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The problem with your thinking is that you are trying a tactic to trick women into believing you are popular with women. You need to have a lifestyle where you are hanging out with groups including women, extra points if you can be the leader of that group.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 01:54 AM
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That depends on what you want to do. Do you want another fling? Respond back with maybe a question about her to test the water? Otherwise just do one word responses.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:04 PM
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Most these trends are only really true for online dating but aren't true in meeting people in real life. Women are just not that into online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:37 AM
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Many women like to have close male friends and some just like the male attention. When you are friendzone it is almost certain that its going to stay that way. Women decide whether you are relationship material early on and almost never go from a hard no to a hard yes. Treat hanging out with her like hanging out with a potential male friend. Go do it if you enjoy it, I find its good for social practice.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:59 AM
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Some guys here like to pretend like they aren't jealous and they didn't even care about her in the first place. But that is of course a lie. If you keep having to tell her not to hit on other guys in front of you, then you either start a big fight with her and put her back into line or simply leave her.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:15 PM
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I don't lash out by insulting her in a passive aggressive way. It shows my insecurities. I just tell her I don't like what she is doing. If she doesn't comply, the date is over.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:12 PM
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How do you know its a BS reason? Maybe the OP is giving off some weird vibe which is why he is being excluded. Maybe this can be fixed.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 09:25 AM
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What you need is to be non-needy and have some self-esteem. When a man is insulted or wronged he calls out the people who did it. He doesn't just act passive-aggressive and bottles everything up.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 09:22 AM
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I'd tell her that what she did was very rude and completely uncalled for. Depending on how she responded, I probably wouldn't ask for a second date, or maybe even end the date right there. Have some self respect.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:18 AM
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Maybe they have a legitimate or seemingly legitimate reason for excluding the OP. Often communication can help resolve these issues. I'd bring up this problem because when someone upsets me I tell them about it. I don't hide it from them for fear of offending them. They get called out if they did something to deserve it.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:12 AM
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The plastic surgery that makes the most sense are skin removal. A lot of people lose weight and deal with excess skin. So getting rid of that makes a lot of sense. But if you do too much plastic surgery you start getting that uncanny valley look.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:04 AM
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Yeah, but there are long-term risks associated with plastic surgery and it is expensive. And I'm not sure how well those implants do when you age. But yeah, I guess it makes sense to some people. But most people just aren't into it.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:54 PM
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I could do some plastic surgery to get rid of the dark circles, I could do a back straightening thing, and I could curl my hair every morning. But doing that is just so body insecure and I just don't care enough.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:38 PM
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I don't have sex with women whose personalities I don't like. Its basically maturation with a person.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:07 PM
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If a woman broke up with you its very unlikely she is going to get back with you again. No matter what power move you try, its not going to work. Avoid her for a while and wait until you are over her. She isn't interested, move on.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:31 PM
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Actually avoiding communication is how you end up spending all day thinking about not getting invited. Resolving the issue is how you put the issue to rest. I would be a bit concerned if my friends didn't invite me and makes me wonder if I misjudged them or if there is something I can change. That is why I would want to look into this issue further. This is how a lot of women are. If a women gets excluded from a party with her friends, she is going to totally get upset and start texting her frie…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:28 PM
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The truth about game is that its very difficult to attract women with just your words. The best thing you can do for your game is to work on your looks, lifestyle, and social circle. When you approach women, get better at reading positive or negative IOIs and act accordingly. That is something many PUAs don't understand. Make sure you have the woman's consent and leave if she isn't interested.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:16 PM
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So the result of speaking up about it is a divide will form between you and your friends. But then you suggest pulling back from these friends. Isn't the result the same? At least my method is actually communicating and trying to resolve the problem. I would very gently and diplomatically bring up the issue and try to determine why I wasn't invited. Men are often really terrible at communication and a lack of communication results in passive aggressiveness and bitterness.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:04 PM
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Some guys have low self esteem that they don't stand up for themselves when they have been wronged. If a person who is supposed to be my friend invited all my friends instead of me, I'd definitely have a talk with him about it. I'd let him know that I'm not forcing him to invite me, I just want to know if he has a problem with me.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:53 PM
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So what are you doing wrong that resulted in you not being invited? Maybe you can ask someone. I'd actually explain to this friend who didn't invite you that it hurt you that he invited all your friends but excluded you. And then ask him why he did this. That was kind of a mean thing to do.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:48 PM
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The vast majority of guys aren't a girl's first choice. Only 14% of guys are even 6 feet or higher. 66% of guys are overweight or obese. You have major body image insecurities and you need to learn how to love yourself, flaws and all. I have dark circles around my eyes and this is genetic. I also have insanely straight hair that makes it very difficult to do any hairstyle with. I also have a slight naturally hunched posture. But thats just the way I'm made. Every guy has his imperfections.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:19 PM
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Only a tiny number of women believe that all men are rapists. I suggest you build rapport with these women and be their friend. Just don't argue with their political and social beliefs and instead play along.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 07:07 AM
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I suggest only converting if you really believe in the religion. Also ask her if she would be open to dating you after her mission.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:37 AM
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The average height in the US is 5'9''. You are only 1 inch shorter than average. You don't have a problem.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:27 AM
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The girls who actually go on missions are super religious. Your best shot is getting baptized and building a relationship with her. You can start dating her after her mission. Sex of course comes after marriage, where you will be expected to have a large family with her.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:17 AM
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Sometimes people who just got out of a relationship want to jump right into dating because they want to feel attractive and validated and escape singlehood. But the reality is they aren't ready yet. The best thing you can do is move on. She isn't going to work out.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:04 AM
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Its okay to care, but the problem is when that caring is excessive or is for the wrong reasons. Many guys fall hard for a woman partially because they literally have no other dating options, or nothing else going on in their lives. If they did, they wouldn't fall as hard and it would be more genuine attraction and seeing something truly special in her.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 10:56 PM
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Unless you have very physically attractive, I'm almost certain you are misinterpreting IOIs.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:20 AM
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Your problem is that you are pretending. But when you are an actual high value guy with a busy fulfilling life, many friends, and other women, you honestly don't have the time to give them your full attention.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:10 AM
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You can find them at z library or thepiratebay for absolutely free. The first is recommended since it doesn't involve torrenting.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:25 AM
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If there are multiple servers but she always happens to be the one serving you, that is an IOI. Extended eye contact is an IOI. Asking for your name is an IOI, initiating a conversation is an IOI. But an IOI is only an indicator of interest not proof of interest. Maybe she is just really friendly or this is how she gets tips. Try talking to her and build that attraction and see how she reacts.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 10:36 PM
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Most of the time women won't give you IOIs unless you are very physically attractive. She should be starting to give you IOIs in the conversation where you are trying to build attraction. If she doesn't, then you are dead in the water.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 10:24 PM
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If you do look like a model, you will still need great pics to show that. Then you should be flooded with matches and messages. And some girls will agree to fuck, but the vast majority won't. A better approach is to message them a couple days, ask for number, text a couple days, ask for meetup. Then make some excuse for her coming to your place. If she wants to fuck, she will say yes.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 06:08 AM
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Yes, if you look like a model, dating is really easy. But the vast majority of guys didn't win that genetic lottery. If you are like the rest of us, you need conversation skills. Social media is a lot more fun when you get more experience with it and get a social life. You can post pics with friends when you do stuff together. You can also send them stuff on span or insta. You can ask your little sister for advise too lol. Shes the real expert here.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:16 AM
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You don't really get your texting experience from online dating. Thats like level 100. Start by just texting friends, family, or people online. Get more into social media like insta and snap and get used to sharing your life with pictures. When you do that online dating will feel natural. Most teenagers are just using social media non-stop and text all the time. You can learn something from them.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:05 AM
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I suggest doing a lot of texting in general so you are just a natural texter. This really really helps. Otherwise you are literally a fish out of water.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:50 AM
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You got into a relationship with someone who wants to be monogamous. This is based on deeply held values she has that you are very unlikely to change. If you really really want something different, you will have to find someone else who shares your values. But if you wanted to persuade her, start with pushing that she will be with more guys and be okay with her seeing other guys at first. Then start dating other women as well. You will then have to manipulate her into breaking up with the guys s…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:19 AM
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95% of women will be opposed to even a two-sided open relationship. So good luck convincing them into an unfair one sided open relationship. If you crave more: Break up with her and hook up with people. Watch porn.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:04 AM
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Dude, just jerk off less. You don't have to stop completely.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 03:55 AM
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I don't find anything wrong with either. If you don't want to date unemployed people or fat chicks, then don't. Its okay to have your preferences. Its your relationship anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:00 AM
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Roosh is kinda wacky in my opinion. Todd is really practical and down to earth. He has the best pua content out there imo.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:49 AM
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I suggest watching Todd V Dating on YouTube if you want to understand good night game. His game is very low energy and chill but it works.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:42 AM
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Thats how pickup artists do it. When you are drunk you can't effectively run game.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:39 AM
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When I was younger I fell in love a lot and got my heart broken. I have become a lot more cynical. I understand that love and dating are just products of evolution and are a lot more shallow than people think. I hold myself back from feeling too much for other people, and instead just have fun and self amuse. You got hurt badly, but this experience is really helpful for you to stop caring so much about women rejecting you. Getting rejected is the name of the game for men.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:34 AM
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Go on another date, and then when the mood is really good, explain your situation honestly to her. Ask her what you can do about it. Make it her problem to solve.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:23 AM
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Here is what you can do: Honestly consider if her friend actually has a point. It can be hard to admit sometimes. Try to be the best bf that you can. Be very nice to her friend be polite about her. Voice to your gf how her friend's comments make you feel.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:09 AM
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didn’t want to talk about my private life with them and so I didn’t want to go out and find a girlfriend. So you deprived yourself of a girlfriend simply because you didn't want a conversation with your parents? Wow thats dedication. Once the trust went away, of course I wasn’t strong enough to hold back from disregarding her feelings and interrogating her. I don’t feel like I was in the wrong, but she blocked me and I kept contacting her for a bit until she said she was in contact with the poli…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:56 AM
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If alcohol is a problem for you, then if you can't handle going to alcohol venues, then just don't go. You can meet women in other places, even though it restricts your options. Pickup artists tend to do night game 100% sober.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:38 AM
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The best way to lose weight is to stop eating junk food and eat moderately sized meals with no snacking. If you are doing web dev, you will have no time for your dog walking business. I suggest you start chatting with people online to keep using your social muscle.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:37 AM
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If you can't approach properly without getting drunk, then you need to work on your game. Getting girls isn't worth becoming an alcoholic and ruining your body.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:33 AM
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The vast majority of guys aren't super jacked. Thats not your problem. Men vastly outnumber women online, so if your profile is average, your results will be zero. Try reading other guys profiles, and you might just lean you need to do more to stand out.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:30 AM
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I'm criminally bad at detecting sarcasm. Being 6 foot 3 is a huge advantage. However, being balding is a disadvantage that a lot of guys have. I suggest getting yourself the best hair/facial hair style you can to compensate. Also, it sucks to say this but white guys have an advantage too. Getting jacked will really help too, but you need good clothes and pics for that to really work for you.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:09 AM
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There is a lot a guy can do about his looks. You can get a conventionally unattractive guy but with the right style and workout regimen, he can look alright. Additionally, you can pay a photographer to help you with your pics to give you the best shot possible. Seriously, it is worth every dime if you start getting dates from it.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:56 AM
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If you are matching with fat girls, its because the website gave your profile a low attractiveness score. This is determined by the attention your profile is getting by women. This is due to: Having bad pics that don't do you any favors. Having a boring bio. Not being as attractive as you think you are.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:38 AM
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Figure out what conclusions she formed about you. Then prove them wrong. Or have an emotional talk about why you have them. Or take her on a really great date that blows her away and resets everything and lets her see a new side of you.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:21 AM
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Breaking up will almost always feel like shit to be honest. It sounds like you may have gotten into a relationship for validation or company or sex. But once the novelty wore off, you realized that actually you wanted to spend your time on something else. Maybe later on in your life you will want to devote more time to your relationship and will be ready.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:17 AM
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There are several reasons women deny sex. Studies of mice show that sex becomes less frequent and pleasurable the longer the mouse is with the same partner. But once it moves to a different partner things go right back to the beginning. Women tend to have a lower sex drive, and require emotional and romantic gestures. So if a guy stop trying in bed, stops being romantic with her, or stops trying to look good, he has only himself to blame for reduced sex. And some guys do deny cuddling just like …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 06:40 AM
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Female economic liberation is part of it. Also, its part to afford expenses with just one income, and women are now working as well, which results in fewer kids because they have no time. Also, kids have gotten really expensive. Just look at the cost of education. Millennials have gotten screwed over economically and many can't afford to start families. The biggest factor is birth control. Since they can choose not to have kids, many don't. More and more people are single and jumping between rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:33 AM
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You have to understand that men paying is still a norm for a lot of people. If you are dating women thats what you will have to do sometimes.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:04 AM
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