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| 2 | Lonely hate my aging appearanceI was in a relationship with a man who truly cherished me for about a year and a half. We met at work when I was 24 and he 25. We started off as friends. I was not attracted to him (he is overweight) and never truly was throughout the relationship but stayed because he treated me so well and I hoped my feelings would change I was 24, skinny, beautiful when I met him. He paid for all my groceries, helped me with rent, drove me around everywhere since I don't drive. Truly a wonderful man. But he w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/25 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Back To Basics September: Hypergamy, Wandering Eyes and Monkey BranchingVery well said, excellent advice ! I'm so happy for you that you went on to marry a man with whom your eyes never wander. This is what I long for... I'm dragging my feet with ending my relationship because I long for what you have but I'm so hesitant to hurt him. He's wonderful in many ways, but I'm almost 100% certain he's not my person | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/24 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Back To Basics September: Hypergamy, Wandering Eyes and Monkey BranchingI've been through the wandering eye phase. It's tragic because I know I'm going to end up hurting the man I'm with although he doesn't deserve it, but I deserve better too if something is missing and I'm unhappy | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Guilt over being in a situationshipAhh the good old Catholic guilt. I feel the same guilt over being in a situationship with my ex because I can't stand the idea of breaking his heart since I don't think he's the one and I know I don't love him, although we care so much for each other. He's my best friend. I have no advice to offer you, just sympathy | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/24 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Should I continue to wait for marriage?Well said | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/24 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Should I continue to wait for marriage?Yes.. wait. I'm 26 and have been in your boat. I had my first kiss at 16, it was awful and I never kissed anyone again till i turned 21. He ended up breaking my heart in a way that changed me forever. I have been involved with other men since, so I've had a few more futile kisses and a couple other things here and there. If I could go back, I'd tell myself to not share my body with any man and wait. I'm still a virgin which I'm very very happy about, but I have experienced oral sex and I regret … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/24 12:02 PM |
| 0 | My fiancé’s sister treats me nastilyI'm sorry but I don't think you should marry this man. Marriage ought to be forever and although many people disagree, you don't just marry a man, you marry his family. Is this what you're willing to put up with forever? And this man who is supposed to love and protect you forever can't even grow a pair and tell his sister to respect you ? She treats you badly because he let's her. She has some influence over him it seems and this won't bode well for you. And he still lives at home despite makin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/24 08:11 AM |
| 1 | First date etiquette100% agree with this comment | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | First date etiquetteCan't go wrong with a cute sundress. I like the ones that are fitted at the top and flowy on the bottom. You're lucky to meet such a great guy that at his young age, is already taking the lead, is Christian AND attractive. I've only met one of those in my life and I'm 26. Let him pay for the date. Let him do most of the heavy lifting. Just make sure you look pretty and make sure to thank him for the meal after | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/24 11:28 PM |
| 6 | He has anime girls on his wallpaperAhh.. didn't even realize you guys had an age gap. It makes alot of sense that he would go for someone much younger considering that's clearly what he likes so much about Anime girls | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/24 08:14 PM |
| 5 | He has anime girls on his wallpaperWeird. Way too weird. I have noticed a correlation between fully grown men who obsess over youthful/ sexy anime characters and a desire for very young teenagers. I wouldn't risk it. Dump him | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/24 08:10 PM |
| – | Boyfriend hesitant to propose due to his past - how to navigate next steps?So you're saying you advocate her continuing to waste her time with a man that says things he never follows up on and that she had to convince to propose to her ? Strange. Doesn't that go against redpill theory ? I thought we aren't meant to pursue men or force them to do things they should be doing for their partner naturally | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/24 10:33 PM |
| – | Boyfriend hesitant to propose due to his past - how to navigate next steps?Did you not read what I said ? The cow thing is not my opinion and it's what I've heard men say. I'm telling her the truth. She deserves better than someone that's wasting her precious time. If they were a married couple having problems, i would never jump to "leave him". But he won't lock her down and she should be allowed to leave and find someone who truly values her and her desire for marriage | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/24 10:25 PM |
| – | Boyfriend hesitant to propose due to his past - how to navigate next steps?Seems like the age old bullshit of "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free" that I hear alot from men who are in live in relationships. You are wasting your time with this man and need to leave. You deserve better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/24 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Insecure about fiancé meeting my gorgeous new friendStop worrying. Your husband has expressed that he's not attracted to her, you know you are more of his type and you trust this girl would never cross that line and try to do anything inappropriate with your husband. I have a beautiful friend I met in college. She has the sweetest aura and has a very sweet, pure beauty. I cannot tell you how many times I'd admire her smile and generally say to myself, "wow, isn't she just the prettiest?". Well I had no worries introducing her to my boyfriend at t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Want kids but bf is poorYou may be married, but if you aren't being provided for I stand by what I said. You played the game wrong. Oh well, I'm still playing so I'll do it my way | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/24 11:45 PM |
| -2 | Want kids but bf is poorWell, it's not a salary requirement because I don't care how much he makes as long as he's using it to provide for me. And I would go back to my original comment where I mentioned he's a lovely guy with great qualities. Did you miss the part where I was his friend first? I used that opportunity to vet him even before he confessed he liked me because I already knew he did. As for ambition, he doubled his salary in 6 months because of me. Are you illiterate or did you deliberately not read my enti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Want kids but bf is poorI'm not sure either. I thought it was understood within this community of ours, that providing is non negotiable and we need to only be with those kind of men | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/24 09:43 PM |
| -2 | Want kids but bf is poorSugar baby? I'm in grad school getting my masters degree. We met before that when I worked full time. My boyfriend is 8 months older than me, and I don't have sex with him. I'm Catholic and waiting for marriage. Nice try | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/24 09:34 PM |
| -2 | Want kids but bf is poorI'm 10 years younger than you and also have a lovely boyfriend who has great qualities but I almost passed him up because he had just a minimum wage paying job. I pretended I had no idea he liked me and chose to be friends first. Dropped many nuggets of information about liking provider men. When he finally confessed his interest I was straightforward in telling him that dating me is an expensive affair and he should find someone else if he's not able to provide at least 70%-80% of my needs and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/24 01:25 PM |
| 6 | How do I get my husband to be more masculine?He might be gay | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/23 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Dating a red pill manThe way to navigate dating with a RP man is simple. Don't. Just don't. I promise, if you continue on this path with him it's all regret, heartache, confusion, frustration and no benefits. You cannot change a man so don't bother. And redpill is like a cancer, the man is not boyfriend material. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/23 06:09 AM |
| 7 | Moving in before marriage … Is it worth the risk for women??!No. Just don't do it | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/23 03:45 PM |
| 4 | How common are women with traditional family virtues?I can't offer you advice but what you said about her intrigued me. I want you to elaborate. Mostly because she sounds exactly like the type of woman I want to be. You said she "was traditional to a T" Please elaborate? All the characteristics you mentioned seemed very feminine but I'm so confused because she's clearly ambitious and trying to pursue a career in the medical field. This is wonderful because I want to pursue my career too, but I so badly want a traditional relationship and most men … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/21 06:18 PM |
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