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| 18 | Hooking up with a woman at work? | Inner Game | Accomplished-Lab5914 | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes I approach, sometimes I hesitate | Fundamentals | Accomplished-Lab5914 | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 07:01 PM |
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| 1 | Hitting up girls who work at cafes/coffee places?Best scenario is being a regular at the place, which opens up multiple conversations and builds familiarity. Every time you show up is a chance to impress and become more familiar to her. Waiting for her to finish seems like you're too much committed or stalking. Since you don't know her from work or school or anything, you want seem a bit detached and casual about it. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Hitting up girls who work at cafes/coffee places?Well, how much do you want her? If a lot, and you're willing to invest time, go there couple of times, be seen as a regular, and strike a conversation each time. Get her laughing and talking then go for it. If not a lot, and you still want to give it a try, then paper/tissue scenario. Write something slick and short (since you're not acting on her interest) and your number. We regret not trying. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Hitting up girls who work at cafes/coffee places?I had a similar situation, 2 actually. The first, I could tell she's interested through her smiles, and the fact she put on lipstick before she served me (didn't have any on when I came in). Planned to ask her when paying for my stuff, she asked me out before I did. Gave her a ride home then took her number. The second, she was always talking to me, noticing when I'm not there, putting her hands on my shoulder, telling me she was off that day and so on. Slipped my number in a tissue. Both scenar… | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes I approach, sometimes I hesitateAll on point, good words. When you force yourself to approach, you find yourself talking. Approached a super hot one today, but she had a boyfriend. The conversation was very smooth though. So on to the next... Thanks a lot, man! | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up with a woman at work?You'll find something man. Just keep looking and make connections. Jobs are all about connections and talking to important people! | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up with a woman at work?That's pretty harsh, man. I hope you found a better job! | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Hooking up with a woman at work?In an ideal world, one would be able to hang on to both. But ours is a severely flawed world, so you're damn right! | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Hooking up with a woman at work?Yeah, it shouldn't go out of both me and her. It's her I'm worried about. Never had the incentive to tell, only deals damage, never good. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 07:19 PM |
| 7 | Hooking up with a woman at work?I see. Whether handled wisely or unwisely, women can't be trusted to keep it a secret, that's the problem. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 07:10 PM |
| 7 | Hooking up with a woman at work?Sorry for the bad experience with the second. Did she fail to keep it a secret, or was it just bad luck? | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I approach, sometimes I hesitateTrue, the times I think are the times I don't approach. It's freezing your mind and diving in with whatever you've to say is what gets the game started. Thanks for the input and Good luck with your daily approach! | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I approach, sometimes I hesitateTrue, it's taking time off that makes it harder to approach again. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 08:20 PM |
| 0 | I've never been better in my life but I never felt worseConvert one of your leads into marriage, settle for stability :) | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Boring Replies from Girls in Dating AppBecause they're speaking to 100 dude at the same time. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 07:01 PM |
| 2 | How do I Stop Being Nice To Women?Unfortunately "Many" women like bad guys. But yeah I wouldn't ask him to be one. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Do rich girls really date poor guys, or is it like girls only date up?Are you racing the Porsche with the Camry? No. Are you dating the girl? Yes. What's her net worth got to do with anything? Proceed as you would with any other girl. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 08:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you go in for the kiss at the end? What’s your techniqueHe is serious. Girls and boys do have bad experiences. And you should definitely ask for consent. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:15 AM |
| 11 | How to respond to boring, uninspired and dry textsGood username. Texted goodnight to a girl once. Was last time we ever spoke. Never again. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 03:49 AM |
| 9 | 5 quick lessons from cold approaching todayYou did pretty well. Your points are 10/10. Every time you don't approach is a missed opportunity. Only approach the ones you're sexually attracted to, never the easy ones. Otherwise you're easy yourself. Approaching 9 women in a day, between work breaks, while being selective, is fire 🔥 You deserve more credit. Keep going! | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Men showing emotionOpen up here next time, and we'll help you patch things up! | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Men showing emotionThat's wicked, man. Sorry to hear that. How long was the relationship? | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Men showing emotionBullseye! Read so many comments that failed to mention this. If I need to show weakness, I show strength with it. The strength that I'm working on the problem. Getting it fixed. It's truly what I do. And what everyone else should do. Women or not. You can't give up to your weaknesses. You've to show strength, defeat your weakness, and win your life back! For yourself first. As a bonus, women will love it. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 02:37 AM |
| 2 | She texts me according to her convinienceDon't waste your time. Move on. Approach and ask out girls. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | I feel like looking young (babyface) has hurt my life with girls drasticallyYeah happens. Actually great as one man put it. Because you age gracefully and will be attractive to younger populations. Now? Gym. Go hit the gym and build some muscles. Work with a trainer or else it won't work well. You gotta work on your body to look stronger. Wear better clothes. Work on what you can work on. Forget what you can't work on. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | FR #1 Cold ApproachingYou've done pretty well. Nice intro. All this adrenaline stuff is fine. Outro didn't go well? That's fine. You still got a number. Now ask her out. Keep asking others. They call it the V Card now? That's much better :) .. Being open to IG and conservative with number. Bad times. We're born in the wrong era. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Got too invested in a FWB relationship, pretty sure it’s over now.Spare yourself the analysis paralysis. You never know what went wrong. You'll guess 100 things and never know. Unless she tells you. She may contact you again. She may have mit someone else. Whatever. Some things are better left unanalyzed. Because you never know what happened. It's better to move on and find someone else. With women, you can never rely on them sticking around. But you can rely on you going out and winning more! | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 03:56 AM |
| 2 | 1 year of daily daygame results - This is my success ratio, what is yours?Yeah we're in 2022, so get instagrams. No one phones anyone anymore. That hurts. Really, really hurts. Because whenever I ask for a phone number, I get an Instagram instead haha. And I hate Instagram. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 01:34 AM |
| 2 | 1 year of daily daygame results - This is my success ratio, what is yours?Nothing is pathetic. But a coach advising that is terrible. Why I never believe in dating coaches. Discussing things with the guys here will help you and anyone else 100 times more. "hi, you look beautiful" is the problem. Women don't want to be complemented in the first 10 seconds. Which is why 90% of your approaches ended after this opener. If something isn't working. Come here and discuss right away. Instead of persisting on it. Women want to hear something interesting and different. Whic… | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many guys simp?I am approach team. Non-believer in online women. But out of curiosity, I created an insta account. And wrote 3 comments on 3 super attractive 15/15 girls. One replied. One didn't reply. One blocked me, haha. These are not 🔥 🚒 or 🍨🥶 comments. But something smart in reply to what they wrote or did. So it can hit well sometimes. It's not 00000.1% .. But like 1/3, at least in my trial. Didn't take it further. 1- She likes your comment and/or replies. 2- She visits your profile. 3- If you're hot, st… | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 11:33 PM |
| 7 | Why do so many guys simp?Bullseye! Best answer. However some guys are successful at this. They got looks, cool profiles, muscles, etc. So online game is their game. A friend of mine is like this. Never approaches. Thinks of me as Richard Lionheart because I approach. He gets his women from FB & Insta. One time a girl got his name from someone in a resort. And she hit him on Insta. He himself was surprised, haha! But yeah most of them don't know better... | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 11:25 PM |
| 21 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.Be wary of girls who post everything on social. You never know what she's going to say about you. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 07:27 PM |
| 36 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.A girl saying she won't ghost is a red flag. They all ghost 👻 Anyway, like you didn't see anything. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Does he like me or was just being nice?Talk to him again. Start with hey, how's it going, etc. And pick up from the old plans that he made. Didn't you want to go to this concert or that place, etc. "It's fine" shut the conversation down. Now take initiative and revive it. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 10:57 PM |
| 5 | How should you ask her if she has a boyfriend?Sounds like you're afraid of being rejected. It's going to happen. Go ask another girl. There are lots of girls. Pure fire🔥 | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 11:14 PM |
| 3 | How should you ask her if she has a boyfriend?What if did matter? What if her boyfriend wasn't a thing, but a human being? :D | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Tinder convo - please help (unusual case)Take her phone number. Text her comes next week to set up a date. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 12:21 AM |
| 5 | ImmaturityOn point. Irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 11:58 PM |
| 7 | How do I improve my life in 4 weeksTravel to a new city. Consider yourself in sin city. Approach girls, be smooth, and make them laugh. Ask them out. Have fun with them. Do whatever makes you, and them happy. Whatever failures you commit are forgiven. Remember, it's sin city. Go back to your old town a changed man. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How to hit on a customer?You've got to reference "You". Go to her and joke about it: "Did you watch "You"?" If she says yes, tell her promise to not end like that. Hahah That should stir a laugh. Then speak about this being your fav. section, and like the other Gentleman said. Suggest a book that might be good. Some nice speaking... Then try to ask her out. Gauge her interest first, if she's interested vibes. Then go for the ask out. Nothing wrong in customer/employee dating, and is very much encouraged in business envi… | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Is it just my idea or there are plenty of envious and sad people commenting on the sub?We're only the victim of ourselves... Everything is in your power. Including winning women. Life is only business, sex, and wine 🍷 Oh and music 🎶 | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Waiting for your progress ;) | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 12:02 AM |
| 28 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?Human beings are not a tape recorder. They're not that good in reciting full conversations like it's a bible verse... | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 11:45 PM |
| 12 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?A lot of good points here. Once, I was in a long-term environment with 5 girls (College). Didn't show interest in a single one of them. They were attractive, but not enough to drive me crazy. I was genuinely not interested. Suffice to say that this drove them all, very very crazy. They even started bad mouthing each other in front of me, behind each other's back. And would have male friends doing their bidding. It's always good to introduce competition between girls. That's when the real actions… | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 11:43 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah, really good catch. Never mentioned woman or man, even once. Just girls and guys. Shows her immature personality. Typical high school girl who is easy to hate. I remember girls like her like back in school. And no matter how attractive they were, I ended up hating them with passion. See how she wraps up wanting a humble and polite guy. Although she is far from humble and polite herself. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 10:11 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]There are some good points. And there are some horrible points which show her flaws. I have seen many short men who were first class womanizers. Actually, the best womanizers I've met in my life were short. Even shorter than 5'5. Many women couldn't care less about you being rich, as well. Surely, many of them like money. But still, women can carry their men through financial hardships. And wouldn't care less if you take her on a date in a desert, if she likes you. I knew many women who carried … | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 10:06 PM |
| 149 | [deleted by user]Forget about her, and keep distance since she's dating a friend. Will only end up badly for all parties involved. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 03:46 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Sorry for your loss. It's normal to be rusty when you've been married for so long. Seduction works for any purpose. Be it sex, relationship or even marriage. Us guys are happy to help in any scenarios. You've a lot of advantages. Being good looking, hitting the gym, and having the desire to commit. Things women absolutely love. 1- Have confidence. Practice asking out a lot. Play what you say in your mind, before you say it. Be very nice, and respectful. Ask yourself, what attracted me to this la… | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Note the guys who were failures and managed to succeed. They're better teachers than the ones who were born winners. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 01:02 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]I went through a lot of them as I read around. I believe they're good. But yeah scattered. You've to do research. Read everything, write down the good parts from each. Then have your own full guide. What's good about them, is that they offer perspective from many guys. Rather than one guy, who happens to have a competitive advantage that makes him blaze by. He won't be so helpful to everyone. Read everything, write down the good points, and make your own summary. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 12:59 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]The seduction posts? | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How to make friends Post's title. You don't become successful with women, before succeeding with male friends, first. Never met a ladies man who doesn't have friends. Advice is also applicable to female friends. The sub has a million seduction and win women posts already. I won't be the one who reinvents the wheel. He is able to read them. I asked about the women to see if it's problem with male friends only, which just doesn't happen. Confirmed by his answer. A winner in romance with women is a… | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Have you?It's the United States of Guns, man. It's never too much to threaten a flirting guy with a gun! Thankfully, she didn't escalate on you :D .. And no, never had that pleasure. Women usually say no in less creative ways! Bad situation, forget about it. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Seduction or Neurotic?You're welcome! Good luck🤞 | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 11:21 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Glad you liked it! Talk to people in terms of what interests them, as long as it interests you. Find new interests, and you'll find new friends. This guy is into weight lifting, he's my gym buddy. This man is good with women. He's my wingman when we're out to meet beautiful ladies. This man is into tech and gaming. He's my man for all videogames stuff. Never mix topics with them. A guy who clubs and parties won't be interested in hanging out with a book worm. Bring the ones who share the same in… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 11:13 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Social problem, that's all. Girls ghost everyone, forget about that. If they tell you you're hot, that's it. They dig you. People complement you. So you've the potential to be a good friend. It is that you need to be out there, more. You've got to change and improve your social skills. Like someone said here, boys gang on shared interests. I want you to think of people in terms of interests. 1- Mike: is a football guy. He digs cars, lifting weights and speaking sports. If I've something in commo… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How's romance with the women going? | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 09:36 PM |
| 6 | I’m a reformed fuck boy who’s had sex with way too many women over the last 10 years and I fell in love after 5 minutes of meeting my new girlIt's good news, man. Stay reformed, and enjoy the new explosive connection ;) | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 09:26 PM |
| 25 | Being left on seenMost men on planet earth complain of this problem. No matter how attractive or good you are, it will still happen. Sometimes, they just forget to reply. Most of men's conversations with women end up with them not replying. Even if she is interested in you, or even if she is just a friend. Had girls doing it, only to come back 2 weeks later "Why don't you talk with me"? Inside my mind, I am like "Are you insane?". Outside my mind "Oh I miss you so much". Other girls would do it, and next day when… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 09:21 PM |
| 21 | Is this a sign of attraction?Congratulations, you've prepared a diploma in eye reading. Consider a career in the FBI. Until then, ask her out 😂 | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:32 PM |
| 9 | How soon is too soon to be planinng second date?Plan it now, 3-7 days later from the first date. Schedule the date now, to take place 3-7 days later. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Am I badHow about you ask her out first? Instead of going in like this. Since you're already friends with her. The reason why women usually don't trust men is because they go for more, without permission to go for more. How would you know that you've the permission? Well, by asking her. This is not a cold approach. If it is, then you wouldn't be watching Netflix and talking about the show. If you are, then there's a friendship. You need permission to advance. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Seduction or Neurotic?Instead of asking us, you should've asked him. "If you're attracted to me, and I want to date, then why do you want us to be friends?" I thought of several possible scenarios, none of them are any good. No one can know why or offer you an answer, but him. So go ask him. Sometimes all you need is to be straightforward. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?This should have been tagged "Fundamentals". | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 05:13 PM |
| 7 | I’m honestly attracted to one of my childhood female friendsWhat do you want, another smokin hot girl, or an enduring friendship? Could work. Could screw your friendship and get really awkward afterwards (Happened 9999 times). You're also not looking for a relationship. Nope, just a hookup. Ought to drive her insane. "After 11 years, all you want is a hookup? Why didn't you hook earlier?". Too much history to turn this into a hookup. Settle for someone else. If you've feelings, you might try a relationship. But that will risk the friendship. As to her cr… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 03:33 PM |
| 3 | How do I get more witty?Humor and wit is often saying your mind, rather than thinking too much. Unfiltered means don't pass what you say though a safe work filter. The voice which plays inside and says the most absurd things, comes out. For a guy who didn't do much of it, wit and humor needs trial and error. So speak your mind, try as much as you can. Then it will come to you naturally. Imagine yourself replying to the comedians you watch. When they say something, joke about it out loud. Practice. Joke with them! With … | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 11:49 AM |
| 9 | How far away is the farthest that you would date someone?That's traveling, not dating :D | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 11:01 AM |
| 7 | How far away is the farthest that you would date someone?10 to 20 mins. If I've little patience. 30 to 45 mins. If I've too much patience. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Next stepsYup. You met her in the gym, so how about a little of working out until then? :D | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 10:32 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You don't have to be 10/10. No one is. Confidence is the game here. Plenty of good looking guys who can't do anything or get anywhere. Hell, some overweight guys were better with women than the most fit guys I've known. Start, man. Asap. Cold approach, ask out, and get in on the action. But before you do any of that: Love yourself, first. Be secure about your looks. Accept your 7. Know your good points. Then go in full confidence! | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Got her phone number, now what?Text her, man. Say hey, and start a conversation. Get to know her, talk a little. Then ask her out when the conversation is at a very smooth point. Probably after she goes hahaha. That's a lovely point. You got her laughing :D | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] She fucked me in the car and then made out with my roommate.You did all the right things, man. Full mark: 10/10 🔥 | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Next stepsLike the previous comments. The answer is very simple. And you actually have some good news to be happy about. She gave you her number, and told you to come back after the holidays. It's not a rejection. It's a delay, because the holidays are hectic times. Totally understandable. She will not have the time to further things and talk to you now, if you started dating. Text her right away after the holidays are over. And ask her out. Good luck 🤞 | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 02:54 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]You're welcome, anytime! In classes, the game is always longer. Report back, and tell us how it goes. Rooting for ya! | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 02:27 AM |
| 16 | [deleted by user]Dear Comrade, It is time to do some reconnaissance. If she is a girl you'll see day in and out, then you can't enter the battle so aggressively. If she's cold approach, I would tell you to waste no time. But: 1- She might have a boyfriend. Wasteful approach. 2- She may not fancy you, in despite of the eye contact. Which happens a lot in classes by the way. So: 1- Get on talking terms with her. 2- Find out if she's seeing someone. 3- If not, then see if she will be interested in you. 4- If all is… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 02:13 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Are you on talking terms with her? | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 02:02 AM |
| 4 | Dishonesty with intent is at the heart of most friendzone situations, usually from both people involvedOh, by the way. You're in a "Seduction" subreddit, asking us not to play a seductive game. You're in the wrong place, eh? :) | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 01:51 AM |
| 5 | How do I get more witty?Your best bet is to hangout with funny people. They'll make you hilarious in no time. Until then, like the other guys said, watch loads of comedy. And unfilter yourself. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Dishonesty with intent is at the heart of most friendzone situations, usually from both people involvedNot really. There is no manipulation. You misunderstood my post. We assume a man is interested. He declares his feelings. She rejects and puts him into the friendzone. He accepts the friendship, and finds someone else. He doesn't get stuck. But he keeps the friendship with her. If she was to ever be interested in him, later on. Which is likely after they know each other in friendship. Then they may have a chance. If not, well, they were friends, who doesn't like friendships? This happened with m… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 11:02 PM |
| 8 | Dishonesty with intent is at the heart of most friendzone situations, usually from both people involvedAnd if they are interested in you, and you say "No thanks, let's be friends". Then you better write your will :D | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 10:26 PM |
| -6 | Dishonesty with intent is at the heart of most friendzone situations, usually from both people involvedIf you are into her, accept the friendship. While moving on to find other women. She will be the one coming for you, later on. If you play it seductively right. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 10:22 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach a group of girls.Yes I can see that, by trying to argue the person, rather than the comment. And giving me psychiatrist you're afraid stuff, haha. Sure looks like you like to have fun. Have fun then 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach a group of girls.Look, the most failing thing ever, is to make assumptions on Men, based on their comments. I know it's just an example, and we're talking man. To everyone's benefit. I am having fun. Even discussing this with you guys, Cheers! | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a group of girls.I'm not going for any James Bond scenarios. Re-read the comments to understand. Merely joking to an initial comment :D Any approach is a risk. Most men have a heart attack just thinking about it. Anything you say is fair game, if it achieves the objective. What is funny about us men is that we're so defensive in which approach we should use. Dissing each other, and saying oh no that one is bad. It should be that one. It's science man, not art. So ABC and I guarantee you results. Just read that s… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a group of girls.What if is she is wearing a bikini? Do I reference her as a James' Bond girl? Haha :) You forced yourself to come up with more things that actually prove she is evil. Maybe you won't find anything. Sure, if you're joking and she is receptive to the joking, yeah. But how about taking that risk out of the equation altogether, and staying away from the "Evil/Hate" theme? Same teasing, same humor. No negative words. It would've no way to backfire. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:59 PM |
| 4 | How do I approach a group of girls.Could work, could backfire. Two very strong words like Evil and Hate, in an encounter with a woman whom you don't know, can have really bad results. Telling a woman who lived all her life seeing men's evil, that she is evil, even in humor, is risky. Later on, oh yeah, please. It's seductive. Women are ruthless. One wrong word, and you are done. That's not the world's most positive opener. Even from a joking perspective. I merely pointed out to its possible flaws. So people can take it into consi… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:48 PM |
| 4 | How do I approach a group of girls.Very true. I often found out that this make all the difference. Whether you're feeling it's a hit or a miss. Follow your initial feeling and act on it. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 06:55 AM |
| 2 | How do I approach a group of girls.Hahaha, that's a wild, wild, wild story 😂 .. Totally European, and very Italian haha. I was speaking to a dead audience here. Being downvoted for telling a man to go tell a few woman they're beautiful. Nice resonating with you! In Europe, we get picked up. Several times friends of mine were approached in clubs, and asked "Do you've a place?". Or "Take me to your place". Tell them something. It's Europe or nowhere else 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 06:40 AM |
| 8 | How do I approach a group of girls.That was super advanced stuff 👍 | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 06:31 AM |
| 2 | How do I approach a group of girls.Well, I agree. I sensed there is a cultural difference there. So thanks for taking an understanding stance, haha. Never asked out in the U.S. to be honest. I'm not really European nor am I aggressive. But it definitely works for us. Even girls are that aggressive in Europe. You said it yourself. But by the way. That move I picked was from an MTV series about asking out, played in the U.S. And I used it for groups in Europe. And it flied well in the MTV thing. Really depends on the guy. If you're… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 06:20 AM |
| 17 | How do I approach a group of girls.Not criticism or anything. Could work. But saying to her that she is evil, can turn her aggressive right away. She can also go "How is that I hate you? I don't even know you". | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 06:08 AM |
| 0 | How do I approach a group of girls.Dude, feel sorry as much as you want. You offered 0 info. 0 debate. 0 anything but sarcasm. Good luck, man :) .. I offered something tested, proven to work. Told him to delay on it if he isn't used to it. Not my problem you can't pull it off man haha. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 06:04 AM |
| 0 | How do I approach a group of girls.Fedora? Haha, okay. That's a good idea. Instead of people criticizing other people's approaches. Pitch with something useful. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | How do I approach a group of girls.Yes, of course. Because things that worked out in the past is considered lame. I like the guy who said this "requires a lot of swag". He kinda knew what he was speaking about 😅 | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 05:48 AM |
| 0 | How do I approach a group of girls.We just try to provide the man with as many advice and possible scenarios. So he would get a lot of info and knowledge. It's not about debating each other's approaches because all of them valid and tested. I never recommend something that didn't work before. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 05:20 AM |
| 3 | How do I approach a group of girls.I don't disagree with your approaches. Either group or 1 on 1. Cold approaches are about looks, confidence, and talk. Group or individual. There is no personality involved. It's called cold for a reason. No one figures someone's personality in 5/10. Maybe mutual stuff yeah. Your approach started because you found her to be attractive. She knows it. You know it. You can't tell her I want to go out with you because you're kind and loving based on your puppy eyes. However, the conversation doesn't … | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 05:17 AM |
| 17 | Got this cute chicks number while cold approachingJayne Jane* That's it. You corrected your mistake. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 04:08 AM |
| -4 | How do I approach a group of girls.I want to add three things though: 1- People go out with people based on looks. All cold approaches are about looks. Unless you read her personality and mind with your eyes. If she is into your looks, and you're a smooth talker in first 5, then she will go out with you. 2- Saying "Especially you" signals out the most pretty to you. Not out of all of them. It is not a beauty contest. It's just the one you liked. You can say anything else. It is not fixed. Just direct the conversation to her. Mayb… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach a group of girls.Agreed. Good insight. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:32 AM |
| -12 | How do I approach a group of girls.I agree. Which is why I added further thoughts, even prior to reading your comments. That this might kill the situation. With you 1000%. Why did I say it? Because I am usually interested in one. Not the whole group. I am not going to waste time with the group, to end up knowing that my one is taken. See my other comment about it. Happened before. So there was no point of hanging out with the other two. I encounter like 100 group, and 100 alone on a single day. Europe. However, humor is also adva… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:32 AM |
| 5 | How do I approach a group of girls.Practice more with 1 on 1 approaches in real life. It builds up your confidence. When you're confidence is skyrocketing. Try the group scenario. Alternatively, I don't recommend signaling out a woman in a group, if you intend to know the whole group. You might signal out the one who is taken. It will be a mood killer. And the next one you get interested in, will think she is 2nd option. So go in as if you want to make friends, and hangout. Then pick up vibes from the one who is interested. She i… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:25 AM |
| 9 | How do I approach a group of girls.I had this situation. It was a group. She signaled interest and kept checking me out, but only when her two friends went to grab drinks or were away doing smth. I only went when the group came back. She rejected. Taken. 1- I believe I could've gotten a number if she was alone. But that would've been a cursed number, because I don't like to trespass on another guy's relationship. Which is why I waited for the group to come back. If she is taken, she will have to say she is taken. Cornered to not … | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:46 AM |
| -22 | How do I approach a group of girls.If you can't throw that joke. Then try the enter and extract operation. "Hey ladies. May I have 5 mins of your time? They will say ok. Tell them how beautiful they all look, then look at the desired one. And say "Especially you". Would you like to go out with me? Big, nice smile. Some sparkling teeth". Hopefully she says yes! Relax, be cool, have fun. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:41 AM |
| 3 | How do I approach a group of girls.Are you pro in approaching? I don't recommend approaching groups if you didn't approach before. In that case, wait until one is alone. If you did approach groups, then just like u/CompetitionFair7686 said. Address the group, signal out the desired one, and then enjoy life. Go out with the desired one later on when you pick her info. Continue building a friendship with the remaining ones. Female social circles bring more girls. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:33 AM |
| 4 | Only 3 OptionsI had a similar situation. She wasn't really everything I needed. I found someone else. It was one of the reasons that got her interested in me eventually. She didn't have a boyfriend, though. Best bet is to keep the friendship going with her, while pursuing other women. It spices thing up, makes her feel she's losing you, etc. It doesn't make you look desperate. It also doesn't make you get stuck, in case her relationship never breaks off. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:22 AM |
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