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| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadrate them. i think the white guy is best looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadi think we went over this? Costanza, is a fictional chad, himself a model... specifically, a hand model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:31 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread1% is a common number. the question gets asked regularly on various subs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthat completely ignores that men also get rid of the women, often the next morning. and tons of below average guys have great qualities and willing to stay. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/j795a8/my_boyfriend_is_my_best_friend_but_im_not/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 08:11 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho started this rumor that women marry men they aren't attracted to? Where does this come from? if i had to guess, i'd say it came from the Women who talk to their friends about this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit's all over youtube, where like a 6'3" girl catfishes short guys and sits down. then she stands up to meet them and she towers over them. most of the guys just make up an excuse and leave. some of them might be staged, but i totally believe tons of guys would react this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:26 PM |
| – | If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did itpeople google and get red carpet photos, and photos a few years back. the status also makes it hard to rate. if he was assistant manager at mcdonald's, i'd understand if someone said 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:19 PM |
| 9 | Do women actually marry the men they aren't really that sexually attracted to?if you scroll down and read the comments, there are a lot of women sharing their stories. you can also just google it, or read subs about it. it isn't that rare for women to have zero attraction to their husband since the first moment they met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:22 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthese days the girls can get toxic. especially if you're the only guy, and they are a group of girls. it's pretty rough out there if you're not used to gaming. once you get used to it, you brush it off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:18 AM |
| 11 | Do women actually marry the men they aren't really that sexually attracted to?https://www.refinedprose.com/not-attracted-husband/ The quick answer is the enormous pressure that certain women in our society face to get married, and have children, and the limited time they have to accomplish those goals, ending up raising those kids, and also being good friends with their husband and actually caring about him sometimes, and then getting used to that lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread100k = "should we live in a van?" in some cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | The average young man is objectively absolutely unappealing and it is a GOOD thing for the rest of men in general that he is not dating or having sexit's super common. girls post about it, and ask about it, and other girls talk about their insecurities and anxieties. it's all over reddit. https://www.reddit.com/r/MakeupAddiction/comments/r23uq/is_anyone_else_here_too_insecure_to_go_out/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | The average young man is objectively absolutely unappealing and it is a GOOD thing for the rest of men in general that he is not dating or having sexmakeup is a cheat code. they know when it comes off the morning after, the man will find her a lot less attractive. yet they still put it on, because it's a cheat code and changes how easily you can get something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmillionaires are flying to Israel for affordable medical procedures. when you're making 36k, you just die: someone posted this one the other day https://i.redd.it/a9gv6txgtpdb1.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:32 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthat's just one random example. there's hundreds of millions of other examples. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aCWyURIZUQ0 women rate guys, women rate other women, women rate celebrities, and most women are used to it. you can randomly ask to rate, and they'll rate. it's extremely common. it's actually a bizarre statement to suggest that women don't use the 1-10 scale rating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:33 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmen don't really process it that way either. they're not thinking about accurately rating someone while they're just meeting someone and talking to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhttps://www.reddit.com/r/VindictaRateCelebs/comments/y6r5s5/thoughts_on_pete_davidson/ that's just your circle of friends, then. and that means nothing. there are literally subreddits devoted to women rating people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:03 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthey do, it's extremely common everywhere. a lot of people agree to a certain extent. just ask your friends to rate danny devito and brad pitt, physically. is there some general agreement? will a few people disagree? Sure. women use this scale all the damn time, and you can hear it in conversations about specific people, like pete davidson. there are female subreddits that are about rating. obviously rating isn't everything, but describing people, women use this scale all the time to describe so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadi literally have sat next to two girls saying a number as guys walked by. some dude walks by. their conversation: "hmmm... 8." "I think 7" when i talk with coworkers, both male and female, we all use 1-10 scale. it's so standard. and, yes, it also can get cringey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance?it's a hypothetical. so you have to imagine a world where a 5/10 man, throughout his entire life, is getting approached by 9/10 women at a mall, bars, work, grocery store, etc. if you really want to think about it, you have to imagine that it happens on a daily basis. a further hypothetical is if the 5/10 man knows that he can glance over at the 9/10 woman, and that will lead to both knowing they want each other. at some point, a man with a healthy libido will break down. it might take a week, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Intelligence Matters A Lot More Than People Realizeintelligence is dominance, and power. intelligent women seek out intelligent men. definitely one of the most important traits for a lot of people, both men and women. the reason intelligent women seek out intelligent men is because if the man is less intelligent, she feels as if she's the dominant one. even a single master's degree has many women ruling out men with only a bachelor's degree. it gives them the ick. somewhat related is women disliking men who are even just one year younger than th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 10:40 PM |
| 2 | "taller than me, but not drastically shorter than his friends"it would be worse to decide basketball for your unborn child. Just like the hockey dad who rages and beats his kid for switching to figure skating. just having a height fetish is much saner than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 09:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadback then everyone was misogynist or racist or both. just like almost everyone believed in God back then. Doesn't mean some rando atheist is smarter than those dudes who believed in God, like Newton. we just have better information. we have better historical access, even wikipedia alone is steroids to us that they didn't have back then. kids in recent history had spell check. In the future, kids will have ChatGPT. But Orwell will still be the GOAT. Just as Jordan smoked cigars and gambled chroni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 08:20 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthere are 70+ year old couples where one reveals to the other who they fucked in their lifetime. and some of those couples actually get a divorce after that reveal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 08:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadstudent loan girl is actually quite awesome for revealing everything before marriage. She let it be known her parents' health issues and stuff. He has a chance to nope out. Too many times on reddit, the guy finds out about all these damn loans AFTER the marriage. Kudos to student loan girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 07:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlots of 30-something single women who want kids are oozing with desperation. it's palpable when you're talking to them. it gets worse and worse the closer to 40 they get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 07:09 PM |
| 0 | Intelligence Matters A Lot More Than People Realizeeinstein got groupies. if you got awards, then you got tons of status. status is attractive. even being a good writer in your local writer's group will give you a lot of status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:32 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadso the comparisons don't matter. you're just talking about total pieces of shit at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 08:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthere are maga conservatives that support genocide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 08:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadand there are rich senators flying to Israel for affordable healthcare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 08:06 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthe one thing i can think of is the celebrity examples, those get outdated pretty quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 06:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthis sub isn't only about dating. it's also about things like attraction and sex, without the dating. sociology, psychology, biology, evolution, etc. all of these things are discussed. 30+ is in a better position to compare the past to the present and how drastically things changed, especially with regards to the Internet. 30+ is aware of how people change as they get older, even their hormones and their desires may increase. example: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/qywxt1/way_h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 06:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/magnetic-partners/201509/why-we-marry-people-we-arent-physically-attracted a lot of divorce happens because the marriage was not built on a foundation of even a little physical attraction. if you think women don't need to "fix" things in their life as much as men, consider something like cleanliness: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NY16aLaF_ZE whatever problems men have, women also have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 04:42 PM |
| 11 | Why is the 80/20 rule offensive?it's offensive to tell everyone they didn't get their first choice. the 80/20 reminds them of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 04:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldnever said it was comparable. i said the opposite in the first line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 03:59 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLots of those guys are between 5'9" and 6'0" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit should've been over with a long time ago. the guy was living right there, and was described by a witness as a white 6'6" ogre guy driving a chevy avalanche. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadeven if it isn't the majority, it's still a lot more women that are independent. i can't see that not having an impact on dating scene. a lot of men and women who are making six figures i know can't buy a home yet. they can if they get married though, with two incomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:52 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreada huge part of it is the internet, not really having to go out, even working from home these days. the other part of it is women being more independent, no reason to force yourself to go find a man. maybe even with these insane COL, you can have everything you want with a near minimum wage job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 06:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthere actually are articles about this. golden dick phenomenon. the setting is colleges that are like 70% female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:14 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyou can claim you wouldn't. but if it actually happened, you'd have to sit down and really think about how life changing $300 million would be. he's not a 75 year old guy. he's decent looking, he's well respected, critically acclaimed actor, he's a philanthropist and donates time and money. he works on environmental and climate change projects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadsupply and demand. dating forum: "Is there something wrong with my pics or profile?" Forum response: No, you're like a 7/10. you're also tall. Good pics. Drop the selfie. Lead with the hiking pic. It's brutal out there for all guys. jobs forum: "Is there something wrong with my resume or cover letter?" Forum response: "Nope. looks good. You got good degrees and good job history, good experience. You just need to send out more resumes. It's brutal out there for all applicants." You can find these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadsociety is what's gross. that amount of fame is what's gross. how many women over 18 do you need to talk to in the USA to find one that doesn't know who he is? The number might be zero. 100% of women would marry him. it's too much wealth even for non-gold diggers. that's what's gross. you could claim you wouldn't marry him, but think about it, if he actually arrived at your town to shoot a film and then proposed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 04:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadgood analogy, but... to get an interview, without any connections, what you really need is to SPAM. spamming your keywords, spamming your resume. 100 applications at a time MINIMUM. the supply demand situation is similar. Men say they approached 100 women, got zero dates. So what would job forums recommend? They literally are like "Those are rookie numbers, send 500 more applications." The update is like "I did 500 more applications, I got 4 phone calls, and 2 interviews, and got hired by one co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 04:51 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit isn't gross when he's that famous. a good number of straight men would marry him. a lot will have no choice if that opportunity came up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldso much shit has happened in the last 10 years. for both guys and girls. first, there's exponential increase in number of faces that you are exposed to. and the number of good looking faces, since they all rise to the top in social media. there's exponential increase in number of people you can possibly meet and start a conversation with. there's so much discussion of aesthetics, including male aesthetics. it definitely wasn't like this 15 years ago. lots of people haven't even joined in the dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldthough women have stricter height preferences, men do have some height preferences. not that many guys that are average height would date a 6'1" girl. guys want to feel bigger too. so this means that girls that are like 5'9"+ actually don't seem to have preferences that are as strict. in fact, their future daughters might be fucked if they marry a 6'4" guy. WNBA is a plus though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 03:37 PM |
| 2 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldindicators of interest. how a person indicates that they are interested in a person, such as glancing at them repeatedly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 03:24 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthat's exactly what religion is about. People who oppose a religion, the outsiders, are all going to Hell, they don't matter at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:52 PM |
| 2 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldi'm saying if a guy is 5'8" in online dating, there's no visceral attraction. there is something you have to think about and try to analyze, try to imagine what they look like, their presence. in real life, it takes less than a second sometime, you don't even think about some number such as height. i'm suggesting women step it up with their approaches. i know women already approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadnot the entire story: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2019/sep/23/reports-sexual-assaults-london-underground-soar i would say both men and women should be cautious at night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:41 PM |
| 4 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldI think that's shortsighted though. They could be missing out on their perfect partner because they are an inch too short or a pound too heavy or whatever. too many options is a real problem. you can actually select for height and end up with a guy shorter than your desired height while rejecting a guy that is a height you prefer. guy #1: 5'9" but saying he's 6'0" guy #2: 5'11.5" but saying he's 5'11". https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r29rch/guy_lied_about_height/ the craziest thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:10 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadgold diggers aren't nice girls. that's the problem. people already protect themselves against gold diggers. some poor men wear a real rolex, while some rich men wear a casio. you can't just look around and spot the rich guys. you have to get into long conversations with all of them and hope they're telling you the truth, when both the poor guy with the rolex and the rich guy with the casio have incentive to lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been aroused by a man's personality who otherwise had no remarkable physical qualities? If so, what drew you in to him ?furniture is overrated. especially if you plan on moving in one or two years. it's all social pressure: if you don't have a couch you've got some mental illness or you're trashy. it's actually the opposite: if you buy a couch you can't afford, it's a bit trashy. it's the female version of buying a Truck that you can't afford, because you think there's so much status in having an F150 or your life and your business are going to change once you get the truck. it takes intelligence and independence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:18 AM |
| 2 | What women like vs what men think they likehe's the same character as the other dude, it's one person. yeah, if a real person is actually starting a fighting club in his backyard and desires to get punched in the face over and over and over again for fun, that's probably not attractive in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:16 AM |
| 4 | What are these “ movies and media” that everyone always references for blue pillthe best relationship movies are blackpilled because they're interested in the raw truth. They expose the world, they reveal the inner workings. These movies can become art. the bluepilled stuff doesn't rise above the level of mere entertainment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadreal nice guys aren't feeding the poor 24/7. real nice guys also spend time trying to date, sometimes unsuccessfully. It's ok for them to be frustrated, ask questions, talk about it, read about it, etc. just because he's a real nice guy who is loyal, kind, honest, and brave, doesn't mean he can't wonder about his lack of success in dating. the nice guy that is frustrated is similar to a 40+ single woman who is frustrated that there are no good guys out there. it's ok to be frustrated and vent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:08 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadeven logicians struggle to apply logic to all areas of their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 04:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadif it happens again, you know a woman sat down and came up with a life hack to get free money: just rape someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 04:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOne Hour Photo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:22 AM |
| 3 | A woman being promiscuous benefits men more than herselfwomen always benefited. that's why they continue to do it even though it is very risky. even when adultery can be sentenced by death, women still do it. same with gay men, who have sex with other men when it could be punishable by arrest, death, and chemical castration. even with low chance of orgasm,casual sex is desired that much. the only conclusion can be that it's fucking awesome, even without the orgasm. if it wasn't fucking awesome, our species would die out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:19 PM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?income gap too. you wanted to quickly meet your looksmatch so you could settle down into a comfortable lifestyle. back then there were tons of girls with no jobs, but the further back you go, there are more and more guys with like a factory job that owns a house and a car. made it easier for the bar scene because many men had something women wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadstare at a stranger in the eye for 2+ seconds next time you're out. you can either get killed or fall in love. You might remember that experience 30+ years later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:34 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthis is actually something that is constantly mentioned here in this forum. basically people say something like "If you start to work out, you'll actually notice looks and get some more attention. It happened to me." it applies to most people probably. even if you hear 100 girls commenting "I never check any guys out, not even subconsciously without knowing out, so it never happened in the history of our species." in your case, i guess no work out was even needed, just a fashion change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.it's a rough estimate. the point is that it's just 4 walls. a nice home doesn't have to be complex. if people live in vans and mobile homes, then it should be very possible to house everyone much cheaper. the problem is upselling and profits for middlemen. the other problem is cities are a blob which limit design. there's more bureaucracy and harder to build huge designs like horizontal linear cities with a bullet train going all the way through. there's just huge amounts of inertia in society. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.shelter is so cheap, a guy with an axe went into the middle of the woods and built a nice home for $0, and started an entire little village there. that's how it was always done for thousands of years. for a used shipping container, it can be as low as $2k. that's how much 4 walls should cost in modern times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 10:10 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthere are tons of pretty, traditional good girls that wake up one day and a lightbulb goes off, and they think: "I can fuck any guy I want?" Now you have a girl that needs to get something "out of her system" like many other men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 01:12 AM |
| -2 | Being short is like being disabledno, it doesn't prove that. it just explains a lot of the psychology behind those people. first, it's OK to trash people on social media and talk about celebs. we have been doing that forever. however, if we want to analyze the behavior, in general it is to make ourselves feel better. humans do it all the time in many different ways. https://www.newsweek.com/margot-robbie-mid-social-media-rating-sparks-furious-backlash-1812760 | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 12:00 PM |
| -4 | Being short is like being disabledit's a defensive coping mechanism. it's to put down other men and women who have happy relationships. it's an attempt to put yourself above good looking short men who reject you, so you don't have to be at the bottom of the totem pole. can you really not see it? it's exactly the same when fat guys call a celebrity a "mid." Look: https://imgur.com/gallery/jQrw2Xq | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 11:43 AM |
| -1 | Being short is like being disabledi used to work at walmart with a guy that was short but good looking. the person that always brought it up, and called him tiny, was a fat girl who i heard once asked him out. I overheard tell another girl, "you like him? Why!? he's tiny!" | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 11:23 AM |
| – | Is a cuckold secure in his masculinity?is Jesus secure in his love of prostitutes? some of these men have reached enlightenment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:22 AM |
| -7 | Being short is like being disabledmost of those are venting when a short guy rejects them or breaks up with them. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 09:23 AM |
| – | Do women try to maximize pleasure?the only reason why girls got obsessed with something like thigh gap is because men fetishized it. suddenly girls were like, how do i get that? What exercises do i do and what do i wear to make that effect more pronounced? it can become part of fashion, but subconsciously, at the origination, it was always about turning men on. girls on forums are obsessed with whether guys actually like the big butt look or lip fillers that are uncanny. the modeling is separate from a lot of this, and the model… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 07:34 AM |
| 2 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?the low end six figure guys are suffering if they have kids. even without kids, it's still rough. you can be single, get a vasectomy and be lower salary, but better off. it's about frugality. it's so easily guy A imo. but can change if you put more restrictions. Like I already can see a hack for this: You be extremely frugal, take overtime at your walmart job, and put every dime you have into stocks. never buy a single video game or eat at a restaurant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 07:25 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit's not that simple either. you want certain finance jobs, and if the starting pay is 90k you take that for your future. in 10 years you might be making 320k. even an illegal unpaid internship can be crucial and extremely valuable for potentially going up to 250k. in hollywood, the craziest climbs in 10 years, would be like unpaid assistants eventually becoming producers who make millions, possibly billions. the risk was clearly worth it to those folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:56 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadis this a humblebrag? that's the absolute minimum 2 drinks per week number for going out once a week. That doesn't count drinks that you buy for yourself while sitting at a bar, which might be 4 during that time you're waiting. let's say you found a bar that lets you sit and wait taking up valuable space without buying a drink. that still doubles the number to $4,000 per year. go out two nights instead of one, we double that again, to $8,000 per year. idk, this might be ok for average-ish income… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:47 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthis is the answer. intelligence, sports, hobbies, popularity, none of that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:32 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthe problem is certain cities and certain bars, where you might go to a random bar and drinks are $18. say you go out once a week and buy 2 drinks for someone. that's about $2,000 a year. how often can you not buy a drink for a girl and continue the conversation in a romantic way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadfishing boats are mostly men. i assume it can be even like 95%+. most men have those jobs like oil jobs in the middle of the ocean. all those sailing competitions are mostly men. people who are near the water, like catching lobsters and shit, are mostly men. the single fact that the coast guard is 78% men, you might infer that victims of drowning are roughly 78% men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beif you spend another 10 minutes, you'll find tons of posts and comments that are girls wondering "Why don't I get approached?" "No man approaches me, but my friends say I'm pretty. What am I doing wrong?" If you read more comments, you'll find married women so giddy about little brief eye flirting they experienced at Walmart. A single example like that will show you how attracted some person can be toward a stranger. It's so powerful that they have to share the news. It's so powerful that they r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 03:36 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthey leveled up into sugar baby relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:28 AM |
| 8 | Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex?maybe it's split 50/50. lots of guys do cheat with below average women and risk their stable relationship. they already have a good relationship and risk it for someone who they won't marry if the affair ends their current marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex?tons of introverted guys want relationships. just in general, i do believe most men are interested in relationships and most men experience crushes and infatuations. most introverted guys that i know, have had oneitis, and only into one girl for some time. i think it's a lot easier for introverted guys to have just a couple long term relationships in a decade with a lot of time being single and doing their own thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex?seinfeld dated courtney cox on the show. https://screenrant.com/seinfeld-short-term-love-interests-deserved-more/#hal-kitzmiller basically, you might consider him a gigachad on that show based on the attractiveness of the women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:53 AM |
| 0 | Women actually want to be approached by a manhuge ego boost for a lot of people... but it must be, for certain people, a huge ego killer for an ugly person to even THINK he has chances with you. but, yes, even if some girl says "Get the fuck outta my face, you turd!" you can't take it personally, a guy needs to accept any verbal reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro.some thoughts: San Francisco Proper: GDP per capita is like $300k. singapore: the area around singapore is poor and it might be that poor women are setting their location to singapore. and maybe they easily can get to singapore for a date. i'm not sure how the border work there. or the poor actually live in singapore. same with taiwan. These places can have immigrant workers, such as nannies and stuff, all from surrounding areas. Taiwan itself is not that wealthy compared to the US. it depends o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 11:19 AM |
| 0 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sfor dating and casual sex, it is about 40% of all people who have been in a 10+ year age difference in the past. https://www.ipsos.com/en-us/news-polls/age-gap-dating for marriages, that number goes down to 7.6% because I assume, they just want a fling and there are different goals for marriages, or a parent pressures them to not get married in that situation. still, 7.6% is huge. it means your anecdotal evidence of not knowing those couples is an outlier. if i didn't know any couples like that,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV Face matters the most for your Physical SMVALL of these numbers are off and height is important, but not as important as people on here claim. you just have to think about actual scenarios. first you have guys like dave franco. he'll still be much preferred over many 6' men who are average. he'd STILL be preferred by some women over 6' men who are ABOVE average. because of personal preference and "type." just give yourself a real hypothetical situation: if tom cruise were young and worked at mcdonald's, there's a good chance he'd be more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:52 AM |
| 0 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’shttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships 10 years or more age gap when you add them up is 7.6%. the world is still bluepilled and young folks are getting married and they're the exact same age. but i think 7.6 is significant enough to say that this is a real phenomenon. i do believe girls have cues and things, like what type of car do you drive, what phone do you have, so they can at least start a relationship with a person that may not be a millionaire, but has a comf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sit doesn't happen to completely undateable guys. but it does happen where a guy takes care of himself, and is above average, but not significantly above average. it definitely does feel like a switch was flipped. and here's how you know the anecdotes are real: because a lot of women claim that men younger than them give them the ick. if you read different forums, you can find women saying stuff like "I don't even want to date a guy that's one month younger than me. That just seems gross." so we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:14 AM |
| 0 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’smany men share these anecdotes. However, they are completely drowned out by women here that say that they're fake stories. They really feel like cockblocking, in a subconscious psychological sense. a lot of these men look young in their 20's and look more like adults in their 30's so that's why it might feel like a switch has been flipped for them. for sure, not every person has the same experience. but it's definitely a real phenomenon for many men to get more attention when they are older. som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthseinfeld is written by a team. they get most of their ideas from real life and real people. other real life examples: mask crushes. a man has a mask crush, loves a girl's eyes and body, the girl reveals her face, the man no longer is interested in her. both men and women get mask crushes that end completely when the face is revealed. and not even an ugly face, sometimes the person is still very attractive, but just not what they imagined. another example: girl shaves her head, and her partner is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:55 AM |
| 8 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthmen get the ick. ever watch seinfeld? Man hands gave him the ick. a slightly deep voice might give someone the ick. being dumb often gives men the ick. too emotional, too slutty, how someone dress, seeing a girl's weird ex might give a man the ick. i would bet that even a girl showing her body on instagram would give a man the ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?still higher because everyone else is pairing up, so there are limited men and women who are still single. the older you are, the more desperate women become and broaden their options and lower what they seek in things like income. 30's game stop employee has more chances than 20's game stop employee. you have to remember, there are 30's female game stop employees. it also sucks if you're a gamer and you get into a relationship with a non gamer. if you ever work very low end jobs in retail, like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVsure. but there's tons of women under 5'5". and that's the people i saw approach him. He sometimes dated girls taller than him by 1 or 2 inches. i think height is very important. i just don't think it's this insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:33 AM |
| 10 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?agree that most women are initially at least somewhat attracted. however, there are still a lot that are NOT attracted. they are marrying because they dated for 3 years and they are wealthy and bring stability, but the women is 32. What if they break up? Does she have to date another guy for another 2 years, after taking a year to meet another new person? So now she's 35 years old. And then that guy might leave her. She can take a few more years. But by then the quality of guy that she can attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 11:15 AM |
| 1 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?read some of the comments at the bottom here: https://www.refinedprose.com/not-attracted-husband/ many women claim that they never found their husbands attractive at all. there is immense societal and family pressure to get married by a certain age. some women want to get married before 30 no matter what. it worries them if they don't accomplish that goal. some women have deals with friends to simply get married if they're both single by a certain age. it was a lot worse 20+ years ago. Many of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Who has higher SMV in Western countries?better looking guy, but as a straight guy, i would never call that dude a 10 | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/07/23 09:02 AM |
| 4 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVit's 100% true. he was also insecure about his height, yet still got approached. he was really, really good looking 9/10, with a stocky, compact build. the girls who approached him though were usually like 5'0" to 5'2". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVsaw my good looking 5'5" friend get approached a lot, while 6'+ guys in my group never got approached. it's definitely an important factor, but it's a bit overrated here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 11:25 PM |
| 1 | women dont actually think youre uglyyet there are videos of customers getting angry after a girl working at a store laughs at them because they are short. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/07/23 05:39 PM |
| 2 | why do white american men skip latam and especially mexico to go across the globe to date filipino and thai women who are very aesthetically similar except harder to import + can't speak a european language?this. but for mexico specifically, mexico does already have a lot of white people, citizens and tourists at places like cancun. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/07/23 05:33 PM |
| 2 | If you struggle with dating, you are BELOW averageaverage is the toughest spot to be in. most people are average and there's the most options here. if you're below average, someone knows a below average girl and tries to pair you up. There's no choice to make. there's literally movie scenes about this. "I have a shy cousin who also loves Star Wars." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Ranking groups who have it best in dating in the USnot if they're overweight though. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/07/23 01:33 AM |
| 1 | As male my experience is that nobody cares if I suddenly vanished from existence.some celebs have talked about this: that they have no true friends and have extreme loneliness, and that nobody would truly care if they died. that's where we ALL are. even some people with a spouse and children, they don't believe anyone would really care if they vanished. we attempt to make a connection and sometimes we fail, and that's ok. they are rare for everyone, including celebrities. maybe even harder for celebrities. we keep trying and find meaning in the struggle. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/07/23 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Toward A Definition of Blue Pill.bluepill i don't think says anything about women being better in general. for example, sluts are bad in bluepill land. however, in blackpill, sluts who enjoy casual sex is defensible. a person may not like slutty people, but that doesn't matter. in blackpill, both men and women want high quality partners, and it is rational to attempt to get the best possible. blackpill acknowledges these goals that women have. you can argue that slut-shaming is a bluepill tactic, used to spread bluepill ideas a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/07/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Toward A Definition of Blue Pill.that just means that they gave blue pill the name. society's narrative always existed though. for example, the idea of soulmates existed, true love, etc. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/07/23 06:04 PM |
| 6 | CMV Many People in Dating Strategy subreddits (doesnt matter what pill, pua or whatever) have no reallife experience and therefore claim dumb delusional things, which makes finding the truth harder.it's hard to tell who's good looking: a 6'4" model or a 6'0" above average sales guy. Nobody has any clue which guy is actually better looking, even if you're saying it's one guy. we can't trust your assessment, nobody can trust any assessment without pictures. even WITH pictures, it's hard, because of angle/lighting/makeup fraud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 10:26 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit fuckin sucks when they only want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:55 AM |
| 0 | Do you think a mans politics can keep him from getting laid?statistically, if you voted for trump, i mean, you could make the case there's a good chance you hold some bigoted views, or you're ok if someone you're voting for is associated with bigots. though, imho, most people really are bigots and a lot of that is subconscious bias. Or they're just not that bright. it's not the worst generalization to make. there's some accuracy there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 06:29 AM |
| -2 | Imagine being an average femalei'm not trolling. you can get STD's from having sex with your wife of 10 years. one of the main lessons of the literature with that theme is that your reputation means nothing. it's artificial and silly. especially when you care about what other people think of falling in love with a hooker. the whole point is to stop giving a damn about the woman in town who gossips and cares a lot about whether you used the correct spoon to eat your soup. the lesson is that a lot of life is like that: "OH NO!!… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/07/23 03:38 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwomen call other women sluts because women inherently understand the power that an average woman has over even above average men. such as arnold schwarzenegger, if you need an example. or the power that younger women have over older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 03:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit is attractive to me if the woman decides she enjoys casual sex with the hottest guys. it's very straightforward, it is independent, it's an attitude that says "fuck society." it suggests a person that can think for themselves, and puts that person as having a superior mind and philosophy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:56 AM |
| -1 | Imagine being an average femalethere's nothing wrong with falling in love with a whore. some of the greatest literature in the world is about exactly that. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/07/23 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Theory: Most guys (and girls too) that are struggling, are just not in the correct circles that match their personality.there are definitely many exceptions. one niche with good female to male ratio is grad school in the humanities. arts and craft classes at your local art school. one of these drawing classes i took, it was like 90% female. another weird niche might be renaissance fair type of shit. book clubs might have good ratios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Theory: Most guys (and girls too) that are struggling, are just not in the correct circles that match their personality.any hobby can be a niche. in the comic con niche, you see below average dudes with above average girls. the ratio sucks but it still benefits a lot of those guys overall. they had worse outcomes outside of that niche. the math that benefits you could go something like: You have 0.1% chance with each 100 female coworkers in an office that is 50% male and 50% female. in your anime social group, there are only 3 girls, but you have a 15% chance with each of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:36 AM |
| 5 | There's a lot of stay at home wife/mom relationships, they just occur under the disguise of the woman having a fun job like a yoga/fitness instructor or running a shop.the rich lazy women are employing the young people for minimum wage. However, i don't think they are lazy. If that woman is starting a smoothie shop, there's a good chance that's gonna be a damn good smoothie, either taste or the quality/healthiness of the ingredients, whichever the person is interested in. you see, every little shop like that in your town is started by someone with some minimum investment/seed money. the independent coffee shop in my hometown was started by a woman like that. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Has online dating been a net positive or a net negative for woman?then what's arnold? It's real life shit that happens. and people talk about in on many subreddits and people have personal stories about it from their own life, themselves, their friends, family, school, etc. i'm not saying anything is super common, by the way, it's just not that rare. And, no, a random, average 5/10 man, without status or wealth, can't regularly get sex with 8+/10 women in their day to day life, by going to the mall and eyefucking a bunch of hot women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Has online dating been a net positive or a net negative for woman?we already saw an example in west elm caleb. another example is arnold schwarzenegger. so not only can an average woman fuck an above average man, a below average woman can possibly fuck an above average man who is already married. there's lots of things that could be going on, you can be below average and have a pretty hot body. you can makeup fraud and really look different. you can meet a guy that is simply obsessed with sex. however, i would agree that it isn't a "24 hour" thing like many pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:49 AM |
| 8 | A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sexgo only for coffee. even if you pay for the coffee, that person will spend time and gas to get to that place. it won't be worth it just for free coffee for most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 05:17 AM |
| 8 | A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sexeven for poor people, it would only be life changing if it somehow set off a chain reaction that led to eviction or something. or job loss because you couldn't fix your car. barring any strange chain reaction, which you couldn't find a friend to loan you that $65, it wouldn't be even close to life changing. it would just suck a little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 05:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyou should force yourself to get to know the person and see if things develop, in one or two coffee dates. you can always get a number, and then ghost, or go on a date and then say you're not interested. if you can't do that, your dating pool might be very limited. what you want is to optimize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 02:46 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadin the jobs forums, people complain they did 100 job applications and got zero calls. one common response to that is "rookie numbers." send out 500 more applications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 02:35 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadif that and a few other things happened, i would think people that can buy citizenship in other countries like portugal will move out. if i were russia, a realistic thing would be to try to corrupt the supreme court. this is the best chance, compared to corrupt senators who might lose an election. the absolute worst thing would be the end of the world. 95% of us would die in those civil wars, and a dude taking his last breath would literally say "Bro, we could've been playing xbox right now." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Why is this website so bluepilled?it's a niche. tons of women are obsessed with that shit. go to youtube and their channel is devoted to shit like manga. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/07/23 03:32 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmen who say that, it is anecdotal, from their personal experience: once guys hit a certain age, they get way more interest indicators from young women. but obviously, this doesn't apply to even most guys, it just applies to enough that it is considered a real phenomenon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | What Women Don't Tell You About their Sex Lives.median 3.7%. much higher in countries with less access to good healthcare options. (wikipedia article on paternity fraud) so that's in a world with vasectomies, abortions, morning after pill, condoms, birth control... even a very low estimate for some countries 1% isn't "pretty rare." if 1% were affected by a genetic disease, scientists wouldn't call that rare. it should be obvious that plain cheating percentage that doesn't result in pregnancy is much higher than paternity fraud. in countries i… | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/07/23 03:53 AM |
| 1 | What Women Don't Tell You About their Sex Lives.dna testing and stuff like that, which is quantifiable, can give you a lowest possible estimate. (the number is higher due to birth control and condoms and vasectomies, etc) you have tons of anecdotal evidence on forums: people talking about their slutty neighbors or roommates or sisters, etc. there are obviously tons of women and men who are blue pilled and risk averse. are there also tons of blackpilled men and women out there. yeah. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/07/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeunderrated comment. if a woman continues to have casual sex but doesn't orgasm as much. Then why? gotta consider evolution. what's more important for a woman having casual sex: The high quality man having an orgasm or herself having an orgasm. we need to conclude that sex without orgasm is still fucking awesome. some men disagree: they think sex is worthless if they fuck the hottest woman and have to jerk off later. (they literally say this in the forums.) As a guy, maybe i'm abnormal, but this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeall of these issues exist for men. not at the same level. but even a man can be at physical danger by having sex with someone they don't know. how? that woman may be married, or that woman may have a pimp, or that woman may be a crazy person. yeah, men do get killed in these situations. stigma: remember west elm caleb? would you date a guy that had that kind of notoriety? girls ghost guys all the damn time. what would his fiancee do if she found out about him the day before the wedding? mediocre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 12:21 AM |
| 14 | When was the last time you saw a strange man approaching a random woman in the streets, or public places?women know exactly what men do, because the women use the same exact strategies. women follow men around in stores. they put themselves closer to the man in hope of him "noticing" her. These strategies are very real and discussed in dating subreddits. women are next level in this type of neurotic, stalker level shit. the craziest stories are absolutely insane, with women trying to meet a guy's dad and then trying to get the dad to set up a blind date between her and his son by faking her interes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:16 PM |
| 15 | When was the last time you saw a strange man approaching a random woman in the streets, or public places?There's a joke that I've seen a lot on youtube comedies: A guy approaches a girl because of a real reason, like she dropped her phone and he's returning it. The girl instantly says "I have a boyfriend." That is a joke because it's so real and most guys have had it happen to them. Every single time a girl said "I have a boyfriend," she feels like that was an approach. I've "approached" 0 strangers on the street in a city, yet I've had multiple women, including one that I wasn't speaking to, tell … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:07 PM |
| 6 | When was the last time you saw a strange man approaching a random woman in the streets, or public places?they're not lying, but they may not be interpreting things correctly. one girl i worked with said a man approached her, but i witnessed it. the dude was making small talk. the same dude talked to me (i'm a guy) about sports and shit every time i saw him. i see guys talking to girls, and then if they get a good conversation going, the guy is like "I have a business opportunity for you..." It's literally a scam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Beta bucks doesn't exist, women aren't settling and choosing single life with casual datingok. i thought it was about replicating the experience in another city with good quality life. i think in that case, say you're making 60k, single, eventually get your own house in a smaller suburb. or just accept the cheaper rent in a small town. i think more and more people really do choose that. i choose that. though i'm a guy. i have met women who were like that among people who lived in the buildings i've lived at. there's way less pressure to get married and have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:09 AM |
| 4 | Beta bucks doesn't exist, women aren't settling and choosing single life with casual dating170k in la is like 100k in a small midwestern city. compared to santa monica maybe even less. $170k in santa monica might be similar to like 85k in some small city in iowa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:57 AM |
| 5 | Should women consider that men on APD will accuse them of misandry when they walk alone at night? (scenarios)as a man, i've been with a group of guys from a basketball team and we all nope out of a dark street in nyc where one 4'11" homeless guy was muttering to himself. in an unsafe city, the average man gets the same nervousness when walking alone even in the day time depending on which city and neighborhood. this isn't exclusive to women. and though much rarer, a woman can mug you and pistol whip you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/07/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | W*men rate 80% of men as below average, but lose their minds when given accurate ratings of their own faceswomen are hotter than men, and men are hypersexualized. yet tons of women wear makeup and most don't do it (like said here before) for themselves and their own confidence when they catch their reflection in a window out in public. women wear makeup mostly to attract hypersexualized people. it goes so far as to women choosing to wear tight shorts with words written on the butt. so who exactly is hypersexualized? i think this is debatable. who is hotter? pick 10 celebrities and google them without… | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/07/23 11:13 PM |
| 1 | W*men rate 80% of men as below average, but lose their minds when given accurate ratings of their own facesit is NOT about attractiveness in general. attractiveness in general includes harmony and body, and things like that. that sub is about facial proportions and facial flaws and things like symmetry. if you look at lower rated actors who are considered attractive, then they have things such as charm and their voice, or harmony in their face, etc. that makes them more attractive. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/07/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | W*men rate 80% of men as below average, but lose their minds when given accurate ratings of their own facesmany men don't gravitate toward miss world. that's why you can look at the winners and have never heard of most of them. and if you look at their careers, people in industry don't favor them so that all have amazing modelling and endorsement careers. some of them basically have nothing after winning miss world. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/07/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | I see the blackpill as 50/50, i believe its the best pill but i believe its still flawed, and i wanna address the issues that i see. I am open for debate and curious what u think.working at walmart, good looking, minimum wage guys had excess women all over them. not just the 20 year olds, but even at 30+, so like a lifelong walmart employee that hasn't reached any supervisory role. a good looking guy who is a cashier can easily date a coworker who is a cashier. and in my experience, average minimum wage guys are dating average coworkers too. remember, the poorest people are reproducing the most. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/07/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.yeah, khakis is too little description. going with what you added, i can agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I see the blackpill as 50/50, i believe its the best pill but i believe its still flawed, and i wanna address the issues that i see. I am open for debate and curious what u think.I absolutely believe if you're a 5'1 ugly, overweight balding dude that its over, no matter how much money status or social skills you have. even stephen hawking can get women. so, you are wrong about what status can get you. it can get you way more than you think. the guy that played mini me had multiple long relationships. all the pills have some truth to them. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/07/23 12:16 AM |
| 5 | I really don't see any incentive for man to contribute to society that doesn't care.tech and robots are more worrisome. these will theoretically take most jobs. eventually you need UBI and most economists agree. We don't know when that can happen, it may be 100 years from now, but it could possibly be within 30 years. people will always want money. that's the best incentive to work. you need a new VR rig in the future? You gotta get money. It's a great incentive. Who cares if you're single. I personally choose to be single and still want money. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/07/23 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.music people who stylemax is related to red pill in a way. khakis are a niche: not that many people fall into this category, and this is probably what they want. they want to be in this normal middle manager niche. most people doing the normal middle manager in khakis that i have met are very happy with what they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys don’t actually find women attractive. They like cosmetics.https://www.reddit.com/r/Hungergames/comments/wrgf1s/i_hate_how_peeta_was_portrayed_in_the_first_movie/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys don’t actually find women attractive. They like cosmetics.the hunger games guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything.Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything. No pill community at large has EVER seriously expressed that. blue pill did. it's how society has worked for many thousands of years. many societies had arranged marriages, which is often exactly asking people to be with people they aren't attracted to. divorce used to be scandalous. that was society pressuring women to stay in those marriages. society, for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 01:16 AM |
| 10 | Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything.actually, Bluepill has been saying for thousands of years to be with men they are not attracted to: https://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/close-your-eyes-and-think-of-england.html bluepill has been beating into people's heads that personality and intelligence and loyalty are more important. to stay loyal to your spouse when you lose attraction. etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Since so many men here believe that it is “easy mode” and would love to be in the male version of the playboy mansion, then we can reasonably deduce that their hatred of wealthy OF creators and women with a high n count and playboy bunnies is just jealousy.i talk to some, google some, live next to one, and work from home myself. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/06/23 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Since so many men here believe that it is “easy mode” and would love to be in the male version of the playboy mansion, then we can reasonably deduce that their hatred of wealthy OF creators and women with a high n count and playboy bunnies is just jealousy.people in my nice apartment literally graduated from high school and start making money online full time. they are doing cam girl type of work, or influencers, or OF. some never leave the apartment so it has to be full time. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/06/23 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Why are people still using the word “incel,” don’t they realize the internet is laughing at them? Also why do the people using it always look like this?it's now just a mainstream word, like the word "person" or "girl" or "kid" or "accountant." | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/06/23 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.i mean, rape isn't as uncommon as you would think at a bar. https://www.vice.com/en/article/pg773n/reports-of-rape-are-surging-at-bars-and-clubs-how-do-we-respond i mean, i still agree with you that these are low numbers. but murder isn't the only thing, you gotta think about even just minor assaults too, or some dipshit doing something stupid like following you for a while, and you get home and it goes unreported, but still makes you feel uneasy. a lot of rapes are unreported too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | The idea that these countless men who are struggling to get their equivalent are somehow ALL overrating their own appearance is just disingenuous. There are some men who do, sure but as a whole the disproportionate number of attractive men who have voiced this same complaint cannot be ignored.some are. which is ok. many have female audiences, many are about fashion, etc. i don't mean to say the average influencer is below average. i mean to say that among thousands of influencers, many of them, maybe even a hundred, will be below average facially. they may also have nice bodies. they may be doing a lot of lighting and make up fraud. the reality though, is that many women can get attention from people even if they're not that attractive facially. again, i'm not saying there's anything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:44 AM |
| 2 | The idea that these countless men who are struggling to get their equivalent are somehow ALL overrating their own appearance is just disingenuous. There are some men who do, sure but as a whole the disproportionate number of attractive men who have voiced this same complaint cannot be ignored.they ARE models. if you're making money, sponsors, endorsing, or people pay for content, then you're a model. many below average facially girls are models online in today's world. but why not? if you can make a living doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.somewhat agree with you on the murder stats. but every single year, in a small city, that could be you. 1 in 100k every year. the odds aren't so low that you don't carry mace. most minor assaults don't go reported. in certain colleges, even straight up rape does not get counted in the stats, because it hurts the college reputation. it's like there's only a few murders in a homeless encampment in portland, but it's not safe enough for most people to cut through them during a walk somewhere. traff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.almost nobody can really drive. humans aren't capable of paying attention 100% of the time even when they're tired or stressed out. nearly 75 out of 75 people will drive through smoke+fog and get into a 75-car pile up. even when people are on the side of the road waving their arms. That is a near 100% bad driver rate in a random sample. Motor vehicle crashes are the leading cause of death for U.S. teens. so, relatively, driving or being a passenger in a car is just straight up dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Dating and casual sex is completely dead and never coming backhttps://www.voanews.com/a/usa_all-about-america_women-outnumber-and-outvote-men-they-dont-vote-alike/6205437.html "55% of white women voted for Trump" It's in the 2nd paragraph. and people do argue with exit poll numbers. but, again, the fact is tons of women voted for trump. a huge, very significant number. i said that awkwardly. i mean that minority women prefer white men over other ethnic groups. white is more status. minority women do vote democrat more than republican, and most white men vo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/06/23 11:51 PM |
| 0 | Dating and casual sex is completely dead and never coming backnot white women: https://www.nytimes.com/2016/12/01/us/politics/white-women-helped-elect-donald-trump.html and minority men also mostly didn't vote for Trump. so if you want to be confident that someone isn't voting for Trump, you should date black men. However, most minority women of all ethnicities prefer dating white men. and you can argue with the exact numbers (people do) but you can't argue that tons of women do vote republican or trump. that's even when trump lost a lot of women voters. h… | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/06/23 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Dating and casual sex is completely dead and never coming backthe anti abortion guys get the most dates... because they live in conservative states and many women there are also anti abortion, don't believe in climate change, pro guns, believe prayer is more effective than vaccination, etc. if you DON'T believe in that, they think it's really, really weird. many women genuinely, deep down in their hearts, believe hurricanes are punishment by god for allowing gay marriage. you're absolutely right, most guys are douchebags. But it has been said here over and… | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/06/23 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Another brutal heightpill experiment where they lined up men next to each other and women choose (starts at 5:14)we always need to remember: height matters to men also. there are videos with 6'3" women. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/06/23 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Reviving A Classicwe actually have no idea. i've met many women who had like 1 or 2 good photos like this in online dating. then, in real life, they can be very different looking, going down even 4+ points for the worst frauds. but even if you assume she is above average, i know many girls like that who hit 40, and are still single. it isn't all that easy for good looking people to marry a successful software engineer. even from just the man's perspective, they really need to ask: Is this person trustworthy? Do t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Jan 6th Hearing Mega-ThreadTrump supporters are saying that Trump already won. He doesn't need to run again. He just gets reinstated. Trump has huge balls and he won't run again. He will just automatically become president for his second term. Imagine running again and bowing down to the system that stole your victory in the previous election. It would be like saying "Hello electoral system, may I suck your dick?" People DIED and went to PRISON to support him when the election was stolen. If he runs again, it would be lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 05:33 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwhat do you mean no money? the entire point is to replace an army of customer service representatives. the better your system gets, the more people you replace and you can instantly scale up. instead of moving offices and expanding by 1,000 customer service employees, you rent another server by clicking a button on a website. Chat is a trillion dollar industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadever see the before and after fraud pics? they are exactly like this, but the pictures are taken on the same day after drinking 2 glasses of water in different lighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:34 PM |
| 12 | What's the consensus here about women approaching men?Psst... are you interested in watching a five hour presentation about timeshares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthen you're equal to the ugly guy with the good personality. personality is everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthe set blue pill really is that personality is what matters and things like kindness and sense of humor. Height, weight, and how physically attractive you are do not matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:22 AM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat a lot of you call “blue pill” is simply “the female perspective” blue pill is "Height is nothing. Personality is everything. Be 3 feet tall, unemployed, and have a great personality and you will obviously be drowning in beautiful women" and "facial attractiveness is nothing, sense of humor is much more important." These are not perspectives, these are illusions. That's why it is even called a "pill" because the matrix, the movie, is about illusions vs reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit depends on how you measure it. people here claim average women gets hundreds of matches in a few days, and some men claim they are average and get two or three dates after years on OLD. so if you just go by how many dates they can schedule, it can really be 1000x what an average man can schedule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadanyone can jump on you with a knife. even if you can fuck that person up after they stab you, it is still dangerous, and maybe they'll enjoy getting fucked up. for example, homeless guy on drugs. edit: this topic is related to women who claim men have the advantage of being able to go anywhere without worrying about safety. they don't. because any other man or women who is crazy can fuck you up. a smaller guy can just have a gun, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmom's a superintendent. sit around and make $250k per year. yeah, that's taxpayer money too. economy and inequality are fucked up. go to walmart, pick up her son some mountain dew and doritos. cashier that rings it up is making $10/hour, he has no kid. but he pays taxes, and some of that goes to the mom's salary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadall these high iq guys find long-term partners if they are a little sociable. 130 iq is rare enough that it is special even when you are poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut 5'6" is still a very normal height. some people claim Canelo is like 5'6". so it is still a height where you can bulk up and look intimidating. your chance of meeting someone actually is not that bad, because intelligence is so important to extremely intelligent women. probably the #1 trait that they are seeking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadtons of men out here who don't give a shit and just put on some yoga pants and go grocery shopping, and i can see their balls. no, that's a parallel universe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:42 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadserious suggestion: get some big ass boots, put a normal insole in them. walk around for a few weeks, and report back and let us know in a post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadjeff bezos can date supermodels any day that he wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 10:36 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadunfair labor practices are antithetical to my values. But I still eat McDonald's every once in a while, and I enjoy those burgers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe problem is that guys are disgusted by it. But if you find an equivalent, it would be like men who continue to watch porn after they are in a relationship. Some women are actually disgusted and even shocked by that. I would say those women have a problem. do the role reversal. What if all men who are 5's can put on a little makeup and easily find women who are 9's and 10's that are willing to sleep with them? it is sort of like asking what would someone do if they were hiking in the woods and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyes, i get that point. i wanted to just add that diversity quotas, they may not be used effectively everywhere, but there is a reason that is practical to them. sure, if you have 20 men, it may not be a statistical anomaly. but 20 white men is different. but we are all bigots in a sense and we all go by the "eye test" when we make a judgment and don't have all the information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadi don't know about your specific experience. i'm very open to your assessment being accurate. i'm only talking about why a smart person might think it a good idea to have a diverse team. so i'm only talking about affirmative action in the general sense. i agree that diversity does not automatically mean the team is better. But at 20 random hires, you are approaching statistically improbably event. That event is that if you interview random people, are the top 20 best candidates all white men? If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadpart of diversity is to check your own biases. if you have 20 out of 20 white male engineers, your hiring is sub-optimal. you're missing out on great candidates. like 99.9% of these 20-male, 0-female startups out there will never topple the giants. 90%+ will fail completely. The only conclusion you can really make is that these people focus hard on hiring and doing technical interviews, hiring only top 20 CS programs, etc... those teams just aren't as effective or optimal as they thought they we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthe problem with this is that many unsuccessful men eventually become successful without changing. The only thing that changed was the standards and desperation of the women around him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadi mean, that is a GREAT diss. and there will certainly be some adamantly pro-life politicians and pastors and priests that demand abortion when it applies to their relationships. The only problem with this diss is that most pro-life people don't really care what the politicians they support do or say. You have to follow Logic in order to understand how GREAT of a diss this really is. Logic isn't simple shit. Smarter folks take it for granted. This is an old story. King Solomon said "Cut the baby… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadtalk about future sci-fi sex doll technology and plenty of women get upset. it is kind of interesting, psychologically. these dudes are definitely on the radars of many women. that's why they are friend-zoned. they are their future husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadbut we haven't even talked about facial attractiveness. none of the 6/6/6 is guaranteeing that we're even talking about chads. if you add one more thing, like 8+ face, 99% of what you had after the 6/6/6 filter gets cut from the list. you really might be down to 1% of 1%. the brad pitt and george clooney social circle might not have a 6/6/6 guy in it. so, yes, social circles with several chads do exist. but social groups where 6/6/6 chads are the norm are probably extremely rare, and probably sm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadfor arguing that someone's standards are too high? i mean, half the time, the girl is complaining that she can't meet quality men. the stats are realistic. they should apply to anyone that ever stepped inside a bar in order to meet someone, or tried online dating, any situation where they meet random people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadagree. stats are often used for showing how ridiculous someone's standards are. like how people here often crunch the numbers on 6/6/6 and some other things, and often come up with less than 1% of guys. it also fits with the opinion of many people here that top 20% isn't impressive and 80/20 is really between 95/5 and 99/1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadno, it doesn't mean anything except that you are above average statistically. This is one of the most objective estimates available, weight and height statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 02:02 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmeh, you can't be explicit about it. you just have to spark it, so that you can claim that you didn't know what would be happening. i mean, his team isn't THAT dumb. you have to cover your tracks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 10:20 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadi don't know who you voted for, and you don't know who i voted for (i voted for trump). all i'm doing is giving you examples about how you can do whatever you can get away with. and even if you can't get away with it, you can still do it and face the consequences. trump did NOT get 100% of the redneck vote. lol. i don't assume you support him. for example, you can support bernie and be pro-gun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 09:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadask bush re: guantanamo bay. you can really do whatever the fuck you want if you have the power and nobody can stop you. same with trump, jan 6. if he's successful he can destroy america and freedom and everything that we stand for. if you can get away with it, and your morals allow it, you can pretty much do Whatever The Fuck You Want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit is like demanding "minimum D." in other words, if she has a bigger friend, it is always going to be on his mind. we're in fetish territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit truly is a miracle. they were living in a remote cabin at the time. the only people that came by were the delivery guys replacing the water heater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadsomething there does have something to do with raw intelligence. the mere selectivity of a person thinking "i think i'll go to business school." There definitely is a ton of filtering going on. Not just top colleges. but within companies. there is a lot of social networking too though. just think about a few people that have been CEO of these companies. that includes bill gates, bezos, these are technical people. they can get VERY technical: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lisa\_Su the insurance c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadtop colleges are already people who are in the top 99 percentile in terms of intelligence. then if you get a top MBA after that, you are elite in terms of intelligence. there is also some correlation between SAT scores and IQ. Look up the average scores at some top colleges. i would guess that group has average IQ 140. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadnot existing is the true heaven for a lot of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Is the height preference mostly societal?there is actually an interesting point here though. 5'9" is average for a reason. that's where evolution got us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhe died though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:57 PM |
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