| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 55 | He proposed to me after a year and a half. It really doesn’t take that long ! | LTR/MARRIAGE | AccidentFantastic482 | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/22 02:16 PM |
| 42 | Keeping Our Love Life Private From Friends/Family | RELATIONSHIPS | AccidentFantastic482 | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/21 03:13 AM |
| 22 | Anti-Histamines | AccidentFantastic482 | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/22 01:15 AM | |
| 19 | Fear of being the “come up” woman. Building with my boyfriend. | ADVICE | AccidentFantastic482 | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 9 | Culture and Values - How Important it is in Dating / Relationships | DISCUSSION | AccidentFantastic482 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Signs of upcoming proposal / engagement ? | LTR/MARRIAGE | AccidentFantastic482 | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | I’m scared to build with my boyfriend because I was burned in the past. | RELATIONSHIPS | AccidentFantastic482 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/21 11:34 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | He proposed to me after a year and a half. It really doesn’t take that long !And I should be able to respond to their public comment. Tf. Leaving the forum. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | He proposed to me after a year and a half. It really doesn’t take that long !And there’s nothing wrong with me getting married whenever I want. Did you propose to me? You planning my wedding ? You paying for my dress ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | He proposed to me after a year and a half. It really doesn’t take that long !Thank you!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | He proposed to me after a year and a half. It really doesn’t take that long !Thank you!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | He proposed to me after a year and a half. It really doesn’t take that long !Thank you!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | He proposed to me after a year and a half. It really doesn’t take that long !Thank you!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 2 | He proposed to me after a year and a half. It really doesn’t take that long !Thank you!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | He proposed to me after a year and a half. It really doesn’t take that long !Thank you!!! And it will happen!!! Just Gotta play it smart haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 5 | I (26F) think the guy I’m interested in (30M) is porn sickWell damn, Suzy , sorry I was just trying to help the girl out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/22 12:02 PM |
| 2 | I (26F) think the guy I’m interested in (30M) is porn sickMe and my boyfriend are Asian as well. My bf has had his account since he was 14 , so all he was following was big booty Latina girls and other local Asian girls. I didn’t mind. Because literally all men do this and it never interfered w our relationship, never interfered w our intimacy. It’ll be okay lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/22 11:24 AM |
| 10 | Wants to buy a house together, doesn't want marriageHe’s 34 , you’ve been with him 3 years. If he doesn’t wanna get married now , he’ll never wanna get married. It sounds like he’s just stringing you along. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/22 09:05 AM |
| 5 | Opinions on arranged marriages?Go for it ! You‘ll be able to find a man of the same social class , education and culture. Within your community I’m sure you’re considered pretty high value , so your family / matchmaker would have no problem finding you a good husband. I would suggest making a secret social media account , so you can see the potential candidate’s social media as well. If they follow a ton of Insta models / random girls = red flag. Super flashy with their money? Red flag ! Because this is modern times you can d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Homemaker Wedding RegistryGIANT stainless steel mixing bowls ! I use them all the time for cooking surprisingly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/22 08:22 PM |
| 7 | How can I make friends as a 24 yr old woman who grew up in a small town and left?I’m 25 and the new friends I’ve made in my adulthood post college has mainly been through work. I worked for the state but now I’ve moved to the private sector. Most of the time I’m the youngest employee there. But I occasionally find women around my age that I befriend quickly. Making friends in adulthood really is all about befriending people you see on a regular basis in your professional life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a breakup and the fears surrounding it?I wish I could answer that for you. I do not know. I’ve never been asked the question. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/22 06:33 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a breakup and the fears surrounding it?If a guy asks you how many men you’ve been with ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/22 05:26 PM |
| -3 | How to deal with a breakup and the fears surrounding it?Just because you’ve done casual stuff In the past doesn’t mean a respectable guy won’t date you. I have done a LOT of questionable things when I was 20-24. It was an interesting phase. My advice is , never mention your past EVER. It’s not their business to know who you’ve been with. How you carry yourself will tell them everything. Carry yourself as if your body count is low. I’ve been with my bf for a while now , and I don’t tell him anything. It also helps to date men way outside of the social… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/22 05:01 PM |
| 46 | I felt so uncomfortable when I came across this sub several months ago. I actually hated it. I hated it because I knew y’all were right, and I needed the correction. So, thank you.Embracing our natural femininity is the greatest tool a woman can have. It’s ironic that modern feminism looks down on traditional femininity , when throughout generations it’s our femininity that gets us what we really want. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/22 06:18 AM |
| 13 | Repost: If you are a man and you are hereAdvice on YouTube channel Jesus Fucking Christ ladies we have another one | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Anti-HistaminesThank you for the warning. I’m gonna try and be careful and just take it a few days out the month when I feel really down. I did notice it made me a lil brain foggy and constipated ! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/22 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Where to get feminine clothes?In the U.S I shop at Tj Max , Target , H&M , Forever 21. Being 25 it is frustrating to scan through the endless crop tops when all you’re looking for Is something office appropriate. But I still find a lot of cute finds there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 5 | Being smarter and showing reverence at the same timeWe’re both smarter than each other in different ways. When it comes to finances , budgeting and legal documents , I win. When it comes to not trusting the sketchy guy down the block , he wins hahhh | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/02/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion about female football playersAs a woman , I’m more concerned with having a healthy relationship with my man , then I am with what other women are doing in their profession. Whatever other women do , are none of my concern if it doesn’t involve me. If you don’t like football so much , why are you so upset over female football players and their concerns ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Fake flowers vs real flowersI LOVE fake flowers. It depends on how you arrange them. Even fake flowers from the Dollar Tree can look nice if you’re creative ! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/22 09:55 PM |
| 8 | Being smarter and showing reverence at the same timeI’m 1000000% smarter than my man. But mainly in the academics / booksmarts. He knows this. But I also don’t have much common sense or real world intelligence (I’m naive and honestly I could get scammed easily). My man is 10x more street smart and I acknowledge this to him often. I KNOW he knows I’m more booksmart. But i never rub it in his face or let him know. It’s hard to explain but deep down , I know he knows I’m smarter haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/22 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Anti-HistaminesI AM SO SORRY I POSTED IN THE WRONG THREAD AHAHAHAHAHAH | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/22 11:43 AM |
| 6 | Ladies is there a good way to introduce my wife to the red pill? Been married 10 years and just learned about the red pill but not sure how my wife would take it.Why do you want to introduce her to red pill? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/22 01:36 PM |
| 11 | So, ladies, what are your Valentine’s Day plans?My bf is very sentimental so I’m going to make a mini scrapbook of us together 🥰 | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | In a new relationship that is moving FAST, I’m wanting to hear the RPW perspective on my situationIf it sounds too good to be true , it usually cuz it is unfortunately. Not gonna lie , it sounds like my dream! But it’s just a dream for a reason. Idk something feels a lil off about the situation. I would wait at least 6 months to a year before engagement. And no baby until there’s a ring / marriage certificate. If he already has kids I wonder why he wants to get you pregnant so bad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 20 | What are your thoughts on arranged marriages?I think Arranged Marriages only really work when husband and wife are in the same community. There has to be a deep sense of community coming from both parties. They both have to do their best part not for their spouse’s sake , but for their family , and their community. Arranged marriages are still common in more traditional cultures where people still live in smaller village like areas and rely on one another more. I personally don’t think arranged marriages work out in modern day where the se… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/22 06:46 PM |
| 6 | The pills when it comes to women.Dating SUCKS ! I was single for 4 whole years. I’m not gonna lie though , it was fun. Mainly because I embraced my femininity and I went on a lot of trips / fun dinners. I had a lot of flings and mini relationships. I’m not the prettiest or skinniest girl either. I’m actually overweight ! I’m 5’0 and 160 pounds. It effected(affected??) my self esteem for a long time. I was Bulimic when I was a teenager too (I’m 25 now). You don’t “create” a version of yourself worth dating. You BECOME a version … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | How do you date in a very liberal city?You said your parents are Southeastern European. Do you know of any Southeastern European communities around your area ? You’ll have better luck finding a man who’s values align with yours within your ethnic community. OR maybe try dating men in other surrounding ethnic communities. You’re in NYC , you’re in the perfect place to find a good man who comes from a similar background as you. I find that hyper liberal young ppl claim to be open minded to different values , when really they’re not. Re… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/22 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Giving Up on MenIf you are lukewarm about this man then why feel the need to give up on men? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/21 08:12 PM |
| 6 | Boyfriend told me he doesnt want to get married?I’m marriage material because I want marriage and I found a man that wanted marriage too hahahahaha To be honest my best advice is to read the book. Embrace your feminine energy , take care of yourself and be kind to yourself. Self care is crucial. Smelling nice , looking nice. Making the best of what we have. That’s all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/21 08:06 PM |
| 13 | Boyfriend told me he doesnt want to get married?EVERY woman is marriage material if she works on herself. It’s how you carry yourself and present yourself to a man. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and we have plans on marriage. He said he wanted to propose to me this upcoming year , but wants to keep it a surprise. We plan on doing the marriage certificate immediately after then saving up for a ceremony a year later. If he doesn’t propose within the next year and a half , I’m walking away. I’m not the prettiest or skinnie… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/21 06:54 PM |
| 45 | Boyfriend told me he doesnt want to get married?I understand that you love him. However , it seems like your values are not in alignment. You value marriage. He does not. Wouldn’t you want to be with a man that values marriage just as much as you do? Also, wouldn’t he want to be with a woman who DOESNT value marriage just like he does? Marriage IS valuable and more than a piece of paper (just my opinion). Being husband and wife in the legal system gives both of you rights to each other. I do not judge women who have children with men they are… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Birthday helpSometimes the more simple the better. Every man is different , but most men don’t really want much for their birthday. I’m sure he’ll be fine with the cake , whiskey , and whatever meal is his favorite. It sounds cliche but it’s the thought that counts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?I’m grateful everyday for my family and my man. Grateful I can afford to get an iced coffee every morning before sneaking into the office late , and splurge on shein clothes every season haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some "feminine" careers?Women are multifaceted. We can adjust our actions depending on our social situations. Yes , some careers are “traditionally masculine”. But your careers don’t define your femininity. At the work place , you need aspects of masculine energy to get shit done. But guess what, we can switch our masculine and feminine energy when need be. Need to supervise a team to get a project done ? Use your masculine energy. Need to talk to your husband about something ? Feminine energy. You can still be 100% fe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/21 11:08 AM |
| 2 | How to look feminine with glasses?Eyebuydirect.com !!! Their glasses are soooo cute and you can plug in your prescription and get like blue light filters or whatever. I have styles in Hollie and Stardust. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/21 12:06 PM |
| 5 | How to look feminine with glasses?I recently had to start wearing glasses and I have a very round face and a HUGEEE head haha. So I order my glasses online and buy Large / XL frames. The larger your frames are in proportion to your head makes you look cuter / softer. My eyes are more wide set so I go for a more cat eye or wing shape. Online stores have more fashionable / trendy styles. I have clear and gold rimmed frames. I get compliments on them at the office all the time. Also , wearing long false lashes while wearing glasses… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/21 02:18 AM |
| 17 | What do women bring to the tableMy femininity motivates him to be the best man he can be , which in turn motivates me to be the best woman I can be. I care for him in a way only a woman can do , he protects me in a way only a man can do. My softness and playfulness calms his day but also makes it fun. My compassion and sociability make getting along and building bonds with his family easy , which in turn gives him peace and only benefits the both of us in the long run. My ability to cook keeps him happy and satisfied. My need … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/21 02:12 AM |
| 10 | Keeping Our Love Life Private From Friends/FamilyYes ! Especially with dating apps. I told my cousin that if she wants to get married with children , all she needs to do is just a pick a man she likes and that’s it ! But she constantly tells me she’s afraid of committing , and is still waiting for “the one”. 🙄 | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/21 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Is the guy I’m dating, “high value” potential?I was in this position when I was 16 minus the living together. He was so lazy to work , didn’t have shiet goin for him until he decided to join the marines when we were 19. I did everything , guided him , told him what to do. We ended up resenting each other and breaking up at 20. Being a “sweet guy” can only take you so far. The guy is 27. He should AT LEAST be working full time somewhere. Doesn’t matter where , as long as it’s 40 hours of honest work. You deserve a lot better. A man that all … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Culture and Values - How Important it is in Dating / RelationshipsNo I agree I think the reason why I clicked w my bf so much is because I identify so much with my culture. Like if you knew me personally I have flags everywhere , wear my culture’s jewelry, etc. I go so hard lol but I’ve noticed ppl of my generation who don’t identify with it have an easier time dating outside the community. So it really depends on the person | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Fear of being the “come up” woman. Building with my boyfriend.Thank you so much this ! I never ever was able to break down in words EXACTLY what my issue was. Just thoughts and feelings bouncing in my head. I feel so relieved and more confident in myself and my relationship now. I feel like I just saved so much money in therapy haha I really was caught between those two issues. And they really stem from toxic competition , my weight , and a bunch of self esteem problems that are rooted in childhood. I’m so happy thanks so much 💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/21 01:26 AM |
| 7 | What is a healthy mindset .Whisky d*** is a real thing and alcohol can effect(affect?!) a man’s blood flow. If it’s concerning you , tell him how you feel. But don’t nag him what he should or shouldn’t do, just how it makes you feel when he’s not tending to you. It’s his decision whether he decides to cherish your feelings when he’s drunk. But it doesn’t sound like too much of an issue until your friend made that comment. Sometimes our friends will be overly critical of our partners. They’re only looking out for us but ta… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Fear of being the “come up” woman. Building with my boyfriend.So in my head , I sometimes tell myself that he’s only settling with me because he’s poor and very attractive women don’t want him. So the moment he moves up in status , he’ll be desirable to attractive women and I’ll be seen as undesirable to him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/21 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Fear of being the “come up” woman. Building with my boyfriend.Yeah your exactly right it’s scary! In my head I am bouncing from 1 and 2. I’m gonna sound so superficial I know somebody is gonna hate me for saying this but. I do have insecurities mainly because of my weight. I’m overweight and so is he. So in my head , I can’t get a man , especially of my ethnicity who makes a bunch of money because I’m not what they want. I don’t fit my ethnicity’s beauty standards. My best friend on the other hand does , who’s boyfriend is a professional gambler. We always… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/21 12:24 AM |
| 4 | Culture and Values - How Important it is in Dating / RelationshipsAlso as to why I never dated within my community to begin with , I DONT KNOW IM SORRY 😂😂😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Fear of being the “come up” woman. Building with my boyfriend.You’re very right. I missed a lot of warning signs with my ex. I was 16 and was just ready to have a boyfriend. Looking back I would of paid attention to my ex’s work ethic and his overall values. I should of paid attention to his lack of work ethic , video game addiction , and toxic relationship w his family. Now at 25, if I ever met a man who was lazy to work and obsessed with video games , I wouldn’t even give him the time of day. I would look for a man who has a strong work ethic and someone… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Fear of being the “come up” woman. Building with my boyfriend.Aw that’s so sweet of you to say!!! Thanks !!! 🥰💕💕💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Fear of being the “come up” woman. Building with my boyfriend.You’re soooo right. I also need to be more careful with what media I consume. Social Media is so materialistic. If you’re on it for hours ( like me ) , you can start to think designer bags is all that matters! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/21 12:35 AM |
| 7 | Fear of being the “come up” woman. Building with my boyfriend.Wow! I loved everything you said. Looking back I did make a lot of mistakes. ( A LOT !) And I’m definitely a different woman now from when I was 16-20. Your post gave me a lot of reassurance and that I’m in control of how my relationships turn out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Fear of being the “come up” woman. Building with my boyfriend.Thank you so much I needed to read this 💕💕💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/21 12:31 AM |
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