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I love the way you put this <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:25 PM
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this is a manipulation technique. No real abuse victim is that open with their trauma and pain. They know "broken girls" unconsciously seek damaged men. They make up stories to create this fake sense of intimacy and trust, like "oh! am trusting you with my deepest secrets so you must trust me back and make my pain go away with your body". I always felt uncomfortable when men share their problems with me without asking and without knowing me for a while, am not going to do free emotional labor fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:50 PM
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Men hate the silent treatment so much because IT WORKS!!: PERIOD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:20 PM
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He and his gang made it their job to harass and paint Trisha Paytas as the crazy, jealous, hater, when she called them out on their predatory criminal behavior. One can argue it was not David who did that, but it is obvious that he was the god of the group, they did nothing without him knowing and approving so f**k him and his apology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:18 PM
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I guess it's Arabic, no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:06 PM
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you are brutal! and I love it ! lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:14 PM
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Ikr! , my partner is like that!, he enjoys my reaction to his unexpected gifts and surprises more than he enjoys anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:25 PM
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Lmao, I am ded! but good idea tho!.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:57 PM
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I want to congratulate you for sticking to your guns and prioritizing yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:55 PM
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I feel it is a good thing to discuss this openly with a partner when the subject of making babies comes up. I know someone who refused to get pregnant until her partner made her a "get back body fund" with an amount that covers a tummy tuck and laser treatments . She got so much criticism from other women for "not loving her body" but I think they were secretly jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:51 PM
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To be honest, that is why every time I catch myself being sad for not having a perfect body, I remind myself that, I want to be in a relationship where gaining 5 or 20 pounds is not going to stop my partner from loving me or finding me attractive. I am very, very sorry that happened to you, thank you for sharing it with us. It is utterly disgusting how society pushes motherhood down our throats and makes it to be this amazing magical experience, so they can sell us baby stuff, and then disregard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:19 AM
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Yeah, I am sure these men need her service so they can pretend that a total stranger who knows nothing about them, can give them some affection. They know deep down how shitty they are and how undeserving of real love that comes from people knowing THEM in and out, they are. They know that they are a failure in all aspects and they just want someone new who they can fool and pretend to be good people in front of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:59 PM
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NO, it's more like taking a nice refreshing shower after a long dirty sweaty day.... and putting your dirty clothes back on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:12 PM
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The most valuable piece of advice I got in my life is "Never suffer in silence for people, they will watch you die and then say you enjoyed it"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:32 PM
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I do not think it would help much clean up the women hating side of religion. I feel that hold on hope that the text is different from the implementation, which is natural because I also believed in that for the longest time too, until I made some research on my own, and I advise you to do the same for yourself too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:37 PM
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Lmao, the more disgusting thing is there are literal "scholars" spend years trying to dig up counter evidence and making it seem like she was actually 16 years old ! and they think it´s less disgusting that a 50+ man marries a 16 yo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:49 PM
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yes! and the official word for consummating marriage is "step on her".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:46 PM
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Actually islamists like to pat themselves on the back for doing the basic shit. Mohammed's first wife was an older businesswoman. She married him on her free will and despite her father's disapproval. This is an obvious evidence that women had power and agency even before Islam. But Muslims like to make themselves feel good for doing nothing. Also even if islam gave women some rights that seem progressive for that time, but as other nations progressed, in more than 1400 years islam stayed stagna…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:45 PM
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Exactly!, like he literally wanted to forcibly "confiscate" her car keys to hold her HOSTAGE in the house !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:52 AM
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I want to translate this in all languages and hang it on huge Billboards around the world and on Radio stations and TV and magazines and EVERYWHERE! Women need to wake up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:14 PM
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Exactly! I like my pride tho, they have tried to make me feel bad for it, but the joke is on them, I would die before I let anyone disrespect me or someone I love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:32 PM
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Seeing her squirm from being ashamed to admit that she needed her partners time and attention, really breaks my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:12 PM
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woooooo lets pray that they stop procreating !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:53 PM
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LMAO, exactly!! this is literally some of the advice that men get on dating subs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:51 PM
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LMAO, am a Leo too! but I think Leos will block and delete and forget you even existed from the faintest sign of disinterest let alone disrespect !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:49 PM
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do you mean "pas de tout" as in "you are welcome" in French ? or is it a pun or smt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:01 AM
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We are focusing on liberal feminism so we can better it and expose the wrong messages it sent generations of women who now suffer and wonder what they did wrong. I am very thankful for the original feminism and the work and sacrifice of the women before us put, so we can improve our situations. The problem is, it is not working anymore, the modern version became so distorted that it went from something that was made to advocate for women and gender equality, to a male pandering joke for an ideol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:02 PM
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Actually, in developing countries, white women are considered "easy" and "low cost". I always felt bad for women that married my LVM uncles thinking they got nice men, when the only reason my uncles married them was to get them papers and have low maintenance wives, to whom they have to pay no dowry, no decent wedding, no financial support etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 10:19 PM
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EW, this reminds me of that TikTok when a woman was like "men dare to call having body hair dirty, when the true reason STDS exist is Men fucking animals "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:57 PM
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Preach sister!, no woman in her right mind will accept this stupid pile of shit for religion. The first time I knew Islam was not for me when I was a kid and went with my parents to the Masjid. I got excited because it was big and beautiful but then when I wanted to go in with my father through the front beautiful gate, my mom stopped me and we got through a small back door,in a very plain room and of white walls. I was disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:34 PM
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I used to feel guilty when I got turned off by a dude "opening up to me". Now I feel that my instincts were right, and it protected me from giving emotional labor to dusty dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:10 PM
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No, it was right to slap him back, get a taste of his own lube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:25 PM
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a first born will also be responsible for his siblings in non white cultures, almost like a third parent and will also be expected to take care of his parents when they grow old, so you will have to share his attention and care and resources with his family and still take care of them for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:03 AM
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I would rather die than call a guy who is not my father, DADDY ! *throwsup*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:45 PM
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lmaoooooo am ded, this dude thinks spending the price of a coffee on his 2 month gf is "moving too fast "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:36 PM
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Please continue updating this, women should know how risky it is to even let men in our lives !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:36 PM
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aww, this reminds me of my SO, whenever he notices I have a problem with something, for example one time I made a comment about my bra hurting me because of the wires, and he did a whole research on the best wireless bra in the market with the best quality and gifted it to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:53 PM
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and people have the audacity to tell women that staying single and not procreating with men like these is the worst thing that could happen to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:54 AM
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I treated my last break up like I was quitting a drug or an addiction and it worked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:52 AM
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I suggest that we start a petition to make FDS a KK -kardashian klan)- free space. One simply cannot go anywhere on the internet and not see them SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:11 PM
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exactly! no normal person would give a compliment like that! that was def back handed and made to make you feel bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:52 PM
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well, they did not have a good reputation and image what was the most important thing back then. They were just as trashy as they are today and 10 years ago that was not ok, so they were celebs but a B list, because they have no talent, and no actual career to speak for them. Kanye on the other hand was a legit artist at the prime of his musical career, people respected him and he was considerably rich and high profile and when he started associating himself with them, it was like a stamp of opp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:39 PM
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Read the handbook please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:02 PM
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they might have been rich but they needed kanye to move from the B-list to the A-list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:15 AM
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do.not.pay just say you left your wallet at home or smt like that, if he tries to argue, tell him he invited you and not the other way around so he should have planned well, thank him for the meal and skoot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:06 AM
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I think this is all a PR stunt, these people own mansions and private jets and whole dealerships worth of cars with tinted windows and they choose to fight in a car in public day light ? SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:44 PM
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Lmaoooooo, what woman goes around sying "I wOuLd liKe tO gEt a pErspeCtive frOm tHe feMaLe mInd abOut tHis " or "I just want to hear what a feminist thinks about this." Lmao men are soooo dumb I swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:24 AM
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What are you doing ? studying me? trying to get a Phd in me ? LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:58 PM
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lol, the whole show is filled with those ! LMAO I knew it was only a matter of time that 90day shows up here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:56 PM
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Never pursue a man!, the sperm swims to the egg and not the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:35 PM
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congrats! now time to work on yourself and vet vet VET!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:33 PM
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this is important, when you treat yourself so well you unconsciously raise the bar of how well your partner treats you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:21 PM
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exactly! he is an ex for a reason, remember that reason!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:18 PM
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Lizzo for sure and TeaMarr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:29 AM
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you are welcome. Men love the gray areas and thrive on them, for an HVM you and your relatioship with him are a priority, he would fight the world for you. but this dude made his priorites clear, and to make his comfort and what money he could save from living from home before you is not an HVM quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:05 PM
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he is a colwn alright, but here is a trick: just do not respond to texts from guys you do not know. They will take any respose and pull you in a stupid convo, so save your time and do not text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:34 PM
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well, hats off to you for putting your mental health first and not put up with her shit . Women like that could not only hurt you but your future children too if you decide to have any and would have turned your every happy moment to hell. I think you and your ex are different people and he will never be as independent as you are, and trust me, you do not want a man who have never lived on his own to be your partner. So he might not have been an LVM but he is def not an HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:29 PM
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lol, exactly! imagine wasting valuable time of your life discussing things with mr-cannot-remember-a-single-book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:10 PM
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I think you should keep being yourself. I am too, disgusted by lazy low effort boring conversation. like, no, kevin, I do not care that you got lit last weekend. My trick back then was to ask what was the last book the person read, and I decide if i want to continue the conversation or not based on the answer. This my sound harsh but my time is valuable and I have no patience to pretend to be interested in boring people. I love reading and I could not imagine being with someone who did not so th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:03 PM
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waw. do you regret not starting your own business?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:38 AM
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so happy for you!, enjoy the moment, but keep an eye on the lovebombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:29 PM
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Look at it this way : he doesn't like you, until he makes a move, until then, he is just a friendly person doing his job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:33 PM
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exactly, I think it takes sometime to internalize the rules and see the motives behind the pickme urges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:29 PM
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My point is if you really really want to believe in a god and you chose islam as a religion, please practice your critical thinking and look things up from different point of views and sources. Do not take the word of these men bliendly. I am agnostic so i do not know if there is a god or not, but trust me, if there is one, it is def not Allah. As an arabic speaker who read/learned quran and 4 different interpretations let me tell you one thing, the book is filled with inconsistencies, scientifi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:13 PM
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- Most of Prophet's wives (some report says 7, some says 11) are all in the old age range (30, 40, I think some even 80-90 because there's a report saying one of them said "I am too old even for Prophet, I am a very old old woman.") most of the official marriages were for political reasons even Aisha was the daughter of his best friend and second hand Abu bakr. He owned countless slaves ( owned of the rigth) and was allowen to sleep with them. I bet you do not know the story of when his wives fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:06 PM
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- the nameless single woman who was once a slave, freed and then chose to live in the mosque until her death. The Sahaba bury her and then pray for her themselves because they don't want to disturb the sleeping Prophet. Once the Prophet knew, he got angry (he rarely got angry) and go to her grave and did the prayer again. this is a fake story, have never heard or read about it in any of the "sira" books. In the Intirety of the quoran there was one single woman Marry and thats it. She is nameless…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:57 PM
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Ex born Muslim here who studyed Quran and Hadith and countless books about islam forr 21 years. I agree with you about vetting muslim men and not be swayed by the label, and in fact I think it should be considered as a orange flag that means "tread very carefully". I see you are confused and angry about how "hypocrite" men are and how misogynistic and hateful they are twords women. As a yound woman that puzzeled me so much because islam is supposed to be all of what you mensioned above , so why …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:48 PM
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LMAOOOOOO, this dude has bee talking to women with NO BRAINS! HOW? like zombies? Jellyfish ? howww?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:31 PM
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poor things paid a hefty amout of coins to be able to say that every few minutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:30 PM
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also, men are so vocal about spending money on coffee dates and how women are gold diggers. They keep track of every penny and call you out if they did not get what they want, and more than what they want from spending it on you. And because women are ashamed and do not talk about stuff like this, people feel like men are the only ones being financially taken advantage off .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:42 PM
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OMG, same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:34 PM
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I love FDS because it is politics and religion free, and as a women who seen first hand what "following the shariia" looks and feels like I hate when people pretend that islam has nothing to do with rape culture, when in fact it was made to serve men´s interest first. When you tell a 5yo girl to cover her head and that showing her body is shamefull take all her agency and give it to men in all aspects of life (education,marriage, legal system work, home) and then pretend that islam is harmless i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:02 AM
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oh, let me correct that hihi Guys prefer it when... women put their dreams on hold to follow them around women act as maides, sex dolls, therapists and masterchefs all together and expect nothing ir women being not emotional women being emotional women support men and their progeny financially and still pretend that the men are the bread winner. etc etc OH, that´s disgusting Fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:45 PM
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FWB is a myth, Fuckbuddy is the right term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:08 PM
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Same here !, they used women to police and opress women and that was our downfall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:21 PM
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LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:53 AM
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Am sorry for all what you went through. You are brave and strong. That little girl is still in you, you just have to look for her a little bit and trust me you will find her, you might find her as a strong woman with standards and boundaries and self-esteem and not so small and naive anymore, but she is definitley there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:41 AM
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yes! , I was in a LDR with my HVM and had 12 hour difference and he would be annoyed if i stay up late to talk to him because of how bad it effects my sleeping pattern, so he makes sure to wake up super super early ( 4-5 am) to talk to me before he starts his day just so that I do not lose sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:25 AM
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DANGER! DANGER! All religions, moderate or radical or any other bs, especially if it has a male on the front (jesus, muhammed, budha etc) are anti-women. They are instruments to controle women and enslave them in all kind of ways, and a male who does not recognize this is not your ally. Men like religion so much because it surves them and their interests FIRST and gives them all kinds of privilege. Think very carefully about your religion and pose some critical questions and see how religion are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:42 PM
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lol, they have so much free time on their hands ( propably because women are handeling their shit for them) that they can lurk EVERYWHERE. I made a comment the other day about how my ex made 10 hour train rides to visit me and a scrot messeged me to tell me how I must be a cunt for MAKING a man do that LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:56 PM
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also women demands are very reasonable: "he must be tall, educated, 6 pack abs, be strong" we want good genetics to pass to our children. "earn" we want our children to have financial stability "make me laugh" we want someone who would not make us kill ourselves out of boredom or depression "take me on trips" we want to have some adventure and not spend our lives on a couche ​ whereas mens demands are very selfish and disgusting and revolves all around their dicks: "sexy" aka my dick likes her "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:51 PM
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the only reason a womans "value" would go down with age is because of the presence of an LVM in her life who ( with the help of his progny) are sucking the life and joy out of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:29 PM
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Men: WoMeN aRe sO dRaMaTiC ! Also Men:..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:03 PM
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I love how in Germany when you are about to pay, they ask you if you want to pay "zusammen" as in together or "getrennt" seperate, as in each person pays for what he/she/they ordered and there is no going 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:05 PM
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The best way to know if he is serious or not is to start the detaching process and prepare to dump him down the drain. The best way to do that is to start talking to other people and not put your eggs in one basket. I f he is serious then he would pick up on the cold shoulder and react, but if he is not then he would not react. In the mean time these are some tips that helped me immensely : DONOT ever ever send long text or double text DONOT respond to every text especially low effort ones like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:16 PM
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I grew up with the same background and let me tell, it is not going to be easy. I think her utmost fear is you trying to "buy" her and for a hardworking honest woman that is a big no no. I think the best thing to do is to make her feel like you owe her in someway too, that she is contributing to the relationship and is equally making you happy and that her effort is appreciated. Ask her for help doing smt and let the gift be a reward, make her feel that she deserved it and that she is worth it a…
/r/askFDS22/06/20 10:20 PM
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Thank you fot including information and signs that a woman can see and detect without extensive monitoring and exhausting constant surveillance. Am going to put this here as a reminder: Women are not responsible for monitoring and changing male behaviour. So if you feel you are getting paranoid , dump the trash because your time is better invested elswhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:59 PM
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The rules say you should never put effort into seeing a man than he does and that it should be a measure to how he will treat you IRL. my EX used to take a 10 hour train ride (back and forth) to see me each weekend ( we lived in Europ) even tho he hated trains and had motion sickness and I still broke up with him for not showing enough investement in the RLS. so no excuses. You are a HVW nonetheless because he could have been trying to manipulate you somehow with the ("she will run after me if i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:49 PM
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well, it´s actually he who suggested we ( actually I was the one watching porn since he stopped some time ago) go pornfree so I think if he wanted to watch it then he would not have even suggest it and be like a typical scrot with how porn is natural and men cannot live without porn etc etc. He is a very bad liar and very much into self-disciplin and how a man is as good as his words and promises are. but as a rule of thumb I never fully 100% trust a male until I see with my own eyes. I am a ver…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 03:58 PM
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Like this!. Hi! am Latifa, nice to meet you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:37 AM
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I applaud you and I love how you showed him his place, but you might want to consider upgrading your friends or introduce them to FDS, because Pickmishas are very contagous and fatal than Covid 19.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:35 AM
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made me throw up in my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:43 PM
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I broke up with a LVM because we went shopping to zara one time and I spent an hour helping him find a decent vegan belt and choosing an outfit, but when it came to me choosing he would not give any input and when I went to the change cabin he left the store. All the affection and attraction I had for him melted right then and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:50 PM
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But I stay on this sub to keep me in check when I forget to put myself first. waw, I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 02:30 AM
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I feel you sis. With parents like that it is very difficult to set bounderies and they think because they gave birth to you, they OWN you and then congratulate each other on rasing a slave. To be honest the only way is to either pretend to be sick and tired and stressed all the time or move out somehow. My cousin who is a girl with 5 brothers did this and sais it´s the only way, because talking to her parents was like talking to a stone or a wall and sometimes they would even attack her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:42 PM
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"My humour is dark " aka "I say racist and offensive shit and pretend that it is a joke"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:18 PM
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Exactly! complacency is a human nature but it does not mean we should accept it or encourage it, and that is what I meant with slipping in LVM ways and that is why I need FDS even after finding an HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:12 PM
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Awww, this is so nice! I wish you all happiness and prosperity <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:09 PM
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I totally agree with you and I hate how we women make it somehow our resposibilty for everything and every time, but I did not know how to express it exactly. I feel like how we behave does for sure influence how men treat us or behave around us. for example, setting bounderies, knowing how to communicate our standards, recognising and not settling for mediocre or low effort etc etc... It is in fact more about keeping myself in check as a recovering pickmisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:57 PM
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yes! I found my HLM when I did a Dating app detox and actually startd enjoying being single and on my own while putting more effort in my social life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:49 AM
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The US should keep it`s dick in it`s pants, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:13 PM
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The fucked up thing is, from all the comments telling her to runnnnnnn!, she chose this one comment where the dude tells her she should not run and should talk to him about it because he understands the fantasy part of it and that he ( the futurapist) is doing what he is doing because "he gets stimulated by other men’s desire for you and his ownership of you. It’s very common but most men don’t take it as far as he does." and her reply is " Thank you for not just telling me to run away immediate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:19 PM
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Being sweet and nice and having an unbothered unimpressed attitude are not mutual exclusive. But first you have to define what being really sweet means to you ? how exactly?, do you find it hard to tell them your real opinion about things? do you pretend to like something even tho you did not ? etc etc If being sweet is your nature then, it is fine but if you feel that you have to be, then keep in minde that you owe them nothing and they have to deserve it first !. I used to have that problem an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:45 PM
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I think they do that because they desperately need to believe in an afterlife where they will be rewarded for their cowardice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:57 AM
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They feel like as long as they let you know their intentions, they're free to act however they want. this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:47 AM
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I think the best technique is to keep dating or texting multiple people at the same time until he or you decide that you want to take this more seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:29 AM
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this is great, and it means the techniques are working. Imagine if you did as usual and you got deeply invested for months or even years with someone who could not give you what you needed!.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:26 AM
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