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| 1 | Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex?Why does PIV need to be a part of every sexual interaction? Foreplay is sex. Also this speaks nothing of boundaries and preferences and just because you’re okay putting your mouth on someone’s genitals after one date doesn’t mean everyone else is. It used to be more intimate than PIV until relatively recently. | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Is having your own place mandatory to get girls regularly?You’re young - I know it doesn’t feel like it - but you have a ton of time. Your brain isn’t even fully formed yet. So if you’re looking for a hookup, I’d suggest finding women with their own places or older women to get some experience and to feel good once in a while. If you’re looking for long term, I’d go with the date idea. Then when you’re able to move, you’ll have some people you already like. Don’t take it personally - at least you know it isn’t your looks or personality! | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Is having your own place mandatory to get girls regularly?Of course- I’m 30, so a bit older, but I think the sentiment still stands. I probably wouldn’t do air bnb either, cuz 1. That’s a lot of money spent, and 2. It can come across the same way. Right now unfortunately your only option would be to stick to dates outside of the home. Dinner, movies, the park, pumpkin patch, cider mill, haunted house, coffee, ice cream- you know get to know them in person. Once they like you, they’ll find ways to be with you, which could include hotels or air bnbs toge… | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Is having your own place mandatory to get girls regularly?I wouldn’t do a hotel personally it feels a lot like a prostitute situation. I’d actually recommend that only for people you’ve gotten to know, you have already gotten to that stage or she suggests it. If you’re under 25, I’d say it won’t get too much in your way. Most women under 25 also don’t have their own place, so if they judge, you don’t want those women anyways, unless it’s just a hookup. But if you’re looking to date, you may just need to wait a couple dates (small ones, nothing crazy) b… | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Is having your own place mandatory to get girls regularly?Unfortunately yes. No woman at about 25+ wants to sneak into your parents house to be quiet to do the do. Having your own place will increase the odds of you bringing someone home. Having said that, when I met my husband I had my own place so it didn’t matter to me because they came to my house. He lived with his parents and they are really close, they gave us plenty of privacy and I liked them; so while I was bit turned off, I didn’t mind. We ended up married. But I can say that it Is getting i… | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Do women ever make the first move?Are you hot enough for the “beautiful women who only go for chads”? If not - it’s not settling. It’s staying in your lane. All women have different tastes. But the scale works to increase your chances of success. Not to be blunt or cynical, but if you’re this shallow, why would you expect others not to be? | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Online dating photo tipsWoman here - please take better pictures. Wear things that make you feel nice, have showered that day, take pictures on multiple days that aren’t all selfies. You’d be surprised how much different my response will be to someone I find attractive (I generally go for 5-7 on the range, I’d say I’m a 6 to a 7 if my makeup and hair is done and I’m thin like I was when I was dating) Many guys that I thought would be okay to give a shot but only one decent picture and the others were horrible from the … | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 07:05 PM |
| 5 | I can get numbers but not a date.Toxic masculinity hurts men just as much as it hurts women. Also I’m married and more of a dog person myself. But happy existing I guess! here is a cool link | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | I can get numbers but not a date.Im sorry, I didn’t realize I needed to provide you with a full dissertation on how human beings have normal emotions. Or that there are good and bad people in this world, but on the whole, it is inherently good. Even people who do bad things are typically good and kind people to their friends and family. Even in video games where people have the ability to make whatever choice they want and the developers put time and energy into creating these good and evil decisions that alter the game in mean… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I can get numbers but not a date.Good luck with that! Self confidence is key for sure! But not because it’s unattractive - but because you deserve to feel like you’re allowed to take up space. You’re allowed to want to get to know people. If you’re a bother, you will feel it, apologize and walk away, no harm no foul. But getting into that mindset of I’m just trying to have a nice conversation- if it’s more cool, if I never see her ever again , also cool. The less pressure you put on yourself and the more you are able to relax, … | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | I can get numbers but not a date.Of course! I’m sorry it’s so all over the place but I think the best thing you can do is relax and just watch her. Send similar vibes back and you’ll be alright. Good luck out there! There are good women just like there are good men. And a good healthy relationship is worth waiting for. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | I can get numbers but not a date.Yeah cuz women are just incapable of the emotions that men feel. We’re all robots who just want to use and abuse. Or maybe, just maybe; you attract what you are. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 04:12 PM |
| 4 | I can get numbers but not a date.I mean the women showing normal nice isn’t showing interest. But I have some tips that may be helpful. Maybe not - but it’s always worth trying to demystify the puzzle. They’re not in order, I am scatterbrained. I always recommend going for fulfilling your own life over striving for a relationship. If you’re out living a life you love, you’ll meet someone on that path that is in to the things that you love. And I’d you don’t meet anyone, oh well, you live an awesome life you love. Women will tal… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 03:48 PM |
| -6 | I can get numbers but not a date.I am a woman and I date women and men so I do have some experience with the female persuasion. I had friends like that too- afraid of being a hoe if they dated around too much. But that’s typically the exception and not the rule. And also typically with meet ups, not texting in general. I’ve had many men think I was interested when I was just being nice. And I’ve had many men be overbearing and start with the negging and then I get afraid because they do get violent when you turn them down and s… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | I can get numbers but not a date.Ew- I found the dude who women don’t like - and it has nothing to do with anything other than your personality. I feel sorry for any women you trick into sleeping with you. I hope when you find out that women are just like men - humans looking for love in their acceptable ranges - that it doesn’t escape you entirely and you don’t end up 60 years old and alone in a single bedroom apartment eating ramen for dinner and going to strip clubs for Christmas. I pray your life isn’t the sad lonely existe… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I can get numbers but not a date.I like this one - focus on yourself and the right woman will come. You’ll meet organically and like each other organically. And even if you’re single forever - look at all of this other cool shit you have in your life! | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:46 PM |
| 3 | I can get numbers but not a date.I actually likes the first video - those were really good tips. Especially the first one. Gauge her interest with a qualifier. If you’re talking about anime and she says she hates anime - that’s not a qualifier even if she’s laughing and smiling along. But if you say I’d like to see that new smile movie in theaters and she says oh I saw that looks amazing, I’d definitely go see that in theaters - it’s an “in” to make a date to see it. It’s not fool proof but at least your getting some cues that … | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:44 PM |
| 4 | I can get numbers but not a date.We’re not - men just don’t like to hear that normal nice isn’t interest and saying no shouldn’t evoke violence. Crazy I know. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:26 PM |
| -9 | I can get numbers but not a date.They were just being nice to something they thought was also nice but when they turned it into that they go cold because they didn’t want it going there in the first place. We’re they treating you like a “Knight in shining armor” or do they just talk to friends like that and you took it as some intense interest OR WORSE they felt like if they weren’t overly friendly, you were going to turn violent? | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?And even that isn’t so black and white. I’d say maybe 10% of women are swiping on the hottest men they can, 25% are swiping the hottest men in their lane they believe they can sleep with, but the other 65% are genuinely looking for someone they like the profile of. Similar likes or interests, something in the background that catches their eye, a funny pick up line, whatever it is, it’s more than just looks for close to 2/3 of women. I think finding hobbies and new friend groups is 200% the best … | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:15 PM |
| 13 | To what degree do looks actually matter?It’s not that they don’t matter at all. It’s that they don’t matter nearly as much as incels believe they do, and not all women find all of the same things attractive. Sure a stereotypical 10 will go with a stereotypical 10. But when you’re a 7, you might find a 4 super hot for super specific reasons. There is no amount of game you can use to over come someone not finding you attractive - 100%. But, you also have no idea who will or won’t find you attractive or why. Most incels I’ve met in perso… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Would you pursue a "fuckgirl"?Sometimes. But we have made a lot of compromises. We have an open relationship. With a lot of rules and boundaries and honesty and open communication. I don’t miss other men, just women so we end up with female play partners from time to time. But that happened because we both wanted it. I would have been fine not being in an open relationship. He was just different. Patient and kind. Empathetic and helpful. Don’t get used or walked on, but it’s not impossible to find someone you click with, eve… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 03:49 PM |
| 23 | Would you pursue a "fuckgirl"?He was wonderful. My lifestyle never bothered him. He never tried to change me. We were always 100% honest with one another. And just over time I found myself feeling safe and secure. He would drop everything to make me happy but never felt clingy or demanding. It’s hard to explain, but it was what I needed in a man. Someone that was better than the fun I was having. I wasn’t going to settle. And he had put in the work to be better, communicate with me effectively, he was in therapy, we talked t… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:39 AM |
| 20 | Would you pursue a "fuckgirl"?I mean I was a whore, A Domme, dating several people, and wanted nothing to do with settling down. And my husband nabbed me. I don’t regret it though. He’s a great man. So you can turn a hoe into a housewife. But you have to be what the hoe is looking for. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to feel like a man at 5'7?5’7” isn’t short | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to feel like a man at 5'7?It’s probably not your height but the insecurity vibe that you’re putting off to them. You’re setting yourself up before you even try. I promise “fake it til you make it” works. Just fake that confidence, don’t let a few rejections hurt your spirit and just keep trying. Just wait for what you deserve. Don’t get clingy. Allow them room to want you. Women who care about your height aren’t the women you want anyways. My husband has TONS of confidence. And that’s why no one even realizes he’s not 6 … | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to feel like a man at 5'7?My husband is 5’6” and I’m 5’7”. It’s never even crossed my mind until a year in I saw his ID and it said 5’6” and I was like no way, and we stood back to back and sure as shit he’s about an inch or so shorter. 5’7” is tall for a woman. Most women will be shorter. Even if they’re not - look at Tom Holland and Zandayas beautiful asses and tell me he isn’t the man. It’s about internal confidence. It’s about being man enough to be secure. It’s about being kind, understanding, not controlling, not j… | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.Incels have had this ideology since the 90s. That’s nearly 30 years. An outdated, tired, and piss poor excuse for men to stay shitty because iM nOt HoT eNoUgH aNyWaYs So WhY bOtHeR?! Meanwhile still believing they deserve sex. For a swinger who apparently gets so much play - you sure do seem to despise women. A turn off for me personally but hey I don’t have to sleep with you. I can explain why this ideology is incorrect and doesn’t make sense when applied to the real world. If a bunch of men sa… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.If it’s that sort of date, where I already feel safe and I am that into you, I won’t reject the first try. If she pulls away the first time and you try again so quickly, most women will go along with it in the second try just to keep themselves safe. Almost like the worst form of coercion. Or we will get upset you didn’t understand “no” the first time. That was a mistake my husband made once and only once. Long story so I won’t rehash unless you want details. With one in four women in America ex… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.Maybe if I give you another date, try again. Not five minutes later. Taking rejection is sexy. But when you try again so quickly, you’ve just told me “I’m not safe saying no because he doesn’t respect no so I should just give in so I don’t get hurt.” | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.1- that article is trying to say something. And it’s not “why does a woman typically have sex with a partner she enjoys having sex with.” Because then it’s to have sex. Because I love sex. It is however trying to demonstrate outliers with women on why they’ve had sex when they actually didn’t want to, or had ulterior motives for doing so. A quick google search of “do women enjoy sex as much as men” pops up ANOTHER GUARDIAN ARTICLE that claims “Measured on that scale it turns out that women are, … | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 03:00 AM |
| 20 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.Maybe make sure she’s into you in that way first? Consent is the difference between a good night and prison. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | how do you handle these situations as a Chad or HVM?Yeah there is but maybe change up your tactics to a way where women will be more receptive. Have you ever read truth by Neil Strauss? | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | how do you handle these situations as a Chad or HVM?Neither were interested at all. Read the room my dude. Just apologies for bothering them and back off. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Am I beginner or intermediateDo I want a cookie? No, what I want is to give you the tools you need to have a genuine connection with another human being that doesn’t involve belittling her in a sad attempt to trick her into thinking she likes you because she “craves your validation.” There are other ways that involve being yourself while still playing a “game” that has a satisfactory outcome for both people involved and doesn’t include whatever bull shit pick up artists try to sell you. I’m not selling anything. I have genu… | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 03:09 AM |
| 0 | Am I beginner or intermediateI am a woman who picks up women and men. I’m also a woman who knows what I like in a flirtatious encounter. And how much luck have you had with these backhanded compliments? I understand there will be some aspects to dating that I won’t like. I believe you shouldn’t put all your eggs in one basket and date more than one person at a time, I think you should make yourself less available, I think it can be useful to talk about other romantic partners offhandedly. There’s lots that people should do … | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Am I beginner or intermediateI do get it. I flirt with men and women. And have scored numerous relationships, plus I am a woman. So i have some authority on the subject. Being genuine and flirtatious is fine. Backhanded compliments and manipulation you learn from “the game” is not. But what do I know? I’m just a woman. Go look at the hundreds of videos on how little these videos/books/tactics work. Just look at your own experience. It isnt working. There is a reason for that. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Am I beginner or intermediateNothing about me particularly special but I’m just saying that being playful is all well and good but purposeful digs or backhanded compliments don’t work. Women know when someone is flirting. And either put up with your “style” hoping you’re just nervous and this isn’t who you really are and are willing to give you the chance to be a normal human being or they’re straight up not interested or will call you out. Trust me when I say, i dont know where you heard it’s worked for 300 years - I’d lov… | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Am I beginner or intermediateBanter is one thing, a backhanded compliment is gross. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Am I beginner or intermediateSeems like girls don’t love it if they keep flaking. We don’t want someone who is clingy but I do not appreciate backhanded compliments or manipulation. Which is what this is. Maybe just try being genuine, respectful, placing enough distance to give her time to miss you, and being someone who sets yourself apart from the 20 other guys who are trying to get her number. There “game” videos and books don’t work. It’s proven. You might get sex occasionally but never anything that is even remotely em… | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:28 PM |
| 0 | Am I beginner or intermediateThat sounds like a quick way for me to lose interest. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Am I beginner or intermediateWhat is a push pull! | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:10 PM |
| -3 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenAbsolutely not. I have never wanted a “physically fit” man in my life. Ever. Lol. Emotionally stable, emotional maturity, can take care of himself, his own job and car and I’m physically attracted to him. I don’t give a fuck who else finds him appealing. Just if I do. And I can’t say anyone I have ever dated was an “inverted triangle” more rectangle? Square? Oval? I dont know body shapes. But physically fit or even active has never been on my list of attributes when selecting a partner. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:09 PM |
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