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You definitely don't understand how much i travel. I'm a teacher and get three months of vacation every year. I travel abroad every vacation.
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:12 AM
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I get it now. When I said successful, i meant i travel a lot. Not financial. One friend calls me Anthony Bourdain. I have seen a therapist before, but i stopped seeing her because she always cried when I talked about my life. I literally travel about three months out of the year. That makes people very uncomfortable when they work 50 weeks a year.
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:07 AM
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Yeah, I've thought about desperation. But being willing to fly her out already shows commitment/desperation to be with her. Oh well, life goes on.
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:07 PM
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If you knew me, you wouldn't say that. I'm pretty good at analyzing situations. She had everything to gain by being with me because I have everything to offer, so she wanted to have a position of power, which would be gained by playing hard to get. The only thing she had to offer was her beauty and wonderful personality. She doesn't have a five year plan or investments or the ability to travel around the world on a whim like I do. All in all, it's her loss. Not mine. It's too bad she played hard…
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:55 PM
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Nah, i still believe she played hard to get so that she could have the position of power in the future relationship.
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:59 PM
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Haha, no, she knew i was crazy about her. I made it perfectly clear i wanted her as a girlfriend and possibly future wife.
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:50 PM
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She and i had both been talking about a relationship and polyamory before the trip.
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:48 PM
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I knew her for years before she and I reconnected and talked for months before going to Mexico. But she just had to play hard to get.
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:46 PM
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I bought a woman a trip to Mexico with me for her birthday, but when we got there, she started playing hard to get. We cuddled and slept in the same bed, but she was withholding sex. Eventually i got tired of it and left her in Mexico City. Maybe she was using me for a free trip to Mexico or maybe she was playing hard to get. What do you think?
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:37 PM
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You wouldn't get it if nobody has ever envied you. Several people here have said women play hard to get with successful men. Considering I could and have taken women on trips to other countries, it's not a surprise women would want to boost their perceived value. However, that's not really how it works, and i wish they understood that.
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:33 PM
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My work friend and i are pretty similar. We had similar lives except he ended up getting a woman pregnant and getting married, and i think he regrets it. I learned from his mistake and got a vasectomy. That upset him too.
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:21 PM
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Because I'm not a very normal person. I'm sure it sounds like I'm bragging on Reddit, but I'm bored, and it's therapeutic to talk about this. Have you ever felt envy? It makes you cry. I've seen my brother and a work friend cry around me when there was no reason to cry. Now that friend doesn't talk to me anymore. Long story. Maybe we were more rivals than friends. He ended up changing job locations. As for my brother, sibling rivalry is a thing.
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:18 PM
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I'm not financially successful. He doesn't need financial help. People are jealous of my lifestyle. I don't have to verbally brag. People see my social media. They see me in good physical shape while they got fat during the pandemic. They feel uncomfortable because I refuse to become unhealthy, have a good career, and have the freedom to do whatever i want instead of being tied down by a wife and kids. I really wasn't that specific, but yeah, I'm pretty proud that I approached someone at the bar…
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:59 AM
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Literally the only reason I haven't deleted this post is because I'm bored in an airport right now coming back from spring break. As my brother has said, I've traveled more in ten years than most people will in a lifetime.
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:45 AM
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They're jealous of how much I've traveled because they will never in their lives travel outside the US because they work dead end jobs. My own brother kept crying the last time I visited him and his daughter, and it was to demonstrate how different my life is from the average married life. Yes, I've lived abroad for ten years and have reverse culture shock, but that doesn't explain away why everyone is intimidated by me. I don't have bad game. Have you ever seduced a woman in thirty minutes and …
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:43 AM
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So that's just a myth? Delusional about what?
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:34 AM
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This is the best advice. I was just thinking i should make a second Instagram.
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:59 AM
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Sounds right
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:43 AM
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I'm not projecting The last time I visited my brother and niece, my brother kept crying because of jealousy
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:38 AM
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You ever seduced a woman in 30 minutes and fucked her in the bar bathroom? I have She didn't know anything about my success or traveling My problem starts when people get jealous of my success and traveling, i believe
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:33 AM
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I also have Asperger's, and I'm literally obsessed with becoming perfect. It must be intimidating. And no, i would never start a fight. I'm not a violent person. A debate, yes. I love mental combat.
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:27 AM
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lol, i would never refer to myself as an Alpha male, but people have literally said i make them uncomfortable and my best friend and brother have cried in my presence because my life is really fucking awesome compared to their married lives I get it now though. You just can't understand it. You've never lived a day in my shoes.
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:21 AM
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Well obviously i don't ask for advice like this when I'm in public. This is reddit. Not public. Get the difference? And you know what? The entire advice of this subreddit is: "Work on yourself and improve yourself." I've been doing that for ten years. And y'all think I'm an asshole for it. Maybe you should work on yourself.
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:13 AM
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Oh yeah, I'm definitely not safe, haha
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:41 PM
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Nah, I don't think anyone could say i don't have my life together
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:40 PM
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Sure, dude, sure. I'm gonna go cry now, lol
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:39 PM
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In my culture, i would have been one of the college dudes you've been banging, haha
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:38 PM
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It even makes my own family uncomfortable. I can see it in their faces.
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:34 PM
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I never said anything about your value. I honestly don't care about random reddit accounts or the people behind them because I will likely never meet them. I'm asking a question about playing hard to get on the seduction subreddit. What? Am i on the wrong subreddit? Go off
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:32 PM
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Chinese or British, yeah I don't brag in person about how much I've traveled. In fact, i try to hide it because it makes people uncomfortable.
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:29 PM
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Based on the fact that I'm on Reddit... where you are also
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:24 PM
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Kimchi is eaten every across the world, but it's originally Korean. Safe assumption.
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:20 PM
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Enjoy having sex in college
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:19 PM
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I recently moved back to the US, and a lot has changed. I'm asking do women always play hard to get with hvm. Do you have an answer? Or do you just wanna make yourself feel better by trying to insult me?
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:18 PM
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You're from Asia, and you have kimchi in your name. It's a safe assumption.
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:14 PM
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Traveling is rare for Americans. Ask your American friends how much they've traveled. I'm sure they haven't been to 30 countries and lived abroad for 10 years.
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:11 PM
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You're from Korea, i guess. Yeah, you'd like me if you met me in person ;)
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:09 PM
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I'm trying to give you an accurate depiction. If the accurate depiction makes you feel insecure, that's exactly what I'm talking about.
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:06 PM
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And i guess trying to improve myself and be perfect is a red flag, right? Speaking four languages is a red flag. Reading philosophy red flag. Lighting weight and doing cardio. Red flag.
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:02 PM
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My Instagram is pics of me traveling all over the world. My only explanation is that it's jealousy that they've never traveled outside of the US. I'm sure you think my confidence is cockiness.
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:01 PM
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Ten years ago, women never played hard to get with me, and i was just an average guy. Nowadays, every woman plays hard to get with me.
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:48 PM
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When I was in college and much more average, nobody played hard to get with me. I wasn't high value. I was a normal college kid.
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:58 PM
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Playing hard to get does make me like a woman less and less over time, so it's a terrible strategy, but obviously women do it. There's no debating that. Perhaps they really believe it will make me treasure them more after a long struggle, but they're wrong. My question though is: Is this more common with hvm?
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:57 PM
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Like i said, I'm working to improve and perfect myself. I know it's a rare trait. I believe in improving body and mind.
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:55 PM
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You seem to think I'm talking about one specific person. I'm talking about a pattern of men being intimidated by my success and women playing hard to get.
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:50 PM
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You gave actual solid advice and got down voted for it.
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:42 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:41 PM
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That's a vast oversimplification. There are many other social factors to consider.
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:40 PM
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You're telling me women don't play hard to get with hvm?
/r/seduction19/03/22 07:23 PM
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I truly believe in making myself perfect, and I'm a gentleman. I just don't wanna participate in playing hard to get.
/r/seduction19/03/22 07:11 PM
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I recently moved back to the US after working abroad for a decade. That in itself intimidates most people in the US. Generally, I try to hide that part of my life.
/r/seduction19/03/22 07:08 PM
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I can tell when a woman is into me. I'm not here to debate that. But my life is really intimidating. I've made grown men cry when they compare themselves to me. I'm wondering if my intimidatingly successful life (lots of travel and working abroad and having money) makes women in the US play hard to get. People have told me many times I'm above normal attractive. I lift weights and do cardio. I speak multiple languages. I feel like I'm the whole package.
/r/seduction19/03/22 07:06 PM
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It's a huge turn off for me. Most of them haven't even earned the egos they have.
/r/seduction19/03/22 05:43 PM
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