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| 1 | Gender advantages in datingI'm just tired and don't want to get hurt again. Thank you for your kind words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Gender advantages in datingContext is that when I wanted a relationship, and I was serious about it, nobody gave damn about it. I was used as shoulder to cry on, vent, and kept around for validation. Now, all of a sudden, these women want a relationship with me. Why should I treat them any differently ? All I wanted was someone kind and empathetic who accepted my flaws as a neurodivergent person. I saw what women said they wanted and what they actually did. Just giving them a taste of their own medicine. I've been hurt en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Gender advantages in datingMen have always been like this because they don't get as much attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Gender advantages in datingNot every woman has some magical ‘ho phase’ where they get unlimited attention Most do. That's why they're finally ready to settle down or just settle for you should focus on actually being someone worth committing to. I tried that when I was younger, women didn't want that. They just wanted to have fun sleeping around. don’t be surprised when women don’t take you seriously either. Now, how would they ever know on a dating app or irl ? Getting to sleep around has increased my confidence and self… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Gender advantages in datingAnd women have no clue how it feels to be undesirable. Most men would not have an issue settling down if they had their share of casual sex. Now that women want to settle after having their fun, and suddenly these guys become hot property, why would they not take advantage ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 03:26 AM |
| 0 | Gender advantages in datingWhy would a man want a long-term relationship when he gets to have sex ? Consider an average male who wasn't lucky enough to sleep around when he was young. When all of a sudden, he is somehow desirable, why would he settle down ? Average women can have their hot girl summer, ho phase, and whatnot whenever they want in their 20s. That's not the case for most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 03:22 AM |
| – | LOOKS👀 N-COUNT🔢 AND DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That has how humans have survived to date, though. Considering how many young men voted in the last election, it looks to me that people are revolting against casual attitudes towards sex and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 04:22 AM |
| – | Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficultyI'm 5'6. Tall women don't want me, and neither do the short ones. I saw quite a few posts about decentering men on Reddit and decided that I should learn to decenter women from my life. It is still a work in progress, but my mental health has improved quite a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 01:04 AM |
| – | Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficultyOh, I agree. I am not one of those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 01:00 AM |
| – | Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficultyWhat I can control is my own life and how I live in my own day to day affairs. This is a simple solution, but it still hurts a lot. My self-worth plummeted when I realised this. I have been slowly building it up over the past year. One way I do that is visualising myself smiling and trying to visualising my past achievements. Only happiness that matters is my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 12:46 AM |
| – | Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficultyI disagree with your assertion as a short guy who is balding. No, I am not going to have a discussion about it because doing that isn't going to change my reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 12:39 AM |
| – | Men have bad sex lives because they judge women based on bluepill ideas instead of facing the reality..No, the harm is hurting you by manipulative methods. Don't act like women don't do these things. If it is a fair thing when a woman does it , it is equally fair when a man does it as well. Someone rubbing it in your nose to disrespect you is harmful. Women rub it in a man's face when he can't get laid. So many women say they will never give a chance to a virgin man. If that's the case, I don't see any issues being manipulative. Amd for the record manipulation is not abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:55 AM |
| – | Men have bad sex lives because they judge women based on bluepill ideas instead of facing the reality..As opposed to being harmed ? Yeah, no thanks, but I have to put myself first in all situations. Being a nice person has only hurt me and left me wounded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:40 AM |
| – | Men have bad sex lives because they judge women based on bluepill ideas instead of facing the reality..Humans work on the basis of reward systems. Why be a nice human being if you just end up as a shoulder to cry on ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 11:39 PM |
| – | Men have bad sex lives because they judge women based on bluepill ideas instead of facing the reality..Most women are attracted to those types. They might settle for someone more docile later on, but they still look back fondly on those days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 11:36 PM |
| – | Men have bad sex lives because they judge women based on bluepill ideas instead of facing the reality..How do I become a dark triad person ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 11:33 PM |
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