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DiscussionAccumbenz/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 09:37 AM
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I also was in a similar boat with regards to wanting a boyfriend. I did (15 year old me) just so everyone at school will think I’m a normal person. All we did was basically kissing and fingering. However he did not push it further. He asked what was wrong if I wasn’t into it but I just danced around giving an answer. And it took me ages to explain he was basically friendzoned. I still feel terrible about it to this day because I should have explained myself when I knew (and broke it off) instead…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 04:22 PM
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Because it simply doesn't work and shaming only increases the risk of mental health problems. Also obesity is a condition and smoking is a behaviour. It would be like treating all lung cancer patients with contempt because they must have smoked. That should prevent pesky lung cancer. If you want to make a more apt comparison, you could go after eating too much junk food because it puts you at risk for obesity. Anti smoking shaming adds should be there to prevent people from starting. Addicts sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 01:55 PM
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Depends on what measure. Who can get the most sex? Hands down, the autistic girl. But who gets the most unwanted sexual experiences? That's the issue here is what would you rather - no sex at all, or unwanted sex? For dating, I guess it depends where on the spectrum you are. But one thing gives autistic girls the edge - online dating. For starters, the gender imbalance makes it such that there are many guys competing for girls, unlike offline where a guy pretends to be your friend and chats abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 03:21 PM
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Probably. But I belive women are even more likely to manipulate and use an autistic woman and get away with it. At least in highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 02:50 PM
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In that case, women are treated better, but at the cost of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 02:34 PM
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Bias because of personal experience. At 17, I was much easier to take advantage of as I am now. I'd think with a large age gap, an emotional connection is difficult to form so it must be for a hookup only. I wasn't interested in hooking up at 17 either. Therefore the older guy must be taking advantage. The problem with this is I am assuming every 17 yeard old girl was like me which cannot be true. I don't know if the ones sleeping around with guys (just in general) do so happily or not. As for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 09:29 AM
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The problem is women don't tend to do this type of thing. Statisticaly, a sexual offender is more likely to be a man, I've yet to see otherwise. However I do agree boys should be included as victims in these adds. Especially because of the stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 01:18 PM
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In my opinion, this is clearly the author using the character to say what she really feels. Sounds just as likely she's saying what the audience would like to hear. Or what she thinks a crazy girl would say, dunno haven't seen the movie for context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 01:06 PM
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that's why I believe monogamy was invented as a form of sex communism, giving 1 woman to each man as a reward for his contribution to the community and his abiding to laws in order to keep every male citizen satisfied. Lol, I mean that's why Eve was created, right? You get your basic income, but if you want a hotttie, you have to earn it by being lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 12:54 PM
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When it comes to sexual entitlement, the reason women have a visceral reaction is because it’s something men want from women. They’ll experience it from men and not women (statistically less lesbians). The topic is a bit of a truism. Of course women are going to have more of a reaction to something that affects them directly. A woman can’t really empathise with a man who feels there are a lot of women out there entitled to have sex with him, she hasn’t experienced that. She doesn’t know that if …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 11:35 AM
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I'd say the difference is in the desire. A quick fuck from a random brings little utility to the average woman and may even make her feel worse. It would bring the average man more utility as at minimum it would help with sexual fustration. On the other hand the average woman would want an LTR more. She'd be happy with just friends. What scenario would upset each more? Lets see each other for hookups only, no friendship thanks OR friends only, you're not even a sexual entity to me. Its hard to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 02:34 PM
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I think the problem goes like this: TRP: "I love sluts, I wouldn't wife one' Average woman: 'What a douche, why can't we sleep around too?' But you can, this is what happens: Slut: "Macho men are great, I wouldn't husband one' TRP: AF/BB cock carousel!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 04:29 AM
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Not politically correct? I actually wonder which gender has the most politically correct restrictions placed on them. No older men, or at least not much older - but it's more about not being too much more successful, having more life experience and most importantly, not (socially) dominant. To make it more politically incorrect, older women are okay. I'm not sure if this counts as politically incorrect or just something people find weird, unnatural or that I'm doing the wrong thing. No 'neurotyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 12:07 AM
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Omega as fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 01:36 AM
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I have to think about what vices to give up for self improvement. I think I'd need to make changes rather than give something up. Like procrastinating. I can give up all the things I use during procrastination (e.g. excessive media usage) but for me, it seems to work better to deal with why I'm procrastinating. Even giving up soda and too much sugary crap, I found it's better to: 1. Deal with stress as it's the trigger for overuse. 2. Make sure I'm well hydrated by drinking small quantities of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 12:27 AM
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I didn't say anything about her dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 12:10 AM
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Sort of. Only because I had no concept of feelings in a relationship but was curious about sex (moreso trying my fetish with other people) so didn't want to commit to anyone when I didn't know how I'd feel. If its the case, good enough for sex, but no time for relationship, because sex is less effort. Maybe effort is the wrong word there and complications with fetish stuff. Ambivalent. Once I got my solid partner, I don't really want to sleep around anyway. No, and I don't know. No, and it proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 02:18 PM
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Which is why depression is considered a mental illness not a rational decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 01:44 PM
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I think so! I never felt anything like this before. When I was younger, I didn't know it was possible to feel like this over a person, so I didn't look for it or expect it. In fact, I couldn't even imagine being sexually attracted to anyone. I lost my v-card at 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 01:23 PM
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29 year old female. I tried to think of the answer to this question, but just got 'well if my relationship ended, I don't want anyone else anyway, so who cares'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 10:14 AM
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The difference between enjoyable and nonenjoyable - well one feels good and one doesn't. Easy. As a former virgin, I didn't expect it to be any good at all. So I was impressed with the 'little bit good'. For some, I've heard 'yeah wasn't bad, was a bit boring though'. Effect on behaviour is to stop avoiding it rather than seeking it out. That's probs why TRP would prefer low n count, he doesn't need her seeking it out, he just needs her receptive. And if the guy is exciting in other ways, that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 07:18 AM
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And why don't they follow female leadership? As for the prime minister thing, same applies for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 03:00 PM
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I don't know about that. Any evidence for the democratic thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:58 PM
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Thanks, that's a better wording for what I was trying to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:57 PM
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I almost wonder if its guys showing off their abundance mentality to other guys. Yeah look at me I don't give a fuck so much that I just scared off that woman you thought was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:40 PM
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Judgeception.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:37 PM
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Women should also take more responsibility for their own feelings Can't these guys also take more responsibility for their feelings by not acting on them on a whim? But I must admit it's a strange behaviour to me I can't understand. I get having a look and feeling attracted. But why say things like 'smile!'? And what is with that agressive tone like 'hey sexy!'like it's a threat,like 'hey dickhead'. Its the aggressive tone that freaks me out a bit, almost doesn't matter what's literally said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:36 PM
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Of course, which is why I constantly refer to norms and tendancies. Perhaps a better way to word my question is to ask about how masculine traits effect leadership skills and what gender based social expectations effect it. Or are you saying there are way too many variables so that looking at gender is redundant?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 10:17 AM
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This is a complex issue, with personal experiences getting in the way of debating and empathy with the opposite sex. This kind of debate really does boil down to feelings. But we need facts on how different people feel. I was repulsed by older men (and still am) and it didn't have to be that much older, based on the assumptions I described in my other post. I do also know that many women prefer older men, and that when I was a teen, there were other girls that seemed attracted to old men. I'd sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 07:09 AM
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I don't know if it's like that for most people, but it's harder to age discriminate once there is a huge age gap. At 15, I probably could not tell the difference between a 60 year old and a 70 year old thinking the 60 year old is 70, I can't now. It stands to reason that a 73 year old couldn't tell the difference between a 10 year old (post puberty) and a 15 year old. But it may also go the other way, dunno never been 73. So depends on perception. But I guess the idea of ephebophiles is that doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:34 AM
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My experience as a young female, I inteperated the interest of older men being malicious. They like 'em younger because younger = naive, and easier to take advantage of. Especially younger female. And they want them virginal, pure, innocent, untarnished. Again, naive, ripe for the advantage taking. And adults justifying ephebophilia were serving their own interests, worse than pedophillia because everyone knows attraction to kids is wrong and disgusting (not socially accepted) so kids can be pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:37 AM
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If we're talking beauty (sexual attraction) just from a picture, I have an impossible standard, and I'd argue the standard is very high for women. However I'd also say my boyfriend 'calibrated' the beauty standard - I prefer men like him. I don't know exactly how the process happened, when I met him, his photo was just 'not unattractive'. But now it's like photos don't do justice. Maybe this is that emotional stuff they all talk about. The standard for casual sex is higher in women than men, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:26 AM
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Desire. Only can be fully replaced with a fetish object.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 01:16 AM
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This is weird to me, but I also understand a little bit. If what he says I can empathise, attractivness goes up. There are not many people I can be on the same wavelength with. It isn't sexually exciting and I'd hope the guy wouldn't find my emotional vulnerabilities exciting. But stoicness isn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 01:13 AM
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This describes me. Not sure where I'd put myself on the HB scale, probs was 5? + points for body size and proportions - points for masculine traits and not putting effort in to look feminine. The right makeup, hair and dress make a huge difference. I also have aspergers. I don't know about the low dominance link someone posted. I am high on the agreeableness trait and conflict avoidant but AS sometimes masks these traits. I prefer submissive traits rather than dominant, esp. for sex but equal/sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 12:49 AM
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What's it called when a guy does the exact same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 04:59 PM
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