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One complexity of all this is that the majority of young women would like children and an involved father and children are time consuming and expensive. Or at the least most young women finding themselves expecting will want to make a serious try at parenting. Men who dont want to take on such things should be celibate, date men or date women past child bearing age. Being financially stable / successful gets conflated with red pill stuff in a way that is usually not thought through in the honest…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/25 02:27 AM
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They are picking up your bad vibes. Get a sugar baby to practice being a good boyfriend and feel less frustrated. Think of it as sex therapy and social skills trainer. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill10/08/25 08:09 AM
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I personally think it's like alcohol. Occasionally is fine, but not if interfering with the rest of your life
/r/ExRedPill22/07/25 02:59 PM
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Good for you for getting out already and not wasting anymore time on him. Good luck! There are.good ones out there!.and being single or with a woman instead are also perfectly fine choices if the right.man doesn't show up. Don't let society tell you any different.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/25 02:50 PM
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Dog parks are chill and nice like that
/r/ExRedPill16/05/25 03:13 AM
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Right? Yes bang maid = no. Like why? A wine netflix and cats life is preferable.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 02:17 AM
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A tricky thing is there are some guys who say they want love but what they really want is their mommy and women do not find it sexy t9 be forced into a mommy role. Some amount of caretaking is fine but the guy needs to fundamentally give off the vibe of being a functional adult. If not being willing to date a guy who doesn't act like a functional adult is opportunistic then I guess ya most women date opportunistically
/r/ExRedPill01/05/25 10:31 PM
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Young women are also nervous and indecisive. It'll get easier w age. And the learning difference is tricky it takes practice. Quietly people watching will help at like a bar or concert. Via peripheral vision tho so it doesn't come off creepy. If you can get work in a bar or restaurant or club it's a great opportunity to learn via people watching. In caveman times with people around all the time we had more.chances to learn this
/r/ExRedPill01/05/25 10:07 PM
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There are very subtle signs of "she is being polite","she considers you a friend","she is interested in you romantically". Some people can suss out the difference well, some not. It gets easier with practice. You can always suggest but be gracious and polite regardless of the answer. If a woman is not attracted to you she is not attracted to you. Practice being polite and.friendly with everyone so that when it comes time to do this with a woman you are interested in, you will be better at it. Pl…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 10:14 AM
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Chelsea fagan is really interesting. Cbc has interesting podcasts. Welcome to nightvale is cool. In terms of non red pill men I am not sure about that. I'm sure there are.some?
/r/ExRedPill23/01/25 02:08 AM
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Also.internalized.misogyny. such women most certainly have men in their life who think the same way and they don't want to go against their opinions.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/24 01:42 AM
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Yes also this. Just be friendly and know that sometimes things click and sometimes they don't and that's OK and normal and happens to everybody.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/24 01:38 AM
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At first do this mental discipline where you pretend you are making pleasant small talk with your grandma. This will reduce weird vibes. Be careful not to stand to close and occasionally look at their face and way while talking (not below the neck, away). Smile and laugh. If they make eye contact BSc and smile and laugh that's a good sign. If it goes on for a bit then when you leave ask of they want to go for coffee next week sometime. If they are not saying much and not making eye contact they …
/r/ExRedPill08/11/24 01:37 AM
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Eek yes also have that problem. Sigh.deserves significant study I think
/r/ExRedPill15/10/24 04:04 PM
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I have observed red pill men in my life and the ones I know have red pill fathers.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/24 05:12 PM
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Plus lots of.good adventurous sex with 1 person you really click with is better than a bunch of rushed hectic experiences with someone you don't really know
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 01:37 AM
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You are 18 tho. You got lots of time for that. Like decades. And it's an awkward age cause younger girls might be interested but they are too young and older women might be interested but not sure if you are too young. Once you get older it will be better. Just focus on hobbies, friends, grades and your future..the girls thing will fall into place. Find a hobby that is a co Ed group activity. Like a karate club or similar.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 01:36 AM
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In what settings do you interact with other people? Maybe you need to be in different settings? I would say focus on therapy etc and see if you can get yourself to the point of living on your own and financially self sufficient. Unlikely that women will be interested before that happens. At very least because they would be uncomfortable coming over and hooking up at your moms house. Leaving aside if they want kids, which are expensive.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/24 03:48 PM
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But accepting that collaborating to survive with 8 billion other people requires a medium of exchange (money) doesn't necessarily mean accepting the other crap such as politicians bought by lobbyists, right to work laws, unethical lending practices, tax breaks for landlords when we have a housing affordability crisis, bonuses and no criminal charges for the bankers after the 2009 bank bailouts (we should egg those peoples houses and pour fish guts in their air conditioners my opinion) etc. We sh…
/r/ExRedPill24/09/24 01:37 PM
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Yes this. I'm sorry this ishappening to you. I experienced a version of this. It's hard I know
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 12:22 PM
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Find a new therapist there really are good ones. He on the other hand sounds terrible
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 07:16 AM
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Um I'm a socialist in the closet as I'm not sure how employers and clients would feel so irl I change the subject but online I drone on and on about how we need to focus on worker solidarity instead of this other stuff
/r/ExRedPill20/09/24 03:20 AM
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Yes redpill and anti capitalist are 2 different things. Reptilian overlord is a pointless notion pulledfrom Sci fi. I have met captains of industry and they range from being willfully blind to the harms they cause, wishing they could effect systemic change but feeling trapped etc. Imo your best use of your efforts is to vote for union friendly governments and support efforts for people.to.unionize their places of work. Imo so so many things are actually efforts to distract us from these goals: r…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/24 02:05 PM
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I'm sure they like how you look too..women don't necessarily compliment looks cause they are sick of compliments about looks
/r/ExRedPill15/09/24 09:42 AM
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Don't stay with rp guys. Recipe for endless migraines and heartache.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/24 11:53 PM
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Yes! I have met a bunch of guys with these traits. Sigh. Poisonous pool of fish.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/24 06:42 PM
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Yes read or listen to podcasts instead of visual media with unrealistic looking people. Do sports or hike or something.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 06:56 PM
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Also done right sex can be super fun and great. But not worth forcing crap interactions imo. And there is more to life than sex. Like poster says lots of toxic competitiveness about this in guy friend groups sometimes. Tell your friends quality not quantity. Plus like there is the risk of pregnancy and stis so better to navigate such a risk with someone you like and respect. Imo
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 06:01 PM
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Find some interests and things to daydream about.so you aren't paying attention to your surroundings. Do hobbies and meet women there. Make friends with dudes too. Women like men with friend skills. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 09:36 AM
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What is your data source? Randomly looking around? Cause there's short term data when young and there's big picture dating across whole life and in that data there is a clear pattern. In general women over 25 or so are less likely to put up with nonsense from men. I cannot speak for low job areas tho because I don't spend much time in those places.so maybe it's different there.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 09:19 AM
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I feel like redpillers are not very observant of others, other than thru lens of jealousy. So they likely miss all the cues and insights you describe. And also imo red pill content creators are bad actors diverting people who would benefit more if they got involved in union movement. I think some of the red pill content creators know this and some of the creators are just pawns who don't realize that this is their role.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 02:46 PM
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I feel like back in the day it was worse. But now thanks to birth control and unionization of the workforce, North American jobs (most of them) suck less, we are less likely to be destitute and we can control family size. Therefore it is more achievable to have a family life where everyone has some moments of enjoyment. Vs olden times where say you started having a baby every year from age 13 to age 43 and then died somewhere in there and the men all got black lung in a coal mine or got squished…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 02:44 PM
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I personally think it's kinda true but like we are not hamsters, we are smart enough to override our instincts when it makes sense to do so. But for women to prefer sex with healthy financially stable men is a rational choice in case they make babies, she will need help from someone healthy and financially stable.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 02:00 PM
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100% and like blaming someone else is easier than saying "I need to participate in vast systemic change"
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 02:00 AM
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Yes totally. A.complete scam. Such people rather than getting sucked into stupid red.pill ideology would.make better use of their time.and energy getting into labour organizing. It is trendy vilify unions and socialism but both have brought the non rich a lot, such as medical care, death benefits, pensions,.life insurance, weekends, worker safety rules, etc
/r/ExRedPill20/08/24 06:09 AM
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I don't agree with certain things these creators say but they are still inter3sting. And they discuss the issues in good faith vs rage bait.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 05:06 PM
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There is also some great podcasts about ghost hunters and stuff. I try to vote and donate to a couple things that are important to me but if politics isn't your job you probably only need to spend 5 minutes per week scanning news articles to be caught up enough on politics and much better for mental health
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 11:20 AM
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I have avariety of great content i enjoy: Ted talks, this american life, planet money, philosophy tube, contrapoints, anything on npr or cbc websites there's a huge range, between 2 ferns, the financial diet (will also link you to other good-faith creators, that is trying to analyze issues of the day in good faith vs rage bait), dolly partons America, my 2 cents, anything Ryan Reynolds makes lolol, standup comedian streams, stuff from olympics especially snoop. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 11:18 AM
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Ted talks, this american life, planet money, philosophy tube, contrapoints, anything on npr or cbc websites there's a huge range, between 2 ferns, the financial diet (will also link you to other good-faith creators, that is trying to analyze issues of the day in good faith vs rage bait), dolly partons America, my 2 cents, anything Ryan Reynolds makes lolol, standup comedian streams. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 11:16 AM
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I definitely was referring to guys who are 3s but only want to hit on 7+. I see it a lot. I am not sure about the other way around as I don't pay attention..but definitely lots of delusional men overestimating what they have to offer.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/24 09:54 PM
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But those guys have really good personalities and goals and stuff. Not grouchy hermits on reddit. They are out and about having a life.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/24 09:52 PM
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I at high level don't agree with rating people etc but in the harsh shallow world of dating I totally agree with what you are saying. I have observed many many occasions where people who are 3s only try for 7+ and get shot down. I have no sympathy for these delusional people.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 11:26 PM
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That feeling is super common and the fault.of capitalism making us always feel like not enough and we deserve to be exploited. Remind yourself what you have achieved and work on positive self talk. Don't say things to yourself that you wouldn't say to your best friend. Know that everybody struggles sometimes not just you and they put on a fake smiley front. Maybe therapy or a zoom support.group.might help? Good luck
/r/ExRedPill09/08/24 06:37 PM
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List the other things you do because just going to a city where women are is absolutely not enough
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 07:41 AM
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But that is not just physical it can be also based on personality. Good grooming and non creeper vines are critical though.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 03:44 PM
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Body count does not necessarily equal a good experience. Some people have low body counts but really click well with someone and have a good time together. I friends with high body counts where the experiences were not very good. Low body count with good partners and good experiences is better.The body count thing is just stupid. I feel like it was invented by soldiers as a less depressing alternative to kill counts.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 03:36 PM
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I think though it is more vibes and technique which can be learned. Especially like being non judgemental and nice and relaxed and open minded. And thoughtful and willing to listen to feedback and receive feedback. Guys who get mad and/or don't listen to feedback are the worst. And girls too I assume although i can't speak from experience on that.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 03:32 PM
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Practice general friend conversations with all types of people, including girls you'd be interested in dating. Sometimes things might click with one of those girls and sometimes not. Keep your expectations relaxed and low. If your objective is "flirt with girls so I can bang them" your vibe is gonna be creepy and scare girls away so work on mental discipline to.compartmentalize and disconnect from that mindset. Like the joke in t"there's smthg about Mary", maybe Masterbate before you go.out so y…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/24 04:53 PM
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10000% to all this. Guys need to understand better women like sex but there is more risks and downsides for women. So it's necessary to be understanding and patient about that.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 10:58 PM
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Lolol he sounds kinda young and high energy. Also his advice is right. Also I love that mushrooms told him all these common sense things. I wish op the best of luck. Much better insights than the pickup artist trash. May everyone out there find someone they really like and have great sex with them. Cheers yall.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 09:04 PM
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This is so great especially re women are people just like us, and Andrew tate and those guys are grifters. I am glad someone is out there saying it. Speaking from experience, women get lonely and insecure too,wishing you all the best of luck figuring out your things. Everyone struggles and hides it sometimes not just you.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/24 05:18 PM
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And the process is long and expensive
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 02:29 AM
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Move. And don't date anyone who votes republican.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 02:27 AM
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Everyone feels nervous and insecure don't feel bad, it's not just you. Find someone where you get good vibes that they won't mind if things are little awkward etc. Once you practice then it gets good and the practicing is fine too. But the other posters tips were really good. Pace yourself, go slow, pay attention to her body language, if she moves toward you that's good, if she moves away you are maybe being a bit too rough..porn is not a great educator as what looks good on camera is not always…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 06:35 PM
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Anxiety support group or similar as well..or hiking group or.smthg. good luck!
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 06:15 AM
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Go to therapy get away from your screen go outside get some exercise and vitamin d. Disengage from social mediastuff. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 05:46 AM
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Here is my experience. I would never harass or say anything of a violent nature but I am more blunt online about my political views and challenging people whose views I disagree with than I would be in real life. The reason is that I hope to minimize toxicity in society and for.people to make the type of voting and purchasing choices that align with my values / that I think we all need to make to keep society from falling apart. But I don't want to be pushy in real life. Online people can ignore…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/24 03:20 PM
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Hmm.. it's hard to say. I still haven't mastered hitting that right balance of somehow only being friends with people whose opinions and interests exactly match mine or being a hermit cause I couldn't find such people. I have a few different groups now and accept their quirks and ways that I am different than them. I'm not sure of the right answer there. It.might be that when you act disinterested then it gives off a vibe? Go.out and about with someone you trustamd ask for a vibe check. We don't…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 04:30 PM
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Yes exactly. Plus like the guys that Michael.jackson dumped or people who don't want their puppy once it grows up, valuing your partner just for youngness will lead to heartbreak once they age out. To me that is the real tragedy of pedophiles, ickiness.or.physical injury aside. Young people are interested in sex but getting discarded at such a young age after being seduced would be so heartbreaking and.mess up their relationship skills permanently.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 03:16 PM
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No! Find better role.models! They are out there
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 12:30 PM
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Dude its OK to.be socially awkward, it's very common in these covidy times. You can fix by leaving your computer and going out and interacting with people in a friendly way. Think about being friendly and making friends and not about having a girlfriend specifically. Then you will.gain the social skills and meet people and meet a girlfriend that way. Being inside consuming content that tells you you are beta or degenerate for being socially awkward is the last thing that will help you build soci…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 12:21 PM
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A good way to treat depression is to turn off your screen and go.outside. exercise fresh air and.making.pleasant small talk face.to face is good for your mental health.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/24 11:05 PM
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It took me a few weeks to clean up my feed but it was worth it..I have a great feed now. All craft videos and cartoons and stuff.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 08:08 PM
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Yes oh my goodness they really do! As a woman it is so unbelievably disappointing and annoying. I.make an effort and I want my partner to make an effort too.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 07:51 AM
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You have to remember too that the algorithms promote the most toxic stuff because people get riled up and.click on it. Millions and billions of straight people get married every year so obvi lots of people out there don't believe men are trash..just remind yourself that all popular media is on some.level bullshit designed to sell advertising and also that jerks can be of all genders races, etc and to just try not to be one of them..good luck!
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 07:45 AM
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And be careful you aren't giving off desperate vibes and spook em. Good luck! Keep trying the right one will turn up
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 02:01 PM
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We don't have enough info. You know there's that thing where a woman goes on practice dates and gives tips? Do you have that where you live? Is your financial or personal situation flaky in any type of way? Maybe they are getting scared off? Also how long do you wait to follow up? Imo 10 to 20 hours is perfect. Less than 10 comes across too strong and more.than 20 or 30 hrs.makes you possibly seem like a player. How's your small talk skills in general? There's books. I'm not good at it so I foun…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 02:00 PM
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You are 19. That is very young in the big picture. I think you are straight guy maybe? 19 for guys is a tricky age because lots of girls prob find you cute that can't legally date you and.lots of older women are shy about the stigma of hitting on younger guys. It will get better as you get older. Growing up is hard for everybody. Just work on your friendship skills and let go.of.attachment to the outcome. Partly for your mental health and partly so you don't give off desperate vibes that hamper …
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 10:24 AM
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Fitness is good but maybe work in cultivating some interests that you like and might share with a partner. Maybe go to a kind sex worker if you can afford it and it is not too legally risky where you live? Or swinger events to meet people in a fun relaxed low pressure atmosphere? Read the threads to understand what to do or not do and what partners are looking for. There is no shame on being involuntarily celibate. It happens sometimes. Try not to be so hard on yourself. Live you life and try no…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 04:00 PM
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Agreed I am constantly planning for kids re socializing in hopes to build these habits in them and avoid this problem.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/24 07:20 PM
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Holy shit life is too short.do not do any of this. Dump this guy and run. You are not his mommy. Do not pander to his toxic bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 01:26 AM
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It is not her job to reprogram this guy though. He won't reprogram unless he wants to.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 01:24 AM
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But also once upon a time women couldn't really earn their own money and now we can so we might want a male companion but we don't need one. So we can't be bossed around like we could when we didnt have our own money. So men who are jerks once could get away with it and now they can't.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 01:22 AM
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Also watch for girls you like the personality of, no different than your guy friends.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/24 03:43 PM
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Find a setting where you will be friendly with both men and women like a house league sport? Watch some female stand up comedians or talk shows if you are not comfortable with small talk with women. It sounds like you should be able to find women who want to date you. Are you going for only 10s tho?.some guys make that mistake. Good luck! It's hard for girls too, not just guys, transitioning into the adult world and building your confidence. What you are feeling is normal..it will get easier wit…
/r/ExRedPill10/04/24 03:42 PM
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Plus 8 billion people is far too many. The less kids we are having the better.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 03:48 PM
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People kinda do..like rave fams or.like the hippie rainbow family people, or.lots.of my gay friends built themselves a replacement family due to.being rejected for their sexuality...or cults..although I am definitely not recommending that approach. People build themselves alternate families all the time. Especially if there is chaos in their biological family.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/23 04:15 AM
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I'm sorry your family is terrible. I wish you the best in finding a replacement family/ community. It is not right for them to do that.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 08:28 AM
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Life can be stressful generally that's normal altho unfortunate..try not to misdirect your frustration into red pill stuff tho. Women struggle to navigate modern life too, it's not just men. Wishing you the best of luck. Be patient with yourself. I joined a zoom anxiety support group. It helped alot having a group of non judgmental strangers from all walks of.life to stress out with
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 06:55 AM
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Lol it's true they are.mad loud..mYbe hiking? Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill23/11/23 07:21 PM
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Maybe if you are really horny but can afford find a nice sex worker.to go to to burn off stress and get her to give you advice.on what women like? But I guess that is controversial advice. But I personally don't see what's wrong with it as long as you use Condoms, are not rough or mean, and can afford it. OK good luck!
/r/ExRedPill23/11/23 05:52 PM
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Imo the problem is.capitalism not women. Like recasting sex as a transaction and a competition that you win. And the media entertainment industrial complex cashing in on making us feel like we need to look like magazine people (who are in any case faked with makeup and lighting and insane diet and.workout habits etc) Just try to make friends of both genders and find some hobbies that you enjoy maybe something active to burn off energy and stress. You are young and just finding your way. Don't be…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/23 05:44 PM
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If you are over 30-35 then maybe concerts or festivals you might.meet people? But a random pub might just be friend groups. In that case try like house league sports or a hiking group or biking group or board games or trivia or karaoke etc. Or.volunteerin maybe? Good luck! Music festivals are a fun place to encounter people of all ages.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/23 05:30 PM
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And.for dudes it's way more.important to be pleasant and charming and thoughtful and have a sensible approach to.money. not necessarily rich but not a broke unemployed gamer either
/r/ExRedPill15/11/23 05:50 PM
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Even get like a service industry side job to pick up some extra cash, practice talking to people and keep you from being lonely and stressed.at.home. good luck!
/r/ExRedPill15/11/23 05:48 PM
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You are pretty young still so it will get better. Then the women interested in you will be less likely to be underage. Try to stabilize your economic situation and be super.clear if you want kids or not or if much much later(they are so expensive!) Don't let media trick you that being young is super awesome. Life gets way easier once you figure yourself out and master some job and social skills more. You'll get there! Try to find some fun relaxing low pressure hobbies and maybe you might even me…
/r/ExRedPill15/11/23 05:46 PM
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Yes word choice. Body language. Facial expression. It's tricky. We used to live in a more interactive society and practiced these things more. Good luck!. Try not to be too hard on yourself. Growing up and finding your place can be hard. Figuring out dating and social interactions can be hard. Find some relaxing no pressure hobbies and try not to fixate. Do you like music.events? Go with platonic friends just to practice your social skills and relax and.you.might possibly meet someone that way
/r/ExRedPill15/11/23 05:28 PM
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Find hobbies you enjoy unrelated to picking up women. Hang out with friends who are in relationships and quietly observe how they act together. Keep your place clean, keep yourself well groomed keep your financial situation in sensible shape. Both to be a more appealing partner and for the good of your own mental health. Look for those same things in a partner. Don't be too hard on yourself..media can umply that everyone except you is out there having some fancy kickass life but actually everyon…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/23 01:58 AM
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Yes you can't put the results of women's work in a savings account. Or at least not in our current economic.model. but once upon a time the guys building the pyramids weren't paid and that changed so we should push for an economic model where caregiver work is paid too. Like through family law and tax structure and other things.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 11:00 AM
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Definitely not saying that. But it is harder if big or disabled. I don't think anyone would dispute this. And honestly as a semi conventionally attractive woman I can Def always find someone to hook up with me. If I have no filter.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 10:51 AM
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Just tell her you are really sorry and you love her. She's your mom she is pretty biased to forgive you..I worry every day my son and I will go through this when he is older. Goddamn red pill shit..I have no doubt they will get their hooks into him eventually.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 04:18 PM
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Get your drugs tested though to make sure you don't o.d. on fentanyl. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 04:08 PM
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You should go to a rave and do some ecstasy..life is too short man..everyone is just muddling along. Find some hobbies that you love or go to some comedy shows. Maybe ask for an ssri prescription. Wishing you all the best.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 04:07 PM
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Don't feel bad! Early 20s is confusing time for everyone..its gonna be OK.. unfortunately youtube is kinda poisonous and stupid sometimes. They not to let it get to you. Um...in terms of where to get actual good advice. Look up sue Johansen this old nurse lady. I'm sure there are some dudes with good advice but I'm not sure who they are. Weirdly for me once I had real problems in.life dating got easier cause I didn't care as much
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 11:25 PM
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Because dehumanizing other people can lead to violence and in the red pill community we know that it has. Plus generally it is such a competitive and adversarial way to look at human relationships both with the desired mates and with the competition. Humans got to the top of the food chain thru teamwork not this crap. Plus there is more to life than sex and a more patient and tolerant attitude to sex and potential partners will lead to better outcomes.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 11:19 PM
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I would say generally it is easier for women but only conventionally attractive women..older women or heavier or disabled women have a hard time..and some sex is absolutely trash and being at home.watching netflix would be better. Men who are not sure if their technique is good should read the sex scenes in Jean m auel books and playact that guy's technique. Not 100% but generally pretty reliable and way more.so than the ridiculous content in most porno movies
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 11:10 PM
1

Whether it is sex or other stuff try to avoid comparing yourself to others, we are all on our own journey and quantity doesn't equal quality especially for women. It's better to be with one partner who makes an effort to learn what you like then 20 lazy guys who are too rough and don't listen and just want to playact a porn they saw.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 11:06 PM
2

Mmm. "Do you want to go for coffee? Heres my number call me if you change your mind"...don't play games, tell them no games and ghost them if they don't listen. You'll find your people eventually
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 10:17 AM
1

Just find better threads. Like some niche hobbies. Dont be afraid to be a geek. A lot of geeks are really nice and a geek hobby can be a lovely escape from stressful reality. Teen and early 20 years can be hard cause you are figuring yourself out. It will get better. Ignore bullshit TV shows that try to suggest high school and teen years are the best ever cause that is crap. My life got so much better once I controlled my own time and money and comings and goings..my job is a little boring but i…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 10:01 AM
3

Just support red pill exit as much as possible. Support media works that fight red pill philosophy. And some young guys have such a knowledge vacuum about women and girls. There is resources out there to help them understand better but they are choosing the wrong mentor like Andrew tare or Joe Rogan because there is a vaccuum
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 09:43 AM
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Wishing you all the best of luck. Growing up.kinda isolated in our media centric culture is hard for girls too. There is a whole business model to keep people insecure and trying to buy the magical products that will fix them...gym.membership, education,car,makeup,deodorant,fancy vacations,whatever. Try to find some hobbies you enjoy, connect with people and not get sucked into b.s. it gets easier as you get older. Practice being friendly and pleasant to everyone so that when you meet someone yo…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 10:05 AM
5

I think increasingly men do look for resources but they are socialized that it is not macho to admit it. But I think both men and women prefer a partner who is financially stable, has a stable career, makes financial choices that are in line with what they can afford. It's true that historically women were very disadvantaged but nowadays we are lucky to have more options. Especially if you are good at math, have good teeth, are conventionally attractive. There is a shortage of accountants in u.s…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 09:18 AM
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I mean resources and good looks are nice. But being a kind person with compatible interests is quite important. But also there's resources as in...isn't a lazy scammer...has a job and manages his money....doesn't necessarily mean "is a ceo"...but realistically a lot of young straight women would like to have kids and kids are very expensive. I personally try to only expect from my partner money wise what I expect from myself. But that is a certain amount of money. And re looks there is taking ca…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 09:13 AM
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Yes it's tricky cause while women like men to talk about their feelings we don't like whininess and neediness. Keep.in mind women have been bleeding out their hoohas since they were 12 and worrying about getting pregnant and being raped so our tolerance for bullshit whining is low. So rank you problem against bleeding out of your body regularly and chronic safety issues and vent accordingly.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 09:10 AM
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I am not sure I would choose a male life partner again because of this toxic red pill stuff. I enjoy men who are nice to me but I don't want to live with someone who disrespect me and leaves messes around for me to clean and is verbally abusive when they don't instantly get their own way or refuse to negotiate or communicate or compromise some of the time.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 07:27 AM
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In your age range both young men and young women are just stumbling in the dark. She fucked up because she has her own baggage. It's nothing to do with you being not enough. Start from a place of trust but keep an eye out in case a partner is lacking the stability etc to be in arelationship. Not.to sat she shouldn't spend time with friends but if she isn't.ipen with you about what she is doing or doesn't invite you.or likes scams you for money, those are red flags. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 04:15 PM
1

Yes my son is 9 and he is obsessed with 6packs. I'm like no.stop this is stupid don't do this to yourself.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 04:12 PM
1

Eye roll. It's a supply and demand thing. Girls like sex but are cautious about it cause of social shame, risk or pregnancy and stis, fear of disappointing family or alienating friends, fear that someday their children will judge them....but also lots of women aren't as conventionally attractive as a cartoon fantasy girl or heavily photoshopped woman in a magazine and some guys (not all but some) find those women to be invisible. Re the matrix that is definitely not at all what the original matr…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 10:48 AM
2

It happens sometimes. You'll see. It can still go sideways cause we are human but it happens. It is a risk
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 10:44 AM
2

It depends what you mean. If it's like hormones plus soul mate that's nice but over time things like shared goals respect fairness thoughtfulness are also important. Plus the honeymoon endorphin high is temporary but ideally replaced by oxytocin high of feeling comfortable with the person, feeling that they get you matter to you etc
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 02:25 AM
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Work to match their energy..respond to.messages atthe same speed they do, match effort and expense of gifts or gestures with what they are doing..not nickel and diming every little thing but watch for patterns. Some people do play games but just work to find the ones who don't.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 02:22 AM
2

The red pill moves the Overton window /zeitgeist in a bad direction and risk radicalizing frustrated men who could channel that energy more productively for example into being labour organizers..the real problem isn't women it's capitalism
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 08:48 PM
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Also we should all be saving our energy to fight against exploitative bosses, politicians re wage theft. Bad housing policy. Bad environmental protections. Privatizing basic needs like water, utilities, food distribution and production. Not bickering w domestic partners.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 01:56 PM
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And given how the stats are women are most at risk of violence from their male partner ya the fear is if your man gets redpilled you and your kids are in danger the minute he doesn't get his own way about something
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 01:46 PM
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We don't want us or our kids being shot by lone incel gunman. We don't want our sons to grow up to be that guy. It's a sad way to live. We like to have men around. We just want to be treated like an equal whose opinions and wishes are just as important as the mans, not like a chores and sex robot whose job is to make the man's life nice.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 01:33 PM
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