Absent-Thought Archive

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6	Is cheating during a separation a thing It might depend on where you’re located, but that’s something that usually should be discussed and agreed upon. I told my stbxw that if she goes and hooks up with someone else we’re 100% done. She claimed she wasn’t interested in messing around or dating, only for that to be what she intended. But, to answer your question due to the information you provided. Yes, she would be cheating. If that’s what’s happening, I’m very sorry that’s happening. I’m sorry you’re going through what you are in gen…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/25 03:24 PM
3	How do you deal with anniversaries and relationship milestones after leaving? Take yourself out for dinner, treat yourself to a night out. There’s nothing to celebrate anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/25 03:57 PM
2	Ex wife’s new contact name. Need ideas! Mine is her name. The pictures attached to her contact however, are The Mouth of Sauron, and Nico Robyn when she makes her cringe face.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/25 01:41 AM
2	Why does everyone call their ex a narcissist? That makes sense. I stopped looking for forgiveness from my ex as it will never happen. I just want to live peacefully, and work together but that seems impossible. I’m over the hate, vindictiveness, and accusations. I know the truth, and find comfort in knowing I will only have to deal with her when it comes to the kids in the future. When things get as messed up as they are now, people show their true colours. Especially when they can’t pull the wool over your eyes anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/24 01:37 PM
8	Why does everyone call their ex a narcissist? My wife has been calling me a narcissist and telling everyone around her I’m one. I accepted responsibility for my mistakes, apologized profusely and never received one iota of accountability from her. Funny enough I think she’s the narcissist, or at the very least some form of cluster B. My psychologist and therapist agreed but cannot diagnose someone they haven’t talked to	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/24 12:34 AM
8	What bucket list items are you planning on doing when you get divorced Travel to Japan	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/24 11:41 PM
3	I need your thoughts Fellas Wow are we married to the same women? Obviously not but still	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/24 12:07 AM
3	Considering To End My Marriage I have some advice I’m trying to instil in myself at the moment Identify and stop trying to change things you have no control over (others) Change what you have control over (yourself) And learn to identify the difference in what you can and cannot change. You can’t make others change for you, you can only change yourself. And it has to be for yourself. Perhaps there’s a pattern of behaviour you’ve been stuck in that is pushing her away. Maybe there isn’t, but there’s tons of options for couples…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/24 03:33 PM