AbleDad Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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56	Hypergamy isn't your biggest enemy. Obesity is. Immigration to the U.S., both legal and illegal, is primarily male. There is simply a surplus of guys from all over the world. Not just a few guys, tens of millions of guys. In contrast, any place where men are emigrating from (e.g. Eastern Europe) has a balance between the male and female population. The culture is dramatically different. The underlying cause for female obesity in the U.S. is a lack of female competition. Women can overeat and still get resources and male attention. For a guy t…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/19 05:07 PM
197	Hypergamy does not care about your “Relationship Equity”. I've always avoided the easy-lay if one of my friends is invested. You don't want to be the guy who steals someone else's girl in your social circle. Your reputation and your friendships are more important. Also, women respect a guy who is loyal to his friends and has the loyalty of his friends. They understand the hierarchy, even as they try to destroy it.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/19 05:20 PM
3	Agree and amplify is dead in 2019, Ironic Acknowledgement is for Millennial Girls I think that the OP describes my conversations with "educated" women. Her: Global warming is a serious problem, even the NYT says so! (Note: My 18-year old daughter forwarded a NYT global warming article to me last week) Me: (deadpan) Totally. We need even more snow in April.... So, I acknowledge the "problem" and point out the irony of snow in April (in Michigan). This is definitely the way to go, since it defuses things. Ironic acknowledgment lets her know that you're smarter than her. In cont…	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/19 09:17 PM
8	Don't expect your girl to follow your corporate bullshit I disagree with the premise of this post. In general, women care more about status than achievement. In contrast, men care more about achievement than status. For example, compare an electrician to a degreed engineer. In many cases, the electrician makes more money but most women will choose the engineer (especially if the woman also has a degree).	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/19 06:56 PM
-1	Nuclear Level Shittest from OLTR Candidate - She Slept with Her ex-FB OP posted a solid field-report. My natural response in similar situations has been a "soft-next", but sometimes I simply "ignore" as the OP did. The one thing that you can't do is show jealousy, which rewards her behavior. Also per TRP, there is no way to negotiate her loyalty. You earn it by rewarding at appropriate times, ignoring silly behavior, applying the right amount of dread, and withdrawing attention when necessary. Again, well-played by the OP.	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/19 06:12 PM
1	Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children? " And what if you and your wife pay child support? " Child support is paid from one parent to another. That means your question is idiotic. Furthermore, I did state the way that a Father serves as a role-model. "He teaches them the way that a man should live life." Clearly, you have no clue what that is or you wouldn't be asking further questions. Were you abandoned as a child? Please seek counseling.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/19 08:42 PM
1	Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children? You clearly have no conception of the importance of fathers. The most important thing that a father does is serve as a role-model for his kids. He teaches them the way that a man should live life: someone for his son to emulate in his own time; and the type of man that his daughter should settle-with with when she is ready. You also don't understand that shared custody means that the higher earner (my ex-wife), should pay support. I declined, because I felt that it was better for my kids. Some…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/19 02:09 PM
2	Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children? He's about 7 years older than my ex-wife and she has very-high SMV for a lady who is 53. Also, I have very good kids. He never got any drama from them.	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/19 07:36 PM
7	Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children? Standard reason: she found a guy with a bigger cock and a thicker wallet. She cucked him into helping raise our kids. It's all good, I date ladies 15 years younger than her now. BTW, I went through the same anger phase that any normal guy would have. No matter how mentally prepared you think you are, the shattered dream and the effect it has on your kids hurts.	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/19 02:20 PM
1	Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children? For real? Legally, it would have been easy for me to pay per a child-support formula and then walk away. Instead, I made some serious career sacrifices so that I could maintain shared custody of my kids. For the record, I never accepted/demanded any money from my ex-wife (and I was entitled to a LOT).	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/19 02:10 PM
13	Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children? To expand a bit further, whether or not to get married really misses the point. The question to ask yourself is, "what system will work best to strengthen your bond with your kids"? If your future ex-wife will simply use the marriage as a way to control you and weaken your role with your kids, then that may not be the best choice. Alternately if your future ex-wife values a Dad's role in the family, then maybe a marriage can work better for you. Your (future) kids want you to be involved in th…	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/19 02:09 PM
160	Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children? I'm 53, divorced, and I had kids with a woman who has always made more money than me. I got shared custody and never paid a cent in alimony or child support. Our kids are 18 and 16 now, and they are good kids. Before I met my ex-wife, I was engaged to a typical idiotic feminist who didn't have money, nor a career, nor any financial sense. Her redeeming qualities were that she was hot and knew how to charm a man. She wanted kids badly and would have been a good Mom (they all want kids, if you'r…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/19 05:49 PM