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It does doesn’t it. Haha. Thanks though, I want to switch to endurance-strength and explosive strength (similar to boxing) but interference principle will fuck with my limit strength. I’m OK with that, but wanted to understand as much as I can before deciding. Thanks.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 08:16 PM
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Will do. Thanks.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 08:14 PM
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Thanks for this, this all makes a lot of sense to me.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 08:13 PM
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Tell her to grow the fuck up Bud, women stop maturing around 18 (but around a 28 yo man’s level). Men mature into their 40s. Stop expecting her to have your level of maturity.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 12:24 AM
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Much more playful. That’s the gold I needed!
/r/askMRP25/04/19 12:07 AM
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Yeah. I knew I fucked that up, but I was trapped in a car. I was considering STFU but it seemed butt hurt since it angered me. What should I have said/done?
/r/askMRP21/04/19 12:09 AM
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Thanks. A lot of guys are confounded by how easily I pull. Some of my friends think it’s magic or that it’s pure looks, but as we know frame is everything. It’s all about passing shit tests and teasing.
/r/askMRP04/04/19 03:38 PM
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Thank you for your thoughts. This is exactly what I’m trying l figure out! I’m worried that very rare bad behavior I see now is the regular future in 5 years or however long. So was this foreshadowing or an understandable error? I feel like I should cut her some slack if this happens once a year, but another part of me say once a year today, once a month in the future and once a week after that... What should I do with this data point? Is saying “do this again and I dip” too harsh? I forgive my …
/r/askMRP04/04/19 03:30 PM
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Why is it so hard for you to believe that I have a great life with an otherwise respectful, submissive LTR? No problems that I haven’t been able to AA, fog, or tease away until this. Also, she didn’t attack me, but snapped at me. Is the reason you have a hard time believing it because you think she attacked me? She just said “NOT THIS PARKING LOT” after complaining about stuff endlessly. She doesn’t get to take her stress out on me.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 11:52 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askMRP03/04/19 11:33 PM
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We’ll have to agree to disagree on that one then.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 11:27 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askMRP03/04/19 11:24 PM
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Disagreeing is DEERing?
/r/askMRP03/04/19 11:23 PM
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Oh I was doing that shit all fucking trip. I’m a fogging/AA champ. This was just when it wasn’t working. It was me doing that every day. My new personal favorite is when she starts going I say “HULK SMAAASH.” Cracks me up every time. Thanks for the link.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 10:28 PM
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You don’t stuff your omelette? Wow. Also, fantastic. All stuff I do already at home. God I miss the soft next. Those really use the hamster to my advantage. Any tips on getting her hamster rolling when she knows I can’t leave her easily? I get what she’s afraid of when I soft next, but what is she afraid of when I withdraw attention? Losing my affection for good? Got boundaries 201?
/r/askMRP03/04/19 07:37 PM
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Thank you for this detailed and well considered advice.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 07:27 PM
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When I remove it, should I keep myself out of the house or is just doing separate activities and not engaging with her it?
/r/askMRP03/04/19 07:24 PM
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Already read it, and not leaving anything else. Not afraid of judgment since I’m pretty happy with my life. It’s a good life, I just want to take stock of my tools. I noticed my soft next was gone and started to panic (metaphorically).
/r/askMRP03/04/19 07:21 PM
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Definite upvote. Very helpful, thanks. So first, I don’t think that I DEER. I’m pretty unapologetic about how I live my life to anyone and so don’t really DEER to anyone, not just her. I also get boundaries and have no problem with them or enforcing them. Let me rephrase my question since I can tell you put thought in this: Besides not responding or getting drawn into her bullshit, what other tools do I have? Is there a response above withdrawing attention and below leaving? (Like a soft next is…
/r/askMRP03/04/19 07:19 PM
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What’s DARE? Couldn’t find it in the sidebar. What do you mean I validated her feelz? I don’t think I did, but I’m not 100% sure I understand you. I can tell you that I don’t think I ran from anything though.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 07:09 PM
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This is what I already do sadly. I was hoping there were more levers. Thanks. Have you ever had to have a direct talk about her behavior? How has that gone for you? I don’t think I handled mine the greatest.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 07:08 PM
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Ok. Let’s just assume I’ve swallowed it and haven’t been licking it... what would you say then about my problem?
/r/askMRP03/04/19 07:03 PM
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I’ve been doing this for a long time my friend. We both understand there is a hierarchy in the relationship. I think I said that but maybe not clear enough. I’m not in a blue pill 50/50 fantasy. So let’s say we have a clear captain/first mate dynamic and she loves that because she’s well behaved and submissive except for this one incident. What would you say then?
/r/askMRP03/04/19 07:02 PM
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Huh?
/r/askMRP03/04/19 06:59 PM
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I think you’re the first response! You’re response isn’t quite calibrated well but I appreciate it. I’m new and you don’t know me but I’m a little light hearted. I don’t like being as serious as I know the guys on here posture, but we’ll get I know each other, I’m sure. nothing accidental about it! You aren’t taking ownership! Huh.. no sense of humor? You noticed the obvious irony in my name and didn’t realize it was on purpose? How could you not? That’s cool though. what else are you not tellin…
/r/askMRP03/04/19 06:53 PM
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Thanks! This is a useful response. I hope you don’t mind a few follow ups. First off, the “kiss hug drop it” thing is new to me — and I know what you mean and how to do that from a position of leadership. I’ll have to think about this. It’s a lot more forgiving than I’m used to. Is there a way to have a tiny tiny reprimand or is this it? I like to escalate my responses but this seems to be a 3 strikes scenario. I’ll look up owning my shit since I know that’s in the sidebar to make sure I’m on po…
/r/askMRP03/04/19 06:48 PM
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These guys are salty dogs. You give them a sinew and they’ll eat the bone. To me, I don’t have enough information go say one way or the other. Be a fucking scientist. What data do you have? What do you need? From your post, you gotta lot of speculation and that’s it. Speculation is male hamstering. So how about you chill the fuck out. Got any data points? Give ‘em. But if you’re suspicious and paranoid, go shovel shit. Give facts or pound sand.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 08:16 AM
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