Accomplished-Gas9225 Archive

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–	If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same arguments I think it's broadly true (and like I said there are men who do this and only look at the easier parts of being a woman) Women not seeing the challenges of being male in society aren't stigmatized in the real world the same way a guy would be for dismissing the challenges of being a woman. I am making a broader point. again I do not think either gender should dismiss provlems the other faces completely	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 05:43 PM
–	If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same arguments It is the majority - especially in the US. this is an American site. I think a lot of frustration comes from seeing a mismatch of messaging and action culturally. I do not think there is anything wrong is paying for a woman on a date - but let's be real - the demand for equality is usually just for beneficial aspects of male life. There needs to be a more balanced discussion but that is hard to come by. Men also tend to see the good aspects of being a woman. and not the bad but the difference is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 05:01 PM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience yes but that is a very tiny part of the country. you're not wrong but also it's kind of an obvious thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 02:49 PM
7	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? I presume you are against the work large companies and institutions are still currently doing to increase women in management (and entry level roles for that matter) if you are then I respect your consistency	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 02:10 AM
3	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? rejection due to disability is extremely common especially rejection of men. There are exceptions but it's a pretty major barrier. I am not saying people do not have the right to but it is common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 02:02 AM
5	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? one example is the concern in corporate America about which sex makes up the majority of a multitude positions. this is a huge one thst is still talked aboit in corporations that are majority women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 01:57 AM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience Would you mind elaborating a bit on the "little less of a problem " vs 1 percent. thank you	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:09 AM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience I am far more successful than him and actually contribute heavily. This kind of makes me feel not so great. By east coast I presume you're basically talking about the northeast down to DC. I will say this type of thing has not been my experience and actually pisses me off especially his irrespnsivliry	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 01:33 AM
2	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience In my case - since it is due to visual impairment - it won't be changing. I think the additional layer of frustration is even when achieving many challenging markers of success it won't make up for not driving generally. women generally do not want to feel like they are the ones leading or controlling the initial stages of dating (typically) so if she feels that way and the association of a man who doesn't drive with "loser" is in her mind then it is a no go. There are even songs that are popula…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 12:41 AM
2	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience Yeah. it is hard to tell if what i perceive as disgust is just shock. it's hard to say as i have my own bias i think it would be similar if someone said "yeah I do not use electricity" or "I do not shower" these are terrible analogies but it is so tied in to being able to leave your house or function for 99 percent of people that not being able to drive is seen as not passing one of the few remaining right of passage rituals and an inability to do anything ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 11:55 PM
2	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience thank you for your reply. the root may be experienced by both but when it comes to a situstion like this it impacts men in dating dynamics way more due to gender expectations by women on men. Add in the other factors like logistics problems or the fear of them it becomes a tough situation. Some issue impact men more and some impact women more. this is a case where it impacts men more within the context of dating. I'd say the general response is shock , ghosting, disgust, pitty, or a combination.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 11:26 PM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience I actually would not agree with a man demanding everything while offering nothing or demanding things that aren't possible so there is some agreement there. At the end of the day what I am saying is that I am judged by a disability by a large percentage of women and that is holding me to a standard that I can't meet all while many preach infinite empathy be given to them. They upload gendered systems while also being against them supposedly. I am pointing it out and it is heavily gendered around…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 03:13 PM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience certainly - but I can tell you that not driving specifically causes a perspective shift for many women. I am telling you I have seen this occur in real time	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 02:56 PM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience I think you are responding to a different person. I do not drive due to a visual issue. otherwise I run my own life. Taking accountability is part of being independent. This is not blame it is just asking women do the equivalent of growing balls. fix your stuff that you all impose on your own gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 10:11 PM
2	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience These ideas you speak of are enforced by women. Women are hurt by the social rules enforced by women. Assuming some hyper liberal perpsecitve of independence is the goal - it is women enforcing social oppression on other women which causes it. that said. men and women probably can't be or perhaps should not be purely independent from each other (or we should at least question if we should) Nice try though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 09:17 PM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience I think what you may not be considering g is that a place like Manhattan is one part of one city in one state that is potential 1000 miles away from other parts of the US. it's not Manhattan vs a backwater - it's rural areas - suburban areas and the majority of urban areas vs Manhattan. 99.9% of the country you can not get out of your neighborhood (subdivision) without a car. Honestly even those subdivisions are dominated by cars if you're walking half the time. we have 50 states most of which a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 02:00 PM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience and in most places that walk would not include sidewalks or crosswalks. it may also include crossing multi lane highways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:41 PM
3	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience I can not stress enough how correct you are. I've said it multiple times in this thread but people who are not in North America do not seem to understand this situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:39 PM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience As a non driving man due to a visual limitation. Your perspective is one I've run into as the norm. In a car centric society - I can not stress enough how much not driving limits dating options Car culture and logistics aside. It puts the woman in a leadership position that she doesn't usually want to be in particularly within the context of dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:35 PM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience It is an extremely common concern from women in regard to men who do not drive. Sometimes it is a variation of "what happens if there is an emergency" This is - the majority of women in North America. Layer on real or perceived logistics issues and it's a deal breaker for most. if a man does not drive for a visual issue these concerns remain. this is true even for women who would otherwise have interest. A man in this situation has to make up for the loss of driving with an intense amount of suc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:22 PM
2	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience As a non driver - this concern from women is extremely common in dating. ive even had this and similar scenarios verbalized directly to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:14 PM
1	If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him. I don't mind paying but let's be real. the majority of women want the man to pay. this is an American site and I am speaking on American culture. it is what it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:41 AM
7	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience Fair question. I think it largely ties into men not caring about these issues on the same level as women. If a woman does not drive it doesn't not damage her perceived feminine traits (regardless of its annoyance to the man) if a man can not take charge and drive it puts him in thr weaker spot (even if thst is just a perception.) It creates a scenario where the woman. is having to lead and take some level of charge within the dating dynamic. that is very much not liked by most women. this includ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:39 AM
2	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience women are judged less harshly for being in this situation generally. it amsk depends on where you live. are you in North America ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:15 AM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience I certainly agree with your last comment. There are lot of very young / mentally ill / bots / or just people living g in non car based countries commenting. That said - even self proclaimed progressive women judge men based on. this to an extreme extent. I do not take most of their complaints seriously	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:10 AM
2	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience which country do you live in? are you over 50?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:07 AM
3	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience Even if you have a medical reason - that is still seen by a huge majority of women as a deal breaker. They are certainly allowed to choose that but it limits how seriously I take their gender based complaints	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:05 AM
4	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience I appreciate what you are saying but you are in the very small minority. Do you live in North America or Australia?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 01:03 AM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience lol. Again. visual limitation not corrected by glasses or lasik. Do you really think visually impaired people haven't tried that? I have accepted it but im telling you men are heavily judged for this situation whereas women are much less. this is a fact anf it shows how traditional values are enforced by women (for better or worse ) i was not the one that destroyed our train system or created zoning laws	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 12:59 AM
4	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience it is way more intense for men to be independent in the US. it's not that there is not any pressure on women but it is much less for them. Its clear this sub is heavily influenced by non Americans	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 12:51 AM
11	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience extremely rare. especially in North America	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 12:50 AM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience What if you do not drive due to a visual limitation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 12:48 AM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience this is the majority of women in most od the US (and likely Canada, Australia, and most larger countries)	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 12:48 AM
1	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience this is true. as someone with limited vision - and does not drive - the hyper majority of women will reject me even when I meet other criteria. Do they have a right to do this ? Yes. do I take their absurd complaints about society judging them due to being female seriously ? usually NO. i am not seen as a man or an adult regardless of my other accomplishments by a huge amount of women due to a visual limitation and not driving due to it I understand women have their own issues - I am not against…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 12:37 AM