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| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game) | Conversation | AceCoE | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 10:17 PM |
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| 1 | Am I only men who gets turn off when you haven’t mention anything about hooking up or sex and she says she’s not looking for sex or hookups?Thats a common thing for women to say before hooking up, lol. And if she's serious you'll know pretty quickly based off how she receives your advances. Maybe it's funny to me because I've dated girls who say that, and that night or a date later were breaking her bedframe. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | What are some good conversations starters? (M19)Emotional spikes (making a girl feel things rather than boring convo) are a big one. Solid to intense eye contact, good vocal tonality, and of course - physical contact. Without this stuff, you're basically treating her like a friend instead of a potential romantic partner. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What are some good conversations starters? (M19)Basically any story/action/thing that makes you look cooler or more attractive. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 09:07 AM |
| 25 | What are some good conversations starters? (M19)I really like low-key cold reads (not the super serious relationship type cold reads, I save those for later). I've got enough life experience to know things about stuff, so it's easy to observe some quality about a girl and have enough knowledge about it to spark a good convo about it. It's also an easy springboard into DHV stories. Some examples of cold reads could be: girl looks like an athlete she's a unique ethnicity/race has a particular taste in music that's not super mainstream, and you … | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Will having no social status ruin my chances with women?Having a great social life is gold, but no it's not going to ruin your chances if yours is lacking. Especially in the context of a night out where girls are not likely to meet ANY of your social circle anyways. Having a great social circle can augment your nights out big time tho, especially if your friends love to party or are in general very well socially calibrated. It keeps emotions on a constant upswing in the night and does a lot of the work for you. There may also be some advantages to bu… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | fr#3, a very fun weekendShe could've been playing games too. Sometimes when you overthink the dating game you do stuff that's neither emotional, natural or logical. More like stalling or derailing. I'm guilty of that for sure. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | fr#3, a very fun weekendEven with all that escalation, girls will show different signals that they're willing to kiss. For example the two extremes would be: closed mouth, relaxed face, so-so eye contact, little change in expressions during escalation = not down. Heavy breathing/hanging jaw, intense eye contact+staring at your lips, moving part of the way in = down. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:20 AM |
| 2 | In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase youHave "peaks and troughs" in your interaction. Talking about school, jobs, plan would be examples of flatline conversation that's very boring and platonic. Peaks and troughs means positive and negative spikes, and you can adjust them according to the girls personality (I've had bad experience using too many negative spikes with very friendly and "nice" girls). Heres the types of spikes I've used, with real examples of what I said and the girls' reactions below. Sorry if it's awkward but just want… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Do you talk about sex during a date?Mystery's philosophy was that radical change is necessary if you're not getting what you want, and there's a ton of truth to that. Nothing wrong with changing yourself if it means you become better at socializing, improving physical health, or a better romantic partner. Just don't sacrifice your values and I think you're fine. If you mean you don't want to be an actor, yes most people would agree and luckily you don't have to. It helps to find a dating coach whose personality is most in line wit… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | 4 ways to go for the first kissEverything you do requires the right context to work and this is no exception. I mean, field test and see what you get. I've used it successfully in the context i described. It's not bad to suggest an old girlfriend enjoyed sleeping with you. If you rambled on about it or mentioned several different women, maybe...but that's not at all what I did. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | fr#3, a very fun weekendI'd be interested in some advice about post-kiss rejection too because it was a big mental hang-up for me. What I've gathered is that either: I'm going in too early after initial physical contact and failing to escalate enough.... or sometimes the girl just has a hang-up about kissing a guy they just met. I used to assume that since we're feeling each other all over and keeping solid eye contact, a kiss is guaranteed. But then you learn you can escalate a little more and you see the difference. … | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 07:00 AM |
| 3 | In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase youLight-hearted roasting that involves stories or a memory about the girl have worked for me. I'm doing this with girls I'm acquainted with, not cold approach. Though you could bring up something situational in those cases. One example: this girl I barely talked to all semester - I finally chat her up and vibe a little I'm paying close attention to what she says. I see her a few days later and we chat again for maybe 60 seconds before I say "Yo we gotta talk. You said something so messed up to me … | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Failed to Hit On a Cute Black Chick at a Rooftop Pool PartyDon't worry too much about the physical stuff you can't change. Besides, at 6'0" your height will rarely be a negative point for even vapid women. I know guys who are short and even overweight and do well with women. The biggest factor is they are confident and not needy. And decent at socializing. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Do you talk about sex during a date?Just by way of being more modern, UMP is more natural. But specifically: UMP sexualizes way faster and more often. His style lines up more with my personality because he'll also chill and vibes with the girl on comfort building stuff. The MM always felt like borderline acting which is alot of effort for me. The thing I remember most from Mystery was actually just a random quote from one of his videos, where he basically tells you put on a fake smile even if you're not in the mood. There's psycho… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:10 AM |
| 2 | To all males (and women too). Does the butt/glutes matter?Hey at the end of the day, anyone can get a great physique, but the face is hard to change for the better. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Destroyed my self confidenceReminds me of myself going through depression after high school. Hopefully your recovery isn't nearly as long as mine. What helped me though may help you: shake up your life with new goals and hobbies (preferably social ones). Also stop identifying with whatever negative thoughts you or your ex had about you. That's the wild thing about relationships, you'll have an awful breakup with a toxic person who hates you, and then you'll meet someone who thinks the world of you, so don't put so much sto… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:50 AM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] Persistency paid off. I pulled a hot petite white girl after almost 2 hours.Awesome stuff man. You mentioned how this girl was pretty much hooked on your early. Did you escalate before she was giving you heavy eye contact or was it she just on from the start? Also, what kind of comfort building stuff are you doing at the second venue? I'll be in Vegas in a few weeks and I can't wait. Love that city, lol. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Top 3 things that had the biggest impact on my gameA big reason people see MM (and The Game for that matter) as outdated is because they're heavily line/routine based and eventually you start hearing the same ones over and over. But alot of the underlying theory still seems perfectly fine to me. Plus I think it's all dependent. In your point #1, I think there are times where not showing interest IS a better option. Maybe the books aren't clear on when to use those kinds of strategies, been a while since I read them. I guess the big worry people … | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: I would rather have honest closure than a vague easy let downThis may be pseudo-psychology but I just feel women are more in tune with their emotions than us. Meaning: they don't require a fully rationalized explanation because they trust their intuition and feelings when it comes to men. Rubbing them the wrong way is enough to mess up, even if all your actions point to you being a solid dude. Then there's the issue of not making them feel anything at all, which will also kill your chances. People can also just be bitter and snide, so don't put much stock… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:28 AM |
| 10 | In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase youIf you're a lean newbie and young, a few months because any gains are way more noticeable. I remember in high school to early college, I'd wear tank tops to parties and girls sometimes would grab my arms, but I'd say older women are less impressed even though it still happens. Happened last week at a nightclub actually. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | 4 ways to go for the first kissI mentioned to someone else you could just replace "ex" with "girls" and really at the end of the day it doesn't matter, because it's a small part of what that line is meant to convey which is: you speak positively about women in your life, you satisfy them, you're a sexually capable person, and you have features about you that women enjoy. I think people are misunderstanding that I'm plopping a convo about an ex in the middle of an interaction. It's just said in passing. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Do you talk about sex during a date?Might. be worth having some fake stories then, because fact is you'll get better feedback. You don't necessarily have to go into detail either. Here's an easy one I see UMP use: say you did it at some popular local landmark (and think of where exactly you might have). And work on being more adventurous in your sex life since it will improve your relationships anyways. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Being A Pick-Up Newbie Is Fun!More people need to view going out like this. He happy and present. Pause for a second the next time you're out and take everything in. The sounds, the vibrant area you're in, the night breeze on your skin, the connections you make and the challenge you're taking on. It's a moment in your life so stop fucking thinking so much and enjoy it | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 04:56 AM |
| 7 | Being A Pick-Up Newbie Is Fun!I picked up on body language from my confident friends who pull a lot. Some are straight slayers. I NEVER see them express worry, fear, or other uncomfortable facial expressions. They're either completely relaxed or happy and that communicates a ton of confidence. Try it out, it's actually super refreshing to not clench your facial muscles with negative expressions all the time. If they fail with some chick...at most they'll tell themselves she was weird or bitchy and then they're on to the next… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Failed to Hit On a Cute Black Chick at a Rooftop Pool PartyDance floors definitely take confidence but you'll get better. If there's moments where she's with a group playing the games...I mentioned in another post how I open up groups at venues like this (places that have table games and lounge areas). I usually can open groups adjacent to my own pretty easily by just opening either a guys or girl in the group and quickly engaging as many as possible before going for the target girl. Best to get her friends to warm up to you first and helps find out if … | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | 4 ways to go for the first kissYeah, my ex isn't what pops out from that line. What pops out is me whispering about sex and moaning in the girls ear after 5 minutes of close physical contact. You could also just say "yeah I know, girls love em, this one girl would bite the fuck out of my lips...". If she's receptive to all these advances, you can kinda go crazy with it. Lightly tug her hair/kiss her neck. Shit that all guys know how to do in the moment, but they often fail to ramp up the interaction towards physical contact | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Better looking.It would be best if you can compare and learn from your interactions with the 8/10 women vs the easy lays you have. Where do you think you're falling short or could improve on? Usually, just working on your social skills and adding to your success as a whole will go a long way to getting you better partners. For me, it was keeping a level of value in the girls eyes. I've met attractive girls who were interested at first but lost interest because I took the interaction in a boring direction, I ca… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:11 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Let me be clear, I think there's minimal chance of pulling this off, because on top of not seeing her for 2 years, you also have oneitis for her which means you'll probably mess up even if you did set up a meet with her. But, since you have some history you could just shoot her a "Hey (name) How have you been?" and see what happens. Playing the old "I'll do it myself" trick you did in high school though....Oooof I can definitely relate. Always take the hookup route instead, lol. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:36 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Good man. Practice is really the only way to learn and internalize this stuff. There was a time where I wouldn't even bother approaching a group with guys. Then you realize you're doing nothing but adding value to their night by socializing with them, and all doubt goes out the window. There WILL be that odd group that acts very stuck up and doesn't engage, but by not being shaken I've actually turned around a couple of those groups. Usually when I get a negative reaction I just give an unbroken… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:30 PM |
| 14 | Do you talk about sex during a date?Your post history is kinda sus but...for anyone genuinely interested - I take pointers from Ultimate Man Project on sexualizing interactions, which I've come to realize is key. I've gone through too many interactions where a girl might have actually been interested, but I kept it way too platonic and friendly so it went no where. One question UMP brings up is "what's your opinion of (x) guys?" Usually x is the nationality of the girl he's talking to. Usually they're critical regardless of what g… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:23 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I probably would too. Recently I opened a group of 6+ girls at a discoteca because I had some good dance moves and got the eye of one of the chicks. The others were pretty warm to me after that. Most girls are terrible dancers, and I'm into house/melbourne shuffle so it's really easy to impress them that way. But... sometimes you're surrounded by mixed groups. An example is when I went to one of those arcade bars and practically every group was mixed, so I had no choice and just wanted to improv… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Failed to Hit On a Cute Black Chick at a Rooftop Pool PartyIf it's a loud place where you can barely hear each other, the best I've found is just having rock solid body language and sub-communication. Pretty much every time I failed on the dance floor, I recall doing something beta that communicated I was intimidated or not assertive. Awkward touching is a big one for most guys, if you're gonna grab a girl's hand or grab her around the waist to bring in for a dance, fucking do it with confidence. And yeah having some good rhythm helps. The pool parties … | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:58 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]The only strategy I have is: approach one member of the group (guy or girl) in a friendly way and, as quickly as possible, start talking to the other members of the group. If you only focus on one, they're gonna eventually feel like talking to you is a chore and want to return attention to their friends. Usually I use situational stuff to spark conversation. From there, you can ask about the group members and figure if the guys are boyfriends or not. I like to spend a few minutes engaging multip… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Taking a breakThat's good, you should always tap into successful people you're cool with so you can learn. They're your allies. If you feel self-conscious about asking your boys for advice, you can simply reframe the question to something like "hey, remind me how you and (gf) met?" and pull useful info from that. It's good to ask this when they're both in front of you, so you get both sides of the story. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | women put on cold front in clubsAt the same time you gotta be an adult and control your emotions. Not only is it humiliating to act that way, but it's a waste of energy when the person literally barely knows you. They have zero obligation to care about your ranting and if anything will just embarrass you even harder. I get that game can get frustrating. But if you have no motivational progress after years then you're just doing something wrong. It's hard to accept because people wrongly assume time invested is the only factor,… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Taking a breakI briefly had some jealousy towards friends and acquaintances who were able to have solid social lives, but I very quickly changed my mentality to: learning what they're doing and how to incorporate it into my own life. My social life is throttled by my studies, but there's still things anyone can improve on. These are people who are all very friendly to me, so being jealous towards them is a stupid thing to do. If anything, ask them questions to get insight like "hey how did you meet so-and-so"… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Taking a breakI feel you man. I'm on that STEM life grind in school. Not only am I constantly busy with work, but opportunities to go out are few and far between, and I've botched most of the opportunities I've had even with warm approaches. Cold approach in your situation is brutal. I'd really recommend building a social group instead, since they'll serve the double purpose of being a support system w hen life gets tough, as well as being an opportunity to meet women. It's also easier in this situation to ke… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:29 PM |
| 4 | get to know to the game my self, any adviceOn top of the rest, get good at telling stories. Funny/shocking stories are gold in any social situation as long as they aren't too intense. Also, emote and deliver your stories with energy, people will be more interested. Another thing I've done recently is make lighthearted comments about a girl's psychology. Most people like diving below the surface about themselves, but girls REALLY love it. Here's a basic example I did with this 8/10 girl I talked to last week who initially was acting disin… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:18 PM |
| 19 | How do introverts get girls?Great point. When thinking of my introvert friends who have girlfriends....alot of times they just met them through their friend group. In some cases they knew each other for several years before actually dating. But these people are not socially awkward, just introverts. I'll say, there's WAYYYY more girls into gaming than when I was younger. I'm taking a wild guess that OP is into video games and I've seen more than a few people link up through that community. Obviously requires playing with e… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you fuck people you're not very attracted to?Some guys just want hole and will go after any girl that's down. I'm definitely not like that. I require some type of attraction. There are times though I meet girls I'm not immediately struck by, but I find things to be attracted to. Usually it's their personality or something about their anatomy that I didn't initially notice (I don't always look girls up and down at first glance). Also, if they were the first ones to show attraction to me and make efforts to talk to me, I find that attractive… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Sure I could see that happening if a girl has had a couple bad experiences. This gets into the nuance of socializing - the type who are being cautious are usually super nice and trying to put you down gently. But others are just plain rude, manipulative or dishonest. Having a good BS meter helps save some of your sanity when dealing with people like that. Don't get your chain jerked and have standards on how you expect someone to conduct themselves. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 04:54 PM |
| 4 | 4 ways to go for the first kissit's an old pre-selection trick I picked up somewhere. You're thinking talking about an ex as some taboo subject, but only if you do what most people do: just bitch or talk down their ex. When you briefly speak positively about them or about how they loved (x) thing about you, or you'd do (x) thing for them - that's showing a higher value and character. I've used this at least twice now and it doesn't derail anything because the ex isn't the focus of the line, the point of the line is pre-select… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 04:50 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Yeah it almost never happens especially with someone you've only known a few days - because they aren't inclined to give the truth to someone they have little history with, and ultimately they're trying to save face or rationalize their poor behavior to themselves. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 04:01 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]I think it can be 1 and 2, based off how much OP was infatuated with the girl. If you actually like the chick, OP - I think it's worth posing a straight up question on what she's looking for. If her behavior continues to go against what she claims, I'd honestly criticize and blow her off...but that's me. Killing the vibe with the cold silent treatment is enough to annoy me. What's stupid is that girls I've blown off for doing that will hit me up days or weeks later. It may be guilt or maybe it c… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Why do I feel invisible to women but a catch to gay people?Yeah if clubs aren't your thing, you just gotta put yourself out there in other venues as much as possible. Maybe you prefer rock concerts or rec sports or fitness groups, etc. I'm in college where you get tossed into an environment with tons of women and basically filter down to the social circles you vibe best with. I definitely do not click with most of the liberal arts major/party chick types. I do click well with STEM majors and that's where I've met a lot of high quality girls. If you're n… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever shown interest in you first?Definitely, it's great vibes and a good way to build a social group, make some stories, and fill your phone with tons of awesome pictures and videos. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:33 AM |
| 6 | Why do I feel invisible to women but a catch to gay people?IMO gay men are simply just more direct and daring with their interest. I've been lifting consistently for a while - recently I've met a few who pretty quickly after meeting them would comment on my body. Women are rarely going to be that forward, especially really hot and arrogant women who have an ego or just higher standards. When it comes to just surface level attention, those types of girls show very few men attention. In my experience, they'll usually avert eye contact or act indifferent b… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I used to have a similar resentment, but ironically at the beginning of my journey rather than deep into it like yours. It was mostly fueled by all the moody/petty bullshit I got from girls while learning to game better. In my case it was mostly my fault - I was coming off 2 years of dead social life and rusty social skills. There's a few ways I improved my attitude about resentment though: For petty/aggravating things: just accept it's part of human psychology and social dynamics and you have t… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get laid in a foreign country where they only speak their language and definitely not English?I recently went to Meixco and hit a few discotecas. I know a little Spanish, but with the music blaring and girls speaking way too fast, I effectively didn't understand a word, so all I could do was use body language and physical contact, which is the prime approach in a nightclub anyways...so in a way it was easier. They played pitbull so I understood some of the music, lol. Helped me get more into state. If we're talking about while you're out and about and the environment is not seductive or … | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:10 AM |
| 9 | women put on cold front in clubsSome guys got no shame, throwing a tantrum because their beta behavior didn't get them some tail. Personally I would struggle to even process someone being that pathetic and just brush it off, unless they got physical. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:02 AM |
| 5 | what would you say are the most common mistakes men make when interacting with women they like??Basically being too anxious about the interaction which makes them mess up, get awkward, and stifles their true personality. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Oh gotcha. For fleeting day-time approaches I agree quantity is definitely huge. But in special situations had more than a few girls who warmed up and eventually gained attraction over very long periods of time. FWIW, it's happened mostly in college classes, girls who didn't show attraction initially but did after later interactions with days/weeks or even months between. Usually because I took a different approach or something just clicked in our interaction down the line. It's gotten me 2 lays… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:20 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]The end goal is getting laid but flirting itself is fun because I crave playful or sexual feminine energy. Gives you a rush like few things can. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:13 AM |
| 12 | 4 ways to go for the first kissThis is one I did recently that was pretty smooth: After a decent amount of hugging/holding hands and being close, I noticed she would look and stare at my lips while we were talking. I'd call her out while kind of laughing, "Are you looking at my lips?" Girl smiles and says "I mean...yeah a little bit". I laugh and pull her closer basically escalate, "it's cool, I get alot of compliments from girls/my ex used to bite the fuck out of them all the time while making this moaning sound." (I actuall… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:11 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Cool stuff. Your ratios are definitely rough, but they would be better simply by going to those social environments. Cold approaches in everyday places is just plain hard, people are in a rush all the time. Do you think you kind of half-assed alot of those approaches just to reach a high quantity? | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:57 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]You're thinking too much of the ideal situation: being some kind of chad that is attracting multiple gorgeous women. Game (which is really just social skills) is a huge help for anyone. I've lost count how many guys I've met with girlfriends who are more attractive than them. I'm talking overweight, average looking guys too. I also am friends with those typical "chads" and seen them get rejected by average chicks. It's not all about looks and status for 100% of women. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Has a woman ever shown interest in you first?I'm a raver myself. Having some cool outfit or gear will get you approaches by alot of people, including all those hot rave bunnies. They're kinda hard to game tho in my experience, they're usually bouncing around between guys and girls and hard to hook. I wear light up glasses or helmets and people flock to it. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever shown interest in you first?Yes many times, usually it's through staring. More daring girls will do physical stuff like grab my arm or even spank me, yup. Worth saying that only half of these girls would I consider going after, the rest I just didn't find attractive. Approaching is different. Besides those physical moments I mentioned, i've very rarely been approached for a conversation. A good portion of the times it happened - it was because they overheard something I talked about, and not because they had attraction. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Subconscious reaction to hot chicksI'm less intimidated by hot chicks these days. I basically put them in their own group of girls that I try out assertive/bold game on because I have zero expectations anyways. I actually find myself more nervous around slightly less attractive women who tick other boxes important to me. Best advice is to stop thinking about her hotness and just see her as a person. The alternative is: you get preoccupied with her beauty and become needy, which guarantees you won't get with her. So do the opposit… | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys spend your Friday nights usually?In my area in socal, Fridays is no cover, Saturdays is like $20 for guys.expect tonspend like $15$ for a drink at the venue. I usually like to have a couple on top of pregame to really loosen up. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys spend your Friday nights usually?I'm a premed student so I've had to spend the odd weekend studying. But I try to go to college age club areas like every other weekend. I force myself out even if I don't want to and do my best to game or at least interact | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game)I hear mixed things, some guys say go super sexual physically and verbally on the dance floor. Others act more relaxed and less sexual. I can do either pretty naturally, so it's all about what has the bigger rate of success for me. I wanna lean more towards sexual because it's so loud and crowded anyways at these nightclubs. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game)Facts, when her friends crashed in I just started talking to others. Trying to override the friends is never easy for me. I ended up going hard on the dance floor and 2 chicks who stonewalled me earlier started coming up trying to dance. Then the club threw the "get out" lights on and it ruined the vibe. Tried pulling but they just wanted to leave. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game)Got it. Yeah in this venue I was seeing the same people repeatedly all night, good point. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Worth it to try again?If you're really good at pulling, going solo isn't much of an issue, because you'll be so active that you will rarely be alone. But if you're inexperienced and get approach anxiety often, yeah going with a sidekick is better and it will might be discouraging without that anchor between your sets. If you're wingman isn't free tonight ,you could try going to those "social" venues that have various things to do besides a dance floor (pool/arcade/darts/ping pong etc). You can meet people while playi… | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 02:19 AM |
| 6 | My first day gameThe only way to get better is to go out and practice. Trying to read about game until you "feel ready" is the biggest mistake newbies make. Props on taking the chance, now do it many more times and at a greater frequency per day. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Anybody have experience with steroids/TRT?Yes one cycle I did briefly a while ago. I'd prefer not to have the stress of sourcing/managing a cycle but definitely achieving your physique goals will give you a measure of confidence. Don't think it will solve all your problems though. You should absolutely NOT blast tren especially as your first compound. The negatives will far outweigh the positives and it may change your behavior in ways you're not prepared to handle. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:55 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Should be easy to tell, fuck me eyes are when they have lower eye lids and are holding eye contact harder. "Tall" stares are more wide eyed and brief. Both are good though | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game)Alright, I'm totally fine with moving on but it felt like I was ejecting too early and could have done more. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game)Maybe I'm reading wrong but her body language didn't come off as disinterest to me, it felt more like, show me what you got/are you really confident. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game)you think being verbally sexual too would have been beter? | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game)Well she responded super positive right off the bat. I'm a half decent dancer so that's probably part of it. Then she just hit me with this and stood there like she expected a certain type of response. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game)Figured having her ass grind on my lap was sexual enough lol, but I've opened verbally sexual before too, I see your point. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game)I'd say drink or 2, she looked tipsy, not drunk | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Advice on a Shit test I've gotten alot lately (Night game)She backed into me and we grinded on each other for most of that short time. It was immediately physical. Girl was pretty, like an 8.5, But it's like she got her kick and then went cold. Something I saw happen to countless dudes that night. One minute they're freaking on a girl,.the next theyre walking around alone. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 10:41 PM |
| 7 | Why do girls post pictures with handsome guy(s) on dating apps?Never waste the chance of getting a great picture in your album. People love IG and snap followers, just ask for theirs so you can get the pic and improve your profile. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | If girls see that other girls they know/associate with are interested in a guy then they themselves will be interested in that guy (not always but I’d say frequently) even if they initially did not think that guy was attractive themselvesI've seen it happen. But I've also seen the exact opposite where girls have very strong negative opinions of a guy who their friends find attractive. May depend on their actual tastes or just the personality of the negative friend. But if your scenario is what happens, great. One scenario that is similar to this but even stronger is: having an actual positive rapport with the friends. It signals to them you must be a cool guy and disarms them. It's happened a few times to me in college where I'v… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 09:54 PM |
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