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my mum abused me growing up and then kicked me out of home when I was 16.
/r/MensRights17/11/21 02:58 AM
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Ah shit, someone should have told me this before I became left wing.
/r/MensRights18/10/20 02:52 PM
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Proof that women’s rights are not human rights (this is a joke)
/r/MensRights17/09/20 01:52 AM
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Them suicide rates are some of the highest of any group and may have a lot to do with young trans men not being prepared for how society is going to treat them as they are brought up believing that men have it better and it is only women who suffer, so when they loose all the support they had in a time when they probably need it the most they are left alone and at a loss... trans or not, all men need more love, they need to be heard and they need to have their feelings matter, should be everyone…
/r/MensRights12/09/20 06:45 PM
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what are you talking about? most support groups are made up of ex drug addicts because people who have been through and gotten over it are much more aware of the struggle then someone who hasn't been through it, so I guess I just don't understand your point here.
/r/MensRights26/08/20 12:24 PM
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I guess I’d better jump back into the closest then
/r/MensRights03/07/20 12:30 PM
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So as a Trans man am I not included? Or are you including me and by proxy telling me that I am not a real man? Which one is it? choose carefully progressives!
/r/MensRights29/06/20 01:55 AM
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Am also FTM, I find this post so relatable, I had a Feminist mother and a “deadbeat” father, after she kicked me out of home my dad took me in and ended up being the support that saved my life, a struggle I have had has been in a lot of trans and even FTM groups they are swimming so deep in the feminist koolaid that certain opinions cannot be expressed as you will always be shut down and called a bigot, I’m glad you found yourself, and wishing you the best for a smooth transition!
/r/MensRights27/05/20 12:08 AM
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I like it when TURFs out themselves because then I know to never take anything they say seriously as they are inherently a joke.
/r/MensRights02/09/19 03:26 PM
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I was on the street alone and depressed as hell and he came and found me.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 06:12 AM
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I don’t feel attacked, more often I feel like I get held up a little higher, have seen some sexist people in the movement, and I don’t think it should be ignored or swept under the rug, I do believe most of it is due to the overlap with groups like MGTOW and Incels, who are genuinely jaded and feel burned by women, but I also believe people can change, but I think it needs to be done through a place of respect and understanding, not shouting over the ditch at each other, I do really appreciate t…
/r/MensRights08/03/19 03:09 AM
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I have been on this sub and I have seen plenty of other women speak out here, often frustrations with how they are treated by other women for being MRAs, I personally do a lot of lurking mostly but I am also a moderator over on the Discord for Men’s Human Rights. I personally ended up in the greater movement because of my involvement in fathers rights, when I was younger and my mother kicked me out of home, I eventually ended up with my homeless father and then when he got cancer I found out abo…
/r/MensRights08/03/19 02:22 AM
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Well I mean I am also a women, so I’m pretty sure not all women, probably could have worded that better. I did grow up under a very abusive mother, and was told all sorts of horrible things about my dead beat dad who ended up saving my life, so I’ve had first hand experience with how things can be the complete reverse on how the media portrays them.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 12:59 AM
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Women think all men because they are self centred and entitled, they legitimately believe that men don’t act of their own accord and instead as some kind of hive mind that only talk about tits and ass and are out to get them.
/r/MensRights07/03/19 08:44 PM
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Well, once again according to feminist I hate myself... nice xD
/r/MensRights25/01/19 04:44 AM
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Nuu, it’s too early in the morning for this many feels.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 11:54 PM
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For podcasts I would recommend looking out for Honey Badger Radio, it’s a collection of female Men’s rights activists and they cover a whole range of topics, is a good listen if you want some extra perspectives :)
/r/MensRights30/12/18 11:49 PM
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As a child used like a Pawn in a petty breakup, I know how awful this can feel, at least from my end, I’m just happy as an adult I get to spend time with my dad with nothing between us
/r/MensRights28/12/18 03:29 AM
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I think if people don’t want to label themselves as such they should be free of said labels, I believe that should be respected, doesn’t mean we can’t talk, agree and even disagree, I feel like if you say “well if you support this then you are a MRA” is not that much different to “if you support equality then you are a feminist”, it’s just a little silly is all in my opinion, both are great people though that I have a lot of respect for :)
/r/MensRights24/12/18 11:46 AM
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Thank you, you pretty much hit the nail on the head, haha, I know I get emotional and say dumb shit when I do, I hope you the best in getting this aspect of child abuse across, it is far to neglected, I just wish more people could understand sometimes.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 11:41 AM
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I believe the statistic would include well known issues such as post natal depression and shaking baby syndrome, that would count as murder I would assume, the title is just baiting you as it would appear to be parody of the “just teach men not to rape” rhetoric that a lot of feminists carry, my comment was about the misconception that Women are the gentle sex, it is a dangerous mindset to have as it dismisses evil women who do harm others, especially their own children.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 09:46 AM
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So defending women is more important to you then the lives of the children? I don’t care what the statistics are, women do abuse their children, it is a fact that I know first hand, what I also know first hand is people who I assumed where on my side trying to defend her actions, man or woman, people should face punishment for harming a child, however when the father is abusive it’s held up as “just another example” where as when a women is abusive she is given a kind of warped benefit of the do…
/r/MensRights24/12/18 09:17 AM
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Casey Jaye is not an MRA, she has been adamant about that, she used to be a feminist but after talking to members of the MRM she dropped her feminist label and considers herself more of a humanist now, I recommend looking up her TEDx talk on YouTube, great watch, she is an amazingly humble and grounded person.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 09:01 AM
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Some women are evil, if it takes statistics like this to understand that, then so be it, too many times I have had people try to justify my mums abuse that I suffered growing up, and yet no one will question you if it was a father that was abusive, so please just the fuck up, some of us have had to grow up with evil women only to be faced with doubt during adulthood, the women who are evil need to have something done about them, so facts and logic, the “women are evil” story can be true, and I o…
/r/MensRights24/12/18 05:25 AM
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Because it is an inconvenience to the social narrative that men are violent and women are the gentle sex.
/r/MensRights23/12/18 10:58 PM
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Well I didn’t know that, was lacking that context, so yeah, I see your point better now xD
/r/MensRights23/12/18 10:53 PM
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Well it is called “askfeminists” and not “asksanepeople” if I ask them a question I want to know how their twisted line of thinking works.
/r/MensRights23/12/18 10:49 PM
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34 hour work day? I think you did a misspell xD
/r/MensRights23/12/18 10:27 PM
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sadly this is due to a social phenomenon where men are seen as more dangerous then women who are seen as the gentle sex, it's hard to do anything about it but a lot of people do genuinely have this bizarre irrational fear of men, not just women, even some men, which is really unfair, but sadly a fact to live with, and it causes a lot of disadvantage in many areas (a lot of public facing type work has this problem too as most people are more comfortable talking with women)
/r/MensRights23/12/18 12:47 PM
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I would still like to, I just need to force myself to focus enough to actually get it done xD
/r/MensRights23/12/18 12:22 PM
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Yes, it is amazing what can happen when you talk to people is if they are actual humans, their built up defences drop and they can open up and an understanding can be reached, I know this concept is difficult to grasp but more people should try it, understanding the people you disagree with will always help you grow as a person, instead of just making assumptions that someone made as a one off comment because they had suffered in ways you cannot understand and so tend to get emotional over certa…
/r/MensRights21/12/18 11:54 PM
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Yes, I really am a women posting here, these issues matter to me a lot and I haven’t really faced any Gatekeeping or misogyny personally, most people here are very pro women and have been nothing but supportive, I think you find that when people post things that are unsavoury it will quickly get downvoted, but it can also be a little defensive at times as a lot of people who frequent these places are very used to being treated as subhuman by many women’s groups, you will also find that I am far …
/r/MensRights21/12/18 04:22 PM
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yeah, sure :)
/r/MensRights21/12/18 01:53 PM
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I very much lived this, my mother was physically abusive to my father until the day he left, it was decided that she was the fit parent and we didn't get to see our dad growing up much, but the older I got the more violent she got with me until the day she kicked me out of home, when my dad found out he came and saved me so we could be homeless together, the father who I was told was a violent deadbeat was the most patience and love that I had ever gotten, and I was very emotionally damaged and …
/r/MensRights21/12/18 11:03 AM
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Yeah, I think it's just a Public Hospital and Nursing homes don't give a shit issue, you are just a job to them, you are not human, just work, but you can go for it if you want to use it for the site :)
/r/MensRights14/12/18 07:47 AM
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I know about this all too well, when my father was in hospital recovering from cancer, the nurses refused to bathe him or even clean his ass, I spent a lot of money getting him clean clothes and a lot of time doing the nurses job for them, they would get really aggressive too when I tried to confront them about their neglect, and they gave me the dirtiest looks to me when they saw a daughter having to clean her dad's junk, like what the fuck do they even expect, that they clean themselves?!
/r/MensRights14/12/18 07:14 AM
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This is a good example of reciprocated violence, two scumbag parents that bring the worst out of each other and the only real victims are the children.
/r/MensRights12/12/18 10:33 AM
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Everyone should be taught to nurture and no one should be taught to murder, I thought this was a pretty simple concept...
/r/MensRights12/12/18 06:29 AM
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Still, that comeback though, quite on point xD
/r/MensRights11/12/18 09:15 AM
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This is horrible but sadly not out of the ordinary, pretty much the exact same thing happened to my dad, but he always made sure if we needed him he was always a call away, and when my mum got abusive towards me, I always had him to talk to, he even drove 18 hours to get me when I ran away from home, I am now 25 and we get to see each other as much as we want, it may be tough, he still gets upset that he wasn’t there for us growing up, but he is happy that we are here and we love him, so as long…
/r/MensRights09/12/18 06:50 AM
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I think you will find that helping men will naturally help women in a lot of areas, I hear in the discussion of child support most feminists would agree with you to your face, men are suffering in the child courts is usually retorted with because women are discouraged from working, as if that is comparable to loosing your kids and most of your income, and this pisses me off a lot because when reform that will help the issue is put forward, feminists did everything in their power to kill it, and …
/r/MensRights09/12/18 06:39 AM
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I think it just isn’t as taken as seriously, I have a theory that it could have a lot of to with the fact that there can’t really be actual “penetration” in a lesbian relationship, which also feeds into outdated ideas of rape and virginity, where typically penetration is required to constitute sex, could be an interesting angle to look at it from :/
/r/MensRights05/12/18 04:40 AM
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A lot of Ed Sheeran’s public imagine and marketing is based on the fact he is a down to earth every day man, dressing him up like a clown would completely go against the public image that he has built his career up with, and most woman fucking adore him like you wouldn’t believe!
/r/MensRights04/12/18 10:51 PM
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Also a woman banned by many feminists, it’s like a right of passage almost, you are not a real MRA until you have been banned in some way by a feminist xD (this is a joke)
/r/MensRights04/12/18 12:52 AM
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I feel like the title is a little unjustified, the article come across as a daughter who was forced into doing a horrible thing by an abusive mother and is now trying to make amends but the system is completely ignoring her in favour of keeping an innocent man locked up.
/r/MensRights04/12/18 12:21 AM
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Yay, more lefties :D You shall add to our ranks and we shall rise! Not that it matters since most issues that get touched on here are fairly central and more human rights focused :)
/r/MensRights02/12/18 12:27 AM
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I seen this, it’s not serious, it is a satire.
/r/MensRights01/12/18 01:44 PM
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Oh this is a thing again, fingers crossed it works, more options for men to protect themselves the better :)
/r/MensRights30/11/18 09:25 AM
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You mean like video games?
/r/MensRights29/11/18 02:23 AM
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I’m a girl and I play games, I don’t know what people talk about when they say that girls aren’t welcome in the gaming space, it’s the only place I do feel welcome, I met my boyfriend and most of my friends through games, so the people who write this shit can fuck right off!
/r/MensRights29/11/18 02:23 AM
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Wouldn’t that just be a Bi Man though?
/r/MensRights28/11/18 10:01 PM
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Oh god, no more, can’t handle...
/r/MensRights27/11/18 03:49 PM
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Already commented but my dad wanted to add; Every time she gets excited her face goes hard!
/r/MensRights26/11/18 01:30 AM
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Good god, both Feminists and Incels are against them now, why must it be so Hard for a women to earn an honest living? xD ... and what about the male sex workers? Or do they just not exist?
/r/MensRights26/11/18 12:43 AM
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This can’t be real, this has to be a troll right? SOMEONE TELL ME THIS ISNT REAL! I already have so little faith in humanity xD
/r/MensRights25/11/18 11:34 PM
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I looked in the comments and the top comment was a mother talking about a similar problem where she couldn’t enrol her boy into a dance class, and the responses to that seemed pretty positive to me... so I honestly don’t see the problem with this, and from experience girls and boys are quite similar at young ages so gender divides aren’t a problem until they get older, I played in a mixed rugby team until u9s and then they split us into boys and girls.
/r/MensRights24/11/18 12:01 AM
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I haven’t seen the movie but I find it interesting because of the parallel it has with the first movie, where the main villain was a racer from another game that was selfish and needed all the glory.
/r/MensRights23/11/18 11:39 PM
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So wait? My politics are fairly left leaning? Does this mean I cannot be here or do I just not exist? Lol
/r/MensRights23/11/18 11:26 PM
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I don’t see the point here, it’s a day later, not like International Toilet day which does fall on the same day.
/r/MensRights23/11/18 10:30 PM
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Yes, but honestly, the less power Pauline Hanson has the better as far as I am concerned, she is an absolute.... also.... “please explain” xD (Help me I’m dying inside)
/r/MensRights23/11/18 10:14 PM
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From what I understand the exact opposite of this is true and it is considered one of the main reasons women have a much longer life expectancy then men...
/r/MensRights21/11/18 02:29 AM
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I think the barstard deserves his 3-6, but the woman who is psychotic enough to do that deserves 9-12, just my 2 cents. Likewise, mothers who act as enablers should not be seen as victims but also as abusers, because they are, they stand back and let it happen and often even encourage it, and they should face consequences for that, it shouldn’t be about men or women in these cases, but the sons (and daughters) who get caught in between, the real victims who don’t get a choice.
/r/MensRights15/11/18 01:19 AM
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Oh wow, the Woman card is an actual physical card now, interesting.
/r/MensRights10/11/18 09:19 AM
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I have respect for LGB, they had clear goals, same rights as a straight couple, the T should be dropped, it is it’s own big can of worms and lumping it in with gay rights just creates confusion, as for the rest of it, I have no fucking idea and my brain hurts just thinking about it, what the fuck do they even want?!
/r/MensRights09/11/18 11:31 PM
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