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| 21 | It’s doneYup. My “tell the kids” scene was over ten years ago. They were five and eight. I’d given my ex an ultimatum: stop her affair or divorce. She chose her affair over her family. Our kids were devastated and nightmarish “coparenting” followed for years. I wish I could report along the lines of “But now my young adult children are doing great” and I am happy to read such reports. But the truth is, in my case, this ruined their wonderful safe, stable childhood and the trauma has done real damage to b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Recent text from ex-wifeIt’s incredible, isn’t it—as though they all perform the same role, recite the same lines, engage in the same behaviors…. They are actors. I don’t think there is a core “them.” These are marks of personality disorders. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/25 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Recent text from ex-wifeExactly. Whenever my ex-wife has broken up or is having problems with the guy she left me for (which is why I divorced her) she Hoovers me, either subtly or explicitly expressing wanting to get back together. This has been going on for twelve years. I shut it down and she continues her dysfunctional life with this guy. It used to infuriate me. Now it just makes me sad, as it has been so predicable. She destroyed our family and threw away an enviable life for a fantasy and now is miserable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Its happening and im devastatedYou’re very welcome! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/25 12:23 AM |
| 10 | Its happening and im devastatedHi, Datguyeh. I am sorry you have found yourself in this situation—one in which I found myself over 12 years ago (I am now 58) when my ex-wife also had an affair. She would not stop and after eight months I had no choice but to divorce her. It was the most excruciatingly painful episode of my life, lasting a seeming eternity as I had to endure years of so-called coparenting. My kids were six and nine). The divorce was predictably horrific (took around a year) and wiped me out financially. If my … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/25 05:45 PM |
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