| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Am I good enough? | According_to_all_kn | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 02:04 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Am I good enough?That's all the response you got? | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Am I good enough?So what even is this sub, then? | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Am I good enough?Why is this being downvoted? I didn't think I'd be able to lose respect for a sub this quickly, but here we are. This is no better than the female version of r/justneckbeardthings. | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Am I good enough?You clearly don't understand either, but you have a small brain that only functions to regurgitate frankly sexist ideas that explain why your dating life isn't working out without having to admit you might be the problem. I hate to resort to name calling, but you've kind of driven me to it. | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Am I good enough?...every one of them? I think I'm going to have to stick with Occam's razor on this one. Edit: After looking up some definitions, I actually agree. But only because almost all of it is just regular behavior, and (ironically) good female dating advice. ...I think I see what's going on this sub. | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Am I good enough?It's complicated. The reason she quit was because the Koran forbids relationships with non-believers. So she didn't do it for me specifically, but just to have a relationship with anyone she wanted. I guess you could say I was the final straw, though? She phrased it beautifully herself: "I believe in love." | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Am I good enough?:) | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Am I good enough?Why do those things not count?? Oh, I'm so glad to hear. The sub seems full of checklists that define a HVM. I'm not doing great in any of them. I'm a wreck in school, I spend most of my time playing video games and my hygiene is in the gutter (though I take the corona measures very seriously, it's just that I'm smelly) As for porn, I mostly jack it to cartoons. I'm sure that brings its own level of judgement, but at least it's relatively harmless. Even the exceptions are things like r/realgirls… | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Am I good enough?Do you mean it's too rough? Or the woman are forced into pornography? (Physically, financially or otherwise) In what way is porn abuse? I'm not arguing, I genuinely don't understand. | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Am I good enough?Get a fucking clue ...I'm trying? Please give me a clue Porn destroys women In what way? | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 09:54 PM |
| -1 | Am I good enough?Every woman I know is okay with that. Heck, many of them openly admit to watching porn themselves. It's not just an issue of surrounding myself with only dudes, either. I'm in college. | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 09:52 PM |
| -1 | Am I good enough?Guess I'll just reiterate. First: Yes, I'm a huge baby, that's the issue. Two: As should be obvious, I am trying to change myself. You wouldn't tell a guy who's asphyxiating to try breathing. The existence of the question implies we've reached a point beyond the simple solution. | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 06:37 PM |
| 0 | Am I good enough?Well, you should try to be better for you.... Why spend your life not being the best version of yourself? I do! That is, however, by my own standards. I know who I am and what I want. I recognize what's wrong and I do what's right. I'm open-minded and I can empathize with everyone. I'm determined to help other people. None of these things, however, make me HV. If I ask my gf, she'll tell me everything is fine and she loves me. That's why we're still together. As for the porn thing, what harmful … | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Am I good enough?...then she is not confident. Really? Could you elaborate? To me, denying the expectations of everyone around you and changing the way you view the world because you're that sure of what makes you happy isn't something you do out of weak will. Did you make an ultimatum? I didn't, the Koran did. | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 04:26 PM |
| -3 | Am I good enough?Please read my other replies :) | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 11:49 AM |
| -1 | Am I good enough?Oh no, she's confident alright. A bit of a dramatic way of saying it, but she renounced her faith to be together. She knows exactly what she's doing. It's just that she loves me, and really loves me, despite my flaws. | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 11:48 AM |
| 0 | Am I good enough?Thank you! It's nice reading a more positive perspective. I've taken your words to heart. That being said, Also, stop watching porn. It’ll scramble your brain and make it hard to get a stiffy. ...definitely not an issue. Told you she's amazing ;) | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 11:46 AM |
| -2 | Am I good enough?I feel like trying to be better was assumed. I should have been more clear; I don't believe I'll ever be HV no matter how much I try. Given this insight, should I keep her 'waiting' for a better partner that will likely never exist or should I have her find someone better? | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 11:44 AM |
| -10 | Am I good enough?"Just stop doing heroin" I don't mean to ridicule, but I feel like you're making this out to be easier than it is. Could you link me to some resources that can be of help? | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 11:41 AM |
| -2 | Am I good enough?I do try to be better. It's just that this girl has never mentioned these standards to me. She seems to be judging me on completely different factors, like enthusiasm or how much attention I have for her. She genuinely seems down if I'm distant because I'm busy or if I have a lot on my mind. However, if I mention skipping a bath or watching porn she just shrugs it off as if I'd told her I had eggs for breakfast. I guess the real question here is "Should I try to be HV if my girlfriend is indiffe… | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 11:40 AM |
| -1 | Am I good enough?Well, yes? Me being LVM was kind of the problem. | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 11:33 AM |
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