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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | New boyfriend visiting child in hospital | Accurate-Adeptness90 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/23 10:46 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | New boyfriend visiting child in hospitalI fully admit I am currently not nailing it and not doing this gracefully. Trying to meditate and maintain any kind of better course but just got hit with the “I don’t respect you as their father” “ he will be their dad” | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/23 11:29 PM |
| 3 | First time having sex after divorce and it suckedI’ve hit this same issue and am glad to hear other people talk about their experiences. It’s helped me frame what’s happening in a much healthier way. Overall I’ve realized I’m not emotionally available for real intimacy, and I’m still accustomed to that deep connection I had with my ex wife. As a result I can’t perform without a real connection. Im ok with that at this point. It’s helped me to realize that I’m not really interested in dating, and I’m not hyper focused on wanting to engage in pu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/23 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Any Recovering Alcoholics?I pick up my six months chip this Friday. I started dealing with my divorce in April of last year, and at the time it was all blamed on my drinking. It took a ton of work through AA and therapy for me to start coming out of the fog and realizing that the divorce had nothing to do with my drinking, and everything to do with who I allowed myself to become, and didn’t allow myself to become, because I was sedating myself with my drinking. It was a really hard thing to accept, and caused me to reall… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/23 10:00 PM |
| 7 | Anyone elses ex or stbxw really hot?My stbxw has always been attractive to me, and still is. In the marriage she let herself go, ballooned up, and didn’t care. It didn’t bother me because my sexual attraction is driven by my emotional connection. Now that we’re separated she is clearly on ozempic and has dropped what looks like 20-30 pounds in two months. Only making her more attractive to me. It doesn’t help that as soon as started our trial separation she finally started wanting to do anal every time we were together and now I h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/23 01:11 PM |
| 5 | I need support and help please.I share your journey, and I share your solution. OP, we are not able to love someone else until we learn how to love ourselves. We can find comfort in others, but genuine love comes from the ability to express love for ourselves, and share ourselves with someone else. I don’t doubt that you love your wife, but it is important to see her where she is today. She is likely struggling from an inability to love herself, and in that she can’t understand how to share love with you. This is a sick perso… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/23 04:20 PM |
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