Abject_Radio4179 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Turns out the "female gaze" is not that different from what redpill claims women want You missed the point. It is men who love being sexually objectified.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/25 06:46 PM
-3	Women hold onto the concept of male privilege because they are deeply attached to feeling lesser than men. I don’t agree with this take. Men in the Western world have less freedom than women. It is men only who get drafted and sent to die on the battlefield. If they dare complain about it, they get little to no sympathy from women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 09:19 AM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. It’s all in her brain	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 06:31 AM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. They keep coming back, even though I never give them commitment. I must be doing something right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 06:54 PM
-2	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Probably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 09:56 AM
-3	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. I’ve never been with a woman who couldn’t orgasm from piv sex. Maybe you have the female version of the death grip?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 05:41 AM
2	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. I’d add that there’s also an orgasm obsession. As a man I find it perfectly satisfactory to have sex without orgasm. It seems to me that some people are not enjoying sex because they are not genuinely attracted to the other person and therefore place all the burden on the orgasm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 05:35 AM
3	Unwanted men are criticized whenever they try to passively drop out of the dating market This is the same reaction loser women and men have about success stories. It’s just human nature. People don’t like going down quietly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 09:57 PM
2	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience Your immediate first step should be to cut off those “friends “. I’ve never heard more entitled, sexist toxicity in my entire life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 12:35 PM
1	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? That was sarcasm on my part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 12:14 PM
1	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? Probably. But OPs question was about sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 09:18 PM
1	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? I insinuated no such thing. These are solely your projections. There are countries where sex work has been legalized for decades you know. And women in that industry are very well protected and work out of their own choice. A hypothetical solution could be explored in that direction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 09:17 PM
5	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? You will have to provide some proof for your claim, because it is admittedly quite incredulous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 05:44 PM
-3	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? Free coupons for the red district?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 05:05 PM
2	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? I call bullshit on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 05:04 PM
1	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? The same we do to alleviate poverty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 05:03 PM
-1	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? Yeah. We also need to abolish welfare programs. Why should high earners need to have their hard earned money taken away from them so that the less fortunate would have a better chance in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 05:01 PM
1	Guys, One Woman is Enough. Exactly. This is why men kept mistresses in addition to the wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 09:32 PM
–	Guys, One Woman is Enough. It’s our biological programming to sleep with as many women as possible. We must maximize our sexual fitness score.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 08:59 PM
0	Women, in order to avoid abusive males, shun the completely opposite demographic. Is this from personal experience?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 07:47 PM
1	Women, in order to avoid abusive males, shun the completely opposite demographic. Physically weak and easily dominated by experienced women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 07:43 PM
0	What makes a woman want to sleep with a man, regardless of intentions? You’re black pill then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 07:11 AM
-2	What makes a woman want to sleep with a man, regardless of intentions? You shouldn’t feel bad about it. You are merely following your biological programming, as are women who are looking for a committed partner. Neither is right or wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 07:03 AM
2	Women's standards are perfectly reasonable, their "type" however eliminates most guys before they even have a chance Even if it means acquiring fake hobbies? I have tons of hobbies, but none of them are something women enjoy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 10:04 AM
3	Women's standards are perfectly reasonable, their "type" however eliminates most guys before they even have a chance How do you find out how their exes look?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 10:00 AM
4	Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed It’s the same for men’s preferences. They will gladly pass over a home maker looking for commitment for a hot babe that’s good in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 09:56 AM
1	Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egos This is why most civilized societies instituted enforced monogamy. The sex deprived men formed gangs and killed off the more privileged men and raped their women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 07:02 AM
2	Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egos My method since childhood: whenever I see an inflated ego, I ridicule it. Works like a charm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 06:59 AM
2	Women, would you find it inappropriate for a man to cold approach you at a nice restaurant? One of my relationships started with cold approach in a restaurant during lunch time. Albeit, there were no mothers present 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 06:26 AM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Of course it’s the women’s fault. So many boys grow up these days in single mom households.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 06:09 AM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Pick up artists are some of the best role models out there. They liberate men like nobody before them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 06:05 AM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture It’s all the women’s fault. They ruined what used to be a beautiful society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 06:03 AM
1	Jordan Peterson's views on the sexual marketplace are self-contradictory That’s not how a Pareto distribution is defined.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 03:07 PM
1	More women than men watch violent, misogynistic porn. What's the reason? Video games are mental training for the real thing. It’s only a small step from there to a drone operator.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 11:35 AM
6	Prediction on the Effect of China's New Divorce Settlement Law My point was there is no legal redress for victims of domestic violence in China. Wife beating is institutionalized there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 09:13 AM
10	Prediction on the Effect of China's New Divorce Settlement Law China and law in the same sentence? Hahaha. Good luck getting a divorce in China as a woman if the husband refuses and has connections. Also, no such thing as domestic violence in China.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:54 AM
–	Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to. You are a lost cause. I pity any guy that has the misfortune of running into you. Goodbye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 03:43 PM
3	Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to. Care to cite some data on that? I’ve had multiple dates and relationships straight out of cold approach, so I couldn’t disagree more with your assessment. Again, you seem that have a wildly misconstrued idea of what cold approach is and equate it to stalking. Cold approach is the complement of warm approach. Warm approach is when the other person gives you an indication of interest first. Hope that helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 03:34 PM
3	Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to. That’s not my experience sorry. You also seem to have severe misconceptions how cold approach is actually done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 12:50 PM
4	Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to. Haha. You must never have done this then. Cold approach is phenomenal. In my experience, women respond overwhelmingly positively to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 12:33 PM
8	Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to. Some people don’t have opportunities to meet members of the opposite sex in a social circle or those opportunities are very limited. Daytime cold approach can massively multiply a person’s opportunities. It’s as simple as that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 12:22 PM
1	Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to. Can you name a few of those countries? I lived in several WE countries and cold approached women all the time and cannot at all relate to your perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 12:11 PM
–	"Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless. You are wrong in thinking that approaching gives an ego boost just to the approachee. It gives an ego boost to the approacher as well, if not more. I can tell you that from experience. It’s a huge thrill and fun regardless of outcome. A lot of the pleasure is to be found in the challenge and the interaction. It’s beautiful. It really is. PUA know what they are talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 10:22 AM
–	"Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless. How many women have you approached in the last year? I disagree with pretty much every single point you made. As a man, I find great pleasure in approaching women. Even when I get rejected, I feel empowered and energized from the interaction. Go out there and approach!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 08:52 AM
2	Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating. Reported for xenophobia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 08:40 AM
1	CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options. Amazing. Thanks for sharing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 08:32 AM
1	CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options. You were only ever attracted to one man in your life? I wonder if we are using the word “attracted” with the same meaning 🤔. For me, being attracted means to be willing to sleep with that person. However, that does not imply I want to have children and a relationship with them. Because I am looking for a relationship, the vast majority of my dates don’t lead to anything. Although I have to actively suppress my desire to escalate to physical intimacy even when I don’t see them as relationship mat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 08:19 AM
0	CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options. It’s kind of the same as a guy. Out of 10 women I am attracted to, only one I would consider as relationship material. And more often than not, a woman I consider as relationship material is the one I am not attracted to. We are doomed ☹️	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 07:17 AM
1	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life I can agree with that 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 06:19 PM
1	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life Manosphere is all about how to be a better man. Not how to emotionally manipulate women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 09:55 AM
1	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life About half the country’s population?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 07:44 AM
2	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life What’s wrong with dating coaches and red pill? Red pill isn’t exclusive to men. Dating coaches aren’t exclusive to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 10:25 PM
1	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life My point is that OP is using flawed logic. Just because some people in the manosphere promote manipulative tactics doesn’t imply that the manosphere as a whole is bad anymore than the fact that some people are psychopaths doesn’t imply that humanity is evil.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 10:24 PM
3	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life They shouldn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 10:22 PM
3	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life Then we must be watching different manosphere content 🤷‍♂️ Now that I think about it, when I was a kid, I would pick up some of my mom’s magazines and often there would be a piece on “How to make him fall in love with you”. Does that make women’s magazines toxic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 09:57 PM
1	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life Just because there may be overlap, doesn’t prove that manosphere is inherently bad. Manosphere is also guys telling each other to hit the gym and live a healthy lifestyle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 09:51 PM
3	'Manosphere' tactics don't work- They destroyed my relationship with the love of my life These are not manosphere tactics, these are manipulation tactics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 09:45 PM
-2	It's sad that women have been conditioned to be self serving and overly interested in men's money and resources. Looks like you just discovered Red Pill!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 08:40 AM
1	Am I not considered pure anymore? It seems like there is a conflict between your desire for physical intimacy and the idea that you should remain pure for that special person. There is no right or wrong here. Some people enjoy physical intimacy for its own sake, even if the other person would otherwise not be a great fit for a partner. Some can even maintain a long term relationship of this kind, otherwise known as friends with benefits without any feelings of guilt or regret. As you said it in your closing remarks, it seems you…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/02/25 06:48 PM
–	Am I not considered pure anymore? I don’t see anything wrong about any of the things you did. And judging from your description, he didn’t physically coerce you. Normally this should’ve been a pleasant experience for both of you. For some reason you have guilt associated with this act. But only you can answer why that’s the case. Best to talk about it with someone you trust. Until you understand your feelings better, best not to engage in this activity again.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/02/25 06:22 PM
–	Am I not considered pure anymore? Can’t really answer without more details. Can you describe step by step what you did?	/r/RedPillWomen	26/02/25 06:10 PM
2	Do attractive men make worse partners ? Why were you dating someone you found unattractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/25 07:27 PM
1	Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides. They must be living in a country where sex work is not legalized? Where I am at, getting sex is as simple as a couple hundred euros.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 10:40 AM
1	Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides. You’re being awfully dismissive towards the OP by implying he doesn’t bring any benefits to a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 10:36 AM
–	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job I didn’t see a single one that would detract from him being a great SAHD. The fact that he clearly puts primacy on time outside work is a big plus in my book, as it means he wouldn’t put his work before kids, like many absent fathers do. It strikes me as awfully prejudicial to disqualify him without evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 05:45 PM
–	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job I can only say that as a man I’ve dated young women who were even less motivated and lived off social security and no job. Last one was 34y old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 05:32 PM
1	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job Obviously he puts primacy in time outside work, which is great for the kids as he would have ample time to spend with them, instead of being an absent dad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 05:31 PM
–	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job You seem to be suffering from some pretty strong prejudices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 05:29 PM
–	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job It’s incredibly shallow on the GF part and your friend dodged a large caliber bullet right there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 05:20 PM
–	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job Who said anything about family? OP only said dating: could be casual as far as we know. But even if that’s the case, he would probably be a great SAHD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 05:18 PM
0	Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics It depends on whether or not you intend to have children. If not, then the best is to live apart together. Each keeps and lives in their respective home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 07:59 AM
0	What are your thoughts on vasectomies? Vasectomy or not, I would never have unprotected sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 06:43 PM
3	I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving lives I find it difficult to accept 2. and 3. It doesn’t match with my lived experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 09:24 PM
1	Many People On This Sub Think RedPill Is Wrong Simply Because You Can’t Apply Context It’s hardly surprising you would get hate when you negatively qualify an entire subgroup of people. At the same time, you don’t even strike me as someone who is red pill. A RP person would know that what women in that age group feel the biological clock ticking and would play it to their advantage. RP men and women are not against marriage and settling down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:00 PM
1	Telling men they're too emotionally weak to implement RP strategies is just going to motivate them to do it more I’ve spent a decent amount of time in Japan. The main difference I’ve noticed is portion size, not necessarily ingredients. This is coming from someone who grew up on a Mediterranean diet. The Japanese women I went on dinner dates with didn’t eat all that much, even after I encouraged them to eat more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 04:49 PM
1	Many People On This Sub Think RedPill Is Wrong Simply Because You Can’t Apply Context How does this relate to Red Pill exactly? It’s just as well applicable to Blue Pill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 04:45 PM
2	Telling men they're too emotionally weak to implement RP strategies is just going to motivate them to do it more I never said it was perfect, but it is effective at keeping the share of overweight female population relatively low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 04:32 PM
2	Telling men they're too emotionally weak to implement RP strategies is just going to motivate them to do it more Shaming works pretty well in Japan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 04:08 PM
1	High maintenance women get bitter at low maintenance women who are happy. All it takes is one war, and your hypothetical country would be depleted of fertile men and women beyond the point of recovery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 12:20 PM
1	How true is the myth that conservative women cheat less than their liberal counterparts ? How true is the lie that … ? You do know what a myth is, right? That should tell you all you need to know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 02:33 PM
9	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? It wasn’t her car nor was she the one who called the Uber. She had no business escalating the situation to physical violence and turning the situation from merely annoying to actually dangerous. Definitely not the kind of person I want to be around with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 11:43 AM
11	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? She attempted to physically remove the drunk person from the Uber car. Other than the drunk person being an asshole nobody was threatened here. She should’ve let the Uber driver handle it first, but no she immediately escalated to physical violence and came back with bouncers to finish what she started.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 11:26 AM
19	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? The GF was the one who first resorted to violence. She started a fight and then complained when her BF decided to stay out of it. She then proceeded to recruit other men to support her in said act of violence. If I was the BF, I would’ve ended it on the spot. I don’t want anything to do with violent people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 09:45 AM
1	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? I agree. I expect my woman to give me as many babies as I ask her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 07:48 AM
1	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. None of the women I was in a relationship were like this. Some women I dated were, but that’s why there I never committed to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 02:41 PM
6	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. Men as a group out earn women, whereas women as a group are net beneficiaries of wealth redistribution programs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 02:38 PM
1	CMV: Starting out as platonic friends is a good strategy for a romantic relationship The only way I can see this as ethical is if you tell the person you are dating that you want to start as “friends first” and grow from there. Then it’s up to them to agree to commit to that or to walk away. However, in my experience, if someone tells you they want to be friends for the time being, it’s either because they’re not interested or they are seeing someone else and keeping you as an option. Overall, it’s a suboptimal strategy in a culture where dating multiple people is the norm. The …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 07:28 PM
13	CMV: Starting out as platonic friends is a good strategy for a romantic relationship They were not kidding when they said women give bad advice on how to attract and keep women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 05:00 PM
2	How the internet destroyed dating For most of recorded history, women did not pick men. It was her parents who decided who she would be married to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 05:08 PM
12	What benefits are there to having a platonic female friend??? This doesn’t disprove that there are benefits to having a woman as a friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 07:12 PM
3	More Men Are Getting Left Out on Dating Because They Won’t Comply with Modern Standards As someone who lives a lifestyle you described, I don’t struggle attracting women. However, it is rare that I would meet a woman who would be in the same tax bracket as me, be responsible with money and not spend it all like there’s no tomorrow. Ideally, she should own a home herself as my preferred relationship type is LAT.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 07:03 PM
2	Do conservative men prefer liberal women? This is precisely what a psychopath would say. Have you ever had your self evaluated?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 06:46 PM
6	Conservative women are MUCH better to date than progressive women, and all men should avoid dating progressive women entirely. Actually, you sound more black pill than blue or red.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 06:38 PM
1	Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? I disagree with your last paragraph. There are women who are looking to be a traditional wife, but by no means require their husband to be rich. Heck, they don’t even require him to be the sole breadwinner. Check out the Red Pill for Women subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:05 PM
11	How to vet guys who are just interested because of sexual attraction? It doesn’t seem to me like you are in a good state to be dating. You need to first work on yourself to resolve the self esteem issues you are suffering from. If you don’t do that, your value in the eyes of men will go down the better they get to know you. Unless they are a controller or a psychopath, in which case you will be their ideal “partner “. And please, don’t go about misleading other people’s time and money. You will just be ruining it for us all by creating more bitter people.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/11/24 01:17 PM
1	Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this fact Life expectancy is inferred not measured. Actual data from the 19th century showed that men lived just as long as women or a little bit longer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 09:32 AM
1	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity This is an extremely effective short term mating strategy. Just give people what they want and in turn get what you want. However, if you’re looking for a long term relationship then it is self defeating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 09:10 AM
1	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity Clearly you haven’t been left your room in a while.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 09:04 AM
1	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity People just give you what you want. Expecting that it be authentic is just a little bit too much in my opinion. Enjoy it while it lasts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 09:01 AM
1	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity Seems like you have some issues to work on yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 08:58 AM
1	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Because the man will fight and die for the country and she will not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 03:05 PM
1	The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating. Spinning plates trash is Red Pill lingo, not PUA.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 04:17 PM
16	Took the red pill years ago and reinvented myself to be a feminine, submissive woman but now I’m 30 and STILL single. Please help me. Had you not done any kind of sex, they would stop pursuing the “relationship”. You can’t negotiate a commitment from a man by withholding sex: he either likes you or not. Now sex can make things better or worse, but a true emotional connection is built independently of sex.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/11/24 09:02 AM
1	Why can't fkboys simply be non-negociable? We can’t know the motives of those men. But what she described sounds something only a highly Machiavellian personality would be able to pull off, and such people are only a small percentage of the overall population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 10:42 PM
–	Why can't fkboys simply be non-negociable? Hmm … maybe, but I doubt most guys have the emotional intelligence and cunning to be that manipulative. It might just be the case that they are an intense flame that burns like the sun for a short while and then fizzles out. And then they need to find a new person to re-ignite the flame. They’re just slaves to their emotions. It’s probably a symptom of some psychological irregularity, but I wouldn’t know how to call it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 02:23 PM
–	Why can't fkboys simply be non-negociable? Maybe the guy changed his mind once he got to know you better? Maybe you were bad in bed and that’s why he left. Men don’t owe you commitment, just like you don’t owe them sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 01:46 PM
–	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) You are coming across as incredibly insensitive. Even in the US until the 1970s, a husband could not by legal definition rape his wife. Let alone in other parts of the world. “… husband cannot be guilty of a rape committed by himself upon his lawful wife, for by their mutual matrimonial consent and contract the wife hath given up herself in this kind to her husband which she cannot retract.” 17th century English jurist Sir Matthew Hale.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 08:58 AM
–	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) Have you ever heard of this thing called marriage? It gave you certain rights as a man that were not how to say particularly forthcoming towards the wife. In imperial China, women couldn’t bring a case to the court. A man had to represent them on their behalf. Women were treated like property by their fathers and husbands for thousands of years. In Ancient Greek democracies, women did not have the right to vote. Etc. Brush up on history dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 07:40 AM
1	Women can have it all Said every coward and traitor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 04:41 PM
2	The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be) Couldn’t disagree more. Your take displays gross historical ignorance. For the majority of human history men’s rights came first. All it takes for men’s rights to be taken more seriously nowadays is for men to put this on their political agenda and back it up with money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 04:29 PM
–	Women can have it all As I said before, you don’t respect your country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 04:20 PM
1	The Type of Women Normally Chased by Men I always approach ladies that take good care of themselves. If she smiles that’s a big plus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:53 PM
–	Women can have it all I disagree about the rightly. It’s every citizen’s duty to give their life for the country on the battlefield.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:43 PM
–	Women can have it all There will inevitably be one should your country ever come at risk of war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 03:35 PM
–	Women can have it all You must hate your country then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 02:49 PM
–	Women can have it all I’m totally behind this. The only thing I would add is that we need to institute the draft for women as well, as it is already the case in the more liberal countries in Europe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 02:48 PM
19	Should I be worried ? For me the biggest red flag here is you rummaging through his phone and going through even the conversations he had with his family. This screams mega insecurity and disrespect of boundaries. A healthy relationship is built around trust. There is no trust here as far as I can tell.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/24 11:00 PM
1	The most common argument against financial abortion is easily refuted. What remains is mostly misandry Try laughing in court and see if that changes their perspective on the matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 04:07 PM
–	The most common argument against financial abortion is easily refuted. What remains is mostly misandry Consent to sex does not equal consent to parenthood … well, unless you happen to be a man. It is fundamentally wrong to force a woman to become a mother of a child she does not want. Likewise, it is wrong to force a man to become a father of a child he does not want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 01:01 PM
0	Women, do you usually sleep with guys you find attractive in the first few dates? Some people only develop an attraction after a few dates when they get to know the person better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 01:36 PM
2	Men's low standards make women more picky on the apps. That advice goes against the whole business model of dating apps (pay to get more swipes). If people actually followed your advice, the companies running the apps would go under and nobody would be able to use OLD anymore. A lose-lose proposition for both genders. I hope you realize that your post comes off as an insensitive brag from a position of privilege. Kind of like the French aristocracy telling the peasants to eat cakes when they ran out of bread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 02:32 PM
–	Men's low standards make women more picky on the apps. That’s mostly the case in welfare countries where there is far less focus on financial firepower in dating. Try dating in Africa as a bartender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 02:28 PM
–	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could They are usually ready for sex around that time, or a bit later, but I don’t want to mislead them if I’m not up for a relationship and therefore break it off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:36 PM
–	Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Could It’s completely the opposite for me. All the women I go on dates want exclusive relationships and all I want is casual. Sigh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:21 PM
1	Women require men to be judgemental about how women are dressed. In this case the confident answer is to tell the woman to mind her own business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 08:12 AM
1	I am having a hard time swallowing the pill. In think what the other poster meant is that instead of sleeping with the top 10% guy (physical) on the 1st or 2nd date, women are advised to keep their panties on for a few months at least until they know the guy much better. However, top 10% guys who are in it for the short term will walk away in a heartbeat when presented with that scenario and some women just can’t handle the thought of losing such a guy and will sleep with him in the naive hope that they could keep him that way. Only to be …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/24 06:46 AM
–	Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriend I did the exact same thing you did, and ended up not going on a single date in 4 years. The moment I started actively looking for women I had way more than I could handle. I literally had to squeeze two dates in the same day because my schedule was overwhelmed. Dating multiple women became a practical necessity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 08:11 AM
0	The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular men That’s because most men are potential rapists. Human history is replete with examples of mass rape. Until the mid 20th century rape was institutionalized in the US: a husband couldn’t by definition rape his wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 07:21 AM
1	The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular men That’s because most men are potential rapists. Human history is replete with examples of mass rape. Until the mid 20th century rape was institutionalized in the US: a husband couldn’t by definition rape his wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 07:20 AM
1	The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular men It is misguided because the data shows that women suffer the most violence precisely from men who were supposed to “protect” them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 06:57 AM
1	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends Seems like you’re making an awful lot of assumptions with no evidence. Me and my buddies shared every single detail of our sex lives. It helped me build a realistic image of women’s sexual appetite and preferences at a time when I was still a virgin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 11:09 PM
–	Similar to mainstream dating advice, mainstream sex advice for men should be ignored if they want to be the most successful. You keep recommending unprotected sex. Have you ever had sex education?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 10:28 AM
-1	Similar to mainstream dating advice, mainstream sex advice for men should be ignored if they want to be the most successful. Oral sex is a great way to get some really nasty life altering diseases. It’s profoundly unethical to advise people to practice it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 10:23 AM
1	Blue pillers just don't want "unworthy" people to date or have relationships. By that logic nobody should be entitled to welfare either. If we’re not going to help people meet their emotional needs it would be only fair not to help them meet their financial needs either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 06:07 AM
–	For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women. You go through their social media apps?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 03:16 PM
2	Is going soft momentarily that big of a deal? His dates must have IQ under 80 not to get this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 05:37 PM
–	The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be there Can you please point me to some research on this subject?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 06:55 PM
–	It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test. Paternity tests should be mandatory at child birth and funded by the government. That way neither partner will be in a position of hurting another partner’s feelings, as the action solely rests on the state. I would go as far as demand that the government keeps a DNA record of every single citizen. Then paternity testing wouldn’t even be needed, as a mismatch would be detected automatically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 06:18 PM
–	The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be there What does “always” mean? Arranged marriage was a thing throughout recorded history until just very recently. We have no records of a time before marriage was a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 08:15 AM
3	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion Let’s how the debate goes when artificial wombs become commonplace and abortion no longer results in termination of the fetus, but merely with the transfer to the artificial womb. In that case neither parents will be able to escape financial responsibility of the child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 03:33 PM
–	The redpill dating advice for men is bullshit Why would you need to put in effort to be yourself? Nothing is as easy as that.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/24 02:16 PM
–	The redpill dating advice for men is bullshit There’s a big difference between being genuinely nice in the sense of being unselfish and generous, and being the “nice guy” who only acts nice in order to attract a woman.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/24 02:12 PM
1	The redpill dating advice for men is bullshit OP, you’re making a straw-man argument. What you described is not red pill dating advice for men. That’s just some lame PUA nonsense. Red Pill teaches men to wake up from the delusion that just by being the “nice guy” or simp they can attract and keep a woman in their life. It tells men to get out and start improving themselves, by hitting up the gym, by finding fulfilling hobbies, by working on their career and in the process become the better and more confident version of themselves that will …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/24 01:22 PM
2	Do you feel any male soliditary with male refugees/immigrants or view them as sexual competition/invaders? There’s no shortage of women shaming men who found a wife abroad as being too pathetic to find one at home. Those women are not refugees, but they are nonetheless a source of resentment for frustrated women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 05:30 PM
8	Asking a man for money he said he’d give me He asked you how much the ticket was, but you failed to tell him. Now you are wondering why he hasn’t brought it up again. And maybe he is wondering why you didn’t get back to him. I think the right step is for you to actually bring up this subject next time you talk. You have to respect yourself more than this.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/24 03:37 PM
1	Most men just need to get laid. And social justice/modern culture has ruined their chances a lot. According to red pill teachings, commitment is something the woman needs to earn. And red pill men expect the woman to pay for it with quality sex. Nowadays, the majority of men who put off having sex are traditional Christians and Muslims. But their expectations from the woman are actually far more onerous than that of red pill men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 04:12 PM