Able_Excuse_4456 Archive

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2	Avoid Premature Attachment Man, this will be some anti-hero advice, but my recommendation is to go purposely get rejected. Go to a nearby city with a friend, have a drink or two to loosen up, and go lay your best line on the prettiest woman in the room. (Spoiler alert: she will reject you.) Cool. You did it. If you are man enough, do it again. Go to the second prettiest woman in the room and do the same thing, expecting the same result. (Spoiler alert: she will reject you, and possibly slap you, depending on your delivery…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 04:14 PM
1	Fresh divorce advice needed. "Take the damn shot!" (My coaching advice from the sidelines to my soccer team.) Just do it. Go for it. Stop being a wimp. Pick one and do it. She wants you.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 03:59 PM
2	How do dads manage when they work all week and watch children all weekend? Brother, I'm not going to add more ratio advice, but just want to congratulate you for being an Awesome Dad (TM) that cares about his kids. You are being the main Provider and Protector, which is our calling as Dad. I've been where you are: school on nights & weekends, home/lawn care on nights & weekends, Dadding at their activities on nights & weekends.... Here are some of the tips I'd give my former self: - Invite your kids into your routine. I used to mow the lawn with my daughter on my lap, …	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 03:35 PM
1	I could use some help. Marine Corps vet here. Just like we had to execute ops on incomplete and imperfect intel, so too must we live our lives. With the knowledge that we may never receive the positive confirmation of the "correct decision" that we so badly crave.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/26 03:46 AM
3	Ex wife’s new relationship. I was a Marine, but still don't condone this. I wouldn't think of cohabitating in this way, no matter how badly I wanted out of the barracks. Recommend following the legal advice above.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/26 03:23 AM
1	Suffering from Grass is Greener Syndrom Buddy, I can't imagine there will be many guys here waving the marriage flag at you. Go find your best life and live it, man.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/26 05:07 AM
3	Constantly having doubt about my 10 year marriage despite my wife is almost perfect. But she may not be the one If your wife is demonstrating a willingness to alter herself to suit your desires, this puts her in the top 25% of wives, and you in the top 25% of husbands. In a sense, you won the lottery! You are describing "the one who got away" with this other woman. Cool. You got one, I got one, every dude on this forum has one who got away. Pining over her will waste your life. It's a fantasy; even if you married her, you'll be wishing for a different woman in the first year. Acknowledge the fantasy and m…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/26 04:56 AM
1	I’m looking for advice on my marriage situation. Brother, I see and hear you. You are owning your part--you are confessing your actions and admitting your guilt. All we can do is to work on and in ourselves; with that, I'll encourage and challenge you to find your answers to these questions (with professional counseling and possibly a men's support group). - Why did you send that text to the other woman? What void(s) were you trying to fill? - Based on the other woman's response, was that void filled, or do you think there might be a time in t…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/26 05:06 AM
5	Divorced dads, have any of you opted for every other weekend with the kids? I opted for one evening per week and every other weekend, because I didn't want them to have 2 homes. I worked hard to make their house a wonderful home, and all I can afford is a crappy little apartment where they all have to share a room. Ok for a visit, but not a lifestyle. But, I still see them 3-4 times a week, as im coaching their teams. So it works for us.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/26 06:52 PM
3	Talk me out of it. I'd actually encourage you to write the letter--be as honest and raw as you can be. Then, write the date in the top right corner, and store the letter in your journal. Simply writing your thoughts and feelings down is probably 80% of the therapeutic value--no need to actually give the letter to her. That said, if you have some trusted friends/family/counselors, get their advice on what is appropriate and healthy to give to her. Perhaps a second version of the letter intended for her--just keep i…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/26 07:36 PM
4	You know you’re hitting your New Normal when? You can stay out late with the guys, because you choose to. You can blast the music that you love but she hates. You can grow whatever facial hair you want.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/26 09:41 PM
3	What does a divorced Christian dad do on the nights when he doesn’t have his kids? Learn Python, train your own day-trading ML model. :-)	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/26 12:37 AM
2	Best community on reddit for divorce Really appreciate your sharing, thank you. I'm still in the thick of my divorce process and moving my stuff out of the house. I really hit my feels yesterday: it was the first time the STBXW took the kids on a trip without me, as I sat in the now-empty basement that I had called "home" for about the last 3 years. No more evidence of my existence in the house, except my name on the mortgage. Just trying to own my part of the unhealthiness of the relationship, while sitting in the guilt of the dam…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 08:54 PM