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Dealing with the Ex / STBXAble-Adhesiveness-91/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 08:55 PM
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LawyersAble-Adhesiveness-91/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 09:22 AM
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Able-Adhesiveness-91/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 01:10 PM
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No worries. We are all here to help. I think you would really benefit from reading No more mr nice guy. Also the way of the superior man. Both those books have helped me loads.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 08:24 PM
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Hey op, firstly we have all been there or going through the process. I’m still trying to work out my current situation but I can tell you a few things that have really helped me. 1 - Stop being needy 2 - Do not beg for her to stay or change 3 - Focus on yourself and making yourself the best version of you possible. It sounds like you have put everything else in front of yourself. That has to change. Finally I know you won’t want to hear this, but she has cheated either physically or emotionally.…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 06:09 PM
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Thank you! Look forward to the YouTube video! Need a make sure I’m never in this situation again!
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 08:31 AM
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As I also didn’t see the red flags. Out of interest, for future relationships. What are these red flags that I should be looking out for? Just so I’m never in this situation again. Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 05:59 AM
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What do you mean by toys? Do you mean cars, house etc? Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 09:01 AM
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Thank you so much!
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 01:48 PM
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Well like the mug I am, she messaged me while I was at work asking me if I was ok. I then contacted her and offered her another chance!! Can’t believe I said that!! Then with me saying that, she replied with “I don’t think it’s fair for you, as I just don’t feel the same anymore!” I feel like she tricked me into offering another chance so that she could be the one to end things. She is coming home tonight and we are going to discuss things. Got no idea what I want to say to her. Think I will kno…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 06:03 PM
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My meaning, is she was in contact with someone via sending messages and photos talking about what they would like to do to each other. Not sure if I have it right.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 06:01 PM
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Cheers man. Great advice. Especially like the bit about the storm!
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 06:42 AM
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Currently going through exactly what you have been through. But a lot further behind you into the process. Finally found the bottle to tell her last night it was over. Currently how I’m trying to stop myself going insane. Every time I start to get upset and miss her, I focus on what she did, and that the person I loved didn’t actually exist.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 06:02 AM
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Cheers guys, thank you for the messages. She came back late last night after I had gone to bed and slept in the spare room. This morning it took everything I had in me not to tell her I was sorry and made a mistake. However I remained strong and held back the tears until I left for work. Currently sat in the work car park crying my eyes out! This is by the hard the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. But I just have to keep reminding myself, the person I love doesn’t actually exist!
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 05:56 AM
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This is exactly my situation. I can’t offer any help as I’m still in it. Been living this scenario for 7 weeks now!
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 10:06 AM
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