Abysswalker55117 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
86	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.	CMV	Abysswalker55117	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 09:44 PM
15	Birth and Military	Debate	Abysswalker55117	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 08:56 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women. I very much agree. We just want to exist as peers on an equal level as individual people. One should not be led solely by their desire of lust or love. I am a big fan of Musashi Miyamoto and the book of five rings. He truly walked his own path. “Get beyond love and grief: Exist for the good of man” “Accept everything just the way it is.” “Do not, under any circumstances, depend on a partial feeling.” “Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 11:06 PM
–	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive acting or behaving like you don’t want “something” doesn’t get you that “something” that you actually want. You have it kind of backwards with the passive mentality. What? Theres no “act”. Theres no “intent”. Just getting through day to day life. We just want to exist without dudes wondering if we are interested or not or if he could potentially pursue us. Not everything or every interaction in life with the opposite sex is about interest or pursuing a mate. We want to be treated like peers. Tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 01:19 PM
2	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive I agree. I mostly see older folks or older millennials nod or say good morning/afternoon if they made eye contact with someone out and about. And that’s a pretty low bar for social interaction. It would be difficult especially with people who struggle to make eye contact or simply keep to their phones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 01:45 AM
2	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive Not quite- it isn’t the same as treating your partner/interest. The intent is different when approaching someone with romantic intentions or expectations as opposed to just interacting as humans. No motives or expectations. Just chilling as fellow people	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 10:47 AM
2	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive “But of course, that first requires recognising that women you aren’t currently dating or trying to date do in fact matter, which would be treating women like human beings.” /u/januaryphilosopher This is well said. This is the point, OP. There are many men whom treat women nicely and as soon as they find that the woman isn’t ‘interested’ or has a partner; they become hostile or cold. Inversely they would also take the woman’s politeness as interest and get angry for getting “led on” Women just w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 08:02 AM
-1	Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills. Thats true. There’s no third places really. That’s why people have to ACT. Find and get a third place. The onus is still on you. You’ll find your partner eventually if you CONTINUALLY work on yourself and MAKE connections. It takes consistent work and effort and even then you’ll still find bad actors. The consistency lies in getting out there and having a 3rd place besides work and home in a weekly basis at least. Go to rec center join a group of hobbyists- what have you. Don’t think you can mee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 11:31 PM
0	Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills. Right on the money there. Have people forgotten the common saying, “Love finds you when you least expect it”? It’s always been difficult to find true partner-until you are good with yourself and happy with your own company. A lot of people are so desperate not to be alone they end up settling quickly only to find out their incompatibility way down the line. There’s only gonna be a few people you vibe with and that also vibe with you. There’s gonna be way more people that don’t and won’t give you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 06:25 PM
7	Insisting on the bad apples of each gender just makes discussion turn into bad-faith arguments. I absolutely agree. There are shitty people in both genders. Just because one has had negative experiences with the other gender they shouldn’t be painting that whole group with a broad brush. Shitty people are shitty regardless of gender. Always been this way. The difference now is fringe inflammatory views from incels and misandrist feminists/TERFs get blown up (feminism is inherently about equality under the law and most feminists aren’t misandrist) Polarization gets more engagement and widen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 08:06 PM
–	Birth and Military Definitely for the comparisons I put both stats for war and peace time. I think those stats were from 2022 so I would need one that is more accurate. We need legislation update for the draft to make it fair. As well as put in protections for women’s bodily autonomy. If there are life threatening and serious bodily injury risks that arise with the pregnancy or otherwise- women should have the right to choose the procedure that needs to take place. Both service and birthing require putting our bod…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 08:46 PM
–	Birth and Military I wish it was very very rare but it’s not. It’s just as common as deaths in serving in peace and war time. The risk is constantly present in both serving and in active child birth and after birth. And both birth and service are underfunded in after care. The comparison is apples to oranges but both are seen as a duty and people gloss over the risks and after effects of both	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 04:39 PM
–	Birth and Military Right but are common enough to make the death rate that high though. We are literally going against the medical principle “Do no harm”	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 04:07 PM
–	Birth and Military I absolutely agree. Nobody should be drafted period. Since this is the way it is however I think women should be drafted as well. Now on the pregnancy again- I talk about women whom are ALREADY pregnant that have complications arise later. The Texas couple from the article didn’t find out there was a big problem UNTIL 20 WEEKS into the pregnancy. Yet she was forced to carry to term and give birth. And this is a tamer example. There are more where women have almost died from Sepsis from carrying …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 04:03 PM
–	Birth and Military It’s dishonest to push that it’s riskier to go to war than birthing. Agreed with the risks of serving. Which is EXACTLY why birth is comparable! Do you know what problems arise and can arise during at the birth and afterbirth? You have the same risks of getting maimed while giving birth. You have the risks of PPD which is in the same vein as PTSD. Mastitis develops after and women have said it’s even more painful than giving birth. Developing fibromyalgia or other autoimmune disorders. Doctors a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 03:58 PM
–	Birth and Military Same but your generation or mine haven’t had to contend with it. There should never be a draft but at least men stop becoming elegible after 35. Yes no one is forcing women to become pregnant. I’m talking about women who ALREADY ARE PREGNANT and have complications then are forced to carry the pregnancy to term. Read the Texas article! This lady didn’t find out the baby wasn’t gonna survive at 20weeks of pregnancy and she was still forced to carry the baby to term. If she sought treatment elsewhe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 03:52 PM
–	Birth and Military Again, you confuse that I am talking about women whom ARE ALREADY PREGNANT! Regardless if they wanted the pregnancy or not. Do you know how you click on a link and read an article???	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 03:48 PM
–	Birth and Military That’s some smooth brain shit right there homie 😂 Where tf do you think the people come from that join? It’s stupid for men to complain they have to join the draft. If they keep initiating the pissing contest of being “disposable” Especially if forced births are even riskier than joining the military or getting drafted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 03:45 PM
–	Birth and Military Then it’s no big deal for men joining the military. There’s less risk than carrying a pregnancy. So tired of men bitching about how they have to serve when there’s barely any risk	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 03:41 PM
5	Birth and Military Very selective reading you have. Again you didn’t even read the Texas article. There are pregnancies that have complications and are caught too late! How hard is it to understand I’m not talking about women getting pregnant Im talking about the women that already ARE pregnant. So no 🤡 they can’t just take the morning after pill. And there are states that are already prosecuting women how have crossed state lines for the pill. Making a woman carry a corpse to term or to carry an ectopic pregnancy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 11:59 PM
2	Birth and Military The disclaimer the the top of the post not all men or women This is about such men with those views. I bring up this analogy precisely for their talking point. It’s just as risky to give birth and die like it is for serving. People gloss over the fact that women put their lives on the line to give birth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 11:50 PM
10	Birth and Military Lol what about rape? Also yeah it’s a choice which is why I’m talking about women who ARE ALREADY pregnant with complications caught later. Even if the pregnancy is NON VIABLE. Those women are FORCED to carry the pregnancy and give birth. Even in instances of rape. Did you not read the Texas article?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 11:44 PM
0	Birth and Military Yeah and we haven’t had a draft since the 70s and the risk of the draft being enacted is less and less. No one should be forced to do anything . But because we have the draft I think women should be held to the same as men. I’m not talking about women who aren’t pregnant. I’m talking about women who ARE pregnant with complications caught later. Those women are FORCED to carry the pregnancy and give birth. Even in instances of rape. Did you not read the Texas article?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 11:41 PM
4	Birth and Military Lmao one of the problems men have is women DONT want to have sex. Why? Because men don’t have the faintest idea the sacrifice and risk that comes with pregnancy and birth. They call women selfish and entitled. When the states that they are in would make them carry a non viable baby and even still when their health is at risk. Men are so entitled and think they know a woman’s body better. Completely delusional	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 11:37 PM
-3	Birth and Military Again disclaimer not all men or women. Yes-heaven help us indeed. Yes men have to legally join. I think women should also have to do so. It’s only fair. How fortunate that we haven’t needed to rely on that since the 70s and we aren’t at risk for it now. I’m not talking about women who aren’t pregnant. I’m talking about women who ARE pregnant with complications caught later. Those women are FORCED to carry the pregnancy and give birth. As with pregnancy through rape. Did you not read the Texas ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 11:29 PM
2	Birth and Military I agree that legally men need to join. But who forced them to legally take a dangerous job. I’m not talking about women who aren’t pregnant. I’m talking about women who ARE pregnant with complications caught later. Those women are FORCED to carry the pregnancy and give birth. Did you not read the Texas article? What’s up with the selective reading here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 11:20 PM
3	Birth and Military So you even say that women die more often giving birth. Birth is a constant so yeah there are gonna be more births	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 11:16 PM
3	Birth and Military “Sort of. Where do you think the people come from to join? They want more births for economy workforce and military.” They go hand in hand	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 10:49 PM
2	Birth and Military Dude. Doing some mental gymnastics over here. Nah doing some PARKOUR! Did you not read it all? How typical. I included stats for both war and peacetime. This also included this “• Off-duty fatality rate:** 6.3 fatalities per 100,000 Soldiers. (This includes female soldiers as well) This doesn't include the suicide rate for veterans tho- go figure. Doesn't do them any favors I guess.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 10:47 PM
2	Birth and Military Yeah in an ideal world no one should be drafted. But because it’s still here then both genders should be subject to this. It should be equal. Yeah true but I am talking about besides that. We haven’t had to rely on the draft since the 70s Currently it’s volunteer based and it’s coed. Lol dude are you for real? Did you even read the article? If a woman is pregnant in Texas and other states she is forced to give birth regardless of the risks to her health and the viability of the fetus. This situa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 10:43 PM
2	Birth and Military Absolutely agree on both points 💯	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 10:37 PM
7	Birth and Military Hurray for our men and women in the armed forces! Sort of. Where do you think the people come from to join? They want more births for economy workforce and military. You might not be demanding and slamming women for giving birth but others are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 10:35 PM
14	Birth and Military Again, we haven’t had to rely on the SS since the 70s. I don’t think anyone should be drafted but since this is the way it is, women should be drafted as well. If the mortality rate for men are so high in the job, why do they do it? No one is forcing anyone to have a certain job or profession. As of now no one is legally forced to serve. Pregnant women, regardless of rape are forced to give birth in some U.S. states. It’s legal to do this and aborting carries legal consequences like jail time an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 10:31 PM
0	Birth and Military I totally agree. I added the disclaimer at the top- *not all men and not all women. I am no stranger to that. All men have to do is sign up for SS but we haven’t relied on it. I believe we shouldn’t have it but since we do I believe it’s just that women have to do the same. I am talking towards the men that think there are no risks with pregnancy and think that men should have more sway in society because of the SS. Because of their mortality rate. I compare them both because of the legal implic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 10:23 PM
2	Birth and Military Psh you afraid of showing me the stats or what? What about the deaths from preclampsia and bleeding out? Post partum depression? Mastitis? Haha don’t be a fool. Do that shit in Texas and see what happens. Did you not read the article? How typical How does this deterrent FORCE men to legally join? I don’t see anyone forcing any jobs or service on men	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 10:09 PM
1	Birth and Military You’re absolutely right. This is mostly a response to the talking point I have seen over and over again. I out in the disclaimer not all men or women. I have seen people say that women shouldn’t get full citizenship in society because of their lack of service and because they can’t get drafted. People in the US gloss over the fact of how risky pregnancy and childbirth are. We are woefully under educated. They distain the woman who needs to abort and prosecute her if she does. This carries jail t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 10:06 PM
5	Birth and Military If there is a demand for women to give birth. Give the respect it deserves. No one- men or women are forced to join the military legally. However many women in the US are legally forced to give birth regardless of health concerns for the mother or viability of the baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 10:01 PM
1	Birth and Military This is an example of how things “should” be but not as they “are” in the US. Those countries have A. Good healthcare B. Good social safety nets C. Good education	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:57 PM
-1	Birth and Military Show me the stats about weight. The risks and after effects of pregnancy are still there regardless of health. The safest time for a woman to get pregnant and give birth is her early thirties. Yet there’s many that think that’s too late. The biggest is ignorance. Yes male general mutilation is horrible and I’m against it. It should be outlawed. Shame on your parents if they did that. But what else are men legally forced to do with their bodies. What are men legally forced to do that puts their l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:54 PM
2	Birth and Military Sorry! I’ll try not to do that! Yes it’s partly the problem but not for all the women. A lot of the women that developed preeclampsia are otherwise healthy same with bleeding out. There’s always a risk of death or having an after effect regardless of health. Just like the life and death or maiming risk of the military.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:49 PM
2	Birth and Military Where does it say the percentage of that? It is the lack of healthcare in the US and the negligence. Many otherwise healthy women die in childbirth. From precalmpsia, bleeding out, postpartum depression. The US military is coed and everyone is free to join or not. Women in the US on the other hand are legally forced to give birth. They have no bodily autonomy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:45 PM
2	Birth and Military Well duh. Is reading comprehension worldwide? 🤔 I could have sworn I said US in the post. US as in United States of America Ay I added it to the old one and not this one. Ima add it now sorry about that! Also to your health comment- you think we have good healthcare homie? What about the deaths of healthy women? The lack of care and support for preclampsia?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:37 PM
6	Birth and Military Im talking about the US not South Korea or other such countries that force service… Unfortunately women don’t have that right and so the death rate will either stay the same or rise	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:32 PM
0	Birth and Military Did you not read the stats? How typical. Male obtuse play strikes again!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:30 PM
4	Birth and Military Oh? So if you don’t join the military in the US you gonna get thrown in jail? Tf outta here. No one is legally forcing people to join the military. However women are legally forced to give birth in the US	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:28 PM
2	Birth and Military So what that it’s safer? Men keep harping on how they have to get drafted so they have more right to full citizenship than women. The birth rate mortality rate is t abysmal because of weight or shit like that. Your opinions aren’t facts. This is the way it is because of the lack of funding, research and care to the female body during at birth and after pregnancy. The aftermath of birth lasts for a year or two after. Other countries let the woman terminate pregnancy if it’s a risk to their health…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:26 PM
2	Birth and Military Can you not read that this was reposted for the correct flair? I included stats for BOTH peace time and wartime. Tf you talking about. What’s your point? Women aren’t given the same rights as men to bodily autonomy. The military is coed. No one is LEGALLY forced to join. Women are being legally FORCED to give birth regardless of health issues and viability. You mad cause I’m right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/24 09:16 PM
1	Women accept being alone better than men Ah indeed. That’s true I suppose lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 04:53 AM
1	Women accept being alone better than men I see what you’re saying. I suppose so. The terms of the relationship bonding is different. There are a lot of other activities. My friend’s brother doesn’t play video games or watches sports he mostly hikes and does book clubs and table top games. There’s also this app called “meet up” idk if it’s a available everywhere- around my area someone started a men’s support group. It’s so beautiful to see the shift in culture towards community again. <sup>-</sup>^ Discomfort is the catalyst for change…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 03:35 AM
1	Women accept being alone better than men If it’s going so well using this method why complain? If it isn’t working pivot and adapt in other ways. Make new friends join a discord group of diverse individuals. Make friends with women and others then the rest comes in later Besides mostly white men are successful as passport bros anyways lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 03:07 AM
2	What does PPD make of this "soft guy era"? Drizzle Drizzle HEAR HEAR! 💯 Apparently they are just experts of everything about women! /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 05:14 PM
2	Women accept being alone better than men Yes we both have biases. Except I have more insight than the average man. It’s like me generalizing men and saying they are just a bunch of jocks whose lives solely revolves around getting as much tail as they all can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 04:50 PM
2	Women accept being alone better than men Hmm I’m pretty sure I might have more experience in women’s circles since I went to school and observed a lot of women. Loved a lot of women. Maybe your people are different. So yeah I feel like you’re stretching the truth here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:25 PM
3	Women accept being alone better than men “YoU wOmen! 😭😭😭” haha you think you know women better than they know themselves? STFU. You aren’t humble enough to take advice lol stay mad and in your stagnant ways. Adapt and evolve like humans have done for millennia. Do the work and do what humans do best and adapt and learn do do shit differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:23 PM
1	Women accept being alone better than men Im so sorry this happened to you as well. We need a change and to adapt. Humans are the best at adapting so this needs to happen now. We adapt and then we evolve. Men need to adapt and make friends and learn to be friends to each other and other women Also the stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason it’s overblown caricatures. Think of the race stereotypes life imitates life sure-but it’s also a twisted view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:19 PM
2	Women accept being alone better than men Well it’s time to do what humans do best and adapt to the circumstances and do what is needed. Adapt to make friends it starts with individuals to change culture. Then we evolve from there	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:12 PM
1	Women accept being alone better than men I am not sure about that. If that’s the case it’s time to do what humans do best and adapt to the circumstances	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:11 PM
2	Women accept being alone better than men Nope. I have and the internet isn’t real life. How the hell can you know anything about women if you don’t know any outside your judgements. If you don’t see women as individual human beings you aren’t worth having as a partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:10 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men And that’s exactly why men like you don’t get good women. Thinking in those terms just pulls you out of the game. You’ll probably attract those women if you only think that women can’t form a deep bond. Being friends with women would be extremely beneficial. It shows other women you can be trusted	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 07:24 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men Nah it sounds like you’re shifting blame. Men like you need to own your shit. Generalizing women like that will get you nowhere and just holds up the mirror to your negativity. No one wants to be around that. Same with men. The people I hang out with don’t have this twisted view. If you can’t be friends with a woman then why would they want to be with someone like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 06:50 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men My comment was in response to the comment above me “perfect example of how easy it is for women to make friends” Having friends is a big green flag for women. If you think in those terms a lot of women are just going to think that’s all you view them as. It’s not simply having a “mate” it’s a PARTNERSHIP. What many women look for in a mate is a lover and ally (friend). How can one expect to begin to understand women if they don’t have them as friends? If this isn’t reciprocated then it’s gonna b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 06:44 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men Exactly! I ask myself : WHY CANT MEN DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS? They are just as capable of showing brotherhood like this. Is it not in their vocabulary? Or would other men make fun of them? Either way they can offer their friendship too. This culture of men not having friends is unhealthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 05:18 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men Amén👏🏽 People show up in your life how one views themselves and the assumptions they make of others. Their energy is inevitably reflected right back at them. A person feels seen and appreciated when they are seen as a person not just simply a woman. It’s idiotic and counterproductive the way men like u/phoj7 generalize women. They think they know what it’s like being a woman? They think they know what goes through our mind? They accuse us of hive mind but what about them? Hypocrisy. They think a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 05:13 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men Me three ❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 04:55 PM
1	The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this? It only that- it was a woman who started the involuntary celibate movement and it turned into this cringe fringe group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 06:44 PM
10	Do you think men hit the wall when women became educated and financially independent? I agree! Progress is beneficial to both genders. A human being shouldn’t be stripped down to only their gender. I question the intentions of people who think in such terms. If I interact with them would they see me as Me- the person, or just as a woman and the rest is just there? People should just make friends and go from there. Those friends in turn might have others and would hook em up! Friends at any age even. I think people are really in need of a diverse group of friends. Most people are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 03:57 PM
1	Most things in dating that men complain about are caused by men themselves I do agree that if there was no demand then there wouldn’t be as big of a problem on some services. It is harmful to just say “men” bc it isn’t all men. A lot of straight men (younger ones especially) tend to put women and their company at the center of their world. Their priorities are different. People are impatient and want their time to come now. Everyone has become so entitled they get angry at life running its natural course and they think to themselves, “I’m not the problem- everyone else…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 02:28 PM
2	The problem is not women caring about looks, it’s them pretending not to. Very well said. Especially: You are really overestimating the amount women give a shit about male validation. 💯	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 01:20 PM
2	The problem is not women caring about looks, it’s them pretending not to. Very well said. Especially: You are really overestimating the amount women give a shit about male validation. 💯	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 01:20 PM
1	The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in dating Oh snap-that’s a really good point. People do indeed have that desire to spark envy	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 02:58 AM
1	The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in dating Agreed. Exactly my point. Just deceptive people in general. I suppose fickle people as well; getting out there not knowing what they want and wasting time. I see that fr. Sadly relationships are very calculatedly transactional today. I feel like everyone in general is putting love on the back burner :( But it’s out there it exists❤️ People today are so fickle because of the overwhelming information and access we have. It’s in our faces all the time how other people have it better and all people …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 02:27 AM
1	The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in dating Lmao that’s all you boo. Reveling in that victimhood mentality of yours. Let’s see how far you get 😂 You ask for understanding and validation and sympathy- but don’t give anything back. What world are you living in? “Oh poor men. Oh poor me. I can’t find anyone to date.” It’s all the women they’re wrong 😂🤣🤣. I have sympathy for other men but none for men like you. Maybe when you mature in a few years you can talk about other people’s experiences like a human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 02:07 AM
2	The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in dating True I see girls like that. And players as well. But it’s the men who aren’t players that lie to have a place holder for someone better. I haven’t been around women that monkey branch so much bc I was raised Catholic and went to Catholic school all the way thru HS. My friend is a soft, kind, nerdy woman. She’s also chaste and still practices Catholicism. She puts up with so much shit with a beautiful attitude. I’d marry her if I could and I wasn’t already lol She’s absolutely high caliber even m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 01:01 AM
2	The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in dating And there are men who do that and have another relationship on the side. There are men who want “serious relationships” and lie to get laid. 100s and 1000s does not equate majority. All the women I know are off dating apps. Lol I can imagine there’s probably only like 80 women per 2000 men now lol all the men I know are still on the dating apps. Then there’s 100s of men like my friend’s cousin who said at a party “All these women here and none put out?! Fuck this.” Then at church he’s all like “…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 12:40 AM
1	The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in dating That’s bs. Raised to treat women better lol You probably haven’t experienced it or seen it. Especially as a man. If you look for all the negatives your gender has socially, that’s all you’ll ever see. I say this as a person that learned to look at how the other side lives. Lmao I work at a law office and last month a client got upset bc he got a woman lawyer assigned to represent him. My husband works in IT and he told me the other day that he had to take two calls from his female colleague bc t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 12:26 AM
2	The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in dating And bc so many men are struggling in that area it negates other women’s experiences? You are telling me that you know better as a man the experiences the average woman goes through. My friend has lived this in flesh and blood- this is the same dilema many go thru.. You get upset when you claim others are “down playing men’s struggle” and you turn around and do the same thing for a woman that’s going through the same thing. And no it isn’t better irl- “if dating is fresh potable water, women are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 11:49 PM
3	The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in dating Yes they do. How can you know that for sure, if you don’t have the experience or point of view of a woman? It’s getting tiring when men like you assume the experience of women and keep crying “women have it so much better!” Well we fucking don’t have it better irl. I know because I have seen it. I have a friend how isn’t conventionally attractive and she hasn’t gone past 3 years with a bf. It always comes down to looks or her prior partners finding “better matches” Luckily she doesn’t use this t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 11:20 PM
3	"Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in dating “I don't think we yet have a firm grasp on how much of the population is autistic, or what the gender divide looks like if there even is much of one.” Absolutely agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 07:58 PM
–	Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard. I read that post. OP kept asking and asking her friends if his girlfriend has said ANYTHING bad about him. He asked a lot so his GF’s best friend told him that. The comments were messed up. Again this isn’t the norm, the women I am around don’t talk like this. It is very discouraging to see all of that though. Even if OP asked a question that would have a hurtful answer. People say all the time “ask stupid questions, get stupid answers.” In this case it is applicable. Another side of the coin fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 08:08 PM
1	Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies. Accept the facts instead of feeding into this victimhood mentality of yours. Or maybe you need an example: If I have a tank top on, it’s not consent to get groped. The facts are that it was for basic consent that’s it. People will perceive it how they want for better or for worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 07:20 PM
1	Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies. I don’t think men are really being slut shamed more than women. Petty people are everywhere and they’ll judge anything for no reason. I’ve read some of your comments on the situation. I wouldn’t be overly worried about it but I wouldn’t dismiss this outright. The actions you and your coworker should take now is document. That way if they pull any bs you and your coworker have shit to back you up. Journal and date- make some work place observations in it. Notes on any odd or striking behavior fro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 07:13 PM
0	Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies. It was about sexual consent regardless of what someone is wearing. We have the freedom to dress as we want without getting assaulted. It isn’t at all about judgement by name calling and what not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 06:59 PM
4	Late stage feminism leads to population collapse Yes. I should have worded my comment differently. Be that as it may, where exactly is the wealth going and from whom? Their royal family is vast and wealthy. The majority of their wealth doesn’t get circulated back into their own people specifically. The US is the same we have the most billionaires and yet they don’t pay their fair share in taxes proportionally and less year after year. They hoard their wealth off shore, hell now they wanna hoard their wealth in space. Their frivolous projects i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 03:07 PM
14	Late stage feminism leads to population collapse Exactly! I mean look at countries like Saudi Arabia that have similar policies they want to employ. Women forced to give birth and not have working or education rights. How is their economy? How is their quality of life? Worse than ours that’s for sure. Women getting educated cause collapse. How laughable. It’s like the people that claim homosexuality in the Roman ranks caused the collapse of Rome. Utterly delusional. Edit: “ Saudi Arabia is doing fine.” Look at Saudi Arabia’s classes. The lower…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 01:54 PM
4	Late stage feminism leads to population collapse Only WEALTHY MEN had access to education at its conception. You are just in your feelings just because you don’t like your circumstances doesn’t mean your perception is true for everyone. You must have a small ass world and social circle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 01:43 PM
1	Which is easier, being a man or being a woman? Lol it’s funny you haven’t answered to the Doctors office dilemma and I have given examples myself and you haven’t said anything to them only to change the goal posts. University is a bougie problem that many people won’t think about. These are issues of human rights and we need to come together to fix them. I would also add that with Roe v Wade falling in the US women’s healthcare is about to fall into a worse state than it is now. Women are facing having the government involved in their bodies…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 04:35 AM
–	Which is easier, being a man or being a woman? It isn’t vague. We are more similar in our problems than differences. If you are working class you are the same. Observing and comparing the lives of the women and men in my life isn’t different at all. In first world countries. One doesn’t have it better than the other 💯 That’s a fantasy that’s probably a comfort for strugglers but no one is special. That’s reality. People wail against pretty privilege and wealth privilege. That’s the whole problem with everything. It’s the wealthy and the pret…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/24 01:10 PM
2	Which is easier, being a man or being a woman? It’s useless and keeps us in inaction when we play the oppression Olympics. It solves nothing. It’s not being neutral. It’s being nuanced which many people today lack. It’s not black and white. Every situation is not cut and dry. There are areas in society where it is more advantageous to be a woman and the same in the inverse. Yes things have changed but it’s not leap and bonds of being oppressed disproportionately. Again it’s a back lash. As in every single scenario a man has a disadvantage? T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/24 10:55 PM
7	Which is easier, being a man or being a woman? No there’s not. Again there are advantages and disadvantages for both genders at different times. Women are still at risk with being misdiagnosed at the doctors office. Catching a lot of diseases late and later intakes in Emergency Rooms. Same with job opportunities depending on where they are at. Depending on the environment if you find yourself in a “boys club” or “girls club” culture. Either gender can get shafted then. Look at who holds the most power in politics and it still skews towards m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/24 05:50 PM
1	Dear women, choose the wealthier one. Agreed. Equivalent exchange leads to a harmonious life and household.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/24 03:57 PM
8	Which is easier, being a man or being a woman? There’s honestly no contest now. It’s shitty to be a working class person right now period. And there’s pros and cons to everything. There are moments I wish I was a man and there are moments I’m glad I’m a woman. I am thankful I am a woman when I get pulled over by a cop. I haven’t gotten away from a ticket but a lot of my girlfriends have. And politics aside statistically, men die more at their hands. I wish I was a man at the Dr’s office so I can be taken seriously. Statistically women’s symp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/24 02:55 PM
1	What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences? Yeah that’s what it is acceptability. Depending on where you go and who you talk to it’s acceptable or not or it’s observed on way or the other. There is still rampant misogyny that’s still accepted in wide spaces as well as misandry be it overt or implicit. I have and still do see and live through misogyny I know and see bc I can’t miss it as a woman. You don’t see it bc you don’t go through it as a man and it’s probably not even on your radar. This particular problem again, I have been shamed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 01:13 PM
2	What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences? Depends where you ask homie!Mainstream is subjective and bc the algorithms have pushed her channel and other similar channels. It fits the description. I can list a lot more but you’re just gonna move the goal posts. 🤣 BRO! Even if we were hikikomori we’d take all week and not scratch the surface. That’s speaking to both gender issues. Everything you listed is valid. That shit is vile and we should all work to stomp it out of the culture. It’s disgusting and dangerous. I can give you the same li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 05:21 AM
2	What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences? You’re being obtuse. Thug shaker Central and Just Pearly Things are an example of the mainstream. Many clones came outta them. There are other toxic manosohere YouTube or Twitch streamers. You have no idea the shame women go through on the inverse bc you are entrenched in your own experiences as a man. You don’t even try to see it from the women’s experience in earnest. I agree men might be shamed more but it’s negligible from what I’ve seen as a woman, observing the lives of the men I know. I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 12:53 AM
14	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men Absolutely. Although, it’s a lack of empathy in both ends. Imo it happened with men first-they didn’t care about women’s issues especially body autonomy. So women just started going their own way specifically avoiding such men. It reminds me of the Ancient Greek play called “Lysistrata” where the women turn away from men to pressure them to end the war against Athens and Sparta. Now it’s the court of social cultural perception- which both genders are affected by. Today people are just self pairi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 06:55 PM
1	Are men really the biggest problem or is it women? You’re surrounded by trash then. It’s not gender specific. Move. If I complied all of my assaults and slights it’s heavier on the men’s side and yet I don’t let it taint my views of reality. Go to another town or city to meet other women that are better human beings. There are billions upon billions of other women of different creeds and nationalities that are of good character	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 10:39 PM
-3	A lot of men waste time on women who don't really appreciate them. Thats horse piss. You need to expand your horizons. It sucks you are surrounded by women that make you feel this way but this is completely false. Just bc it’s your experience it isn’t the gospel truth. Dating sites barely have any women on them it’s largely men and bots posing as women. If you wanna meet people you need to have a hobby and get out of the house and make connections that way. Make friends with women a true friendship then you’d have a new perspective and they would too. It would …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 10:21 PM
3	A lot of men waste time on women who don't really appreciate them. Exactly this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 09:20 PM
0	A lot of men waste time on women who don't really appreciate them. More and more women are leaving online dating. There are just mostly men in those sites so it messes with your chances. Sadly that’s how it works it’s a numbers game. Men completely dominate the online dating world they always have and the dwindling women users seem to blow this problem up. If you find yourself surrounded by bad “women/men” you have a small world. It’s on you to change your environment. Get a hobby and meet people in those events/circles. The world is such a big big place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 09:08 PM
1	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. I should’ve but it seemed clanky. Ay ay ay. It’s one of those “It was a calculated move. But I’m not good at math.” Situations in my case my friend >.<	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 12:42 AM
1	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. My title means ‘problem’ as “blame” not as care. So my title is “Men’s Loneliness epidemic is not women’s blame” Are men to blame about abortion no. Should they care? Yes. Are women to blame for the loneliness epidemic? No. Should they care? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 12:32 AM
1	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. Women are the ones having children and putting their lives and bodies at risk to do so. Does society deserve that right now? No it doesn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 12:22 AM
0	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. What’s be the difference? It’s already getting ignored in the first place. Women’s health in general. Society doesn’t deserve women giving birth anymore. I mostly titled it this way bc of the uptick in posts blaming women for the loneliness issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 12:20 AM
5	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. Exactly. How many women die from DV that have been ignored? How many women have died from the stalker they have tried getting help from? From dangerous pregnancies? It’s already loud and clear from society that women’s safety isn’t anyone’s problem huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 12:15 AM
0	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. Lmao no one dies from loneliness and these men are so emotional. Many of them blame their problems and loneliness on women and it’s not women’s problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 12:12 AM
-2	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. This is in good faith. Psh circumsicion? Men don’t have to get them please. My husband isn’t even circumcised nor my cousins lol. Women are the ones having children and putting their lives and bodies at risk to do so. Does society deserve that right now? No it doesn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 12:09 AM
4	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. That’s if men really really believe it’s about sex. Then wouldn’t the realistic solution be to legalize sex work? The maiming members comment is the violence women would inflict on men ourselves if we would be sexually attacked. There were already two comments indicating there would be more sexual violence perpetrated against women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 12:03 AM
3	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. You make a lot of really good points. It is very nuanced and absolutely there is a time and place for demonstrating vulnerability and strength. The education system and a lot of social systems definitely have to be completely reimagined. Ground up I’m not familiar with red shirting. It’s interesting! I’m definitely gonna read up on it	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:59 PM
2	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. Absolutely! We need to bring back the third places. Like hobbies and communities and we can make connections in that sense. If we actually come together and build community we can have a better cultural shift	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:52 PM
–	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. You are dead wrong. You’ll meet more women that would welcome it and try to take the little grapes you have between your legs with them to Valhalla or the next life 🤗 I’d personally want to feel them give under my heel. “Squish” “squish”	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:48 PM
0	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. I absolutely agree. I wish I could give your comment more than one like!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:43 PM
0	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. No nuance Nelly much? Stay with me here- my grandmother is still alive and she remembers when women were allowed to open a bank account. It was also before it became illegal to drink and drive. Do you know the reactions that followed? It was a culture shock. Anti discrimination and other special measures had to be put in place for society to adapt and even out the playing field while accommodating the incoming change. It’s unrealistic to think the laws changing would shift the cultural backgroun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:41 PM
8	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. I agree with you for sure. I am all for working together as human beings. As citizens of planet earth. The title is mostly a response in the uptick of posts blaming women for many male issues, specifically the loneliness one. I think it’s mostly mislabeled as a problem for lack of sex. It’s an issues of personal responsibility and social issues. No one gender is at fault	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:27 PM
3	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. That’s some bs sob story if I have ever heard one. We barely got rights in 1974. How is that in any sane way, possible to shift and change the culture? Roe v Wade fell. If we had the powers you claim we have how is that possible? How are women still losing children in family court? How come there aren’t more female politicians? The hypocrisy here is that women are being held responsible for everything and are the ones that are actually losing their rights but such weak men are crying wolf. Inste…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:22 PM
4	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. No one will bc those women don’t exist supposedly. Haven’t you heard- all women have it easy all the time now apparently	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:16 PM
6	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. “Women struggles are just like rich people losing half their fortune.” I think the exact same thing about men! Except men are like how Prince Harry and Megan Markel ended up. Men complain themselves about their loneliness all the time. I didn’t get it from articles but from the male acquaintances around me socially. There is a loneliness pandemic in general. It is not only a male issue. Many women are isolated and lonely as well. I definitely agree e do not take metal health nearly as seriously …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:13 PM
10	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. I definitely agree with that point too. Especially when listening to the birth decline arguments. It makes my skin crawl how they think they are entitled to our body and labor	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 10:57 PM
6	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. I suppose I can see that it being a non issue as well. I say “loneliness” bc I have been seeing an uptick in loneliness posts and laying the onus on others. With sex for sure we can definitely legalize sex work and see the difference then	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 10:55 PM
10	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. It’s personal responsibility. A solution to this is to teach men to be friends to each other. Importantly also to be able to be friends with other women. As women it is not on us to do this it has to be as a society as a whole. The life expectancy is on men 💯 a woman that is in a relationship with a man; her life expectancy goes down. So does her quality of life. This is an issue of personal responsibility plain and simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 10:51 PM
6	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. Morally- at that point I would hope we would have made prostitution legal and given sex works rights to ameliorate the “sex problem” If it comes down to making the nuisance in question- we’d probably really mess each other up and there would be a lot of maiming members	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 10:42 PM
6	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. I don’t agree with you because you live in a different world I live in apparently. These are my thoughts and experiences in flesh and blood. I see too many women in horrible relationships with ugly men and yet they keep making excuses for them. My marriage and friends in happy relationships are with partners that are emotionally vulnerable. Emotional stability is strength. It is childish to think that pretending to be tough is attractive. It’s an issue of self responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 10:33 PM
9	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. Well yeah- likewise women are supposedly “leaving” the dating scene right now and shit is hitting the fan. It’s nobody’s fault. No one dies from being un partnered. Society’s obsession with relationships is wild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 10:25 PM
14	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. That’s very true. And the societal pressure for everyone to find the “one” really messed genx and millennials outlook relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 10:07 PM
4	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. I can see that. I just see a lot of men around me and growing up still trying to act “tough”The view in emotions are definitely shifting for the better tho. “The biggest difference is the disincentive that the current generation of young men has to actually socialize with women and make themselves attractive to them, not that they are not emotionally vulnerable.” Dang I think you have a really good point! This would definitely widen the misunderstandings and disconnect between the genders	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 10:02 PM
1	The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a whole It was so heartbreaking! 💔	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/23 01:09 PM
12	The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a whole “All those things can, under Solomon’s knife, be sliced in half. But not a kid.“ 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Absolutley. This is why women are more judicious in vetting male partners. The fall of Roe has put so many women in dangerous positions. It demonstrated the degree to how women are devalued. Being “cherished” as simple incubators.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 10:56 PM
4	The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a whole “All those things can, under Solomon’s knife, be sliced in half. But not a kid.“ 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Absolutley. This is why women are more judicious in vetting male partners. The fall of Roe has put so many women in dangerous positions. It demonstrated the degree to how women are devalued. Being “cherished” as simple incubators.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 10:55 PM
26	The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a whole I definitely agree. This quote from a redditor going thru a divorce really resonated with me and other women: “So here's my confession, and my beliefs after this revelation. Because I'd always thought we were in this together but, guess not. So here it is. Men don't have a right to children. It's a privilege women sacrifice to give you. And so many of you don't deserve. It one of the most dangerous things someone will do in their lifetime. And you, as a man, will never compare to that sacrifice …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 08:26 PM
1	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. Well does it not also apply to talking to men my friend? Any member of the public? I can’t talk to any human really I struggle. I had to learn how to socialize to be able to make any friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:55 PM
1	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. Well it’s worked on me. And it also works for all my lady friends. Equal treatment and treating others the way you want to be treated. It comes down to socializing and knowing how to talk. Joining a community is the easiest and fastest way to learn. Then you can start making connections.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:51 PM
1	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. I disagree. It’s not a lazy defense, it’s the way to go. Are you able to strike up a conversation with any and all men you encounter? Can you make friends with them? I can’t do that. I can’t talk to all the women I encounter either. The best relationships start as friendships. My husband and I became friends first and started talking about Kingdom Hearts. I talk to people that have the same interests as me. If you don’t have interests that you can make connections with others then expand yoursel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:45 PM
0	CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept. That’s an exaggeration. No it won’t. You really think ALL men don’t show emotion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:35 PM
1	Men are not more volent for not getting sex. Most volence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins men Thank you! I still cringe when I have that flashback lol it was a cute shirt! It had an unusual neckline and it was lacey. I just said “Wow! I love your shirt! Gorgeous!” I did say it very excitedly. I get excited very easily and it’s obvious bc my voice. I don’t scream or yell tho. I just say it a little louder than my convo voice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 07:21 PM
1	Men are not more volent for not getting sex. Most volence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins men Definitely it was the enthusiasm and I do have a habit of staring a lot. Mostly it’s from spacing out >.< and I guess I sorta make a face when it happens. I have been working on that though. I did feel it was pretty mean. Ah, you have a point. I haven’t been described as a creep (just “creepy” or acting “creepy”). I have been called a weirdo it was like my nickname back then lol. I was bullied with social slights, being ignored, getting stood up. weirdo it was like my nickname. Especially after …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 07:15 PM
0	CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept. Nope. That’s not the average woman. How many women do you know? I’m a woman that hangs out with other women and they all think emotions in a man is a sign of strength. Incredibly sexy even. We have advised friends to leave when they have complained their BFs won’t open up or aren’t vulnerable. It’s a sign of immaturity. That he is repressed and in no way ready for a relationship. Women that view a man’s emotions as a weakness are themselves repressed and weak. They are immature and aren’t ready …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 04:58 PM
2	Men are not more volent for not getting sex. Most volence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins men Yeah they are seen this way. Even women and men with ADHD. I have it and didn’t really have any friends until I was out of High School. I experienced it in getting bullied and strung along. Being the butt of a lot of jokes that would go over my head. A recent example: I complimented one of my husband’s friend’s girlfriends that she was beautiful and that I loved her shirt and her whole outfit. She became uncomfortable. My husband told me later that night that his friend said I made her uncomfort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 04:45 PM
2	CMV : Men put women on a pedestal depending on their relationship with adult women as a child THIS IS THE WAY. It should always be equal. It’s crazy you went through that. At least you got a good lesson from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 04:25 PM
2	Men are not more volent for not getting sex. Most volence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins men Just like you are saying about autistic men, autistic women have the same problems in landing a relationship. Why are all women painted this way based on the actions or preferences of a few? That’s a bias against half the population on earth. Is it so hard to write “Some women”? To answer your question: it’s because a lot of these women are traumatized in the first place. They might come from a difficult childhood they haven’t healed from yet. So they just find it familiar and feel it’s normal w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 04:22 PM
1	CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept. I absolutely agree. He would probably meet a good woman if he learns from this red flag he is waiving. Any healthy sane woman would avoid him for not showing emotion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 03:53 PM
3	CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept. He’ll never get a normal “good” woman because he is a walking red flag 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 03:48 PM
0	CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept. I am so sorry you had to experience that. No one deserves this treatment or be with another that would judge vulnerability. Just because it’s been your experience it isnt the gospel truth. Just like I try not to use my negative experiences with men to paint them in an animalistic light. This is just a case by case basis. My husband cries in front of me and shows emotion. When he opened up to me the first time when we were dating and I saw him cry, I fell deeper in love. It showed me that he is s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 03:43 PM
1	It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynical The post itself doesn’t have it, but in his comments he says that women get passes all the time. De nada amigo <sup>-</sup>^ There is definitely a different perception with culture in the mix. My older sisters, cousins and I were raised with the gender roles. My youngest sister and cousins are being raised more lax and with equal footing. There are some women out there that let themselves become jaded with the cycle standards you mentioned (OP as well). In this instance it’s on the woman to be h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 09:23 PM
2	It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynical “Who exactly is giving out these passes?” I can ask the same questions for women. I have never gotten a ‘pass’ in my life. WTH is OP talking about with passes? Just bc one feels like everyone is against them bc they are a man or woman is bs. My point is men do the same thing they accuse women of doing. No gender is exempt from the biases or sympathies of society. “Wtf does this even mean?” Machismo a form of ultra masculinity and part of the male gaze on themselves. They believe in the “gender r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 12:06 PM
7	It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynical Absolutamente it needs to be said. No men don’t- they get as many passes as women do. I speak in a place of knowledge because I have a well balanced gender circle of friends. I come from a family where they are recovering from machismo. Still pervasive in our society today. I know a myriad of men that don’t at all. They can do no wrong. “He just had a bad day.” “No woman is good for you bro.” They get excused over and over again for their attitudes and actions. Understand that women (like men) a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 01:29 AM
2	It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynical Dang it good sir! I was gonna write queef next 😂 Lol thank you	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 01:17 AM
3	It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynical fart……….	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 01:09 AM
9	It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynical Because you are being obtuse. You are self victimizing. You are putting this in the hands of women only. It’s in the hands of everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 01:08 AM
4	It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynical Hit a nerve? LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 12:58 AM
5	It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynical This is your point? I see clearly now that you are projecting your misogyny on women and crying out MISANDRY. You are being emotional and seeing this pretty twisted… you must have a small world. This isn’t a gendered issue. Dating is in the hands of EVERYONE in the dating pool. Everyone has self responsibility. No one is entitled to each other’s time nor body. You are so doing what you accuse women of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 12:02 AM
1	It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynical No. A lot of women don’t do this. I’m sorry your experience was this way. The correct way to put it is there ARE women. Just like you acknowledged about men. Saying “(which is what a lot of women do)” is misogynistic. You are doing the same thing you are accusing women of doing. Men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies nor time. Just like women aren’t entitled to men’s bodies, time or money. Freedom of choice and free will. You got some serious blinders on	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 11:47 PM
3	It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynical Definitivamente there is more caution with experience.Both genders are not excluded from this kind of treatment. It’s just however long one has been in the game I imagine. Men don’t get the attention they desire from the women they want. They ignore the rest of the women they think is below their standards (looks and weight wise mostly) same goes for women with those criteria. Both genders become jaded with one another. Both genders have bad actors that don’t want to take accountability and blam…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 11:33 PM