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most men aren't horrible monsters
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:56 AM
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What happened to all of you to make you have such a jaded world view?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:07 AM
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We see women the same way women see men, its not different. Just like women do, men have the capacity to be truly empathetic and loving towards someone they know well. I think most men see their girlfriends/wives as a real human and they care deeply for her, more than they care about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:06 AM
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It's what pretty much every married man goes through.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:17 AM
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your wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:00 AM
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your wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:52 AM
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yes they're amazing, i love goodfellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:50 AM
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Not a woman, but he/she's lowkey right. Even if you're married and in a relationship with a woman who wants sex, you'll still feel rejected, you'll still be the one initiating most of the time, sometimes nearly begging. You'll still have nights where you go to bed horny and with a boner cause your partner simply does not feel like sex for no reason at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:50 AM
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Post it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:23 AM
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It’s okay at best
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:23 AM
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She doesn’t need to walk, she can get rollerblades
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:20 AM
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The mask HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:16 AM
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All shit except goodfellas and sgaw shank redemption
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:16 AM
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There’s literally not a single good movie from the n*neties Shittest decade in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:53 AM
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For me it’s the “small dick energy”. Like what’s wrong with having a small dick? Body shaming much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:07 PM
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Stop eating disgusting trash
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:06 PM
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Max is such a beast, winning from p17 wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:24 PM
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Both sexes want companionship and someone to share their life with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:23 PM
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It’s more a perv thing, like sniffing panties
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:22 PM
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Both parties are guilty of genocide
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:22 PM
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Are they all pissing into the same cup?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:56 AM
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Is the first one cheating? Does the dude in the second scenario get sex? Will the dude in the first scenario eventually get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:48 AM
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A fair enough. I’m trying to get my gf to get into F1 and she’s starting to finally be able to remember the teams and drivers. Before she only used to recognise Charles leclerc 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:43 AM
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Would you feel better if I read your squirrel essay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:41 AM
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😢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:40 AM
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Maybe they have gay lovers and they want to make things serious. That’s legal now, it’s 2024 you bigot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:40 AM
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How do you know about her then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:39 AM
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I also saw your ninja edit there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:39 AM
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Rude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:38 AM
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Didn’t read sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:36 AM
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Nice. Do you watch F1? I get so distracted whenever she’s on sky sports
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:34 AM
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Yes you literally were. Just erase it from your memory. And if any mysterious parcels arrive, it’s literally just video games. Ignore it. You saw nothing. He’s not planning a proposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:33 AM
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Stop being a snooping gf and let him plan the surprise proposal in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:30 AM
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I don’t know what that is but I’ve been to NYC and I hate hate hate HATE it. Shit city, shit people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:29 AM
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Naomi Schiff is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:27 AM
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Whatabout parallel parking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:25 AM
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Older horny Australian ladies often go to Indonesia to fuck young men and then bring back STDs. It’s a whole thing 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:23 AM
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Blame Yakub for creating him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:22 AM
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What if it’s a woman that did that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:19 AM
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Sounds lame as fuck. Trying to hard to be “Church but NOT CHURCH”. Like just find a book club or discord channel or something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:09 AM
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I think it’s normal for a human to believe there is a higher power somewhere and that the soul exists and that we all go somewhere when we die. Even for irreligious people, the idea that we cease to exist completely once we die is uncommon. I find the idea that the universe came from nothing to be very hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:04 AM
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It’s funny most of my friends that I spend town nowadays I think are my gf’s friends. Cause my OG friends live in another city. One of my friends married a girl from the same nationality as my gf and I tried to get them to be friends when we were visiting. Did not go well :/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:02 AM
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Do you think it’s moral to leave a husband/wife when they were not abusive in any way and did nothing wrong? Like just because you sorta felt like it and didn’t want to be married any more?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:00 AM
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It will trigger the right wing racists if I do that https://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/news/video-1319926/Pauline-Hanson-angry-introduction-squat-toilets.html
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:58 PM
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Australia but this has nothing to do with it, I genuinely see marriage as a promise to build a life together and family together as a single unit. It’s not just like become “super boyfriend and girlfriend”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:55 PM
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No thanks :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:28 PM
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Rainy weather always makes me feel gloomy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:27 PM
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I don’t want to take meds cause I don’t want my bowel to be reliant on them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:21 PM
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I often hear women say that it’s okay to leave a relationship for whatever reason and to break up with someone. So if a guy abandons a woman because he found someone younger and prettier, is that acceptable in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:19 PM
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No. A marriage is a union for life IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:16 PM
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Yet girls always finish eating first
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:11 PM
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Dancing machine Momo! https://www.tiktok.com/@ey3_scream/video/7048092465634594075?lang=en
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:09 PM
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I can’t fucking poo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:04 PM
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In my case I just don’t contact them that much. I’ve moved far away and they are married and have their own lives now. Still text occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:04 PM
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MOMO MENTIONED
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:02 PM
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Or when he likes pineapple
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:59 PM
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So why focus on your past so much? When you’re in a relationship, you should forget about your past and focus on what you have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:31 PM
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It’s ridiculous how hard the FIA is trying to hand the wdc to Norris
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:21 PM
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Do you consider a man crying to be unmasculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:18 PM
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Do you want to eventually settle down and find a long term partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:18 PM
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I’m really sorry for your loss. He’s in a better place now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:16 PM
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Lando Norris isn’t wdc material. He’s a mediocre driver with an OP cheat car
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:06 PM
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Q4women: how much of a sexual ick/ turn off is it if a “””man””” drives a hatchback?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:43 PM
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How does it give small dick energy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:23 PM
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Without rear view camera?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:23 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=r13riaRKGo0
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:17 PM
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Why?? It’s not sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:14 PM
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Why would that bother me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:12 PM
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Women serious question, answer honestly, be brutally honest. Is it a turn on when a guy drives dangerously? Like you’re sitting as a passenger princess and he’s driving like a F1 driver, overtaking cars and constantly switching lanes. It’s a bit of an excitement and a turn on, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:11 PM
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I’m not so sure the /s is real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:04 PM
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Haireolas
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:01 PM
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Second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:00 PM
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We don’t need to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:39 PM
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It seems uninteresting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:59 AM
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What sorta guys do you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:52 AM
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Toxic mindset. Avoid women like this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:09 PM
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I thought you had one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:08 PM
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Pull them up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:11 PM
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My honest reaction https://www.tiktok.com/@sooyas_bunny/video/7410553223305612574
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:07 PM
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You have long fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:04 PM
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Had an amazing night out with my gf last night, came home and we were super lovey dovey with each other. Woke up feeling on cloud 9 and super happy, we’re texting each other. Apparently she’s pissed at me because last night I called her friend stupid? Wtf I never said her friend was stupid I have absolutely no recollection of saying that. Secondly all this time since last night while I thought we were both so euphoric, she’s been actually harbouring this grudge and didn’t say anything? Also I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:03 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:24 PM
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Um I mean if you do it every day then kinda yeah. But I’m sure your bf loves that about you and likes you looking all glamorous. My gf takes really quick showers, I think she’s low maintenance. Like she doesn’t put on much make up or dye her hair, never does her nails or wears jewellery beyond some simple earrings. Also she’s kinda naturally hairless but I don’t mind if she doesn’t shave like I’ve never been bothered by a bit of body hair. I think she does that for herself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:14 PM
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Sounds expensive :/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:11 PM
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Cause of your braids?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:58 PM
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If you don’t scrub your ballsack to the point it starts bleeding you’re not doing it right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:38 PM
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Can I have a shower in less than 5 minutes? Let’s find out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:02 PM
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Built for tall jacked men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:01 PM
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Will probably see my gf tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:57 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/arikytsya/p/C8fEwHjJ2Zv/?img_index=2 They look more real in this photo. Her ass is nice too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:54 PM
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Her boobs look fake
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:47 PM
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Oh you guys seem like a cute couple. Is his short height part of his attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:18 PM
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what's his height?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:01 PM
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There are women who do find smaller dicks, or shortness attractive. I don't believe these exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:58 PM
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Men are picky when it comes to choosing a wife, not when choosing who to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:21 AM
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would you date someone shorter?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:54 AM
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her sexual experience would make sex more enjoyable for us both How does having prior sexual experience make your current relationship more pleasurable? That makes no sense. A couple being compatible and enjoying intimacy all depends on their own lifestyle and they how they communicate with each other, not their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:07 AM
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But which features? Like I know why I am physically attractive to my partner. I know which parts of me make attractive to her. I know which parts of her make her attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:02 AM
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Define modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:53 AM
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You would never want to settle down at any point and get married to a nice husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:52 AM
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You would hate the monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:44 AM
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I would want to explore myself and discover myself and have lots of fun and experiences, but also after a while, maybe late 20's, to find a husband and settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:32 AM
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Yeah but you can still describe what makes someone attractive. Like she said she has a husband. what makes her husband attractive? His dress sense? His height? His eyes? His glasses?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:20 AM
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disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:17 AM
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I disagree. Men can find short girls attractive, tall girls attractive, small boobs girls attractive, tall boobs girls attractive. Men can be attracted to a woman whether she's a waitress or a doctor. For women, its just like the higher you are on the metric, the more attractive you are. Taller? More attractive. richer? More attractive. Bigger dick? More attractive. No women finds a man attractive due to the fact he is short, or has low income, or has a small penis. She might be attracted to him…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:16 AM
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besides just "physically attractive". Like that's very nondescript. Tall? Muscly? thin? fit? white? black? bald? red hair? big cheek bones?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:09 AM
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Do you ever feel attraction towards them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:07 AM
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Men who are taken are not looking for a relationship. Single men? Yes it depends on multiple factors, like if a woman is pretty, in proximity to them in terms of life (like a friend or coworker or family friend), similar age, good looking, then I think at a certain point yes guys may potentially see her in that way. but i don't think guys assess all women like this from the get go. At least I never did. I think I always had strict criteria for who I saw as relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:06 AM
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What physical standards do you require
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:43 AM
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What are they? Does your husband meet them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:46 AM
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What was the proposal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:05 PM
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I don’t think so A proposal is a proposal whether you know it’s coming or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:36 PM
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No but you already know he’s bought a ring and a proposal is coming
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:29 PM
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Are you imagining yourself as a gay boyfriend or as a female girlfriend in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:07 PM
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Took me like 10 seconds to realise you weren’t talking about Erectile Dysfunction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:01 PM
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Women if your partner proposed to you, would you rather: A. The proposal method be entirely his idea and a full surprise Or B. He comes up with several ideas, he tells you and let’s you pick the one you like most
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:59 PM
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What it means to me is two fold: one, that your partners happiness is your happiness. When you two share a life, you can’t have one of you be happy while the other is sad. You share happiness and share sadness. If one of you is happy, the other is happy and you will have a happy life. Two, women’s emotions are fickle. Women can get emotional over minor things. It’s not worth stirring the pot over minor irrelevant issues. Keep her happy and your life will be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:20 AM
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Yes 100%. It’s like having children you love. When you are truly in love with your life partner, their happiness is your happiness. You prioritise them over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:30 AM
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I'm a member of the Ginyu Force. I'm also a super saiyan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:52 PM
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Because I should be a member of the Ginyu Force, not a cuck who lays bricks for half an hour and then takes the day off cause it started raining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:39 PM
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It's ridiculous that modern society forces men like myself to work a lousy desk job wageslaving like an emasculated cuck who "earns" a living by siting on his fat ass. I'm a manly man. We should earn our living not through this pathetic cuck method. I should be a member of the Ginyu Force.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:32 PM
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No I would not lose any respect for her if she tried to protect herself from harm. I would prefer if she did that actually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:48 AM
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I’d be horrified and mortified seeing the love of my life getting hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:36 AM
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Do you mean physically? I wouldn’t let anyone touch her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:30 AM
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I haven’t seen the /j think before on reddit but I guess now I know But following that logic it’s like saying watching porn is gay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:16 AM
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Just unwanted intrusive thoughts I guess My current gf has had previous boyfriends. It’s something I struggled with early on in our relationship especially after I saw what they looked like I’ve made peace with it now How is it homoerotic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:16 AM
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I thought hypergamy is the act of marrying someone who is a financial/social strata above yours
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:11 AM
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Yet guys like that still get more women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:09 AM
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Just the mental images of them having sex with their previous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:08 AM
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Nothing wrong with it. I don’t see why it’s controversial. Women need to understand that lots of guys are shy and lack confidence. So if you like him and you’ve talked a lot but he hasn’t made a move, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you. It doesn’t hurt to make the first move. Worst thing that could happen is you get rejected, forget about it, and move on. This if the mindset guys who approach lots of women have. Girl rejects you? You move on to the next one. You think chads never get rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:57 PM
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i feel attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:29 PM
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cheer up baby
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:27 PM
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It's 1:30am and I'm reading about the ocean and getting creeped out. the ocean is genuinely the scariest thing on earth, its just like this endless formless mass of water that goes on forever and is thousands of kilometres deep and not even sunlight can get there. It's just completely endless. How does this not freak people out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:26 PM
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Stop drinking, stop smoking. You can keep dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:14 PM
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stop smoking cigarettes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:10 PM
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stop drinking, its not good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:09 PM
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are you drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:01 PM
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I just find it super incredibly hypocritical. Like they say they support consent and two adults doing whatever they want, but as soon as there's a consensual exchange of money, suddenly it's not okay? It's like that "I consent, I consent, I don't" meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:02 AM
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But you believe two adults should be allowed to do whatever they want behind closed doors? As long as they both consent? So if they have sex in exchange for money and they both consent what is the problem? Are you against people doing porn and onlyfans as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:36 AM
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It feels good from purely hedonistic physical pleasure point of view It’s not emotionally as satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:32 AM
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Isn’t there that movie where a guy fucks a pie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:22 AM
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What are your thoughts on sex work and prostitution? Okay or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:04 AM
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Casual sex can lead to more exciting stuff potentially like group sex scenarios because there’s no risk of hurt feelings or break ups or cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:24 AM
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Serious question for both red pill and blue pill: how does Frieza’s race have sex? We’ve seen them ostensibly naked without clothes, they don’t have any visible genitalia? Furthermore we never see any female members of their race
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:46 AM
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Ok but you’re not allowed to fall in love with them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:44 AM
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What if he has a bajillion dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:48 AM
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Yeah fair enough lol. So basically first you gotta get through the probation period, and after that, super slut mode activate! Also I'm still wondering what was that thing you said you'd do only for a guy you don't respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:35 PM
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but why make them wait for sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:22 PM
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Well I mean, you made your boyfriends wait for sex, despite being a "super slut" for them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:01 PM
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both of my sexual partners have waited for sex. that strongly contradicts your username tag, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:56 PM
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maybe you need a bf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:31 AM
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i agree it doesn't make you great at sex but that's the literal definition of horny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:26 AM
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I don't need to worry about my kids disappointment in me. I already have my gf's disappointment in me. ha.... ha....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:19 AM
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How many do you smoke a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:13 AM
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I don't remember at all. I need to stop drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:06 AM
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Stop smoking. Think of your future children's disappointment in you. You want to set a good role model, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:06 AM
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Smoking isn't sexy though, it just screams being careless about your health.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:47 AM
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you have a chad jaw?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:46 AM
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Smoking is bad for your health
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:20 AM
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How many of those posts are real tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:19 AM
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What’s a leftist female jawline?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:17 AM
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Do women actually judge a guy for dick size? As long as he can make them cum do they care if it’s massive or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:54 AM
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Alien Romulus was such a good movie. That human creature thing at the end was so creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:18 PM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:14 PM
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My gf and another Asian girl I knew both claimed that Asian women are tighter down there. I don’t know if it’s true or not but it seems Asian women do like to humble brag about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:43 AM
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So you're 5'2", but you wouldn't date a guy who's moderately taller than you, he has to be extremely taller than you? Like you realise if you stood next to a 6'4" guy the height difference would look massive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:56 PM
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Because generally it affects how they look as a couple. Like usually the woman wants the guy to look a bit taller than her in photos. If she's tall, then she'd want a really tall guy. But I never see really short girls want really tall guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:52 PM
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how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:36 PM
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6'4" is incredibly tall though. Way too tall. What's the appeal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:22 PM
2

Define taller men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:49 AM
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I've seen women on PPD say they'd do kinky things in bed only with a hook up or things like that but not with a husband or serious long term partner. But I've seen women say the opposite so I guess each women is different. In my view, guys don't want to just be a safe reliable husband, they want their girl to at least SOMETIMES see them as like a sex god or something like that. Most guys would be extremely cut if they found out an ex from her past or a fling from her past sexually excited her mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:08 AM
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THIS. Fucking play my anime video games, they're good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:42 AM
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long and black?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:41 AM
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SOME women. Not all women. I think its simple though, the dangerous guy is exciting, risky, he triggers a sense of danger but also fun and excitement. Kind of like going on a ride. That's why it's more sexually exciting to have sex with him. He triggers the horny receptors in women more. Beta bucks cause ultimately a safe well-to-do guy, though less sexually exciting, can provide a future and welfare for her and her future kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:13 AM
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i know its crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:28 PM
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what about paying for hentai? 'm assuming most men would be pretty pissed off or upset if the roles were reversed, their wife/girlfriend constantly looking at jacked sexy men all day long online and outside, and having an infinite supply of any type porn she wants, while he gets little to nothing at all and has to actively seek it out and spend a lot of time doing so to find anything good. what makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:27 PM
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What a chad kid, I wish I had that level of game and confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:17 PM
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The more relationships I've had the less jealous I Is it because you've realised that feeling lust is pretty much universal to all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:24 AM
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People should just end the relationship before cheating if the relationship is dead. Staying in the relationship and cheating is so cowardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:05 AM
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I think in the right relationship, a woman will explore that stuff with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:53 AM
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Personally if my partner regularly watched it I’d lose attraction towards them can I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:50 AM
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how is that not considered cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:48 AM
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Does your bf agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:45 AM
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Does it have any appeal from a woman's perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:29 AM
1

So your current husband is the best you've ever had?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:24 AM
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How would your current partner react if you said you did anal with an ex but would never do it for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:23 AM
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yeah but that would get old fast. can you imagine if your sex life consisting purely of hatefucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:00 AM
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How's your daughter doing nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:58 AM
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I hope I never have to go through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:57 AM
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In the end it still wouldn't be worth it cause there's no love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:56 AM
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No. It's not a person. It's like fucking a sex doll or sexting AI. there's no other person involved. It's just very very advanced masturbation. also why is this question only put to men. Nobody asks if all those smut novels that line respectable bookshops are cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:55 AM
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nup
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:51 AM
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Were they separated or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:51 AM
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would it change your opinion of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:49 AM
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that's you and your marriage. My gf and I have both said we would forgive each other if cheating happened. But we would never cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:45 AM
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Submissive to me when it's just the two of us in a situation. Masculine when we're in a situation where I want her to stand up for me. Like if they stuff up my order at the restaurant but I'm too scared to say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:45 AM
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Probably ask if she's okay and if she wants me to call for help. I would try to help lift the weights but probably wouldn't be able to help much. What else am I supposed to do? I wouldn't be interested in her if that's what you're asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:41 AM
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I just don't want to live a life without my gf. It would be like death. Luckily I know she will never cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:38 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:36 AM
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But she's a young, rich and beautiful girl! https://m.youtube.com/shorts/FWEYSRbrdPE
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:27 AM
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So what you're saying is that the appeal of one night stands is the novelty of a new person. I can understand that, even though that doesn't appeal to me personally. You compare it to porn, but porn isn't sex, porn is masturbation. Sex is different from masturbation, its an expression of closeness to another human being, there's an aspect of bonding and sharing something with someone else. When you share that good feeling together, you become a bit closer. I don't want to say you need to love so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:23 AM
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Great song, great group, Wonyoung a cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:10 AM
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Yes many things. When you've built up the entire rest of your life with someone in your head, its not easy to throw that away cause of one mistake they did. I know my gf better than anyone and I know she would never cheat or betray me, BUT if she did, I would want to know the circumstances. What motivated her to do it? Why did it happen? It would be extremely out of character for her and I would want to know what caused this massive lapse in her judgement. She would need to be genuinely remorsef…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:08 AM
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Some of the best sex I’ve had has been casual Casual a in "I just met you and this is crazy" or casual as in long term friend/FWB you've known for a while and done it many times with? I find it hard to believe the first one can be good, cause like, how can it feel good with someone you barely know and who barely even knows you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:05 AM
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Relationship sex, no comparison. Releasing yourself inside someone you care about while looking into their wide-open doe eyes and saying "I love you" to them then kissing is the best feeling in the world, you can't really get a similar effect with a hook-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:04 AM
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I've literally never heard of him before in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:01 AM
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virgo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:48 AM
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what happened to that chick with huge bazongas
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:47 AM
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The squid-smelling glue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:47 AM
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Why does everyone hate on temu so hard 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:05 AM
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Askreddit has horny threads all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:21 PM
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Reddit never gives you ideas on potential escapades?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:17 PM
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Imagine if a man transformed into a woman but retained the male sex drive 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:04 PM
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Which type of guy would you never date?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:51 PM
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i get more compliments on the age gaps than seethe tbh, like i'm lucky cause i found a younger girl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:19 PM
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I mean its unusual but its definitely better than expecting your partner to magically know everything you like by mind reading
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:01 PM
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If you love your current partner more than your ex, you should make an effort to MAKE him better than your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:26 AM
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I give out a manual on how to sexually please me 🤷 Do you actually or are you memeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:23 AM
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Anything 20+, fucking sue me, age gaps aren't illegal. Anyway my gf is 27 and 5 years younger than me so I don't know what side that sits on the REEEEE STOP ABUSING HER line
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:03 AM
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Yes cause I want her to be healthy My current gf is thin and petite and has b cup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:01 AM
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Yeah how dare someone care about other people’s suffering. I’m glad I’ll never be enough of a shitstain to mock others for their morals
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:24 AM
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Absolutely feral?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:43 AM
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You had better sex with a previous partner than with your current one?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:22 AM
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Of course I would die for her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:19 PM
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We will never get divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:03 PM
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The best would be to not divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:49 PM
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Alimony makes no sense in an age where women can earn just as much as men can. It’s like, “I was married to a millionaire but now I’m not but I still want the lifestyle and financial spending ability of millionaire’s wife”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:53 PM
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She wouldn’t be his spouse at that point. She’d be his EX-spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:44 PM
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Whatabout refusing to date an SA victim
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:35 PM
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Yeah but if you openly say I think X group are all smelly or all ugly, it’s not a good look
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:27 PM
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Agree one hundred percent, but sometimes it’s best to keep it to yourself. If you don’t wanna date a particular race, then you could be racist, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:13 PM
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What rude snark?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:35 PM
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that’s why men should be warned before marrying a nympho who wants to fuck 3 times a day. We’re only human!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 08:22 AM
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Why prefer to adopt?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:16 AM
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Would you ever adopt or you plan to have them biologically?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:20 AM
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Do you want a boy or a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:09 AM
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That’s why I said most not all. The vast majority of women don’t want casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:01 AM
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Some anime are really accessible though and easy to get into. She likes live action based on video games, she likes the fallout tv series despite never having played fallout. Just can’t get her into actual video games or anime
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:59 AM
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I think most women need to feel some kind of love to want sex I think most men get horny for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:58 AM
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2 boys, 2 girls
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:58 AM
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I love kids and even I think six is... a lot. I think four would be absolute max for me. Ideally 2-3.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:53 AM
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Don't, you'll get banned, also if it's mean best keep it to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:53 AM
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It would be ideal if he was demisexual too. Most guys aren't demisexual, would be surprised if any are. Most guys are horndogs who will feel aroused by anything and everything, and the ones who deny it are probably lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:50 AM
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literally the only things she likes watching are cheesy asian dramas she won't even give anime a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:46 AM
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Day 3 of owning Dragon Ball Sparking zero and my gf still doesn't wanna play with me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:23 AM
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STAYC MENTIONED ~~ I'm sorry bubble bubble bubble ~~
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:21 AM
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how bout spin the bottle 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:17 AM
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As a very loose general rule of thumb, it means that she has a lot of qualities that make her keeper and she ticks a lot of that specific guy's boxes. Of course "high value" can mean completely different things to different people. One person's high value man/woman can be another person's low value man/woman. I don't think there is such a thing as a perfect partner with 0 flaws, but there is such a thing as a partner who can make us feel in love and realise we feel fulfilled with them and want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:16 AM
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But you’re not a guy. For us, it stings that some other dude got to experience something with our wife that we can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:46 AM
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I didn’t even know it was a stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:46 AM
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Asian women are very mindful very demure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:21 AM
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You’re genuinely gorgeous. Love your hair
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:18 AM
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Sex is a good point, but have you considered boobies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:16 AM
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If she’d done threesomes or stuff like that with a previous partner but refused to with me, I’d say I have fairly reasonable grounds to be upset. Would you? It’s not weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:13 AM
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So you are judging based on sexual history. You use your own reasoning and rationality to decide that you don’t want a guy who’s sexual history contains a certain thing, the same as a guy who doesn’t want to date a woman based on her sexual history. How do you feel about a guy who doesn’t want to date a woman who used to do onlyfans or porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:56 PM
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How is it stupider than any other standard? I honestly don’t care and I’m in a relationship so it doesn’t apply to me. However if I were hypothetically single and dating a high N woman, I would be royally pissed off if she didn’t want to do kinky stuff with me but she had with previous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:55 PM
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Would you date a guy who has engaged sexually with men? A guy who is a virgin? A guy who has used prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:46 PM
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How dare you call me that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:44 PM
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People like to get wound up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:43 PM
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Isn’t it mostly women that do that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:42 PM
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To me she is. And yes I am
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:27 PM
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Also wanna point out all of this is ultimately minuscule. When everything’s said and done I don’t really care what others think of her, male or female. I know she’s not everyone’s type. To me she’s the most beautiful girl in existence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:20 PM
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Cause most guys I know are looking for a different air about a woman. In Australia most guys are looking for an outwardly sexual girl, or “hot” in a different way. Like a beach girl/beach body type of girl. Tall buxom blonde with big boobs and blonde hair and tanned skin. My gf is not that, she gives off more a cute petite shy girl vibe which I think is what I like about her. I know for guys who like that sort of look she’s appealing. But I don’t care about that. Knowing she has pretty status am…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:15 PM
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I just like it when other women acknowledge that my gf is pretty and that i have a pretty gf (which they do). It makes me feel she impresses other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:06 PM
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Not much. My gf is Asian and I know a lot of guys aren’t into Asian girls at all so I know from the get go lots of men won’t be attracted to her. In Australia most guys I think idolise the blonde tanned busty white girl look It means more to me that other women acknowledge her as pretty, which they do. Especially women from similar backgrounds as her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:28 PM
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One thing I’ve learned about FEEEEEEMALES is that cup sizes mean nothing. My gf owns multiple bras, some are A cup some are B cup. She also has a C cup one that is waaaay to big for her, like there’s a lot of space left over when she wears it but it’s thick and padded and she wears it when she wants to wear something tight fighting like a turtleneck and look extra sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:54 PM
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6’5” ex-convict cage fighter threatens to smash his gf’s face: call the cops Petite flat chested Asian girl jokingly threatens to give her bf a “knuckle sandwich”: media silent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:01 AM
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Is it weird if a guy pervs on his wife in the shower? Like he’s seen her naked a million times
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:08 AM
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Would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:07 AM
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I sit for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:06 AM
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why is female companionship valuable but not male companionship? Genuinely wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:37 AM
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is male companionship valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:40 AM
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Would have been super ironic if the guy you found was 20 something 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:39 AM
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Before I met her i used to enjoy things outside of her, I still do. Like I can still enjoy video games and watching stuff even without her, I just still miss her when she's not around and still feel like part of my life is missing. I don't really have friends anymore, the friends I had from way back when are married and busy with their own lives, I don't really maintain much contact. The closest thing I have to friends are my girlfriend's friends lol, they're nice. I feel like my life is sorta d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:35 AM
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I care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:27 AM
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Funny I wasn't codependent when I met her. I used to be fine by myself, now I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:23 AM
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not me though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:22 AM
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I agree that some dudes are shit human beings. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:20 AM
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I don't know, but there's a lot of diverse opinions, male and female, on PPD. As a guy who interacts with guys, I can assure you the majority of men will joke and say stuff in private that is far more "problematic" than anything you will ever hear. Guys have a completely different personality around their mates than they do around women or strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:14 AM
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Spend time with me obvoiusly. I get lonely when I'm without her, I miss her a lot, I kind of am only happy when she's around. I sorta am happy even when we're just in bed watching netflix together, even if we're not doing anything fancy. And yeah I don't push her, I always give her full freedom. I never said you HAVE to work less, I tell her to do what makes her happiest. She likes working the extra time to make more money, so it is what it is I guess. Also what makes your husband a chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:13 AM
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A few points Honesty IS the best policy. Never lie, never hide anything, always tell everything. Hiding stuff, good or bad, just creates resentment and mistrust sooner or later. It's good that as a couple, now you are both earning more. You both have more money to spend on your life together, on your dates, on your travels, etc. It's an entirely positive thing. Just because you earn more than him, doesn't mean that you should be the one calling the shots. a relationship is about mutual respect, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:11 AM
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The career that would deter me the most is a woman who prioritised her work over her family life. Unfortunately this is kind of my relationship at the moment, I keep begging my gf to spend less hours working during the week, but she likes the money. It's probably the biggest thorn in my relationship. She says she'll change and work much less once we get married but I'm skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:07 AM
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which group of people represent men in real life? also internet and anonymity lets people say things they can't say in real life for fear of getting fired or ostracised or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:05 AM
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What's your job?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:03 AM
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How do you feel about one day having to raise them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:48 AM
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Would you ever consider adoption, or never ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:25 AM
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okay wai tnevermind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:38 AM
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reddit interface is fucked. if you type in 2. it comes up as 1. see this 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:37 AM
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You don't think the doing it in other people's bed part is grosser?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:47 PM
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How long would you want to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:24 PM
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Your problem is not with sluts, its with modern western dating, where there's like the expectation you have sex by the third date (probably first date nowadays). You just need to be more selective about who you date, there's guys looking for commitment who are willing to wait. I was talking with my gf for like a month before anything happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:11 PM
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I've known women who genuinely trash talk and gossip about other women behind their backs, and usually the topic is how the other women sleeps with guys a lot, and the way they talk about them has so much disdain, that I'm genuinely inclined to agree with you. Like if a woman dislikes another woman, she will use her dating/relationship history and promiscuity to attack her. The thing about my gf is, she is very much not into hook up culture, she needs to love someone to have sex with them. But s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:10 PM
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yeah it's like going and farting in someone's bed. gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:07 PM
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i’m not normally one to kink shame, i’m super curious about exhibitionism myself Could you see yourself ever doing it in a controlled environment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:01 PM
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Not at all, my gf and i are into this too, not sure how courageous we'll get but ONE TIME on new years eve there were fireworks outside and we were in the car and we very nearly came close to fucking but my gf chickened out cause there were so many people outside, even though it was dark and the windows are tinted and the probably wouldn't have seen anything unless they peered through the glass. Like we were making out in the backseat and hands everywhere sort of stuff, and there were hundreds o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:00 PM
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I genuinely don't hate anyone, and i don't hate sluts, I don't hate sex workers/prostitutes, and I don't look down on them. I sorta view cheaters with disdain but that's different from being a promiscuous person. Like I do believe that ultimately true fulfilment can come from finding a life partner to share your life with, share your feelings, hopes and dreams with, and sexual intimacy with that partner who understands you is better than sexual intimacy with randos. That's how I feel. I don't un…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:36 PM
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Teehee you can look but you can’t touch, incel boy 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:32 PM
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What would your darling husband do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:01 PM
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Sex quotas for married couples
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:58 PM
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unintelligent design
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:19 PM
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"No, officer, I swear she looked 26!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:34 AM
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how tall is he
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:26 AM
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shit survey, many of the questions force you to pick an option and don't have none as an option
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:25 AM
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Oh yes, and when we dress up sexily for the sake of flirting, we're only interested in hot guys, Obviously 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:57 AM
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Women like being hit on by an attractive guy but don't like being hit on by an unattractive guy. Stop the presses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:49 PM
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lmao no need to apologise, I was just kidding/being unnecessarily mean. Its just women say "ick" so much nowadays. Idc though. I mean to be honest, its lewder than 99% of games. Like during character creation you can see dicks and tits and what not, was awkward creating a character with my gf sitting next to me. I don't play games for that stuff, I haven't romanced any character yet and I'm thinking of maybe doing a no romance playthrough. Or maybe I'll pick shadowheart, lets see.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:18 AM
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whole internet is filled with astarion scenes so... really? literally the first time I've heard of it. I don't even like him or use him that much. Turn base games are a big ick for me, Stop talking like a woman, omg. Like who the fuck uses ick to describe video games. Womanspeak is leaking into real life. Anyway its a really hit or miss game, gameplay wise. You're not gonna spend the whole game banging vampires, its a Larian game after all, you're gonna be lighting stuff on fire and trying to ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:33 AM
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lol you haven't even played the game and you're memeing about the characters? Gale is basically a wizard that you rescue and then like during one of the first conversations at camp, I noticed the game was already bringing up dialogue options to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:24 AM
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why not gale
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:17 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:28 AM
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You’re not allowed to use it to influence your actual real life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:46 AM
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Sounds like you’ve put a lot of thought into it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:42 AM
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Still would I have no shame
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:35 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:51 AM
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It’s not like men don’t have their own version of “Le crazy women are hot”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:20 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:22 AM
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lol does your husband know this or does he think it’s all natural
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:29 AM
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And be leaking oil afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:28 AM
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Robots deserve sex too. Why are you robophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:24 AM
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Terrifyingly erotic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:20 AM
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You’ll change your mind as soon as you see a hunky sexy 6ft chad robot with a huge robo-dick
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:59 AM
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Like the “omg you’re so big ah fuck me”? I thought that stuff was all real 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:56 AM
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Wtf does that even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:48 AM
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What performance do you mean? Like faking orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:47 AM
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You don't die if you don't have sex but consider the fact that pretty much every single animal has an extremely strong desire for sex. Our basic programming as animals is to seek out food and have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:19 AM
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thoughts on legalised sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:18 AM
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What if he was the one to suggest it. Maybe he's bisexual I don't know. I certainly wouldn't suggest that. Like, if it was his idea to only have an MFM and never an FMF and that's what you both wanted, its fine I guess. But I think most women would say its hypocritical if a guy only agreed to threesomes with another girl but never with another guy. Also, I don't think normal relationships can survive bringing a third into the bedroom in any case. I don't believe "love" and "sex with other people…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:51 AM
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I mean, it just kinda feels double-standardsy like "teehee, my darling husband whomst I love so much, no you can't have sex with another girl cause it would hurt my feelings, now watch me get railed by another guy" :) Would you rather do sexual stuff with another girl and your girl or watch your girl do sexual stuff with another guy? Would you rather have a FFM threesome or a MMF threesome with her? Exactly. My reasoning is the same. Since we're talking purely hypotheticals, I think the pros and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:34 AM
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but in an mmf you would be doing sexual stuff with another man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:05 AM
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basically I've heard women say they've done anal with partner from the past but won't with their current husband cause its degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:18 AM
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There's sex acts I've done that I won't do again with anyone. which are?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:12 AM
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How do you feel about the argument that those kinks are "degrading" so they don't do it with their husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:11 AM
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How do you feel about the argument that those kinks are "degrading" so they don't do it with their husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:10 AM
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I have that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:09 AM
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I think there's a combination of factors to determine a woman's likeliness to fuck a guy, and I think his money is definitely one of them. It's just one of those things that makes a guy more attractive. Like height or wearing nice clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:02 AM
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does going to a strip club count as buying sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:40 AM
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In a hypothetical scenario I would rather have a FFM threesome with a man whom I don't love, but I would rather have a MFM threesome with the man that I love. Can you please explain the logic behind this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:18 AM
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Shitting on your partner is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:18 AM
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for my specific husband at that time It implied that he was your husband at that time and therefore not anymore? Sorry I guess I misunderstood. And I think women in general get more jealous over romance and love whereas guys get more jealous over fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:06 PM
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I've never had a threesome, but the people I know who have had them fall into one of two types: either they aren't relationship-oriented people and are just in really short term relationships and constant break ups or casual relationships; OR, they are in an open relationship and have 0 jealousy factor and are okay with their partners fucking everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:56 PM
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what if you get widowed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:41 PM
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Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:22 PM
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Do you think you ever caused a couple to break up with your antics?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:21 PM
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I get that, but don't you think that from a husband's perspective, its hurtful to be denied a threesome by his wife when she's agreed to give it to an ex of hers in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:20 PM
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So you don't empathise with the hurt from knowing your wife, the love of your life, let someone else live out his dream but won't let you live yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:14 PM
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Okay but consider this. Imagine it from a guy's perspective. You're married to the love of your life, you always wish you could have a threesome with her, but she never accepts. And then she's like "oh you know my ex brad, the one I introduced you to, actually he got to experience threesomes with me, teehee." If you were a guy, wouldn't that make you rage?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:04 PM
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But is there anything you would do with an FWB but not with a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:58 AM
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Sorry I don't understand, are you saying that you're not married to him anymore? Or you're still married? Also how do you stop from getting jealousy during it, which seems to be a major concern based on what the others are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:53 AM
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whichever I guess. Like anything from the past should be technically beneath your current LTR, especially if its a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:49 AM
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I've never done anything but vanilla sex with a hookup and each successive "i love you" BF got more and more sex stuff until my husbands got threesomes. See, two of the other users said they would do a threesome only with a hook up but not with a LTR. But you're saying that you would only do a threesome with an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:48 AM
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okay but imagine you're a guy and you're dream is a threesome, and you're married now and realise you will probably never get to have a threesome cause your wife doesn't want one. But you find out that her ex-boyfriend chad got to live out that dream with her but you never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:45 AM
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But imagine being a guy, and your dream fantasy is having a threesome, and then its like you meet a girl you love and who loves you, and she's like "well actually I did that ultimate fantasy of yours but with some random from years ago, I will NEVER do it with you."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:44 AM
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BECAUSE I've seen it a million times on reddit, discussed on PPD, and on other subs. A woman will do anal or a threesome or something, usually anal, with some random ex from years ago, but not with her husband. And the answer is usually because she finds it "degrading" or some other variation. Like she's willing to let a rando degrade her but she wants to maintain power dynamics over her husband who loves her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:03 AM
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The one that really triggeres my incelrage is the variations of "I find it degrading". It's like, you're willing to let random chad "degrade" you but not your husband? Like you want to maintain power dynamics over your husband but not over some random dudebro from a nightclub?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:01 AM
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If relationship history doesn't matter, have you noticed that 100% of divorced women were in a marriage at some point? Checkmate atheists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:59 AM
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They should band together and form a team of superheroes, trying to protect the society that hates them, kind of like the x-men. They should be called the N-women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:58 AM
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huge tits
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:56 AM
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Why is this unusual? Most guys want to pay for their girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:59 AM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:37 AM
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Found anyone yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:16 AM
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Why do you miss having sex with other people? Is it because it’s different to sex with your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:15 AM
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Strip club
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:53 AM
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When you say sometimes, you mean you’d want to try sex with new people even while you’re married?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:43 AM
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What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:46 AM
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Do you mean literally endless money? I’d probably try to make the world a better place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:38 AM
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Do you miss that variety now that you’re married?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:18 AM
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Cognitive behavioural therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:01 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:54 AM
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What is that thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:43 AM
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I tried to make this a post but it got caught by the shitpost filter. A common debate here is about how a woman would in the past have done anal (just an example) with chad in the past but won’t do it with her current husband. This causes endless rage and debate usually from men, while women defend her and say it’s perfectly reasonable. Usually the explanation is that she doesn’t want to jeopardise a serious relationship where she respects herself more but in the past was okay with doing it, of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:54 AM
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Would you say there are any advantages to sex with a stranger or casual sex that you don’t get in sex with a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:29 AM
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my girlfriend is asian
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:38 PM
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someone's bitter and lonely :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:33 PM
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disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:43 PM
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if she has sex with you, you've progressed to the relationship stage. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:00 PM
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It's just a theory (a game theory!) I can't speak for all the guys you've had sex with, but I know for myself, when I have sex, I enjoy kissing, touching, grabbing, lots of stuff that makes my partner reach climax faster and I know she enjoys. We've been together a while though so I've had time to learn that. I just find it strange that the guys you've been with aren't interested in that stuff at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:55 PM
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Um, not trying to be mean, but maybe the guys you had sex with weren't super in love with you? If they were, then maybe they'd be into doing all that stuff. If they were just a random hookup, then it makes sense they might want to go straight to the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:42 PM
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Yes but my point is, if its an attractive cock, that will be a pleasurable act for them. Not an old wrinkly one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:41 PM
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She's a very lucky woman :) Luckier than you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:37 PM
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A penis > a vibrator anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:37 PM
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well you're completely wrong. You can ask my girlfriend if you don't believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:33 PM
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cause you're touching a sexual organ that you're attracted to. its like asking how is it pleasurable for a guy to be grabbing boobies or sucking on boobies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:32 PM
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If he’s touching you and trying to get you off then yes, You do realise that the vast majority of heterosexual men enjoy doing this to a woman, right? We don't just want to stick it and then say good bye. We enjoy all the touching and kissing and other stuff just as much as women do. I don't know why women think we don't like that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:27 PM
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wtf is a "modest" vibrator
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:22 PM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:18 PM
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Death grip is when a guy is so used to wanking with a tight fist that he can't cum, or struggles to cum, from sex with a vagina. what the other guy is saying is that maybe women are so used to a 50 megawatt ultrasonic vibrator to stimulate their clit that they can't cum from old fashioned sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:17 PM
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i buy shit for my gf all the time it's called temu, get with the times
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:11 PM
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the hate towards nice guys is honestly the biggest misogyny fuel. just admit you don't want to fuck him cause he's not chad thundercock don't be like "ewww he's just pretending to be nice but he's so entitled, I'm a real human person!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:08 PM
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men don't masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:06 PM
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How can you say you love someone if you're grossed out by their cum :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:06 PM
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I think i'd be good at swallowing cum. I have a very non-picky palate, like my gf loves the fact I never complain about food and am open to try new cuisines
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:59 PM
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yeah but masturbation isn't gonna pay for all their nice shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:57 PM
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Somewhere in between. It's no fun if he cums too quickly or takes too long. yeah it probably kills the romance if he blows his load in your face too quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:56 PM
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so what you're saying is you don't really enjoy giving blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:53 PM
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Women: "teehee, you're not entitled to sex, inc*l! No one owes you sex, sex is a privilege not a right, stop demanding sex, nobody owes you sex, you're not allowed to want sex!" also women: "REEEEEE WHY CAN'T I CUM? WHY CAN'T I FUCKING CUM? THE PATRIARCHY DID THIS. I AM ENTITLED TO ORGASMS. I AM SO OPRESSED"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:52 PM
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maybe women should get better at orgasming? why is it men's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:50 PM
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would you rather give a bj where the guy cums really easily or one where he takes forever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:49 PM
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Can I be your friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:12 PM
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