Abbottizer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	The WRONG way to deal with an AMOG and what it means to women. (requires hulu account but its worth it. description inside for if you really don't want to)		Abbottizer	/r/seduction	03/09/10 05:07 AM
0	A woman's perspective on LMR - DON'T IGNORE THE LMR		Abbottizer	/r/seduction	16/05/11 10:18 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validation Alpha male of the group	/r/seduction	01/12/25 12:37 AM
10	What hobbies attract the most girls? how do i get into this hobby? where do u start	/r/seduction	07/06/17 07:54 AM
3	[FR] Met a girl, asked her out within 20 minutes. I bet she went home and made a post titled, "Met a guy, asked me out within 20 minutes." If you really think about the ego boost girls get, it should help with overcoming approach anxiety.	/r/seduction	15/07/14 04:56 PM
0	How do i friend zone girls? don't have sex with them	/r/seduction	14/01/14 07:36 PM
-8	Dealing with racist girls? everyone is entitled to their opinions	/r/seduction	15/08/13 06:34 PM
0	[FR] Date Close HB10 French Nanny What if she thinks you're looking for a relationship too?	/r/seduction	11/12/12 01:49 AM
-5	PSY [of Gangnam Style] gives advice on hooking up with women. dont worry. i guess people don't like to be corrected or have their jokes ruined. it's like being a grammar nazi to a dumb person, she's gonna react badly and never admit she was wrong. when people make jokes like this you can either roll with the flow and pretend it's funny or correct them and offend them.	/r/seduction	18/10/12 12:44 AM
-3	PSY [of Gangnam Style] gives advice on hooking up with women. relax, i was the one making a joke, don't worry i'm not actually accusing you of not knowing what women look like lol	/r/seduction	17/10/12 09:46 PM
14	PSY [of Gangnam Style] gives advice on hooking up with women. Oh so confusing!	/r/seduction	17/10/12 09:40 PM
-1	If I don't have a place to bring girls back to,what do I do? posts like this make me feel like i'm a grand master among noobie amateurs	/r/seduction	11/08/12 08:05 PM
1	22/f here, just thought I'd let you know some things that have worked for me recently if anyone's interested on the flip side, men get to choose who they approach	/r/seduction	20/01/12 07:36 PM
1	22/f here, just thought I'd let you know some things that have worked for me recently if anyone's interested that's probably because you don't think it's ridiculous that a guy would stalk a girl to her home after meeting her. if you just think about the absurdity of that actually happening, it's fucking hilarious	/r/seduction	20/01/12 07:35 PM
0	So I saw my first episode of Californication - Hank Moody, an endless example of Stellar game I feel like watching the show would be immensely helpful if i were a famous author/writer like hank moody. otherwise, it's little more than fantasy and entertainment	/r/seduction	11/01/12 07:19 PM
1	RSD Tyler: Cultivating The Natural Strengths In Your Personality (+How To Take A "Real Man's Blowout") i'm pretty sure about a month ago the top post on seddit was "The worst advice is to be yourself" now this guy's saying be your natural self and take a real man's blowout.	/r/seduction	14/11/11 07:26 PM
5	Kino/escalation isn't just about getting to be with a woman, it's about conveying emotion on a different, and more intimate, level that's chemo. kino is a lottery gambling game much like bingo	/r/seduction	14/11/11 06:26 PM
1	Do women still notice chivalry? Not really considering value of a person here. Sure it does add value, but not attractiveness. It would make you more valuable as a person to be around, but not necessarily as a lover. Failing to be chivalrous, however, would take away from attractiveness. Besides, being a nice guy and expecting the girl to like you in return is almost textbook beta behavior. I think it would be best to display these qualities without any expecting direct payoff anyway, even if it does cause attraction.	/r/seduction	27/10/11 07:26 PM
16	Do women still notice chivalry? Women usually only notice when you're NOT being chivalrous. It's kind of like hygiene, if you got good manners/chivalry it doesn't really make you MORE attractive. It's just that absence of manners/chivalry makes you LESS attractive. Can't really win there.	/r/seduction	26/10/11 08:25 PM
2	Stanford lecture on building instant connections. Has implications about framing, kino, vulnerability, and the fungibility of different ways of building rapport. He's promoting high self-monitoring, which is like adapting to HER frame. I disagree, i think we should all keep a steady firm frame and project rather than imitate their behavior. This material is great if you're looking for more friends or looking to friendzone somebody though.	/r/seduction	25/10/11 11:33 PM
2	Any suggestions on self improvement? Hygene Fashion Humor Fitness Money	/r/seduction	22/07/11 11:29 PM
2	The Napkin Rose, or how I got over AA and learned to love the game nailed it.	/r/seduction	22/07/11 09:58 PM
4	Guy and I hit it off really well, we had sex, he's stopped talking to me Classic one-itis. Doesn't matter what gender you are, you need to have an abundance mentality. See other guys. Project the alpha female persona; make your target believe that she (he in this case) is the one who is lucky to be with you.	/r/seduction	15/07/11 09:44 PM
1	How does one develop and exhibit "swagger"? Swing your shoulder just a slight bit more than you usually would when you walk. Then tell yourself, "You own this place."	/r/seduction	15/07/11 09:38 PM
2	TofuTofu, please address this. He's dodging the issue. Takes money and holds it for 6 months, doesn't respond to donators and demands that they shut up because I'm not going to respond to any questions in this thread because I am sure it's all been said already. Maybe he thinks this is a giant shit-test and wants to ignore the issue. When you've taken money for a donation and haven't used it for what you've told people you would, it's a flat out scam. Tofutofu is holding people's money and it's their right to know what the fu…	/r/seduction	15/07/11 09:24 PM
3	I found a use for OKCUPID in real life Not only that, but personality test questions in general!	/r/seduction	01/07/11 06:11 PM
1	How do I reject a girl I'm just not into on the dancefloor? If this were a satire, I'm not sure what the lesson I'm supposed to take away from this is. Don't be too clingy on the dancefloor, because she'll want to get away? If you're not attractive, girls will feel uncomfortable if you hit on them? The PUA has the advantage because the girl can't really eject even if she wanted to?	/r/seduction	15/06/11 10:09 PM
4	Do you txt your chick friends regularly? social proof. they could have hot friends. practice. etc etc	/r/seduction	06/06/11 07:29 PM
-2	A woman's perspective on LMR - DON'T IGNORE THE LMR Haha I just want to clarify, that this is not my own field report! I was never accused of rape at any point. I just read this article and realized that the guy had no idea that he would later be accused of rape. I bet what he thought was, he's just pushing through LMR	/r/seduction	16/05/11 10:30 PM
1	Get Her Number! SimplePickup uses WWE lines to pick up girls. Oh they filmed it at UCI this time. Looks like they're hitting up all the southern california colleges	/r/seduction	13/05/11 06:54 AM
3	My new goal: Get shot down. I tried this at a very large nightclub that I went with some friends. Don't do it around your afc friends. Same thing would happen every time. I approached maybe 5 sets, kino'd heavily and was extremely confident and just starting to establish who I am to these girls, and my friends would push me aside and apologize, "Sorry abbottizer must have had too much to drink." and walk away pulling me. If I attempt to get back into that set, I would come off as desperate or needy so I'd leave it at that.…	/r/seduction	29/03/11 07:37 PM
1	Spot the Fake Smile. Test how good at reading body language. Alright 17/20 club. I was watching their lips the whole time though.	/r/seduction	26/03/11 05:53 PM
1	List of Common IOIs (found via /r/bestof) Hey stop doubting yourself. This chick is into you. That's the frame that you need.	/r/seduction	07/02/11 02:49 AM
2	Cute asian girl in class seems interested in me - how should I proceed? Take her on a date. Keep steady frame, kino, dhv, push-pull (basically run your game). Invite her over and fclose.	/r/seduction	26/01/11 02:18 AM
3	Trends I've Noticed While Clubbing Over the Years... Haha I don't think he's trying complain or try to give off an excuse or anything. Of course we're gonna need to learn to deal with it, and OP probably posted his observations so we can discuss HOW we're going to deal with it. He's doing exactly what seddit exists for: opening discussion about seduction and the current state of night life. A lot of the problems he discussed are obstacles that pua's need to address. It would be silly to not bring it up and leave it as an elephant in the room. This…	/r/seduction	24/01/11 06:32 PM
-1	For guys that got dumped: a random meme I found on the reddit front page It's not beta to refer to the past, idiot. It's probably more beta to not call someone out on their hypocrisy in fear of being called beta by idiots like you.	/r/seduction	20/01/11 09:52 PM
1	Sedditor Locator Koreatown	/r/seduction	09/11/10 07:51 AM
3	Sedditor Locator Irvine	/r/seduction	09/11/10 07:51 AM
-1	How to engage again after broken contact (months) Hmm how about "Hey [insert name here]! I was just going through my phone and decided to erase the boring out-of-contact people and keep the interesting ones. Should I keep you?" Better framing?	/r/seduction	09/11/10 07:22 AM
1	What's the Seddit consensus on going after girls with boyfriends? If another guy really likes her, he should have put a ring on it. No ring, fair game. But never break up a marriage. Unless he's abusive.	/r/seduction	26/10/10 09:46 AM
4	How much does acne affect a guy's attractiveness? i personally think acne is extremely ugly. i don't know how much confidence you would need to frame yourself as something other than the "bad acne guy". you'd probably be all self-conscious about it too. best thing to do is get some skin treatment from a dermo doc. worked for me	/r/seduction	24/10/10 08:31 PM
1	Have you guys found any good Android apps that are helpful? RedditIsFun. Reddit browsing app	/r/seduction	21/09/10 08:47 AM
1	The WRONG way to deal with an AMOG and what it means to women. (requires hulu account but its worth it. description inside for if you really don't want to) This is Episode 9 of Louie on FX starring Louis CK. Some guys bully Louie and he just deals with it maturely. The girl later says something that's pretty interesting, "My mind is telling me that you are a great guy but my chemistry is telling me you're a loser." I'm not sure how this could have been handled, but resorting to a fight is probably not a good idea unless you're able to get away unharmed. It just goes to show AMOGs sort of create a lose-lose situation.	/r/seduction	03/09/10 05:12 AM
1	People talking over you? Body language. Turn your back or side slightly to your interrupter and they're physically not in the conversation anymore. Besides, you've just isolated yourself from the rest of the group and made the conversation a little more personal.	/r/seduction	24/05/10 07:25 PM