Abject_Albatross_512 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Learning to communicate better?	RELATIONSHIPS	Abject_Albatross_512	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/22 03:19 AM

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2	Learning to communicate better? nods I've brought that up before - that we as a couple should tackle issues as a team, that it's us against the issue and not each other. I actually brought this up when we were in the early stages of our relationship to make sure we could have productive disagreements. I got home late yesterday after time with my family and he was in a great mood and ready to spend time together. I listened about his trip, their stories of the day, offered sympathy about his soreness. He asked about my day and …	/r/RedPillWomen	11/02/22 02:47 PM
2	Learning to communicate better? I definitely have things that energize me outside of the relationship. I have a couple best friends since childhood who I see once a month or so and a friend I have regular zoom yoga dates with, plus a strong relationship with my mom and sister. I'm in a professional development course on Saturdays. And I also go for regular massages, Mani Pedis, and spa days. I have PCOS, so my cortisol levels are a bit higher than people who don't have PCOS. I also am used to quiet spaces, and he's a high volu…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/22 03:32 PM
1	Learning to communicate better? Thank you, this is really helpful information. I did talk to him about the ski trip last night and that I was sad I couldn't join. I shared that I was confused about it because I had a Valentine's couples ski trip calendared based on a conversation all four of us had. He says I wasn't listening to his boss and that Mondays are their busiest days. He could be right but I can't remember because we were all stoned and their kids were screaming through the whole thing - I was definitely overstimulat…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/22 02:10 PM
2	Learning to communicate better? I really appreciate the concern. It's happened before and he's literally framed it as me being in trouble. I know that like, I'm totally programmed by my education and thought that maybe this is about having to figure out how to be with a traditional man. But I hear you and needed to hear that.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/22 01:56 PM
2	Learning to communicate better? This is probably the third or fourth time it's happened. I started feeling like our fights/arguments turning into a power play so I started tracking some of the difficult days and it happens every couple of months. It's consistently been in response to when he's felt disrespected.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/22 01:49 PM
5	Learning to communicate better? Thank you for the concrete suggestion.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/22 04:57 AM
2	Learning to communicate better? He says that he gives me the silent treatment because otherwise he'd blow up at me and doesn't want it to go there. We talked a bit after I joined this group a couple hours ago and I shared a bit about what I've observed/learned and he's opening up a bit more.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/22 04:46 AM
3	Learning to communicate better? I think all of this is possible. My parents had a codependent relationship until they got divorced and I had the same pattern for a large part of my last relationship, so yes, I do suspect that it's lingering. I started going to the gym while he games and stopped arranging my schedule around his so I don't continue to expect time with him when he's home. I was upset about the ski trip because we all talked about going on Monday and they decided to go without me, anyway. I thought it was an oppor…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/22 04:43 AM