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15

It’s just odd to compare a group of people to animals and insist that they are the problem when they predictably object to this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 12:44 AM
5

That’s true. Many western women also have this sentiment
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 02:25 PM
43

It’s reasonable to criticize and question superficial preferences and gendered standards when they affect women but it somehow becomes taboo if they affect men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/26 08:46 PM
8

Yes, the ratio in the US also about 2 to 1 and even that is very likely thar male victims are very undercounted due to bias. One of the reasons for this is that when a woman is murdered, the first suspicion is IPV and that is thoroughly investigated before other avenues are. With men, it’s the reverse so a lot more cases get misclassified. And because men are far less likely to report DV, they are less likely to have a paper trail for it so murders by their partners are often not classified as I…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 04:21 PM
4

Thank you. Love the positive message
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 03:59 PM
6

I’m around good people so I assume that most people aren’t unhinged. If the shit we see online is anything to go by, we are in some serious trouble. I hope bro is okay. The shit he’s taking about really is pervasive online and hard to ignore
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 04:33 PM
3

Yeah, it’s hard to tell for some if they genuinely believe in the shit they espouse or if they just do it for some other reason
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/26 01:20 AM
-3

Not even close
/r/MensRights25/04/26 03:34 AM
28

Yep, I’m sure something like that has happened
/r/MensRights24/04/26 08:33 PM
79

I mean it wouldn’t be rational response. As bad as the war is, most will survive and return. If they do that, they’ll never see their freedom
/r/MensRights24/04/26 08:12 PM
2

The usual “I am incapable of seeing things objectively and learning from my mistakes so I repeatedly get pumped and dumped and blame all men” rant. Thank you white woman; very cool.
/r/MensRights10/04/26 06:07 AM
2

That’s not what systemic means. If you believe misandry isn’t a systemic issue, why are you here and not in men’s lib or a similar group? That’s one of the key areas we disagree
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/26 08:36 PM
6

Yeah, one of the first subs I muted because of the toxicity. It is very disappointing indeed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/26 05:03 PM
7

This is disappointing but not surprising unfortunately
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/26 10:57 PM
2

Representation matters
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 12:06 AM
3

I wonder if he would have been chosen for the role if he wasn’t a kid for the first movie
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 11:58 PM
5

Guess misandry is lucrative. It’s funny how his video giving advice to man haters on how to find the men they are looking for is full of comments accusing him of victim blaming. Can you imagine if a therapist makes a video “what to do if you hate women but also date women” and talks about how women suck but how you can find the good ones?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/25 11:34 PM
2

No, it’s not lol. This is just a company being retarded
/r/MensRights16/12/25 03:28 PM
1

He’s right about some things and probably wrong about others. It’s alright to talk about the things we disagree about, but keep the focus on the structural issues that we agree on
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 06:57 PM
37

No, they are just being hyperbolic, and you are the problem if you have any objections to it /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/25 09:23 PM
2

Great response! I had similar thoughts while reading her article. One thing that struck me is how differently the same behavior of taking a step back from romantic relationships is framed for men and women. For women, it is understood as a triumph of independence, prioritizing themselves, refusing to settle, and must be caused by the actions of men. For men, it is a personal failing, emotional underdevelopment, and doesn’t reflect in anyway negatively on women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/25 09:19 PM
3

People on social media generally don’t let facts get in the way of their biases. It frustrates me as well
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/25 10:54 PM
2

It has nothing to do with Trump, and this is view of Merz and Zelensky, neither are exactly right wing. This is a common view across the political spectrum, but we’re using Trump to deflect this reality for some reason. Why do people do that?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/25 01:28 AM
2

The issue is more that it’s male only than it is the existence of a draft in Ukraine. I don’t have a strong opinion on the matter of a draft in Ukraine’s case, but I can see why a reasonable person might be in favor.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/25 09:36 PM
6

Why are we making this about Trump? I don’t think Metz is exactly right wing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/25 09:32 PM
8

Kudos to Anna and Chenk. Hopefully this means they are evolving on this issue
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/25 06:41 PM
3

LOL, not surprised at all. I’ll should keep a catalogue of times I encounter blatant bias like that with this llms because it happens pretty often
/r/MensRights30/09/25 03:29 PM
2

Liberals too when when it comes to men’s issues
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/25 01:41 AM
0

Interesting caricature of traditional conservatives. I’ve heard the “misandry doesn’t exist” or the “men need to be better” nonsense but not generally from that group. We do have a lot of men that behave like accepting abuse is virtue but this seems like a bipartisan thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/25 10:43 PM
6

That may be true, but it’s more there’s an increasing lack of male friendships altogether
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/25 05:18 PM
4

Yea it's genuinely what men in my life have told me is that men don't tend to open up to each other but also they just desire different things in friendships. I see. I believe this as well, but I think those are two separate things and not mutually exclusive. Male friendships are not identical to female ones can be true while it also being the case that an increasingly large number of men do not have any friendships or close relationships. They've framed it as "male loneliness epidemic" is a fem…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/25 05:04 PM
9

When I bring up the male loneliness epidemic all the men in my life have told me that male loneliness epidemic was not real, that they have friends, so it's fine. And then they turn around and tell me that the thing that men actually want is a romantic partner, as though a singular woman was supposed to fix the problems of a broken society. Be honest here, is this really what all the men in your life told you? This is certainly not what most men think. Yes, many of us do talk about men’s issues.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/25 04:22 PM
6

The UK is a wild place lol. Other countries also share the same view, but the UK really is not trying to be subtle about it
/r/MensRights11/09/25 12:22 PM
1

Interesting analysis. Not something I know enough about to have much of an opinion but interesting to think about
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/25 06:41 PM
2

I’m much like you, and I think it is the same for a lot of guys. Some traditionally masculine things I like- playing sports, weight lifting, hunting, fishing, shooting, guns, archery, beer Some traditionally masculine things I don’t care for- watching sports, hard liquor, cars, action movies Some traditionally feminine things I like- poetry, drama and romance fiction, drawing, painting
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/25 05:11 PM
2

I go there too from time to time to see a different perspective, but I’ve given up on having conversations there. I’m not really sure how representative it is of feminism broadly, but I think it’s past the point where the hostile to men crowd can be considered a fringe minority at least.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 10:36 PM
2

Perpetration of child sexual abuse Men are found to be more often the perpetrators of child sexual abuse, but the data on this is gray due to bias and what people even consider abuse. Oftentimes, abuse perpetrated by women is not considered abuse. Teachers' perpetration of child sexual abuse Same situation. Sexual abuse perpetrated by women is treated differently and more leniently even if people recognize it as abuse. Domestic violence and suicide There isn’t enough data to make a claim here on…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/25 03:19 PM
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The media as man-hating Social media is what’s man hating Women’s control of personal wealth She’s right here, I don’t think there’s a huge gap on what men and women control in personal wealth, especially if we exclude the extreme outliers Paternity fraud Studies find between ~1% to ~30% depending on how they are conducted. Ones with random samples tend to be on the lower end and ones with people that suspect it as a possibility tend to be on the higher end. Saying it’s non existent is like sayi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/25 10:17 PM
5

The Russian people. Has been this way since the USSR. It's simple history, dude. Ukraine sided with Nazis, and the Nazis distinctly had a genocidal campaign against the Slavic peoples of Europe. Stop making shit up. Majority of Ukrainians fought with the Soviets in WW2. Given the mass executions and deportations that preceded it, it makes sense that many Ukrainians wanted to be emancipated from the Soviet Union. Why is that a justification for invading a sovereign country decades later? Please. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/25 12:07 AM
8

What kind of deal do you think should be acceptable to Ukraine besides fuck off our country?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/25 11:52 PM
10

He didn’t imply that lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/25 11:50 PM
6

Agreed. I believe both of their losses to Donald Trump was self inflicted because of things like what you are talking about, and I hope they learn from it. I’m glad they are actually analyzing it seriously instead of just dismissing it as misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/25 10:58 PM
6

This is a step in the right direction. I certainly prefer them over republicans, and I genuinely hope they actually stop alienating men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/25 01:55 PM
11

By being constantly bombarded with messages that say the opposite.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 10:27 PM
2

I wouldn’t say generally, but they often do. They generally just flirt with you and hope you make the move. Foreign women have been the most direct and aggressive both in the US, but especially when I lived in France. I’d say it’s mostly women in the 4-7 range. I don’t think I’ve had an extremely attractive or ugly woman randomly approach me
/r/seduction20/04/25 02:34 PM
3

I don’t know that I’d go that far, but enough feminists spread misandry and not enough speak up against it that I will not support or associate myself with the movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/25 09:02 PM
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So misandry is rife among feminists, and feminists do nothing to stop it. Kudos for acknowledging that. I can have a conversation with someone at least willing to acknowledge that modern feminism has some serious problems. I don’t understand how this supports your idea of there being a civil war within feminism related to misandry. Or are you just saying feminists have different opinions on other things?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/25 10:30 PM
4

She obviously has a kink
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/25 06:01 PM
9

Reddit echo chambers tend to be extremely hostile to nuance or anything that challenges the prevailing thought, and leftists tend to distrust or hate anything they associate with power. It’s very disappointing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/25 05:22 PM
1

I can only hope it’s not what it looks like
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/25 04:31 AM
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lol I wish I had your optimism. No, I don’t think this incident will change much
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/25 05:35 PM
2

Even if we say that’s the case, that is a correlation. A correlation does not necessitate causation
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 10:44 PM
0

We’re talking about correlation. I’m not saying testosterone increases or doesn’t increase aggression. I’m saying that testosterone is correlated to it. That is just a fact
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 08:42 PM
1

I agree. Testosterone is also correlated with a lot of positive things
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 08:04 PM
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What theory?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 08:03 PM
0

Sure, but even with women, the same correlation has been found with testosterone. The exact nature of the relationship isn’t clear, but the correlation exists
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 07:48 PM
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No, there is strong evidence for a correlation between testosterone and aggression. You could argue that it’s not causal or direct, but it’s pretty well established. The most aggressive demography in any country or group of people across every time period is young men around the ages where testosterone is highest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 07:30 PM
2

Oh, I misread your comment. That sucks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/25 05:34 PM
15

Yep, very true. It’s just crazy to me that men being the primary guinea pigs when research was much more dangerous is somehow being used as a reason why we shouldn’t give a damn that men are dying so young compared to women
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/25 04:23 PM
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I get tired of the idea that the only reason that fewer studies have been done on women is because society hates women. Feminists somehow interpret men primarily fronting the risks of medical studies and society treating men as disposable to mean that society hates women and favors men. Are people just not able to understand nuance?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/25 02:24 PM
2

I see it from the US too
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/25 01:46 PM
8

They are right that society is more protective of women’s bodies and regulates it more closely. But on the flip side of that, it views men’s as more disposable, and men are expected to risk life and limb when there is danger while the same expectation doesn’t exist for women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/25 02:35 PM
3

Nobody here has claimed that there aren’t problematic views in that post. Nobody. Not you. Not me. Nobody. You’re tilting at windmills with this one, man. Reread your first comment asking why op found the post disappointing. I took that as a good faith question and answered sincerely, but it clearly wasn’t. One thing can be bad and another thing can be good. Two things can be true at the same time. You can like Pepsi and dislike coke. You can enjoy board games and dislike card games. And you can…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/25 12:20 AM
2

It should have been abundantly clear why his post is problematic even if we think this is a person trying to change. But no, I don’t believe this is a person on the journey of correcting his behavior. This is one of his comments on the post Yes, I know “not all men” — I am good friends with many men who I have known many years and who don’t suck — but it’s very, very hard to trust men in general. Much easier with women, who aren’t seemingly sizing you up at all times. And don’t even get me start…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 11:50 PM
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You are not framing this accurately. This is not someone saying I distrust men because of past experiences, and I am actively working to change my incorrect beliefs. This is someone that is actively spewing harmful stereotypes about men in the same post that he says he knows he needs therapy. The shallowness, the toxic masculinity, the constant one-upping, the arrogance, the douchebaggery, etc. I have a feeling you wouldn’t be insinuating that there’s something wrong with my character if I had a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 11:30 PM
9

Replace “men” with women, Jews, back people, etc and it will be clear. Hateful rhetoric against men is just so normalized that it doesn’t even register as hateful to most people
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 11:06 PM
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Yep, I think it’s human tribalism amplified by social media. It think men will probably stop being the target of it at some point, but this seems to be a common theme in human nature
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/25 04:09 PM
1

100% agree. Even if it’s not through direct activism, it’s good to be engaged in your local community. This benefits both you and your community
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/25 10:55 PM
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Or the expectation that we repeatedly listen to their often very easily solvable problems without talking about a solution unless explicitly asked. Or the emotional labor of having to be responsible for their emotions if we tell them something remotely critical. Or the damn near constant validation that they need and generally don’t reciprocate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 11:48 PM
15

What do you mean by eradicating masculinity, and how do you propose we do it? Should femininity be eradicated as well? How do we do that if so?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 05:03 PM
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Welcome to Reddit my guy. The places that aren’t incredibly biased against men are far and few between
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 12:14 AM
6

Women complain about loneliness. I saw it all the time in the women’s groups before I muted most of them.
/r/MensRights02/02/25 09:09 PM
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You’re welcome here. It’s unfortunate that they are that way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/25 06:17 AM
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Yep, they don’t see sexist comments against men as a problem and they see calling it out as derailing the conversation. I’ve muted most of those groups to save my sanity
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/25 04:08 PM
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Let’s not make sexist comments
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/25 09:08 PM
8

There are some forms of fgm that are far worse than circumcision, but this doesn’t need to be a competition. There is absolutely no reason why this practice shouldn’t be banned in western countries.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/25 02:28 PM
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The left has not exactly been welcoming to men in recent times
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/25 03:12 AM
2

Yeah, I prefer to be in control so I pursue what I want regardless of what people screech online, and I suspect a lot of men are the same. But you are right many just don’t see it as worth the risk to approach women because of the social climate we’re in
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:15 AM
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It’s hard to take that conclusion seriously when there are much more gender based incentives to admit more women into universities even though there are far more women being admitted to universities. Why should we take feminists seriously when their explanations for any or all issues men face amounts to “men are fragile” or “men are bad”?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/25 01:40 PM
4

It’s objectively true that all the worst criminals are men. Even if we accept your premise, your conclusion doesn’t follow from it. You can’t make a conclusion about the average member of the population based on an outlier segment of it. For example, you can’t conclude that the average American is a better swimmer than the average Brit because America wins a lot more gold medals in swimming. It’s only your bias causing you to think men are worse than women. Unfortunately society also perpetuates…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:33 AM
1

We see those every day and the women get slay queened. But yeah, it’s bad when a guy does it too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:17 AM
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The main thing that I think is essential for society to do is to end the constant villainization of men and masculinity. This is really not healthy even anyone including the people doing it since half the world is male and masculinity isn’t going anywhere.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/25 02:41 AM
11

Yes, perfect reasonable to insult your dad on social media
/r/MensRights11/01/25 04:28 PM
7

Yeah, that’s pretty standard for feminists subs. Not all of Reddit is that unhinged though
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 11:58 PM
1

I’m more referring to what people think of when they think of men or masculinity, but you are right that conservatives tend to have a more narrow and rigid understanding of masculinity
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 01:59 AM
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You are correct that conservatives tend to show stronger in group favoritism and out group bias, but every human group has these biases, and I don’t think hating men is a conservative attitude. Conservative values promote and reward masculinity. Masculinity or men are not considered the out group. Your argument is like saying poor people hating the rich is a conservative attitude because out group bias is a conservative attribute.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 12:37 AM
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I cringe a bit at his overly meek and submissive tone, but it is encouraging that his message was well received
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/25 07:28 PM
2

Sure, people are no longer limited to a smaller geographic area. Dating is lower stakes and women are more promiscuous so sex is easier. More women are single and childless than in the past so there are more options. Owning a home is more difficult today than in the past overall because there are fewer available homes for the number of people looking for them. People have access to more information about available homes and can navigate the buying process by themselves easily. There are also mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:36 PM
3

In some ways, dating and owning a home has gotten easier. In other ways, more difficult. That’s the only constant in life; things will change. You have to be adaptable and not expect the old ways to always work if you are to succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:00 AM
1

It’s unreasonable to if there are no problems in the relationship related to the person’s porn use. It’s reasonable not to date people that watch porn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:26 AM
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Yep, it’s disappointing because some of those subs would be cool without the constant self flagellation
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/25 06:16 PM
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It’s sad that I expected less. I’m surprised that it acknowledged some of the ways men are systematically disadvantaged, but disappointed that it was always preceded by the qualifier that men are men are privileged as a class. It’s no surprise that fewer men utilize therapy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/25 06:59 AM
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That’s another one of their contradictions. When a man pays more for a gender affirming product, he’s fragile and something is wrong with him. When a woman does the same thing, she’s a victim and something is wrong with society.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/12/24 11:02 PM
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Or literally any male issue without someone saying women have it worse
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/24 01:04 AM
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I hope this person experiences what those men experienced and have someone villainize her when she can no longer bear the suffering
/r/EverydayMisandry29/12/24 09:31 PM
2

Thankfully most people aren’t that unhinged
/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 12:58 AM
3

Like this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/12/24 10:43 PM
6

Yeah, they are actually specifically designed to give the politically correct responses for some prompts. There are ways you can get around it with carefully crafted prompts like the way op did
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/12/24 10:41 PM
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Wow, these people really suck
/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/24 10:30 PM
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Or ceasefires and negotiations breaking down because Hamas dared to release male hostages before every single female one has been released. Society sure hates women and loves men
/r/EverydayMisandry21/12/24 10:54 PM
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I’m not sure about your understanding of Men’s Rights. I think Men’s Rights are people that advocate for men’s rights and they don’t have a universal view of feminism. I don’t fall completely in either camp following your definition. I’m against the demonization of men that is becoming more normalized and accepted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/24 01:19 AM
4

Kinda like the shit they accuse all men of not being exclusive to men
/r/EverydayMisandry20/12/24 08:15 PM
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The crazy thing about these people is that they understand that societal problems often require systemic solutions, but they immediately become hardcore ‘pull yourself by the bootstraps’ conservatives as soon as it’s a problem affecting men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/24 02:12 PM
0

Let’s agree to disagree. The decision is not in my hands either way
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 09:11 PM
0

Your response didn’t really address anything I said and was more or less OPs point that I’ve addressed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 09:06 PM
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I believe there are circumstances where there are more important objectives than fairness or gender equality. I can pretty much guarantee you these armies have additional troubles that they have to deal with because of that. The difference is that they can afford to deal with those problems without any real consequences, but the countries you are talking about may not have the same privilege
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 05:26 PM
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There are differences between the genders, and adding women to the military adds another layer of complexity that is unnecessary and challenging to navigate even in the best of circumstances They will more than likely face more resistance if they try to conscript both genders but this mainly depends on what the prevailing attitudes are in the country
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 04:55 PM
-1

I mean it’s reasonable to be prepared as a smaller country with Russia in your backyard. This is one of those things that though unfair, they may not have the privilege to be concerned about that over more pressing things
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 04:09 PM
11

Bingo
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 01:10 AM
7

Yep, there is a lot of mental gymnastics around this. Their go to response when a man states a preference that excludes some women is to call him gay. There’s also their tendency to blame and shame men when they aren’t secure about their masculinity, but blame society and support women when they aren’t secure about their femininity.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/12/24 08:52 PM
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I don’t think men in their 30s are interested in seriously dating a woman in their early 20s. Having sex with them, yes, but not so much a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:40 PM
5

I have such a visceral dislike of white knights. Why are they like this?
/r/EverydayMisandry17/12/24 02:39 AM
2

I think this is true of many people of both sexes. However, society has the tendency to tell men to shut the fuck up and deal when we express uncertainty or emotions other than anger and is a lot more sympathetic to women when they express the same things with the exception of anger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:26 PM
5

A big part of the reason is a significant portion of the left despises us and are quite diligent about constantly reminding us of this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/24 10:09 PM
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Yes, it’s similar to the cope that some women have about male preferences for lower body count and not obese women. Attraction is not something you can guilt people to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:00 PM
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I’m sure there are men that resonate with this and desire those types of connections, but I’m perfectly fine with the way I interact with other men. I just want society to stop treating us like we see evil and responsible for everything wrong with the world
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/24 03:15 PM
11

Wouldn’t want her preconceived notions about men to be challenged
/r/EverydayMisandry11/12/24 02:13 PM
7

Unfortunately her son is going to internalize her attitude and become a self hating white knight
/r/EverydayMisandry11/12/24 05:34 AM
4

Too many
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/24 07:55 PM
1

Fair enough Yep, it’s not so black and white. That’s what I was getting at Yep, it will take some time before society gets rid of some of its gendered expectations, and it’s perfectly reasonable for people to be frustrated with that. But misandry only makes this more difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:53 PM
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I’m glad you acknowledge that misandry is bad. Oftentimes people don’t even acknowledge it exists. I think your explanation for why people are misandrists or misogynists is an oversimplification, but there is some truth to it. There are many more men than women that are sexually frustrated and take that out on women. I don’t think it is the case that women are oppressed in all but 14 countries in the world. The west alone consists of more than double that number of countries. Either way, even if…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:36 PM
2

Yep, people are people and will behave similarly under similar circumstances. I’m glad women in the west have the freedoms they do, but we as men need to stop tolerating misandry like it’s some noble thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:55 PM
13

Is reading difficult for these people? How did they interpret “hate based on identity or vulnerability” to mean “hate on vulnerable groups”, whatever that means?
/r/EverydayMisandry08/12/24 02:29 AM
13

The idea there is that they are protecting the child’s right to life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/24 01:25 AM
2

Yeah, there does seem to be a bigger gender divide with that for Gen Z. They seem more polarized in the sense that fewer of them are in the middle, probably because of social media, but they are definitely further left as a cohort than other generations. Yep, that is one aspect of conservatism that is collectivist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/24 01:22 AM
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There isn’t a rise of conservatism in Gen Z, especially not among Gen Z women. Conservatism, at least as it’s practiced in the US, is very individualistic, though there are aspects that aren’t. Yeah, the left, at the very least, has a tenuous relationship with masculinity. There’s a difference between liking masculinity and enjoying the benefits of male gender expectations.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/24 10:12 PM
4

Most everyone that I’m aware of their beliefs are reasonable people and aren’t misandrist. It’s really a stark difference between what I experience in person vs online that it makes it difficult to get a sense of how prevalent the extreme blue haired feminist is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/24 12:37 AM
5

It’s funny that feminists are the strongest proponents of patriarchal ideals they claim to hate. Always treating men as agents, unaffected by society, and completely responsible for everything bad that happens to them. Always treating women as objects of society that lack any agency so anything that happens to them is the work of society. That’s where that nonsense comes from
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/24 06:34 PM
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Yes, only “you are a victim and everything is someone else’s fault” explanations work for some people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:29 PM
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They are right about women generally giving shitty advice about dating, but I agree you shouldn’t date people you find boring and unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:13 PM
3

Yeah, that’s a dumb take
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/24 04:05 AM
2

He’s not a right winger
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/24 04:04 AM
1

Imaginary patriarchs
/r/EverydayMisandry01/12/24 09:40 AM
19

That’s just cope. People tend to date others with similar beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:06 AM
5

I’m not sure the premise of your question is true. Women are more likely to end a marriage, but it isn’t clear that majority of those marriages are miserable or that men are more likely to stay in miserable ones. The reason why women are more likely to end marriages in general is because they have higher expectations of marriages than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:21 AM
1

Women are also happier in a relationship and they generally aren’t maids in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:49 PM
7

Yep, it’s crazy how bad it is
/r/EverydayMisandry28/11/24 12:11 AM
5

It’s always the same response whenever men bring up a legitimate concern- “men made society like this so shut up”. Not only is it wrong, it’s also irrelevant
/r/EverydayMisandry25/11/24 10:11 AM
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In the next breath, she’ll complain about men only being interested in sex with her without the slightest bit of irony or self awareness.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/11/24 08:43 PM
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Most of the examples I’ve heard of are due to women’s purchasing habits and companies giving them what they tend to prefer, but I’m sure there are instances where it is due to bias.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/24 03:09 PM
2

Welcome to existence of a human being that has their own thoughts and feelings about different issues and doesn’t just go along with the tribe on everything. It’s a lonely place. Feminism will learn and course correct and succeed with the support of men. Or it will continue down this path and die when it is completely abandoned by men. I don’t really care what they choose at this point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/24 08:53 PM
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If average or below average women don’t want you, you are not desirable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:42 PM
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I simply corrected a factually wrong claim. I didn’t say anything about how selective men or women are, but you are correct that women are more selective. I want to favor marriage and it intuitively seems like society is most stable when more people earnestly participate in it, but I don’t know enough to confidently assert that is or isn’t the case. Just pointing out that monogamy happens in nature as well
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/24 02:55 AM
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Nah, many species of animals are monogamous including some species of primates. Marriage is a human institution, but it’s really just formalized monogamy so I would argue that it does exist in nature. It is the case that monogamy is quite rare with mammals, but there are many mammalian species that exhibit it. And even among the ones that don’t, it’s not clear that it is a majority of them that follow the model where a very small percentage of victorious males do most of the breeding. Much of it…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/24 01:31 AM
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Anyone that suggests even the slightest bit of due process when a woman accuses a man of something
/r/EverydayMisandry20/11/24 01:05 AM
2

Bingo
/r/EverydayMisandry18/11/24 02:55 AM
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According to feminist thinking, men and women are the same and have accomplished the same things. If men are over represented in scientific, literary, or political achievements, it’s because women weren’t given credit for their achievements. Except for violence, crimes, or anything that they view as negative. There’s no nuance in the stats there
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/24 06:24 PM
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I appreciate the thought but I’m good. I’ve never had trouble with women even though I was kind of an asshole when I was younger and probably still am in some ways. That’s part of the reason I see through some of the bullshit. I’m a bit of a contrarian. I get bored when I am in an environment where everyone agrees with me. There are some exceptions to this like with beliefs that virtually everyone disagrees with me, it’s nice to find a community. Probably not very healthy but it helps my meeting…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:07 PM
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There are many people with those traits that struggle. I genuinely don’t understand why people like to pretend that’s all it takes for everyone. I acted like that how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:52 PM
4

lol would you get anyone that meets those criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:34 PM
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Yeah, “be yourself” is brain dead advice. It works if yourself is attractive to a lot of people, but that’s rarely the case for most people receiving that advice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:36 AM
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What makes these stereotypes resonate with people is because society fails to acknowledge or straight up lie about some of the less flattering side of female sexual selection. I agree that people that have a simplistic stereotypical view of the opposite sex tend to have be exposed to a small subset that fit those stereotypes and develop confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:26 AM
2

Excellent video. Glad we have a new ally
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 06:43 PM
2

Statistics say otherwise
/r/EverydayMisandry15/11/24 03:37 AM
6

I think part of bodily autonomy is being able to sell it if you wish. Sex work should be legal and regulated
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/24 11:37 PM
2

Shit take
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 04:41 PM
0

I’m not exactly left wing, but I do align more with leftists on some issues. This just happens to be the only male advocacy space that I’ve found that isn’t toxic and creates interesting dialogue
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/24 02:32 PM
6

She’s clearly mentally ill, but people do ignore that women can be radicalized too
/r/MensRights13/11/24 04:13 PM
5

I loathe these men more than the blue haired feminists
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 10:55 PM
14

Sanest modern feminist
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 09:09 PM
2

I don’t think how people vote for these is indicative one way or the other with maybe the exception of lgbtq rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:11 PM
2

Look at the methodology of the studies. I’m not surprised that women self reported having greater empathy, but that doesn’t prove that they do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:05 PM
1

You do you
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 01:36 AM
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Mostly just wear high visibility clothing and try not to surprise people. Avoid things that cover your face or make you look suspicious
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 01:35 AM
0

What’s your point? Women are smaller on average therefore feel more vulnerable to attacks. If men feel vulnerable as well, taking steps to put people at ease doesn’t hurt them easier
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 01:31 AM
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Same logic can be used to promote misogyny or literally any prejudice to large groups of people. It’s perfectly fine to be careful of groups you’ve had bad experiences with, but it’s not fine to endlessly and vocally generalize them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:20 PM
2

People need to like you first before they even look at your policies. This is common sense. If you want someone to buy a car you’re selling them, you don’t start the conversation by shitting on them. It doesn’t matter how much nicer your case might be than the opposition at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:11 PM
1

Yes, it would be nice if the dnc and their voters can do that one simple thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:06 PM
4

In what universe?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:05 PM
3

You only have yourself to blame for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:03 PM
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Like I said, within reason lol
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 09:27 PM
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This is actually not a bad thing to think about. Women do have genuine and reasonable fears about coming across random men on isolated areas, and we should do what we can within reason to put them at ease
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 08:59 PM
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They used to describe it as a “term invented by anti feminists to describe the supposed hatred…” lol
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 05:18 AM
3

I highly doubt that, but I hope I’m wrong
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 12:51 AM
3

Your understanding is a reach
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 12:33 AM
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It’s not even something neutral like “vote for me”. It’s more like “vote for me or you’re sexist”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 05:20 PM
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It doesn’t affect me anymore. In the past when I respected and identified with feminists and leftists as a whole, it would have been deeply disturbing to me. I no longer expect them to think logically and behave reasonably in the best of times let alone during moments of adversity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 03:29 AM
3

We’ve went through this in 2016. They’ll be a little better in the next election and go back to the same shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 02:08 AM
17

He usually is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 04:46 AM
8

There are no plans that I’m aware of. She would likely be crucified if she did attempt to address men’s issues addressed since many would take that as an attack on women’s rights
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 11:56 PM
6

Exactly
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:25 PM
16

If they become even more hateful towards men, hopefully that will clear things up for the men that think feminism gives a shit about them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:24 PM
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Right, I’m sure they were just waiting for Harris to win to take men’s issues seriously. I’m not losing any sleep over this. If you disenfranchise half the population, don’t be surprised when they don’t vote for your party
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:22 PM
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The women are emotional again. Don’t take anything that they say seriously when they are in this state
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:32 AM
15

Call him an incel and go on a tirade about how misandry isn’t real
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 06:52 AM
5

Exactly the type of shit feminism claims to be against, but they are often the worst offenders
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/24 06:19 PM
1

100% agree
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/10/24 12:49 PM
2

People should stop caring that some people care that some women want to fuck serial killers. We now have 8 billion people, is it so shocking that some would care about some women wanting to fuck serial killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:23 AM
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Seriously? We get Pearl and the “we are plants with complicated feelings” guy? 🤦🏿‍♂️
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/24 10:44 PM
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Yes, there’s no need to be nice to everyone. It’s good to be generally pleasant and thoughtful of others, but no need to go beyond that. If you are someone that likes going above and beyond, at the very least, only do so for people that reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:44 PM
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This is common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:31 PM
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It’s not exactly who can be the great parent that women are selecting for when it comes to sex. This really only becomes a major factor after they have had kids
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:30 PM
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Yep, and like with most feminist subreddits, any and all criticism to feminism will be swiftly removed over there
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/24 02:59 AM
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You’ll learn quickly that men’s lib is a feminist subreddit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/24 11:43 PM
1

The only problem with this is they like to gaslight men into thinking that they are less superficial and would absolutely tear a man a new one or call him gay if he made the same post about not finding most women attractive
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/24 08:55 PM
1

I’m not sure what you are getting at. People generally cope better psychologically if they feel they have received justice
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/24 03:11 AM
1

As long the victim and or their family desire it, yeah, probably therapeutic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/24 03:01 AM
2

Good points. I had never noticed the racism towards south Asian men until recently when I came across a post from a one about women moving away when he’d sit on the train and the women were mostly asking if he’s dressed badly or he smelled. That was pretty jarring to see on a relatively progressive women’s subreddit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 05:10 PM
2

The only reason I’m against is because no criminals justice system is perfect and many people will wrongly get convicted of crimes they didn’t commit. Otherwise I’m for any and all torture inflicted on people that seriously abuse children
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 04:44 PM
1

You also hear a lot of older men say older women are less attractive so why not apply the same logic there?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:22 AM
1

Sure, but we are talking about why some men date younger women. That’s one of the reasons some do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:44 PM
2

My brother in Christ, if a woman is suspecting you are a virgin, you are already in losing battle 😂 I know this is easier said than done, but it is unfortunately kind of the best way to deal with it- be confident that you are someone that is worthwhile and don’t have shame about your past or things you can’t change. People’s often take cues from you whether or not it is something to be concerned about. But do work on improving the things that you can
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:29 PM
1

Sure they still are, but they aren’t more attractive than younger women on average
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:20 PM
1

There are plenty of men who date younger women for that reason, but it is a lie that that’s always the reason why. If you are a man that wants children, why in the world wouldn’t you want to date a younger woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:17 PM
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I can only talk about the available statistics, but I agree that it is likely not entirely accurate due to implicit bias and other factors
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/24 04:55 PM
13

I don’t think anyone is arguing that men don’t commit majority of crimes statistically speaking. What we have a problem with is treating men as a group like shit because of it. We see the problem with this type of prejudice against other groups but for some reason people think it’s acceptable with men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/24 02:19 PM
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Spot on. I think it’s the whole hyper agency their attribute to men. If a man is feeling sensitive about his masculinity, that's his problem, but if a woman feels sensitive about their femininity, it's society’s problem. On the same token, it’s okay to make fun of feminine men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/24 04:16 PM
3

At this point, not talking about us is an improvement over blaming us for every problem that exists
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 03:36 PM
20

Correct. 3 of the times was “men and women” and the only time “men” was mentioned alone was criticizing Trump for hiring disproportionately male judges
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 12:30 PM
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There’s an aversion to asocial women too. We are a social species and we tend to ostracize people that don’t follow the norm. Actually, it’s probably even worse for women in this regard because there is an archetype of the asocial man that is attractive to women and often respected by men- the lone wolf, but there isn’t exactly a female equivalent that is liked. But the general distrust of men by society isn’t tempered for asocial men the same way it is for social ones by virtue of female friend…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/24 03:06 AM
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I’m not surprised. I hope they continue to do more unhinged shit and more men start waking up
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/24 12:16 AM
2

Female children are protected from genital mutilation, and males are not
/r/MensRights14/08/24 03:45 AM
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A lot of us think with our dicks. I’m guilty of it in other aspects
/r/MensRights13/08/24 11:43 PM
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I’ve given up on expecting feminists to be anything but unreasonable at this point. I took a look at the post, and it was full of the typical defenses of their bad behavior as expected.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/24 03:54 PM
3

Yep. Thanks for bringing that to my attention
/r/MensRights07/08/24 03:32 PM
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The average man is indivisible to feminists. They can only compare themselves to the elite. That’s why they have such a warped view about how supposedly privileged we are as a group Edit: spelling
/r/MensRights07/08/24 01:42 PM
1

Richard Reeves is the only one I can think of. There are a few that flirted with the idea of talking about the struggles males deal with but promptly kowtowed when they received the typical backlash
/r/MensRights05/08/24 04:01 PM
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/r/MensRights02/08/24 03:46 AM
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Agreed. We really just need them to stop treating us as enemies, or we’re left with no option but to respond in kind.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 12:47 PM
1

Excellent article. I truly hope feminism shifts in this direction
/r/MensRights01/08/24 12:04 AM
0

Yep. I think it’s called men lib or something like that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 08:44 PM
12

Yep. I genuinely want to root for feminism, but my god they make it hard
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 02:11 AM
1

Yep
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 02:02 AM
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Most of them don’t, but some do. Most people today have radically different views about marriage and don’t see it as much different from dating
/r/MensRights28/07/24 10:49 PM
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Because human beings are extremely tribalistic, and we have the tendency to think of everything we see as remotely important in false dichotomies like us vs them, or with us or against us. No matter how many times this tendency results in mass atrocities, we want to believe that we’ve overcome and think we are more rational even though technology in the modern age has only served to amplify this tendency. Anyways, to answer your question more directly, it’s because people think that speaking abo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 01:22 AM
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A woman can also give up the baby for adoption without the fathers consent in many cases or literally leave it at a fire station
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 06:37 PM
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That doesn’t contradict my statement lol
/r/MensRights26/07/24 05:44 PM
1

It’s not a need for everyone, but it is for most people. And it’s more of a psychological need than a physiological one.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 12:51 PM
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It’s a biological drive. Stress relief is a benefit, but it’s not the reason we crave it.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 12:46 PM
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The internet is a bit of an extreme place. Most people, women and men, aren’t jerks.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 04:15 AM
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