco…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 10:48 PM
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It's not just about looks. If you want better relationships with women, you need smaller communities. The only thing that keeps beautiful women in check is the fear of being a social outcast for cheating, flirting with other men, leaving her husband for no good reason, etc, etc. ​ You cannot keep a woman just by being a "Gigachad". Overtime, it will benefit her to leave in this society.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:12 PM
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Not rich but the answer is yes. Do not think of money as what attracts women though, money is only a tool to get you what you want. With money you can buy time. With time you can workout as long as you'd like at anytime. You can pay for a stylist to find you clothes you fit best in. You can fix your teeth. You can buy a therapist to help you resolve past trauma that might keep you up at night. You can attend any event that other men simply can't due to their jobs. You can learn combat and train …
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:00 PM
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It's so easy to be a sucker when you want to believe the lie.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:20 AM
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I've been there. Don't ever off yourself over a girl. She'll just use it for pity clout and will be onto the next guy without hesitation. Your family needs you, they will be the ones to seriously suffer from this. Your real problem is the lack of actual women. You are too isolated. You will be depressed until you can literally see the options you have with other women. Until you fix this, you will be depressed. Your job better be paying you "no pussy in the vicinity" money. Because anything they…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:34 AM
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It's a great deal for women. You get the low quality guy to stop hitting on you, and get to convince him his sexual feeling toward attractive woman/ herself are illegitimate. He's also now required to be her bff/orbiter with no sexual compensation. 2 birds, one stone.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:44 PM
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I'm not fighting you on this, I'm genuinely asking a question.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:20 AM
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Aren't kids better with two parents. I assume that would be a reason to stay. Also, would you leave your kids if your wife says she's never in the mood for sex?
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:28 AM
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I thought a redpill principle was that you cannot negotiate desire.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:09 AM
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Yes this has happened to me, and I've had friends who are much higher value then myself have success with it. I've seen women literally invite themselves into whatever he's going to do at that moment. The reason people don't like to give this advice is because most guys don't know when to reciprocate interest. Most guys may also be lazy and never ask a girl out on a date. It takes experience, and the willingness to approach when you've been given proper ioi's. Dating is dating, secular or within…
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 04:38 AM
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Don't overhype marriage, it's not about love. That's a new things advertised to the masses. Marriage a commitment to accomplish a goal together. If you could get married 4 times (through unintended divorce), would she be one or the top 4 women you marry?
/r/RPChristians29/11/20 08:30 PM
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It's best if you live there, but start at a local coffee shop and local biggest church. From there join any and all groups available in the church for socializing and grow from there.
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 10:46 PM
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Small town communities. Stay away from big cities, quality women are not there. After you find a small town you like, try and engage in the local church community, or even general community. Over time you'll know who the quality women are, and the ones interested in you will make it clear. From there vet to make sure you're on the same path, want the same things, etc. Be highly selective, you can't just date around in small towns. You will get socially kicked out if you're too aggressive in dati…
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 10:28 PM
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Because it's not the truth that they want to hear. They also most likely didn't read Dalrocks thoughts on dating within Christianity, where he verifies the same thing.
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 04:25 PM
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Additional advice, don't seek a girlfriend. Be in social circles where girls are, and they will vet you from afar. You do not approach them, they approach you. If they like you, they will make it very clear and you can take it from there. (Women are very good at covertly flirting in social circles)
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 06:09 AM
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Don't date within your church. Don't use dating apps, join some sort of christian group that does things together. Work on being in great shape, and looking good. That's 90% of the battle. At that point, the women will hit on you and you can determine what to do from there. (Also socialize, learn to handle yourself, etc, etc) By hit on you, I mean they'll be around you all of the time, available, and will initiate all conversations. Trust me, you'll know when she's into you if you've ever experi…
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 06:04 AM
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It's difficult because Navy Seals encourage small world, not big world thinking. The task in front of you is the world.
/r/RPChristians27/11/20 11:55 PM
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Honestly, you can spot these women from a mile away. Even in the church. The best women I've dated in the church do not go to bars, do not drink, live with their parents, have a strong support system, usually home schooled, hard working, and are not "born again". They were raised in the church. I dated a girl like this for a year and I met her outside the church. Yes, awalt, but you can easily vet past behavior out.
/r/RPChristians20/11/20 11:16 PM
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Dating is a recently made up thing. We used to only have marriage, and prostitutes. Marriage was a contract, and she had to be a virgin. If she wasn't a virgin, why even marry her? You could literally just pay for a prostitute. It's ok to only sign contracts /have marriage with a virgin, outside of that a "relationship" is honestly just a pretend marriage with no positives for the man. Essentially, what you're feeling is normal. Your wife/ possible wife was never supposed to be a cum dumpster. I…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:02 PM
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It's hard to not be pissed when someone publicly disrespects you. How can you "laugh it off" when everyone learns this is how any girl is allowed to publicly treat you. If a guy in your social group publicly called you a bitch, you'd be a bitch for not addressing it, correct? Laughing it off makes you look weak. I just had to deal with a similar situation of public disrespect in a group/ friends social setting so I'm gonna be reading these response carefully to try and learn.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:16 PM
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I appreciate this, thank you
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:05 AM
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Than you, will keep an eye on their comments. Can you possibly links that post you mentioned or sum up what happened
/r/askTRP25/10/20 03:50 AM
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I logged in just to upvote your whole comment. Thank you, I needed to hear this for my own reasons.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:16 PM
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"If I wanted your man, I could have him" Most likely a dominance establishing thing she was relaying to your girl. The waitress might not even want to sleep with you, but does want to publicly establish she can have you if she so wanted.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 08:10 PM
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Does your desire to sleep with other attractive younger women ever go away? How do you reconcile feeling you'll never be able to "Hunt" new sexual conquests again?
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:53 PM
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It's an old rulebook that's hard to apply to the modern age. I'm sure while it seems blue pill, they needed to have rules to survive back then. Men got a girl, but if anyone else even looked at her, there were usually consequences. They also had very strict punishments for women that were unfaithful back then (exile/death) and I'm sure leaving your old family to start a new one with a younger wife wasn't punished that seriously
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:50 AM
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