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| 1 | Real talk how do you approach 10s in places with competition?Stop approaching them with an outcome in mind or going out of your way to communicate with them. Situational openers work for me but when I am already close to them like at the bar. After the opener, introduce yourself straight away and have a normal conversation, as if you were talking to a girl you wasn't interested in. Assume it will be a friendly conversation and nothing more. Get a bit of rapport going then leave them for a bit and come back to them later for a follow up if the first intera… | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:40 PM |
| 3 | How to stop obsessing/thinking about a particular girlTalk to other girls as you said. The more you do, the easier it gets. I find reasons not to like them, typically reasons that I was blinded by, like that fact she doesn't respect me or any ref flags you previously ignored. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Does player really think all of the time about special opener ?Do Indirect. Concentrate on just being friendly to improve your social skills Never approach at a gym. If a woman approaches you then great but it's a fast way of getting banned for sexual harassment. You're there to work out and so are they. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Does player really think all of the time about special opener ?Indirect unless she is eye fking me from across the room. Going direct is just a numbers game and only recommended if you're experienced with lots of social proof and know for a fact women already desire you. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Does player really think all of the time about special opener ?You can get shot down for anything, sometimes before you have even opened your mouth, so what. If the first words out of your mouth is "You're really pretty" then she's probably heard it all before, assumes you only want one thing, her body. After a few exchanges, yeah a compliment doesn't hurt, but comment her on her jewelry choice, clothing, footwear etc or even better, her smile and personality but only after building some kind of rapport. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Does player really think all of the time about special opener ?I'm no chad, I'm average looking, a little overweight but I dress smart and know how to talk fully expecting her, no matter how hot she may seem, not being the one for me. By talking to her I cut out the what if and maybes and get my answer. One time after a soft rejection, that same woman saw me a year later and bought me a drink, in front of her Chad of a boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Does player really think all of the time about special opener ?Me: "Hey, I've not seen you here before. My names Joe, what's yours" gave her a warm smile Her: "Oh hey, it's Sadie shows off her identity bracelet "I've come across from Middlesbrough, got recommended and thought why not, but not really my scene" Me: "So, what is your scene then, high end wine bars" It went back and forth from there Other guys got shot down, while we had a few conversations throughout the night but ultimately her snotty attitude towards others killed the vibe for me. But it is … | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Does player really think all of the time about special opener ?I don't even think about it, let the conversation flow and say whatever comes into my head. You need to be true to yourself. Using canned openers and routines is putting on a performance with an outcome in mind and attractive women who are streetwise will smell it a mile off. Concentrate on being social and building your social skills. When you can comfortably talk with anyone, you can then start running game with minimal effort and thought and yeild better results | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Why are dominate alpha male traits like possession frowned upon by women but by not caring it is not?You can protect a woman from unwanted advances and fight them off. You can't protect her against advances that she is receptive to. Case in point that a woman can only be protected if she respects you. In Caveman days social media, telephones etc didn't exist and therefore limited temptation to stray. In modern times especially with the digital age, options are everywhere with a few clicks of a button, making it far easier for women to move on. But if she respects her man, he can still protect h… | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 09:50 PM |
| 15 | Field Report (David DeAngelo methods)A lot of this is too try hard and you are preforming. Attractive girls who get approached a lot can see right through it. Unless you are naturally cocky and funny, don't do it. A normal authentic conversation asking them all questions (girls love talking about themselves). If they reciprocate and start asking you questions, then you can try and make them laugh. If that is reciprocated, then move onto flirting (with all of them). You can tease them about their replies and ask follow up questions … | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 11:36 AM |
| 3 | I can't wrap my head around preselection?My mate works in this restaurant and at least 4 female FOH staff have the hot's for him. They compete for his attention and all four of them tried to get him to go out with them all (including a 5some). That's pre-selection Girls also watch how other girls look and interact with a guy, and feel like they are missing out if it looks like she is having fun. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Getting Pussy is too hardThanks, I see your point and you are right. I was thinking more along the lines of it would be nice if she said yes but not the end of the world if she says no. Often I have conversation with women who I find attractive and they say things that turn me off them, then later find out they they were interested | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Getting Pussy is too hardIt's not that difficult. If you dress well, good hygiene, have presence and are not obese then that opens doors. When you speak to women, speak to them like normal people and never have an outcome in mind. Introduce yourself, ask questions, make her laugh, flirt a little, tell funny stories to give them an emotional spike, then brush up against her and see if she reciporates and go from there. If she doesn't return the same energy at any point, move the fuck on. The more you try, the harder it i… | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Simp RehabilitationSome girls love conflict and thrive on it. It would involve playing games, walking away from her several times, putting her in her place, having arguments, firing her up. My late former next door neighbour wasn't attracted to a guy unless she was scared of him potentially physically hurting her, done some jail time and was known to be a tough guy could protect her. Any other guy who is not that would be labeled a Simp. They end up like that largely due to their upbringing. You don't want those t… | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 08:34 PM |
| 61 | [Advice] Set a firm boundary with a flirty coworker who snapped at me under stress. Did I kill the attraction, or increased it?You filtered her out and demonstrated to her that you wouldn't put up with her bad behaviour. Kudos. Just pretend nothing happened. Let her reach out to you. | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 01:27 PM |
| 1 | I keep getting strong initial sparks with women but always end up on the back burner. What am I doing wrong?So change the following In the initial dating phases, text only up to the point where you set up the date, and on the day of the date. After the date, text them to say you enjoyed your evening and check that they got home safe (unless of course you went back theirs). You really don't need daily check ins or worry about replying quickly, unless you want a clingy girl of course. If there is a decent gap between dates then face time or call her. Once you have got to know each other then of course, … | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 08:32 PM |
| 3 | I keep getting strong initial sparks with women but always end up on the back burner. What am I doing wrong?Do you text a lot in the early stages? How frequent are dates? Are you truthful and authentic to your true self for these women or are you putting on a performance? Do you have a lot of options, that gives you abundance? It's just to help me build a picture. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 03:47 PM |
| 18 | Flirting is NOT escalation!I hope you're not suggesting skipping flirting and going straight to physical touch, as that could land a lot of inexperienced guys in a lot of bother as well as making the girl very uncomfortable. You have to build comfort and attraction before escalating unless you are full of charisma and very good looking. Once comfort is established and she is receptive, then of course move into hand touching and escalate from there. You have to spike emotion before proceeding to escalation. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Met a girl on a plane. Instant intense chemistry and i got ghosted.She probably has a boyfriend and you were just someone nice to talk to. There was probably mutual attraction there, but if she already has someone, she may not want to throw that away. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 09:45 AM |
| 5 | Why is persistence and chasing such a bad thing?Exactly. It's like being totally happy with the prospect of being single forever (which is a likely outcome for many guys) and enjoying life to the full, naturally makes you more selective, not outcome dependant, take more risks and not willing to put up with bad behaviour. The by product is increased success with women. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 01:19 PM |
| 4 | "You're so sweet but..." after dates and hookupsStrike while the iron is hot. Men are visual and women are emotional. If you flirt with them enough and escalate right, they will often take your clothes off. Women don't stay on an emotional high for very long. | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 01:25 PM |
| 1 | 100% serious: should I give up?Stop focusing on the outcome. To be successful, you need to have the mindset of being completely happy with being alone for ever and living a fulfilled and happy life that someone else would like to be apart of. Having goals, hobbies and a genuinely busy schedule where a girl will have to be really worth it for you to give them the time of day, let alone a date. Interact with others without fear of upsetting them, having opinions others disagree with and not backing down to align with their thou… | /r/seduction | 01/06/26 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Females only care about your wallet not your feelingsIf you have it in your head that looks, mucles, height and money is all that women look for you have lost before you started as your body language will come across as insecure. Plus don't approach girls at the gym. Just make small talk (say hello and smile) and that's it. If you see her out and about then by all means. You need to work on your inner game and become a fun person to be around and to do that, without abundance, you need to be truly happy being single forever. When you are fun and a… | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Help. Girls become upset and feel betrayed when they don't become my girlfriend.It could be that you are giving off boyfriend energy rather that fuck boi energy. Especially when you are wanting to get to know them first. Most women after good sex want to lock you down. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 06:24 PM |
| 5 | I don't get sex. Am I doing something wrong or am I just dating the wrong women?Usually they blow up your phone after this. I remember one time it was 5 days straight and on the 6th day, I turned her down as I needed a breather 🤣 | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How Rare Is It For Men To Actually Approach Women In Public?Yep, but as they have succeeded in doing that, they will continue to do it. Times have changed. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 09:11 AM |
| 3 | How Rare Is It For Men To Actually Approach Women In Public?I've even seen Gen Z guys match on tinder, hinge etc to girls who are in the same bar, for permission before going over to talk to them while DJing, it really happens. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 10:57 AM |
| 4 | Not giving a fuck, is the biggest form of seduction. 90% falls for it.Not being outcome dependant is more accurate. For guys who already have lots of options then this comes naturally, however for a lot of guys, the trick is to accept you maybe forever alone and that's ok. Accept that then do everything else in life to make yourself happy and the best you can be (career, gym, social status etc) and stick to your morals. A girlfriend or a hook up is a bonus but not required to live a fulfilled life. It's too easy for guys with few options to settle for women who wi… | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 10:33 AM |
| 5 | How to stop caring whether she texts you or notIf you are genuinely busy with life and having fun, you naturally text less and don't worry about getting a reply, as there are just too many other exciting things happening (so naturally she has to fight for your valuable time). If you just sit at home twiddling your thumbs, then your thoughts are likely to be focused on her. So get busy with other things. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 03:33 PM |
| 1 | How to politely ask a flakey girl to respect my time?Just don't waste your time on her, then you and your wife stop replying to her messages. Job done. | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 06:04 PM |
| 22 | Why women don't chase men?They certainly do chase but often the guys are conventionally attractive and have several other girls competing for his attention. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Is dating sustainable for below average men?You probably come across as desperate and outcome dependent. For hot guys, of course they will get attention. Now, to get rid of the desperation to pick up a girl, you need to bring yourself back to reality. You will forever be alone and no woman will ever date you. You then forget women and so things in life that make you happy. Take up new hobbies perhaps, join meet up groups etc and get better at socialising. Concentrate then on building up social skills. Don't have serious and boring convers… | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 10:14 AM |
| 2 | I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6sThe better looking girls are, the more options they have, so no need for them to show any interest. If you interact with them with no expectations whatsoever, speak to them like a normal person and flirt a little bit, then they may reciprocate or they will not. If they don't, don't linger and move on and if they do, stick around a bit, tease them and take risks in what you say to them once comfort is established. Idolizing them in your head and they will sense it by how you carry yourself and ac… | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Common dating advice does nothing for the average guy actually strugglingThis is gold. In addition to this, When it comes to talking to women. Treat them like a normal person and flirt a bit and see if she flirts back. A little bit of playfulness and teasing but it has to be authentic and not forced to put on a show. If she flirts back you can match her energy and build rapport. If you don't tease and flirt, then you risk being placed in the "friend" Category. I do the above, I look average with a dad bod and I still end up pushing women away when they become a bit t… | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 08:42 PM |
| 0 | How to DM beautiful women on instagramYou don't, it's creepy. Don't randomly DM attractive women on Insta that you've never met. Instead, frequent the places where those women hang out such as upmarket cocktail bars and lounges. You need to be in their lane, and blowing up their DMs puts you in the same place as all the other guys in her DMs, and that's beneath them. | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 05:53 PM |
| 2 | How do I add women to my social circle?You need to shift your mindset in order to move forwards. You need to firstly accept that you will never have a girlfriend, never get married, never have sex and die alone as a virgin. Then you need to be happy about that and ensure your life is fully full filled as if you are always going to be single. Once you have accepted that outcome in your head, then there should be no expectations from any interaction you have with women, as you don't have any expectations and therefore are not dependent… | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?In the workplace it's best practice to let women take the lead and ask you out to the point you can say yes or no. It prevents any awkwardness and reduces the risk of any sexual Harrasment charges brought against you which can cost you your job. Don't give any attention above a hello and goodbye, unless it's strictly work related. Be polite and that's it. I know plenty of girls I have worked with who have got guys fired for the stupidness of things. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 02:43 PM |
| 1 | No sexual tensionWhen I have be put in the freindzone in the past, I have kept it distant but have remained friends with a few of them but don't reach out or pursue. If she still wants the attention, then I cut her off. The point I was making is that if they both get on with each other but sexual attraction is not there, then there is nothing wrong with remaining friends. I have also placed women in the frienzone after dating in cases where we got along but where the attraction, chemistry etc was not there on my… | /r/seduction | 12/02/26 08:12 AM |
| 15 | No sexual tensionYou're using her. Just friendzone her and keep her there, it's not fair to keep striging her along. it feels like you want to keep seeing her to see if sexual attraction develops, but from what you put, you would never be fully satisfied. Is it really worth months of seeing her with potentially no end product, and the end product may be bad anyway. It just doesn't make sense to me. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends?Too early in my opinion. Also gives off a friendship vibe. When your in an established relationship then yes no problem. In my experience, when in a relationship, outings with friends were always with other couples if the gf was there and not with single or unaccompanied friends. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Why 10s Are Biologically Immune to "Game”If you treat 10s as normal people instead of giving them special treatment, often enough they find it refreshing, then just flirt a bit and see if there is any back and forth. Once you get it in your head "OMG she is a 10, I'm going to have to be on top of my game to win her over" You're losing before you have even opened your mouth. | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever tried tell something negative (i.e., diarrhea) about yourself to a hot girl?If they give me a compliment that I am really good at something, I will (and have) play it down a bit and not make a big deal of it, but I also won't degrade myself. I won't actively go out and just be negative about myself without being asked specifics. If however she asks me a specific question about me and that answer is negative, I won't lie about it, but I will laugh at myself. The thing is, if you lie about it, she will find out eventually anyway and that's never good. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Got a Text BackIf she saw him as genuinely better than the rest, then she would have dropped one and added him. She didn't. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 10:15 PM |
| 26 | Got a Text BackIt means her roster is currently full and you're on a waiting list. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:10 PM |
| 7 | I am sick of not being able attract womenYou first need to get into the mind set of being perfectly happy with your own life and fully accept the fact that you could be forever alone and be happy about that. That is by doing things, taking up hobbies, making personal goals and working towards them (just getting jacked at the gym and looking good is not enough). Once you've cracked that, work on your social skills and never ever have any expectations for every interaction you have with women. Because you are then happy with being alone … | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | It's all smoke and dust until she's in your bed. Don't get excited early.Ahh I see. I don't see anything wrong, as long as when exclusive with one, he stops talking to the others. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 09:55 AM |
| 19 | It's all smoke and dust until she's in your bed. Don't get excited early.If you pick a specific woman too early, then the others will try and stop her from going with you. You have to win the group over and build a bit of trust. | /r/seduction | 15/12/25 08:13 PM |
| 14 | It's all smoke and dust until she's in your bed. Don't get excited early.Disagree. Treating them all the same is a good strategy. If you focus one one, then the others will try and prevent it from happening, and then you don't get any at all. Isolate at the last possible moment, even if you have to bring all of them back to yours. | /r/seduction | 15/12/25 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Got friendzoned yet again, rethinking love vs arrange marriage now.Never ever become "friends first" With women who you are attracted to and want to date. If they we're attracted to you, they'd date you off the bat. If you become friends first, you remain friends and nothing more, while you watch her date and get into relationships with other guys. As soon as they say "I only see you as a friend" It's time to bounce. You need to tease and flirt with women and take risks. Sometimes those risks don't pay off (she was never into you anyway) and you lose her comple… | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 04:12 PM |
| 2 | How to Get a Girlfriend Without Forcing ItThen you have all your eggs in one basket. Another girl you meet maybe even better and will move at the same pace you want to. Nothing wrong with dating one at a time, but if she doesn't bring on the talk after several months, eventually you are going to have to move on anyway, as if you get too emotionally invested (more than she is), it creates an imbalance where she hold all the power. Girls typically have far more options that guys do as it is. You can bring up the talk if you chose to, but … | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Did she pull back out of guilt or did I mess up?Do you really want her boyfriend to your texts to her? You should just leave it and let her reach out. Meanwhile date women without boyfriends, if she cheats on him with you, then she will do the same to you. | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 06:50 PM |
| 8 | How to Get a Girlfriend Without Forcing ItIt kills attraction and can make it look like you don't have any other options. | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 06:46 PM |
| 8 | How to Get a Girlfriend Without Forcing ItAlways wait for her to bring up the exclusivity talk. Have fun with her but if she doesn't progress to exclusivity, then move on from her. I have done the "I think we're after different things, let's go our separate ways, no hard feelings thing" a few times and they still reach out now and again. I would also keep dating others. Bringing up the exclusivity talk gives her all the power and often kills attraction. | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Is there any value in following up with a girl that likely lost interest?In that case she just wasn't for you. | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Is there any value in following up with a girl that likely lost interest?Just move on. With dating, you start as you mean to go on. If you put on a show for the first couple dates, she will expect the same personality for every date. So if date 3 was more the real you and she didn't like the real you and you have just wasted yours and her time. Best advice to find a good fit is to be natural from date one. If your natural self doesn't yield results, then you need to work on yourself to become more attractive, fun and dateable. Then when you do get dates, it will be n… | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 06:22 PM |
| 28 | Does she (37F) actually want something to happen at the Christmas Party, or am I (33M) delulu?She wants you to give her a beef injection. She couldn't of made it anymore clear. Flashing greens. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Fix your Incel mindset before you go and seduce/harass womenFor a lot of men, they just need to accept that they may be forever alone, work on themselves and be happy with who they are. Only from that point can a man entertain approaching women with zero expectations, as they would be happy to be forever alone and therefore have zero expectations as a by product. Being confident can come across as creepy if their mindset is not matched with the above. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 09:48 AM |
| 3 | I’m stuck at getting 8sI am a personality DJ and have worked on running a room. Hosting Karaoke and making the night all about them. Thus I am the focal point of that room, I am top dog and in control. That's half the battle. I get hit on, and if they are too forward I dismiss them and reject them by not showing interest back. Other women see this and think there must be something about me and start showing interest, until I meet women who match my energy and the interest becomes neutral and go from there. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 04:40 PM |
| 2 | I’m stuck at getting 8sIt boils down to how you speak to them. If you've got it in your head that they are a 9 or 10 and you can only achieve 8s, you will naturally treat them differently from 7s & 8s. Take risks, treat them as a normal person and flirt. But you need you get to know them beyond the surface level and then tease them about things they do, bring them down a bit off their pedalstool, then build them back up, keeping it light and flirty. They will defend themselves. They will be taken back a bit that you h… | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:45 PM |
| 2 | how often does outergame fail for you?You need to build emotional connection. When speaking to girls, treat them like anyone else (a normal person), build comfort and flirt a bit then see if they flirt back. If they don't then move on and don't waste any time. If they do flirt back then that's your green light to continue to run game. Sometimes when you move on from them and they see you having fun with other girls, they may approach you and re-engage. Also be authentic, women can smell it when a guy is trying to be someone they are… | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Men who have multiple women without spending money or losing peace — what’s the logic behind it?For me, it's being centre of the room and able to lead a group or be the party at the party. When interest is shown to me, I give off the 'I don't give a shit" Vibe. Sometimes it drives them away, other times they try harder. When the latter happens, If I like them, I speak to them and treat them as a normal person but flirt at the same time. A big one if it's casual, if you are in a crowded environment around others, don't make it too obvious to others. A quick "Come meet me in 20 mins at so an… | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Stop looking for excusesLooks just open more doors, that's it. Good hygiene, being well dressed and groomed are more important. Be funny and carefree. Don't be outcome dependant. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Why are romantic/dating situations so common at work?For me, it's more common as you see them more. Same as people you know in your neighborhood (my dog walker) offer it out to me, even though they are in a LTR and tell me a week prior that they never cheated. I would advise against being a home wrecker, it never ends well. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | PUA Forums, What happened to them?MPUA | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsThis is often because the higher quality women are taken from others. As in there are out without their other halfs, fail to mention it, then leave them for you. Not all the time, but much of the time this is the case. I find that the vast majority of the women I have met online usually are on there for a reason. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?A lot of the time a better option has become available. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 04:30 PM |
| 2 | She wants to take it slow?There is a cure for this. Date other women while continuing to see her, presuming you haven't had the exclusivity talk. If she feels she is about to genuinely lose you, then she will show more interest. If you get to exclusivity with another woman in the meantime while dating others, you can stop seeing her. Some women take months or are just weighing up the options over a period of time. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 05:32 PM |
| 0 | Putting a plan together to improve my dating life, but questions remainExpand your social circle. It doesn't matter if its all guys in the group activities you chose. Eventually, you will try out different things where more women may take part. Build your social life first and get used to communicating with a vairity of people. From there you will have something about you. You then share your success on social media, become more and more intersting, then when you do go to social functions with more women present, then you will naturally talk to them. If you go into… | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 05:28 PM |
| 4 | PUA Forums, What happened to them?I am part of a PUA community, but our forum concentrates on self imporvement, building solid foundations, social circles and the like, rather than the whole "Approach 100 women a get 1 number" or used canned material or cringy lines. All about mindset now and self belief. A lot of guys pop on the forum asking for help, and don't like the answer they are give because they don't want to put the work in for a few years and improve their lives before they are in a position to attract high value wome… | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Added girl on insta she added back, shot dm, we talked and had a convo and related, I asked for her # and all she does is like my text. Why...Some girls do no give out their number until days or sometimes weeks into messenging via DMs. Some don't even give their number out until after the first date if it went well. Too many guys out there just blow up a girls phone with texts and calls, they then have to block that number, only to find out same guy then calls and texts off a different number, so they then have to change their mobile numbeer. Rinse and repeat and it gets time consuming and annoying. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Do I stop texting first"Many unsolved issues" = Run She could be a broken women, after validation until she gets her confidence back and is ready to find a real man. Don't get involed with women with issues from the past that are still affecting them. It's like a guy who is still in love with his ex while dating another woman. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | So what's the reason so many guys don't get the second date?You can't have it both ways. You just need to be clear what you are looking for. If they are not looking for the same thing, they will just walk. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:00 PM |
| 3 | So what's the reason so many guys don't get the second date?If the girl is after a hookup on the first date, she would have made that clear before hand, so in that case, failure to get the same day lay with her would involve in a ghost, but that is not true for girls looking for a relationship. Infact, going in too strong on the first date can make them run. The problem is most guys cannot calibrate with them and get on the same page. Some girls looking for a relationship won't sleep with you until the 3rd date, others it can be the 4th, 5th or 6th date … | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?This here. Girls won't give you closure, so just accept she is not interested and that you will never know. Also, being friends with a girl your still interested in is unhealthy. All the girls I am friends with I have no attraction towards whatsoever and they are not attracted to me so it works. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Double texting advice when they agreed on a date but haven’t responded since?Plan a date with another one, or arrange to do something else. If she replies after then say you have other plans now, how about x on 2 weeks time etc. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Dating in 2022 for a guy who does not particularly like textingMe and the current woman I am dating don't typically text each other unless it's to arrange a date or to check in if not spoke for about a week. Just tell her. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.Do not take on the agony aunt role with women you are interested or dating, that is what their friends are for. Once you are established in a relationship for a few years and live together for a while, then you can start to help her emotionally. I used to think this works, but its an unattractive trait and learnt from past mistakes. I was also dumped, told we were too close and better than friends after 2 years in a relationship from trying to fix her life. You don't have to be a bad boy, just n… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Still pushing after rejection. Should I stop?If she has give you the "Lets Just be Friends" talk, that is exactly what it means and she is not attracted to and never will be. The majority of women will not entertain anything more, no matter how close you become as friends, so best advice is to move on, and if you are not happy with just a platonic arrangement, then cut her off. Contiuing to persue her is creepy behavoir. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 10:34 PM |
| 2 | I think I know why *some* women ghost randomly even if it seems like you’re both enjoying yourselves.She probally was a dating a few guys, and one of the other guys was more compatible for her, them she dropped you. It happens quite a lot in the dating world. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Boring Replies from Girls in Dating AppIf they are boring, just move on to the next one or wait for another match, with someone who will be more interesting | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 12:44 PM |
| 14 | I'm in autism spectrum and i have trouble flirtingI am on the spectrum as well. You have to come up with coping strategies and will have to work harder to improve your flirting skills, where to others it comes naturally. With me, I either click with some girls and I don't with others. I also make them aware that I am on the spectrum relatively early on when dating them, so they know what to expect. Some will run at the thought, and that is there choice, others chose to stick around, with makes it easier for me as that is a big IOI. I am current… | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | going to nightclub with group of girl friends ?I go out with a group of girls occasionally. They are friends and I will still approach other girls. They will also wing as well. I went out with a fairly large group a few years back, and they knew I was interested in a lass in another group of girls. As a group, we opened the other group and got social, and then I got to know the target and then pulled. I do get asked who they are, and I just tell them they are friends. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you text in-between dates?Between dates, its either to set up future dates, or if I haven't spoken to her in 2-3 days, I will just check in with her to find out how her week is going. But apart from that, I don't, as I don't need to text her. Sometimes if something funny or interesting has happened I will share it if I know she can releate to it and is relevant. Never text a girl between dates just to try and keep her interested, it just screams desperation, as it's coming from a place of neediness. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Being a fuckboyThere is a world of difference for me when it comes to hook ups and LTR prospects. If a lass puts out on me too early such as a same day lay, she is firmly in the FWB category, and I wouldn't consider her for long term. The girls who put the effort in to get to know you properly before boarding the bus to bangtown have more value for LTR. There are also a lot more red flags that I look for and compatability. I have a LTR prospect currently who I have seen a few times, but still have FWBs until t… | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 09:48 PM |
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