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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	I realized it was all lies after years of looksmaxing and moneymaxing Hi there OP! Sorry for your struggle. If you want me to be honest, it sounds like you're dealing with much more than just "not being able to get a girlfriend" or "kiss someone" here. It sounds like you are more so struggling with ideas related to value systems (what's important in the world), social skills, and self worth. I think finding a therapist who focuses on developing your values (spirituality as well as Accept and Commitment Therapy is great for this), social skills (Social Skills Train…	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/26 09:23 AM
7	Falling down the incel pipeline has made me realize how unintelligent I really am. Yes, OP - be kind to yourself and start getting out of your comfort zone into some different communities. You will be astonished at what's out there.	/r/ExRedPill	01/01/26 05:37 PM
8	Being vulnerable is bad This. We are meant to be able to open up to others. That doesn't mean to go and open up to anyone willing to listen. Pay attention to a person's actions first, words second, and determine for yourself if they are worthy of your trust and vulnerability. This does, however, sometimes present the challenge of actually finding worthy individuals... and for many, that's where spirituality comes online. God, Jesus, whomever - having a figure that is in line with the spirit of the Logos in the world to…	/r/ExRedPill	22/12/25 11:42 AM
15	If in real life only personality matters, then why with me, who am ugly, have only very ugly girls hit on me and never a cute and maybe shy girl? "Ugly girls want Chad and cute girls want Chad" You just said ugly girls have hit on you. "Personality is an invention of consumerist society because ugly people are the productive social class and the elites delude them otherwise they would get angry and start boycotting" The idea you have to have many women or a super cute girl to be happy is also a product of society. And even if it was a part of nature, so what? In nature monkeys sometimes kil each other for very little reason. No need to sa…	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/25 08:13 PM
8	My bf who’s addicted to rp and chan sites found my post and now he’s mad That's honestly a misconception. They are not the most "honest", it's just where people can go without being moderated. And they get moderated elsewhere because people don't want to see miserable, horrible content elsewhere.	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/25 09:49 PM
14	What do boys need to hear to not fall for the red-pill in the first place? Not so much what they need to hear, but what they need to have is a strong father figure that teaches them how to have both a warm, loving heart as well as a firm, strong spine. It takes both.	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/25 05:25 PM
3	How do I cope with my situation? (Read below) Sorry to hear about all the hate you experience brother. Don't let it drag you down, and never stoop to their level. Consider going to the middle rather than an extreme. It's very helpful to not use black and white thinking. Furthermore, I'd highly recommend finding friend groups rather than simply looking for someone to date. What we really crave is connection. And yes, with time, you will find the love you are looking for. Much love my friend.	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/25 09:07 PM

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