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Yes us women live to serve man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 09:49 PM
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Do you know the definition of erogenous?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:13 PM
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Being desired sexually. Men aren’t looking for romance. They are looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:08 PM
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You’re taking this too personally. Majority of men are not chasing love. They are chasing sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:06 PM
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Thats not loneliness that’s lack of sex. You just agreed close male friendship handles emotional loneliness. Your physical need for sex isn’t on women to fix. It’s on you to learn to regulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:27 AM
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Male loneliness sucks because they depend on women for all their emotional support. If they got male friends where they could seek emotional support they wouldn’t be lonely. The only problem this doesn’t solve is men’s lack of sex. Unless they’d like to also have sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:06 AM
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Are you attracted to men? If not, then women do not owe you any explanation or “cheat code”. You seem to think women being attracted to men is your guarantee. Decency, no matter how much you fake it doesn’t guarantee attraction, but it’s step 1. Her preference is what guarantees you a a date. Gotta do step one before you can get to step 2. Attraction= something not chosen Preference= changes as a person grows.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:30 PM
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Man: I’d really like a girlfriend Woman: ok just be a decent human being and brush your teeth. Man: this is why men don’t listen to women. You demand men be 6ft tall with at least 6inches and 6 figures. Woman: that’s not what I said Man: typical women are so hard to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:14 PM
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No being a decent human being is your first hurdle. Treating women as people and not objects. Also probably hygiene is something you need to work on too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:44 PM
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Exactly…..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:01 PM
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Can’t wait for them to be studied over the next 20 years. Then we’ll finally know what went wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:58 PM
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Bet they were dudes in another country trying to scam him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:57 PM
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Why do men think they’ll unlock some code to dating/sex if they could just figure out attraction. How many of those girls he matched with did he end up having a long term relationship with? How many did he actually chat with? Meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:51 PM
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Reliable/accountable= good person most of the time Ghosts, makes a woman a single mother= bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:38 PM
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Using single mother’s stat is not showing how easy women have it. It shows how easy it is for men to leave. In fact every example you used is men being unreliable. Maybe men aren’t getting sex is because they are unreliable. That’s the true failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:33 PM
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Yeah women are so lazy for menstruating, carrying pregnancy risk, and doing more emotional and domestic labor. What lazy bitches!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:24 PM
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Sure you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:49 PM
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Do you like how women preach “only date wealthy 6 ft men”?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:43 PM
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This has always been the expectation in movies, books, tv shows. When you see women criticizing other men it triggers you because you are worried about not being good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:54 PM
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You can have any preference you want. But you don’t get to go around preaching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:52 PM
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A lot of women do not report because they don’t understand coercion is rape also. Or they are afraid no one will believe them. Or they will be called a slut. And it’s a traumatic for them to sit and tell their story and be re-traumatized. And I can almost guarantee if you know a woman she’s been raped at least once in her life and never told anymore. They should report it but still all these obstacles in their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:46 PM
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If women are rapist abusers men should report it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:34 AM
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This is the same as “the divorce came out of no where”. People usually try to communicate with a person before the break up happens. They just neglect the person, use selective listening then say the other person was toxic when they break up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:39 PM
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Look up her criminal history on casenet
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:56 AM
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Thanks for entertaining me today.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:05 PM
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What are you gonna do if in 20 years times change and we start demonizing creepy predatory old men much more than we do now? Then you are 40 and all alone with your cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:48 PM
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Your options are “be normal now” or “be a creepy old man later”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:30 PM
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Do they not offer sex education in school anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:23 PM
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Yes stay celibate until you are 40 then get back to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:14 PM
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wtf are you talking about. Your men’s group actively hates women. Women’s groups teach women how to avoid documented violence from men. If you were decentering women like your group says then you wouldn’t be taking this so personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:28 PM
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4B is a reaction to documented violence. MGTOW is a reaction to getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:07 PM
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You got triggered….. Real decentering looks like silence. A guy living his life. What you’re describing is a movement that talks about women with hate nonstop. That’s called obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:05 PM
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Women going outside isn’t invading male spaces. Get a life dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:41 PM
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You still have to coexist with women, you just don’t have to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:57 PM
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Get a dictionary… >If the guy wants to either violate you, hurt you, or show aggression or anger towards you for being rejected, then he is acting entitled. This is called assault and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:05 PM
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The alternative is do not get married…. Opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:28 PM
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Hope you have learned your lesson to not post things you can’t defend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:37 AM
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Oooh so your NEW argument is everyone lies but you personally get to decide which gender is worse. So everyone should just believe you, a random dude on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:22 AM
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Sounds like your post needs a rewrite then. It’s not a “women lie” it’s “everyone lies”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:03 AM
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Men constantly complain about being used for money they don’t have or whine about how women don’t want to sleep with them because of hypergamy. But they keep posting on “how to get dates” instead of “how to give up on women”. Guess they don’t actually believe the crap you all post either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:44 AM
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If you can get a lot of “warm leads” in men’s attention you will automatically get a lot of money from them. Men not being scared of you is a huge advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:56 PM
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Plenty of decent men use social circles to meet people without describing it as resource extraction. And they don’t feel the need to post it on Reddit to strategize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:44 PM
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Oh then you don’t get my sarcasm…. Let’s try again. Men would rather develop dumbass strategies instead of just being a decent human.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:10 PM
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Warm leads….. Don’t call it dating call it what you are looking for, extraction of a resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:02 PM
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This only works if you mean “trad wife” as “no financial or mental autonomy”. Lots of actual stay at home mothers parent with their partner and a lot of stay at home mothers are the ones in control of the budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:16 PM
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A lot of men don’t bother to brush their teeth, you think they’ll do all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:28 AM
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Gee wonder why so many men are single….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:31 PM
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What? I can’t understand this garble?? You aren’t supposed to use a thesaurus on every word. I’d rather be dry than dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:11 AM
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> She ended up falling in love with him and having sex with him Because the goal is sex right? You aren’t telling the whole story. Did he just keep bothering her? Stalk her? Annoy her so much that she just relented?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:05 AM
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At least a woman can use words correctly. You really should be refunded from your language and linguistics school. They really failed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:58 PM
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No one is arguing that married women aren’t happy. We are arguing that single childless women are happy too. Also the Dolan guy never retracted his claim. He only stated he misread the data. He assumed the spouse absent meant that the spouse briefly left them room. But it actually meant the spouse was no longer living in the household. And Dolan actually stated he still agrees men benefit more from marriage than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:07 PM
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But they don’t turn to them for emotional and social support.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:16 PM
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“Manifestly clear” and “indisputably proffers”. And the kicker is at the end he put “edited grammar” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:13 PM
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The difference is women turn to their friends or family for emotional and social support. Men turn to their romantic partner. And as we can see here over and over men can’t find a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:06 PM
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And???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:54 PM
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The CHOOSE to remain single. They CHOOSE to do it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:53 PM
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Who said single and childless equals lonely? Most single and childless women are happy and thriving. It’s only assumed lonely by men because that’s how men feel without a wife or children. After all there’s no female loneliness epidemic. Secure a relationship? It’s not a car loan. Once again a man is framing a relationship as a resource. This isn’t gonna go well for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:47 PM
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You study language and linguistics but can’t string together a sentence without sounding like a thesaurus had a seizure? You also want a mommy that’s you can haggle over like a used car?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:27 PM
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I’ve seen more examples of men using women for money than women using men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:25 AM
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I don’t believe it’s AI this is how I’d write a paper in college. (20 years ago)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:23 AM
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Congrats! You fit in the Objectification category
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:14 AM
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Idk I’m not an expert in AI but he just sounds very educated. I only know of the dash tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:09 AM
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I agree with everything you said. But I’ll add on sometimes even in the same “league” men still treat women like objects. Sometimes he’s only love bombing in the beginning to get what he wants. Then as soon as he has it. He flips the switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:07 AM
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Why do you think it’s AI slop?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:05 AM
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It’s literally in the same internet that you have access to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:34 PM
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Abusive men don’t abuse just one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:11 PM
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So… sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:36 PM
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They were pursuing sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:18 PM
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That is your experience of being rejected. If you keep being disappointed in something are you going to sit with it and figure out what’s happening to you or blame an entire group of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:18 PM
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Now you see how absurd it is 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:13 PM
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Yes I mean it wasn’t common. Not that it never happened. Peasants absolutely married for status or land. That’s what a dowery was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:13 PM
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I wasn’t ever denying some people did marry for love. It was normal to marry for status and wealth. He claimed women only choose men for status. I said funny because that’s what men used to do to women. Now he is saying only upper class people did that. I said no everyone did that. Marrying for love is a new ideal considering how old the world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:10 PM
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“All the liberal women reject me” almost like the common dominator is you….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:01 PM
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Awe sweet pea. Jim Crow was a law enforced only on black people not on the individual. Being rejected in dating is because of you and you only. You are acting like you are the black people and all the women is Jim Crow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:57 PM
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Good job copying and pasting! But did you read it and comprehend it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:42 PM
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Google what sexist means.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:29 PM
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Women care about their STI history. Choosing to not date a bisexual man is a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:13 PM
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Did a woman reject you for someone better again?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:04 PM
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Stop being a strawman. Just accept that it’s your personality is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:56 PM
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Men aren’t conditioned by society either then. Stop bitching about women “making” you pay for dates. Stop bitching about child support and spousal support. You chose to have sex and get married. Stop complaining that you’re ugly and short . You choose to be ugly and short.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:55 PM
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You have the internet, use google. A woman isn’t going to do the work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:50 PM
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If all women reject you, that’s a you problem not a woman problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:49 PM
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Like I said you need a history lesson and a dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:03 PM
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That is false. Marrying for love or attraction is new to the world. 18th/19th century. You need a history lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:35 PM
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Isn’t this what men have done for centuries? Married women for status, land, alliance? Maybe men are mad things have flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:27 PM
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You are describing your own failed dating history. Not women’s market theory
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:24 PM
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Maybe women are mean to you because of your attitude towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:15 PM
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If the medical statistic is fake then your lesbian statistic is fake. If a man believes he’s better off without his wife. Then a woman is better off without her husband or wife. Looks like I won this one!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:23 AM
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You are treating divorce as a negative outcome. That’s just an assumption you made not a fact. What the facts say is women have different factors they have to deal with than men. Gay or heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:33 PM
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Lesbians have higher divorce rates because it’s easier to leave. There’s no financial dependence and less religious reasons to stay. Plus lesbians tend to have more children than gay male couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:41 PM
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It’s not my fault you don’t know how to google or comprehend literature. You can find many peer reviewed studies on this exact subject. Equal wins don’t mean equal odds. You asked why don’t women run for congress. I answered why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:54 PM
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https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/abs/10.1017/s002238160708005x Not that hard to google.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:18 PM
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The women who do run face far more competition than men do. The system filters them out before they even get put on the ballot. Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:01 PM
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So first it was “conceptually the same” but now you aren’t talking about legal/violent punishment. Men can withhold whatever they want. Dates, gifts, sex, attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:44 PM
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Efficiency is value per dollar, not lowest price. You just described with the furniture example. You understand the word you just don’t want to admit you were wrong in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:38 PM
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Money can be efficient and be either cheaper or expensive. Example using a cleaning service because either you don’t want to clean or don’t have the time. Sure doing it yourself is cheaper but using a cleaning service is more efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:58 PM
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Social criticism is not the same as legal or violent punishment. People can judge my standards just like I can judge them. That’s an opinion, not oppression. A legal mandate removes my choice entirely. That’s oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:53 PM
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They said efficient not cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:28 PM
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I noticed you didn’t respond to the actual point. Thanks for dodging! By your logic all the men on here complaining they can’t find a date must secretly want to stay single. Great theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:13 PM
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We have the option to not date you when we do not like your standards. It’s oppression when a man forces us to do something we don’t want to do through power. Standard: I only date 50/50 women. Oppression: women must pay 50/50 or they go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:47 PM
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There’s this episode of sliders called “the weaker sex”. I think we should do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:39 PM
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He’s used sooo many words wrong in his replies throughout.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:24 PM
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I have think they use hate to make themselves feel better. Their insecurities are so deep they use podcasters as therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:04 PM
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Women: we are setting standards Men: that’s unrealistic!! Women: that’s fine for you to feel that way. we just won’t date you/have sexual relations with you Men: men NEED sex. It’s biology!!!! You don’t get to say no! Women: no thanks Men: insert constant whining and complaining that women want 6ft men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:34 PM
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Men absolutely have the option to not date. What part of that do you not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:23 PM
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I’d call that manipulation. Men tend to use “friendzone” as some assault. But if we take apart the word a friend does not manipulate or assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:54 AM
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No one says “I feel friendzoned”. You can’t translate “I got friendzoned” into a feeling. Like I said it’s a made up word used to shame other men. Stop blaming women for “friendzoning” you. Blame men for making you feel like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:18 AM
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I see your point grammatically. But how many people use it “she friendzoned me” is the real point. He is trying to change the meaning to make himself a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:06 AM
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Hmmm no verb in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:35 AM
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I read medical charts all day. Maybe I’m just more isolated. But it’s shocking they use these word and have no idea what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:32 AM
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verb=action. adjective =describing. I got friendzoned.= an action happened. I feel friendzoned= doesn’t really work grammatically now does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:25 AM
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Explain friendzone in your own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:12 AM
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You just strawmanned me while accusing me of strawmanning. I never denied men get sad. I said the word turns that sadness into a claim of injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:05 AM
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Second time you’ve misused non sequitur. Maybe you should look up big words before using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:03 AM
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I understood him perfect. But not your jargon of words strung together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:49 PM
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Nothing prevents it from being a word. It’s a made up word to state an injustice or feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:28 PM
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Situationship names what he does. Friendzone names what he wanted and didn’t get. Those aren’t the same kind of word. It’s still a made up word.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:32 PM
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Friendzone is a word men made up to shame other men for not getting a woman to have sex with you. Seriously why is women and sex your only goal in life??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:28 PM
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Don’t abandon your own argument now!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:51 PM
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Yeah that’s why there’s so many women in congress.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:27 PM
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Haha jinx!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:01 PM
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Hey thanks for agreeing!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:57 PM
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Women are not declaring all things male immoral. But there sure is a lot of immorality on this sub. Retirement age is set by policy. Not gender or life expectancy. Men did this. In 1935 congress was 95% men. Even if a woman voted to change the age it wouldn’t matter. So women have no value except we secretly control everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:52 PM
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I graciously accept your concession.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:21 PM
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At the expense of another human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:14 PM
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Women have their survival strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:14 PM
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That’s not what he said. He said I only get ‘to run my mouth’ because of market value, not moral value. That’s not a philosophy point, that’s just saying I don’t get to have opinions because I’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:08 PM
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So… you have no defense?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:02 PM
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You can do that with other men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:43 PM
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Did you even read what you wrote? Stringing together big words doesn’t make you look smarter. You have to use the words correctly. Nobody mentioned moral superiority that was you arguing with yourself. And you said women have no special value, then said we have ‘vast socio-sexual market value.’ (See the word value in the sentence)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:43 PM
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You are right I can’t understand why men chase something as stupid as casual sex if it’s not for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:31 PM
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That can definitely be it! Sex is validation. Having a woman is validation. A family is validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:02 PM
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It’s a man’s desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:01 PM
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Why do men want to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:44 PM
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It’s wild how men can redefine words to fit their agenda without so much as consulting a dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:33 PM
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Great circular argument! You’re still describing validation, not attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:18 PM
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You just said “for some women…and for others not so much”. Now you are saying all women benefit?? “Casual sex happens so it must benefit her” isn’t an argument. People do things against their own interests all the time. If they did it would mean no one has ever made a bad decision in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:39 PM
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You’ve basically conceded relationships and casual sex are both potentially desire-free for women. One for comfort, one for ego. Meanwhile you admitted men flat-out benefit from casual sex, no qualifiers, no ‘for some men.’ So by your own answer, men benefit more, and neither category proves a woman desires you specifically So what’s left to prove desire, by your own logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:51 PM
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But they have so many options!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:41 PM
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Who benefits more from casual sex? Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:40 PM
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Entitled that they get to choose the man they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:10 PM
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I used to be a military wife. The younger couples homes were atrocious! I remember this one couple you couldn’t see the floor. They had soda bottles everywhere. Literally mountains of trash piled up. And it was Camp Pendleton they didn’t have a/c in their housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:06 PM
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There’s a difference between clean and cluttered. There isn’t a person that would walk into a clean home and say “eh I prefer it messier” You are not too harsh! It’s a standard. A lot of women would look and say “oh goody he needs me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:04 PM
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Not arbitrary. Ask the mice and bugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:00 PM
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https://findanexpert.unimelb.edu.au/news/2851-men-do-see-the-mess-%E2%80%93-they-just-aren%27t-judged-for-it-the-way-women-are Wasn’t that hard to google
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:57 PM
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Awe sweetie you are confused. That’s called standards. Just because you don’t meet them doesn’t make you a creep. It makes you undesirable. But if you don’t leave her alone that makes you a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:49 AM
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Are you saying because men are hornier they get to make the decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:18 PM
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Absence of a specific finding in a general poll isn’t evidence against a claim. Cite something that actually measures what we’re discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:29 PM
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Every reply is contesting whether men deflect, not agreeing they shouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:49 PM
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If you’re actively dating and doing great, what’s your stake in defending men who don’t level up? Sounds like you’d agree the criticism is fair, you just did what OP describes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:46 PM
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We listened to criticism, raised our standards. Men said “your standards are to high”. So women said ok we just won’t date you”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:45 PM
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This whole thread is the receipt. You’re not out here self-improving, you’re here arguing why you shouldn’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:43 PM
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You’re not opted out, you’re just still here complaining. That’s the opposite of what you’re describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:40 PM
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Can you show me the quote please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:37 PM
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More women have opted out of dating. Why are you complaining you are single the ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:35 PM
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Remember when women kept complaining that they were abused and men said “date better”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:22 PM
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Maybe men should stop valuing pussy? Don’t they bring that into society?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:20 PM
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Individual accountability and structural analysis aren’t mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:06 PM
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Women took the criticism and leveled up. Men take it and argue it’s unfair. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:04 PM
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You have to understand what to words mean before you use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:45 AM
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Women do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:24 PM
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Ok wannabe fuck boy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:36 PM
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The most important line you said “no sweat off my back”. Why don’t more men just move on when the woman says “you don’t meet my standards”? Men say “we are in dating for sex”. Women said “no problem we just won’t date you”. Why don’t men do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:24 PM
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Maybe because he calls it “playtime”. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:54 PM
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Can you name some laws women have made about men’s bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:53 PM
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Comfy seat? Because pregnancy, menstruation and menopause is so comfy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:54 PM
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I’m not denying it. I’m saying you can’t say it’s facts. He could have said “I have noticed xyz why do you think it’s this way” not “this is not a debatable topic”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:55 PM
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That is a fair point. But that doesn’t mean women get less say in society. In fact women are raising the society shouldn’t they have more say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:53 PM
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Inherit value means they need to be controlled?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:51 PM
4

Exactly that’s why his post is an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:45 PM
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Research on jealousy in relationships shows men tend to express jealousy through anger/aggression, while women tend to express it through sadness https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10634140/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:36 PM
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Sooo no facts. Just opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:25 PM
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You can’t state a fact then have no evidence to back it up. Your opinion is not a fact. Your experience is not fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:24 PM
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So you’d like women to not have standards to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:20 PM
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Do you have a peer reviewed study to confirm that women get more leeway?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:15 PM
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>All the while average men get less say in anything around society, and they’re enslaved to their labor value. Isn’t that what done to women centuries ago and it’s still happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:03 PM
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Women keep calling you creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:37 PM
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That’s a 5 point scale not an “not attracted to” scientific study. And the fact that women still messaged the men undercuts your reading of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:21 PM
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95% of men don’t find women attractive. They are just looking for a hole. So why do they cling to heterosexuality? It’s 2026 they won’t be shamed for having sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:13 PM
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Well since there are men sexually assaulting schoolgirls in real life. But there aren’t billionaires vampires in real life….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:15 PM
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“Women have unrealistic standards!” Translation: “I can’t get a date. Must be because of all my own insecurities.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:12 PM
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Why do people care what other people do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:44 PM
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You just told me to assume from the start men are interested in sex, but the whole reason we’re here is because a guy showed emotional interest, and only revealed the sex condition once she’d already invested. If it’s ‘almost universally true,’ there’s no romance killing risk in just saying it. The only reason silence pays off is because some women would opt out if they knew upfront which is the deception working as intended, not evidence it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:53 PM
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Not paying for dates isn’t a hidden condition. A hidden condition would be if she acted uninterested in gifts or spending. Maybe she leads him to believe that she is a 50/50 woman. She hid her standards, got him to invest emotionally. Then revealed later continued spending is the price of continued affection or sex. A relationship is different because before you enter a relationship standards are typically set.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:50 PM
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“they don't because it is a complete romance killer.” Thank you for proving my point. Strategic withholding of information relevant to her decision is deceptive, whether you think it’s smart or not. ‘It’s naive to expect honesty because honesty doesn’t work in your favor’ isn’t a defense, it’s an admission.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:36 PM
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We are talking about dating. Not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:28 PM
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I never said precalculated or blackmail. I said deception. The dealbreaker is known to him but hidden from her until she’s emotionally invested. That’s the deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:26 PM
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You’re answering a different question. Don’t doge the actual debate. I never said men owe women affection or that women owe men sex. The issue is showing emotional interest first without disclosing it’s contingent on sex, then revealing the condition later and treating walking away as neutral disinterest. That’s not entitlement, that’s the deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:26 PM
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So she invited him over. The man says before he meets her “i want sex”. And the woman says “I don’t know if I want to have sex”. Did the man go over to her house? Did he say “well let me know what you decide”. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:26 PM
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That’s not what I said. I said men use love and attention as bait then withdraw it once sex doesn’t happen. Walking away isn’t the issue. It’s pretending your interest is conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:19 PM
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Men know women want to be loved. They dangle it. They are nice and charming, attentive. Get the woman invested. Then….. If you don’t have sex with me I won’t date you. If you don’t have sex with me I won’t be in a relationship with you. If you don’t have sex with me I’ll take away my charming personality, my attentiveness, etc. This is all coercion. Withholding something she wants until she complies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:58 PM
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When she said “I don’t know” what happened after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:46 PM
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“I never got caught”. So that makes you a generally good partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:35 PM
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What’s your goal here? Just say you hate women. That’s your opinion. You are allowed to have an opinion all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:26 PM
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Incel pages content is “this is how we manipulate/test/hate women”. It’s not real life it’s manifesting some alternate reality. Feminist pages are a cautionary tale to other women. They give real life examples of what has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:01 AM
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Sounds more like a self esteem problem. Maybe therapy would help?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:42 PM
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Re-read the Original post. I’m not doing free labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:51 PM
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one guy’s Thursday movie trip = peer-reviewed study
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:35 PM
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Omg me too! It must be straight facts then!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:35 PM
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We are talking about divorce/breakups. Stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:30 PM
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We are talking about unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:51 PM
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This study supports that women do more housework and childcare. Married mothers spend about 10 more hours/week on housework and 7 more hours/week on childcare than married fathers You can title a link whatever you want but it doesn’t change the info inside the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:30 PM
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There’s no evidence that women have lower emotional intelligence than men. There is, however, plenty of evidence women do more household and childcare labor than men which is the actual argument for child support and alimony tied to that labor, not some innate EQ gap. Also the is evidence showing that women bear physical and mortality of pregnancy and face higher risks of being murdered by her husband/partner because he could regulate his emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:26 PM
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Completely agree. But men will call it 50/50 while the woman still does the housework and childcare on top of contributing for half the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:59 AM
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For example, If you keep getting rejected, center yourself. See if there’s something you need to change. Or think to yourself “no I’m not changing that about myself” and move on. The concessions for a relationship, is very healthy inside a relationship. That’s centering your relationship. The “do anything for a woman” is what I’ve heard some men refer as “simps”. Im sorry your relationship didn’t work out. Sometimes a person just doesn’t want to change. And that’s ok as long as you are doing it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:12 PM
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I just did. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:04 PM
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It’s facts. A less woman centered post would have been a man taking a look at himself instead of blaming women. “Men we were lied to about media and romance. We need to discover the truth” “Men make sure your beliefs and values are aligned in marriage” I don’t have anything to say about the draft. I believe it should be equitable. “Men sleep around too”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:40 PM
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I understand you now. The cost of trying and failing is self disappointment. But saying “I want a relationship and I’m willing to do the work” is still decentering women. That’s aligning yourself to be who you want to be. “I’ll do anything a woman wants in order to get a relationship” is woman centered. You are aligning yourself with who another person wants you to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:36 PM
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<image> The original post was about women’s behavior. Stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:08 PM
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So your problem is you’re forced to do things in order to get things you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:01 PM
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You can’t frame self-improvement as something women ‘force’ on you and not expect resentment to build. Wanting to be attractive is normal, feeling forced into it is where the blame creeps back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:44 PM
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I’m saying advice that only makes sense because of predicted female behavior is still centered on managing women, not on the guy himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:32 PM
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That’s not what decentering is. Please see above!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:22 PM
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You definitely are!! Everyone is. No one deserves to be harassed!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:05 PM
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They may care about a person’s opinion. But not their opinion solely because of their gender. Decentering isn’t about trying to get them to like you. When a decentered woman dates she’s being herself. If the guy likes her great, if not then that’s ok too. I meant leveling up like what men say “get fit, make money, etc.” It’s ok to not want to be alone too. Decentering isn’t for everyone. But hate and blame isn’t going to help you get a woman either. I’m sure you can agree. But decentering isn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:04 PM
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Are women bothering you? Like stalking you? Even when you say “no thanks”? That’s horrible!! I’m really sorry you have to go through that!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:51 PM
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I said remove women from his statements not from life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:46 PM
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Decentering doesn’t mean ‘stop being someone worth dating,’ it means stop organizing your identity around her opinion of you. Don’t “level up” for a woman. “Level up” for yourself. Also means if I end up alone, I’ll be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:32 PM
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Well not every woman has decentered men. And it doesn’t mean “stop interacting” it means to not to make decisions based on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:25 PM
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What did you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:16 PM
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I think many confuse decentering as avoiding. Many women that Decenter men still date men. The difference is they don’t put their life on hold or change their life for a mans approval. They make choices about what’s best for them not managing a man’s reaction. ETA: decentering can come from being burned to many times. But the difference is about choosing to not be filled with anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:10 PM
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My comment was that he’s still blaming women. Decentering wouldn’t need to mention women at all. Blaming, avoiding, worrying, and decentering all mean different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:51 PM
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Nothing. You do you 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:37 PM
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That would be a good opinion title for you. It would make sense with all the points you had listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:30 PM
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Would the advice still stand if he removed every reference to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:28 PM
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So you agree? Your title should be ‘avoid women, not appease them.’ You’re saying to avoid marriage because the fantasy of finding someone nice to settle down with didn’t work out for you/them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:23 PM
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Who said I was or wasn’t? If I’m not doing anything to show that I’m interested. How does he know? Is your question more like “how does a man show interest?” Or “how do you know a woman is interested?”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:10 PM
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Actually worrying about yourself would mean building a life you want regardless of what women do, not opting out of one because of them. This is still “worrying” just expressed as avoidance instead of appeasement. Maybe you should change your title to “avoid women, not appease them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:03 PM
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-text more often, ask you out, be more direct about his feelings, make the first move physically, If he’s not doing these things what makes me think he likes me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:54 PM
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This is still blaming women. You’ve just moved from ‘women are the problem’ to ‘here’s how to survive them’. Every example still has women as the subject doing something and men adjusting. That’s not self-reflection, that’s strategy. How about men worry about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:50 PM
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Or… maybe the women’s loved ones knows she a good mother. But with the man they step up because he’s a horrible father and an innocent child doesn’t deserve that. You actually are describing a real reason why men don’t take/ask for physical 50/50 or primary custody. Men do not want the responsibility of child care. So they pawn it off on the women in their life. A lot of parents even have it written in their custody called “first right of refusal”. Because it’s a real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:33 AM
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You think women don’t have mothers or sisters?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:18 AM
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And who put these views into society?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:12 AM
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I see what you did there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:02 AM
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Not interested. You’re just a babysitter. I can tell you resent your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:50 PM
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Downside is having children?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:49 PM
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Carrie might be impulsive, quick tempered, etc. but she is the breadwinner in the marriage. Doug is often making horrible decisions and she has to clean them up. He doesn’t always treat her with respect. All Doug has going for him is the funny/charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:22 PM
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Porn is definitely a factor, but I think it’s mostly generations of social messaging that gave a lot of men unrealistic expectations. Many men were taught that simply existing as a man entitled them to a relationship. Women were supposed to be available to them for sex and marriage. And now that we are in a generation that doesn’t match what there were promised they blame women instead of questioning the beliefs they grew up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:09 PM
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That is not the same thing and you know it. No one is making men homeless. Keep regurgitating the manosphere, it’s working out so well for you. Btw women fight for housing justice more than men. Even though men are more typically to be homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:16 PM
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I can’t debate with someone that has bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:03 PM
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Because they should be equal socially!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:51 PM
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This is just word salad. It means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:50 PM
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I’m sure our ancestors would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:49 PM
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That’s bad faith. No one told you men and women are the same biologically. Women: “I’d like to be treated equally” Men: “fine! You’re now a man!”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:48 PM
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Men don’t desire women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:41 PM
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I mean maybe… but it’s what society has taught them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:36 PM
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Biological equality is a lie (if someone told you that) but women should be equal socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:35 PM
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Look up Dr. Rosemary Basson. She proved 85% of women have a responsive sex drive. 75% of men have a spontaneous sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:34 PM
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Men and women are not biologically equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:16 PM
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Im trying to think of a TV show where the man is super attractive and the woman is just average or below. I can think of a lot of TV shows where the man is average or below and the woman is super attractive. First one that comes to mind is King of Queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:58 PM
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The same “talk” women get from their mothers is to try harder, change your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:56 PM
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He’s trying to get validation. It’s not gonna happen and he’s gonna spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:52 PM
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Maybe you are the common denominator?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:50 PM
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I met my husband technically in real life. While we were dating/getting to know each other he mentioned that we had talked on an app and I “ghosted him”. After a while I remembered him and I had stopped talking to him because he didn’t seem interested in me. According to him that wasn’t the case. He just isn’t the texting type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:23 PM
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You said “more men are interested in taller women” your study disproves that. Don’t back track.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:13 PM
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That study doesn’t show men prefer taller women more. It shows men and women have different height thresholds, and actual matches land in the overlap. You’re turning a constraint model into a ranking of preferences, which the paper doesn’t measure. It says women on average prefer men about 25cm taller. And men on average prefer women about. 7cm shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:43 PM
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I said take a look at yourself instead. Not other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:33 PM
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In this fictional world you’ve created. If I was a man and I was like 5’11. And I came across a gorgeous girls profile and it said “under 6ft need not apply”. I’d say to myself “dang I don’t qualify.” Maybe say to myself “that’s stupid” but am I gonna spend my time on it? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:32 PM
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Still whining. Take a look at yourself instead of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:12 PM
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All I hear is whining that you aren’t chosen. You cannot change a person’s preference. If they don’t like you, who cares. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:05 PM
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So? That’s a person’s choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:58 PM
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You missed the point. Men hear what they want to hear. It’s the same with tall vs makeup. Also a lot of men would not want to date a woman taller than them. So isn’t the height issue kind of null? Women are not trying to change men’s appearance. We are listing our preferences. But it seems like men want women to wear less makeup. Instead of saying “eh that’s not my preference I’ll move on”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:48 PM
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Tell me, do you feel emasculated when you stand next to a man taller than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:39 PM
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A woman says “I prefer a man taller than me”. And men hear “you must be 6ft tall to even look at me”. A man says “I like women without makeup”. And women also see men insulting women that are not wearing makeup. What men mean is they prefer a more natural look.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:33 PM
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Putting a bunch of big words together doesn’t make it make sense. This is what you call “word salad”. Something narcissistic people use to confuse you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:20 PM
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Site your research! So we can look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:07 PM
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You can have an opinion all you want. But you can’t say it’s facts without backed research.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:06 PM
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This is opinion not research.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:04 PM
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***Wealthy marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:01 PM
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You can go one thinking that all you want. I’m sure other men don’t care what you think. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:41 AM
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Because they liked me. Is that hard to comprehend that some men like women because of who they are? They enjoyed their personality. They share the same likes. I think it’s just you that only want a woman for pussy and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:32 AM
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I can agree that keeping a relationship would be a reason to change for the better. I’m sure no one is gonna end a relationship over a hair part. But to attract a relationship or a person is not a sole reason to change. A shitty human being may keep hearing people tell him/her “you’re a shitty person” and they may realize they are unhappy and decide to work on change. But I really don’t believe it’s purely to gain access to another person. The whole basis of the OP question was “what are women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:30 AM
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Every man that has a girlfriend or wife isn’t just because he wants pussy or validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:20 AM
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Are you ok? Why are you taking this so personal? Did someone refuse to change for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:08 AM
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You are basing this “change” to attracting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:51 AM
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And if they divorce is he gonna go back to being an addict? No, because he changed for himself. Not for her. I can agree sometimes there’s a rock bottom or an event that causes people to change. But the true intention isn’t to gain a partner. It’s because they want a better life for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:44 AM
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It sounds like you want a woman to dress and look how you want because you think it’s a reflection on you. If you don’t like the way someone looks or acts. Leave them alone. Don’t go trying to change them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:20 AM
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I disagree. A person should be changing to better themselves. Finding a partner shouldn’t be reasons to lose weight, stop drugs, etc. A person does not have to change just for the sole purpose of finding the right partner. And changing how you part your hair or how you apply makeup or dress should not be how to “attract” a worthy partner. That’s ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:18 AM
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Well I already have a “suitor” but even before that I’ve never done anything to lure a man. Every relationship I’ve ever had happened because I was myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:53 AM
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I think “trying to appeal to a potential suitor” only applies to someone that really wants a suitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:48 AM
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If they don’t like me for me why would I want them? And why would men want a woman that pretend to be someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:25 AM
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Why would I look or act a certain way for some random man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:04 AM
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I don’t really care about what men like. Do men spend time learning about what women like? Back in the day (early 2000s) we went to the bars and clubs to meet men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:20 AM
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You went from Grok to thinking Wikipedia was any better? The definition proves my point. ‘no discernible difference exists’ is the whole definition. I gave you a discernible difference. Enforceable court order vs. informal arrangement with no recourse if broken. You didn’t show those are the same, you just asserted it and linked a Wikipedia page you didn’t actually apply. That’s not a rebuttal, it’s citing a term without checking whether it fits. Also, two anecdotal names aren’t data. That’s the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:01 AM
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Yes it was. You didn’t read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:17 AM
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Oh my god…. I know you didn’t SAY bold. I was describing your original claim. “Bold” is an adjective. This is where reading comprehension is needed. You keep just restating your bold (adjective) claim. You aren’t addressing the distinction. Once a court sets binding terms it’s an enforceable protection. Choosing to ignore it is giving up that protection. Not reporting a crime is a right, not a protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:51 AM
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You really have no idea how family court works do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:42 AM
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It’s because he doesn’t have the reading comprehension to understand literature studies. He must be one of those no child left behind kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:41 AM
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You are a different kind of idiot aren’t you? Declining to press charges is invoking a legal right you’re choosing not to use. And it’s not a favor. A mother informally letting a father see the kids more is not the same thing. That usually is a favor. It’s her giving up a formal protection. Also you just described yourself doing exactly the ‘off the books’ thing you called bold two comments ago (‘come by every other week, it doesn’t matter’). So which is it? Is disregarding formal custody terms …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:33 AM
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Leverage-saliency theory has nothing to do with custody, gender, or the Pew stat. It’s about why people don’t respond to surveys. This isn’t a “gotcha”. You grabbed an unrelated academic term and are using it like it means something it doesn’t. Also my stat is mothers vs. fathers (16% vs. 41%), you just didn’t read it. And I’m still waiting on your source for the ‘off the books’ 50% custody claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:25 AM
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Society runs on patriarchy, not ‘misogyny as a tactic’. You are so ass backwards. You keep screaming “post proof!!! But you use Grok as your proof. Which has been proven to be heavily conservative and misogynistic. It was used at a massive scale to create non consensual sexualized images of women. ‘There’s a bias so I get to hate women’ isn’t logic, it’s just resentment dressed up. Get some therapy instead of another manosphere podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:21 AM
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You can’t claim something without proof. “they could offer 50% off the books and don’t’ is an assertion, not data. And “off the books” that’s bold of you. Tells me your character. Same standard you demanded of the Pew stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:10 AM
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The Pew stat you put is mothers vs. fathers (16% vs 41%). And ‘leverage saliency bias’ isn’t even a real term. You made that up. If you’re gonna claim a dataset needs an adjustment, post the link as I did. Also a Grok chat isn’t a peer reviewed literature study, it’s you asking a chatbot to agree with you. Bet you can’t even read peer reviewed literature studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:06 AM
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Couple things. 1. Ease of dating doesn’t mean that person deserves custody more. In fact you only proved mothers sacrifice more than men. 2. Wishing they spent more time with their kids and actually spending time with their kids are different things. 3. Your “full custody bluffs” is you planning to weaponize custody to punish mother of your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:30 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11114442/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:20 PM
3

I only support live in relationships is if the man pays all the expenses and I’m able to save an emergency fund.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:05 PM
4

The manosphere men complaining about simps are not getting any cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:08 PM
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I see a lot of men define “simp” as a man doing anything for a woman and the woman enjoying it. They see a man treating w woman with respect = simp They see a man buying something for a woman = simp They see a man complimenting a woman = simp A woman dating/smiling/enjoying/loving a man = the man must be a simp But a real simp is where a woman rejects him and he keeps trying to gain access to the woman by degrading himself. I think these men that complain about simps are actually projecting. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:50 PM
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Every time I see a guy calling another simp I see a toddler stomping his foot because someone else got a bigger piece of cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:30 PM
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Sounds like you don’t know how to control yourself through self discipline. You should seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:44 AM
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Just stay away from women then you won’t have to worry about anyone taking your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:07 AM
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You know your son as your son not as a partner/man dating women. You coddling him isn’t going to help him. Most likely he is doing exactly whatever the women are doing. And by how you are acting I can tell exactly how you’ve raised him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:54 PM
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Why are you in a group for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:31 PM
2

Report him to who?? Didn’t someone say you were married above?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:29 PM
2

I do see women upset that they were ghosted. But it’s more like they are just trying to understand. “Is there someone else. Is that why”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:22 AM
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Someone’s sexual history vs this criminal history are not the same kind of information. One is about safety and the other is gross gossip/borderline sexual assault. If he wanted to have a fair comparison it would have been “what if men made these pages and lied about how she stole all my money, didn’t offer to split the check or didn’t match with me back”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:44 AM
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No but they post their casenet files…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:59 AM
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I’ve never seen women discussing men’s sexual performance or how their body is on those pages. You are grossly misinformed about what those pages are about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:58 AM
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Otherwise I’m super flexible? GTO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:01 AM
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Get psychiatric help.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:03 PM
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You don’t want equality or equity. You just want to be validated in your resentment toward women. Got it. I hope you find the man of your dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:57 PM
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European countries are more 50/50 because they have made it more equitable for women. Universal healthcare, years of paid maternity leave, even their period products are subsidized. And you know who pays for it? Everyone including men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:36 PM
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You want congress to pass a law that says “men shall not be seen as ATMs”? Who set up this system? You are an idiot. Get an education that isn’t Andrew Tate’s podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:15 PM
6

Is autocorrect broken on your phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:35 AM
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Equal is the same treatment regardless of circumstance Equitable is the fair treatment that accounts for different circumstances. You can download a dictionary app on your phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:33 AM
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What men’s rights are you advocating for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:26 AM
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You put a dollar amount on pregnancy and childbirth. Thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:07 AM
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You write all that then say “you’re happy to pay because it works for you”?? You just admitted it’s a transaction for you. You sound like a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:02 AM
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Menstruation. Pregnancy. Childbirth. Postpartum recovery. Breastfeeding. The orgasm gap. The career penalty for taking maternity leave. The wage gap. Higher healthcare costs. The mental load of childcare. Being the default parent. The list could go on and on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:33 AM
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Obligations aren’t equal. Thats the problem with your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:26 AM
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Equality and equity are not the same thing. You should google their definition before making such an incoherent claim. What you are trying to do is weaponize equality “you want to equal rights? Fine you pay half the bills then!!” Same bad faith energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:50 AM
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Child birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:57 PM
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