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I thought that was going to be a story about a guy finding his balls, but what was I thinking. This is PPD after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:50 PM
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You know how you guys always say you are attracted to 80% of women? Well, if they all stopped wearing make up that number will go down to 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:46 AM
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You have to understand that this is the only "game" that women have. It basically boils down to "omg, men are such pigs, I'm just trying to dance with my friends here and I'm being treated like a piece of meat, that sucks so much" and so on and so forth. When they use their "game" on any guy, the guy becomes a total simps right away "no, no, I'm not like that. I'm not like the other guys, I swear, I respect you for your mind, I don't think about sex with you at all". And you know what's funny. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:46 AM
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It's literally the first word in your post's title. But maybe I'm the one taking the crazy pills here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:09 AM
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I fail to see how an UNWANTED advance can result in a (consensual) relationship of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:47 AM
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You kind of lost me at "actively pursuing". If you are actively pursuing women, then what is their motivation to get back to you in a timely manner? You can only play one of two roles in the mating dance. You are either the pursuer or the pursued. If you take on the pursuer role, the woman has no choice but to take the pursued role. And just like anyone who is being pursued (sold to), she will take her time making a decision, kicking tires, testing out all the other competitors and taking her sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:46 AM
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Because neediness is not cured by going to a prostitute. It is cured by giving up the belief that you need others in order to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:17 AM
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Improving yourSELF is a misnomer. What is this SELF that needs to be improved? Isn't this assuming that the SELF is somehow not good enough as is? You can improvise social skills, flirting skills, kissing skills, bedroom skills, your looks and style. But what is there to improve in the SELF exactly? It's such a nebulous concept, it is meaningless. Unsuccessful men can always stand to improve on specific skill sets that will get them more women. Not surprisingly, most of them absolutely refuse to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:46 PM
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I could only wish to find women who are promiscuous and sex positive. It seems most of them are so hung up on this idea that they have to find a man to commit to them before anything sexual takes place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:43 PM
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I've been desperate enough to hit on unattractive women and it has always been the worst experience of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:42 PM
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I use sex as leverage to get myself a relationship and not because it's enjoyable out of in itself. Why am I not good enough to be committed to? I only use men to satisfy my own egoistical need to have someone buy the cow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:41 PM
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How does an unwanted advance translate to marriage and children exactly, not accounting for rape and a forced marriage (like certain Muslim countries)?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:39 PM
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Lol that is not the solution of men's problems at all. Their problem is their neediness and desperation which makes them undervalue themselves and overvalue women. You don't solve this by making prostitution legal. You solve this by men giving up the idea that they need love and sex to be happy and fulfilled. And once they learn to give themselves happiness and fulfillment, the power will be all theirs and they won't have to chase women anymore .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:37 PM
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Yes it is. Guys always go for the women who give them a hard time and keep turning them down for dates. There was a post earlier from a guy that kept asking a girl out and she had an excuse every time. He is now heartbroken because he was expecting her to fall in love with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:35 PM
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I don't know if it is hive mind exactly, but women want what every other woman wants. It's as simple as that. Works the same way in economics and everything else in life. We want to buy products other people want to buy. We want to go to restaurants other people want to go to. We travel to destinations other people want to travel to. Plus, when a man has options and other women are interested in him, that makes him hard to get and that's the most exciting thing for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:22 PM
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There is a universal that states: People never want what they can get and always want what they can't get. I've had women simp for me like that. At first, it feels amazing, but then.....then you figure out that the reason they put you on a pedestal isn't because you are so fucking amazing and godlike, but because of their own neediness. It really becomes all about them and feeding their deep insecurities. That's why neediness and putting others on a pedestal is such a turn off. I tell men all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:53 AM
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Romance is something you've been sold in movies, music and books. It's a social construct. It is dangerous because it makes you idealize women and sex and it works against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:46 AM
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The reason women "change" their feelings so quickly is because their attraction is largely based on the man's behavior. When a man behaves like a man, doesn't make excuses for it, doesn't make excuses for being interested in her and is confident, all is good. But many men are fakers, so they can present a confident front, but their inner excuser slips out every once in a while and the woman can realize the guy is actually not what he says he is. The same could happen to men as well if they figur…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:45 AM
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Past 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:41 AM
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The slim no ass thing has only ever been pushed by white and Asian chicks. Sorry for those suckers who haven't fucked black and Latin chicks cause you don't know what you are missing. "Bandonkadonk"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:39 AM
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Who gives a fuck. Nobody is making you do any of this. You do it out of your own volition. If you are dating lazy ass bitches who bring nothing to the table that's a YOU problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:29 AM
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Top piss liberals off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:17 AM
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Ngga, tell me you are sexually frustrated without telling me you have never been laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:17 AM
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While the little boys are complaining about how unfair dating is, the real men are fucking all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:16 AM
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99% of women listen to melodic pop or rock songs either by Taylor Swift or by a hot sexy guy like Enrique Inglesias and John Mayer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:41 PM
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That's just whataboutism. Men are 99% of the complainers Re not getting sex or love. Women seem to be doing okay. So who do you think has the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:24 PM
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I've never seen a guy who has no life and who believes a girlfriend will solve all his problems in life actually successfully get love. I've never seen anyone who needed love actually find it successfully. But everyone who has chosen to pursue activities and socializing just because they enjoy them and who don't center their lives on finding a partner, have generally had a much easier time getting a bf or gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:23 PM
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Technology is an accelerator. What you are seeing now is the result of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:11 PM
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I think this is too far fetched. You need to look into our own backyard. Who benefits from the gender wars? Who benefits from both men and women being unhappy? You want a hint. Here is an exercise for you. Go to a bookstore or a news stand and purchase two magazines. One should be a typical men's magazine. The other one a typical woman's magazine. You need to open them both up and use the men's magazine as a code cracker for the woman's magazine. Why? Because as a man, you instinctively understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:49 PM
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All of this presupposes that women are the enemy or that there is a battle of the sexes. Please understand that there not only is no battle of the sexes, BUT there cannot possibly be a battle of the sexes otherwise our species would have never survived.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:36 PM
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The problem is you can't figure out what women are thinking. And if you try to think for them, you usually think wrong. It's much better to focus on what you want to achieve and go for that. You want a girlfriend? Multiple girlfriends? One night stands? Figure out how to get those and go for it. Don't sit there trying to figure out if the woman wants something else and how to mold yourself into the thing she wants. Ain't gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:17 AM
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No, I think you are right about peoples motivations actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:16 AM
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I don't understand who you are referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:54 AM
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Mia Khalifa doesn't like to be known as a former pornstar. She much rather prefers to be known as a terrorist sympathizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:52 AM
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OF is basically porn. Do you think porn stars have happy marriages and family lives? You may want to look at the suicide rates in that industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:51 AM
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The worlds oldest dating advice: Treat a whore like a queen and a queen like a whore. Women who have had their asses kissed their whole lives and who men treat like they are lucky to be breathing the same air as her, tend to be very stuck up and bitchy and while they may be appalled by a guy who treats them like a whore, they will soon fall in love with him, because they never get treated like that. The other type of woman, that has been treated poorly by men all her life, has been used for one …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:48 AM
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It creates most of men's problems. Fear, anxiety, am I going to get me tooed, she probably thinks I'm a loser, that I'm creepy, she's gonna tell me off, what if she has a boyfriend, what if, what if, what if. Even if a guy manages to approach a woman he's interested in, he will already be offended by all the ways she rejected him and insulted him....in his own imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:18 AM
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Actually being worried about what women are thinking is the second biggest problem all men face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:50 AM
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I'm pretty sure OP is the only man ever alive to be able to read women's minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:49 AM
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That's the same logic addicts and alcoholics use to excuse their drinking or addiction. I jUsT cAn'T hElP mYsElF!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:49 AM
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Everything is about sex. Except sex. That's about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:47 AM
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Not really. Has always been the reality for me to begin with. Women have even wolf whistled at me like a bunch of construction workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:53 PM
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Women have more sex than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:13 PM
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Female pickiness is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:05 PM
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As I said, female pickiness is a myth. Just because Caspar Milquetoast can't meet a woman's emotional needs and create butterflies, it doesn't mean women are picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:04 PM
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I never said that one should sit around and wait for women to come to them. Again, you are conflating approaching/initiating with pursuing. Two completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:52 AM
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The problem is when they say "aren't women supposed to like me just how I am". No, they are not. Who the fuck told you that? Men all over the world refuse to put in even minimal effort into dressing in a cool and attractive way, grooming themselves, taking care of their appearance. I guess it's all rooted in some insecurity that "that's just not who they are" and that they will come on too strong and flashy if they were to dress up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:51 AM
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You know something. You sound very judgmental. I have found that when you practice non-judgmental acceptance with women, they seem to sexually open up and end up having the most wonderful sexual experiences that most men will never know about. They will tell you they like it up the ass, or like being called a slut in bed or having sex with other women. And stuff that's even dirtier and naughtier than this. While you guys sit around in your little jerckle circle and claim women don't even like se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:48 AM
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Advice is not the problem. The problem is that none of the guys complaining about lack of success with women are doing anything, unless you count "I made a profile on an app". Then you ask them what else. "I also made a profile on another app".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:46 AM
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I don't think so at all. Women select all kinds of low life's to fuck all the time. They are not nearly as choosy as you make them out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:44 AM
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Here is what it means to be a modern woman. This is a typical day in the life of: She wakes up around noon. She briefly takes a look at her phone and notices that she has 500 new matches on her dating app and 10,000 new followers since the day before. She gets up, shits, showers and shaves and takes a few nude selfies and pics of her feet. Posts them on OF and earns $5,000 within the hour. She then responds to a few messages on Tinder and arranges a 10 person gangbang with all Chads, all taller …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:43 AM
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I'm not denying one should always try to look their best, but I do not buy into your black and white view of the world. There are a lot of women out there and they are not all dating the same guy. Otherwise, we'd all look the same and will all be mentally regarded because of the lack of genetic diversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:16 AM
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I think you need to learn to read good and other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:18 PM
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Russia has had a very high imbalance of makes for females ever since world war 2 and I would describe them as anything but peaceful. But then you look at some of the Middle East counties that are basically sausage farms and your theory certainly holds true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:40 PM
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The reason that women seem to "choose" such guys is because she's allowed to have only so many publicly known boyfriends before she becomes considered damaged goods by the larger society. That number is usually below 10. So they have to choose carefully. In reality, women bang a lot of other guys that don't fit that stereotype but those guys "don't count".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:37 PM
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For one, stop telling yourself you need a partner to be happy and fulfilled and that if you don't have one, you must be somehow defective. Learn to enjoy activities in life that you do by yourself. Treat yourself like a queen/king instead of like a peasant. This is how one learns not to fear being alone and gets all their power back. Then they can start meeting others not because they are so desperate for companionship, but because they enjoy their company, sex and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:00 PM
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As I said in my original post, men are brainwashed to assume the pursuer role. I never said that this is how it has to be. Men just do it for some reason because they don't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:57 PM
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Your problem is that you want something out of women. They can sense that and they don't want to give it to you. That's the problem with needy people. It's all about them, them, them and what they need to get out of you. Learn to not need women to be happy and fulfilled and they will start chasing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:38 PM
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You are conflating pursuing with initiating. They are not the same. The reality is the person who chases is always giving their power away to the person they are chasing. They are giving them the power of choosing and making a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:36 PM
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You are looking at this in completely the wrong way. There are only two roles in the mating dance: pursuer or pursued. When one party assumes one role, the other one automatically assumes the other. The two roles cannot be mixed. It's one or the other. Most men automatically assume the role of pursuer because they've been brainwashed their entire lives that they have to pursue women. Apparently, you have fallen into the same trap. Unfortunately for you and for millions of men, the pursuer role i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:01 PM
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That's why it's easier to get laid in your teens than later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:37 PM
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I was always more horny that I was shy or socially anxious so I got out there and did whatever I had to do to learn how to date and get laid. Nobody can motivate you but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:10 PM
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I EXCLUSIVELY date women with daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:07 PM
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All of this presupposes that the man knows exactly what he wants. The average PPDer can't screen women for anything because he is ready to accept everything and thus, gets nothing. The more narrowly you screen for your desired criteria in women, the more YOU become the chooser. But that won't work for them until they get out of their scarcity mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:04 PM
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Another man who informs his entire world view through TikTok. How surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:58 AM
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Mia Khalifa, a "former" porn star and a terrorist supporter, doesn't seem to have any problem getting into relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:56 AM
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It's not about flawless bodies actually and the fact that people watch extreme pornography is because they continuously desensitize themselves to the normal sex stuff. It's like any drug addict who builds a tolerance and after a while taking the same amount no they drug administered in the same way doesn't cut it anymore. There are some pretty good articles on line that explain the actual physiological mechanism behind it, but basically normal sex causes a gradual increase in dopamine, while hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:54 AM
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High internet speed 4K pornography has already changed how men relate to women and it has been doing it for the past 20 years. Young men can't get it up anymore for a real girl in their bed because they've conditioned their dick and their brain to be turned on by pixels on a screen. While before if a men was horny, he would go out and at least try to score. Now he can open up three different browsers and play a porno with a blond, red head and a black chick taking dick from some alpha male, whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:15 PM
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You can pose those exact questions to yourself or any guy. If a guy is chronically single and hasn't held hands with a woman in 5 years, perhaps something is wrong with him if nobody wants him. So why should anybody want him? Yet he wants the 25 year old virgin with a great career and character (which is a figment of his imagination). Yes, quality people get snatched up all the time. They also get divorces, breakup, play the field, cheat, etc. I don't know where you live and what you want, so I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:11 PM
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You are not getting it at all. It's not that he is paying for dates. It's what this represents. He is being protective and is taking charge. For women, the act of surrendering to a stronger man (than themselves) is pleasurable. When they meet a man who is weaker than they are, they are turned off. Hence how she compared her current bf to her ex. Her ex was seemingly passive, inattentive and not taking charge. She is definitely using the wrong word to describe him though. Provider is not it. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:08 PM
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I think what YOU are forgetting is that most of the men posting here have had sex only a handful of times in their entire lives and have probably never had an actual girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:02 PM
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Yeah but there is no woman that gives a rimjob like a BPD woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:43 PM
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Oh but women get fucked by male strippers all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:25 PM
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True! BPD are masters at playing the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:23 PM
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Nearly a virgin? As in she only did anal and oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:21 PM
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Everybody has inherent worth. What makes someone worthwhile is whether they treat themselves as worthwhile. If they don't, then others won't either. People simply take clues from you about how you should be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:40 PM
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If men expended the same energy in making themselves more appealing to women instead of spending it on rationalizing why it's women's fault for why they never get any pussy, none of you will ever have dating problems ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:37 PM
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There are some things in life you just have to accept. Why do we need to eat food? Why do we need to shit? Why do we need to wash our hands? Why just not let shit dry up on our assholes and walk around like that all day? Why do you need to shower and be a productive member of society? You don't have to do any of that stuff, but you probably won't get too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:35 AM
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Then you must be reading a different forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:25 PM
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Not true at all. There could be several things a person is doing to turn others off. Including being negative and hostile, needy and desperate, trying too hard or not trying at all (sitting at home and self isolating).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:25 PM
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Take a look at all posts by male members and the majority of comments. Do these sound like they come from people who over value themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:17 PM
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You are not taking into account the flip side of this coin. When someone thinks of themselves as an unattractive, undesirable loser. They will keep turning people off making it into a self fulfilling prophecy. Attractiveness for men doesn't work the same way as it does for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:55 PM
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Anyone who makes other peoples' opinions about him more important than his own opinion of him, is the saddest loser on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:53 PM
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By the same token, you get to decide women's sexual value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:52 PM
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Actually it's not like at all. It's more like, you are in the job market and you think your skills are worthless and you are worthless and you will never be able to get a good job and you should just give up. So you try and apply here and there and go on a couple of interviews and companies reject you because they can sense your defeatist and needy attitude from a like away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:51 PM
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You need to read some of the regular romance novels, not the super popular ones. They all follow the same formula. It may actually teach you a think or two about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:35 PM
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On the contrary. I think way more men tend to suffer from delusions of inadequacy than delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:58 PM
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Of course you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:54 PM
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Just when I thought you had hit the jackpot, you ruined it by saying that other men decide what a man's value is. WRONG! Only you can decide what your value is. You either hold your self acceptance hostage to having to achieve some external success criteria OR you make a choice to value yourself and accept yourself just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:56 PM
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"Good men" is a misnomer. Because people assume it means a guy who is respectful, has a job, treats a woman decently, etc. The fact is there are plenty of guys like that out there. The real problem is the lack of guys who are sexually arousing to women. Hence why a woman can go out with a guy who is the perfect "good man" on paper and still have no sexual chemistry with him whatsoever. This in no way shape or form makes those men bad or worthless or anything like this. Simply unarousing! The pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:18 PM
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These women are no different than the men who exclusively pursue bimbos because they believe obtaining that "trophy" is somehow going to increase their value as a person in the eyes of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:12 PM
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Of course! It's always the women's fault. Even when it's the man's!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:41 PM
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Who said anything about abstaining? You are making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:41 PM
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You are right. Relationships aren't for lazy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:15 PM
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Or learn to actually play the game well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:58 AM
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People never want what they can get and always want what they can't get. A desperate, needy, average guy is what any woman can get and therefore nobody wants them. If only guys found some kind of a purpose or mission in life that doesn't revolve around women and vagina, they might stand a chance. But alas. Most men see woman as the key holding goddess. The one that holds the key to his happiness, his confidence, him having a bigger dick, a better job, his peers' and parents' respect or even envy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:56 AM
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I'm plain looking and I'm not willing to do anything to make myself more attractive. Also not willing to go out of my way to meet guys. Always a winning strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:54 AM
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Where do all these chubby uggos find 6'5 jacked blond billionaire Vikings to fuck? Asking for a few single female friends of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:23 AM
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Wtf blackhole did I just fall into?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:59 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me how good men are at shooting themselves in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:32 PM
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Nice guys just hide their lack of self confidence behind their seriousness, sincerity and morality. That's all there is to it. If you never try anything, you never risk getting rejected. If you are always nice and accommodating, the worst you will hear is "let's just be friends". So the nice guy assumes he wasn't nice enough and has to be even nicer so next time she says "let's just be bf/gf". Still never making any moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:05 PM
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If a woman said what he said, that she fucks men who are below her and shows the same disdain for them the way OP does, she'd be publicly crucified here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:49 AM
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Success of in itself means nothing. What people conflate is success with confidence. Men are conditioned to think that they can only behave confidently when they become successful. So when they gain success in the eyes of society, they give themselves permission to be confident. But not everyone does. Many think even if they reach a certain milestone, they are still not good enough because there is someone better. So they work even harder and harder to achieve what society wants out of them. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:09 AM
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The obsession with being loved is also what is causing most of men's problems. They've become so needy and desperate for love, that they have managed to give away all their power just to chase some floozy. I think men's biggest weakness has always been that they see (certain) women as some key holding goddesses, that hold the key to their happiness, success in life, high self esteem and confidence, bigger dick, pride, etc. In reality, they are just women, but those guys chase after that pussy li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:20 PM
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"women struggles are just like rich people losing half their fortune"......a little later: "Why don't women have any empathy for my struggles with getting my peepee wet? Whaaaaa whaaaa whaaaa!!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:56 PM
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That covert neediness is really the crux of their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:46 PM
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That's a bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:03 PM
1

It's actually the exact opposite of what this girl said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:01 PM
0

Of course they are jealous. Cummon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:00 PM
-4

Wow, a self aware woman!!! Just kidding just kidding don't ban me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:37 PM
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I will also take a pair of lips and a butthole wrapped around my schlong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:36 PM
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What great, inhuman efforts are men actually putting into dating? They installed an app and swiped a few hundred times? Ouch! Their thumbs are tired? Sooooo much effort!!! The horror! The horror! Stop asking women to take responsibility for your loneliness and refusal to socialize and be a normal human being. It's your responsibility to learn how to socialize and be a person women want to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:33 PM
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There have always been more single women in NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:14 AM
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NYC is a playboys playground. Ask me how I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:01 AM
2

The simplest answer is that there is no competition. When a woman feels she's gotten you and you ain't going anywhere, there is no incentive for her to maintain her good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:40 AM
1

All the time but is not like any woman will admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:38 AM
19

It feel nice to bang a girl who is grateful to get banged by a better looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:37 AM
-3

Has your way ever worked to get you the women you want? Let me guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:40 AM
-2

It's easier than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:39 AM
0

As I said, guys never believe my secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:39 AM
1

I'm in my 40s. Happily married, but I know if I were to become single today, I'd have a date lined up within a few hours. Unlike guys today, I overcame my fear of talking to women and going for what I want long time ago. I wasn't going to be handed anything, so I learned to go out and procure it for myself. I've had women wanting to get engaged, marry me, have kids with me. There was a period in my life I couldn't keep them off of me. Guys never believe my secret. It's easier than saying abra ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:01 AM
0

So is the ability to make more babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:14 PM
1

Oy vey.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:31 PM
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So transpose that onto yourself. It means accepting yourself for who you are, appreciating yourself, being loyal to yourself, treating yourself with care and importance. The same way you can love a woman and if someone tells you she has this flaw or that flaw and should be therefore unlovable, you will probably tell this person to go pound sand, because their opinion could never be as important as your opinion. When you love yourself, your opinion of you should always be more important than anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:24 PM
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What does bring loved by a woman even mean, really? If there is nothing there for her to love?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:19 PM
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The irony is that men want to be loved unconditionally by women, but they themselves are not willing to love themselves unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:08 PM
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Here are a few truths you need to live by: Attention to women is like water to fish or air to a person. It doesn't matter what women say or think. It's not that it doesn't matter to them. It doesn't matter to us, men, because we cannot think for women. They are free to think whatever it is they want. You don't have to BUY into anything women say, complain, bitch or moan about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:15 PM
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I mean many cultures around the world have been killing girl babies because they want a boy, which has led to some of the worst M to F ratios in places like a China, India and the Middle East. If you ever wondered why these pleases are a sausage farm and why there are millions of these men who mathematically don't stand a chance to find a partner, now you have your answer. So if there is male fetus killing virus, it will probably bring us to some sort of equilibrium.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:58 PM
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I mean men also want their women to do ass to mouth with little to no prep, so you can say we are a little delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:48 AM
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Of course not! Hahahahhahahwhahha. For it to help anyone, it will actually have to feature posts by people other than life long virgins and people would actually have to want to be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:30 AM
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I don't believe for a second that men really compete with each other. First of all, there are way too few men who actually approach women and initiate. And second, because of that scarcity of men who have even half of one ball, the reality is that women have to compete way more for men. Women are vicious with each other and I've seen life long friendships get broken up over a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:29 AM
1

My wife makes significantly more than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:32 AM
1

I can't quite understand what you are ranting about. Can you make your argument more succinct?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:31 AM
1

You are conflating too things. A guy will choose sex with a hot woman over an average or unattractive one even if it means he only gets to have sex wjth the hot one once and the average one, he can have whenever he wants. Why? Because it is in our genes best interest to procreate with a hot woman. Hot woman = healthier babies, better genes, etc. Same with the alpha male. He has better genes than the cowardly nice guy. A woman is not even expecting the alpha to stick around, but her mate selectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:43 PM
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I struggle to think of any of my friends or family who have actually had sex. I think we all came about through immaculate conception. I haven't even seen anyone talk to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:24 PM
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Women are out there having fun, posing for stupid TikTok videos and getting hit on by the cool guys. Losers stay home and write angry posts on PPD, AllPillsDebate and TRP forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:22 PM
2

Sitting at home and jerking off is easier and less scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:19 PM
4

There is a lot of evidence that in early Hunter gatherer societies everything was communal, including sex and child rearing. So probably everyone got some.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:54 PM
1

So you cannot control your sexuality? You can't just jerkoff and take a cold shower?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:39 PM
1

How do women control all the sex, options and power, yet there are a few men that have all the choice? If women can only get sex once a week by a guy who doesn't care for her, how does she have all the power and choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:13 PM
1

And who says the women those guys are dating are monogamous too? Isn't the usual complaint that women are dating multiple men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:47 PM
1

So for every woman who finds a guy on app there...gasp....a guy who finds a woman on an app. With a relatively 50/50 ratio of men to women, how does it make sense that there are a gazillion guys on the apps who aren't getting any?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:37 PM
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I mean you were the one talking about your big brain and typing on a computer and how advanced humans are. And how different we are from stupid monkeys, implying that humans have evolved beyond our basic animal nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:22 PM
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And you know who you are even more genetically closer to, almost identical in DNA? Those guys from Hamas who butchered 1,400 people a month ago, including women and babies. So yeah, we are so evolved because you are typing on a computer with your big brain. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:38 PM
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Lol, you guys are so caught up in that wolf study, although there are many other species like chimps, who are way more similar to us and who clearly exhibit the alpha/beta social structure. Also, all you need to do is look at the type of men most women go for to know what I'm saying is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:27 PM
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Women have emotional needs that those type of men meet. Since the dawn of man, guys have wondered why cavewomen choose the muscular alpha of the tribe, even though he doesn't objectively care for them and changes cavechicks like he changes his loin cloths. And wondered why they ignore the nice guy who cares for her and is willing to do everything to be with her. It is simple. The alpha of the tribe appears to have strong genes, him being an asshole means he is more capable of protecting her and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:59 AM
1

I mean I don't understand why men think honesty = telling a woman every single unattractive thing about yourself. Am I being dishonest if I don't tell my date about the brutally stinky bowel movement I took just before our date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:52 AM
1

Or they could both end up in bed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:48 AM
1

It's very simple. People never want this which they can get and always want this which they can't get. So you have to learn to play the game. If you are too available, sincere and serious, you are not presenting any challenge. You have to give people the pleasure of chasing you a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:44 AM
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If women who are not on the apps don't have problem getting dates, that means that there are a bunch of men out there asking them out and going on dates with them, meaning these men don't struggle. You are contradicting yourself all the way. I thought men didn't approach women anymore. I thought women shilled and canceled every guy who even dared look in their general direction. So how are these women meeting men then? There ain't some endless supply of men. The M to F ratio is basically 1:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:39 AM
1

People never want what they can get and always want what they can't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:47 AM
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If apps worked well for women, there would be more demand from women. Yet, the M to F ratio is at best 2:1 at worst 10:1. When gender population is roughly 50:50, that makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:46 AM
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Of course not. They want to date the young stuff, 20something year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:43 AM
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I don't understand what any of this means. How can you be insecure about others?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:36 AM
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A person who accepts themselves cannot be insecure. So you are not quite there but you are barking in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:18 AM
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Or I just identified your primary problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:10 PM
1

https://youtube.com/shorts/wg_ElNqdv8s?si=tP5zQVNb1O8WPDho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:54 PM
5

So you are going to tell me that women don't line up backstage to suck Mick Jaggers dick, although they are the 14th woman to do it for the night and he won't as much as learn their name? Or that every woman thinks James Bond is one of the sexiest fictional men, although he doesn't hide that he bangs a ton of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:48 PM
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You sound very needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:44 PM
3

You don't really understand how women work, do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:13 PM
6

I've never met a woman that wants a guy that nobody else wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:09 PM
6

Much better than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:00 PM
2

Until it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:03 PM
2

Clingy is just another word for "needy". First, let's define what "needy" means and then we will go into why it's no good. As the root of the word suggest, neediness centers around NEED. In the case of romantic relationships, it means that one person NEEDS the other. Typically, neediness comes from the belief that you need another person's love/approval/validation in order to be happy and fulfilled. Notice the causal chain - first you must obtain love and only THEN you can get happiness. The inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:57 AM
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If that's what you believe, it becomes your reality, a self fulfilling prophecy. I prefer to believe every single woman wants to get in bed with me. This has served me much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:40 AM
0

I want to know if you enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:19 PM
2

Is this a meeting of the terrorists or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:16 PM
3

I would have left you right then and there if you didn't care for French fries. What a monster you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:13 PM
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I input a 120lbs, 25 year old Asian girl with bachelors and high status and I got retuned 20% which is ridiculous considering Asians make up roughly 7% of the total US population.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:37 PM
2

You are totally misinterpreting what's going on. American men are so needy, that American women have figured out they can manipulate them and make demands, and those wimps will say "can I have another, madam". It's in human nature to take advantage of those weaker than us and American men are proving to be very weak. They have never say NO to a woman in their lives. They have never once out their wants above all else. They are so desperate for scraps of pity sex and love that they will let women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:10 AM
2

I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:48 AM
2

I mean you have already posted that you refuse to go to therapy. So please spare me. I have my doubts that you have done ANYTHING to improve your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:40 AM
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So what are you doing about it? Your post didn't mention even a single action that you have taken to become more romantically successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:59 AM
0

Go it - wimminz bad! Thank you for this revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:08 PM
0

So now that you know that nice doesn't get you pussy, what are you doing about it? Endlessly complaining and blaming everyone else for your predicament. What difference would it have made if they told you early on? What excuse would you have then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:07 PM
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In my experience Indian men are raised with an extremely low sense of self worth due to culture. The beliefs you hold are basically preventing you from being happy and having self worth because you believe you need to earn love and worth. And that unless you are successful in the eyes of society (or your parents most likely), you are basically worthless and inadequate. Those beliefs are simply a value system that you have chosen to believe and to judge yourself by. You want to ask yourself what …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:55 PM
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This is simply a value system that you have bought into. It's just not a very good way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:44 PM
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Nope. I don't need to justify my existence whatsoever. You sound like you come from an East Indian background? Am I close?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:41 PM
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So by we, you really mean the male centric society that was the dominant force at least until a few years ago. So by we, you really mean men. So why exactly are you blaming women for something that men have conditioned them to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:33 PM
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Again, you are not separating your profession - surgeon - and your skills as a surgeon from your SELF. Your identity. I am probably a way worse surgeon than you on the account of me not having even a single class of medical school. Yet, I am consider myself absolutely worthy and valuable. There are a lot of things I am very bad at. I'm very bad at home improvement stuff. At tennis. I can't ice skate. Yet, I continue to consider myself a good man of quality, loyal, honest, impressive, charming an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:32 PM
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Who is we?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:30 PM
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That did not answer my question whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:30 PM
4

If these evil wimminz are so...evil, then why spend so much time chasing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:29 PM
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You just haven't been friends with women in their mid and late 30s. The desperation of the bio clock is something else. Eventually most of them find a guy who amounts to the least annoying sperm donor. It's the exact same strategy most desperate men employ. They don't really care about the person, they just want the least annoying vagina haver.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:28 PM
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And why should anyone care about the opinions of total strangers that don't know the first thing about this person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:25 PM
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Why do you say that you cannot achieve happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:23 PM
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Who coddles women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:23 PM
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If you don't see any value or worth within yourself, if you can't be happy because you haven't achieved something by society's standards, then you really need to look internally and solve those problems with therapy. Contrary to popular belief, your value is not determined by other people, your profession, your success with women or lack there of. There is only one person who can give you value and self worth and that person is you. You are the only arbiter of your worth. Everyone else can have …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:22 PM
1

Oh yeah! Has your overthinking actually gotten you laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:19 PM
1

What if I told you your problem with women is caused by thinking too much and not too little.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:16 PM
-1

You have it backwards. Young women are the ones pursuing older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:15 PM
2

Damn, he was a baller.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:02 AM
7

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:11 AM
7

Quite the opposite actually. Red pillers imbue women with amazing powers that they certainly do not posses in essence putting them on the proverbial pedestal. TRP is actually one big simp fest cloaked in male empowerment lingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:19 PM
3

You know, you don't have to do everything (or anything for that matter) that women want you to do. Or did you not know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:17 PM
1

No one ever claimed otherwise. Don't know what delusional fantasies your mom told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:52 PM
1

That's not therapeutic/psycho babble lingo. That would be stuff like "You are gaslighting me" because he disagreed with you or "He is a clinical narcissist", just because he doesn't care about her drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:28 PM
1

Dead bedrooms are a result of our natural inclination to look for new ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:27 PM
1

Not only birth control affects that but also where they are in their cycle. When women ovulate, they are in their most fertile phase of their cycle and arguably the only time they can actually conceive. During those 4-5 days, women feel extremely horny and will typically seek out or show preference for more traditionally masculine men to get impregnated by. The rest of their cycle, they show preference for more feminine men and men who remind them of family (familiar), probably due to the fact t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:24 PM
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