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| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree about the delusions but I think I'm over myself. I ghosted myself and am dating me now. I's still calls me up too sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 12:56 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd here's a good example, folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 01:18 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOne thing about red pill people and conservatives in general is that they really don't wanna hear the cold hard truth. Which is ironic because they claim to take the pill that wakes them up, but really they're the sleepiest among us. I've been banned from so many of their spaces just for just speaking facts. In the BDSM community you'll find some of these types and the guys can't be reasoned with and women who want to be forced. It really all reminds me of that guy Andrew Tate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 12:55 PM |
| 3 | CMV This Subreddit is the best Dating Strategy Forum on the Planet.True. The first time I kissed a girl was right here in PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 12:00 PM |
| -1 | CMV: If you're in a happy relationship, you've "settled".Most of us will end up with women like you. That's what the studies show. All of us single people will complain right up until the cut-off age and then finally settle for each other. I just hope that the women who're left at 40 accept this because I already have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your ageI decided in my early twenties that I wasn't going to pursue a career. My dating life is the same it was before I made that decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Do men complain less about being used than women?Yeah, time equals money, so if you took my money then you took my time. That a $120 seafood dinner she just scarfed down was 6 hours of my time I can't get back. How does my dick going inside of a woman take from her? I'm the one submitting my penis to her vagina for God's sake. And i've had women who only want dick out of me and I certainly didn't think "wow, i'm just using this woman"... no, I felt used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Do men complain less about being used than women?Most people who complain about being used are just people with victim mentalities who ignored red flags. We've come to that conclusion a few weeks ago on here. It's funny how I used to be so sympathetic and empathetic to people and now I just believe everything that happens to them is their fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men complain less about being used than women?I've taken fat, ugly, women out on dates and bought them dinner and still got ghosted. I wouldn't say I got used but this whole women paying for dates thing - can only imagine how atrocious that woman must be. I've never had sex with anyone on these dating apps either, just dates. And I would assume about half the people are like me - we're just window shopping and sex is like 3rd or 4th behind other factors. If I was looking for just sex I would just go to an escort who's way hotter than the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Do men complain less about being used than women?I pay for meals and have not had sex with the handful of women I've managed to meet on the apps. Probably would take a few weeks before I even wanted to do that. Simple human interactions are what most men want up front So, if you're at a point where you're paying for dinners, then you need to reevaluate your selection criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Do men complain less about being used than women?Yep, and now that I'm older I don't only see women as just being good for sex. So, I'm hoping and praying there's a lot of other women out there that have dropped their need for a provider because I won't be providing for anyone at my age and employment status. If anything, I'm gonna need help at this point. I just hope women are ready for the glut of men who don't have a career because we didn't want to be used for our money because it seems like these other guys are busy all the time with thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Do men complain less about being used than women?Well, It's like a guy said here the other day: Women just play the victim more. I feel like it has something to do with their natural passivity but I'm not sure. And this is one thing most women will actually end up fessing up to. Before I can even finish the sentence sometimes about this subject, they're already agreeing with me. As if they've seen so many other women complain about men when they ignored red flags about these men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | The Big 5 Personality scale predicts a lot, yet people seem ignorant of itTo me, the big 5 is like a psychic palm reading. For a while there, I was asking people to take the Big 5 test. And after I got their results, I would size them up. I can tell if you're liberal or conservative just by reading the results. Women always scored high on being agreeable. My favorite one is openness to experience and I score high in that. Conscientiousness and neuroticism usually stay in one spot for someone's lifetime but I was reading you can decrease your neuroticism if you're able… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating someone overweight or obese?I don't take steroids. I eat at least my body weight in protein every day, supplement 5g of creatine a day and 25g of whey protein isolate within a half hour of my workouts to help stimulate muscle synthesis. No one cares about your individual health routine. This isn't a gym bro sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating someone overweight or obese?As long as fat women aren't expecting muscle men just like I don't expect the strippers I used to date as a fat guy when I was younger because that would be delusional. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Would you consider dating someone overweight or obese?He's probably never seen an american football game where half the team is fat lineman running around. Don't let this man turn on a TV on Sunday | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've noticed guys who were in relationships tended to gravitate towards my single ass. Something about me being fine single when they know they wouldn't be if they were in my shoes. I always assumed their girlfriends would like me too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think what it really comes down to is you have people on these things that really want to meet and date and then a third of these people are just trolls according to some article I read. So, just like any other platform, the bad actors need to be minimized. If you could see how many times someone ghosted someone, then people wouldn't talk to that person anymore just like they wanna ignore me when I'm up to no good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:06 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Citing the mental health impacts of ghosting, Bumble now considers the act — specifically, two people agreeing to meet up and one of them flaking without contact — Bullying and Abusive Conduct in the guidelines." This will boot about a quarter of the women off apps altogether. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:16 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.Same here. I dated two strippers before I even turned 25. Now, girls I went to high school with who showed little interest before, occasionally reach out. It's almost like their pool of men is shrinking. I don't get the whole old man is worthless bit either. Men age out three years later than women at 43 and my dad was having kids into his 50's and DeNiro or one of them 80 year old Hollywood wise guys just had a kid. If anything, older men might be in more demand than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:38 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Lol. West Elm Caleb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:10 PM |
| 2 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Good. Tone that weak shit down. The rest of us got women to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 11:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV : The reason you think lots of average men are in relationships when actually they’re notI don't know what average is anymore. Women are dumping tall men for shorter ones now. My head is spinning from from what I've read and witnessed directly for myself lately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 05:33 AM |
| 6 | CMV : The reason you think lots of average men are in relationships when actually they’re notI've been single for 15 years. If women give men attention then they missed the memo on me. I'm sure any second now one of these women will realize what they're missing and scoop me up. Tired of going to Walmart alone. I tell women we'd be going to Walmart weekly because that's one of my main goals once in a relationship. I hope women understand this need because it's a very real one. We don't take trips out with our significant other for granted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.If both men and women are more geared towards their base instincts in our current society, like I believe they are, then that means the more established men are also the older men and when women finally want to settle down, that's who they go for. I didn't even leave home until I was 36 and now I'm 38. Only finally have I realized what I have to if I wanna fuck around with more women but for the prior 15 years I didn't even care. But now, sure. I talked to one 23-year-old who definitely seemed o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRP isn't the only people who think women like men for things besides looks. But RP never mentions resource acquisition capability, which is what a lot of women, and some men too, are looking for. Doesn't anyone remember the Tinder Swindler? Dress me up in a nice suit, come and take some pictures of me next to a $250,000 car, surrounded by models and watch how much attention I'd get on the apps compared to how I look now. Blackpilled guys are literal bums who just won't work. I watched a document… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI knew these two pretty hot chicks from high school who dated around. Eventually, these women seemed to gravitate towards guys who look like they make at least 100k a year doing something or 'nother.. To me, it seems like these women had to start dating these men before it got too late - meaning before they got too old or before the guy found another woman. So, instead of these guys getting roped and doped into these women, it seems more like these guys are saying "hey, this is your last shot ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Many men only want women for sex and validation, because that is the only thing they cannot get on their ownWrong. We've been freed up to hone on our base instincts. For a lot of men that means either doing as little work as possible or as much, i.e. free riders and unconditional helpers. For women, that means they can stay single forever until Mr.Perfect comes along, not Mr.Right. You guys are always saying based, well that's what we're operating on right now: our base instincts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 05:18 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.Smart person post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 11:34 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men.Yeah, that's gotta suck. I had a couple chicks (women from high school who weren't into me then but have hit me up as we're pushing 40) try to get dick out of me but my dick wouldn't work. It's gotta be because I'm used to porn now after all these years. But I mentioned this because I'm sure men feel bad when they actually get a chance for sex but can't perform too. I didn't but I'm sure some guys do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | [Wall Street Journal] Dating Apps Put a Hefty Price Tag on Finding Love [x-post from /r/Economics]I wonder if people look at men who pay for dating apps the same they do as men who pay for escorts. Because it seems like if a man has to spend a dime at all to attract women, then hes a beta according to the incel mindset. I guess Only poor men like me are allowed to date. Which works for me, because I always said I wasn't going to get a career just to attract women. I literally made a conscious decision on that in 2010 and havnt been happier since. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 07:14 AM |
| 1 | [Wall Street Journal] Dating Apps Put a Hefty Price Tag on Finding Love [x-post from /r/Economics]You make a good point. I don't give any attention to women and so do a lot of guys like me. We're not desperate, we're just chilling. We're also not gonna go out of our way for women we really don't want. So, I'm not exactly sure what the carrot is on the stick for men. I don't wanna picket fence and a family. If i'm gonna go out and make big bucks, then I'm gonna hang out with strippers and escorts. I'm 38 now and still on the landing platform wondering why I should take off? Anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 07:08 AM |
| 0 | Has it been depressing to read about women's inner thoughts on this subreddit?Looks don't matter as much for men. Resource acquisition capability is what it's about in these pictures. Women wanna see a guy who looks rich. So when I hear people talk about looks that's what I remember. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Has it been depressing to read about women's inner thoughts on this subreddit?Don't let these incels get you down, bro. They love to judge behind their greasy keyboards. Don't even respond to those sad men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Has it been depressing to read about women's inner thoughts on this subreddit?And filled with fan fiction writers. These men and women are the best among us for landing such catches who shower them in non-stop attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:55 PM |
| 2 | This is all my knowledge from dozens of Hinge dates I've been on. I wish I could have told my younger self this.Sounds like a boy scout wrote this. It's like he read a romance novel and said "Barry and Gina kissed - that must be important. Let me write it down so I don't forget." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 08:29 AM |
| -1 | What causes dead bead bedrooms in your opinion ? and are they preventable ?Nice job selecting a loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | What causes dead bead bedrooms in your opinion ? and are they preventable ?9 times out of 10 the guy is marrying down in looks. It's no mystery. I know couples who don't even sleep in the same bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Why don’t men just do what women do?They most likely are bitter women. Bitter they didn't get what they wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 02:43 PM |
| 8 | Why don’t men just do what women do?As long as she takes her own advice and stops dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 02:42 PM |
| 7 | Why don’t men just do what women do?Go 15 years without dating then like me then. I'm doing great single and never been better. You just dated 3 months ago... Take a really long break and put your money where your mouth is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 02:41 PM |
| 2 | What's up with certain girls who pull away when you start being nice to them. But then when you give up and ignore them they turn all affectionate and lovey. What is going on in their head? How do I make sense of this?You make a really important comment and women need to understand this. A lot of us gotta treat these women like dog shit or they're gonna go somewhere else. You found a good one and don't have to be someone else but a lot of us have to remind these psychos who's in charge. Women on here act like there's enough insulated nice guys to go around but there isn't unless they share. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 08:08 AM |
| 1 | What's up with certain girls who pull away when you start being nice to them. But then when you give up and ignore them they turn all affectionate and lovey. What is going on in their head? How do I make sense of this?Check out doctor grande and you'll hear a lot about women murderers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:24 AM |
| 1 | What's up with certain girls who pull away when you start being nice to them. But then when you give up and ignore them they turn all affectionate and lovey. What is going on in their head? How do I make sense of this?I remember hearing this guy talk about his girlfriend saying not to call her that often. She said she was fine going days without contacts and he obliged. A month into the relationship she starts complaining that he doesn't call her enough... The actual problem here was that this guy had a secure attachment type and it doesn't matter the attachment type of the woman unless she's also secure. I think a lot of guys are more secure than women are in this day and age we're wired to be resilient. So,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:22 AM |
| – | AlphaSorry no one ever said you were alpha, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:18 AM |
| 3 | AlphaYeah, but a guy who chicks admit is an alpha is another story. Most alphas will have women in their court who think of him like that. What the man thinks doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:07 PM |
| 0 | AlphaThere's two kinds of alphas which is really nice but most of you guys are betas fr. And women will tell you you're alpha or not, especially after sex. Men going around calling themselves that is a cope and also projection. One ex, after not seeing her for months, started texting me again and I asked her why the sudden interest? She said "you know you're alpha" and I just laughed at her. It's really nice to see women making these distinctions in their heads because they are the choosers. They def… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersYeah, Tom Brady really provided for Giselle. She was destitute before they met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersThese are the ugliest women and they know it. Only pump and dump material. Men aren't getting careers for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersIf you haven't found a provider yet than something is wrong with you in this current climate. These guys are going overseas for gold-diggers so if you can't get them before they leave on a boat then I don't know anymore what you women are actually doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersIf I ever became a provider, it would be for an attractive woman - not some girl next door. Other men already think like this and we can still get sex, so. Unattractive to average women can find someone to be exclusive them or not. That's their choice but I'm not doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:59 AM |
| 3 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backYeah, boring stable guys just don't make women drip like a broke degenerate like me can. I setup these elaborate dates and memorize about 25 different jokes a week cuz' they love laughing, it overrides a lot of their BS. Being labeled boring or creepy is reserved for the lowest men. Words I hear mostly as asshole or ego, followed up by Daddy in the bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:15 PM |
| – | Dear women, what makes a man "boring"?Basing your life experiences off college is why you're in that incel mindset. You haven't matured yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:09 PM |
| -2 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.I'm pretty sure I was one of these chick's father actually. I met this 19-year-old at a bar a year ago who looked ridiculously similar to another woman I slept with around 20 years ago. I haven't been able to get in touch with the original woman to ask if this is our daughter I was banging or not but I'm almost positive it was now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.Most of you won't be dating anyone tbh. Get used to being single. Bullies, who also shit on women because they can, date attractive women and rule the day. We still need betas, though. You guys keep working and one day it'll pay off, or some BS like that. Try it and let us know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:42 PM |
| -3 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.Technically, your hand is the same age as the rest of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:30 PM |
| 3 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.She didn't like guys her age because they were irresponsible idiots. And I didn't have much money at the time anyway. Yeah, I'm sure she was a nice fat girl with a great personality but you don't sound anymore responsible than the younger guys she supposedly complained about. Lonely men need to come up with better lies than this because "I only date younger women who're into irresponsible older men" just isn't believable tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:28 PM |
| 0 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.I will never understand why some women act like they're not into me at first and then by the time I go away and lose interest they want my dick. Women's Chad Shields are only good for initial deflections, not repeated strikes from The Chad Hammer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you make of a woman who regularly dates older men?Older women are giving out all the sex right now so I can't be bothered with younger women. And I've heard a couple of my ex's complain THEIR ex's are fucking around with older women, so. Gotta go where the utility is sometimes. These younger women just aren't the women their grandmother's were, I guess. Because now MILFS and grannies are taking over. I wonder if younger women ever think about their future after 50 and how desperate they'll be for just any man's attention by that point because I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:14 AM |
| 6 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.Yeah men, stop expressing yourself to please someone else... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menMost women I've gotten to know closely wanted my dick after awhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Guys who lie about their height vs women who lie about their weightThat's kind of crazy when I hear women acting like this. Always acting this way to guys who really aren't into them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:07 PM |
| 2 | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"That's actually very true. I played my fair share of MMO games and sometimes these lonely guys post in local chats. I remember playing a game with one of my chick friends and she told me about this guy and I say, "well, why don't you go and try and talk to him" and he just wouldn't respond after a dozen or so lonely guy posts. It's weird, but it's almost like these guys know how to lure women in for empathy. I've never had good luck getting women to listen to my problems but here these guys are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 04:19 AM |
| – | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"I'll just make up some reasons and try to sound like an incel. Here goes: 1) Women's feet have grown larger compared to their grandmother's With Women's lust for shoes comes pricier footwear as more material is needed to cover their ever-growing cloven hooves. Our grandmother's had secret recipe books, these women don't Who needs to cook with food delivery apps? Not these modern women. Our grandmothers had more patience to wait for film development Modern day women can't even wait a second for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 10:38 PM |
| 5 | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"So, basically, these guys want gold diggers and traditionalism has gone by the wayside so much here in America that they can't even find that here anymore. I'm starting to put all the pieces together here on these guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 10:20 PM |
| 4 | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"So, basically, these guys want gold diggers and traditionalism has gone by the side so much here in America that they can't even find that here anymore. I'm starting to put all the pieces together here on these guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 10:19 PM |
| 3 | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"It feels like they might suffer from having a superiority complex too. They literally put themselves in spaces and situations where they are the literal superior ones. People with this kind of thinking are usually the lowest among us but believe themselves to be the best. Even their messaging comes off like "I went overseas, what are you waiting for, loser?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 10:15 PM |
| 5 | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"Yup. Occasionally while I'm on FB, I'll click someone's profile and check them out. Seen a guys today who lives in Thailand and has pictures with his Asian wife. He's apparently some teacher there but his FB comment was one of those classic hater ones "glad I don't live in America anymore. " Pretty obvious losers. Also, I don't think they like white women that much. They look at Asian women as prey. White incel men are still white in foreign countries and that plays into why they go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitmentBullshit. Most of the times I got casual was because the women was horny and into me. I was not looking for that. In fact, I was looking for way more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.Alpha female confirmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.Sounds like some lonely people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.It's funny because none of us approach women, but the women on here say they get nonstop approached, cat called and everything else. It's almost like two separate realities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:20 PM |
| 1 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.Because a 100% of the time a woman approaches a man she just wants sex.. I don't trust women who approach me either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:14 PM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Honestly, if you didn't make female friends in high school then you're gonna have problems. It's kind of obvious around here what guys didn't have any friends in high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 12:13 AM |
| -1 | the criteria women use for men to get a chance at a relationship are vastly different and at odds with the things that create and sustain a healthy relationships - this is a big reason contributer to dating problems today.Nah, I'm legit. I'm probably shooting blanks anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 08:38 PM |
| -5 | the criteria women use for men to get a chance at a relationship are vastly different and at odds with the things that create and sustain a healthy relationships - this is a big reason contributer to dating problems today.I would love a sexless relationship if I get to watch. I did enough fucking when I was younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?Yeah, I'm just chilling right now. It's America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?See, when you talk about neckbeards like that it makes me think you have a thing for them but of course you'd never admit to it. I know plenty of women who date way less physically attractive men than me, and they all have more money than me and more stable. Neckbeard or not, they're dating if not married. Some of the loneliest women I met online were really overweight women married to some guy in an emotionless relationship. I've pulled several of these women out of their funk and they all want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?Because women lie about what they're attracted to, just like with a lot of other things. How come we never hear women say they're attracted to stable men with good jobs when I see those men being the most chosen? The men I see being validated for other things, such as height or just because they're slim (that's how low the bar's getting) don't seem to have that great of a woman. The women who have the resources to make up for a physically attractive man's lack of such can afford to date those me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 05:12 AM |
| 1 | It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all menIncels come on here and lie about dating and fucking women while also using perfect punctuation and grammar. They write 5 paragraph responses about some LARP shit they concocted in their head and let it all out but women aren't touching these guys. Really weird they lie so much about it. Incels go years and years alone but they act like they have recent experience. He probably hasn't been with a woman for well over a decade. Kinda obvious by how nerdy they sound too. Women ghost nerds so quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 02:48 AM |
| 2 | It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all menIt's how incels think. Prolonged isolation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 02:30 AM |
| 1 | It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all menIt sucks that women don't want you but growing resentful of others will just make you more bitter and more unattractive. A lot of you incels can't seem to figure out that being nice to women pales in comparison to them actually being attracted to you. If women want someone to be nice to them, they can surely do better than guys who secretly despise them for their choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 02:28 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe correct thing to do is pinch yourself and wake yourself up from your little wet dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:33 AM |
| -1 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesYou could be jealous of that. I'm jealous of working stiffs, so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesHey there. Hopefully my wife is a fan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesMy therapist was conservative for sure. We actually got into a discussion over wealth distribution once. She said "If money is going down there, then it's coming from up here". She had no idea who jordan peterson was either and said he held men in a higher esteem than women and she wasn't a fan. She was liberal on the gender relations but conservative on everything else which I thought was funny. I remember mentioning how Obamacare was a good thing Or I wouldn't be there getting help from her An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:20 PM |
| -3 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesJust makes me think all these guys who are nice up front with their superficial charm are really the dangerous ones. Dr.Grande mentions superficial charm a lot. Guys like me are ACTUALLY charming. Big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 01:09 PM |
| – | Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad?I treat unattractive women like garbage tbh. I pushed one ugly chick's box of whatever over after she went to the bathroom at McDonald's. I just had a sudden urge to make her life a little more miserable. I also tease tall women because they're tall and men don't want that shit. So it works both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 01:06 PM |
| -19 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesI'm the complete opposite. I act like an asshole to weed the weak-willed out. My psychiatrist thought I was a narcissist at first, but after two months of seeing her, she said "No, you're much deeper than that". Nice guy only comes out after awhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 01:02 PM |
| 0 | "just be skinny" doesn't workMen use unattractive women for sex and move on. They want the hot ones to come back. But we all know this by now. Hopefully the former never happened to you and the guys call you up for more than that. A few drunk chick's tried to get dick from me over the past few years and it was kinda' lame on their part because I'm volcel and was just like "really?". I wanna do other things besides fuck. I fucked so much in my youth. Boring 💤 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | "just be skinny" doesn't workWhen you put it like that, you realize being skinny is just a bare minimum a woman has to do. Most men still want a pretty face, but a lot of guys will settle for a girl who's not that great in the face if he doesn't have other options. I'd say half the women I see have decent faces, the other half not so much. And i've seen some of these attractive women with bums, so. I don't know who unattractive women are getting tbh. Probably just some psycho abuser or getting used a lot. And since unattrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are not designed for womenToo many reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, she also said "she acts like she's better than everyone else now". But I also overheard them hanging out when this woman was here and didn't seem haughty to me. I'm pretty sure it's some insecure jealous stuff. She's all messed up doing heroin daily, so. Pretty sure her and the boyfriend are in the familiar misery loves company situation. It's funny, too, because they'll hang out over his house And she's around him more because he's usually hosting people and sometimes there's women around… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:45 PM |
| 2 | How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it?Believing that stars in the sky will tell you how relationships will work out is narcissistic. And if you google the link between astrology believers and narcissism, you will find a good correlation. I once dated a chick that not only believed in astrology but also went to see a psychic. She Repeatedly told me that she was an empath. (projection) After a couple years with her I finally realized I was the empath and she was the narcissist. She had basically gas lit me that whole time. Which is an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWife material is different than just any ole' woman is my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis guy is on disability, and hes always trying to hang out with me when he sees me coming in. I used to think the guys that were being housed were winners but now I just see them as victims. She's had him arrested a few times and she's always starting fights where I hear him screaming he's gonna leave but never does. Unless you're actually attractive to these women they're going to abuse you. It's clear that this guy is only attractive enough to get dick from because that's all she CAN get out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, we're not desperate for women and don't have FOMO. I got so much action when I was younger. Give us a good woman or bust. We don't mind waiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere sure are a lot of insecure women out there but they're so secretive about it and only share their little stories with other women and their boyfriends. Just the other day, I overheard my landlord (who's a fairly overweight woman) talking to her boyfriend about a mutual friend of theirs who had lost weight and finally gotten in shape. She said this woman looked too skinny now. I looked this woman up and she's quite attractive and in shape. It quickly dawned on me that my landlord was just j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have a feeling most guys who are worried about being a beta bucks are also career oriented. I just quit red lobster today on a whim. That was probably the 40th job I've had. My next stop is probably a convenience store overnight. Something always happens yanno, yet these other people keep jobs for years at a time. Fuck that beta bucks life. Rather be alone than work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes because none of you are normal, including myself. The shit I read here is mostly deranged fantasy. Listening to people who never have sex whine is for pure entertainment purposes only. The only people taking anything seriously here are the actual incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNice to see other attractive men treating women this way too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps are not designed for womenI think women have less realistic options than before, just like a lot of men do. It would explain the play I've gotten over the past few years for sure. When men check out, they check out for awhile and those are usually the men women are waiting around for. I checked out for a good 15 years and still had occasional interest over the past few years. I told one my one chick friend "These women are running out of options or I'm more attractive than I think". She said I'm more attractive than I th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV : We can’t redistribute love and desire but we can destigmatize and accept AF/BB as the norm and embrace itOP probably like the ugliest incel ever. Sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 09:55 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)Guaranteed this woman's been pumped and dumped so many times. This is her Pikachu face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 09:52 AM |
| 1 | The blue pill existsYeah, it's called Viagra. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 09:43 AM |
| 1 | If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards?If you were single, I'd have to change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:01 PM |
| 1 | If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards?I'm 38. Hopefully not too young for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:35 AM |
| 1 | If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards?How old are you? 45? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 07:41 PM |
| 0 | If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards?Been married for 20 to the first stripper I got a lapdance from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards?These women are bitter and lonely that they're not even getting pumped and dumped anymore. Kinda sad. They don't sound like the nice women I meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards?That's all you can get, probably. Attractive men don't have to deal with whine-o women anymore. I know I don't fuck with any weird women who sound like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards?You're not competing for men. That's not how this works, that's not how any of this works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 05:51 PM |
| -3 | If you have ever complained about men only wanting sex and being unwilling to commit, have you tried lowering your physical standards?Because you sound shallow, regardless. Now your on Reddit posting with even more unattractive and meaner guys than anyone you'll ever meet. No one's gonna like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 05:49 PM |
| 0 | If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards?Sounds like you can't attract anyone decent. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards?I bet I couldn't find one woman that thought I was attractive enough for sex on here. I'm 5'8, well over 200lbs. Not unless she was drunk. Those are the only women that have had sex with me in the last decade. Funnily enough, I learned in women's studies that alcohol is something women use a lot for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:50 AM |
| 1 | If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards?That's not a popular view point, that's biology. Unattractive women need more validation than their attractive counterparts. That's pretty standard stuff. So usually it's the most unattractive women and all the attractive men having the majority of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?I bet the women on here know all about low value men. Seems like the only men who pay attention to them. Yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?Men aren't gonna bust their ass to become successful just to go on dinner dates and have sex. Stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?Disagreeable men won't be degree holding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?Why are all the married women on Reddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?It's OK to be alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneI can DM you proof of all my good deeds. I've been keeping track. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 06:33 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?38. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 06:29 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Sounds like me and I'm a guy. Casual sex is so boring when I can just watch it and not have to effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?I would say at least 5% of the men from my graduating high school class are dead, maybe more.0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Women don't want commitment. Already tried it. But they know where I am when they're ready. Most women only wanted my dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 05:31 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Men are the aggressive ones, women are the passive ones. Duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 05:06 PM |
| 4 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?I fucked a few perpetually single women who I thought I liked enough to date but it was just dumb in the moment feelings. Now that I think about it, the only men who are gonna date a lot of these average women are actually guys who are more desperate than your average man. Getting volcel men to date is even tougher imo. There's no reason to give up my lifestyle just to go dinner and have sex. Women already think this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 05:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe men who sleep the most get the least sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 04:28 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLOL house parties. You 'cels wouldn't dare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneNicer than any man you've been with for sure. Speaking of nice guys, everyone thought Hitler was a pretty nice guy at first. Most times, first impressions are just that. Almost everyone I ever met became someone different over time or in private. Luckily for me I only surround myself with nice women who don't require commitment. The nicest women ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneThat's your fault for chasing physical attractiveness in men. Men are lucky if they're even attracted to the woman they get with these days. I'm way more of a man than your husband is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneLike the generalization that women only love bad boys? You just said you started to care for one? Where's the interest in the nice guy? My DM box is open. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?When you put it that way I'd rather be an npc than an incel. Incels get shit on all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 03:28 AM |
| 45 | CMV: This Medium Article from a middle-aged female author asking 'Where are all the good men' perfectly explains men's dating complaintsRight. A lot of people seem to think men expect women to wake up one day and suddenly realize they slutted their lives away, like that's the revenge fantasy they keep mentioning. But it's not that... It's more like a lot of women will age themselves out and then suddenly have to lower their standards if they want to be in a relationship and this article proves it. If a woman can't find a stable partner by forty and she doesn't change her criteria then she's going to end up single. No revenge fan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Game is just harnessing the anxiety of insecure women to make them chase your for validation for a bitThat's all these incels do. They stumble upon stuff the masses already know about. They know themselves fully but not others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 05:21 AM |
| – | Why do some women hate harmless kind men so much?She's actually pretty hateful herself. Doesn't respond to DM''s at all and makes blanket statements all day and all night long too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 05:13 AM |
| – | CMV: Genetics and individual effort combined are the most important factor in determining life outcomesCel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 05:09 AM |
| 9 | Is it wrong to track data in your relationship?I don't think you will have to worry about any of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 05:08 AM |
| 1 | The principles of the manosphere are based on a just-world fallacyA lot of men who are on women's socioeconomic status are still going to be looking for the most physically attractive women... regardless of the woman's socioeconomic status herself. And most of the well off guys I know are well off because they couldn't be validated for anything else. Other guys are just getting by but still having the same dating results - mostly tall guys. I've seen women go from 6'0 bums to 5'8 well-off dudes overnight. Men who are desirable are making their moves on the wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 05:01 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's weird that people even go to church or pray to a space jesus at all. Still at a loss as to why these people aren't termed mentally ill. With this said, I don't want a traditional marriage. Whoever my wife ends up being better be ready to cuck me because that's what I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 12:01 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen I first started dating, I was told by women that looks fade over time and I shouldn't be holding out for an attractive woman. That messaging seems to have faded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | CMv : Modern times are not raising women’s standards, it’s revealing standards that were always thereMen are doing fine. Incel men aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?Yeah, if i'm a man and not looking to have a family then why would I marry? No woman's come along yet that's even worthy of my seed. Maybe I could have done a few mercy inseminations but we're not a charity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?I feel the same and i'm a man. I wouldn't say I avoid women but I don't really acknowledge them either. Most people probably just think like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?Does leonardo dicaprio look like he want to settle down and start a family? So many men who play the field are just like him and it's all their choice. At least half the men you're gonna encounter will be fine Just using you for sex. No families required. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?Mexicans are pouring over the border daily to do jobs we won't do anymore. Maybe the wall down there will collapse but our society will keep churning with or without you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?Male incels are just jealous of single women because they're single themselves but not by choice. Every day we'll get a post about how women are happy single. It's like yeah bro we know you haven't had pussy in ten years. Just stop and find new topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?But my true nature as a man is to play the field and not commit, so I'd say the dynamic is working perfect. Also, i've put very little work in and why would I? I'm not looking for a wife... Billy Beta, as you call him, is the one doing all the work while freeloaders like me struggle to make sense of what you're complaining about half the time. Also, where I live there are no single women. That would be nice if there was a glut of those around but I'm pretty sure they're all married to these work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 11:56 AM |
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