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Ur right, all these people here wanna lie to themselves because they’ve had some casual sex, but ofc it damages that. Sex is a very intimate experience meant to be with people you love, if you take away that value it just becomes a meaningless pleasure. And obviously you can still bond and even partially recover as the brain is very malleable, but it won’t ever fully be at the level you could’ve if you weren’t engaging in casual sex and degenerate culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:14 PM
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It’s immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:06 AM
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Holy fuck reading those articles those women are actually fucking disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:27 PM
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Not the worst idea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:13 PM
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The difference is being promiscuous is bad, while being a virgin isn’t (for both genders)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:38 PM
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Cause they’re desperate simps, who would want a used women who fucked a buncha hot dudes n then settled w them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:42 PM
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Well obviously they’re gonna be mad about that and not want the women who are getting used by and sleeping w the top 20% and then they desperately crave that for the rest of their lives when they are 5’s max (that’s why)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:37 PM
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You can’t argue with someone like her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:42 PM
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Well yeah.. those messages are super clingy and a very bad look. I suppose it’s just different things for different people. I wouldn’t like not texting for 12 hours, but I wouldn’t react like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:47 AM
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Ur prolly good looking as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:55 AM
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I mean you do you, but for me I can answer a text in that time? Almost no job is so demanding you mustn’t be on ur phone even once. And showering and eating ? I can text during. If you don’t want to that’s fine but all of those things besides MAYBE work are just excuses. If I really liked someone I would def text them before I was bout to drive / when I get home or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:51 AM
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No one except people with 2 iq argue against that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:35 PM
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Anything more than shoving her back is too far imo, like if ur that much stronger it’s a slap, it’s annoying, she’s very immature and should be kicked out. But to knock her out like this guy would is wild to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:34 PM
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Keep in mind tho I also have a low body count and I don’t go for hoes or party girls I date for love and just if I really like the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:39 PM
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Getting a virgin girl or low body count girl isn’t hard if you’re not a 30 year old loser
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:38 PM
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bffr fashion won’t fix someone who’s ugly 😂. Most people arent that interesting but hot people just seen more interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:43 PM
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Shits crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:31 PM
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Tbf it’s a combination though, who they are influences how they make you feeo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:54 PM
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Yea but a lot of people get mad if you say you don’t wanna date sm1 who sleeps around. It was their choice tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:50 PM
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W mindset, it should go both ways. I wouldn’t wanna date a hoe, and I’d guess you wouldn’t want to date a man whore for obvious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:27 PM
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Delusional, women cheat as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:34 PM
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I try not to be a jerk to anyone unless they’re supporting evil or some shit. Obv not perfect but yeah if someone who was fat approached me and I didn’t like them, I would definitely be nice about it that’s just basic decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:38 AM
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Well ofc weight alone wouldn’t determine my choice. I wouldn’t date someone skinny just because they’re skinny there is so much more. I can’t disagree with anything you said there really so, good luck with your relationship, I guess I misunderstood what you meant by fetishing. I am also very active and would want my partner to be active too, that would be a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:03 AM
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You phrased it as preferences can’t be an exclusion towards like fat women for instance, my preference happens to exclude all fat women, I just don’t find that attractive. But it’s not that I’m fetishizing skinny women (I wouldn’t encourage anorexia at all)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:51 AM
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I don’t have an EXACT requirement, it’s just if I find you attractive, if you’re overweight the chances of me finding you attractive is very low. I’m most attracted to active slim girls. Exact weight would also depend on like height n shit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:50 PM
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Not dating fat women even if the only reason is the weight doesn’t mean you have a fetish for healthy weight people, that’s just a crazy statement
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:27 PM
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She’s sooooooo delusional 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:59 AM
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Most aren’t personally offended, they just find it unappealing for their potential partners and say they find it nasty, (nothing wrong w finding that nasty). Also when these same women talking about how they’re the prize and men ain’t shit just to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:57 AM
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“The age gap now feels well creepy”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:45 AM
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Yea I’m sorry but if ur 24 ur old enough to understand what getting into a relationship w a older guy is. Like don’t pretend him being ten years older makes it creepy or manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:38 AM
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Yea I’m ngl you could be the most beautiful woman in the world and some men will still be disgusted by a slutty past. One girl I was talking to had such a casual view on sex and her past partners I just got grossed out and stopped talking to her. She was decently attractive too, but I can’t get over that feeling
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 12:38 AM
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… asking you out doesn’t mean they feel entitled to having sex w you. Stop looking down on other people and feeling superior just because you look pretty and exercise. Very bad attitude to have.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 06:48 PM
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Ironic 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:10 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:37 PM
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What in the delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:03 PM
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Yea idk how men like that want virgin women. I lost my virginity to a virgin girl I’m still dating but the lifestyle we live is NOT like a celebrities. I also don’t drink and I’ve never even used caffeine LOL. I like it like this tho it’s chill and I still have my fun in different ways while also having an awesome loyal girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:54 PM
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No some people don’t those women cause they believe sex has more meaning than modern society says. Or they don’t wanna get cheated on either lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:32 PM
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What the delusional, yea you want the hoe for sure. Having sex with her would be SO special, just for her to leave you or cheat on you (cause she a hoe man)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:18 PM
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The only point I’ll give you is a lot of people are hypocritical in saying that men having lots of casual sex is good. It’s bad for both genders. I won’t apologize for viewing someone as a hoe tho if they are one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:29 PM
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Wah wah calling a hoe a hoe isn’t sexism, it’s an acknowledgement of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:18 PM
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Once a hoe, always a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:08 PM
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God you’ve got such a bad understanding of the world it physically hurts me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:18 PM
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Agree about the age, but a lot of people genuinely woudlnt date a single mother, or at the very least would much much prefer not to. For me, I wouldn’t want to raise another man’s child, and I wouldn’t want to risk being attached to the kid only to break up and the mother cutting all strings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:41 PM
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Yea bro for sure !
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:16 PM
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I think it’s highly dependent on age, for example, a 19 year old with a body count of 7 id say is quite high. But if we’re talking about a 28 year old it’s not really that high. Generally if it’s more than 1 per year over 18 I think it’s high, so like 4 for 21, 5, for 22, etc. Mines 0, so obviously isn’t high, and I don’t wish it was higher im waiting for the right women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:51 PM
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Men are delusional if they think dating is ever hard for women. Literally as long as u can maintain ur Weight and not become a whale you’ll have young, hot options until at least 50, and even then you can still match with people similarly aged easily. The wall is pretty delusional and just cope for ugly men who think suddenly they’ll have the upper foot once the women hits 30
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:56 AM
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It does have an impact 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:28 AM
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They’re insecure about being sluts, don’t take it personally, virgin women > slutty women for like 90% of men as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:00 PM
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Well that’s good and all except no women want to date me so. When attractiveness is the #1 thing some people are going to be screwed no matter what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:17 PM
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Ofc !
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:54 PM
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I don’t need or want therapy, and I don’t believe jt would be helpful either way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:48 PM
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What? Men are under 100x more pressure to have sex and not be virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:54 PM
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Women just aren’t inherently violent like men, additionally the amount of single women who genuinely can’t get a relationship but want one is shockingly few. While with men there is a good amount especially amongst young men where they can’t get a relationship due to factors out of their control (looks, height, shit like that). For women they almost always will have access to intimacy while a man feels shunned by society and that no one cares about them, so why should they care about society and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:22 PM
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lmao tbh that probably would be more fun anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:53 PM
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Sure, let’s say you’re at a party, notice how they act. Are they getting stupid drunk? Are they lowkey flirting w others? How do they react when they see other people being sexually wild and say going to a room for a hookup? That’s just one rnadom example I thought of on the spot, there’s many situations in life that you’ll get into that will give clues. Maybe not answers but they’ll point you in a direction and eventually it’ll start to become obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:46 PM
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You can ask them about what they do for fun, find our their values, while your dating you will know or at least have a gut feeling about whether or not they hoe’d around when they were younger etc. additionally stuff like their thought processes, how they react to certain situations and what they think about certain people. It’s hard to explain in words but a high n count women is really obvious 95% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:20 PM
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Maybe some of these men are stupid and can’t tell, but for 95% of women it’s easy to tell and they can’t lie or hide it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:45 PM
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It’s obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:41 PM
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yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:18 PM
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Yea I would bet the bitterness can play a role, but oftentimes if a man was cursed with bad looks, it wouldn’t matter either way. And yea obviously it’s not an excuse to act violently because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:30 PM
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Yea although the men also may just be glad about the abortion, if they support pro-life, but yea I know love can’t be forced so that’s why I said there’s not really a solution. Although I disagree that most people don’t like others, that may be for you, but I think in general people tend to like other People. But while we can’t force anyone to love someone, it’s easy to understand why they’re bitter and acting out and I won’t blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:03 PM
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Truthfully there isn’t really any solution besides having empathy for them and an understanding that it’s usually not their fault. Legalizing sex work would help for a few, but I’d say a majority just want intimacy that doesn’t involve having to pay women to have sex, more so love or a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:40 PM
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That’s just because their standards are ridiculously high. There are plenty of normal guys who want relationships but yes, some may be worse looking than they’d want. And I’m not saying women need to go for these guys but it’s certainly better than nothing. No question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:39 PM
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I mean you must’ve been able to attract if you were a single mother though, at least at some point. Lots of men are virgins and haven’t even hugged a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:27 PM
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If you claim to be a women but were born a male I don’t wanna date u
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:26 PM
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A good amount of these men will make it a problem, and I don’t blame them at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:25 PM
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It’s always a red flag, it messes with ur ability to bond with new partners, and aside from that it shows the type of person you are to go around having sex with random people and making the most intimate part of being human available to all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:22 PM
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Plenty of men would never get hunted, either way ur take is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:20 PM
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Actually delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:20 PM
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Because you knew you could get a relationship with ease, and you’ve had some before and didn’t have to worry, way difffeent than being lonely ur whole life against ur desires
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:16 PM
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You just don’t get it. When you know you CANT get a relationship is a completely different feeling from when u can just go on tinder and get intimacy in one text. Even relationships are far easier, and some people don’t go through a stretch where they have no relationships, nah they just have none their whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:15 PM
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It’d be easy to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:10 PM
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Honestly I really hope that’s me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:09 PM
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If you haven’t gone through life without romance or sex you just won’t understand lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:39 PM
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That’s not a damn solution to the isolation, loneliness, and rejection these guys experience every day of their lives. Most of them just want a relationship or a girl to get some validation and maybe just maybe be happy for once. But nah ur solution is just to buy a pocket pussy and put these men further and further down the rabbit hole just like porn, onlyfans, and all this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:36 PM
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I exercise 7x a week and am not obese or overweight, I have the same problems
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:32 PM
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I mean I can only speak for myself but I certainly don’t see women as second class people. Yes, men judge women primarily by their looks and it sucks, but that’s not a male thing, women judge men just as harshly on looks and it’s what gives most people their perceived value. No one wants to date an ugly guy/girl it is what it is. Ofc more people would also treat you as an equal if you had an impressive skill that set you apart but again that just makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:53 AM
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True actually true, I think we might have some different reasons why tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:29 PM
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Well I suppose it all comes down to a difference in perspective then. I’d rather have a girl who is more in line with traditional gender norms. I don’t believe them to be net negative
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:21 PM
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Tv hosts using makeup is different, because 1, they’re famous they could cut off their hand and be fine for dating, 2, hardly anyone realizes they use makeup it’s just not common knowledge. And also ur really not interpreting what I’m saying well. Yes, the study participants will find them attractive given they can’t really notice the makeup but if u walk around in real life and then a girl finds out ur wearing makeup ur going to be seen as gay or a joke. And why would u wear makeup to look bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:54 PM
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I mean yea I wouldn’t say that women are tricking anyone by wearing makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:50 AM
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If u use makeup in real life as a man you’re going to be laughed at and most women would secretly be like wtf is this guy gay? There’s a reason men don’t use makeup, and sure if it was socially acceptable then yea it could be used to enhance the appearance. But it’s not, and either way men don’t want to wear makeup and waste time in superficial things like that. Wearing makeup as a man is just very weird in day to day life and it’d be treated as thus
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:48 AM
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I can only speak for myself but I don’t really care if my girl wears make up or not, even the neutral type, and although yes I’m sure many men prefer women who wear neutral makeup, the truth is women do it to themselves. Ofc makeup will make u look better that’s what it’s literally designed to do, yet if no one was to wear it then it wouldn’t be the problem it is today. You can’t blame guys for preferring girls wearing makeup even when they don’t realize it since that’s the design of makeup. To …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:45 AM
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I pray men don’t take that advice, wearing eyeliner, are u kidding LOL. Even if u find it attractive u are a rare exception most people will just think ur gay if ur wearing eyeliner, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:26 AM
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You act like men don’t have the same exact expectations in that sense. Ugly men don’t wear makeup because it’s just a waste of time and strange habit. Most dudes like women without makeup, yea sure the ugly ones might not be nearly as lucky, but the same has always been for men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:24 AM
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So the solution to women being picky is for men to become like women and overcomplicate by wearing makeup, which women will ridicule him for, as well as being a waste of time to put on and use. Why instead of men adopting make up, shouldnt women just stop using make up. And btw the same exact study could be replicated by just using photoshop with the exact same results (hint it’s because it achieves the same outcome).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:22 AM
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Ok, I can agree with that, yet I would also still say their bitterness is very justified, and EVEN if they do all of those things there’s still a chance that they will never get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:58 PM
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Are you gonna deny that attractiveness is a incredibly important aspect and that some people, no matter their personality, are just ugly and that means they’ll have a extremely difficult time with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:52 PM
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But bitterness often comes because they never get a chance to date due to their attractiveness and women ignoring them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:38 PM
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Yea it’s just all about if ur attractive or not, sure there are women who have types for either the gym rod or the pretty boy, but the main theme is that either one of them has to be attractive. Especially in the face, that’s what matters most
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:12 PM
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Me too bro, me too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:10 AM
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Most men age badly, most women age worse
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:46 PM
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coping so hard to think men age infinitely worse than women 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:42 PM
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It’s near impossible to understand the level of isolation, loneliness, and just shear hatred of the world some of these men experience. If you’ve never held hands with a women, kissed one, or had sex it’s a totally different realm then someone who has easy access to this level of intimacy. Truth is you just can’t understand what it’s like to be so isolated by the world for biological and i changeable traits oftentimes, if a dude is ugly he’s just kinda fucked unless he’s rich asf, and even then …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:56 PM
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Commies man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:25 PM
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It’s not so much as they’re asking for these women to “help” them by just having sex with them, although I admit I don’t speak for all men and I’m sure some do think that way. More so it’s to have some empathy for men like this and instead of blaming them for the societal problem instead you could understand and not hate on lonely men. And I’m not talking about sex offenders or people like that, obviously, but there are many good men who were just cursed with being ugly, or socially awkward, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:57 PM
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Personally I’d have a problem with both, but it’s basically a hypothetical cause women almost never pay for sex anyways. You can have a problem with it for the view on women and consent, and I respect that and in fact, I even agree that it’s a problem. But I would not want a partner who has a high n count, and I’m not saying these things are on the same level but it is important to me and I believe having a high n count is a big negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:51 PM
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Then would u admit that a man could be the same about a high n count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:43 PM
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Nah bro I agree that women def seek attention more than men, but casual sex is 100% validating for a man. It proves that you can pull women and you don’t gotta deny that it is validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:23 PM
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Yea I don’t think most men lose that attraction unless their wife stops taking care of themselves or something, but yea obviously most men don’t leave their wives but they do likely find them less attractive than they were at first and I mean the same goes for the women as well. By then tho the relationship is likely more than just about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:40 PM
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That’s Cope nearly no one is as attractive at 40 as 20, and studies back up the fact that men near universally do find younger women more attracyive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:07 PM
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I mean I agree with a lot of the “manosphere” ideas, but I would agree with you that she was screwed and Jeff bezos is a shit guy. Cheating is nasty especially w a women as loyal as she was so yea, I’ve got no problem with what happened to him. The only thing is how much she got, I don’t know the specifics but if she wasn’t a co owner and literally starting the company with him she shouldn’t get as much. Even getting like 1 billion would be enough when ur talking about money at that scale Not ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:34 PM
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I appreciate that most of the women here for instance actually do show empathy and care for mens problems, and although many may disagree most tend to be respectful and can acknowledge the differences in opinion. It’s hard to name a specific trait for just the opposite sex but I do appreciate the women in my life who are there for me, my mom, a few friends, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:14 PM
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I’m fairly confident, however I do a lot to stay in shape, and I do know a lot of people who really aren’t too confident. I think women probably are more insecure as a whole, but plenty of men also are. I think the men who are insecure usually are the men who get very little sex so they’ll take what they can get and it probably makes them feel better about their body since they’re being validated through sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:46 PM
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The average height is 69.1 inches for us males, it follows a normal distribution therefore about 50% of men are > 69.1, most men fall within the 1st deviation below or above (34%) each, which means that probably about 48% of men are below 5’9, so that means on that basis alone that % of men are out according to the standards calculator
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:33 PM
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According to the calculator it says that 38.4% of men make 40k or more in that age range, which sounds reasonable to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:30 PM
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No the average height being 5’9 means abt 50% of people are taller, and 50% are shorter, but when u add th percent of all these factors together it comes to a small percent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:20 PM
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Only if ur attractive is it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:09 PM
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It’s 31000 for men age 20-29, which is her age range, I mean her standards def aren’t crazy but I’m arguing that the calculator is fairly valid because of the combination of all the factors she listed, ex: non-obese, over 5’8 (say 40% eliminated) and income as well less than half of men make it at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:59 PM
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And yes ofc it’s not fully accurate but it’s likely within 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:45 PM
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If you include the height of 5’9 that eliminates half of men, excluding obese u eliminate another 1/3 of that amount, then many men are married in that category, and income there’s still a significant portion who don’t make 25k even
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:45 PM
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Cause being obese is common, and making that much money at the age isn’t even that common
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:42 PM
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Then don’t get mad when some men rebel and don’t just go along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:16 PM
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Well yea, I’d agree in that case then it certainly would be a bad deal for the women, but in the context of a relationship in college where they grow together I thought it’s implied it’s a healthy relationship with boundaries and both people getting benefits out of it. Because the relationship you’re describing just sounds like a shitty one due to the reasons u said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:55 PM
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Sure, like I’d think if they truly loved each other they’d both be glad to support each other when they’re stressed or what not, ofc not all guys or all women, but personally I wouldn’t desperately need sex so bad that my gf couldn’t focus on studying for like a week or something. Like if they’re actually growing together, they both start off as like broke college kids in the “fantasy” and then as they grow together and start making money and experiencing life their connection could grow deeper.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:45 PM
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The women oftentimes offers no more than the man in those cases
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:40 PM
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I just don’t understand ur point, like why is growing together from college in a relationship a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:40 PM
1

Yea women have it so bad !
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:38 PM
1

9/10 7/10 5/10 2/10 5/10 Given my age with average logistics he’d be in college and and money would mean very little, so have top 5% looks and a decent body (top 15%) with average social skills it’d be very easy to find quality partners Assuming it’s me and I would easily be able to make money off my looks being a top 1% men so even if it became a problem I could just go the Tik tok influencer route
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:15 PM
1

Start by just doing something simple like going up to her for directions, or ask about something. Do this to multiple different girls / people until ur somewhat comfortable, then start trying to start conversations or really approach them
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:24 PM
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I’ve never even held hands with a women romantically, never been on a date, I go to the gym, I’m fit, I have good hobbies, I’m in college in a competitive degree which will lead to good money in the future, yet apparently looks is all that ever matters
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:19 AM
2

The rp does take these into account, but it also recognizes that you can become wealthy, just because most people don’t, doesn’t mean u can’t, you can also work on being extroverted, it won’t come naturally and it will be hard work, but you can become much more extroverted, stress can also be worked on, but you admitted that. The other factors are clearly important and unchangeable, although face can improve if you’re out of shape, but either way there is no point on focusing on them. Yes there’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:38 PM
2

Well I’m glad you’ve found true love either way, just feels impossible sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:36 PM
2

Are you ugly though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:35 PM
2

I really want to believe in love, but time and time again it seems out of my reach, like a fairy tale. I guess I’m just unlucky, maybe it exists but it feels like only the decent looking people get to experience it. No one really dreams of loving an ugly person, they only settle. Maybe I’m wrong but it feels like true love is just unachievable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:20 PM
1

I don’t agree with that part of rp, personally I just want a good relationship, not to sleep around. I’m not really a specific pill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:22 AM
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I don’t think rp is about going out of the way to slut shame someone, just acknowledging that people with high body counts won’t be good long term partners for you, which is reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:50 PM
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And to add on men are 100% biologically programmed to desire sex more, it’s reproductively advantageous to have sex as much as possible and have as many kids you can, while women must carry the child for 9 months meaning it is better to find a good prospect and stick with him, meaning sex is not needed as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:41 PM
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I don’t need it to justify my suffering, never said I was suffering either. It’s just the truth it’s objective, idk how u genuinely think women have as high of a sex drive, are there exceptions, sure. I’ll list a few studies for u showcasing that men have a higher sex drive, although tbh they aren’t even necessary it’s just common sense https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1207/S15327957PSPR0503_5 https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-007-9242-8 https://www.taylorfrancis.com/chapte…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:36 PM
2

Do you genuinely believe the things you say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:39 PM
2

You’re delusional, you pretend that rps are wrong for blaming women for everything, yet you seem to just blame men for everything. Most people aren’t just fucking a shitton of women, just the very attractive guys who are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:42 PM
5

Would you care to link reliable studies on that? Because I don’t really think women care more, looks are #1 for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:17 AM
13

Idk I disagree I think women care about looks just as much, I know personality and other things matter but it feels like if u don’t have the looks then you never get a chance for women to see your personality. I’d assume the same goes for the other side of it though, just never experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:18 PM
1

I wasn’t really talking about incels in general tho mostly about ugly looking people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:28 PM
1

Yea some probably do it’s a big group of people there’s differences between them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:27 PM
1

Attractive incels don’t exist cause they can get women easily and have no struggles in that aspect of life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:25 PM
2

They become incels because they can’t get one LOL. Not saying it’s right to hate women for it but the only reason they’re incels is because they can’t get any relationships or a family. If an incel was attractive they would NEVER become one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:24 PM
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They won’t understand tho they’ll just think it’s cus u sit inside all day or smth like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:57 PM
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The connections and memories you make with people are clearly one of if not the most important aspects of life, really sucks to have to miss out on most of it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:57 PM
1

It’s basically all looks lol. If you’re hot af and handle the rare rejection badly no one will care because they see u as good and women will still want to date u. If ur really ugly then u won’t get dates no matter how many times u interact with women or get rejected
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:52 PM
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That’s what they don’t realize, they think it’s so easy to just make friends, get a gf, shit like that cus it’s like that for most people. They can’t see that it’s possible people get rejected just for their looks and never given a chance to be happy or experience love
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:51 PM
2

Ig, not much u can be happy about though if society just rejects u off what u look like. I wouldn’t be able to accept that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:38 AM
2

I get that but what can they look at if they’re just the bottom 20% of looks, not necessarily something they did to themselves so looking and reflecting won’t really help. Unless they just cope and pretend everything’s ok and that they don’t need women or a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:03 PM
1

Don’t bother arguing with her, her heads too far up her ass to try
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:39 PM
3

The women their age aren’t interesting either and aren’t working to make themselves worth the guys time, why do the same for them, just do what you enjoy and hobbies that make you happy. Don’t do it for these shallow women who really just care about looks anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:08 PM
0

I mean if you act like a hoe and sleep with 36 men by 23, don’t be surprised that you’re treated as such. She had the choice to not sleep around for fun, yet she chose to, therefore anyone else is entitled to not date her because of that. I mean what does she expect, sleeping with 36 people just to have fun is going to turn off most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:53 PM
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Idk I think we should just be honest that most love is physically based and not everyone is going to find that fairytale romance movies portray. Cause while yes, having a partner shouldn’t be the most important thing in someone’s life, it often is not only because society tells people they need one, but also biologically most people really do feel the need to Find someone. I don’t really agree with red pill or black pill or blue pill I feel like there is too many individual differences between p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:39 PM
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I mean I will admit some people are certainly angry about it, imagine being an unattractive dude and absolutely no one wants you. You’ve been lied to by society since you were a child with people saying it’s all personality and that everyone finds someone. Romantic relationships are idolized and seen to be a necessity to be happy. If you’ve never had one, never got any interest from women, and see all the normal or hot looking dudes getting them, would you not be angry as well? I suppose it’s mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:12 PM
1

If it’s frustrating to attractive guys imagine how Unattractive guys always feel being rejected over and over again and never even getting a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:18 PM
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class war is a pretty communist idea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:21 PM
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Cringe communists
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:30 PM
2

Well No obviously that’s good I just mean agreeable people don’t make a big deal over the small things, thus no disagreement causing an argument. ofc it’d be great if we saw eye to eye on everything but that’s not realistic and I’d rather not fight on small things with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:25 AM
1

Well in my opinion being too agreeable or too disagreeable is bad either way. You want to be able to stand up for yourself of course, but you don’t want to be constantly picking fights over stupid things. I think most men want a partner who is more agreeable than disagreeable but not someone who has no mind of their own and just wishes to do whatever they’re told. At least for me that wouldn’t be someone I’d want as a partner. I’d want someone who can tell me if I’m wrong but also be supportive …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:39 AM
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I’d say agreeableness is more so being willing to go along with another’s plans and work with others when there’s a reason to and you have thought about it, while submissive is more so just doing what ur told unquestioning why just to please someone. Agreeableness would be like following someone’s project idea at work because it makes sense and is reasonable while submissiveness is more not wanting to say anything and going along with it just because you feel like you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:37 AM
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Nah it’s a legitimate personality trait in reference to the big five personality trait, you can be agreeable without being submissive, although they likely do correlate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:33 AM
2

She’s so deluded there’s no point arguing, if she can’t see the hypocrisy in her statement it’s a lost cause. Like LOL just admit you hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:06 PM
1

That’s not the problem cause yea it’s true you aren’t obligated to have sex with anyone the problem was you saying that them being too ugly is the reason they don’t deserve sex, even though they have little control over if they’re ugly or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:02 AM
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People who think like u should be miserable forever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:08 PM
3

I think looks have just started to matter more with OLD which lowers their actual value, also definitely a lot more men are less fit and socially awkward. Also women’s preferences have narrowed and oftentimes they perceive they value as much higher than it is so they reject most average men even if they’re the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:28 PM
2

Wdym by them being seen as more valuable before? If they’re ugly then they will never be seen as valuable unless they’re super rich. And yea I agree both people are happier alone than they would be in a relationship where ones not attracted to the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:11 PM
3

Men don’t care about other random men and they chalk up their successes with women to their personality and game usually, also you can’t use seeing one random couple when you don’t know if the dude was rich, used to be good looking, or was just a rare exception to the rule (maybe the women was not conventionally attractive as well). It’s not 100% but look at tinder studies and it’ll show most women only go for the top men versus it being more even for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:06 PM
3

Yea agreed it’s not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:00 PM
2

Tbf though when rich people get a girl based off their money it’s rarely real and they’re usually just gold diggers (if they’re ugly) which makes it worse than just being single tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:54 PM
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To an extent I agree, but once u have enough money or are a millionaire with power you’ll be able to get a women even if you’re ugly. For the average well-off man making 100-200k tho I agree looks matter more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:53 PM
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I think most of the reason there’s more single people isn’t because people are happier alone though, I think it’s because a lot of men are seen as valueless just because they’re not conventionally attractive or have a lot of money. Sure there are definitely some people who can be happier alone but it’s definitely a minority and most of the people just never had a chance to be with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:29 PM
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It’s fair enough to critique religions as a whole or people who follow them if they’ve done something, but all this person did was answer the question. There was no reason to tell them off for nothing, it’s really just basic decency not even respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:32 PM
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All this person said was they’d like to date other Christian’s there was no need to attack their beliefs or call them an idiot for believing in “illogical fairytales”. Have some respect dude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:08 PM
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people like you are just as bad if not worse than people who try to force their religion on you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:07 PM
3

You wouldn’t say that if you never had a romantic partner in your life like a good deal of the men who struggle out there in the dating world, it’s just impossible to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:42 PM
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