AbolishGender Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	You are not high maintenance or dramatic I think those are reasonable things to be annoyed with in a romantic partner. Not the best example of a HVM.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 10:54 PM
2	A kind stranger from FDS saved me from r/AgeGap Congrats! I’m so happy for you ❤️❤️❤️Sometimes I message the teenage girls in AgeGap subreddits but it’s always demoralizing - usually the girl I’m messaging will be super defensive and start attacking me. I’m glad it had an impact, I’m going to keep messaging these girls and hope they start seeing these older men for the abusers that they are. What do you think someone could say to you back then that would have encouraged you to reconsider your relationship?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/20 01:57 PM
15	Unpopular opinion: Women have double the rates of depression as men after puberty because that's when girls (children) start getting sexually assaulted/harrassed and impregnated by adult men. Two thirds do not get help because they have been told their emotions are exaggerated Hmm I actually don’t think this is 100% of the reason, but women being sexualized/objectified is definitely a big factor. I think the other side of this is female socialization in general - wanting people to like you and shrinking yourself and your wants in order to do so. When I was a teenager and a young adult I cared SO MUCH about what other people thought about me that I never really had a strong sense of self - what I thought about myself, what my wants and needs are. And obviously this typ…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/19 05:29 PM
6	Broke up with my boyfriend because of red flags, now I feel horrible. What should I do? I would focus on getting female friends, building up your confidence and working through your trauma before you start dating again. In my experience, predatory men can be really good at figuring out if a woman is vulnerable and has low self esteem. Guys like this will test boundaries and see how much they can get away with. You need to be happy enough with yourself that you can walk away from a relationship as soon as you start seeing red flags.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/19 04:57 PM
11	Bad Date Night I don’t think you’re being an asshole. He does sound like an insecure man who likes to see himself as a player. It also sounds like he was lying about why that woman called during your date. If you’ve only been dating for two months, this is supposed to be the honeymoon phase where guys try really hard to impress you and win your heart. This guy sounds like trash. I would ditch him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/19 02:16 PM
18	"Controlling" Wife Mystified by Husband Repeatedly Cutting His Own Hands Making Breakfast. (Spoiler Alert: Cut hands = no chores for scrote.) From personal experience, women with mental illnesses tend to attract predators and become victims of male abuse. I think predatory men can tell if a woman is vulnerable and not good at setting boundaries. Men with mental health problems tend to be abusers.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/19 02:07 PM
14	Keep your heart on lockdown until he has demonstrated consistently that he cares about making you happy. Er...it sounds like you’re blaming yourself for your communication problems when in actuality your boyfriend is an asshole. He’s getting upset for no reason and it sounds like he resents you. Do you feel like you have to tiptoe around him and choose your words carefully so that he doesn’t get angry? He sounds like an abuser.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/19 07:34 PM
3	If you want to learn the truth about men's relationship desires, look at gay men. Because they don’t see women as people.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/19 02:47 PM