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| 10 | men 30+ how well do you do with younger women like 18-25?i’m 30 i’ve always looked younger girls that are 21 always say i look 23 or 25 max lol | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kisshahaha she’s using you brother just take your losses and move on i guarantee you she’s giving it to someone else | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Women are sum elselol move on.. date girls that only have interest in you | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Dedicating a few years to cold approach - Crazy to do at 32?you’re better off just making a dating profile it’s easier the cold approaches only go so far | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Better to send a girl a more thought out text message 2 days after getting her number? Or a lazy text message 1 day after getting her number?your message won’t matter she has hundreds of messages from other guys via her number, snapchat, instagram, apps etc.. don’t get your hopes up bud | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 08:15 PM |
| 1 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..i don’t date anymore or even bother with girls here in the US i’m done dating in the US. i’m a passport bro now it’s way better lol | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 05:40 PM |
| 0 | The Only Way To Know If A Woman Really Likes You…..how about asking her if she likes you? how about asking a women we meet if she likes you? how about only dealing with women who say they like us? how about not playing the game and be honest | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 10:35 AM |
| 2 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..you guys are my best teachers 🙌🏻 | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 05:04 PM |
| 2 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..damn you hit the nail on the head with this one lol | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Gym crush got my hopes up then run them to the ground, still hope?bro she don’t want you if she did you wouldn’t have been ghosted you’re already coming off as if you need her and she feels that energy and that’s unattractive to women most women will chase men that don’t want them because it messes with there head they can’t stand when a guy doesn’t want them or need them | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 09:00 PM |
| -1 | Gym crush got my hopes up then run them to the ground, still hope?it’s 2026 women dont care about men. Chase your goals if you are already chase more goals. make money if you’re making money already make even more money. let the women come to you. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Gym crush got my hopes up then run them to the ground, still hope?your first mistake was approaching her | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Guys that never got girls in a club setting, what changes did you make to get lucky?Just be bold my friend. | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 10:26 PM |
| 4 | Hmmm self respect or play the gamePlay the game it’s fun don’t take it personal don’t take women serious biggest lesson I learned | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Resources for upping texting game on dating apps?Best advice don’t text. | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Who else is going out for NYES?Maybe Vegas or stay local and save a shit of money | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Could new years eve be the greatest night of my life?Best of luck! It’s easier than you think. The hard part is actually getting what you want 😩 | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 04:32 AM |
| 51 | Guys who find hookups easyIt’s a numbers game eventually a girl will be down with you | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Where do I go to be around women frequently.The gym | /r/seduction | 26/11/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety Is Making My Life DifficultFind out what works for you bro I learned night game doesn’t work for me | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach and numbers ultimate success rateI cold approach I’ve had success and failure. I have wealth of information from doing this for years. All I can say is work on yourself and be the best version of yourself. Make the approach knowing you already have her. Don’t over communicate. Don’t flirt. As men we’re pre selected she seen us a long time ago and already decided in her mind if she’ll give us a shot. After that it’s what you say out of your mouth. Introduce yourself and ask her name or vice verse and invite her out for a drink a… | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.This can work for you or against you only the strong survive | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Approach!Approach!!Approach!!!Hell yeah! Proud of you guys! Let’s not forget the self improvement! Women are just a by product not the end goal! | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 12:49 AM |
| 9 | Learn from my mistakesThere’s always tomorrow if anything you should’ve asked her back to your place. A lot of girls give out their number like it’s candy and are looking just to have fun I think you gave off boyfriend vibes to her which gave her the ick that’s what it sounds like to me honestly | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Help a 19 year old guy fix his dating lifeAt 19 you shouldn’t worry about dating at ALL focus on school, work, gym and building your future. I am 30 I’m doing pretty good for myself right now but man what I know now would’ve helped me at 19 please build yourself first for at least 4 years. You have a long way to go and dating never ends | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach beginnerMy approach has always been get in and get out it should take less than a minute. Women pre select men all the time just how we pre select women so shoot your shot in the form of ask her name and introducing yourself and than ask for number that’s it nothing more nothing less she’s either going to give it to you or she’s not if she doesn’t want to give it to you just leave and don’t say nothing. | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach beginnerBy far the newbie approach we’ve all been there I wouldn’t compliment nor ask if she has a boyfriend. She’s single just depending who’s asking. She’s tired of compliments she wants indifference. | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Does the Fear Of Rejection Ever Completely Go Away?Yes it does I remember when I used to be just like you now I feel so free | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 02:43 AM |
| 6 | 25M need help approachYou just have to do it the more you do it the more you start to learn as you go. Biggest piece of advice is you miss every shot you don’t take. | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 01:11 PM |
| 10 | Matched with a girl on Tinder that I’ve seen in my gym. How to proceed?Approach her in the gym | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of STDs paranoia?You’re doing everything right! Are you having him do the same things you’re doing? | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of STDs paranoia?You’re doing everything right! Are you having him do the same things you’re doing? | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Need help with solo night game difficultiesDon’t care about what people think. You’re not that big of a deal respectfully. Get out of your head when you’re out go talk to people go dance live your life who cares what people think! | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Which seduction method programs or systems have you followed and gotten laid with?You’re over thinking it stop while you’re ahead. Just go outside be normal be yourself | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 02:54 AM |
| 12 | For those who have pulled from the gym what was your approach?I have a planet fitness membership in a big city so I have about 8 locations within 10 miles around me and I rotate gyms. I keep my approach simple and quick I don’t wanna waste my time or her time. There’s no strategy it’s the basic openers. You’re either that guy or you’re not she either pre selected you in her mind or she didn’t. I’m not saying approach every hot girl in the gym but you miss every shot you don’t take. I recommend rotating gyms if possible. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Mindset while texting a girl on ig?Mindset is don’t do it lmaoo | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 12:09 AM |
| 3 | First time being someone’s booty call who has other booty calls as well. What should I keep in mind?I would just find a partner that’s down with fwb | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Why I quit dating apps forever (and what I now do instead)The gym my gym has like 5 locations around me | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 11:46 AM |
| 6 | 10/10 Girl At BarDude you just met the girl and acting all needy? Don’t have expectations especially when you just meet them. You messed this up big time. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Need to changeHow tall are you? You will drive yourself crazy chasing women and start to talk to yourself awful just like the way you are now. Build your empire and protect your peace. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Need to changeHow old are you? Don’t chase women chase success! I’m 30 and the last 10 years I should’ve chased my goals and dreams harder instead of putting so much effort in chasing women. I’m doing fairly well for myself but the kitty cat is not all that when you do get it trust me don’t go down this rabbit hole it’s never ending switch your focus my friend | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Need to changeHave you tried anywhere else besides nightclubs or bars? | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Need to changeWhat are you saying to these girls? | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Is going direct a lot more embarrassing and more rejections?I think that comes off as unattractive and not as genuine girls will see that and they know you’re chasing tail and that I think is thirsty vibes I don’t think girl wanna fw a guy who has to chase ass or approach every girl but try it and let me know how it goes | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Need to changeI have a question for you @gabe | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 06:55 AM |
| 5 | FWB adviceYeah it’s a scam that’s a lot more common on dating apps now that’s why I stay off of them and just meet women in perosn | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 06:53 AM |
| 15 | Age gap - how to attract youngerI’m 30 and approach with a question ask who she is and than introduce yourself respond with nice to meet you and ask for her number that’s it they’ve already pre selected you in their mind. I can tell you over think don’t even worry about that just take it step by step. | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys prefer a direct or indirect approach?Direct because it’s confident and I don’t want to waste my time or theirs as a man I see it as masculine energy and women feel that | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 03:41 AM |
| 30 | Age gap - how to attract youngerThere’s a lot to un cap here. I would just start approaching don’t over think it. It’s a numbers game so the odds are not in your favor. I’ll tell you this if you approach enough women you’ll get what you want eventually but it’s time consuming and a lot of BS. Try to be friend a guy that’s out alone or in two’s maybe three at most and make small talk. | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 03:39 AM |
| 3 | best locations for doing pickupAnywhere and everywhere just live your life and go about your day don’t make it obvious you’re just trying to pick up girls it has to come off as genuine and subtle | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 11:35 PM |
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