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| 2 | Just wanted to vent a little in this heat.No dude! 35 is the ideal age, with a woman under 28. 2 yrs and you'll be sweet. She will be a distant memory. And you aren't even bitter now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Just wanted to vent a little in this heat.I am 100% right. She is 100% wrong. You? Confused beyond belief. Love makes a fool of the best of us. You are very strong emotionally and mentally! It's just you have very mis placed loyalty. As soon as your mindset does a 180 you will bounce back like a hero. Probably only take you a year and you'll be flying. You must have a certain attachment style, white knight stuff or whatever. Your simping a loyalty is at the level most guys don't have unless they have a dozen children with the women..... | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Advice on leftover syndromeNo. Women are biologically hard wired to move on quickly. They can be emotionally detached before they even divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Just wanted to vent a little in this heat.So you worked on the (her?) house after you found out she cheated? Why? What possible legal stuff could have possibly made it any worse? You think they would take your old car and PF membership? I had full sympathy up until that part. There's simping nice guy 'in love' nieve trusting behavior, but really??? Does she have your balls still? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on STBXel mental stateMy ex left me 2/3 years ago, since then I've been obsessively watching YouTube, 100's of hours (redpill content, therapy podcasts etc) and reflecting on all my past relationships. Casey Zander originally blew my mind open. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/25 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Opinions on STBXel mental stateI think it's the opposite is true. It's the false lies of modern society. Disney etc. The lies cost people trillions and the government gets the money through family court, prisons, retail etc. In previous, primitive times, culture reflected reality. Boys learned the harsh truths from their fathers. Even the classic fairy stories seem harsh and brutal now. But they are true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/25 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Opinions on STBXel mental stateMost women and men don't consciously know this, but women are turned off by/ don't respect men who care about them. The more care and interest you show, the less she will like you romantically. Go further into no contact. For the reasons you've stated + that is actually the best way to pull her back in. It's total Bs's and annoying as hell, but it's a biological fact. Show emotional strength and self respect. If you have any chance of reconnecting with her romantically, and want to increase that… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/25 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Wife set to say "I don't feel safe"Apparently women (even in everyday normal situations and relationships) don't feel safe. They learn to hide it and ignore it but it is biologically true. Women rarely feel ok alone, much prefering groups etc. It's from our evolution. It's still BS that they can use this particular opportunity to express it. But it's not just a total lie. There's a reason a man can't say the same and get the same support/response. I challenged my ex about this (I'm completely non threatening, she's a fit healthy … | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/25 11:47 AM |
| 2 | I truly hate being divorcedCheer up. My kids are 6 and 9. I've been separated for nearly 3 years. Can't work or think straight. Suicidal thoughts daily since she moved out. I get the kids 50:50 and they love me to bits, so hate seeing me like this. And she hasn't got a new partner, so she would rather nothing than me.... I don't even believe I'll ever want anyone else. I'm not drinking as I feel worse then next day. No social drinks even. I'm just depressed and bored and lonely. I wish I'd never met her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/25 11:32 AM |
| 2 | I truly hate being divorcedSame. Loving your children and the mother of them is supposed to be a good thing. It's such a rip off that it's actually the worst feeling in the world if the woman doesn't like you. Why did she have children with someone she doesn't like? It's bs. Someone must be able to fix this stupid infatuation. I can relate to crazy stalkers who harass celebrities and are considered insane weirdos. But those celebrities didn't live with the stalkers for years and gaslight them that they loved them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/25 11:26 AM |
| 6 | Bitch and moan about inequalities in divorceMy situation is even worse. My ex has a best friend with 4 children, 2 are the same age as ours. My ex and her friend volunteered at the nursery and ate on all the school committees/parent teacher groups. I am completely alienated/ ostracized from the village community. My only way of getting some relief is that my children actually like just relaxing with me and I give them plenty of attention or peace and quiet. My ex is always 'intensly socializng' She gets all the support from my children fr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/25 11:48 PM |
| 1 | What's the pettiest thing she did?But the shout-out was public. She didn't want to seem petty. So she couldn't be petty. I bet if there were other people there she wouldn't be dropping off junk. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/25 04:12 PM |
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