| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonOkay🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonI was referring to you thinking all women are narcissists. That thinking would fall in line with someone who had emotionally abusive women around them as a child. A men ain’t shit type maybe. I truly don’t care about any of the other things you’re saying anymore. There’s no point in going back and forth. Because it’s seriously misguided. If you’d like to live in your fantasy land where all women are narcissists and hate men showing emotion that’s fine. You sound awful personally, but that’s fine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him?I’m definitely with him because he adds to our team:) Sure, people can not have a lot to add to a team. I think that’s why it’s important to focus on the things you’re passionate about or interested in so when it’s time to form a team you can find someone you complement with. At least in my experience, people are drawn to people who are passionate and certain about things not people who are “better than them”. Thanks for taking the time to ask me questions! I’m happy my comment was helpful for y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him?I wouldn’t say better than, but better at different stuff so we can collectively be better at more stuff. For instance, my husband and I both enjoy furniture building. He is much better than me at the building part and I’m much better at the design part. So we are better than each other at something that can come together to create the whole package. We are both frugal and good with money. I’m really good at saving on groceries through coupons/price checking/meal planning. However, credit card c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?People really need to stop with this “your sex life is only good if it’s kinky”. Your sex life is good if you’re enjoying that time together no matter how you do it. Point blank fucking period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:17 AM |
| 1 | For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both?He does. I’m aware it’s a unique situation. Anymore questions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:53 AM |
| 1 | For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both?23F 34M ~2 years Once maybe twice a month Once a week No kids and never will Neither because we mutually schedule for it Sex isn’t in the forefront of our relationship. It’s a welcome bonus not a huge need. I don’t care if it’s weird or not right for others, it works for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonCool 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonOoh but he does have a thick mustache and lots of chest hair is you need something more shallowly masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonJust wrote you a whole paragraph about his masculine qualities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonThat happens to me too unfortunately. I get way too annoyed when things don’t work properly lol. I think that’s pretty normal though. Have you seen those memes “when you’re annoyed already and then your belt loop gets caught”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonI’m talking about emotions, an innately human thing, not grouping anyone by attractiveness or masculinity. I literally never even said those words in my piece. I’m so confused by what you men even want? It’s so hard to determine based on the countless conflicting things I’ve read here. And I’m starting to think many of you don’t even like women. This sub is a masterclass in being a shit person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonI thought it would be an interesting sub. I’m always trying to understand people better from all sides. This honestly was not what I was expecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonI ,a married woman, have literally never ever thought about what you’re talking about a second in my life. Now, I’m just one person so wtf do I know. I think where the breakdown here is that you’re associating emotion with femininity as opposed to humanity. Emotion is an innately human thing. That’s why we nearly all have them. Not everyone is good at feeling them. Most aren’t even. I think for this to be a successful convo about do women prefer masc men or fem men that needs to be a baseline. E… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 08:57 AM |
| 5 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonNo dumbass, ditto. Rubber glue back to you. Any point you’re making can be parroted back from the opposing side. Men do they exact same thing. People are posing these issues as all men vs all women when in reality it’s all the dumb fuckhead losers who can’t take action or accountability being miserable together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soon⭐️⭐️⭐️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonI honestly have never supported feminism. I never believed en mass men were vile to women. That is until I joined this sub. My god it’s scary. It’s true, some of the men here seem like they don’t even like women in any regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonHi I’m insert fake name. I actually greatly prefer masculine men over feminine men. That’s why I picked my husband. He’s kind, generous, can build anything you can think of, can fix cars or just about anything really. He’s a problem solver, but still respects when I just need a listening ear. I love that he protects and provides for me and our kitty. He’s hardworking and ambitious. He always follows through on his word. All this to say, we all like different things in people and no one is superi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 08:32 AM |
| 4 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonSo do you think that’s all women or just narcissistic women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 08:06 AM |
| 5 | What would you consider to be "normal sexual thoughts and ideas" in men?Mate, just get off the fucking internet and talk to real people. I don’t know what I was expecting coming to this sub, but it’s trash. You’ll be better off just relishing in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Maybe our view of marriage is outdated. It shouldn't be seen as a "forever" thingYou do not need to get married then. Probably don’t have kids either. You’re going to fuck em up big time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonAlright. I’m real tired of debating on this topic honestly. Some men suck and some women suck. Nobody knows what anybody wants. I’m married and happy so it doesn’t really matter. 🫠 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 06:36 AM |
| 4 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonDitto? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonI’m referring to the person you were originally replying too. They were discussing the always be closing and I was responding to what you were saying too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonNot putting up with people using you and knowing what you want is not the same as treating people like sales. Always be closing is a fucked up way to talk about finding a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonDefinitely agree. It creates this fucked up cycle of resentment and confusion for everyone involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 11:04 PM |
| 0 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonDude that’s trash af in my honest opinion. People aren’t sales you’re trying to make. They’re people. That thinking is what fucks up relations for everyone. If you’re going in with that mindset you already lose. Good luck trying to find an honest and soulful person if you’re not giving that energy. No wonder women think so low of men and vice versa. It’s attitudes like that. I’m not gonna sit here and retittle the retattle of your rebuttal any longer though. Take care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonOkay so how do you act, friend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonIt does matter though. It’s not an attack just asking what you think? Plus how do you act accordingly if you can’t even think about an issue enough to come up with a potential why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonWhy do you think that is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonThat’s what I just said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:34 PM |
| -1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonThank you for more coherently saying what i was thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonWhere are you getting these numbers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonIt’s funny how people with this line of thinking harken back to biological times regarding what men and women want, but forget the following crucial gem. Biologically, men want to spread their seed far and wide. It takes less effort to spread than it does to nurture and grow the seed. Most commonly, women can grow only one seed at a time. And it takes a long time. It stands to reason that if she’s going to take all that time to grow the one seed, she wants the best one. She wants the one with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonIt’s gaining traction thankfully. It’s always existed, we just used a different name for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:24 PM |
| 26 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonYes, but I think that destructive part should include being emotionally destructive. The thing that confuses me though is so many women want vulnerability and connection with a man, they want them to be soft, safe, and in tune to their needs. Then there are so many that bash men for showing emotions and what not. It’s giving mixed signals for men. Men want to know what women want. They’re goal oriented. So, idk if that really encourages toxic masculinity or not. I think it maybe encourages resen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:23 PM |
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