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| 13 | Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex?It's not a stereotype, its a fact. Men who do not care about sex to this degree are the exception, not the rule. I have seen men from all walks blow their lives up to smithereens for sex. I've seen an extremely attractive, smart, rich man who was VP at a company ruin his life with two babies on the way for some junior graphic designer pussy. I've seen an extremely attractive, smart, rich CEO ruin his marriage with a beautiful woman over an ugly low-level employee. I've literally never been cheat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex?A woman would rather have zero partners in the hope that a top man will come along and sweep her off her feet. Isn't one of the things y'all want from women is low body counts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex?Sex is readily available. We live in times where there are women who are desperate enough for male validation and attention that they're willing to meet a complete stranger off the internet for a coffee or a walk in a park, and there are plenty of dudes who are having sex/getting their dicks sucked afterward. I've had male friends show me dating profiles of women who are open about wanting casual sex, I mean, they're not always the most in shape and best-looking women (most women don't need to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 06:08 PM |
| 7 | Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex?This isn't even an opinion, its a fact. Most men care about sex, even when they love a woman, they still care about sex more than anything. All men care about sex to a very high degree, whether or not they also want love and a relationship is entirely dependent on how he perceives you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 06:06 PM |
| – | How often do you have to deal with competition from other women?Because they've viewed the guy as her property and she likes the attention he gives her. She doesn't want him, but she also doesn't want him with anybody else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:57 PM |
| 5 | How often do you have to deal with competition from other women?Why not? Because I don't want to, and because it works to not date guys that only offer coffee dates and walks. I'm getting married to a great man that I met off a dating app - dating as a woman is a different game than dating as a man. For us, its not about numbers or quantity, it's about landing the right quality of man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 10:39 PM |
| 0 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?The 80/20 is only applicable to online dating. I do believe that when it comes to online dating, you do have and 80/20 situation happening, and you can thank the rise of casual low-effort dating for that. As a woman that is an ugly truth I've had to come to terms with as a result of what I was constantly reading in other subreddits and women's forums. You'll see women constantly complaining about dating guys who refuse to commit, even groups of women in their 30s, 40s and 50s that are going thro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How often do you have to deal with competition from other women?Not often, but I haven't entertained men who offer low-effort dates or men who have me split tabs in the courting phase in over a decade. I will say that the only times I've dealt with another woman's presence has been when a "friend", who likely friend-zoned him for months or years, suddenly decided that she had feelings for him when he announced he was in a relationship with someone new. That has happened a couple of times and why I don't date men who have female best friends who aren't lesbia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableSame-sex dating means that punching your ex in the face for cheating on you is a whole lot more understandable and a whole lot more likely. Not right, but I get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?And nah sex work pays big because men are horny and desperate Yes, there is a lot of demand for something that the majority of women are still not willing to sell, despite the high demand for it. Do you see how this goes? I see your logic and thinking process sputters a bit, probably explains why you're shoving dildos up your ass and calling it empowerment or at least entertaining the idea of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Yup - and I'll say it again. Man. The. Fuck. Up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?I have an incredible relationship with my father, as a result of that I'm with a man you could only dream of being. You know, for someone who seems to hate/resent women, you sure sound like a bitch. You need to work on that, it is really unattractive to women and I have hard time believing other men respect you in any capacity. Man the fuck up, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Also? Back in the day you had to not just impress the woman who you were seeking to marry, you had to impress her father. So, all this talk about height, money, and status? Yeah, her dad had to actually respect you as a man, and I don't know if you're aware of this but men's standards on what's respectable regarding money and status in not just other men, but the man who wants to fuck their daughter, is leagues above what most women will ever hold you to. What, were you under the impression that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?My love, if you are under the impression that nobody is dating you because you're not a 6'5 millionaire, I hate to break it to you but it's more likely due to you being insufferable/unlikable. Believing that you must be "women expect men to be 6’5 or taller and be very attractive plus a millionaire and have high status" is you actually telling on yourself with this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Oh abso-fucking-lutely. Your grandpa had to walk up to your great-granddaddy and prove to him that he was a man with money and a bright future and gain his respect/validation just to take your grandma out on a date, AND THEN he had to marry your grandma and buy her a house before he so much as got to see a titty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love."The only thing that has changed from 10 years ago is that I practiced the discipline and commitment necessary to invest in myself in my future leading to my having a respectable job, and now I'm angry that my demonstrating that I am capable of commitment and long-term planning through loving myself has made me a more desirable candidate for women who are seeking men that are good with commitment, discipline and self-love" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Yeah sure until pictures of her son's mother gagging on cock get leaked by a gaggle of teenage boys who have it for her son, and bully the shit out of him with her explicit videos and photos like this hasn't been done before (and like it hasn't led to suicides, either). The reason why porn and sex work pays the big bucks is because of the sort of serious ramifications it tends to entail. Go ahead and do OF because it's less strenuous and you won't have to get childcare, you'll need all that extr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.....what does your being a late virgin have anything to do with this? Your failure to thrive is your problem, and your problem alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableIt's just the whining of people who don't have options or operate through the lens of desperation so they don't comprehend the concept of pre-selection and believe that love is some kind of crapshoot. It's the Disneyfied version of love where they believe you don't control who you fall in love with, but, you very much do. For example, I know I'm attractive and can offer a great relationship, so I don't have to take whoever's willing to have me. I have options. I can place filters. Why in the wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:18 PM |
| 10 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableMen place such an insane amount of importance on money that you don't see how a man very well CAN take a woman's youth, beauty, fertility, and future sex acts for himself and leave her with nothing because it's not quantitative and can be reduced to numbers and then turn around and get mad when women treat money with the same degree of importance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Oh honey. You do not know what the reality is behind the majority of those cam girls and OF accounts. If you're under the impression pimping and exploitation isn't happening just because prostitution went virtual, you're highly mistaken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.No, it's called preselection. This is what mate choice looks like when you have genuine options. Why in the world would I choose to fall in love with a bum when I can choose to fall in love with someone who has their shit together? I'll speak a language you understand - why in the world would you choose to fall in love with an obese woman if you have the opportunity to fall in love with a woman who's fit? The population of available men isn't a small pool, and same as some people pre-select thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?idk bro but your mom should've probably put that phrase to use | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?If women quit porn all at once, the industry would still be massive.ck of sex is most definitely showing! Are you really under the impression that people who don't have sex are the only porn consumer?? I'm fucking dying, this is so embarrassing for you If women quit porn all at once, the industry would still be massive. Gay culture is literally one of the most hypersexualized cultures there are, its literally what happens when men's preferred sexual partner is another man 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 09:30 PM |
| -3 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.You've probably never experienced love, because you absolutely can choose who you fall in love with. Nobody's saying put her on a pedestal, but when it comes to mature love - long term love - oh there comes a point where you learn to love someone who's house is in order. Y'all want to fucking bums getting blowjobs by supermodels, it's disgraceful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 09:27 PM |
| -3 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.I'm going to give you an opportunity to try this again, English next time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?No, hardly. But its effective to point out that things do not exist in a vacuum. Men have hard labor and selling drugs if they're poor and want a come-up. Women have selling pussy. The thing is, its interesting how a lot of people think OF is the only source of sex work imaginable. The majority of sex workers - and sex trafficking victims - are not living in a highrise in Miami. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 08:06 PM |
| 8 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?LOL GAY MEN DON'T WATCH NEARLY AS MUCH PORN OH I HAVE HEARD IT ALL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Feminism’s wet dream may be possible in the near future as Male Killing virus discovered in insects.I say this with love - but touch the grass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?You are *almost* arriving at the point :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Hey there's a market for gay men who love twinks, try shoving dildos up your ass, film it, and call that empowering since you think it's much easier than working in a sewer :) Men's physical strength is exploited in that type of work. Women don't have physical strength, but they do have pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 06:54 PM |
| 11 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Most, no. What you see are some. Even then, there are issues surrounding the ethics of poor women getting into sex work. Men can go into labor/blue collar jobs and enter the middle class, a woman born in sheer poverty who didn't do well in school is going to have to shake some ass. I wouldn't say that a single mom of 3 in an economy that's asking for $2000 a month for a 1 bedroom apartment that realized going on OF was a way to make ends meet is necessarily choosing to do it. It's not a coincide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 06:51 PM |
| 21 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?All organized prostitution and sex trafficking show is that men's sexual urges are prioritized in our society to the point where certain classes/groups of women are effectively treated as the sacrificial lamb, designated to serving them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP: How do you think redpill has changed from when it first became a popular thing (early 2000s) to now?Sure, dating manuals on how to land a guy and be in a relationship and fall in love - men's manuals are exclusively about using women sexually. This is a lot like people who think that comparing FDS to TRP are in any way similar - sure they're both effectively trash, but FDS ultimately encourages women to get into relationships and get married, TRP hones in on fucking as many women as possible (and then complaining when the female population's average body count goes up) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 04:46 PM |
| 17 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Of course, women want love, but unless she's desperate, most women will hold out until the right or best person comes around. Who makes himself safe to love. Who can offer a great future, stability, and a great quality of life together. Men act as though there's a small population from which to choose from - can a poor guy and I fall in love? Yes, it definitely happened plenty when I was younger! But can a guy with a decent income and stable future and I also fall in love? Absolutely, and it did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: How do you think redpill has changed from when it first became a popular thing (early 2000s) to now?Multiple factors. A big one? Lack of strong masculine presence/father figure. Probably getting overly babied by mom, or on the complete opposite of that, utterly ignored by her. I think that TRP men are the unfortunate result of broken homes, weak fathers, and overbearing mothers. I think one of the things women find most shocking about TRP'ers is honestly how fragile a lot of them actually are, and I really think it's because few of them have had the support (but more importantly, the respect) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: How do you think redpill has changed from when it first became a popular thing (early 2000s) to now?Not strange at all, you have to realize that a big part of dating successfully is understanding your niche and mine has always been nerdy, smart guys that skew alternative. Unfortunately, I think a lot of those guys tend to be on the shy side and easy pickings for TRP. Realize that TRP only hit the mainstream a few years ago. Up until maybe even 5 years ago, saying some of the TRP/incel one-liners and factoids I see sprinkled all over this site as fact would've gotten you immediately called out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:45 PM |
| 2 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?.thats usually against the father’s will… Statistically, they gain primary custody when they fight for it. But, they don't fight for it, which is indicative of why a lot of women divorce men in the first place. Just moms and dads fighting for what they thinks best for kids and women tend to win those fights more often. Actually, a judge does that....usually by asking important questions about the child, such as the names of their doctors, their teachers, their middle names, and what size clothes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 06:53 AM |
| 2 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?No, I'm taking on a realistic gender role and parenting. The majority of women handle most of the caretaking with children (even though the majority works), and even in the case of divorce, they hold primary custody by an overwhelmingly large margin. A woman, especially one who plans on having a family, most definitely has to think about a lot more than just love when choosing a partner because for the most part, if things go south she's the one who's most likely going to take on the biggest rol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 01:50 AM |
| 16 | Q4RP: How do you think redpill has changed from when it first became a popular thing (early 2000s) to now?I first learned about red pill over 10 years ago (more like 15 a this point) when I began to realize that a lot of the guys I was going on dates with were repeating the same one liners and behaving in a really off-putting way that....well it wasn't natural. It seemed almost rehearsed. It was a major turn off. I don't know how to explain it but a lot of these guys had really high levels of anxiety while simultaneously trying really hard to be macho while simultaneously being very fragile/emotiona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Why is there no #TradHusband movement?Nobody in their right mind is going to want their children raised by a minimum wage worker at a daycare if they can afford otherwise. I'm all for housewives/stay at home moms and I'm all for power couples but same as there's a risk of the bucket running dry, some people in high level/high paying positions require a supportive partner who engages more in a role of support and domestic/family management. The bottom line is that any and all relationship styles carry risk. Have a traditional set up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 12:33 AM |
| 5 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?But I didn't say added income is the only thing that contributes value to a woman's life. I also said dick. With that said, I would advise you to keep working on yourself and your future. I'm happy that you have done well for yourself. Do not be of the impression that she chose you until there is a ring on that finger. I do not mean to be this shroud of negativity, but a lot of rich/wealthy people date a poor person in their college years because its fun to cosplay poor when you're in that age g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Most people of both sexes marry healthy people, but the stats on who leaves who when someone's health drops doesn't benefit your argument :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 12:13 AM |
| 0 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Nah, statistically speaking men's lives improve (and are extended) by the presence of a wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:44 PM |
| -2 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?No, its honestly because most men do not necessary add value to a woman's life outside of these two areas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Not all psychopathic men are master manipulators. Lots of women date guys who are walking red flags.I'm giving this one to you, I've met so many men who cry about their evil master manipulator ex who ruined their life and when you hear the story, its clear "okay so you dated a deadbeat drug addict loser who was really hot so you gave her your credit card and surprise surprise, she ruined your credit" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Not all psychopathic men are master manipulators. Lots of women date guys who are walking red flags.I've learned to distance myself from the girl who can't pick a good dude. Often times their relationships lead to drama or even violence that can spell danger for you as the friend. I also view a woman's picker as a survival skill that affects the herd. If you consistently choose bad or dangerous men, I will have to distance myself from you because my survival instinct is to not tolerate dangerous or bad men in my social network. Unfortunately, a woman that chooses bad men isn't inviting danger … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Not all psychopathic men are master manipulators. Lots of women date guys who are walking red flags.It's pretty common for women I know to have a friend who picks the obviously wrong guy every time. And it's pretty common for most men I know to have a friend who will shoot his shot with anything that has a birth canal and a heartbeat. That guy? Yeah, he's the problem the friend chooses lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Not all psychopathic men are master manipulators. Lots of women date guys who are walking red flags.Let's rephrase: Men who are walking red flags approach *everybody*. Some women actively choose them. The percentage of choose them to the ones that reject them can be highly dependent on their looks and social status. I think that a lot of men who complain about the bad boy have no idea just how shameless the bad boy is at approaching anything with a birth canal and heart beat. They don't give a fuck. They'll approach anyone and anything, their's is definitely a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:15 PM |
| 2 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?It's not a bad opinion, and I'll take it one step further - All men know and understand that income is a man's greatest contribution to a woman's life (especially one of child bearing age) because what's the first thing men love to tell women when they get knocked up by a loser who can barely contribute a few hundred in child support? "choose better" When men have daughters, all of a sudden there's no hesitation in admitting that the resources a man can offer his daughter (and the children they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 10:54 PM |
| 2 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Yes, because most men fail to contribute much to women's lives outside of additional income and dick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 10:50 PM |
| 8 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?I've been on both sides of the fence, being the one who earns more vs being the one who earns less. I used to be extremely supportive of women who earn a lot dating whoever they want, but its honestly changed as time went by because well, we now have swarms of losers out here who are wholly expecting to find an executive girlfriend to pay his bills, and it honestly pathetic on both fronts. Standards and expectations for men have dropped exponentially while the standards and expectations of women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Splitting in a marriage and a relationship than splitting in the courting phase - my value isn't in a meal, it is a standard of treatment that I uphold before I allow just anyone to get to know me. Maybe you didn't have as many options, I don't know what your situation is like but it worked out great for me, I'm engaged. Most women I know who held men to standards before dating them are engaged or married too. But the majority of women who insist on splitting bills and cheap dates? The majority … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:46 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Crabs in a bucket. They're probably women who aren't as attractive or successful with men so they resort to doing what they think they have to do in order to secure a man - but because they didn't get the right kind of treatment, no one else should either. Any woman that upholds enforces a specific kind of treatment before pursuing a relationship is a hooker. The way that women regularly pile on another woman who says "have you suggested standards?" never ceases to amaze me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Broke men - specifically broke men who are looking to have a family eventually with a woman who also wants to have a family - have more important issues to work on than whether or not I know they like me despite not being able to take me out on a date. My body and my love is not equal opportunity. But even then, broke men will find ways to express their interest. Someone mentioned their now husband was her neighbor who cooked great meals as a means of courtship - that's valid. That's him using w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:30 PM |
| 3 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Look, I've been on PP for ages, and I've also been on loads of women's subreddits and forums. The general takeaway is that *most* women adopt this cool girl persona and style of dating, but in these same groups where coffee dates and splitting bills is the norm, there's also a lot of crying about how men don't want to commit and it baffles me how they do not see the connection here. Of course, if you are constantly attending dates where a man is making it clear that he's not all that into you bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:17 PM |
| 2 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Choosing to pay for your half is entirely your business, but suggesting that you do it as a means to not owe anything to anyone is garbage. It is your body - you owe nobody nothing that you don't want to do it's fucking polite to pay half And this is why the dating bar is in hell for most women - there's no shortage of woman desperate enough meet them there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?And you proved my point. When men want to express to a woman that they want something more with her than just casual sex, they don't mind putting their money where their mouth is. It's typically men who want access to as many women as possible at the least amount of effort who whine about women's audacity to hold up standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Men have more to prove to a woman in regards to showing her he's interested in more than just sex. All men want cheap, easy, low effort pussy and preferably from more than one source. Do you think that any self-respecting woman wants to be put in that box? In that zone? Do you think a quality woman would even risk being somebody's Dive Bar and Pizza Wednesday fuck while an absolute gorgeous doll of a woman he actually wants a relationship with gets taken out on proper dates Saturday night? Becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?The thing, a lot of women are blind to the game because they don't associate with men platonically who can give them an "in" on men's dating behaviors. Of course most men on here want to promote splitting dinners and cheap coffee dates. The goal for most men here isn't necessarily love and a relationship, it's someone to fuck. As easy, as cheap and as little investment as possible. Most men want a pool - or at least a few sources - of accessible, low effort sex at very little investment and effo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:38 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?If you were buying pussy, trust me, it'd cost a whole lot more than a plate of food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Because there are few things in this world that men respect more than their time and money, and very few guys will fumble the bag with someone they really like by actually having her pay for the pleasure of possibly getting fucked by him. It's honestly that simple. I've been the cool girl who's gone Dutch and that doesn't really work, if anything, it typically leaves you as a guy's backburner girl while he saves his money and uses it on the woman/women he REALLY wants. I know that it's in men's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:29 PM |
| 3 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?I was raised with the mentality of "don't let the guy think you owe him." If he wants to feel like you owe him, he will feel like you owe him no matter what you did or didn't pay. I absolutely hate this line of thinking because it's incredibly victim blamey. There's no paying to make a man's misogyny and entitlement to sex magically evaporate from their body, and assuming that an otherwise trash man will somehow respect you more than other women for paying your half of the tab is giving internal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:21 PM |
| 2 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?I offer to split the bill so that he cannot claim I owe him You don't owe him, period. He can claim whatever he wants, its on you if you're actually weak enough to think you owe someone sex just because he got you a plate of food. Get real. There's no dollar amount that makes a man's misogyny and entitlement to your body magically evaporate from his body. A trash man will not respect you more than other women just because you paid your half of the meal. If a guy wants a blowjob and sex from you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?I don't get mad, I'll split the tab. But they're not seeing again romantically, much less sexually. I split tabs with boyfriends or with guys who I've been dating long enough to have some discussion on exclusivity or commitment, otherwise I assume this is a guy's way of say "Let's just be friends" and that's okay! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, do you think it’s a red flag if a man grew up with an absent father figure?Being a great person does not equate to being a great partner. The majority of men I've dated who were raised by single mothers did not know how to treat a woman....because the majority did not grow up seeing their mother being treated well by a man so they genuinely have no idea what that looks like. The type of guy to hold a woman to extreme standards of cleanliness and domestic duties while simultaneously seeking to rely on her financially learned that from his single working mom who was cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:07 PM |
| – | [Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”?And I'm telling you you're wrong, all women know women who are complete whores that have successfully convinced their spouses that they're anything but | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 08:47 PM |
| – | [Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”?Oh, you ask? Women lie. They know exactly what the right answers are. Anyone who's seeing 20-50 men a year is most definitely screwing at least half of them lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 12:59 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”?It's not that black and white. A woman is who way more exclusive with her time and energy - thus requiring a proper date just to access her time - isn't likely to waste it on someone she doesn't actually like. That's what I'm trying to get at. The likelihood of you getting used for a foodie call is not as likely with a woman who is exclusive with her time and choosy about who she sees. A woman who's entertaining 50+ men a year has nothing to lose by using you for food. I personally judge the wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 07:59 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”?There most definitely is a way and its through conversation. I can tell you that as a woman, I have never dated a guy who didn't ask me out on a nice dinner or activity on the first date, not because its what I demand, but because I make it safe for them to assume that I'm good for it. You do this through conversation and working on establishing a connection. I know that you're married, but a lot of men really navigate the dating world not realizing that you can do any combination of dinner date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Women of reddit. What is your opinion on women making more of the first moves?You guys act as though the human population is all of a few hundred thousand people strong. If I have a swarm of suitors who are interested in me, I'm not going out looking for more. Out of the men who are expressing interest, I will vet which are likely to align with me and which aren't. That's how it works. I feel like men who fail at dating have created this boogie man out of confident men who are successful daters and make them out to seem like they're all monsters seeking to harm women, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Women of reddit. What is your opinion on women making more of the first moves?I have male cousins who are attractive enough to get hit on, and I learned a lot on what works and what doesn't when you approach men. Women make the mistake of imitating men when they approach a guy. Heterosexual men do not like men, they get turned off by a masculine approach, this makes sense. Overall, men do not like or appreciate it when a woman emasculates them and a lot of women make the mistake of emasculating the guy they're with by mimicking the way men hit on them as a woman. For exam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Women of reddit. What is your opinion on women making more of the first moves?You're probably making the mistake of approaching men the way that men approach you. Men don't like men, so they won't like aggressive approaches, they respond better to soft approach. For example, sparking up a convo with a guy, giving him your contact info with a "you should take me out on a date some time" and leaving him to finish his drinks with his buddies or whatever he's doing while you go back to your circle of friends will fare a lot better than approaching him with "can I buy you a dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:54 PM |
| 11 | Q4A: Are women more responsible for divorces?Ah yes, the lesbian urge to merge lol. 2nd date is a uHaul, 3rd date is a restraining order. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:38 PM |
| 14 | Q4A: Are women more responsible for divorces?I think that women get suckered into acting Super Wife by overexerting herself on things like cleanliness, house management, cooking and doing the majority of domestic duties while working and bringing home a paycheck, and after years of doing it while married they realized it's bullshit and try to talk to their husbands about this but at that point, it's too late. The husbands usually think she's full of shit or being dramatic, or many point blank refuse to change because her improving his qual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:37 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”?What kind of guy would pay for food more than once for a woman? Men with money. I think a lot of the guys on here forget that some men enjoy fine dining and good lifestyles, and can afford it. To you, going out to dinner might be something you only do because you think women like it, but there are guys who genuinely enjoy fine dining. For example, my SO earns over $250k a year....going out to a restaurant of his choice where the tab might run up in the hundreds or thousands is honestly a drop in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:18 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”?He's right - the only person who will give you unconditional love like that is your mama. If you're looking for your mama, that right there is probably why women have had such an intense visceral reaction towards you and your daddy. You're not supposed to look at a woman and think "mama", that's fucking gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:09 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”?That all being said I always did dinner dates or some other kind of personalized activity, even when I was the one planning and paying. But my vetting process was a bit different, and I intentionally had a lengthier “talking phase” of texting/FaceTiming if I didn’t already know the person (through work or mutual friends or whatever). And most of the time I was interested in people I already knew anyway. That part. I have never not done a dinner date as the first date, but the difference is that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:07 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”?My thoughts? This is what happens when 30+ year olds try to date college aged women. That's all there is to it. There are two things needed for this to happen: 1) She has to be desirable enough for dinner or a meal on the first date with no prior vetting, conversation, or means of establishing a connection first and foremost. AKA, young and hot. 2) He has to be desperate enough to land someone young and hot to offer a dinner date off the cuff with little to no vetting for connection, and have th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?Your inability to thrive in a social environment is nobody's problem or fault but your own. All you're doing is demonstrating *why* no one fucks with you. You are not a part of the disadvantage underclass for being so unlikeable you can't make a friend or land a girlfriend, grow a pair and grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | If the majority of men get no matches on dating apps, how do the majority of couples meet using apps, and how to the majority of people still get married?I'm a woman who has met several SOs on dating app, including my fiance who I will be marrying. The short answer? The popularization of coffee dates and walks made it so that the top 20% of men continue burning through queues of women. I constantly see it women's groups. Them: "30+ men these days are awful, no one wants to commit" 500 women agree. Me: "That's not true, there are lots of men in our age group who want a committed relationship, you're just not meeting them. Tell me how you're meetin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?They're not desirable, no. Part of what makes a woman attracted to a man is the respect of other men and the ability to foster strong relationships with them. RP and Incel men go on and on about men's status, thinking that its all about money, but it's not quite that simple. Those things help, but status is all about your social network and where you as a man fit in that. Personally, nothing turns me off more than knowing my guys is at the bottom of the male hierarchy totem pole. It's honestly r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 01:36 PM |
| – | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyIf you're hopping from relationship to relationship for the sake of sex, you're not just a slut, but a codependent one and probably the most dangerous type of woman. Like, this is nothing to brag about lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyThought you weren't into women who are sexually deviant, my guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyYeah, and those are the first to go dead bedroom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyA woman with high disgust factor can still have a high libido for healthy sexual activity SURE PAL, keep dreaming. See you over in r/DeadBedrooms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 02:10 AM |
| 6 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyI know my mom wasn't out there like that because she has inexperienced like disgust for things relating to sex. And is that what you want to be with? Someone that expresses a disgust for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 01:45 AM |
| 8 | Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”?Literally every single time me and other women bring women's mate selection and biology up, it gets downvoted and piled on to smithereens. I am not talking out my ass, men don't like evolutionary biology being used to explain what it means when women at large don't want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyMost men on here who complain and cry about women's body counts will likely end up with a woman who's engaged in a lot more casual sex than they'll ever know. Their own mommas are likely ran through. It's easy as fuck to lie about and if she's having sex with people outside of her social network? No one will ever be the wiser. The vagina does not keep track of how many partners she's had and if a woman knows that lying about how many men she's slept with will keep her in the running with a man, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 01:03 AM |
| 13 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyThey admit that a woman's proximity to men as a whole damages her. They know THEY'RE the problem. The thing is that most men on here who complain and cry about women's body counts will likely end up with a woman who's engaged in a lot more casual sex than they'll ever know. It's easy as fuck to lie about and if she's having sex with people outside of her social network, no one will be the wiser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 12:59 AM |
| 20 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyOof, amongst lower tiers of men. Successful, well-respect men place more value in the quality and kind of woman they have sex with over the quantity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 12:55 AM |
| 13 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyCasual sex for women is often approached the wrong way BY the women engaging in it because they think that acting like a man is somehow empowering. Casual sex isn't bad for women, ultimately, having orgasms and human connection is a good thing but I think that the culture surrounding casual sex is centered around men's pleasure and that's where things go awry. 90% of women engaging in casual sex do not have orgasms. Why is this? Well, it's because often times, the guy they're having casual sex w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 12:53 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?I'll give the guys this one - outside of the NO FATTIES disclaimer sprinkled here and there on men's dating profiles, women are a lot more brazen and unashamed to vocalize the fact that they refuse to date anyone under 6 feet. Men have physical standards for women, absolutely, but it's a lot more evident when you look at their dating history vs what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 12:26 AM |
| 8 | Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”?Ironically this grace never seems to extend to female behaviour’s and habits That part. Men will use biology and evolutionary psychology to justify anything and everything, but when it comes to facing the very real biological reasons for women making the choices they make? Crickets. Basic biology dictates that the onus of proving their worthiness for sex and partnership is on the male. This is seen across the whole of the Animal Kingdom, human beings are no different. It is imperative that the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 11:05 PM |
| 11 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?And most men who CAN afford to be so picky, are. They don't vocalize it though, you just see their patterns in who they actually turn into a girlfriend. For example, lots of men wouldn't be vocal or open about wanting to date women with big butts. But if you look at their lineup of girlfriends, not a pancake butt to be seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Should we feel sorry for guys who are forced to have relationships in order to get sex?Every day that passes, this sub gets closer and closer to the redpill side of this forum finally saying the quiet part out loud and openly admit to wanting - no, being ENTITLED to - some kind of sexual slavery on behalf of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:28 PM |
| 4 | On dating apps over the past 5-8 years, why do you see the same exact women on them? Why are they perpetually single?Zombie accounts are typically made up of above average attractive people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man?A lack of resources. AKA, money. Personally, I don't need an SO who's a millionaire but I do need them to care about their finances and earning potential. I can meet the kindest, most wonderful, big dick'ed man on the planet but if he's broke with no ambition, its a no for me. A lot of guys also live under this belief that they're somehow better or kinder than other men for not having money as though....good guys with stable incomes don't exist. It's weird. IMO the dumbest thing a young woman ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?They might only want you for sex, I got the ring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 01:10 AM |
| 2 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingMost people look best in quality, high-end clothing. Women included. Access to BBL fashion is nothing to envy. Most men on a budget who are looking to start a decent wardrobe can start at H&M. You don't have to resort to $200 pieces to look decent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 01:04 AM |
| 4 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?No, that's kind of misguided to be honest. When I put myself back on the market, I was 34 and did I "have it harder" than when I was 24? Well, let me let the numbers do the talking. Me signing up to OkCupid at 24 - 10k likes in 3 days. Me singing up to OkCupid at 34 - 2k likes in 3 days. Technically? Sure my "desirability" dropped. But the amount of people that were still interested in talking to me was still significantly more than the average man in my same age group. That tends to the pattern… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 01:01 AM |
| 0 | It’s not surprising why dating sucks if you look at the statisticsYeah and the one or two things they're usually ok with settling on with come in the form of ass and titties. Men are more likely to settle on personality or interest traits as long as a majority - or a big focus on a singular attribute that they consider the single most important attribute - of their physical standards are met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?Right, so war torn 3rd world countries. Interesting that you bring that up though because in those countries, women's standards for men in grooming/appearance and wealth is MILES above women's standards for men in America and most Western countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 11:04 PM |
| 8 | It’s not surprising why dating sucks if you look at the statisticsMen aren't vocal with their preferences, you just see the patterns in the who they choose to date. Most men do have requirements on a woman's race and height though, lots of guys strongly prefer short women. Tall women are very open about their struggles with dating. For example, my SO would never openly say that he will only date very short women with big tits, big butts, who are short with cute button noses and unnaturally colored hair. But I've seen pictures of all his ex girlfriends, and tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 11:02 PM |
| 6 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingMost fast fashion brands and lines have a Men's section. No, it's not outrageously expensive. This shows how little you've tried. Yes, it takes effort. It takes effort for women too. Who knew, you had to put effort into being attractive? The point below, this is why men who do have decent grooming and styling tend to stand out to women as much as they do. Again, if you were not born with the genetic markers to be considered attractive, which is something few men are born with, then putting in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 10:14 PM |
| 1 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingThis - it is more important in any species for every female to procreate than it is for every male to procreate. In fact, its preferable if the weakest males of the species don't procreate at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:41 PM |
| -2 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingstop assuming we are all dirty and unfashionable just because you want to see us like that. We don't assume this about you. We know this about you. There is a difference lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:39 PM |
| 3 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingYes, which is why women constantly tell men that if you want to be more attractive, you can start by putting more effort into your appearance via grooming and style. The problem is that this isn't what a lot of guys want to hear. They want the best, most top notch option at the least amount of effort or investment on their end. I'm seeing the amount of comments on here talking about how useless it is to put effort into their style and grooming, and I'm so curious to see the amount of men who lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:33 PM |
| -1 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingBecause its more important for every woman to mate and procreate than it is important for every man. https://www.nature.com/scitable/knowledge/library/mating-systems-in-sexual-animals-83033427/#:~:text=Although%20mating%20is%20important%2C%20it,impact%20the%20female's%20reproductive%20output. "In most species, females are choosier when picking a mate than males. A significant reason for this is the higher investment females make in each gamete than males. Females may prefer certain males for a v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:31 PM |
| 3 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingRight but if you aren't a tall guy who's attractive then you do what you can to make yourself as attractive as possible. It's not rocket science, if you were not blessed with the genetic markers of a physically attractive man then you do what you can to make yourself as attractive as possible within your control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingWomen are more desirable to men than men are to women because it's basic biology. Take it up with Mother Nature, do what you can to attract a mate by whatever means you can, the onus to prove the right to mate and procreate is on the male across the majority of species in this world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:26 PM |
| 9 | Why does it matter whether someone rejects you, or has high standards?But this forum isn't about relationships. It is wholly about centering women, trashing women, criticizing women, and sex with women. There are barely any conversations about relationships themselves as much as there are posts about women, specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:09 PM |
| 8 | Why does it matter whether someone rejects you, or has high standards?You did not answer my question - what does it say about you and the men here where literally every single post, conversation and topic does nothing but center women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?Dudes that get pussy are rarely this bitter, and good men who actually satisfy their girls don't have to pull teeth in order to get submission out of them, but go off :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 07:11 PM |
| -1 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?Right, quick question - are you even in a position to pick someone who actually wants to be picked by you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingYeah, the systemic issue lies with men. Otherwise, you're crossing into extremely insidious solutions that involve reducing women's rights and autonomy. Your inability to connect with women sexually is 100% a you problem. You cannot force or coerce someone who does not want you into being with you, and if that's what you think you need in order to secure a woman, then I'm sorry but you are a danger to society. Securing sex and a partner is your obligation and your obligation alone to secure for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 07:07 PM |
| 9 | Why does it matter whether someone rejects you, or has high standards?If the only thing that upholds women value is their hole, then what does that say about the men in subs such as this one where every single post, conversation and topic centers women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?Right and which one of us lives a lifestyle centered entirely by the desperate validation of females? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingWe don't care whether or not you're not having sex or dating. It's not anybody's problem but your own. A lot of men on here insist on making their inability to thrive sexually and romantically as a men's issue when it isn't a men's issue, it's an individual man issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:46 PM |
| -1 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?Nah, got the ring toots, but its okay. One day, you'll get yours <3 Interesting how you were real quick to insult me when you were so down to defend me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?Before you go applauding me, make sure you also agree with Men have it harder, but not to the degree this sub makes it sound. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?Great men exist everywhere, but they're aware of their value and they'll be doing their share of screening too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:11 PM |
| -2 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?Nah I use the term pick me and I have 0 issues getting picked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?grew up in a dysfunctional environment where half of men die by the age of 20. By all means, let us know which environment this is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:10 PM |
| 10 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?That's a very good point. I've seen countless men complain about women who love fuckboys, but when you hear them discussing the type of women they see its like....sir, YOU have a thing for fuckgirls LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 09:38 PM |
| 82 | Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why?Men have it harder, but not to the degree this sub makes it sound. Men have a lot more to prove to women than vice versa, and the bulk of the pursuit is on them. I"m a woman and quite frankly, the odds are in our favor. I don't really think too highly of women that stay complaining about love and relationship, because a lot of times, the problem really is coming from inside the house. Great men exist everywhere, but they're aware of their value and they'll be doing their share of screening too. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenNah. Woman here who knows who's a whore and who's not. They get wifed up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenIts unfortunate that you think its one or the other tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical.But even other men will think that the guy who left his cancer ridden wife is a giant asshole Sure, until its their turn to stand by a sick wife. Look, the stats on that do not lie. If you want evidence of unconditional love, sticking by a partner who's sick and dying is as unconditional as it gets. Men, statistically, do not pass that test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Can't even blame em.It's not even about the sex offers, it's about the inherent risk of pregnancy. No woman in her right mind is going to risk it with an ugly broke dude and she's going to want to aim for the best she can get. In fact, the stupidest thing a woman can do is have a baby with a broke ugly dude. No good genes to pass down, no resources to help care for the child. Stupid, stupid, stupid. Don't like it? Take your complaints to Mother Nature. Men know this too, the second they have daughters, they don't w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical.I think if men truly understand how conditional woman's love is, they will start loving conditionally too. You are aware of the statistics on men who leave their wives in the face of terminal illness right? That's been happening lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical.I don't really think women want or expect unconditional love. Romantic love is very much conditional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical.Men want unconditional love, they are naive like that. Honestly? I think its because men model their version of love off their moms. A mother's love, affection and approval is unconditional. Women tend to model their version of love off their fathers (if he's around or present). I hesitate to call a Father's love unconditional, but I do believe they love their children...they just hold their children to higher standards of behaviors and achievements before receiving his affection and approval. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 05:25 PM |
| 3 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.Viagra > 20 y.o dick Oh I'm sorry, do you fuck men? Is this evidence coming from personal experience or.....? Because I do, and no lol. There's no comparison. I mean, even looks-wise, a young stud is always going to be hotter than a 45 year old hottie. And....sorry buddy, but sex isn't rocket science. If you needed 20 years of sexual experience to get the hang of it, you're not a good fuck. I've been with plenty of men 35+ and they're not all great lovers. If by the time you're 27, you're not ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenI agree, its exactly the same when you have a normal looking guy getting sucked dry financially by a really hot girl. Men go through this too lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many women1 Men can fuck whores, but they don't marry whores. But they do lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenWell yes, I mean, for a long term partner its pointless if they have bad habits and a shit personality. Anybody who has actually been with a hot person knows that the novelty of good looks fade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenYou guys love to come up with these theories as though you're actually in proximity to enough women to get this kind of info, or as though you're fuckboy who's doing the pumping and dumping. It's not that complicated. Fuckboys are fuckboys because they have a tendency to be very attractive and charming. If you want to get deeper into it, attractive genes in a male are rare, and while good looking genes are highly valued by both sexes, it's a lot less common for men to be conventionally good look… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:53 PM |
| 3 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.Not likely. Nothing compares to the diamond hard dick and energizer bunny stamina of a hot guy in his 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.Dressing well, having good hair, groomed facial hair and smelling good can definitely improve how you're percieved. You should give it a try, I recommend you start with what's called a shower. Use lots of soap. Follow it with deodorant. It's a process, but I trust you'll get the hang of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.Sure, I mean, I don't really hate on either of them. Everyone's getting their needs met and she gets a greencard. Win win for everyone involved all around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.Barking up the wrong tree, I have nothing against passport bros lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.I'm not saying that most men are single and sexless because they're not good but. my guy, if you're under the impression that grooming and style isn't important to your overall attractiveness....I hate to break it to you, but that's a huge reason as to why you're probably incel. So an average looking guy would outcompete a 6.4 guy that looks like Chris Hemsworth, if he was better groomed? LOL This is actually pretty telling. You're admitting to being so unfortunately unlikable and insufferable t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:46 PM |
| 4 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.I'm Latina and trust me, the women these passport bros are picking up aren't good girls. The majority of the times, they're sex workers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 03:40 PM |
| 3 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.Right? The fact that some of these people are basement dwellers that never leave the house is painfully obvious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 01:26 PM |
| 9 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.It wasn't until my 30s when I realized that they were all low-key having a lot of "casual relationships". They had their hunking hung boy toy who wouldn't commit (or not wealthy enough to settle for) so she just calls him the FWB, the rich guy who pays her rent and buys her clothes, and dating all sorts of guys looking to climb the social hierarchy to gain higher access to higher men. Yes, this is common. This is why I honestly can't help but laugh when men come on here bragging about being 35+ … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.Honestly, the men in the US look significantly worse and put a whole lot less effort in their looks than men in.....most any other country. South Korea? They're all dressed very well, at all times Latin America? Not my style but they put in loads of effort into their looks and way of dressing Have you SEEN Italian men? Best dressers and groomers I have ever seen, I don't think more attractive men exist on this planet. Except for maybe France. French men have always been extremely well-dressed an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days.I'm old but this was the case 20 years ago. In the US. Men being generally way better looking and groomed outside of the US was definitely normal and a point of ire for a lot of women when they traveled abroad and realized that men too can be held to a beauty standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you split costs in a relationship 50/50?Woman here. I don't do 50/50 in this relationship because my SO makes significantly more than I do and he prefers me to put my money towards savings and retirement because that's where it will have the most impact in our long term plan. For reference, I make $80k, he's at $250k. He pays rent because it's about $1900/month for a 1/1 . He also pays for all utilities, and the majority of our outings and vacations. He just out-earns me significantly and he can afford to do all of that while still me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:23 AM |
| 3 | How many should you date at once for the most effective dating?If you want to meet your one, don't waste your time with many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesNo, if you live in a metropolis, you have way more proximity to a wide variety of people than the average guy in a small town or suburb. These are choices you are making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesDude, you're on here crying about fuckboys when based on everything you've written, it sounds like you've got a thing for fuckgirls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesPlease realize the type of woman that's expecting you to take her to a Michelin star restaurant while you drive a G wagon is a very specific type of woman, and if that's the type of woman you are regularly encountering, you need to consider that the call is coming from inside the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesMen as a whole don't do this, certain men do this. But I agree with you wholeheartedly on those that do. Secure men with good self-esteems don't really worry about being settled on because they don't live their lives worrying about being inferior. Only people who live with the constant worry of not being good enough live their lives with this fear. They fear not being good enough or inferior because to some degree, they feel that way about themselves. People tell you a lot about themselves when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:29 PM |
| – | Are young men seen as less desirable than their female counterparts because society tends to equate youth with femeninity?only 4.2% of the US population between the ages of 20 to 29 is making six figures or more No one said anything about young men in their 20's needing six figures, though. Most well-adjusted men in their mid to late 20s are starting in their careers and seeing salaries, however. They just need a decent job with potential for growth. The rest of the stats you gave are what? The minority. 36% of the population is obese with a BMI that is above 30 according to the That leaves 64% that isn't. That is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceA hit dog will holler | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menIt's a crazy take, because it's functioning under this guise or impression that a) there's a sudden "make hot" switch that they think will go off at 35 through no work or effort on their part b) going after women that aren't in their age group is going to magically attract someone who's actually interested in him, for him. I knew lots of girls in their late teens and early 20s milking 30 something year old guys for their money while keeping an age-appropriate side dude to sexually satisfy her lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Society does not owe you anything - please realize that in the grand scheme of things, you are not important. I am not important. No one here is. We prove our worth and our importance to society, not sit back and demand that it change its ways because as an individual, you were unable to adapt. It's sink or swim and you're hellbent on sinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:21 PM |
| – | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Also I learned that men will conjure up a “theory” based on “evolutionary” “psychology” in order to justify their desires and bad behaviour such as cheating, desiring young/fertile/fit women, wanting a submissive woman who takes care of you, disliking single moms etc, bc it’s male nature and biology. Yes and when you bring up a much more observable fact - not opinion - that from a biological standpoint, all females in the animal kingdom are driven to procreate with good, strong males exclusively… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:19 PM |
| – | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?If they based their validation off women, they'd be more willing to do what they have to do in order to get that girl. It's worse. They're gaining validation from other weak men who aren't successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:14 PM |
| – | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Yes - It's a minority of square pegs in a world of majority cylindrical pegs, who are pointing and the proverbial hole and claiming that it being shaped as a circle is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:13 PM |
| – | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?Honestly? That some people will never have sex or be in a relationship due to being truly unlikable, and that's okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"No I understand full well how society works, I don't have a problem fitting into it. That's why I don't care if you've had problems. We've all had problems. You grow up and you do the work. Integrating into society is your responsibility, no one else's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Yeah no, I don't care. Most people do not care about your childhood trauma if its affecting them negatively. I'm sorry you've been through shit, but you're not the only one. Grow up and do the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:24 PM |
| 2 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceIt's just one of those things where its like, you have to be such an anomaly amongst men in your own age group to secure a woman in her absolute prime and have it be an authentic attraction, and even then, she's most likely not going to do it if you're broke and incapable of offering her a better lifestyle. Unless she's suffering from hardcore trauma, a young woman is going to align with a young man closer to her age a lot better emotionally, sexually, physically and in so many other different a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:22 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceYes. Because they're playing you lol. You're most likely getting cucked with an age appropriate side dude lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:02 PM |
| 2 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceI hope you find the one and she stumbles across your Reddit account | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:01 PM |
| 2 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceOh God, here we go another revenge fantasy of some guy who put two and two together and probably started looking good and having his shit together so now he's under the impression there's a wild conspiracy against young men. Look dude, all I'm going to say is that enjoy *this* while it lasts. Most men 35+ that are "dating" college aged girls are getting used for their wallet while she keeps an age appropriate Chad in her rotation to sexually satisfy her. AFBB is a self-fulfilling prophecy for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:56 PM |
| 2 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceIt's saying a lot about you that you were in the proximity of a 16 year old who ended up doing sex work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:53 PM |
| 7 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceNo. Not everyone is a loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"And thats your damage to work on. It's not a total stranger or society's fault that you weren't treated right. You need to do the work for your own sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Are young men seen as less desirable than their female counterparts because society tends to equate youth with femeninity?This is a difficult concept for you to grasp because you are low on the social totem pole. Like, the fact that you seem to think that this is a big ask...I'm so sorry, but you are telling on yourself. Hard. Being a socially adjusted dude in your 20s with friends, that dates, who is getting educated for a good career, that goes to the gym and is overall HAPPY isn't this impossible thing to achieve. It's actually...look I'm sorry, but it's common. What you need to do is get out more and make these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyThey do. It's just not the Reddit intelligence you're confusing for real life intelligence. Also? Do not underestimate the effects of being infusfferable and how badly that can affect your luck with women. Most women seek men with practical intelligence - intelligence that can have real life applications and uses. This is where money and status/popularity come in. Social/interpersonal and emotional intelligence is something wildly overlooked by book smart people, but it tends to be the type of i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:36 PM |
| 1 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Oh, I don't think its an act. Many of them actually do hate women. I have some theories on a big part of the manophere's population struggling with homosexuality and as a result, internalized homophobia, that they try very desperately to shut up by consuming all of this hardcore misogynist content. And if you really think about it, it aligns. They do not like women. A lot of them claim to be sexually attracted to women, but there's a hyperfocus on sexually attractive men, big penises and what th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:02 AM |
| 5 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Yes, the fact that these guys do not understand that they are failing to meet to most minimal of basic standards is not telling of a societal problem at large, it is indicative of their failure to adapt to society. They are effectively a square peg in a world filled with cylindrical pegs, insisting that the round hole is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:47 PM |
| 2 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Now you're just moving the goalpost. Are you suddenly a feminist that's seeking to break down the patriarchy or are you a man that's simply looking to get laid? It's truly not that deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyif the research shows women are happier unmarried than married But there has been a lot of research pointing towards this lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyThe majority of single women over the age of 50 that I've met genuinely do not want a relationship, though. That's the thing, you're digging your heels into this believe that women want a partnership as much as men do, when I really don't think they do past a certain age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyA "top notch man" is honestly bare minimum. Yes, if you had a pussy and a uterus, and dating involved very serious risk of pregnancy, you'd want to make sure you only dated/fucked the best you could possibly get. You're not going to want to pass down ugly genes to your kids. You're not going to want to have to deal with birthing and raising a child with extremely limited resources and financial support. You're not going to want to have a baby with a man with really poor social standing in this w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyNo, there are a lot of women who straight up do not want a relationship, period. Not with a good man, not with a bad man, not with a medium man, they don't want one at all. They are extremely happy not having a relationship, not even a good one. This is really common, especially in women 50+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyWhy do you type and act as though the human population has like 300 people in it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyI feel like people have finally arrived at the point that it's actually not in humanity's best interest for everyone to procreate. Not everyone has genes that need to see another generation, not everyone should have children. Not even a matter of want, its a matter of should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:42 PM |
| 9 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"To be fair, even a broken clock is right twice a day but Jordan Peterson is not the only person who has identified the male hierarchy. All men, but especially redpill men, get it. There's a fixation on status and social value, because it matters not just in attracting women, but in attracting the right kind of woman. For some reason, the idea of being this man who's sitting very low in the totem of pole of male hierarchy seeking a woman who's higher in the totem pole of social hierarchy (women's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:24 PM |
| 4 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"The thing is that I think a lot of guys on here demonstrate exactly why they're friendless AND sexless - they struggle with relationships, period. They are not just unlikable, they are honestly broken when it comes to the very basic understanding of how to make any kind of relationship - platonic, sexual or romantic - successful. They're one sided, they are selfish, they want things on their terms and they're extraordinarily transactional and downright superficial. They're engaging in manipulati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:09 PM |
| 2 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"TBP expects you to somehow magically "get it". Yes, because having basic social skills and treating women like people is such a low bar, that not getting "it" when "it" is extraordinarily basic, is honestly indicative of serious mental health/social anxiety issues that you may need to seek counseling for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:07 PM |
| 2 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Right but this would require having to actually see and treat women that they may not necessarily be attracted to as people, and that's unlikely to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:05 PM |
| 9 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"This - men on here love to quip about masculinity but are very quick to demonstrate how low status they actually are in the male hierarchy. The way they tell on themselves on a daily basis is honestly hilarious. One thing that greatly defines masculinity is the validation, respect and friendship of other respectable and masculine men. Women like men that are respected and admired - sometimes even feared if necessary - by other men. Men that do NOT receive the respect or admiration of other men a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:03 PM |
| 4 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Another day, another page in the chapter of Incel/Redpill Men Complain About Not Being Able To Get A Girlfriend And/Or Have Sex With Women, Yet Reject Any Piece Of Advice That Involves Actual Work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:00 PM |
| 6 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?If you're out and about and being this watchful of men's attractiveness, I got news for you bud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 09:43 PM |
| 8 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?All you're doing is telling us what *you* would do if you were an attractive man. But you're not, so what they do and why they do it isn't your business, much less your place to criticize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 09:42 PM |
| -2 | Men, have you, or have you seen, a man actually protect a woman/child from a predator?I saw a woman with no shirt on wearing a diaper just Tuesday night down town I mean, I think the police should've been called but if you live in the ra-ta-ta-ta amongst the crackheads and that's how your community handles that kind of stuff, then that's a different situation. I live in a city that's known nationwide for it's wild partying, and yes, a woman with her butt exposed lying unconcious on the street would've been a big deal and had the ambulance called on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:50 PM |
| 3 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itI am Colombian. Its okay, I'll give you a minute to wash the egg off your face there, pal. The majority of Colombian women who are making themselves available online for marriage to be picked up by a passport bro are prostitutes, yes. Prostitution is legal in Colombia and those fine ass girls on the internet weren't born looking that lol. I think that's the part that cracks me up the most about it - you've got these gorgeous women with veneers, BBL's, nose jobs, lip injections, and and bundles d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:39 PM |
| -4 | Men, have you, or have you seen, a man actually protect a woman/child from a predator?Not wilder than claiming to find a half naked girl passed out on the road and not calling the police or an ambulance for her despite claiming that homeboy was an EMT. The whole story was either made up or dude was involved and his stomping was justified, it's that simple. If it means anything, I'm leaning towards made up. Not many men survive catching a beat down by 7-8 men in their physical primes, at least not without an extended stay at a hospital and some serious injuries. That's not how get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:36 PM |
| 2 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itNah. I'm Colombian. That's not happening with passport bros. The reality of it is still pretty dark, but more dangerous for the guy than it is for the woman because a lot of them are actually sleeping with a prostitute, a line of work that is once again, legal over there and a hell of a lot more lucrative. The majority of the times it really is just a sex worker (sex work is legal there and in many other countries that PBs flock to) with a hell of a hustle going on and she'll end up leaving her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Men, have you, or have you seen, a man actually protect a woman/child from a predator?I'm sure you won't have any problems sending your husband or bf to deal with the problem. Fuck yes I would, someone's breaking into the house I firmly expect him to stay in the bedroom with me until the police arrive and handle the intruder, not go out there and confront someone only to possibly get shot or stabbed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:36 PM |
| -1 | Men, have you, or have you seen, a man actually protect a woman/child from a predator?Yeah sorry but based on your comments in this thread pertaining to this situation and the fact that you're participating in PPD as a man who talks about Chads and fucking easy women, I'm gonna say that either a) you actually did have something to do with that girl passing out half naked on the road or b) none of this actually happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:34 PM |
| 3 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itIt's not an ad hominem way, its something I genuinely think a lot of men on here should consider because there's a lot of guys sexualizing other men way more than they're sexualizing women. Men sexualizing men is.....it's gay. Not like in a bad way or in an attack way, but in a way that is describing something as it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:28 PM |
| 2 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itIt being the porn is a good point, but I'm saying what I'm saying due to experience. A lot of men here don't see it because most self-proclaimed straight men don't have a lot of experience or proximity to gay men, but the dude in groups that's obsessed with dicks and having his friends talk about their sexual encounters is usually caught on Grindr later on. Not that it's a bad thing, mind you, but there's a level of overcompensation here mixed in using other men's sexual conquests as an opportun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:25 PM |
| 2 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itI don't know how old you are, but I'll let you in on a secret: The guy that did that the most was usually found on Grindr at some point. The dude in groups that's obsessed with dicks and having his friends talk about their sexual encounters usually turns out to be gay or bisexual down the line. Not that it's a bad thing, mind you, but there's a level of overcompensation here mixed in using other men's sexual conquests as an opportunity in which to sexualize the men they're talking to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:20 PM |
| 5 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itNAZIs hahahahaha oh wow, so now men who can actually have sex with real women are Nazis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:18 PM |
| 2 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itI mean, if that's all you feel men are good for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:17 PM |
| 3 | As long as men are way hornier than women, none of this will change. The only solution to the current disaster is a pill that safely lowers testosterone/DHT and subdues the male sex drive, leveling the playing field.My theory that incels/redpill men are the result of fatherless households is proven more and more plausible as the days go by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:22 AM |
| – | Men lose at least a percentage of their attraction when the woman they fancy becomes availableI bet you're a beast at sexting. A real freak in the thesaurus sheets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:12 AM |
| 6 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itHonestly, I think the average guy has a lot more to fear when it comes to AI sex bots than the inverse. A Chadbot WITH the ideal penis, spinning pearls and clitoris stimulator? Oof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:06 AM |
| – | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itIts honestly kind of gay how much of a focus incels have on this Chad and his sexual behavior. Please realize that straight men do not spend this much time fantasizing about sexually attractive men and what they do with their penises. I genuinely think this is something you should explore about yourself a little further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:02 AM |
| 22 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itIDK, I feel like at the very least passport bros are making sure their girlfriend has like, a pulse. Sure, they may actually be "dating" a sex worker who's managed to trick them into buying some sob story about her being a villager that sells beans in the market of Colombia (and by beans she means pussy) but, they're trying! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:00 AM |
| 7 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itI mean, why does this bother you? Women aren't at all threatened or bothered by AI girlfriends and it sounds like you're upset that they aren't engaging in the meltdown that you'd want them to have. They don't need to do self-reflection - your inability to secure sex and a relationship is not their problem. Two things can be true at the same time - yes, guys who are into the idea of getting an AI girlfriend *are* complete losers who are giving up, and it's wonderful that they can have an outlet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:57 AM |
| – | Men lose at least a percentage of their attraction when the woman they fancy becomes availableBy all means, keep going. You're doing a great job of telling the world why you struggle to get guys to pursue you seriously. You might want to get some medication for the voices of all the women in relationships who are living rent-free in your head, beloved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:50 AM |
| – | Men lose at least a percentage of their attraction when the woman they fancy becomes availableEnjoy cosplaying as a woman dude, I recommend you try a little less hard the next time you want to pose as a woman on the internet for the DM's lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:40 AM |
| – | Men lose at least a percentage of their attraction when the woman they fancy becomes availableAnd to think, crazy bitches get hitched while you're on the internet crying about not getting picked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:39 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADtell me you don't understand what being a dramatic ass bitch about sex is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWoman here - no. But based on the level of Fatherless behavior exhibited by the majority of men in here, I'll go as far as to say that a lot of these dudes had some hoe ass mothers and that would honestly explain a lot of the vitriol surrounding body counts and the like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLmao the dramatics are insane. You're really out here comparing someone enjoying casual sex with BURNING DOWN A BUILDING | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:32 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOr maybe they just wanted to meet someone who'd drill the back of her pussy like he's about to strike oil? I mean, if she was single, why the hell not? Women often justify their sexual desires with some sort of emotional bullshit that's meant to evoke pity because they're terrified of being viewed as sexual creatures by men or something but it's honestly not that complicated. We fuck because we want to, we fuck because it feels good, we fuck because we can lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:31 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt depends on the age tbh. It's a high number for most people in the <25 range, but its just been my life experience and observation that people stop asking and caring about body count after 30. You could sleep with 3 to 4 people a year over the course of 10 years and have it amount to 35 by the time you're 30. I think a lot of young people who are fresh out of HS or in their first few years of college have no idea how you don't have to be outrageously promiscuous for that number to go up. Men i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:26 PM |
| – | Men lose at least a percentage of their attraction when the woman they fancy becomes availablePeople like cool and confident people. Your cat approach works because you're not being desperate, and that is always appealing to people who are actively pursued by lots of people. Women who are attractive are constantly pursued and a lot of guys go way too fucking far. To give you an example, I met someone who was very good looking a few months before I met my SO who I had to dump expeditiously because he had absolutely no chill. When we first started talking, he seemed normal. Ticked all the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:08 PM |
| – | Men lose at least a percentage of their attraction when the woman they fancy becomes availableIf he cheats, he cheats, there will be more out there to choose from. You might want to look into that side bitch life though, seems like you can't make the cut to be anyone's first pick :( I don't have issues with having men pursue me the way I want them to because I make solid choices in men, if you're too full of yourself to realize that you're not being treated as interesting because you probably fucking aren't, that's your damage to work on. I mean, let's be real - if you aren't even being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menIt could still work for you. I have a few male friends who bought a home for their sake and saw a major difference in how women viewed and treated then. Women like a man who can offer resources, and a house is one hell of a resource if you're looking to start a family. A bachelor that is also a homeowner has a massive advantage working for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 10:31 PM |
| – | Men lose at least a percentage of their attraction when the woman they fancy becomes availableI'm marrying an awesome, tall, six figure earner who treats me like gold and tbh, I have a good history of dating wonderful men who treat me well, are intelligent, earn great money and are hot. Beloved, you could only *wish* to be in my shoes. You can actually listen to someone who's been in your shoes and figured out how to be successful with dating, or you can continue to bitch and moan about being treated like a hot piece of ass by fuckboys and losers when being a hot piece of ass is all you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 10:29 PM |
| – | Men lose at least a percentage of their attraction when the woman they fancy becomes availableFirst things first - guys that are into the chase approach everyone. You choose them. Read that again. Woman here - so what's happening is that you're making really shit choices in who you're choosing to date and you're dating men who's only criteria for wanting to pursue you is your looks. That's what's happening here. You are placing too much of a priority on your looks and choosing men who only care about your looks as a result of that. Having good looks is an asset, but it shouldn't be your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle?No - I just don't give a shit about "men's struggles" if the struggle you can only bring yourself to highlight and bring to the forefront is that you can't get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle?The problem is that empathy goes both ways and men don’t exhibit enough of it for women to want to invest any emotional labor into hearing you vent THAT PART. women: "Hey so femicide and the removal of our rights and bodily autonomy are a serious problem" men: "PROBLEM????? PROBLEM??? YOU DON'T KNOW PROBLEMS! I CAN'T GET MY DICK SUCKED AND I'M 5'7, YOU WANT TO HEAR ABOUT PROBLEMS I'M TELL YOU PROBLEMS" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle?They can use the women's flesh as food to sustain themselves on their trip Yeah, excellent job showing that you're not an absolute fucking psycho by imagining wild violence on women all because you're lonely and horny. You aren't owed pussy. Your struggle is NOT a struggle, it is your struggle. Being so unlikable that women have deemed you unfuckable is NOT men's struggle, it is your inability to meet the modicum of standards in place to justify why you're worth the risk. Die made, cope or move … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menAnd to think, even as a leftover, I'm still getting picked up by good men who earn six figures and a big ol' dick while you're bitter and lonely with yours in your hand. Die mad, cope or move on. Choose one, beloved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:09 PM |
| 7 | Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle?It's not the we find it challenging, its that many of you skirt around removing rights and downright engaging in sexual slavery of women as a solution. And honestly? We don't care that it's challenging, it is supposed to be. Whether or not people want to admit it, we are all still very much a part of the Animal Kingdom and many of our sexual drives are primal - including women's. To start, let's talk about the core of sex and why it exists. It is of the utmost importance that most females of any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menI'm all for young women getting their bag from an older dude while keeping their age appropriate side dude dicking them down darling. 36 and engaged to someone you could only dream of being <3. Die mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:34 PM |
| 2 | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?They sure do in Latin America buddy, the average guy over there is 5'5 (if we're being generous tbh) and most of them do not struggle this hard. I'm Latina in the United States, and even here, Latinos tend to run short. I have literally not seen their height be a topic of such intense crybaby shit because......they have rizz? They're social, they're fun, they're engaging, they know how to pursue and talk to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?Talking to a brick wall would be more productive than trying to get women to stop mocking manlets. Funny, considering that we all live in a world where the majority of men who end up getting married, fucking and having children are NOT tall men. I need y'all to please close your laptops for like, a year and reacquaint yourself with reality before its too late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:01 AM |
| -4 | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?The question I have is why there seems to be nearly no mainstream discourse on the subject. Because height is a physical trait admired, revered, and rewarded by men for men. This is why there isn't a discussion on it. The ultimate powers that be ARE tall men who, despite being such a minority in this country and in the world at large, manage to earn more money and hold higher positions socially, in business/work and politically than short men. Tall men are a minority, a minority that manages to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Censorship of TRP has gotten out of control, leaving virtually nowhere for men to safely vent about the horrific dating conditions they deal with and has turned formerly neutral places like this into Blue Pill echo chambersDear Lord in Heaven, please bless this individual with better reading comprehension skills and while you're at it, sprinkle some rizz into him so that he understands what I mean by "work". Amen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Censorship of TRP has gotten out of control, leaving virtually nowhere for men to safely vent about the horrific dating conditions they deal with and has turned formerly neutral places like this into Blue Pill echo chambersSuper terrified. It's gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Censorship of TRP has gotten out of control, leaving virtually nowhere for men to safely vent about the horrific dating conditions they deal with and has turned formerly neutral places like this into Blue Pill echo chambersYeah and you're dumbasses for it. I was around when redpill was up and running on Reddit. Upholding white supremacy was a core element of it. The general comments made by redpillers on black and brown men are horrible. I believe they call the black Chad, Tyrone.....and Tyrone is often described as a ghetto cartoon that's ruining (non-black) women with his anaconda, leaving behind a trail of baby mommas. It's actually EXTREMELY racist. Those men aren't on your side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Censorship of TRP has gotten out of control, leaving virtually nowhere for men to safely vent about the horrific dating conditions they deal with and has turned formerly neutral places like this into Blue Pill echo chambersAnd I hate to be the one to tell you this, but your grandma was most definitely chastised for that because moving in with a boyfriend was most definitely NOT the norm in those days. She would've definitely been called a hoe for all that. If telling you that having to work for a little bit of pussy is equal to "hatred of men", you need to count your lucky stars to only be so blessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male friendships are not an alternative to romantic affection because they often end up having an element of competitionActually, when you're at the lowest point of your life is when friendships come through for you the most. Friendly competition doesn't happen when your friend is down. Also I’m not really sure what makes you think I’m insufferable. If no one fucks with you - men or women - its for good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 09:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Male friendships are not an alternative to romantic affection because they often end up having an element of competitionOP, you think this is how male friendships work because you make a poor friend. Please realize this is more a reflection of you than it is of men as a whole. In other words, you are single and friendless because you are insufferable. I'm spelling it out for you because the sooner you come face to face about this realization about yourself and why you do not have friends or a girlfriend, the sooner you can either set in motion the things you think you should do to make yourself a tolerable and so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Are young men seen as less desirable than their female counterparts because society tends to equate youth with femeninity?- Most men who work out and are dedicated to their physical fitness will hit their peak in their 20s. If you did not get that chiseled body in your 20s, it is unlikely to ever happen. Most of the fit men that you see in their 30s did not magically gain all of that muscle mass overnight. They've been building it since they were in their 20s. - What you call mind of steel and wealth of experience is basic confidence. Unbunch your panties about this. - Yes, lots of men in their 20s have lots of fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Censorship of TRP has gotten out of control, leaving virtually nowhere for men to safely vent about the horrific dating conditions they deal with and has turned formerly neutral places like this into Blue Pill echo chambersFresh and Fit literally flirted with anti semitism at some point That's because when you lean back, the writing is on the wall on the core redpill ideology. When you ask a redpiller or an incel to describe Chad, they're not describing just anyone. They're describing an outrageously tall, six-packed, white, blue-eyed, square jawed man with a heavy brow and blue eyes. I know this because on multiple occassions, I've read redpillers on here describe this exact figurine to describe the proverbial Ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesBut its not "for some reason" - its basic biology. If you are a young woman and in a phase of your life where you are offering you two most valuable assets - your youth and your beauty - then its only fair that you take into serious consideration a man's ability to provide. Chances are, she's not offering her youth and beauty for the sake of it - these are two things that are very important to a lot of men who are also looking to have kids. And if you're a woman with a lot of value to offer in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of mennot sure how the conversation strayed from that. Well, men started relying on other weak and lonely men for their validation as opposed to nutting up and trying to befriend strong men who can teach them how to be successful. That's what happened. These guys made being a lonely loser such a core part of their personality because it became a culture they could rely and depend on. Thats how the conversation strayed, they were no longer listening to strong and successful men for advice on how to dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menLmao yeah my grandpa had to invest in and run a business with my great grandpa for years before he could date, much less marry, my grandma because he needed to prove to him that he was capable of managing finances and a business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Censorship of TRP has gotten out of control, leaving virtually nowhere for men to safely vent about the horrific dating conditions they deal with and has turned formerly neutral places like this into Blue Pill echo chambersHorrific dating conditions? Do you know what your GRANDADDY had to do just to catch a glimpse of your grandma's titty? He had to provide her with a house. A HOUSE. He had to show up to your great-granddaddy's house and have a man to man conversation with him, tell him your life plans, show him that you have the funds in which to date and marry is daughter and promise to not deflower her sexually until there was a ring on her finger. Men now have it easier than ever, you're just angry that you st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:45 PM |
| 5 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menAverage men are chads all the time. They have certain qualities too. They’re likeable and kind. Social, flirty, they pick up on things women like. THIIIISSSSS. So many of the guys on here are telling on themselves *so fucking hard* when they talk about themselves and their social group. Yes, if you live on the internet and do not get out there and learn to socialize with other strong men, you make the mistake of assuming that your fringe internet cliques are the norm - when what they actually ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menDo you think a woman choosing better would be to pick a lonely bitter man who’s going to call her a slut THAT part. The thing that's truly out of this world to me about these groups is how they effectively exchange working towards gaining their masculine validation by strong men and quality women, to getting it from a group of lonely boys on the internet. Even if these guys were to actually have a chance with a woman, do they not realize how their entire future with her is contingent on her neve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menand they surely aren't picking personality. As they shouldn't. Personality isn't enough. Look guys, this isn't rocket science. It's not hard to figure out. When it comes to defending why men like age gaps and why men like young women, all of you are evolutionary science savants. But when it comes to figuring out why women don't want to fuck around with a guy who has nothing to offer but mediocre dick and a mid personality, all of a sudden, y'all want to act brand new to fucking Earth. And it's r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesNot necessarily, a lot of you guys act as though a date is meant to be an experience exclusively for the woman as though the guy isn't getting to enjoy a nice date too. If you aren't taking pleasure from your dates, you're doing it for the wrong reasons. My SO, for example, is someone who loves fine dining because it's something he genuinely enjoys - he's the kind of man who takes pleasure in the lifestyle he leads. He doesn't take *me* out to dinner, he takes *us* out to dinner. His spending po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesEnvy =/= describing sexually attractive men and their bodies + private parts in graphic detail, fantasizing about their sex lives and envisioning their naked bodies engaged in sexual acts. If you are regularly doing this, you may want to explore the possibility that you might be attracted to men too. And that's okay, but be authentic with yourself. Heterosexual people don't fantasize about people of the same sex that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesWell of course you'd feel this way, you wouldn't be able to keep up appearances. If anyone were selling pussy, you bet your ass it'd cost a whole lot more than a shared app, a drink and a plate of food. I understand that not everyone is in the financial place to view a casual dinner as just that, casual - but its honestly the norm for any working professional. You're not splashing cash on anyone with a basic dinner, and most women with a self-esteem aren't out here growing awkward over something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesThat's great! If it works for you then it works for you, but I'm letting you know that a solid dinner date is still very much a norm for a lot of men and a lot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesIt does not take a half mill to take someone out on a dinner date, Jesus Christ 😂 It's just a meal. Literally any working adult is capable of this. I take my girl friends out to dinner all the damn time. Unbunch the panties. And its okay, you don't have to take anyone out on a dinner date for the first date, but there are plenty others that will. It should bother you none, you got your low effort girl and you're winning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Are young men seen as less desirable than their female counterparts because society tends to equate youth with femeninity?that it is unfeasible to believe a man in their 20s is going to be physically fit, mentally strong, emotionally stoic, financially secure, socially connected, and sexually attractive This is very much feasible for a lot of men. It would blow your mind to learn that there are guys are all of these things *in* college. Look, you might be confusing your low social status with the norm. Because what you are actually communicating to me here is where you stand in the male social hierarchy, and its no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocrites$100 to many men is the equivalent of $4 beers. Not everyone has your same financial constraints :) It's just dinner, relax. It's not that deep. It's feasible to the majority of working adults. I've literally never had any issues landing a dinner date for the first date. You do you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesI'm sure she enjoyed going there, but also sure she didn't go out with guys who thought that pub was the best way to impress her on a first date. I like plenty of pubs and dives, but I'm not going there on a first date with a guy. Some women are cool with that, others have options. But this would be assuming either of us has proximity to Margot Robbie in the first place ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesAnd I think its great that you know you temper the expectations of your dates and what's realistic for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:26 AM |
| 7 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesSure, I mean, bisexuality is also something to consider. The point is, heterosexual men do not spend the amount of time and energy describing in graphic detail the sexualization of other men and I think that for the men on here who engage in that - which is a shit ton from my observation - then its something they should possibly consider. Like I said, there is a big difference between acknowledging that someone of your same sex is sexually attractive vs being sexually attracted to them. Those ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:18 AM |
| 8 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesYou see it that way because you're a heterosexual guy with limited interactions with homosexual men. As a woman who has had a lot of interactions with homosexual men, many of who were in the closet when I first met them, I don't see it this way at all because I witness an extremely familiar pattern. You have two different closeted gay guys IME: 1) Men who struggle with homosexual feelings tend to engage in a behavior that sabotages their potential romantic and sexual relationships with women. On… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:11 AM |
| – | Never lead with your career and money on your dating profile and first few datesThere's actually a wide variety of different titles for medical degrees, not just MDs. Many people get both at the same time MD/PhD. But you are right that I did get that wrong in the grand scheme of the comment....but it still doesn't really matter though. a) the area of study matters a great amount when it comes to earning potential b) not all PhDs stay in academia. it's not a matter of climbing the corporate ladder in the traditional sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:49 AM |
| 10 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesThe potential closeted homosexuality of a lot of the men here is definitely something to be discussed. I don't think all of the men here are gay, but I do think many of them struggle with homo/bisexuality and that's just my observation. If it doesn't apply to you, just move along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:27 AM |
| 4 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesBut I'm not doubling down or losing anything here. If you're not getting pussy, you're not talking to women, you're not dating women, you spend the majority of your time talking shit about women, but you love men, uphold men, and spend a good chunk of your time fantasizing about men in a sexual way......you might just be gay. And that's okay, Honey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:24 AM |
| – | Never lead with your career and money on your dating profile and first few datesYou do realize all medical doctors are PhDs, right? Like all things education related, the area of study matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:22 AM |
| 2 | I am convinced that many women treat men like kings to entice them into marriage and then expect them to be different after marriage and kidsBefore I answer, I have a serious question to ask: were you raised by a single mother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:41 PM |
| – | Never lead with your career and money on your dating profile and first few datesFirst question - are you even in this league of man or are you fantasizing about the advice you'd give men of your ilk if you were a rich, educated and successful man who's dating? Because I can promise you that every single man that actually is will not hesitate to use his career and financial advantages to secure the kind of woman he wants. All men, especially those with money and status, will not hesitate to use their resources to secure the type of woman they want, especially if they see the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:28 PM |
| 7 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesNo I wasn't. I was calling them gay because they're engaging in gay behavior. Now if you consider that offensive, you might be the one who has a bit of work to do on that ;) A gay person would most definitely agree that men who think about hot men and their dicks all day is probably gay too lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Are young men seen as less desirable than their female counterparts because society tends to equate youth with femeninity?Then shut up. If you don't fuck men then you don't know the kind of dick women take. Nothing in this world compares the diamond dick and endless stamina of a man in his mid to late 20s. Nothing. Also, fucking laughable that you're out here effectively comparing yourself to pro athletes who are quite frankly the absolute exception to the rule in men's physical appearances and ability - especially when you consider HOW MUCH OF AN EXCEPTION all of the men you just listed are in their own profession… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:20 PM |
| 5 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesBut I'm not using it as an insult, I'm using it to describe men that fantasize about good looking men, their bodies, their penises and spend lots of time envisioning them fucking. That's gay. That's quite literally homosexual behavior. It's not a bad thing, it is what it is. Straight men don't spend that much time and energy fantasizing about other men in a sexual way lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:01 PM |
| 8 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesI dont know of a single gay man who would argue that thinking about hot men and their bodies in a sexual way is homophobic, I mean that's kind of the tell that gay men use to identify the fact that they are, in fact, gay. And I know plenty of gay dudes. If this describe you, then it shouldn't bother you this much. But if you're spending lots of time fantasizing about Chad and what he looks like...I got news for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:58 PM |
| 11 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesIt's easier to never date women and give themselves the excuse that the manosphere gives them to justify this than it is to maybe come to grips with the realization that they don't like women. I mean, even *if* many of these incels or red pillers managed to finally find a woman who is sexually and romantically interested in them, they probably wouldn't go for it or if they did, sabotage themselves somehow. Their allegiance to other men is telling. Moreover, there's a difference between finding p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesIts honestly not misandry to suggest that you might be struggling with homosexuality if you don't like women and spend a lot of your time envisioning beautiful men engaging in sexual activities. I'm a straight woman and I want you to take a wild guess and how much energy I waste on envisioning the perfect sexually attractive woman to men in great graphic detail, down to her genitals, and discuss what her hypothetical sex life looks like and who she fucks and in what amount? Zero. Do you know why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:51 PM |
| 6 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesFor suggesting that men who hyperfocus on sexy men and their dicks sound gay? Do you know what gay is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:45 PM |
| 8 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesThere's a big difference between acknowledging that someone of the same sex is sexually attractive, and being sexually attracted to them. What I'm describing is not simply finding someone of the same sex attractive, its being sexually attracted *to* them. I can personally find women extremely beautiful, hot, even sexy, but I'm not imagining them engaging in sexual activities with others and going into great detail describing the tits, ass and pussy of my hypothetical dream girl. Guess what it wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Are young men seen as less desirable than their female counterparts because society tends to equate youth with femeninity?Do you fuck men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesnobody should be shelling out $ in that circumstance Except plenty of men do. As someone who has done the cheap dates and has done the nice dinner dates, the only relationships that I've had actually work out started out with a great date and cost some money. Coffee date guys tend to go nowhere and its usually because they're just not as interested. A lot of them are also stuck on the rotating door of first dates that go nowhere. There's nothing in this world than men respect more than their own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winit’s that a lot of guys want to be treated like they’re elite It's because they're telling on themselves. They navigate the world with an extreme degree of greed and superficiality and assume others are doing the same. The thing is, it is extremely easy to be superficial and greedy. It is so so so so easy to be those things. What is extremely difficult is having the ability to live up to your own superficiality and greed - it is very difficult to be the type of person that you need to be in orde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:54 PM |
| 8 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winIt's not really even hypergamy, because the fact is that men refuse to acknowledge that we are ultimately creatures in the animal kingdom and the person with a pussy and a uterus has the most to risk when it comes to dating, and if she's going to be smart about how she's using her body parts, she's not going to settle for an ugly broke loser. Why? Because potentially getting knocked up by an ugly broke loser is quite possibly the stupidest and most irresponsible thing a woman can do to herself a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winProbably. If you had a daughter, would you want her getting knocked up by you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:46 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.I've lived a life outside of the internet where socializing was a thing and the majority of men I've been around since my 20s has been dating and fucking. They were of all different heights, weights, sizes, races and ethnic backgrounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:44 PM |
| 11 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesNo, its because I know lots of gay men and....well, this is what they sound like. Sorry if this is striking a chord, but if you prefer men's company, think men are superior and spend most of your time fixated on sexually attractive men and what they do with their dicks, I would like for you to consider the possibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Are young men seen as less desirable than their female counterparts because society tends to equate youth with femeninity?Women are going to fantasize about big fat dick drilling the back of their pussy like it's about to strike oil. Know who's got the strength and diamond-hard dick to achieve that? It ain't the 40 year old, at least not without a heroic dose of Viagra. Women aren't rubbing their pussy to the idea of a man's bank account, go outside and learn to make a woman's leg shake for once in your life before you say something this stupid ever again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:31 PM |
| 8 | Are young men seen as less desirable than their female counterparts because society tends to equate youth with femeninity?A lot of guys here do because they don't really get it - if you weren't hot in your physical and sexual peak as a man (which is your mid to late 20s), there is no magical "get hot" switch that flips on the eve of your 35th birthday like you're some sort of Cinderella story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:30 PM |
| 12 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesNo...it goes beyond that. The only other groups I've personally encountered that describes sexually attractive men and what they look and fuck like in extreme detail has been groups of gay men and groups of cougars. In other words - people who are sexually atrracted to men. It's the depth and degree of detail that honestly leads me to believe there's a lot of repressed homosexuality on here. And they are so fixated on this very specific, hyper-masculine cartoon that they refuse to believe anyone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:27 PM |
| 6 | The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP.Okay, well, who is on the internet centering people of the opposite sex while simultaneously crying about not being wanted by them like some sort of crybaby ass bitch and who's living their lives and telling you to stop being a fucking weirdo about women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:16 PM |
| 16 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesIt's misandry....and some kind of internalized issues with homosexuality. I have never in my life encountered a subset of self-proclaimed straight men who are this obsessed with sexually attractive men and what they do with their dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:06 PM |
| 29 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesAll of this, absolutely. They get angry at a woman hypothetically sleeping with a hot guy faster, meanwhile, women have to contend with the realization that the same man will treat a women differently from the moment they meet them til the rest of their lives together based on her social status and/or beauty. On one hand, I think a lot of men are extremely quick to identify that sexual attraction and a woman's social status makes a difference in how he treats her. The same guy who takes his aver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:05 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?His being physically attractive isn't enough though. He has to fuck outrageously well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:15 PM |
| 3 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?You first have to realize that your idea of "most" is indicative of where you stand in the pecking order - I would honestly argue that ever since I was in my 20s, most men that I knew where either actively dating, had a girlfriend or were married. If you're under the impression men in your age group are struggling as much as you are, you are telling on yourself and on your low status. I think a lot of men have mistakenly considered their online communities as indicative of what real life social … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:09 PM |
| 4 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?and standards for men haven't changed In fact, I'll take it one step further. The standards and expectations of men have dropped and the feminst agenda made women absorb the brunt of them, put a bow on them and called it "empowerment". Empowerment for men's audacity, maybe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:30 PM |
| 3 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?There's a lot that is pushed by the feminist agenda that I don't align with, believe, and that quite frankly, I find detrimental....particularly TO women. I do not believe that feminism is about equality because the two genders will never be equal to each other - they complement each other, what one has the other lacks. To me, feminism is about freeing women from patriarchal oppression, which is a very different animal altogether. But to put it simply? Baby Momma culture is for fucking morons an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Do women value earning potential over intelligence and/or morality/ethical values?It's not or the other. There are lots of men with great earning potential who have great moral character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:06 PM |
| 2 | The best self-improvement for a man is finding a girlfriendIf women were truly this magical and wondrous at solving all of men's mental health, self-esteem and ambition issues, why the fuck do so many of you complain about having to pay for dates? On the contrary, if we're this powerful, there needs to be a literal worship of women. If my coochie can cure a loser of his depression and motivate him to get off his ass, go to college and become a six figure earner, I deserve hardcore financial compensation! Every woman does. Hey ladies, should we be chargi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:43 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women would be best suited in a society where women who the ones approaching men for relationships.No, the onus of courtship is on the male of literally every primate in the animal kingdom and it's for good reason - weak genes delivered by weak males should not be passed down and having the courage to approach a female in the first place is a sign of strength, bravery and socialization skills. In other words, when it comes to doing it like they do on the Discovery Channel, women make it very clear and very simple: cowards, weak men and social rejects needs not apply. This is the rule across t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:29 PM |
| – | Why is redpill mostly full of men?Whereas for woman very few would accept the fact that men are biologically attracted to skinnier woman Social, not biological. In countries with the highest birth rates, overweight and downright fat women are preferred. It's fine if most men in Western countries prefer thinner women, but just realize that to call it a biological preference would be wrong. But so is height. Height isn't an intrinsic biological preference for women, it's most definitely social. If it were a biological preference, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Muscle is cheap, and in 2023 women value genuinely rare immutable traits, such as height and faceI feel like so many of you are insistent on figuring out women's sexuality like some kind of rubik's cube because you've yet to truly come to terms with the fact that women are sexual and social creatures - aka people - with different tastes, standards and desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youA girl with no control will hook up with you on the first date...or a girl who just doesn't see you as long-term potential. I've been on plenty of first dates with very attractive men, I'm not sleeping with them the first time I meet them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:41 PM |
| 4 | The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girlsNo, we hate it because we know it's creepy and predatory. We've been the young woman pursued by much older men, we've been friends with those women when we were young, after all. The thing I find interesting about these types of convos is how so many men come at from this perspective as though they're winning when....no beloved, I'm sorry to be the one to inform you but there's a very high likelihood that you are getting used UNLESS you happen to be leagues above your peers in looks, sexual prow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Many women, by believing in "their worth", believe unattractive men aren't worthy enough, which is kind of a contradictionBut that's the point you're missing - they DO have self-worth and value just by existing. And when it comes to taking on a male partner, he DOESN'T have value to her just by existing. Just because *you* might be okay with a warm body existing near you as long as there's a hole for you to fuck does not mean that everyone has such a low standard for partnership. Existing and being present is not enough. Yes, seems very redpill but it's true, women live life on easy mode when it comes to sex and da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.Handsome faces and strong arms are yum! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 11:11 PM |
| 22 | Many women, by believing in "their worth", believe unattractive men aren't worthy enough, which is kind of a contradictionNo, you've got it twisted. Their worth isn't determined by a man, period. It is difficult for you to understand this concept because of how much you center women, sex and relationships in your life. What you're having a difficult time with here is the realization that average women - at least the women you consider average - do not seem to center men, sex and relationships to the point where they're willing to date and be relationships with men for the sake of it. That's the thing, that's the st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | If you were to move in with a guy that makes significantly more than you, would you be okay with splitting household expenses roughly 50/50?No, I'm with you. I was down to go 50/50 with my partner who earns me by a significant amount, and he just about clutched his pearls at the suggestion. He knows my money won't make a big impact on our lifestyle so he handles most expenses because they're genuinely very small expenses to him percentage wise. When he explained he'd rather see me put my money into my 401k where it will have a bigger impact on our future, that's honestly when I realized he truly had long-term, life-long intentions w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | If you were to move in with a guy that makes significantly more than you, would you be okay with splitting household expenses roughly 50/50?This is kind of the situation I'm in now - He outearns me significantly and he covers certain things like rent, vacations and outings because the cost of these things is significantly less for him percentage wise than it is for me. I take care of groceries, I sneak my credit card at the bar or restaurant that we're at every once in a while, and I pitch in on utilities (I take care of all streaming services, for example). For reference, I'm at $80k, he's at $220k. I offered to go 50/50 on rent be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:30 PM |
| – | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieActually, I said that dating men who are good looking and have resources makes sense because nobody's trying to have an ugly man's baby and that guy interjected with "it's better if the father is present" as though it had anything to do with what I even said in the first place. I did say that the only thing worse than an absent father is a weak one but if someone wants to keep arguing to hear their own voice, I'll let them have it. Everyone wants to complain about single mothers and fuckboys whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | How often do women dote on/serve you?And to think, food and sex is still getting me taken care of and loved while you have to financially support and man and clean his house. Does that make you, what, mad? Jealous? You know nothing about me and I'm not interested in defending myself or my relationship to you, bukakemaid just know that even *if* all I had to offer was love, sex and delicious home made meals, there are plenty of men with lots to offer who would find that more than enough of my end, and STILL give me the love and resp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 01:11 PM |
| – | Men, do you actually reject women for this reason?It depends on their age and what you mean by sexual history. I'm 36, I've dated in my 20s and in my 30s and if I'm going to be blunt, I've only had two people express a serious concern over my "body count" over the age of like, 26 I would say..... and coincidentally, one had the smallest penis out of all my sexual partners and the other was the worst in bed. I do associate that kind of question or concern with major insecurities in the bedroom, I think most women do because they've had similar e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:58 AM |
| – | The problem with a lot of the tropes that dominate this sub is that few here can separate results from lifestyle.Yeah the degree and detail n which I see men on here describing sexually attractive men is comparable only to gay forums/circles. I'm not even kidding, they've described Chad so often and in such great detail that I have a very defined image in my head of what this individual looks like, but the ideal woman according to this sub is a hazy blur, at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:41 AM |
| 0 | How often do women dote on/serve you?I'm just saying, you're out here calling women bangmaids while simultaneously admitting to working full time, financially supporting a man and doing the majority of the cleaning (and...apparently, fixing household appliances too). You can keep that honey, nobody wants what you got lol. If I'm a bangmaid because I cook lunches and dinner, you're a whole bukakemaid with what you're willing to tolerate just to say you're not single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:28 AM |
| -1 | How often do women dote on/serve you?You wrote an entire dissertation on the importance of having your own career and not succumbing to the evils of being a houswife (which I agree with and literally nothing I wrote indicated that I supported not having your own income and career, but I digress) only to admit that you're the one cleaning up after your man because apparently, he can't be damned to drag a wet rag across a surface. So....by your own definition, a bangmaid, am I right? One that's out here working and supporting her man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 02:04 AM |
| – | The problem with a lot of the tropes that dominate this sub is that few here can separate results from lifestyle.Right, but that's the thing I keep seeing on here regularly. Even if you present these guys with realistic options, the fact that they have to be realistic is the issue. If I have to be blunt, I do feel like a major factor in the redpill/incel community is repressed homosexuality because I have honestly never encountered a group of men so obsessed with other men's physical appearances and sexuality while simultaneously finding every reason and excuse in the book for not pursuing women realistica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:58 AM |
| -1 | How often do women dote on/serve you?Cool, so you're out here calling women bangmaids while being one yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:49 AM |
| – | The problem with a lot of the tropes that dominate this sub is that few here can separate results from lifestyle.Absolutely all of this. And even when you to try to break it down in a way to give these guys hope, they will fight against it. "Here's a list of short celebrities that women go crazy for" is usually retorted with "THEY HAVE STATUS AND THEY'RE RICHT THATS Y WIMMIN LOVE THEM" as though the gift of status and wealth was awarded to short men on the regular for the sake of it. It's like okay, pick an argument here. Are short men not attractive to women to the point where anyone under 6 ft needs to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:42 AM |
| – | The problem with a lot of the tropes that dominate this sub is that few here can separate results from lifestyle.Look, it's a lot of people telling on themselves. If you are under the impression that you have to be this six foot, six pack'ed, six figure'd anomaly of a human being in order to date, you are actually saying a lot about yourself without realizing that you're doing it. You have to suck so fucking much for your takeaway of dating to be "I have to magically transform into Henry Cavill's long lost twin in order to date". Like I cannot stress enough how awful you have to be if this is your takeaway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areFirst - I wouldn't raise a drug dealer loser son because I wouldn't have a baby with someone who'd produce that kind of shit genetics or provide me with that type of poor economic conditions that would result in a drug dealer son first place. But if I did, I know for a fact that the attractive drug dealer son is most likely going to leave behind a slew of baby mommas who probably didn't have good father figures to teach them what a solid man looked like that relied on his good looks and exciting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?The 3 biggest dicks I've ever fucked (8"+) belonged to men of Italian descent with a full head of hair. They stand out because their members were so freakishly.....huge. Its like the difference between 6 and 7 inches is decent but the jump from 7 - 8+ is outrageous. Primarily because penises in the 8"+ category also tend to have massive girth where as guys in the 6/7 inch category can be a crapshoot in that department. Anyway, yeah, all 3 had very full heads of hair. They weren't particularly ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:29 PM |
| 3 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenTHAT part. I knew 18 year olds who dated 30 something year old guys - it was very clear to everyone around us that he was getting used financially lol. A lot of guys over here like to defend this as though it makes them some big manly man to date an 18 year old woman when she's likely using you for your wallet and lifestyle, as she's using another 18-21 year old guy for his dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:42 PM |
| 3 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenHe doesn't want to hang out with men her age and here's another thing he's not going to tell you - he's not going to want *her* hanging around men her own age, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenIf you don't have papa's validation of you as a man, chances are she's not going to be sucking you off much longer lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:39 PM |
| 3 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenTruth is that, outside of forums like this, most people do not care as much. Yeah they do lol. Look, when I was 18, I had a bunch of men in their 30s approaching me and my friends. A few of them took those guys and their wallets for a ride. Suddenly, I'm 30 and I don't know of a single 30 year old guy that's openly dating an 18 year old. Do you know why? Because men in their 30s typically hide the fact that they're dating an 18 year old from their peers at large because they'll get socially ostr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:37 PM |
| 0 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they aremen complain about women's standards because they don't have a pussy nor a uterus and run the risk of pregnancy. If they were to get pregnant, you bet your ass that refusing to fuck ugly broke dude suddenly starts to make a whole lot more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:26 PM |
| – | CMV People that dont have real life Experience/functioning Social Life should not talk about Dating Strategy, it is just annoying how deluded those takes are.A really hot young guy who makes average money has higher chances of getting a low bodycount loyal hot girl if he wants family and kids, quite simply because he can get to her far earlier. The soccer player can probably bang more instathots, but he will be stuck with gold diggers and clout chasers most likely *Lionel Messi enters the chat* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:07 PM |
| – | CMV People that dont have real life Experience/functioning Social Life should not talk about Dating Strategy, it is just annoying how deluded those takes are.You can have no real life experience and still talk accurately about dating strategy. No, you really can't lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:06 PM |
| – | CMV People that dont have real life Experience/functioning Social Life should not talk about Dating Strategy, it is just annoying how deluded those takes are.A lot of men aren't that interested in dating and just looking for excuses to not to do that. Because a lot of them are gay lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:05 PM |
| – | CMV People that dont have real life Experience/functioning Social Life should not talk about Dating Strategy, it is just annoying how deluded those takes are.I think that a lot of the men you're talking about struggle with homosexuality and joining the redpill/incel/manosphere gives them plenty of excuses to not actually go out there and date women. For a group that centers women as much as it does, I've never seen a group of supposedly straight men as fixated on conventionally hot guys and their sexual activities. Legit, the only groups I've seen that talk about hot guys and their dicks as much as they do have been gay men. I have never - and I mean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areYes, that is in fact, the definition of unconventionally attractive lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areGood looks are a valuable gene to pass down to children. Rich guys choose hot women to birth their kids for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areGood looks are a valuable gene to pass down to children. Rich guys choose hot women to birth their kids for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieWith the inflation, I seriously wonder how can an average family survive on one income? They can't be average. But to be fair, needing to earn over $100k for a SAHM with children and affording all of the costs associated with raising them, PLUS savings, PLUS having enough for a decent lifestyle and a family vacation once a year has been the default for over 10 years now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:59 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieI have to believe they’re essentially comparing housewives to deadbeat or disabled husbands. They are. Literally just yesterday, someone tried to argue with me that a father's presence is the most important thing to a child. The gift of his presence is enough. After much back and forth, I asked if he believes the presence of a mother is enough. Of course, he didn't directly answer the quiestion and went on a tirade on how I apparently hate fathers who aren't superheroes. No, I just grew up with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areI would argue that making sure your offspring is left with good genes and raised in an economic environment that helps them thrive is anything but transactional, but go off lol. If you had a pussy, you wouldn't be using it to fuck ugly broke men either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areIs it really transactional to not want to be left stuck with an ugly broke dude's baby? REALLY? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyThe same thing that happens with a lot of custody issues already will just happen on a grandscale - Grandma will come in and replace Daddy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyArtificial wombs sound like a great deal to me, tbh. Maybe there will be better laws surrounding abortion and reproductive rights once men are finally responsible for the pre-natal care, birth and life-long care of a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:35 PM |
| -1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceThen what's your verdict? Do you agree, you don't have to be outrageously good looking to have a successful, long lasting relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:32 PM |
| -4 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceI'm perfectly aware of this, I'm just pointing out to the incels here how their own talking points make absolutely no fucking sense. Hence the whole Shooting yourselves in the foot with that one, tbh But also? Considering the state of marriage and the amount of women who end up (rightfully) divorcing due to the serious inequity with emotional and domestic labor, I would actually argue there's a seriously high percentage of women who are still sexually and reproductively enslaved/subjugated the i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:31 PM |
| -2 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceAnd if you don't agree with what I've said about potentially being so outrageously insufferable, unlikeable and utterly incapable of providing anyone with a nice relationship that the only way someone would overlook these qualities in you is if you happened be outrageously good looking - then you agree. Looks aren't the end all be all of what makes a person attractive and what keeps people in a relationship with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:26 PM |
| 2 | How often do women dote on/serve you?This is most definitely cultural. I am Latina, and much like you, I tend to dote on my man. It's one of the perks of being with me, I will treat my man in a way that I will never treat other men. I cook for him, because I love him. And why do I handle most of the cooking? Because he provides, he takes care of me and does amazing things for me. Also? I'm a much better cook than him. Honestly, the way he acted when I first started doing this was hilarious to me, he had never had a woman really exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceThen pick a struggle my friend, because marriage was one of the few ways of assigning a woman to every individual man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areMen over 6ft tall earn more money and hold higher positions of power in both business and government despite being a minority of the male population. Do you know who awards tall men with these accolades? Other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areI've said it before - men complain about women's standards because they don't have a pussy nor a uterus and run the risk of pregnancy. If they were to get pregnant, you bet your ass that refusing to fuck ugly broke dude suddenly starts to make a whole lot more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areWomen date all varieties of men, the big issue I think most men do not comprehend is that women will aim for someone cool over someone conventionally hot 9 times out 10, and a lot of times, they don't understand what is so attractive about the cool guy because they themselves are completely lost on what cool is in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?Literally no, I hopped over right now and saw a variety of topics - yes, some were men, but other situations had to do with health care, making friends, women's/girl's clothing. This sub shows how much more men center women than women have ever centered men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:45 PM |
| 3 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceI think the fact that you guys have such limited experience with dating grows more and more obvious, because I can promise you that the most attractive person starts to grow unattractive after a while if the relationship itself sucks. A person who may not have been as attractive to you in the beginning grows more and more attractive to you as the relationship grows. I think guys like you tell on yourself. You know you are utterly insufferable, unlikeable, and unlikely to provide anyone with a go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:30 PM |
| -1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceAnd yet, marriage was one of the few ways that women were distributed proportionally amongst men so that the supposed 80/20 rule doesn't apply. Shooting yourselves in the foot with that one, tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:22 PM |
| 8 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?Beloved, I'll believe that the day I start seeing women talking about getting men involved in some kind of sexual slavery which is effectively a topic I've seen get brought up on here more than once by different people. Literally every. single. post. talks shit about women. Every single one. It centers women to an abnormal degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?the sad part is, the majority of emasculation is being done by these guys themselves :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?And do you consider just being present and talking to kids enough for a mother figure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:48 AM |
| 19 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?It started out as morbid curiousity and then I realized that this isn't even a place in which to debate red pill vs blue pill, its a place that centers women in sex and dating in the worst possible light. And if I can argue against misogyny, I happily will and I happily would. Someone has to remind these guys that nobody's self-made, masculine, strong-as-a-bull daddy is going to think a whiny crybaby who complains about women all day on the internet is some kind of alpha lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?Being so useless that you're under the impression your presence is enough goes well beyond imperfect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?Sure, because in the majority of those statistics, dad handles business. He works, he takes care of his kids, he shows them what a good man looks and acts like. The only thing worse than not having a solid father figure is having a weak one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?And sticking around isn't enough either. What's the point of a father figure if all he can do is teach his kids what a weak man who believes his presence is enough of a gift looks like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?A dad that can't contribute jack shit to his kid outside of his presence isn't a prize. We do not celebrate fish for swimming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:02 AM |
| -1 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?Being superficial to some degree is fine. No one wants to pass down ugly genes to their kid. If you have the option to pass down decent or good looking genes to your kids, you should. It's a priceless tool they will be inheriting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?It's too high and superficial according to a lot of men here because they don't have a pussy or a uterus and dating/fucking doesn't come with the risks of childbirth associated with it. Trust me, when the potential of connecting with someone means potentially getting your pussy and life blown to smithereens based on accidentally getting pregnant by the wrong guy, shit changes. There's a big reason why you're seeing lots of single mothers - women have been effectively shamed out of having standar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:23 PM |
| 6 | Do women value earning potential over intelligence and/or morality/ethical values?Good looks and income. Two traits that would be extremely beneficial to a baby if you were to have one with a man. Everyone wants to pass down good looking genes to their children, its one of the main reasons why you see millionaires/billionaires with beautiful women. That part is a no-brainer. Successful is a no-brainer as well. Having a baby with a broke man is probably one of the stupidest things you, as a woman, could do to yourself and that baby. I personally aim for intelligence and kindne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Do women value earning potential over intelligence and/or morality/ethical values?For me, personally, intelligence is at the top of my list. Intelligence and a good income/earning potential tend to go hand in hand. For a while, I was dating to have a family and I'll tell you one thing - you weren't going to catch me getting my pussy shredded and my entire life blown to smithereens pushing out some stupid broke guy's fat-headed baby. And if y'all had a pussy and a uterus, you would do the same if you were smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | The Stat "80% of Women Match with 20% of Men" isn't because of female hypergamy. It's because of the skewed gender ratio.Whenever I hear men parrot that "rule", I can't help but then be like "welp, looks like I've been living my entire adult life surrounded by what is apparently, the top 20% of men" because never in my adult life have I had a man in my proximity - whether it's through friends, business, work, or general existence in a functional social environment - that was not actively dating or had a spouse/girlfriend. Incels of the internet - please, please, please realize that your world is a far deeper and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 08:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It’s not misogynistic or controlling for men to expect/ask the women they date or marry to not dress like they are still singleYour biggest mistake is assuming that there's such a thing as "dressing single". If you don't like a partner who wears revealing clothing, don't date a partner that wears revealing clothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 07:46 PM |
| 3 | I feel a large part of the problem with dating is extroverts and a lack of social unity and connection.Yeah, who knew that individuals that are innately better at communication and connecting with people would be considered valuable by said community of people. You guys really love acting as though you snuck into Earth and are busy walking around in a human costume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 05:03 PM |
| 0 | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.I agree with you - a lot of the men on here refuse to admit this because it's unfortunately very telling of their failures, but if you were to time travel just 15 years ago and let them know that as a man, you can meet a pretty stranger off the internet and after just a few conversations, you can meet for coffee and call that a date. They would not believe you. A lot of men simply do not understand how *easy* it is for them today in comparison to how it was only 10, 15, 20 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.Date us or we'll strip you of your rights as a means of engaging in mass sexual slavery. That's the thinly veiled warning u/Yuruyakatou and men who think like him are delivering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 04:56 PM |
| 5 | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.Lol the men in this sub are this close to finally saying the quiet part out loud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 04:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: People do not want to date easily available people. Average men can't easily get average women, but average women can easily get average men.Welcome to basic biology, where it is of the upmost importance for the female to mate, but every male has to work and prove his worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 10:14 PM |
| -3 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?You're 100% right, you will die alone. With a washed ass, but alone. No hope for you. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 03:26 PM |
| -4 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?But it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 02:24 PM |
| -1 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?No. No they're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 02:10 PM |
| 5 | CMV : A lot of men feel like a date went really well when it didn’t. They made a friend.You can pay for it. It's valuable enough that men pay into the hundreds - if not thousands - for NSA sex. If its *that* important to you, go get yourself a sex worker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:54 PM |
| – | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?No, because she's still with him despite him never calling her pretty or looking at her with any lust. On the contrary, more evidence in which to call her insecure, because she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:16 PM |
| 3 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?My brothers in Christ, women are getting together with adult men and having to teach them how to wipe and wash their ass. I repeat: women are getting together with adult men and having to teach them how to wipe and wash their ass. Enough said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averagelmao but they don't, all of those relationships ran their course and ended for one reason or another, mostly due to them and their issues if I have to be honest. I would still date my SO if he weren't 6'1 and happened to be 5'7 because I actually like, love him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averageHe's 6'1 :) My SO before that was about 5'9/5'10. One before that was about 5'7. The majority of men I've dated have not been over 6ft, but you can try again! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:04 PM |
| 7 | Yea it's true that wealthy men tend to marry wealthy women but this has nothing to do with attractionWomen are capable of finding men of all backgrounds attractive, whether or not they're willing to build with them is a different story. Women having higher standards for marriage and partnership than men is not women's problem. When women DO drop their financial standards to date a broke guy who gets her pregnant and ends up ditching her, the same group of men that's whining and complaining about not being treated like a pretty pretty princess is quick to laugh at this woman, tell her how single… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:05 PM |
| 6 | CMV : Refusing to change to attract women out of some sort of principle is only holding you back and not proving a thing to anybodyRight, the thing I find most fascinating is that this is clearly an obvious take...but doing personal work is really hard. Coming to terms with the fact that you may be struggling due to having adopted some extremely bad habits is a tough thing to undo. What a lot of men think is their authentic self can actually just be the result of depression. You have no idea how many guys I've come across who insist that being this hunched slob who showers 2x a week with a messy room, twin mattress on the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?*Men in general* can be unattractive because of their personality and a slew of other things beloved, this sub and plenty others are filled to the brim with tall or taller than average men who are complaining about being single, so trust me, being tall is hardly the bandaid you're making it out to be. If you suck, or if you're a little bitch, you're going to have a hard time. Period. And no, I won't deny anything. Tall men are hot. I have eyeballs and ovaries that produce estrogen that influence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Well tbh, the shorter man is likely being rejected for a slew of other things, not just because he's not tall. Women are not like men where physical attributes are an absolute MUST - at least not for normal women with half a brain who are seeking a genuine connection. For example, the hottest guy I ever dated wasn't over 6 feet tall. He was 5'10 and absolutely fucking stunning. Big blue eyes, beautiful face, amazing body. Oof, those arms! He had no shortage of women who wanted him. I had another… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Yes, tall guys are hot. Same as women who are thin and in shape are largely considered hot. COPE. And of course I'm going to be rude about crybaby ass men who hinge so much of their supposed ideology on life on this perceived idea of masculinity while navigating the world acting like complete bitches. It's shameful and honestly, downright laughable. I said what I said - if you, as a sub 6ft man, struggle to date it does not have much to do with your height as much as it has to do with the fact t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 04:08 PM |
| 7 | The age gap in relationships is fine and should not be demonized.Right, and most men well into adulthood who choose 18 year olds are only doing so because aiming younger would be illegal. That's why it gets called creepy. Because it is. As an adult man, you can't be out here dating barely legal teenagers and whining about how people find you creepy. Pick a struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 03:33 PM |
| 2 | The age gap in relationships is fine and should not be demonized.No, women of older ages get together with men 10 years older than them all the time - once you're in an older age group, that age gap doesn't feel like much. But when you're in your 20s, that 10 year gap is massive. And honestly unsightly. I remember being in my 20s and laughing at the 30 year olds who wanted to hit on me, as though I didn't have hot 20 somethings in their physical primes to choose from lol. It was just creepy. Men love to engage in creepy behavior and then sulk at everyone side… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Why are you so sad that you're not treated like a woman? Isn't the whole point of redpill and all of these manosphere spaces, to talk about men's superiority? Yet most of you spend your days on the internet crying endlessly about how you're not treated like a princess. What exactly is so fucking alpha about that kind of bitch ass behavior? Like a woman. I mean, how do you not see the sheer patheticness behind that? How do you not realize how awfully feminine that is of you, as a man? Like, I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 03:16 PM |
| 3 | The dinner club. Do you think it’s real on daring apps or imagined by salty people. If real, do you think it’s fair play or foul play.I mean, not if you're a sex worker. Which a Sugar Baby effectively is. This is the half-lie that she told OP, she was also busy scouting for Johns and other Sugar Daddies lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 02:49 PM |
| 2 | The dinner club. Do you think it’s real on daring apps or imagined by salty people. If real, do you think it’s fair play or foul play.Right and she was also a sugar baby so hustling men for goods in exchange for the promise of sex or her presence is accurate lol. This is what we call sex work. And I'm lmao at the fact that you actually believed her, she was scouting for other Johns, my dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | The dinner club. Do you think it’s real on daring apps or imagined by salty people. If real, do you think it’s fair play or foul play.Yes, but amongst very young women who have a tendency to be broke. If you're in the habit of consistently dating women in community college as a 30 something year old man, please realize that you are likely not her top option unless you happen to be an extremely attractive guy and she's likely using you to some capacity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 02:44 PM |
| – | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?I'm sorry that your reading comprehension failed you beloved, I'm not suggesting that men don't care about weight - some do, some don't, I don't really give a shit. The point remains that when I say curvy, I am literally talking about women's waist to hip ratio - you know, THE CURVE? There's no man hating to be had, I have a man that I love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 02:05 PM |
| -1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?That stick would be my 6ft tall boyfriend's giant cock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averageNo, I'm very much aware of how the world works. I've seen plenty of 5'8 men with pretty thin girlfriends, but do you know what they weren't (outside of tall)? . They weren't losers crying on the internet about being lonely, they were fun, outgoing, sociable men who knew how to connect with women as people. My love, please realize that as of right now, you're considered the muddy end of the gene pool. Do you think that as you are right now, even if you managed to hit 6 ft, that a thin, attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Women come up with all kinds of shit because they're still under the impression they can't truly express their sexual desires without being shamed for it, as evidenced here by the amount of redpill men who are in an absolute emotional meltdown over it. Tall guys are the hottest, but men with attractive faces and hot bodies who are under 6ft are hot as fuck too. Also, this just tells me how pathetically out of touch you are with women, because not only do women objectify a variety of men of diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Yeah, hot ones. While tall men are typically the hottest, no one in her right mind is turning down a 5'10 hottie with a hot body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?No, you got called out on being an emotional wreck over women you deem them unworthy of love for not being attractive to you having the audacity to both find love while you're out here, lonely as fuck, and simultenously over you not fitting what *you* personally happen to believe women find attractive. Again, it's pathetic how redpill men make it so glaringly obvious they've been utterly failed by the men around them in how to be even be a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?And I guarantee you still like a waistline in in those skinny women. The hip to waist ratio being the one beauty standard women are held to on a wordl wide level has been studied over and over and over and over. It has nothing to do with weight, height, skin color - its all about the ratio between the hip and the waistline. Skinny =/= not curvy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?This just tells me how pathetically out of touch you are with women, because not only do women objectify a variety of men of different heights, sizes, and shapes - but the fact that UGLY HOT amongst women is even a thing shows that women like variation too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?No, I very much guarantee that a woman who comes crying because her boyfriend had the audacity to call Margot Robbie hot in front of her will be laughed at and called insecure, because it is and she is lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Right, and nobody with a5'3 mother and a 5'6 father isn't going to magically sprout into a 6'4 frame just because he slept good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?My love, I present to you the billion dollar cosmetic and plastic surgery industries that are aimed primarily at women - what universe are you living in where you're under some impression that women are not held to insane beauty standards? What universe do you live in where women who do not fit the existing beauty standard aren't consistenly trashed? Because I've been on Reddit, and every single day that I am here I see some crybaby ass bitch whining about fat women and how disgusting they are f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Okay, and? I like getting fucked lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?I'll say whatever I fucking want. Fuck her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Also height LITERALLY changes the shape of the body lmao, it makes it bigger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Are you gay? Do you fuck men? No? Then stop trying to act like you have an idea of what is even considered sexually attractive in men, by women. You just don't like realizing that it's the same fucking thing. Tall men are hot to women similar to how curvy women are hot to men. Sure, shorter guys with fit bodies can also have great figures. Height in and of itself makes a man's body more attractive to women. His limbs are longer, his hands and feet are bigger, his torso is longer. It's just fucki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Are you brand new to Earth or something? Nobody is 6'4 because they sleep good LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Height in and of itself is attractive, along with the body type that is typical to tall men. That's a lot like saying "the thing about the curves issue for me is that it has no bearing on looks as there are good lookers who aren't curvy. It's just how far out their ass and tits grew". Again, you all cannot cope with the reality that women have eyeballs and have a set of beauty standards for men that you may not embody, and I think that's honestly a lot more telling of the comparisons *you* make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averageNot sucking and being cool helps a shit ton, too. Actually, I will argue that being cool trumps most things. The cool guy will get the girl in ways that leaves most straight men who don't understand what's cool about being cool absolutely baffled. I feel like men who constantly whine about needing to be 6ft tall and needing to earn six figures in order to date are inadvertently telling on themselves - they're saying they are so utterly unlikable and insufferable that the only way they can secure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?It matters in the way that as a man, you can lust over a porn star or a celebrity woman that is the ideal physical beauty but who you end up dating and loving doesn't necessarily have to look anywhere NEAR that. Like, men know this difference, at least most men get it - their girlfriend or wife will most likely NOT look like Margot Robbie. She most likely won't have the figure of Scarlett Johansson. Most well adjusted men For example, my current SO is 6'1. He happens to be tall. But my SO before… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:58 PM |
| – | As a short dude, I completely understand women's pickiness for height.All men understand women's preference for tall men. After all, they're the ones who reward tall men with the highest salaries and positions of power, both in business and politically, despite being such a small percentage of the American male population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:28 PM |
| – | As a short dude, I completely understand women's pickiness for height.All men understand women's preference for tall men. After all, they're the ones who reward tall men with the highest salaries and positions of power, both in business and politically, despite being such a small percentage of the American male population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Which masculine stereotypes? Not the ones where the man is the provider. Not the ones where the man is the protector. Not the ones where the man love and respects his wife and works hard for his family. If fatherless women (and men) had THAT stereotypical masculine stereotype in the back of their pockets, you wouldn't have mutli-generational single moms and their redpill sons who turned to lonely corners of the internet to get the guidance on how to be a man that has been sorely missing from the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Also, do you know who else has a preference for tall men? OTHER MEN. Tall men, statistically, earn more money and hold higher positions of power in business AND government than short men, despite making up the minority of men. Who is giving tall men these accolades? OTHER MEN. Why? Because height is a physically attractive attribute in men, and one that tends to generate automatic respect (and sometimes fear) from - wait for it - OTHER. MEN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 09:27 PM |
| 11 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Height is attractive in men similar to how curvy bodies are attractive in women. Jesus Fucking Christ, y'all are the worst at just accepting that women can be sexual creatures with aesthetic and physical preferences for no reason other than they just look HOT. No wonder sexually satisfying women is such a goddamn obstacle, you guys can't come to grips with the simple realization that women too can be superficial in the shit that makes our pussy wet. What is it, does it make you uncomfortable to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Happily partnered folks, does your (heterosexual) relationship seem at all similar to RP beliefs or is very different?I met my SO via online dating. He's in his 40s, he's tall, he's bald, he's in tech so he has money and earns a great living, and he's handsome. He has a nice thick beard and a cute little dad bod that I love. But looks and money aside? He's funny, sociable, outgoing and very sweet and interesting as fck. If he were to go broke tomorrow, I'd still love him. In terms of personality, I would say he's dominant but in a sweet way. He's chivalrous and respectful, very sweet and doting with me. As for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:39 PM |
| 0 | I feel like the red pill teaches the right things for the wrong reasonsThey do nothing but talk about women, think about women, discuss women. This entire sub is proof of that alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I feel like the red pill teaches the right things for the wrong reasonsRight, and the funny thing about it is that its behavior that isn't exactly going to illicit respect from other men - at least not respectable, well-established, secure men. Honestly, they look at RP men as pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:04 PM |
| 3 | I feel like the red pill teaches the right things for the wrong reasonsIt's a movement that centers women, even though they insist on not centering women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | I feel like the red pill teaches the right things for the wrong reasonsThe red pill is the "solution" for young man who's been failed by the males in his life. The thing about RP is how much admiration - and contempt! - it holds for the traditional, strong, sociable, well-established and well-loved man. That is who they all seek to be. But IRL? They wouldn't get that same man's attention, validation, or respect. In other words - the red pill is what happens when young men have daddy issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:01 PM |
| 8 | Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist?They won't admit to this because it would require actually seeing these women as individuals in their society. When men in these types of subs talk about women and the anger they have toward these women choosing a Chad, they're actually projecting because chances are, they're not budging on their physical standards and thirsty for a Chadette themselves lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:47 PM |
| 0 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Having a support group is secondary and more of a bonus than anything And you wonder why women thrive with being single lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:18 PM |
| -3 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)I agree, but good luck getting this sub to agree with you. The biggest issue I find that these men experience is that instead of going out into the world and befriending sociable men who do not struggle with women and learning a thing or two off them is that the end up associating with weak men on the internet and leaning on a group of men who are admitted failures for support. Misery begets misery. The echo chamber is born. And, these same men end up getting something they've never experienced … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?Unemployed, no. If you are unemployed and dating, you have your priorities mixed up. I'm not desperate, dating unemployed men in a world filled with employed individuals would be doing the most just to say I'm not single. Earn less? Yes, not a problem. I have in the past and thankfully, I'm in a wonderful relationship but if I were to date again, I would consider someone who earned less than me provided he's passionate about the work he does and/or his industry. My negative experiences with men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allHappily single men do the same thing, you just don't know about them because most normal, well-adjusted men don't associate with redpill guys or the kind of individual that centers women to a pathetic degree lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:59 PM |
| 9 | If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examplesI'm not single, I get laid, I'm not bitching about either lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 12:50 AM |
| 11 | If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examplesYeah and the trend is that people who are outgoing and have sex tend to couple up with someone, get married and have kids while people who bitch about not getting laid on the internet tend to die alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 12:46 AM |
| 9 | If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examplesWhat research dude? What predictors? Please, share that peer reviewed research. And, no by fortune tellers I mean the fact that red pillers absolutely love to tell women that no one's going to want them after a certain age, no one's going to want to marry them, blah blah blah - its bullshit. For all we know, your mom was probably a big ol' slut before she got married and had you. Most big ol' sluts, in my world at least, have gone on to have relationships, get married, have kids. Like, get over … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 12:40 AM |
| 12 | If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examplesIt's kind of insane how they cope by acting like fortune tellers who are betting on the demise, pain and suffering of a total stranger in the future. No one normal, no one successful, no one who's going anywhere in life does this. Because they're wrong. There's no way to guarantee what someone's future is going to become. That "slut" that's been with 40 people could easily get married, have kids and live a great life while someone who made this moral highground their personality can end up alone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:56 PM |
| 27 | If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examplesAnd yet, sluts still get married, sluts still become moms, sluts are still making people happy. The thing that is telling about all of this being rooted in bigotry is that y'all can't be happy with live and let live. It destroys you to your core to realize that individuals you deem unworthy of love, marriage and families - i.e., sluts - not only go on to have all of those things a lot of times, but they manage to have them despite you being told they wouldn't while you still end up alone and bit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Are women more lenient with weight compared to men?People out in the real world are more lenient with weight, period. Both male and female from my observation and personal experience. For example they’d prefer a tall clearly overweight male over a short fit dude Physical fitness is extremely important to some women and if you've ever stepped foot inside of a gym - which I feel like you probably haven't - you'd see there are tons of short fit guys with fit girlfriends. A woman who cares a lot about fitness isn't going to tolerate an overweight ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:05 PM |
| -1 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.I'm sure they suck in many ways, but they clearly don't in others. Imagine, that. They're shitty people but that sliver of personality and charm still gets them women and dates *without* having to be Henry Cavill's clone. You, on the other hand, make it seem like you don't even have that sliver of charisma or personality to lean on, therefore you determined that the only way you'd get dates is if you grew to 6ft and completely transformed for you face. Yikes. If you're trying to make yourself fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | The women telling you to not approach don't care about your successIts honestly socially inept women complaining about socially inept men. That's all there is to it. If you are an attractive woman and you are APPROACHABLE, then you will be talked to by men. Period. Women need to throw the lure out there too. Example: a few years ago, I was at a party. I noticed one guy looking at me, I thought he was cute. He was talking to a group, and my friend was in that group, so I joined the convo. I started talking to him, he started talking to me. We exchanged Instagram… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersIt honestly depends on the guy. I've dated, I've been friends with and I've worked amongst serious high earners (also worked in finance for a while) and my takeaway from it? It depends on the man and his overall goals. Younger high earners will care more about her career because they're in the pursuit of status. They also care a lot about who her family is, and what her daddy can do for him. And this is entirely logical because they are trailblazing their life path and if they can choose a partn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.Hey, what happened? I thought we were talking about you and your prowess!! 1% of men? Nah babe. That might be representative of your social standing back when you were 27 but I had no shortage of hot young men then, I'd have no shortage of hot young men now. They're everywhere (In either case, that's who your 25 year old girl is smashing on the side) Nah I dated them, it was a great time, and I'm dating an amazing guy who's levels above those Chads. It's great tbh! See, that's the issue with cop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.Yeah sure, because they're probably charming people. If you stepped out of your cave for a second and reacquainted yourself with humanity, you might become exposed to these mystical "personalities" you're so perplexed by | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 08:13 PM |
| -4 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.A hit dog will holler | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.First things first - viagra doesn't count. But we're not talking about me, we're talking about you. And when I was 25, you bet your ass I was dating hot 27 year olds that laid the meanest dick imaginable. In fact, if I were to be single now and dating exclusively for sex, I'm going with the 27 year old. It's unmatched, no 40 year old can compare and if he thinks he can genuinely compete physically with a hot, fit and horny 27 year old man he is *dreaming* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.Probably tbh. If they were freakishly good looking and earned six figured but sucked, the allure of that would fade a lot sooner than later. The kind of woman that can land a tall, incredibly handsome, six figure earning can without a doubt attract another with a better personality lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.The libido difference 25 vs 41 is world's apart. You could be a great lover in your age group, but you're not competing with what a hot, fit and horny 27 year can throw down. Like, be for fucking real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 06:22 PM |
| 7 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.Oh god, the only way I would've dated a 41 year old at 25 is if he was down to bankroll my life. Even then, I'd probably use him for money for a bit but not forever. There's nothing in this world like dick between the ages of 25-35, if you find yourself dating a 25 year old woman at your big age, you better believe she's getting hammered by some 27 year old with an energizer bunny dick on the side! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 05:57 PM |
| 10 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.Whats interesting is the amount of focus these kinds of guys give overweight women. Overweight women don't struggle to date anywhere near as much as these guys do, they make the mistake of assuming that everyone is as lonely as they are, especially a group that they consider unworthy of love. To say that most men don't want an overweight woman *might* be true, but the amount that are not just fine with it - but actively looking for an overweight woman -is high enough that overweight chicks still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 05:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: What goes on in the bedrooms of consenting adults should be none of your businessyet another post made by someone who's really upset at being called creepy for doing creepy shit lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingPlease realize that women who are willing to go meet you for a coffee are the most desperate group. Keep asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Most men here aren't truly Red Pilled even when they say they areThis is what I've been saying. For a group that praises alpha men, providers, strong male figures etc, they sure fall short at the very description of a man that they aim for. And why? Because they're not actually working towards gaining the validation of that type of man, they're way too busy centering women in their lives and gaining the validation of guys who are also struggling. They are dragging each other down and the instant gratification of getting support from a group of weaklings is mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | It is hard for wealthy and successful men to find good women for love and marriageI have a very serious question to ask you - do you have a Father figure or some type that you can talk to? Did you grow up with one? Do you have a strong male presence in your life that is older that you can have a good heart to heart with about this stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | It is hard for wealthy and successful men to find good women for love and marriageImaginary Problem for $200, Alex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:25 PM |
| 1 | It is hard for wealthy and successful men to find good women for love and marriageI was playing devil's advocate to get you to not just see the fallacy in your logic and approach here and honestly, get you to stop because as long as you keep seeking the validation and support of other men who struggle, there will always be an excuse you can dig your heels into. I mean, I'm a woman in my 30s but when I was in my 20s, I dated men in my 20s. There was no shortage of women in their 20s dating men in their 20s - the women in their 20s who were dating men in their 30s were an actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | It is hard for wealthy and successful men to find good women for love and marriageAverage men under 30 are largely ignored by women. You were very clear about who you meant and why. So answer my question, if women are constantly told that their greatest value and asset lies in their youth, why would you fault them for choosing a partner who can realistically afford to start a family with them and provide them with a good lifestyle? Why are you not going after the 30+ men who are using their age and money to their advantage to effectively poach young women away from you in you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:02 PM |
| 3 | It is hard for wealthy and successful men to find good women for love and marriageSure, because men over 30 aren't hesitating to use their resources to attract young women. Men are constantly telling young women that their most valuable asset is their youth - why are you faulting them for choosing what's best for them? Why are you not faulting men who refuse to stick to women in their own age group? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | It is hard for wealthy and successful men to find good women for love and marriageAre you actually wealthy or high income or are you waxing poetic about an imaginary problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 06:55 PM |
| -1 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingAnd they'd probably be right. The kind of standards they were held to back in their day was a lot stricter and harder than now. Tell a man from only 20 years ago that you can get pretty women to meet you, a complete stranger, off the internet for a cup off coffee after just a few text messages and he'd high five the fuck out of you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingThis goes for both men AND women. If you want advice on how to achieve a level in life or how to unlock something that you want, go befriend someone who's achieved it and ask them for their advice. But you have to meet them halfway - you can't assume you're just going to befriend a millionaire overnight and become a millionaire yourself. You have to approach them already having done a lot of core work on yourself and they have to feel confident enough in you to take on the burden of guiding you.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Yes men peak at an older age than women. But that's because most men start at the bottomOr, you might be just be another liar on the internet. Men who are happy with their lives and dating aren't usually bitching on the internet about women and dating lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Bullying women to lower their standardsLMAO women's freedom to choose strong, attractive mates is eugenics now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Yes men peak at an older age than women. But that's because most men start at the bottomBut women don't lol. Like, the options to date as a woman in your 30s is still very plentiful. I'm glad that you suddenly find dating easier and better in your 30s, I really do! But for someone who claims to have so much success with dating, you're sure letting your bitterness shroud what should be joy at your newfound success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Yes men peak at an older age than women. But that's because most men start at the bottomNo one that I know denies that young women are seen as more attractive than young men. In fact, I would argue that the crux of so much redpill pain is specifically that young women are being driven away from young men due to older, more established men, swooping in and effectively "poaching" their potential dates in their age group from them. At least, that's what they claim. I've noticed that redpillers like to create extremely elaborate stories in their minds to justify why they're single. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Sugar daddy relationships are closer to how marriages were historicallyI don't know, are you? Most men who get sex aren't on the internet acting as defenders of the redpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Bullying women to lower their standardsAnd these same men are now arguing against marriage, when marriage was the civilized way of assigning a single woman to a single man as a means to ensure most men can enjoy a relationship and have children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Bullying women to lower their standardsits really sad how your internalized misandry genuinely has you believing that you're single due to a minority that's sucking up all of the women like some big dicked black hole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Sugar daddy relationships are closer to how marriages were historicallyYall need to pick a struggle. Are you cool with women wanting you for your social and financial resources, or nah? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Men should just refuse to get marriedFor someone preaching about communication, you sure did a loop-de-loop with your own words there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Men should just refuse to get marriedRight, because having someone married to you realize that you suck as a partner and not worth the work is a lot more aligned with reality than believing that a person would put themselves through a whole relationship, marriage and painful divorce for the sake of walking away with $50k if they're lucky because let's be real, do you even HAVE $50k liquid a hypothetical divorcee could even take from you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Men should just refuse to get marriedRight, but its still a decision that results in deciding that you, as an individual and as a romantic partner in life, aren't worth the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Bullying women to lower their standardsThere's a quiet part these guys aren't willing to say out loud just yet, but all of these talking points are effectively justification for wanting to remove women's rights and effectively get them into some kind of sexual slavery. I have no empathy or sympathy for someone who's single because they suck. While I agree that men need more mental health support, a lot of it really starts with them. All redpillers become redpillers due to their inability to be a part of functioning male society, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Bullying women to lower their standardsHe won't say the quiet part out loud. There's something wrong with that because he personally feels entitled to a romantic and sexual partner, and if things keep going this way, then something's gotta change. And that something is women's legal freedoms. Guys like this lowkey point to sexual slavery of women as the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Bullying women to lower their standardsIts because there is a quiet part these men don't say out loud but what they all secretly wish would happen - they want sexual slavery and these are the arguments they're refining to justify that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Bullying women to lower their standardsI know a lot of 40 year old single women who are living great lives lol. You underestimate the power of disposable income, travel and friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Bullying women to lower their standardsAnd let this humanity go extinct. Actually, according to redpill mantra, then we'd probably only procreate with only the strongest, richest and best looking. All in all, it would probably be amazing for humanity's genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Bullying women to lower their standardsThis is his coping mechanism. He rocks himself back and forth to the tune of "Women don't like me because I'm not a rich Chad" as opposed to coming to terms with the realization that maybe he just sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Bullying women to lower their standardsIf you feel like the only way you can land a date is if you're 6ft+, ripped, and earning 6 figures +, then that's telling of the narcissism on your end. Like, the one thing I see the most coming from incels is how they act as though they have been utterly robbed of their birthright of being blessed with above average genetics and being born into a rich a family, thus robbing them of their entitlement to endless women and relationships they barely had to work for....and that is narcissism. If you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Bullying women to lower their standardsI think that for a long time, average women just settled down with average men and what happened was that most average men still wanted to be seen and treated as heads of their households, similar to the traditional layout their grandfathers and fathers (if they were even around) enjoyed. They expect and demand domestic slavery from the woman while simultaneously holding her to high financial and job standards, a combination that leads to burnout and resentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Bullying women to lower their standardsFirst of all it doesn’t work. Most women would rather be alone than be with somebody they don’t find attractive. Oh no they understand this, they're incels not because they truly can't land a date, but because they'd rather be a martyr than be in a relationship with someone they don't find attractive. Femcels exist and yet you don't see incels aching to couple up with them. Why? Because femcels are below average most of the time too. They're not bullying average women into giving below average m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:28 PM |
| 10 | Men should just refuse to get marriedI expect most men on here to have had extremely limited interaction with women, so that aligns | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:25 PM |
| 10 | Men should just refuse to get married"women talk too much" "women have too many friends that influence their decisions" women aren't bad at communication, it sounds like maybe they just don't like talking *to you* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:14 PM |
| 17 | Men should just refuse to get marriedA lot of men say “I felt all those things”, well, too bad your ex wife can’t say the same That part. I've had a lot of exes tell me I was "the best thing to have ever happened to me" and that's cool and all, but the feeling was most definitely not mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:13 PM |
| 9 | Men should just refuse to get marriedDivorce is the result of the one person who knows you more than anybody in this world deciding that you're not worth the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:12 PM |
| 3 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menLol no they're not. They're not men, they aren't desperate to choose whoever is willing to take them and make decisions exclusively based off sex. Sex is easy for women, it doesn't have the appeal to us that it does to you, and most women do not operate from a scarcity mindset the way most men do. Most women are in the position to choose men they're attracted to, who have the balls to do shit like ask them out, with great personalities and moral character. Like the whole point of dating is to fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….I think this is true for redpill men - men who have created an entire identity, personality, talking points and culture centering women, sexual relationships with women and romantic relationships with women. They don't understand why women would choose to stay single because their entire world centers women, sex and romance to a disporportionate capacity. Out in the real world, there are tons of men who also choose to stay single and are happy with it as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 12:08 AM |
| -1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….If you are individual who feels like the only reason why you're not in a relationship is because you are not the physical and financial definition of ideal, then I hate to be the bearer of bad news but you're single because you most likely suck. Because here's the thing - if you WERE 6 feet tall, ripped and made good money, you'd probably still suffer with love because the kind of women who would be entertaining and landing guys like you are entertaining other hot, ripped, 6ft tall rich guys and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)?Ohhhh the timbers are shivered!!! Most women don't really complain about the quality of their partners, that's an internet phenomenon much like how redpillers aren't representative of men as a whole out in the real world. You're going to get the bitchers and complainers on the internet, people who enjoy their lives and relationships don't exactly flock to the internet to speak on it. And if you weren't talking about yourself, Mr. Sassy, then WHO were you making this post for and about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)?But they don't have to experience anxiety or fear of rejection, because they have loads of guys who are just interested enough to approach them anyway. Like, the fact that you seek to impose this punishment of fearing men more than they already do because you have take some weird delight in this hypothetical state of fear you want to put women through in your mind is.....probably exactly why you're single. It's creepy, it's strange, and women specifically choose men that make them feel SAFE, not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 11:33 PM |
| 0 | How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)?But they don't have to, not in this realm lol. Like, that's really what it boils down to. You want an attractive woman to put aside all of her options and do the work to approach *you*? You? The guy who can't even bring himself to compete with his own peers for the same woman? The guy who can't talk to a woman and ask her out? YOU expect someone like HER to ask YOU out? Talk about sassy, my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 11:30 PM |
| 0 | How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)?Because they can. Because they want to. Because they don't have to. Because by and large, men just have a lot more to prove to women for a variety of reasons. Why in the world would an attractive woman ask a guy out when she has options to choose from who aren't afraid to speak to her and initiate? Women, especially young women, are sought after and desired a lot more than women desire and seek men. Men in good social and financial standing know this and use their two greatest assets - their soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 11:27 PM |
| 2 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menPost 1 of this sub: WOMEN R MAKING IT 2 HARD FOR MEN LYK ME 2 HAVE SEX W THEM BCUZ THEIR STANDARDS R TEW HIGH Post 2 of this sub: WOMEN R HAVING SEX W LOSERS AND GETTING PREGNANT I DO NOT BLAME FATHERS BCUZ WIMMIN NEED 2 CHOOSE BETTER | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 10:30 PM |
| 0 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.Has it occured to you that maybe....you're just not a good boyfriend or partner? No one in their right mind trades an attractive 5'10 man who treats them right for a tall guy that's ugly unless that attractive man isn't treating these women right or connecting with them on the right levels. And so again, I say to you - choose better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.And I'm going to be real with you, those women are fucking stupid and if they end up not reproducing, that's the best for humanity. However, it still says a lot about you and who YOU'RE going after if this is the type of woman you continue to encounter. Because my love, there are plenty of men out there who are 5'10 and are getting laid, having girlfriends, getting married and starting families. The majority of men are not over 6 ft tall and I have something else for you - Tall incels still exit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:59 PM |
| -1 | Even “body positive” women have conventional standards when it comes to a man’s looksITS NOT JUST WOMEN, IF YOU ACQUAINTED YOURSELF WITH REALITY YOU'D NOTICE THAT THERE ARE PLENTY OF SHORT, UGLY, BROKE ASS GUYS WHO ARE RUNNING CIRCLES AROUND WOMEN WHILE YOU'RE BUSY CRYING ON THE INTERNET ABOUT HOW NO ONE WANTS YOU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:51 PM |
| -3 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.Yes, because by nature, her getting pregnant is more important than you getting laid. Like, you guys need to realize that you're not going to whine out of nature doing its due diligence, and that's making sure that the female only gets pregnant by worthy males. And not every male is meant to reproduce, but the majority of women are expected to by the rules of nature. This is coded so deep within humanity that there isn't enough internet in the world to change it. But with that said, a woman bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.…because it rarely ever happens But it does. I brought it up elsewhere, there are a lot of men that I've encountered who are so obsessed with butts that they will not date a woman who has a flat ass. Period. A lot of guys feel this way, but they won't vocalize it. Its one thing to have a physical preference, its another to be an ass and announce it or put others down for not being it. My SO, for example, is a boob guy. He doesn't have to tell me he won't really date a woman with small tits - I'v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.THIS IS THE WAY! And the way that men cling onto this uncontrollable factor is honestly disheartening, because they're probably ignoring the other 500 things they could improve on for the sake of improving their standards, period. And, as a woman you can bring up how many women struggle with not fitting a physical ideal, too. Men forget - not every woman is curvy. Not every woman has nice breasts. Not every woman has a butt. Women who do not fit the basic mold or ideal for having a nice waist to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:35 PM |
| -6 | Even “body positive” women have conventional standards when it comes to a man’s looksIMO and IME, no. I've seen mostly fat women with fat men. The thing I find interesting in these types of conversations is that men are angry at not being the ideal with not being 6'0+. They can have everything else going for them, but man will they dig their heels into this and it becomes difficult to feel sorry for you guys, because after a certain point, its just narcissism and shaking your fist in the air for not being gifted with taller genetics despite having everything else being in order.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 05:31 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Males are more willing to sexually please their woman than vice versa.Have you ever considered that you may be selecting for selfish/unskilled lovers? I have to agree with this. Unfortunately, I think that a lot of women are so desperate for love that they'll take being sexually unsatisfied if it means that she can say she's not single. A lot of women refuse to drop a guy who's bad in bed because its also considered superficial or cruel to do so. Personally, I don't hesitate to drop a poor sexual performer. Also, as someone who's eaten pussy AND sucked a dick, eat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:31 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Males are more willing to sexually please their woman than vice versa.What men say and what they do in the bedroom are two different animals. Out of all my significant others, the only reason why my partners after the age of 30 blow my boyfriends from my 20s out of the waters is because the moment I sleep with a man and I realize he sucks in bed, I just won't work with him on it further and move on to someone who's at least not selfish and make an attempt to be in tune with my sexuality and body. Nope, its an automatic dump and dealbreaker. And it's really not tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?The short answer? Porn. They see this type of woman in porn and they've watched so much of it that they believe that type of woman is not just something that's accessible to them, but the type of woman they're entitled to. Look, incels spend their years crying on the internet about being single and demanding that women as a whole drop their standards. The majority of their whining and crying is all about how ridiculously high women's standards are (even though we exist in times where you can mee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:18 PM |
| 5 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?Colombian here - agreed on all accounts. Colombia is huge for passport bros because while Colombian women ARE beautiful, they are also master manipulators and have somehow managed to convince the world that Colombia is a great producer of wifey material. One of the things that happens (that is actually downright hilarious when you hear these guys talking about they're going to Colombia for a GOOD woman with great morals and a low bodycount!) is that these passport bros buy a beautiful woman's so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:09 AM |
| 0 | CMV : The reason you think lots of average men are in relationships when actually they’re notI am 36 and I have literally never encountered a man in his adulthood who did not have a girlfriend, wife, dated or lacked any sort of romantic life whatsoever. Like, you guys who are stuck in these lonely loser pods need to realize that you all know each other because that is your social status in this world, but no one really knows you because they are in a league of their own well above you. And please, make no mistake that you are moving in pods isolated from the rest of humanity and functio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:48 PM |
| 2 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?But why are passport bros always trying to sell everyone on it instead of just going? Because they're desperate for male validation on this decision, but male validation alone isn't enough - and they want the thumbs up and approval on behalf of the men they hate and are jealous of, the "alphas" aka, the Chads. So much of what these loser dudes do in their lives revolves around the people they claim to hate the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:11 PM |
| -2 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?and it must hurt to know that even old, fat women are more desirable than you <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?Buddy, there's no time to reflect on the hypocrisy of shitting on the passport bros when everyone's too busy laughing at them lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.I mean, I'm in America. I just happen to be Latina and I happen to know Latino men lol. Some of those latino dudes will date women taller *than* them, and trust me, even in latin circles, 5'5 is considered short. Tall latinos exist too, you know lmao It's just that latino men are not raised to have the crippling insecurity that I see so many men of other cultures have. They dance, they party, the have fun, they're funny, they have social circles, they're great in bed. Them being short becomes a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.I think that....a lot of the whining comes from men who love to shit on women by calling them sluts, when not even these so-called sluts are willing to touch them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.He has to overcome this hurdle by proving his value in non-sexual ways. He has to take his partner on dates, and do romantic gestures, and show he's serious about a relationship in ways that don't involve sex. Yes. And you can thank other men for not only setting that standard, but providing the groundwork for what men need or should do in order to prove they're not in it for just the sex. But to your point, I know that men on the internet will clutch their pearls in disbelief and probably cry t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.Your female relative probably does have really bad social skills....with men, specifically men she's attracted to or who are attracted to her. This goes beyond bad luck, its not normal. some men are quite short, and that's just on another difficulty level. I'm latina. Know plenty of 5'5 dudes out there with girlfriends. Sorry. Literally all of these reasons....like sure some of them seem outside of the norm but they all boil down to bad social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 01:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.I mean, I've definitely seen and encountered these guys that juggle a ton of women in my life. They're typically losers. It takes a lot of time and energy to dedicate all of that time and all of those resources courting a shit ton of people who you plan on going nowhere with. That's the thing these guys don't want to admit, it's much easier to envision this boogey man that's taking all of the women's attention than it is to come to grips with the realization that a lot of women would rather be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.Yeah, I mean tbh I don't know if this is just an indicator of social status or what have you, but I just don't recall being surrounded by male virgins at any point beyond my late teens. Like I can't think of a single adult man that I've come across in my lifetime who didn't have some kind of a relationship or love life. People who struggle with such basic social skills aren't people in my peripheral. And much to the dismay of the majority of men here who seem to think all of the young women in m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.TIL that my entire world is filled with a top % of men that all the women are sharing, because I literally do not know a single man who isn't fucking at some capacity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.I mean, so what's up dude are you just so angry at the fact that you're not getting laid that you spiraled into feeling like the whole of humanity is hopeless? As though the fate of humanity hinges upon whether or not your incel dick gets action? Does it kill you to know that you're so undesirable and unwanted that even your definition of the worst of the worst - a 38 year old fat woman with a child - is still leagues more desirable, wanted and loved than you are? Because news flash buddy, this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Telling people to get a better personality in order to date is pointlessHow many times hace you met someone with a memorable and unique personality? Pretty often, actually. I've known some truly wonderful people. Honestly, based on your post, how terribly you spell and your responses, I'm getting the impression that you don't understand that you're probably not meeting many remarkable people because you're not exactly remarkable yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 11:42 PM |
| 1 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backThe issue tends to lie in men like this going after a specific type of woman, one that is so pretty and desirable that she hasn't really had to do things like work on her personality, learn how to banter, or be charismatic. If you find yourself in a position where you feel like you have to jump through hoops just to keep this person engaged, its a sign that they're just not as into you as you are into them and you may need to figure out whats going on with your vetting process if this is what yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 11:36 PM |
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