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| 36 | I feel like I need to have a funeralI feel ya, it's a grieving process for a life we thought we should have - husband, kids, house in the suburbs - whatever your jam was. But also, like, that life never really existed it was hypothetical and although it hurts it's the pain of what should have been being compared to what *is* in your mind...but 43 is still young, go find a new passion and remind yourself every day that you, NONE OF US, need a man to complete us. Also, count yourself lucky that you didn't end up saddled to some lose… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 04:42 AM |
| 32 | PSA: Wanting a man capable of providing for you when you eventually birth and raise children is not being a GoLdDiGgErWe're driven as fuck to not end up like our mothers and grandmothers THIS. My dad was an objectively terrible husband and not a great father either, I love him but lordy, as I got older and outgrew my "daddy's little girl" phase and the blinkers came off...it was tough man...I live in constant fear of ending up with a man like him of being one of those miserable women on mommy blogs who have an extra adult child to take care of, indeed, my faith in men is so low that I'm never having children. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 04:34 AM |
| 90 | Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter.This right here is why millennial women are single in droves THIIIS - the number of men I see who seem to genuinely hate their partners or have zero respect for them but keep them around because they like having easy access to sex and someone who adores them. The number of men I've seen who justify keeping poor girls around because they "love me" and they're "loyal" as if she's a fucking dog. Note it's all about *ME* with these guys - it's never - "I'm afraid of hurting someone I've strung alo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 03:31 AM |
| 28 | Beware of the man with a female friend/female friendsFemale bestfriend = instant dump Can't upvote this enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:03 PM |
| 9 | I cringe. Why are women not allowed to care about the way a man present themselves? Why does he act like men don’t treat women they find unattractive like shit all the time? Also women are not that simple minded, a good looking scrote is still low value. Being HV is not based on mere looks & income.Why does he act like men don’t treat women they find unattractive like shit all the time THIS. Also the "he doesn't drive how cute" thing really got me rotfl, I literally broke up with an insanely handsome LVM and that was the last straw- he lived at home and didn't drive, I felt like his mom picking him up for dates and it was gross...never again... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 10:47 PM |
| 135 | Don't describe yourself as kind or empathetic to men.ask me 3 personality and physical traits I liked about myself I'd simply refuse. I refuse to engage in this depressing corporate icebreaker like bullshit. You say no, let's have a conversation like grown ups, I'm not at a job interview. Also 100% when they ask about a physical characteristic they are hoping it is something they can use to segway into sexual talk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Can you be a HVW and date (reasonably) older men?They start going backwards towards 20 something women with a little more time to waste Yeeees! Also don't forget how bitter and hostile they become towards 30-something "hags" when they realise the delusion they were fed by society at large and the media and usually other LVMs - that as soon as a woman hits the big 3-0 she'll become so desperate to find ANYONE she'll settle, even women who wouldn't have looked at him twice in her 20s - isn't true and they don't have a harem of 30-somethings fawn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetenceThis cultural belief that a husband is basically another child you adopt when you get married has to fucking stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 11:42 PM |
| 107 | Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS.Oh lord, it gets worse - in the comments OP talks about how she was the child of a single parent and saw how hard it was and that's why marriage is so important to her - like girl, why the FUCK did you have TWO children (including a planned baby!) with a man who refused to marry you and gave you super vague promises | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 10:16 PM |
| 78 | Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS.Right? I remember when I was younger later teens/early 20s I genuinely thought the most flattering compliments I could get were about how pretty/hot/sexy I was and now at 30 if mean lead with this it's an instant turn off - can't be the only woman here who's attitude towards compliments has completely shifted in the past few years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 10:12 PM |
| 30 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?And what does he plan to do to support you all when you're on maternity leave and recovering post-birth from all these kids he's going to stay at home with? Also lets be honest, a guy this lazy will be b**tching at you in a few years time to hire a nanny and housekeeper because being a SAHD is "too hard" And yeah, people go on about how women are total gold diggers but for real, as soon as men hear that I'm a surgeon I get a bunch of men I have no interest in (too young, too pretty, too bland) s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 02:17 AM |
| 11 | Yes, you are. 💋Wife doesn't want to dress like a barbie doll on a daily basis anymore, gets mad when I try to trick her into doing so and then call her homeless when she calls my bluff..wow... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 08:15 AM |
| 89 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?OMG yes! The number of men I have who say shit implying I'm past my sell-by date when they learn my age!! I actually look younger than I am but when they learn I'm 30 their tactics suddenly change from compliment-bombing me about how hot/sexy/beautiful I am (ya know, the shit that usually works on early to mid-20s women) to immediately brining up how I should find a man and have kids before my "looks fade", worst thing is these losers re convinced that they're in the prime of their lives and the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidHonestly I've always found Mediterranean men to be sort of smarmy and sleazy - they know they have a reputation for hotness so whilst undeniably confident and laid back are usually low effort. American women tend to eat that shit up because they're so "exotic" and "charming" but European women are generally less impressed. I tended to go for the cool germanic types myself but like you I only ever had one BF who was objectively a hottie and boy howdy was he, he could've been Henry Cavils twin bro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidThat’s not women’s problem. We constantly state what we’re attracted to and men ignore it. A thousand times yes! Women are ALWAYS accused of being shallow and only caring about looks but honestly I think men are infinitely more looks-obsessed and shallow than we are. I prioritise and value thinks like integrity, kindness, intelligence, ambition, drive and success FAR more than looks in a relationship and genuinely those things are very attractive to me - on the flipside a physically beautiful ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 11:46 PM |
| 12 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidWell yeah, men have been socially conditioned, from birth, to believe they're entitled to a super hot woman who will love them for exactly "who" they are whereas women have been socially conditioned to model ourselves into an "ideal mate" for men (pretty, well put together, feminine, passive, people-pleasing), all our lives women have been taught we have to *earn* the love and respect and attention of a man, to work for it whilst men are taught they are *entitled* to it. That's why they foam at … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 11:26 PM |
| 12 | Love everything about this, people are finally waking up to it100% the 40-hour work week was designed with the assumption that someone would be in the home doing all the household and childcare duties, and literally throughout human history NO ONE, EVER did all the daily grind stuff to keep the family supported whilst also taking care of the house by themselves, the fact that because of our modern dystopian hell-scape that is end stage capitalism means usually both parties have to work just to keep a roof over their heads makes this unsustainable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 10:03 AM |
| 210 | Man admits he uses liberal feminism to his benefit to save money on 50/50 dates & get easy sex on the dating market. He loves 3rd wave feminist women who “flooded the market with easy sex.” Straight from the horse’s mouth - Lib. Feminism benefits MEN. Get rid of LibFems now & replace them w/RadFems.It's so cute how he thinks women disappearing from the workforce would make no difference. I'm a surgeon which is still a boys club (but getting better) but 60% of my graduating class were female and medicine is becoming an increasingly female-dominated field, I wonder how this stupid asshole would react if he needed treatment for those military related injuries (because I guess he has to put his money where his mouth is) only to find 60% of the physicians and nearly all the nurses and support s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 04:39 AM |
| 95 | Just remember LVM and scrotes will easily get dwindled by their “online gfs”It's because a lot of these mouth-breathing losers think they're "too good" for a normal woman (despite all empirical evidence to the contrary) so they'd rather throw money at a picture of a model and not question why such a woman would want them ...It's only their due in their eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 09:34 PM |
| 17 | Man wants to have a kid with his wife's younger sister....the traditional way. This poor woman is actually confused about it. WHAT.YA...he desperately wants to be a dad but instantly sulks when he can't take the cheap and "easy" way out which conveniently involves impregnating his wife's younger sister. Ewwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Pick-Meisha Wedding RantThe moral of the story is never be part of ANY wedding. If anyone asked me to be a MOH - my best friend since childhood, my siblings, my cousins anyone my answer would be the same...No...No I will not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 01:48 PM |
| 38 | OLD is a place holder for when you’re feeling lonelyHonestly, during the pandemic there was an increase of HVMs on OLD apps in countries with long lockdowns (like mine) because they literally couldn't meet people any other way, I'd also disagree that there are more trash men online than real life, there are exactly the same number of trash men - you can just view hundreds of them at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 01:16 PM |
| 35 | Reminder: Please don’t be like this 37 year old woman on a blind date.A groups for trying to prey on vulnerable women. Anyhow she calls him one night and asks f It's also because those who marry young have usually been with their SO since teens or early 20s and their social circle comprises entirely of their partner and maybe a shared group of friends - they not only no longer know how to be alone after years of co-dependence but don't have those solid social supports women who settled down later, or not at all, have learned to cultivate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 12:50 PM |
| 82 | Reminder: Please don’t be like this 37 year old woman on a blind date.Yeah if Seth's worldview is reflected in family guy then all women who aren't under the age of 25, thin and beautiful are subhuman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻♀️Louder for the people in the back now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 12:44 PM |
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