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I was quipping about the 6'7" ex-bouncer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:41 PM
2

Is this like a humble brag or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:58 PM
1

I don't think that's a conscious strategy, the same way it's not a conscious strategy for men to chase after the most attractive women they think they can get, although they are in more demand and are less likely to treat him better. Desirable people are in demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:47 PM
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I find it so sexy when women are outraged over something they completely made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:13 PM
1

Well, it's more than that. You also have to think about how women are raised and socialized. They are told their entire lives that their entire value is in their sex. So they put way more of their self worth (if not all of it) into their sex. So when they are ready to give their sex to a man and he turns them down because he's either not interested or too apathetic/clueless to make a move immediately, it's like he is rejecting her entire being. It's very painful for them. Typically men don't put…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:09 PM
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It goes beyond that. The change is subtle and psychological. When we are single, we tend to want a partner. We may even feel lacking and needy. That actually turns women off like nothing else. When you get a girlfriend, all of a sudden you relax and stop caring about other women, about attracting them, you lose all interest in dating, etc. Perhaps it's the security that you have someone and you have sex on tap and all of a sudden you FEEL fulfilled and happy. And that lack of neediness attracts …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:39 PM
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That's just jealously speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:33 PM
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Not in my experience. Most women do like it rougher rather than gentler in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:59 PM
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There is a scientific study that shows men who view porn featuring two or more men and one woman, produce better quality sperm than men who view lesbian or solo woman porn. I will find the link later.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:18 PM
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It's the same argument as a woman who says "How can a man be sexually attracted to a pair of tits or a nice round ass without knowing anything about the person they are attached to? Are men stupid? Are men animals? Are men incapable of using their brains?" Women cannot understand how male attraction works and you can't understand how female attraction works. So you look at it as a negative, stupid, illogical, emotional, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:15 PM
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I saw a great meme on Facebook but was never able to find it in the wild. It was in the old meme format where a handsome compliments a woman at her desk and she says awww thanks and then the fat nerd does the same and she starts dialing HR. Except that the woman's photos were replaced with an 18 year old starting an OFs and being called an empowered woman. The second partner the meme, the fat guy was replaced by Leonardo DiCaprio dating a 25 year old and the girl was calling HR. Ah, the duality …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:45 AM
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Your biggest problem is that you believe you have a problem and that makes it real for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:49 AM
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Are you really going to tell me that men don't have a pecking order and everyone is welcome? You can't be that dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:47 AM
3

If a woman is offering herself to you, of course you have the right to reject her, but be prepared for her to hate you for ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:45 AM
3

And that's why being nice never works. You aren't playing to win. You are playing not to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:16 PM
5

Depends on what you call self improvement. At one point, you have to ask, what is wrong with my "self" that it needs to be improved? Do I even have a self? Or are you talking about growth in skills. Such as improving your social skills, flirting skills, dressing and grooming skills? That's different than trying to improve this nebulous thing called "self". I think every guy can improve his dating prospects, but it does require hard work if success hasn't come to him naturally. Most men refuse to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:08 PM
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Yeah that's an abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:17 PM
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How is it taking advantage of someone's sexuality to have mutually consensual sex without commitment to exclusivity? How old are you? 120?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:49 PM
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Why is it not wise? Because it's the only leverage you have over men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:46 PM
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I think you are just making things up that I never said in order to be judgmental and outraged. If you can point out where in my post I said anything about pretending, I'd be grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:22 PM
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I think it's the smart thing to do. Firstly, too many people don't have ANY abundance in their dating/sex lives, so they don't know exactly what they will like and won't like. They may get their clues from TV and social media about what they should like but unless they've experienced it, how would they know? Second, why settle for the first person who shows you some attention? That's not a guarantee you are a great match. Why rush to start an exclusive relationship? Is it driven by fear? What is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:36 PM
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She made herself available. Stood around by herself trying to signal she is open to a conversation. I'm sorry men don't always have the balls to say hi, I'm Bob, what's your name?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:35 PM
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People stay with each other for a few years and then move on. It's not like it's not already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:35 PM
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Well, if they actually took your advice above they maybe SOME chance. But I have tried advising guys like those to improve their looks, style and overall presentation and I'm usually met with extreme hostility and GFYs. Those guys end up posting profile reviews a few months later not having made any changes other than maybe a new photo here and there asking why they are still not getting any matches. I think Einstein said the definition of madness is doing the same thing over and over and expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:55 PM
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I think that's correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:53 PM
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It's not about getting someone who is more attractive. It's about someone who has different pheromones, dna make up, or as one wise man said: New ass is the best ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:53 PM
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I mean maybe monogamy isn't as natural as everyone thinks it is. We lie to ourselves and society lies to us that that's how it's supposed to be and that true love can overcome anything, but it's all BS. We are animals and have a need for new partners, pheromones, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:51 PM
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He is out resident doomer. Don't pay him any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:12 PM
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You can't? I urge you to visit r/Hingeapp and filter by profile review requests and tell me what you see. And in case, I'm not clear, I'm being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:05 PM
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As if men don't behave differently with women they are attracted to vs the ones they are NOT attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:04 PM
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I work 40 hours a week and barely find time to fuck my wife and spend quality time her. Wtf would I do if I worked 70 hours a week and had a bunch of kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:46 AM
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Have the confidence to do whatever you want in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:45 AM
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You are violating rules number 1 and number 2. The rules are: 1. Who cares what's she's thinking And You are the most important person in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:00 AM
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That's how women control men. Anything men do is a violation of some sorts. Our moms and their moms and their moms moms have been shaming men since the beginning of time. It's an old female tradition. Older than prostitution probably. Mmmmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:48 AM
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And here my wife was telling a story about her girlfriend who desperately wanted to be approached and talk to at a bar and nobody went to talk to her all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:04 AM
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If it's on TikTok it must be real. They don't let just anyone post videos on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:59 PM
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Yawn. Try better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:56 PM
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I'm telling you why women have those experiences he described. And that while OP thinks women have all this choice, they kind of don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:34 PM
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It's actually so simple it hurts. There is one universal law that governs all human relationship dynamics: People NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. All of you nice guys, working so hard to please women and seek their approval as if they were your mommy are so incredibly easy to get that you are of no interest to any woman. The guy you deem "no good" (not sure how you made that moral judgment btw) is hard to get. He doesn't need women, isn't concerned with gaining th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:50 PM
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Number 1. With the caveat that the right relationship can enhance your happiness. But it cannot make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:35 PM
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Funny story. When my brother and his wife first met (introduced by friends) they were in their early 30s going on mid 30s. So they talked and they both said "okay, you are kind of cool....but why are you still single? What's wrong with you?" At one point, you do have to stop and think "Am I doing something that prevents me from having a girlfriend or even friends? What is wrong with me?" And once you figure it out, work hard to solve the issue. Because nobody is hitching their train to a lonely,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:34 PM
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I'm sure many men are like that and generally they are the ones struggling with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:22 PM
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Cock and ball torture?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:18 PM
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Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:24 AM
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You are missing the point and so are the guys asking how to salvage this. If it has gotten to that point it means you are already too late. Why does this happen? Here: https://youtu.be/PtKw8o0_6ag?si=99fsOcEnYbcTIdYb
/r/seduction21/01/24 12:55 AM
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Go read My Secret Garden
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:05 PM
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Fantasy dummy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:03 PM
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Being a man starts with saying no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:07 PM
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Hahahahhahava minority you are funny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:06 PM
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As in first anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:05 PM
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Have you tried socializing like a normal person instead of being a creepy, needy guy? I mean you can absolutely approach directly but you probably don't have the confidence for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:04 PM
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Sooooo...how you doin'?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:40 PM
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Nobody is saying the sex on camera is what is making them orgasm or that is the ideal type of sex they would have. But claiming that they are all being raped on camera is simply ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:39 PM
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If you want to have full control of a man, give him an extended rimjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:37 PM
0

Having secondary boyfriends and girlfriends to keep things spicy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:35 PM
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That's very judgmental of you to assume these women don't enjoy that kind of sex. The positions themselves may be uncomfortable but that's another topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:22 PM
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Don't have to do that because I'm married and even before that I didn't have to do it. As soon as you let go of needing women to be happy, they become super easy to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:59 PM
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I already left the East to come to the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:32 PM
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Go on r/Hingeapp or r/Bumble and filter out by profile review requests. 99/100 of the men posting have 000000 sense of fashion or style. Then they wonder why they get one swipe a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:30 PM
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A little bit of both?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:27 PM
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You are conflating needs and wants. Outside of food, water, shelter and maybe access to healthcare what else do you truly need? Do you really need a supercomputer you can fit into your pocket? Do you really need high end restaurants? Theaters? Luxury vehicles? A jacuzzi bathtub? Spas? You don't "need" any of these, yet humans are fully capable of enjoying these things as long as they enhance their happiness. You are welcome to NEED love and to NEED other people in order to be happy and feel wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:18 PM
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Oh I know what you mean, giggity!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:13 PM
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The hottest women in the gym that I see are all doing weightlifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:49 PM
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If you don't need nobody why be in a relationship to begin with? Because it's enjoyable? Because it's fun? Because it has many benefits? I disagree that people need each other. It's a dangerous belief that breeds neediness and fear of loss. It's the single most unattractive quality person can have and it affects men disproportionately. A needy woman can still get a guy to at least fuck get and treat her as a placeholder, but needy guy often can't even get to the talking stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:48 PM
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As you said, it isn't their entitlement. It's what the courts have decided.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:45 PM
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Then don't enter into a contract that can so easily separate you from your money if you are so concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:21 PM
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So is there a calculator that you have where you plug in someone's partners, number of ONS, sexual frequency, etc., that's spits out a decision THIS PERSON IS GOOD or THIS PERSON IS BAD? Like is there a specific formula?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:39 PM
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Very good. OP strikes me as one of those entitled guys who believes women owe them sex and intimacy and if they weren't given that then women must have been depriving him on purpose. And that they went out and gave his rightfully owed sex to someone else. Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:30 PM
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I want you to think about this. Let's say you judge a woman for having more sex than you would have liked her. Well, she has as much right to judge you if you were a loser I'm high school and haven't dated much. Because these are potentially indicators that something is wrong with you and she doesn't want to mix her genes with someone like you. Just a hypothetical example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:11 PM
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actually the more you let go of trying to control the outcome, the more likely you are to get the desirable outcome. The less you try to "attract" women and get them, the more they are interested in you. Lack of neediness is the easiest way to become an attractive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:35 PM
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People are more alike than they are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:33 PM
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Everything men think they know about hot girls is completely wrong. Like the idea that they have their lives together, that they must be super confident, that they have impossible standards for men, that because they can get male attention, their self esteem must be through the roof, etc. The reality is hot women are often more insecure than others because they have staked their entire value in their looks, their lives are often a mess, they often date the type of guys they grew up with, who may…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:31 PM
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Obese please!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:28 PM
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Infinitely more men suffer from delusions of inadequacy than delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:26 PM
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True true. Btw, same goes for any woman posting stuff like "you are enough", "I'm a rockstar", etc. Guaranteed to be low-self esteem stage 5 clingers.
/r/seduction19/01/24 03:02 PM
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Never too late to be a ho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:38 PM
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There are always the in-betweens. Maybe they want to be treated like a queen in public and like a whore in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:28 PM
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Oldest dating advice in the world: Treat a whore like a queen and a queen like a whore. Women who are "high quality", are often conventionally attractive, maybe a little stuck up because men have been worshipping the ground they walk on, sometimes they have major attitudes. Every guy treats them like a queen, kissing their ass like it cured cancer. A woman like this will often get turned on by being treated like a whore. A guy who ignores her, isn't super nice to her, wants one thing and makes i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:26 PM
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Women complaining about men? Wow never heard of this one ;) I mean women complain when a guy buys them dinner, gives them a diamond necklace and fucks them silly. They will still find something to complain about because they love drama and complications. But the other part is exactly as you wrote. Some guys figure out they don't have to work so hard (or at all) to get women. Others believe they have to do it the society approved way: get a high paying job, have a good 401K, etc so some average g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:54 PM
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I've never met a woman that says she prefers to pursue men, yet that's has always happened in my most successful relationships. If you choose to play the role of the pursuer, than the other person has no choice but to play the role of the pursued. You can't mix both and act as the pursuer one day and the pursued another day. You can't be a little bit of that and a little bit of this. It's an either or type proposition. So if you as the man, choose to be the pursuer, then you are stuck in that ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:09 PM
3

I mean that's one way to internet that I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:49 PM
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Why do you assume a man would approach you with your headphones on while you are staring at your phone? Why do you think that's attractive to any man? And have you thought that the problem may not be the men but maybe something staring at you from the mirror : https://www.reddit.com/r/NarcissisticAbuse/s/JyDgiquxUT
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:47 PM
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When I approach a woman I don't know anything about her other than that she is attractive because I'm attracted to her. Why do you assume that I want to sleep with you? What if you are boring, stupid, a bitch, a thief, a murderer, a diseased ho? It seems like you are the men as the enemy out to get ya. You should get that look at by a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:44 PM
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It's a figure of speech honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:42 PM
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I think you just pulled this out of your behind but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:41 PM
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Why do you assume he wants to sleeps with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:40 PM
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It's not even about that. It's about the freedom to make a connection with someone you find attractive that you do not know. What women are talking about here is like those people who have never left their home town or even country. "Have you been to Europe?" - "Heck, no, I only go to places I walk or drive to, I ain't getting on no plane, that's so desperate. Why go spend my money in London when I can go and buy fried ice cream right here at Iowa state fair, ya dig."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:40 PM
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It's not. If you were a prince you would have no reservations about approaching the woman of your dreams anywhere, because you are also the man of her dreams. You have to understand that it never happens to women that a confident, proud man who is not ashamed of himself or of having interest in a woman approached them in a totally normal way. Without making an excuse for himself or saying something creepy. It is as rare as a random hot woman taking off her shirt and saying "make love to me baby"…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:37 PM
1

Sounds like a you problem. Not sure how you expect women to solve your lack of a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:28 PM
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There is a huge difference between what women SAY they want or do and what they ACTUALLY do. It has been well documented and scientific books have been written on the subject. As a matter of fact, 14-15 days before a woman's period begins, she is in her horniest and most fertile period of her cycle and that's when she is very open to getting inseminated by total stranger. Why? In prehistoric times, the strange male had the best chances of having different DNA that would produce stronger offsprin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:26 PM
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I don't date anyone I haven't dated before and I don't fuck anyone I haven't fucked before. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:20 PM
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I kind of agree with you especially when I've met ton of women and dated a lot from cold approaching (including my wife), which I define as talking to someone you have never spoken to before and don't know through your social circle. Maybe these women on PPD have nuked their libidos or fried their clits with too much wanking or antidepressants, I don't know. In the real world, I come across women who check me out and would die to meet me every single day. Total strangers. I'm pretty sure I'm a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:17 PM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:07 PM
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This is not an argument or a debate. I'm giving you an insight in the male psyche. I know you can't understand it because you are not a man. There is no need to offer counter arguments that are completely irrelevant to how a man actually feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:55 PM
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Promiscuous women fall in two categories: those who have a lot of sex for validation because of low self esteem issues AND those who have it because they really enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:49 PM
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Honestly, once you've been with someone for a while, the novelty wears off. They become more familiar (like family) and then it feels weird to do all the nasty things you'd want to do that make you turned on - like spank her, have her suck your dick, cum on her face, etc. Basically treat her like a whore. Sometimes it's easier to do that with someone you don't have so much "respect" or familiarity with. Hard to explain, but that's the jist of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:46 PM
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The male and female sexual drive works in the exact opposite way. The more sex a man has with the same woman, the less horny he gets. It has to do with our reward centers. Men get turned on by novelty. If he fucks the same partner for 3 months and gets bored of her and the sexual frequency falls off, the second he has an opportunity wjth a different female, it will be as if he was a teenager again and he can fuck 3 times a day. And the cycle repeats. Also a man gets more horny the longer he goes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:32 PM
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You have to understand that you have very niche kinks and that you won't be every woman's cup of tea. The issue is that your kink deviates from traditional gender roles and that will always be an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:55 PM
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As long as you can get it up. And then just get viagra.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:53 PM
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They pulled a TikTok out of someone's ass. That's where they go the idea from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:32 PM
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In every hierarchical structure on the animal kingdom, the top dogs get most of the pussy. These guys/males are also constantly challenged by other wanna be alpha males. You go and be a goody two shoes guy. But it ain't getting you pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:42 PM
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That's what 40 year old virgins keep saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:38 PM
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Male sexuality is opportunistic and for a good reason. If we stop and overthink things, we will let a lot of good opportunities pass. Which fits right in with the propensity of most PPD men to completely overthink every little detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:59 PM
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Anyone who has gotten laid in high school knows there is nothing worse than hormone riddled teen girls when it comes to sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:55 PM
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It doesn't sound like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:23 PM
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What is so hard to understand about rubbing one out? Have you been with any men in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:14 PM
1

Where is the fun in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:59 PM
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It's called stealing her frame.
/r/seduction14/01/24 05:38 PM
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Best is to invite her and say "just to be clear, we are not going to be having sex tonight, so don't get any ideas".
/r/seduction14/01/24 02:53 PM
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I don't give a shit. I don't inform my worldview from ragebait TikToks. I'm out there in the real world living life. I have done my fair share of fucking instead of rage jerking to stupid online videos. Suggest you do that same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:34 PM
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If you are so angry at this injustice you should organize a male protest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:30 PM
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Wait until you hear why men are interested in approaching you. And believe me, they ain't thinking of commitment and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:14 PM
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Nice guys believe their niceness comes from being moral and ethical. That their niceness equals altruism, blah blah blah. The reality is niceness comes from the fear of being disapproved of. That's it! It's just fear. If we didn't fear disapproval, we wouldn't be so nice and follow the rules to a t. If a nice guy wants to become more of a bad boy, he has to focus on being more selfish and acting like the universe revolves around him. He needs to shed the fake modesty learned from his mom who tol…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:11 AM
1

You may want to look up what purpose looks actually serve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:30 AM
2

I think men cuck themselves by using apps or at least the way the majority of them use apps. I have seen the average male's profile on r/Bumble or r/Hingeapp. I would say 50% are super average, boring, the guys look like those dogs waiting to be adopted at the dog adoption place "please pick me, please pick me". Very pathetic tbh. There are a decent amount of purely creepy profiles, loner guys posting only selfies in the same clothes, which are shades of grey, dark green and brown. And maybe 10-…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:25 AM
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You went through all of that just to make women the ultimate prize in your life. Right where you started.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:16 AM
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TRP guys love to take a 15 year old non-scientific study from a time when only nerds and weirdos used online dating and extrapolate it to hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution, conveniently ignoring that the human population is currently at 8 billion and is projected to keep growing steadily for another 30 years at least. We've never had so many human beings on the planet, yet somehow they want to make the case that nobody is having sex, or only 3,4 Chads in the entire world are fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:33 AM
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Men and women find different things attractive in each other. Men tend to project their arousal mechanisms onto women which 100% have to do with looks and body parts. Which makes sense, because the technical purpose of sexual attraction is procreation and since women are the one who carry the baby in their bodies, her health is reflected in her looks. Anything from skin, to fat distribution, hip to waist ratio, hair, lips, etc. are indicators of reproductive health. A male doesn't have to carry …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:49 PM
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You are applying an irrational and distorted bias in your assumptions. That renders the rest of your argument invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:21 PM
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Your first bullet point is exactly what I'm talking about. Claiming women have all the power as if this was some sort of an immutable law of physics. As I said, you see women as all powerful and that causes you to see yourself as powerless and insignificant and your only outlet is to lash out against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:14 PM
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Oh you red pill guys. I kind of understand where your hate and frustrations with women come from now. In your worldview, they are all powerful, all knowing, they control everything. They have the power to select you or reject you and that makes you feel powerless and insignificant. So you lash out with crazy theories at the faceless females who control every aspect of your worthless male life. You resent that they hold your tiny balls in their hands and can choose to crush them whenever they fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:51 PM
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That's life. We all want what we can't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:22 PM
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I agree. Don't know what tattooed eyebrows are, but the eyebrows need to get trimmed. Yes to the trendy haircut. Yes to getting a tasteful tattoo and a piercing. Also, how you dress will really be key here. Not to be THAT guy, but a lot of Asians dress like total nerds. You really need to explore a good esthetic that looks edgy and cool. Also, instead of being so deadpan in your facial expression, learn how to smirk. Not smile. Smirk. Think something like this: https://i.pinimg.com/736x/33/fd/09…
/r/seduction13/01/24 01:18 PM
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It's really not that complicated girls. Relationships with me are not a democracy. Two people don't fit comfortably into a pair of pants. I'm in the driver's seat and we are going in the direction I want. Women are more than welcome and capable and willing to voice their opinion. But there is a line that can get crossed when it becomes nagging or just being annoying and combative. That's what men don't like. They don't need someone making it more difficult to run things. If that's the kind of re…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:07 PM
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True true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:01 PM
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Men are funny. You want women to be virginal nuns but then complain that you can't get laid. You do understand that one is incompatible without the other. It's like the asshole who complains about traffic not the city shouting "where are all these people going, why can't they just stay in the suburbs" while being an asshole who is going to the city because it's fun and exciting, but also being part of them problem creating traffic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:46 PM
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You do understand that if you took most women's list of requirements at face value and set out to find the guy who is a Jason Momoa type, at least 6', has a handsome face with all his hair, dresses a specific way, makes $300K, lives within 15 mins of me, is single and willing to commit, has a big schlong, etc., there would be only 3-5 guys like that in the entire universe. And furthermore, those guys would get almost immediately consumed the second they step out on the market. The probability of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:39 PM
0

Everyone likes playing the victim. Men here do it all the time. It absolves you of any responsibility for your live or your fuckups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:02 PM
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Don't listen to all these guys telling you to grope your date and try to fuck her. Yes, a kiss on the lips is fine. Don't over do it. I've lost too many girls by being too needy and overeager. I used to pride myself on getting a girl to make out with me within 15 mins, then I'd push for sex and then I'd wonder why they never called. When you relax and take it easy, but still maintain sexual chemistry, you will build anticipation and they will be the ones dragging you to the bedroom.
/r/seduction12/01/24 11:58 AM
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It's no more oversimplified than "all women are fucking 5 Chads and there are none left for us ugly, short, poor guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:41 AM
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You are preaching to the choir my man!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:25 AM
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I've never met a man who had to paint a new face, push up his chest with padding, squeeze his belly in a compression garment and slip on 3 inch heels just to look presentable. In most mammal animal species; the male is bigger, more adorned and beautiful. From lions to bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:21 AM
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You don't get it man! We got to 8 Bil because men were mass raping women who found them repulsive and unattractive. Women had to settle! But somehow this has all changed only in the last 10 years (around the time most PPD users have gone through puberty). Before that it was super different although none of them have been alive to have dated in the past. But yeah! It was one huge rape orgy. Men raped and raped and raped or women simply settled for the richest beta and fucked him out of pity or be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:17 AM
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I can tell you why online dating doesn't work for men. It is inherently a very needy proposition. As a guy you put up a profile, usually with a bunch of pictures trying to showcase yourself, smiling sheepishly at the camera like those dogs at the pound hoping to get adopted "pick me, pick me". Their bios are all trying super hard to be witty and sincere. All of men's opening lines are try hard pick up lines. The entire system places men as the inferior species trying to chase after the trophy/pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:14 AM
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Desperation definitely means your genes are undesirable. Men who are in demand (their sperm is valuable and sought after) are not desperate because they have options. Lack of desperation and neediness implies you are a quality sexual/romantic partner who has his needs fulfilled. You can make the same claim about women. I personally know very attractive and slim women who have had miscarriages and chubby, mid women who had healthy babies in the first try. Yet men still want to pick the attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:08 AM
2

But it's so much easier to think like that instead of having to look in the mirror and admit that may be you are the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:02 AM
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As I said, the thoughts are irrational and negative, because they are based on distorted thoughts patterns. If someone always thinks in All or Nothing terms, it leads to extreme conclusions. Extreme conclusions are always irrational and they will ignore evidence to the contrary. A person who thinks like that, will reply to you thusly "those women with short guys are ugly, undesirable, with him only because of money, or because they settled when they could get a Chad, but they will leave him at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:36 AM
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That's not how human nature works. Don't you think of being needy and desperate actually worked, that....well, it would have worked by now? The reality is ALL human relations are governed by this universal law: people NEVER want what they can GET and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. This applies to dating, relationships, family, friends, business dealing and even finding jobs. Why is that whenever you really need a job because you hate your current one or you got fired, it's so hard to actually ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:32 AM
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I do believe most of it is in earnestness. The reality is how we interpret situations, determines how we feel and in turn it determines our behavior. In other words, our thoughts cause our emotions, and our emotions driven our behavior. When thoughts are distorted, irrational and simply not true, people tend to feel depressed or anxious and they act out in accordance with that. For example, a guy who thinks women are ONLY attracted to men 6' and above and who happens to be 5'8-9", will conclude …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:23 AM
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This dude really went to quote another dude who killed himself at 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:42 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:40 PM
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You know something, this is called reverse hypnosis, when the patient convinces your that their delusions are real!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:07 PM
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It's actually called All or Nothing thinking and is one of the main cognitive distortions (an irrational pattern of thinking) that has been identified by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:32 PM
3

A distinction without a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:53 PM
2

Or maybe, just hear me out....maybe women want men as much as men want women. And we can cynically say that men only want women for sex and anyone who has been in a relationship will know that this is not the full picture. And while a woman can want a man who is well off financially, this is never the only reason she wants him. Of course, there are always outliers and some people are ready to sacrifice their emotional needs to only get sex or only get resources, but these are few and far in betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:48 PM
1

If you are dumb enough to listen to TikTok you deserve all the misery you bring on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:25 PM
2

Been around the block.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:35 AM
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I found videos online of women pissing in their own mouth, of guys pissing in their mouths and girls rimming a guy's asshole. I guess there is a growing trend of women getting pissed on and licking assholes. I love it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:35 PM
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Women are most promiscuous in their teens through early 20s. Then from about 24-29 or so they get more serious and want to settle down and have kids. But once they hit their mid 30s and they are mostly divorced or unhappily married, they start getting horny for strange dick again and seek out men who are younger and can provide them with that excitement they had when they were teens and early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:52 PM
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Power is the turn on, like beautify is the turn on for men. But we stay because of the person it's attached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:42 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:47 PM
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Cheerleaders hook up with football players. Flight attendants with pilots and secretaries with their bosses. It has always been like this and will always be like this. Power and authority are the ultimate aphrodisiac. Even Jabba the Hut looking motherfucker like Henry Kissinger leveraged that truth to get with some real hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:13 PM
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So what is their alternative? To walk around moping like incel losers, believing their are a subhuman waste of molecules, lock themselves up in their room and survive on Chinese take out, Mountain Dew and porn? I, for one, commend women on being selfish and acting like princesses. It's their life. They are the center of it and their universe revolves around them. As simple as that! You just mad because you feel like shit and they feel like they are hot shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:59 AM
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Something only a virgin or very sexually starved man can say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:40 PM
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She didn't say all of those guys were interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:17 PM
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BS. Most men wouldn't know a woman was interested in them if it hit them over their head. Women are more subtle with their "approach" and most men are too dumb to ever pay attention. And then they sit around circlejerking on PPD how no woman has ever expressed interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:57 PM
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Yes, people never want what they can get and ONLY want what they can't get. If you really internalize this rule of the universe and live by it, your dating problems will be solved. It will also explain why you always fail in dating. Case in point: guys believe they have to always chase women, that their default is "uninterested", but if he entertains her and impresses her enough, she may become sort of interested. And the more he chases and kisses ass, the more she will warm up to him. In realit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:54 PM
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People never want what they can get and only want what they can't get. When are you guys going to get it through your thick skulls that being a nice, ass kissing guy is what any woman can get easily and are therefore of no interest to the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:50 PM
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You said women have the absolute choice and therefore the responsibility. Not sure where you pulled that out of, but it's probably out a place where the sun don't shine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:46 PM
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You spoke as if you speak for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:44 PM
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Sorry to hear this has been your experience, but perhaps don't project your own experiences onto other men. Not everyone is powerless and has zero choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:35 PM
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You just sound like a nice guy who is used to listening to women cent and bitch and moan but never does anything to make moves. You are 34 and a virgin. What do you have to lose? Be bold, be brave.
/r/seduction09/01/24 05:35 PM
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lol, honey, your "shame game" is really weak. Try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:25 PM
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You married a whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:03 PM
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What's stopping you from telling a woman "I won't have sex with you for 90 days"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:54 PM
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That's perfect...for keeping around only the desperate losers who can't get laid otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:49 PM
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Seek therapy man. You don't have to live like this. I can even give you some suggestions if you are serious about getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:43 PM
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Yes, my friend was a total rapist and he held numerous victims in his basement chained to the wall. He also had swastikas tattooed on his forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:25 PM
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Sending you kisses and thoughts and prayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:57 PM
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Number 2: subgroup? More like vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:45 PM
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Women go out hoping to get laid not to have a ONS. They do hope they will meet a guy who is not only great in bed, but who will also call them the next day and treat them with respect even if he doesn't offer commitment and exclusivity. They want someone who takes interest in them as a person not just a collection of moist holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:39 PM
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Oh noes! Did you expect I was going to say he is a 5' tall balding Indian janitor?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:34 PM
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Or...just hear me out! Or, people tend to bitch and moan about their relationships because they either attract said types or because it lets them off the hook to accuse the other party of being the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:50 AM
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Well, you probably gotta solve the problem of becoming someone's wife first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:46 AM
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She dated a 100 different guys and supposedly got fucked by a bunch of them. Her problem isn't that nobody was good enough to even fuck her, but that nobody wanted to wife her up. At least read the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:45 AM
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Think about the type of person who would go to something like that and now picture yourself dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:22 AM
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The men on PPD have a beggars mentality. The men who are bagging women have a bagging mentality. Lol, get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:19 AM
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No need to rationalize your own lack of dating confidence with some inevitable societal changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:14 AM
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Can't think of anything more desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:13 AM
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Cause guys aren't picky and don't test the women they date. When I took my now wife on a first date, I was looking for someone to get serious with and I grilled the fuck out of her to find out what her lifestyle was. If she hadn't fit what I was looking for, she would have been placed in placeholder category.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:12 AM
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How is that different than the multitudes of losers who always end up with a bitch who doesn't care for them and gives them the runaround?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:10 AM
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She edited the post saying it's 100 not counting the speed dating events, which is ridiculous to count as actual dating. If I count all the women I've spoken to, I too could claim 1,000 first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:09 AM
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No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:08 AM
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Probably close to my dating stats, but at least I got something something out of it, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:07 AM
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The mere fact that the human race has survived for hundreds of thousands of years and we are at the highest human population ever, shows that people are fucking. So there are either helluva lot more Chads out there than people think or women settle (they "preferences" are just shittalk and fronting).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:05 AM
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Who gives a fuck what other people think about your relationship. Unless they are paying your bills they have no say in it. Even if it were your parents. They chose to have you on this earth, so they need to shut the fuck up. Don't give other people power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:22 PM
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I mean religions have been trying to make it hard to get laid for thousands of years, from putting the fear of god in you for doing any sexual act that doesn't lead to procreation to dressing women like ninjas or separating the two genders completely. Yet, here we are! 8 billion human beings on this Earth with no signs of slowing down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:58 PM
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It's like those guys who live in their moms' basements arguing online about how they wouldn't fuck Kate Upton because of her pointy elbows.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:52 AM
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This is called a straw man argument. Basically trying to argue your point by pointing out some extreme example that is unrealistic/unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:50 AM
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You do realize that if you took any of those women's lists seriously, there would only be 3-5 guys in the entire universe that meet those criteria? You do understand that you are violating rule #: Who cares what they are thinking? You do you. Go after what you want. If you sit there trying to be a woman's type, honestly it shows how stupid you are. The human population has never been higher and we keep reproducing. I have no idea how that's possible if women are only fucking 6'5" Caucasian billi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:43 AM
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For one, you project your own sexual arousal mechanism onto women. What does it take for a man to become sexually aroused and have an erection he can use? A magical combination of two things: Someone he find attractive enough (a very fluid criteria that changes based on the last time he's had sex or how many beers he's had and how late into the night it gets) 2 some who appears willing. That's all it usually takes for a man to become sexually aroused. He doesn't have to respond to that arousal b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:31 AM
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It has nothing to do with standards and everything to do with you and 90% of men not understanding how women get aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:19 AM
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Anything to let them off the hook of actually making a move on a woman they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:16 AM
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Not any more frequently than a woman who ends up getting raped or killed by a random guy she left the bar with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:16 AM
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Because god forbid women are capable of enjoying sex for the sake of it. Why is this such a threat to your fragile male egos?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:14 AM
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Ah hur durr
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:19 PM
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Men are incapable of having multiple orgasms. I've tried and I've been a man for over 42 years. I still think there are more toys for women, but whatever. Again, my point about religion was, if women didn't really enjoy sex or sought it out why would men feel the need to control them? Even with parental lineage, if women only felt comfortable having sex in a long term committed relationship as every woman on PPD usually claims, why go through all this trouble to control them? Wouldn't they just …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:42 PM
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Mmmmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:35 PM
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Women are already putting in a lot of effort into attracting the men who are in demand. Do you really think they spend the majority of their disposable income on new shoes, bags, tops, short skirts, lip gloss, make up, mani pedis, hair blown outs, vagina refreshers, laser hair removal, anal bleaching, lip injections, Botox, etc., just because they like feeling cute? They are pursuing desirable men viscously. The simps who comment on their Insta thirst traps don't even register on their radar of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:34 PM
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Women are already putting in a lot of effort into attracting the men who are in demand. Do you really think they spend the majority of their disposable income on new shoes, bags, tops, short skirts, lip gloss, make up, mani pedis, hair blown outs, vagina refreshers, laser hair removal, anal bleaching, lip injections, Botox, etc., just because they like feeling cute? They are pursuing desirable men viscously. The simps who comment on their Insta thirst traps don't even register on their radar of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:34 PM
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Yeah, there aren't enough of these Chads out there. Women settle all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:49 PM
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Fat chicks need loving too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:12 PM
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Exactly! If women really didn't like sex so much why is the following true: -they can have multiple orgasms one after the other, while men cum once and we fall asleep -women are capable of both vaginal and clitoral organs, how many different orgasms are men capable of? -why are there so many different sexy toys for women? -if women don't like sex, why has every major religion sought to control female sexuality, by scaring the bejesus out of them for even thinking about infidelity or dressing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:11 PM
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So who is fucking all these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:07 PM
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Men don't understand that while women may play all coy and virginal in public, behind closed doors they high five each other just like guys do when they have a new conquest to report. But hey, according to PPD women hate sex and never get horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:43 PM
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1.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:09 PM
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Constant jealously and accusations of infidelity and even being groomed by my gay friend. It tended to get bad around her period so I kept giving her a pass. But only after I had had enough did I realize how abusive the relationship was and how insane it was to put up with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:28 AM
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Then take cold showers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:51 PM
10

And what is stopping you from doing this in your own life today?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:35 PM
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It kinda sounds like you want to fuck men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:34 PM
5

More like a nut job
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:17 PM
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Fuck! So a ngga can spend $50,000+ on a robo girlfriend and she can still hit him with "I have a headache tonight'"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:19 PM
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You got a deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:26 PM
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Can we ban the sex robot posts just like we did the n-count ones? Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:34 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:33 PM
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It's not only about nature. A man can just jerknoff and we won't be horny anymore. The biggest issue though is your second paragraph. Men convince themselves they can't be happy single and refuse to partake or enjoy life if they are alone. They actually make themselves miserable and needy and don't even realize that their neediness is turning women off. I've even done experiments with this myself. I look, dress, smell and groom exactly the same. But if I go out and I feel needy and want to get f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:08 PM
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Lol, I'm 5'11" maybe slightly below. I don't find it hard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:03 PM
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Would you really want a woman who is such a prude anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:06 PM
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I used to think that too until I got one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:49 PM
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Yes, more or less correct. It's a consequence of social brainwashing that has convinced men they need love and getting the tot babe in order to be happy and fulfilled. And of course, the dark side of this belief is that if you don't have love or the hot babe, you are supposed to feel miserable, wretched and lonely. Ironically, this drives men to act needy and desperate (what simping really is), which actually forces women to reject those guys. Yet, as you can see from all the comments, men despe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:48 PM
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I mean of course I will show them empathy and compassion, but I will also be weirded out that they are sharing it with me and not someone appropriate. See, it seems like many of you guys are really struggling with some basic social skills and can't distinguish between what's appropriate and what is not .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:41 PM
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/s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:18 PM
1

Let me guess? This is something you heard from some rando on TikTok and all of a sudden you think it's a widespread concept infecting the minds of impressionable young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:58 PM
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The female equivalent of that would be "what if I don't want to deal with keeping in shape and taking care of my appearance". She will continue to exist but she won't have many takers if any. Your choice but don't be complaining women don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:43 PM
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You are thinking about this the wrong way. It's neither women or men who have control over the dating market. It's an individual thing. The person who has more choices, has the power. When you think women have all the power?M, you also have to automatically think that men have no power and that becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. The power lies in having choice. Ironically, the most powerful choice that men have is the one they take off the table immediately. And that's the choice of actually st…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:11 PM
0

The only thing that women give up on faster than their height/income/looks standards are their low carb diets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:09 PM
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Firstly, by calling it being toxic you are inserting negative connotations. But it's not the negative stuff that attracts women, so you are barking up the wrong tree. See, the first thing women are actually looking to judge a man on is whether he is in high demand. A man who is in high demand by other women will naturally be unavailable, interested but not smitten, scarce, indifferent, won't try hard, won't chase, etc. These are not toxic traits. These traits seem weird to you because you have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:08 PM
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Instead of asking her out, offer her a guilt and judgment free fun without wanting to become her boyfriend or a needy orbiter/pursuer. I think more women will take you up on that. She can still be free to pursue Mr Right and you won't interfere with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:04 PM
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Nah, they just hurting. Men are not heartless and indifferent. On the contrary, they are too sensitive. They were hurt by some girl (that's how the whole red pill movement started, if you can make it through Rollo's book without barfing, you will see that it comes from a place of hurt and bitterness) and now they have built these tough walls around them so they don't get hurt again. But when you build walls around you to avoid getting hurt, you also can't let love in. I think guys need to man up…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:02 PM
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There is a big difference between what women say they want VS what they need. They all say they want the 6'5" Caucasian billionaire male model who only has eyes for them, but that's just social media and their conscious brain speaking. It's what they think they should want. In reality, what they need is completely different and many will change their tune when they get together with a guy who is not their "type". All of a sudden the "I need a tall guy", becomes "Those tall dudes ain't shit, I ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:56 PM
3

Exactly! Anyone who has to posture and has something to prove is just showing their own insecurity and overcompensation. For example, guys will drool over some fat ass chick who shows up at the gym in a neon two piece that looks painted on, prancing around and acting like a mean girl, but the only women who do that are so thirsty for male attention that they have to go through all these lengths just for some eyeballs. The same with boisterous, cocky guys. If they were true alphas, they wouldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:51 PM
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That's been my story as well. In a lot of ways, when I was shy and socially awkward a lot more women were interested in me, maybe because I came off as mysterious and indifferent. But I could never pull my head outbid my own ass to make a move and they all ended up fizzling out because they figured out I was a pussy (rightfully so).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:41 PM
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If you need to look at social skills as pretending not be socially retarded, then you should do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:37 PM
1

You don't get it! Once a woman swipes right on you, it's game over. You've done all you need to do. You don't need to talk to her, get her in bed, interact with her on a day to day basis, have a relationship. As long as she swipes on you your work here is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:36 PM
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Imagine never having heard of the search function on Google or YouTube. If you can't be bothered with working on your own social skills, why should anyone be bothered interacting with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:34 PM
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Yep! Especially early in dating, people went to have fun and excitement, not talk about death, suicide and depression. I'm sorry this happened to OP's friend, but perhaps a random girl he was interested in, wasn't the right audience for that. The other stories of guys' girlfriends getting turned off because they cried over the death of a loved one speak more about these women's poor character than some issue with being vulnerable around women. But we don't blame those men for picking shitty wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:48 PM
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I mean if some random girl I was interested in or went on a date wjth told me some heavy stuff like this, I'd probably dip too. Like, we don't have that type of relationship yet to talk about super deep and emotional stuff. It's uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:13 PM
-1

Wow women lie and talk out of their asses? Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:11 PM
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Is this something that actually happened to you or did you see it on TikTok? Because if it never happened to you, just fuck off ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:40 AM
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Fear of being alone is what usually keeps people alone. The more you are afraid of single hood, the needier and more desperate you will come across which will only force others to reject you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:39 AM
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Because they like to get together and circlejerk about all the women who have done them wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:11 PM
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Here we go again with the personality thing. A bad personality when used in a dating context doesn't mean someone who is a bad person. It means a person who is not confident, doesn't like themselves, is needy, bitter, entitled, insecure, etc. Psychopaths, on account of their lack of empathy and remorse, can actually be very bold and superficially charming. Which is exactly that all nice guys who finish last lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:10 PM
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Do you ever ask yourself why sex frequency falls off in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:06 PM
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Good point, which is why one must overcome their fear of being alone. One always has options including breaking up and staying single, but if one is terrified of being alone, they are essentially removing this option from the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:00 PM
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You do understand that there is not way for geneticists to know how many men procreated but their children died in birth or before they procreated themselves, right? Plus, there is evidence that in tribal societies, sex was communal. So there are good chances that men had sex with a woman who ended up fathering a child with another man. The whole men needing to know a child is theirs is a pretty modern invention, originating from the advent of agriculture and passing on land and possessions on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:36 AM
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Not you knew anything about women you'd know they can only get pregnant for about 4 days out of a month and child mortality was something like 50% in more historic times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:19 AM
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Or maybe all this shit don't matter as much as you think it does. But it makes for a nice story to tell everyone especially yourself for why you can't get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:13 AM
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Also failed to reproduce doesn't mean didn't have active sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:57 PM
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Let me get this straight! Women only procreate with the top 1-5% of the most beautiful, masculine, tallest and richest men YET the population of earth has never been bigger than it is now and somehow, despite all these amazing Chad genes, there are still plenty of short, ugly motherfukers. Yeah, that makes so much sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:15 PM
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It's much more simple than this. Once you get together with someone, you have "got" them. If there is no competition due to an exclusive marriage or relationship, you have no incentive to keep trying to keep your partner happy or keep yourself in shape in order to stay competitive. Unions were created to protect the weakest/least competitive members of the union. Those who couldn't find another job elsewhere for the same money. It's the same with many relationships. Once your partner has been se…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:18 PM
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I'm old. Older than most of you. I'm high school all the dumb jocks had no trouble getting laid. It was the Uber intelligent nerds who never got any.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:14 PM
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Women complain. It's what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:24 PM
1

Yes, you can say: I love the way that dress hugs your figure. Or, "you look like you are 36-24-36!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:24 PM
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Well, somebody is fucking these women so it may as well be him. Who the fuck are you to tell him what to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:33 PM
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I'm just casting doubt that all the stuff he claimed happened to him actually happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:32 PM
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Sure thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:51 AM
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Wanna bet $100 that 99% of that didn't happen at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:19 AM
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One of these days OP is gonna getcha!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:17 AM
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You are already low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:09 AM
1

The article you cited is literally published in a journal called Medical Hypotheses. It's just a hypotheses. Someone's opinion. He is advocating for love to be included in the DSM as a psychological motivation. He is not studying or proving anything. I never suggested people should not have friends, family or romantic relationships. I am saying adults do not need those in order to fully experience happiness and fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:06 AM
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Sounds like you don't have to worry about that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:33 AM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:17 AM
1

I don't know if I'm interested in more than sex unless I have gotten to know the woman well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:56 AM
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Beautiful women are often the loneliest because all guys think exactly like you and don't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:55 AM
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You may want to learn what average means in statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:30 PM
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You are talking about children, I'm talking about adults. Big difference. The detrimental effects come from telling ourselves we need love and that without it we are supposed be miserable and sad. Plus anyone who is really needy, always has the most difficult time finding love. It's always the people who stop chasing it and start enjoying their lives who radiate happiness and attract people to them. Needy people always push others away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:46 PM
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I respect those chicks going for what they want. I even respect the women who wanna get paid and make men pay up. What I have zero respect for is a bunch of whiners who don't even have the balls to be honest and talk to women and who blame all their lack of pussy and on everyone and everything but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:48 PM
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You don't really need it. A need is a very strong word: you need food, water, shelter, clothing. Maybe access to healthcare. But beyond that? Everything else is nice to have, it's stuff we want and we enjoy, but not NEED. Telling ourselves we NEED this or that is just a recipe for unhappiness. I'm not advocating people stay alone, but an unhappy marriage is worse than being by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:01 PM
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From what I've heard, Philippina girls throw all their morals and modesty when a white American with some money passes through.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:50 PM
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I mean it's what I always talk about. Learning that you don't need love to be happy. If you tell yourself that you need another person to be happy, this will make you afraid of losing them. People get stuck in unhappy marriages due to kids, shared finances, or just because they fear being alone. Essentially, you lose your leverage and power. This is problematic for both men and women. We only want what we can't get. So if we know that our partner is stuck with us, that they are too afraid to lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:48 PM
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Oy vey. Here we are again with being the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:45 PM
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Interesting about the difference in Kiwi women and men's average n-counts. In a closed system like their island, that math doesn't really make sense. Unless Kiwi women are also including large farm animals in the count?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:42 AM
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Who cares, you still want to fuck them. Don't pretend you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:28 AM
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I'm not there to have fun. What the fuck are you there for? Mr Kill Joy. Why the fuck would anybody want to duck you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:27 AM
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So a virgin loser who can't even talk to women should be going after 19 year old girls who are at their prime desirability? Yeah dumbest think I've heard all week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:25 AM
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There is only like 3 million not them. How many people can you hook up with before you hit up family?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:24 AM
1

I mean the bitch can't even get fucked properly and has to settle for some dude she's never met, she may as well get paid what she's worth and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:23 AM
2

Dude, read a TRP forum. It's all one big victim puke. All you do is complain about women and how much they have screwed you over.!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:22 AM
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Let me get this straight? A woman who is young and wants some excitement in her life, goes out all dressed up and meets a cute guy, who's funny, entertaining and not a total idiot. So she decides that because she's horny, or bored, or because she likes him, to go to bed with him without expecting any commitment; without playing games and making him wait 90 days, she doesn't demand any expensive dates or to have him pay her rent. And this woman is labeled a SLUT. A woman who has no self respect a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:17 AM
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You know, I always thought there were 10 single women for every guy like me. Having hung out on PPD for a while, now I'm convinced there are a 100 women for every guy like me. Thanks brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:23 AM
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Your genes literally procreated since the beginning of life on earth continuously. And you are telling that after billions of years all of a sudden you are too fucking g short to get a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:20 AM
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Don't do them. Bad for my rotator cuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:44 PM
4

Her AI boyfriend will have a 10" cock that never goes soft and can go for hours. It doesn't fall asleep and it takes direction very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:23 PM
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I don't think you can put "women" and "happy" in the same sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:18 PM
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No. Usually I'm the more attractive male.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:17 PM
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This has been covered ad nauseum: https://youtu.be/Dk5zliabPjM?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:16 PM
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At this point in the evolution of the species probably only the most primitive/tribal cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:38 PM
0

So please tell me what "value" is and how exactly is it measured. Is there some sort of a scientific instrument that measures value? Is there is a marketplace where you can trade value? How many "values" do you have to have to be considered "valuable"? Please explain. Because the entire concept of value is a little ambiguous to me and quite honestly early made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:40 PM
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Prefer to live in my own asshole rather than your loser world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:06 PM
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I think it says a lot about whether YOU value YOURSELF or not. If you value yourself and treat yourself like a king, other people will pick up on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:05 PM
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Maybe stop posting on forever alone subs and expecting constant failure and rejection. I get it that you have some cards stacked against you. But you are a man. Stop being so fucking sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:19 PM
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They don't have value only if they tie their self worth to their dating success. But that's a value system that you are buying into. It's literally made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:29 PM
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You are not getting it. It's not about becoming a psychopath who has no feelings and doesn't experience neither happiness nor sadness. Of course my marriage makes me happy. Of course, I will be sad if we break up. These are normal human emotions. But in the event that this happens, I won't be sulking and telling myself "now I'm single, it means I'm worthless, I can't be happy until I either get her back or get another woman asap." Not needing love means that you can still enjoy it and bask in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:06 PM
1

That's fine. Just don't be a bitch to the people who love you and care about youz
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:47 PM
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Wow, you are making so many assumptions that you pulled out of your ass and trying Tom pass them off as facts. Don't even know where to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:47 PM
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This is a very All or Nothing type thinking, which is one of the cognitive distortions identified by cognitive behavioral therapy: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-cognitive-and-behavior-therapy/202210/understanding-and-overcoming-all-or-nothing?amp It comes down to seeing the world in extremes. You either learn to be happy to be alone and give up on other people OR you are super needy and are always chasing others for scraps of love. Why can't you be happy whether alone or coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:45 PM
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Having negative expectations and avoid it, although deep inside you want it badly. Stop fronting and just be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:26 PM
0

Distinction without a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:13 PM
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Terrified? Is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:57 PM
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There is literally a section called Mr Not Good Enough in the article I linked. I find that funny from a guy who claims he never even attempted dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:25 PM
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Lol, I've lived in the US for the majority of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:24 PM
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As I always say, until men give up the need for love, they will always be slaves to others. Once you no longer need love to be happy, you gain all your power back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:10 PM
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Single men - but why are they single at that age? Byotch, why are YOU single at that age?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:08 PM
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And that's why I only date women between 19 and 19.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:06 PM
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I've given up dating because I'm married, but when I dated I enjoyed every minute of it. Sure, there were times when I got frustrated or hurt or was angry at a specific woman who fucked me over, but that's life. I feel like so many of you guys are so fucking weak and scared. Life ain't always easy. Life tries to beat you up sometimes. I came from tough upbringing in Eastern Europe, so some chick telling me she's not interested has never been the end of the world for me. I'm like fine, there is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:04 PM
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Well, you've woken up. So you better start working towards becoming the man you want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:58 PM
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It's not so much that a man is taken that matters. What women try to evaluate right away is if a man is in high demand. To do this, they go by behavioral clues much more than by physical appearances although the latter do count as well. That's why things such as whether the man appears needy, too available, too eager, etc. are so important to women. These can show that a man is not in high demand by other women and therefore, her interest drops. Men evaluate female desirability based on her phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:39 AM
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Why do men always pick gold digging heartless bitches who cheat on them, monkey branch and dead bedroom them? See, two can play this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:35 AM
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Your entire culture is about beta buxxing men and making them into low self esteem sad sacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:32 AM
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It has nothing to do with looks. Both men and women get tired of the same partner and seek variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:10 PM
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Don't nag and try to mother me. Don't be a bitch. It's really not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:08 PM
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I mean, it's kind of like saying if I'm afraid of water, am I doomed from playing water polo or swimming? No, you are not, but it also means that you have to overcome your fear. Shyness is nothing more than fear of other people. I can't see how you can be successful with women if you are afraid of them. But that's also something that can be overcome. I just don't understand why men think being shy is an immutable existential condition. It's quite literally something that is so easy to cure it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:21 PM
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So what you are saying is that they ARE indeed DOOMED?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:53 PM
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No, it has never been done!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:52 PM
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Who do people think of shyness and introversion as some sort of a terminal disease?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:50 PM
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I mean my browser's home page is PornHub. Whatever I type into the searchbar always returns something to do with step-brothers and sisters. I don't know of any other internet you speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:42 PM
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Eh, why would I look at average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:17 PM
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Excuse me. Those ARE regular women. I see women like them on my computer screen every day doing all kinds of nasty thangs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:50 PM
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What a dumb Ho, women are so stupid, ugly slut....what's her OF link? Okay guys I will be right back, just going to the bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:49 PM
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As far as I am concerned, there aren't enough of those "sluts" out there who are having sex because they really enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:48 PM
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No, no, no, no! That's utterly 100% wrong. A SLUT is a woman that will sleep with anyone. A BITCH is a woman who will sleep with anyone but you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:47 PM
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Happy people don't consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:46 PM
0

Well, at least many women have secret rape fantasies, so men ain't doing all that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:45 PM
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There is nothing you can do because you have no leverage. She has the vagina and that's more important to you than self respect. Unless....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:57 PM
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So the type of guys who are so rare that they can bang Stacie's left and right are....let me make sure I'm getting this right....actually settling down with average, frumpy women? Is that the point you are trying to make OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:11 PM
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I find most women....between the ages of 19 and 19.5...attractive. I think most guys just don't say that second part out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:08 PM
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You always have the choice of walking away. But when men consider being alone/single a fate worse than death, or at best a form of slow death, they are effectively removing their most powerful leverage from their arsenal ending up shooting themselves in the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:59 AM
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Correct. There aren't enough 6'5" billionaire male models for all women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:57 AM
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What the fuck is a BBI?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:52 AM
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I don't think it's money per se. It's what money represents - power and authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:40 AM
1

They don't like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:42 AM
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Typical advise seeking here is: "What is a shy, socially anxious guy who doesn't like to go out and socialize supposed to do!" "Well, tackle your shyness and social anxiety with exposure therapy and socialize as much as you can". Their reaction:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:42 AM
3

Exactly. It's like a woman asking a man how to attract men. Bitch, I don't have the slightest idea who to coordinate outfits, do your hair or apply make up. If I tried to advise a woman, she'd probably end up looking and acting like a cheap hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:39 AM
2

Only right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:23 AM
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The opening sentence is "It's been pointed out here a lot how women don't take dating seriously enough when they are young...." I'm saying the people who are doing the pointing out (PPD, red pillers, incels) are doing so as some sort of a "gotcha", because they weren't able to enjoy sex when they were young. And now they feel bitter and entitled to these women as if they have any right to tell them how to live their lives or how seriously to take dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:10 PM
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The people doing the pointing out are bitter and entitled because they didn't get in on the fun when they were young and now want to get their revenge on women who had nothing to do with their inability to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:25 PM
0

For me struggling is finding a woman who does anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:56 PM
1

It's "Curriculum vitae". Yeah my turn to be a grammar Nazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:54 PM
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You are still making the classic nice guy mistake: believing dating is a paint by numbers type of affair. Where if I get X job with Y salary and have Z good boy qualities, I will automatically obtain a hot, young, sexy girl. That's not his attraction and life work at all. If I had to reduce what women find attractive in men it's to have a take charge/take control attitude. That means knowing what you want and going after it without any fear, even if you get rejected in the process. Take charge m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:53 PM
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Sure, that's what I meant. Sleeping with someone you like is a big thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:28 PM
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I think pushing for sex is how men cuck themselves. It's just so needy and desperate and shows that they don't date or have sex very often. If you are confident that you are a great catch, you know that sex will happen sooner or later on a long enough time line. What's the rush? Only people who have scarcity of it on their lives rush into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:17 PM
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The whole intimidating thing is just an excuse women use to hide their own terrible personalities, whether they are too annoying, demanding, bitchy or just plain unrealistic.
/r/seduction27/12/23 12:33 PM
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What's stopping you from thinking you are the prize? Oh yeah; your crippling self hate and low self esteem. Got it. Let's blame women for feeling good about themselves though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:16 PM
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Approaching is NOT chasing and women LOVE to chase men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:12 PM
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I don't think it's lack of hardship per se. There is enough hardship in the world, even in well developed Western societies. What's really lacking imho is purpose and initiation. In some cultures, there is a ceremony to celebrate coming of age for girls. Like the quincenera in Latin America. It's a symbolic transition from girlhood to womanhood. Unfortunately; the rite of passage ceremonies for boys are all but non-existent in today's culture. Boys are never given a set of instructions on how to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:11 PM
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Sex is not a reward for them. It's a measuring stick of their worthiness as a human being. That's the meaning they attach to it. It's not even about pleasure or fun. They all sound like drug addicts who have to do disgusting things they loathe themselves for just to get their next hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:06 PM
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Yes, I'm sure a lot of the sex skews towards a minority of men. And you are right. There isn't a limited amount of sex. Well, it's limited to how fast a woman can recover from a good dicking I guess, but for all intensive purposes it's in unlimited supply. What those guys who aren't getting any need to figure out is how to change themselves so the people they want to have sex with want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:02 PM
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Because I'm not a needy loser starved for female attention and if I make friends with someone it's because I like them as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:59 AM
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I always try to make friends with women. I also make it painfully obvious that I am a sexual being and I do indeed like to fuck women and on a long enough timeline we will eventually fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:49 AM
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B
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:48 AM
1

OPs argument would make sense if men and women were competing for a third party prize. Let's say there was a third sex called shmeils. So women on average fuck 50 shmeils and men only fuck 2 shmeils. Great! Women win! They can get sex from shmeils easier. But since there isn't a third party gender anyone is fucking, but rather men and women are fucking each other, it means for every woman who obtains sex super easy, logical there is a man who also obtains sex easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:39 AM
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If women were getting laid as easily and as much as those guys claim they did, then naturally so would be men. Because women aren't having sex with aliens, a mystery third gender or large farm animals (well; not so sure about this last one).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:36 AM
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What work are you putting in getting laid exactly that women aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:33 AM
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If women stopped charging for sex, 90% of the world's female would starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:05 AM
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Sounds like that's the story you are telling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:44 PM
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There is plenty of self help therapy for low or no cost. Enough wjth the victim mentality and excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:28 PM
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There is no magic bullet. Just go out there and socialize and build your confidence. You guys have nothing but excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:25 PM
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None of the men I've showed empathy and offer advice to on PPD has ever taken me up on it. They prefer to stew in their own misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:23 PM
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Lol, women are under way more pressure to be in a relationship than men. Nobody cares what degree she has or if she got a promotion at work. It's all about "who are you seeing, are you serious, when is he going to propose". You think men are desperate because you are desperate. But women are just as desperate .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:22 PM
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If the solution to loneliness is to go out and get a girlfriend, why are so many of these lonely men opposed to basic socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:50 PM
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How can you claim that a woman who is on top of her game personality and looks wise has inflated expectations if an average Joe Schmoe is of no interest to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:19 PM
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Why do you think this girl will want to be with an average guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:53 PM
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What is an10/10 woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:55 PM
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Call it whatever you want. When men show up feeling they are inferior, they will always struggle with women, until they meet one they feel on the same level with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:11 PM
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Lol, brother, you are thinking in decades and maybe millennia. I'm thinking in tens of millennia. Go read some Roman and Greek literature. This guys had orgies like we have afternoon tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:46 PM
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Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:13 PM
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If people were really wired for monogamy, none of us would get hard looking at new pussy, there would be no cheating, men wouldn't get turned on and produce better quality sperm when watching group sex involving multiple men and one woman, the red pill wouldn't shit on women for cheating and monkey branching, etc. I'm not making a moral judgment on whether it's good or bad. It's just what it is. Your interpretation of what's good for the species is naive and looked at through the lens of modern …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:56 PM
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Another guy. You don't know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:13 PM
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Interesting! I will have to read this book. I just quickly skimmed a Guardian article reviewing it and it does confirm my belief that women are more turned on by strange men than by close friends, despite what they will claim almost always. Apparently, their sexual arousal is flatlined when erotic stories feature a close friend and increases almost 8 fold when it features a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:03 PM
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Well, yeah. Women ovulate and there are only 3-4 days in a month where they can actually become pregnant. And during those days women suddenly start having an intrusive thought like "MUST HARVEST SPERM". It's just hidden estrus, meaning their buttocks don't suddenly grow swollen and red for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:45 PM
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You are conflating what's in the best interest of an individual vs what's in the best interest of the species. Also, there is pretty good evidence that back in tribal societies mostly everything was communal, including sex and child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:40 PM
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Women do not mate with men they perceive as below them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:37 AM
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You must not have met our resident incel/black piller before?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:36 AM
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Actually we do. Women have hidden estrus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:35 AM
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Probably our species benefitted from several men ejaculating inside a woman one after the other and letting the strongest sperm battle it out. The female orgasm likely evolved to require a woman a good pounding for a couple of hours before she could orgasm. Naturally, as men ejaculate fast and roll over to sleep,a woman could move on to the next man in the cave and keep doing it until she is satisfied. It may talk several before she reached that orgasm at which point she is working with several …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:34 AM
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I've had the exact opposite experience. The better I feel about myself, the more I love and respect everything about me, the easier it is to attract women to me. But then again, I don't tie my self esteem to my accomplishments or height.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:24 AM
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The only thing I've confirmed with my own family is that that marry weak willed men who can't stand up for themselves and tell them no, end up turning into nightmare bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:14 AM
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I don't know. It doesn't accomplish anything at the end of the day. It moves you even further from your desired outcome (connecting with others) because nobody wants to get together with loners and sad sacks. I mean don't get me wrong. I've been there too, but I realized how much of a turn off it is for others when you are always negative and a total downer feeling sorry for himself and seeking pity from everyone you encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:56 PM
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Sure! It's very comfortable and predictable. You can always count on ending up lonely and sad, but happiness and a relationship seem so fleeting. Except that you can choose happiness and being normal and they an be as predictable as being lonely and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:47 PM
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But you are not self sufficient. You can't even function like normal happy humans without some girl giving you an ounce of validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:45 PM
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Because they lack the most important adoration of all: their own!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:28 PM
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By how much he's willing to spend to get into her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:27 PM
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Why do you guys cling to your loneliness like it's some kind of virtue?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:27 PM
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If they didn't like attention, they wouldn't be trying so hard to get it. Am I taking crazy pills here or talking to a wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:00 PM
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They are even more needy and desperate than the women. Women are definitely better at hiding their neediness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:28 PM
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I'm sure that's the hope, but seeing how desperate most women are for any validation, Id say they would take anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:58 PM
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Your friends aren't single because they can't find someone on their level. They are single because there are more single women than men in NYC and men have all the leverage. All women's standards fly out of the window when they get desperate enough for dick. And if that dick is attached to a good looking, mildly successful man who has balls and confidence, then forget it. They stand no chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:31 PM
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Some women get off on being watched. Almost all women enjoy endless attention. You can make an argument that it's all driven by low self esteem, but hey,'it's a free country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:27 PM
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Understand that you manifest with your thoughts everything that you bring into your life. If your thought is "why is she even dating me", your mind will generate a million reasons not to date you. Try it right now. Close your eyes and say "why would any woman in her right mind date me?" and your subconscious will come up with "well, yeah, you are a loser, you are ugly, you are only 5'9", you don't make six figures, blah blah blah". Now try this on for size. Close your eyes again and ask "what ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:48 AM
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Who cares what women demand? TRP is always saying look at what they do not what they say. How many women do you actually see with traditional men making over $400K? Ngga get real. They are fucking with all y'all losers eating up every bit of shit that comes out of their mouths. How fucking gullible are you all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:14 AM
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I don't know honey. Your previous reply was very aggressive and mocking. I see no reason to reply to you any longer. Byeeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:31 PM
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It's solved on an individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:30 PM
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Okie dokie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:23 PM
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The leverage women have is how much men want vagina. Men can easily control that by being indifferent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:16 PM
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As I said, it's the one thing man CAN control. Can you think what this thing is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:09 PM
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They are still not going to fuck you no matter how much you try to scare them about old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:46 PM
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Incidentally, women have only one leverage over men and incidentally, it is something they can easily control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:45 PM
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Yes, this is a problem with all the pills and manosphere stuff. Even with radical feminism and all the other adjacent movements. But basically it is an US vs THEM mentality, where the others are the enemy. I think many men perceive women as these stone cold bitches that are withholding on purpose their most desired resource (vagina) just to mess with them. Like, hasn't it occurred to you that your mom lifted up her legs willingly and enjoyed your dad pumping her until he deposited his semen and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:39 PM
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Men should learn from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:55 PM
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That's a very good point. For the record, I've never made that claim. I'm at best attracted to 10-15% of the women I come across on a daily basis. And by attracted I don't mean "wow, I'd marry her in a heart beat", but more like "she has a vagina and DNA different from my wife's, so I'd love to bang her for the feeling of conquest and having variety", which of course I never will, but that's what's going through my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:47 PM
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Lol, I would fit into your stereotype, being married for 10 years. However, I'm a huge flirt and I love women and will strike up conversations here and there. I've had women approach me in bars, catcall me on the street, a young girl, probably half my age approached me in a Starbucks recently. I've talked to women in bars and at work, all in their 20s and they have clearly been attracted to me. A girl I used to work with, clearly had a crush on me. You have no idea what you are talking about. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:45 PM
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Not only is there no battle of the sexes, there couldn't possibly be one, otherwise we wouldn't have survived as a species for hundreds of thousands of years. At most, we have a misunderstanding of the sexes. Remember folks, love and sex are a team sport. It's not something you do onto another person without their enthusiastic participation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:38 PM
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Same difference. You are talking about the motivation behind giving too much attention, which I do agree is desperation and neediness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:36 PM
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Well, for one, sit down and write all the things of value that you can offer. Don't focus on stuff like car, house, money. Who gives a fuck. There's 5,000 other guys who can offer the same or more. Focus on personal and masculine qualities. Safety and protection, validation, attention, being interesting, being able to teach a woman stuff if you are older and more experienced, a nice date, good sex, romance, leadership and the thing of the highest value - an exclusive relationship with you. These…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:35 PM
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No, not at all. Attention is like currency. The more of it there is in the market, the lower the value (that's how inflation works actually). The more men give attention to women, the less it's worth it to them. They do enjoy the attention, but what they enjoy the most is working really hard to earn it. But when attention is given freely, it becomes worthless. That's why men who are indifferent and non-chalant, aloof and have a take it or leave attitude do so much better with women. Women crave …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:45 PM
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You gotta tease men with your super pussy, tell them they can't handle it and make them wait while they try to bribe you into giving themsccess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:10 AM
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Oh okay I see the title now, it was obscured by an add or something. Yeah, I do not care. If you are a gold digging hoe you are a gold digging hoe. Don't expect respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:45 AM
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I didn't see anything about anyone's salary, but let's see. Fake ass lips, shitty tattoo, died hair. To me that says - dumb bitch. Why would anyone care to impress her with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:50 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:07 AM
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She's grown up enough to tell me if she wants to do something in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:43 PM
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Sure, if she doesn't like the choice we discuss. But I don't ask "what do you want to do honey".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:37 PM
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For example, I decide what to do, where to go for dinner. I take the lead. I'm never afraid of losing the other person so if she starts arguing with me or calling me names or testing me like I'm stupid, I tell her firmly that this is not okay and will not be tolerated. I don't make empty threats and have broken up with women over this. When I used to roll over and allow women to have the upper hand or just let them drive it, they would always end up crashing the relationship. They would always b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:02 PM
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Experience. My relationships have always been better when I have the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:55 PM
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No. One partner always has to have the power and it's better for that partner to be the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:23 PM
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Because corporations benefit from keeping people unhappy. Unhappy people consume and then work harder in order to have more income to consume. You guys think women are so happy because they can download tinder, yet all of them are constantly consuming new clothes, new shoes, new bags, pounds of make up, cosmetic procedures and surgeries just to look a little bit like their favorite influencers. Happy people don't consume. Happy people fuck, eat and rinse and repeat. But that's not very profitabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:22 PM
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If I remember correctly you have never even attempted dating, am I correct? Don't wait for everything to be "perfect" before you ask someone out. It sounds like you are using this as an excuse to not face your fears and anxieties. "If only I have the right job, and the right car, and the right mindset, and the right blah blah blah, then I can start dating". It's just another way of avoiding what scares you and makes you anxious. The reality is the only thing that can get rid of the fear is facin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:16 PM
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Because once we get you, you are what we can get and we lose interest. It's human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:46 PM
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It's a vibe. There are many give aways. How eager you are, looking around to try and make eye contact, how you relaxed and comfortable with you feel around women, the speed of your voice, the tone. How fascinated you seem with them, etc. It won't work to try and control those because they are subconscious microcommunications. It's like when you meet someone and you know something is off about them and you can't put your finger on it, they just creep you out. But anyway, keep doing what you are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:38 PM
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I mean I told you exactly what the problem is and you completely shot it down. Trust me. Women are way more intuitive than you give them credit. Neediness is more of a vibe than doing very specific and dramatic actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:07 PM
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I'm sure! But it's entertaining to visit!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:37 PM
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You are framing this the wrong way. So called nice guys play not to lose. They are timid, don't take risks, hide their sexual agenda and therefore produce as much excitement in a woman as a slice of white bread soaked in water. Chads are bold, playful, they do not hide the fact that they like to fuck women and that they would like to fuck her specifically. Nice guys hide all of those things afraid they will "offend a woman" if they show sexual interest in her, flirt or make moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:15 PM
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Oh but they already do and they are so in demand by multiple men they can even charge for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:02 PM
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Somehow in school I found the time to both fuck my girlfriend AND study for my exams. I know! I'm incredible!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:58 PM
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Yeah, I see. I think the whole "wants a girlfriend really bad" is probably why he isn't getting any interest. Women are instantly turned off by needy men. The second he stops caring about finding a girlfriend, he will have five women who want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:56 PM
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Firstly, we need to differentiate between NEED and WANT. For me WANTING is something that is nice to have, something you can enjoy but not the end of the world. I want to grab a dinner and a movie, but if they are not showing anything interesting at the cinema or my favorite restaurant is booked, it's no big deal. I will find something else to do or stay home and read a book. A NEED on the other hand, I define as something that when you don't have it will cause undue distress or even death. Such…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:35 PM
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The anecdote you shared is not the refutal you seem to think it is. The guys who are starved for love and sex are usually too insecure and lack the confidence to do anything with women, even when they have a clear opportunity. They talk themselves out of it all the time until some other guy who has no such issues comes along and fucks the girl. Then the original guy gets to call all women sluts, just because they wanted some company and some sex for the night. Men sabotage themselves all the tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:22 PM
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Have you considered that those people are right and that by making relationships the end all end all of your existence is actually driving those things away from you due to your neediness and desperation? Why is that the people who need something the least, have the easiest time getting it? It almost falls into their laps. The guy who needs money the least (like a Bezos or Musk), seems to have the easiest time making more of it than they would ever need in 5 lifetimes. Why is the guy who doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:16 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:09 PM
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I think it can only do good. Look, in my teens and early 20s I was a super needy guy. I had no no life, no purpose. I idealized women and though "man, only if I can get a nice piece of ass on my arm, all my problems would be solved. My job would treat me better, everyone will respect me, I will get more friends, and sex with a woman like that would be absolutely incredible". So off I went trying to find this magical woman. Then it became "If I could be a guy who bangs a lot of chicks all my prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:03 PM
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Yes it does. I showed you evidence of sperm competition. Your linked book chapter, I have no idea what it is even referencing. It's an evo psych piece, not even an actual scientific study. The abstract doesn't reference what we are discussing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:42 AM
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Go on Datingoverthirty and Datingoverforty subs and soak up the sadness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:57 AM
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The link to the original Nature article is included in the article but the abstract is not available for the original version: https://mindhacks.com/2005/06/08/mixed-gender-pornography-boosts-sperm-production/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513802001034 https://www.abc.net.au/science/articles/2005/06/08/1386177.htm More women lose interest in sex with the same male after cohabitating: https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/7/9/e016942
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:29 AM
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I don't know about exclusive to one woman, but I'd imagine gangbangs are one of the most common sexual fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:52 AM
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No it doesn't. Wanna bet that you can't even cum three times a day from masturbating, nevermind sex? Wanna bet that even if you could, you wouldn't be able to maintain that for more than a day or two? Wanna bet that a woman can have three orgasms within an hour? And that she will still have the energy to go and find another guy to fuck if you roll over and go to sleep? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:45 AM
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Consider this. A woman has 3 holes to pleasure a man with OR she has 3 holes to please 3 men with! Consider this. When a man ejaculates, he rolls over and goes to sleep. When a woman cums, she feels energetic and keep fucking. Clearly nature meant for her to move on to the next guy in the tribe and have him deposit his semen into her until she is fully satisfied with multiple men's semen inside of her. Consider this. There are studies that show men produce stronger sperm when masturbating to por…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:42 AM
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Nothing. Don't pretend that women don't want to fuck strangers. They do all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:14 PM
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Sure. Women just haaaaaate sex and never get horny. They are pure angels and will never have a naughty thought. Spare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:13 PM
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Sure thing. It's not like these women line up outside of the strippers dressing room to take their turn riding them and sucking them off. Totally doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:31 PM
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Men also claim they will take any old fattie yet all female strippers are thin and have big ass fake boobs. And have a lot of make up on and fake lips and eyelashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:30 PM
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I present to you Datingoverthirty and the even more desperate and bitter sub Datingoverforty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:02 PM
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I agree with you but also we need to look at the reality. A man needs half a dozen things done to him at a half a dozen speeds in order to cum. And if she can't get the job done, he can surely do it himself. Women on the other hand, each one is different and what works on one woman will not work on another. But again, that shouldn't detract from your point which I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:35 PM
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They will die wjthout sex? If that were remotely true, PPD membership would have fallen off of a cliff a long time ago. Yet, those virgins are still here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:33 PM
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When I was single I tried Match and put up like one photo. Never got any responses but didn't really get into it. In real life though, I was dating multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:20 PM
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You will be on to the next excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:19 PM
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Is the source of your claim the Institute for Family Studies? The totally unbiased conservative and religious think tank?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:41 AM
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And my previous observation just got validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:04 AM
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Oy vey. Does it hurt to go through life that stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:01 AM
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Oh hi there Indian janitor. Why are you responding here and not cleaning g the toilets from explosive diarrhea?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:47 AM
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You are right. I was definitely not a boy once and had no mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:46 AM
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But all of you guys shit on hypergamy and Chads? What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:02 AM
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Women getting comfortable around you and trusting you is 90% of the work dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:49 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction21/12/23 01:07 AM
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Women want men who like, respect and value themselves. If a man likes, respects and values himself, he sends the message that he is someone to be liked, respected and valued. Women want to be around such men not around sad sacks who think of themselves as low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:37 AM
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Father tell their daughters "Don't trust boys, they will tell you anything just to get into your pants", but moms never tell their sons "don't trust girls, they are viscous and will do anything to serve their own interests including backstabbing their best friend over a guy". Double standards? You bet!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:36 AM
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Not even if you are the centerpiece of a gangbang?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:38 PM
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I agree! Actually TRP men often cuck themselves. You hear them talk about women in a way that imbues them with some superhuman powers. She can leave you at the drop of a dime. If you are a quarter inch shorter than the biggest dick she's taken , it means she's already on Tinder searching for your BBC replacement and on and on. Guys, women don't have some magical powers that they are hell bent on making your life miserable with. Women are flawed and often broken and fucked up human beings looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:57 PM
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All men lie to women. The easiest way to set yourself is to be honest with them. This will attract them like nothing else because only men with balls will be honest with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:53 PM
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Every woman should have a man who is strong. A man who is romantic. A man who can cook a great meal. A man who can take her to nice places and show her around. A man who is a great lover. A man who is handy and can fix things. You just gotta make sure that none of these men ever run into each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:44 PM
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No need to be cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:07 PM
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You want a harem too if you could get it. The reality is, get one girl, it becomes easier to get another. Get two girls; it becomes easier to get even more. Success begets success and women want to be with a man who is in demand (despite all their protestations to the opposite).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:07 PM
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Men and women have a very different approach to sexuality. Men get hornier the longer they go without sex. Women get hornier the more they have good sex. Guess which women guys like to go after? The ones that are more virginal and good girls. The ones that don't have a lot of sex, therefore their sex drive falls off a cliff. A guy is super horny until he gets a girlfriend. The first month, he fucks her twice a day. The second, once every other day. The third, a couple of times a week. By the 6 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:49 PM
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So why do the passport bros feel entitled to the pussy in their own country?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:37 PM
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Benefitting from what? Sounds like you think you are entitled to free pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:19 PM
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So just perpetuate the problem? See, you guys actually always wanted to be Chad and Tyrone in your home countries. You have no moral compass at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:15 PM
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Only weekly orgies prevent those.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:09 PM
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What about all the local men who are left with out women? Don't you have empathy for them? You are literally creating incels. Shame on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:04 PM
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Then not sure what you were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:03 PM
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Just as I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:51 PM
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If you can explain to me how a woman can be inseminated without a dick going into her vagina, please enlighten me (not counting modern medical procedures, but the way it's been done for millions of years).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:49 PM
1

He led with the "can't date" part. Why mention this if it's not bothering him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:08 PM
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Show me a study not conducted by the Institute for Family Studies, a conservative and religious think tank with no agenda /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:46 PM
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Well, she was talking about no need to communicate when you are having sex. Faking an orgasm is the direct consequence of not communicating what you like in bed. Am I taking crazy pills here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:43 PM
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It's a typical projection a lot of women make. There are only half a dozen things done at a half a dozen speeds to get a guy off. We are not that complicated and we are the sexual equivalent of a moped. Women on the other hand, each one is different. One you need to just blow on her clit to drive her insane, another you have to take a belt sander to have her feel anything. Some women like to be tied up others are okay with more vanilla stuff. The same woman will have one level of sensitivity at …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:39 PM
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Shows how inexperienced you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:32 PM
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Men think if they lock down a virgin or a woman very young, his dick is all she will ever know and she won't be tempted to look outside. But the exact opposite usually happens. A woman gets married young or ends up in LTR with her first and she will keep wondering what other dick tastes like (FOMO), so she's more likely to step out and see for herself. A woman who has been around the block and knows what good dick is like and has experienced being with a lot of different men in different relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:30 PM
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We are animals. When we are not thinking about food, we are thinking about fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:18 PM
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When I was a young teen I stumbled on one of my parents' sex education books. It was one of those "how to have a better sex life" type books for couples. I read it cover to cover and I knew more about sex than some of the more experienced people I later met in life. Hell, I knew more about the clit than my first girlfriend who had at least one boyfriend before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:50 PM
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My man!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:48 PM
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Dude, your dad put your moms legs over his shoulders and pumped her and 9 months later you came out of there, just like any other human being in the history of humankind and just like every other living organism. Sex is the most natural thing in the world. I don't understand you prudes. Maybe that's why you all have so much trouble getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:46 PM
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Because men crave approval and there is nothing that earns the approval of your buddies or other high schoolers than the fact that you lost your virginity early on. At 16, I was the last one I'm my friend group to lose my virginity. My best friends lost theirs at 14 and 15. I was a late bloomer :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:38 PM
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Wow, that's quite the claim you made there. I simply pointed out to OP in a very rational way, that his conclusion of "I can't get a date/relationship" is an irrational statement that has no truth to it, mostly because it has never actually been put to the test. Here is an equivalent/analogy. It's like saying "Hey everyone, I've spent most of my 20s checking various boxes on the path to building a muscular body. I've studied nutrition, I eat the right amounts of protein, carbohydrates and fat. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:58 AM
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It's not a problem at a all. I'm just trying to point out the irrational and untrue things in his thinking. He has made a conclusion based on zero evidence just to elicit some pity and sympathy from this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:52 AM
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I don't expect things that I never attempt to do in the first place. Even then; I only expect to attempt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:57 AM
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OP literally said he never even attempted hitting on a woman. Are you reading challenged?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:50 AM
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So what is the woman's crime? She had sex with someone she barely knew because she was horny, bored, excited by his look and the way he talked to her, because she had fantasized about sex the night before? What's the crime here? Cause I see where you are going with this. A woman enjoys sex with different men when she is young and then says she has outgrown that stage of her life, but now you want to hold it against her because she was having more sex than you would like her to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:49 AM
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Your argument makes zero sense. I don't go through life expecting that one day I will visit the North Pole without actually doing research, preparing extensively and actually going there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:46 AM
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Okay, so can I ask you to change your post title to "For those of us who are unwilling to even attempt getting dates/relationships...." Thanks in advance,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:44 AM
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So how do you know you can't get dates if you have never even attempted to do it? Were you able to fix your house's wiring system on the first try? Did you just figure out you can't do it and that was that? How did you figure out that you can go to college and earn a degree without having done it before? Your reasoning makes zero sense. It sounds like you are avoiding the real reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:29 AM
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So did you actually try to go and talk to women or did you do everything and the kitchen sink but talk to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:44 AM
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The biggest issue with the red pill is that it's barking up the wrong tree. It's an US against THEM type of mentality. I'm gonna take what's mine, who cares about those bitches (enjoy the decline). It's very passive aggressive. Instead, all of these guys should be looking inwards. It's about improving their relationship with themselves and quite honestly other men. Women are inconsequential to that. When a man discovers his purpose in life, is proud of who he is and what he is a capable of achie…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:16 AM
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I mean you guys complain about how uncontrollably horny you are and how men have all this testosterone that makes us lose our minds and how we want to fuck 24/7. And you ask that women accept that but women are not allowed the same level of acceptance? As if they don't get horny and want to get laid? This sounds more like sour grapes that I couldn't get laid when I was young so you are not allowed to get laid either. Look, all this does is make women hide the fact that they bang guys. You are ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:38 PM
1

That's what he's describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:44 PM
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Then he should change title post to specify this is his personal standard/preference and not talk about all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:42 PM
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He offers zero proof that a modest, frigid women who has never had male attention will make a better wifey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:33 PM
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I think you can find your type of women at the nunnery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:00 PM
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You are still blaming women for being a wimp and a pushover. You can protest all you want that women shouldn't treat you like shit, but all this time you allowed them to do just that. Human beings are naturally predatory and will prey on those they see as weak and vulnerable. That's just the way it is. So take responsibility. It wasn't those women's fault that you were a wimp. No need to make someone else pay for your own mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:28 PM
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God forbid women enjoy sex with different people and dress sexy. Round them all up and toss them in the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:26 PM
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Believe it or not I grew up in a Balkan country and most of the girls that I went to high school with eventually revealed that they had been the victim of some kind of sexual assault. One of my best friends was raped by two men. Another was molested as a young girl. And to make things worse, when they go to the police, the police laughs at them and tells them "if you were dressed like that you were probably looking for it". This shit happens and men have been doing terrible things and injustices…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:24 PM
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Yes! I tell them "just the tip" then I ram it in the butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:11 PM
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Exactly! It wasn't the guy. It was the competition she couldn't handle. If I were her, I'd have threesomes wjth the guy and other girls all the time. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:51 AM
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No, women are more pure and angelic than this and have absolutely no shallowness whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:49 AM
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Is there any reason you should be idealizing women? You certainly don't do that with men. But oh my, because she's a woman she must be an angel? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:41 AM
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No way. My default pick up line is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:01 PM
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I would expand that. Women approach by looking at you, smiling, hovering around you, dancing in your line of sight, asking you something seemingly innocuous. They are just way more subtle about it. But all of these are women approaching men and making the first "move". Whether the man reciprocates is up to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:00 PM
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Only stupid men will make the mistake of shaming women for approaching them or pursuing them. If anything they should be encouraged. Hey, bro! Good luck getting laid out there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:56 PM
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It says forced to marry, not stay faithful to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:40 PM
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Lol, her "standards" are not the reason she is single. Her anxiety and neuroticism are the reason and her high "standards" are just air cover. My wife has friends like this. Perpetually single, even though one of them dated a lot. The thing is, they manage to scare away any man who is even remotely interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:02 PM
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Look up Outcome Resistance and Process resistance by Dr. David Burns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:41 AM
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Thought of the day: men and women both want the same thing: each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:27 AM
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They are looking for a man who can approve of them the way their father never did. Oh, and one they can also fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:12 PM
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I think it shows men are more desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:12 PM
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I think she's suggesting that she has a mental illness or is an attention whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:08 PM
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No, I consider myself the coolest person I know, so I have no trouble introducing other people to someone really cool - me!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:07 PM
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Look, women can have whatever requirements they want. When she goes out to a bar (granted in the US she'd be considered underage but whatever) and meets a guy and gives him a bj in his car, she doesn't care if he lived with his parents or not. That won't decide if she's attracted or not. So ignore that women say 99% of the time because it's a variation of something meaningless anyway. But if you want to play that game with her, ask her how many of her own requirements does she meet and even out …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:17 PM
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Get them in a home. You can't care for people with dementia by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:14 PM
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That's so sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:13 PM
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Women are primarily looking for a strong male who is not afraid of her or other men. But if all men she is surrounded with are excusers and have phobias of women, then she may as well pick a rich excuser, or a tall excuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:14 AM
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The more you date, the less you tend to get crushes and infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:38 PM
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Lol, you are a mommas boy. Pretty clear why you have trouble with woman tbh. Stop being such a good little son and tell your parents you are gonna do whatever you want with your life. And then go and get ducking laid by a real woman instead of spending all your energy on lying to your parents so they are bit disappointed wjth you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:09 PM
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Lol, give up trying to plead your parents or let them guilt trip you. If you are worried about that, it means you are under their influence. Not something any woman would call sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:02 PM
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From the cold hard perspective of what's best for the survival of the species is that a few alpha males impregnate all women, while a bunch of beta males work hard to support and parent all the resulting babies. This way everyone has their utility, but not everyone gets to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:42 PM
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Why bother living if are going to die anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:21 PM
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Yeah, but not sure that was his intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:04 PM
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Hmmmm, username sounds awfully suspicious! 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:01 PM
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There is a video of two chicks shitting in a cup and taking turns eating it. Just putting this out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:48 AM
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Just check your posting history and ask yourself "If I wasn't afraid of being alone, would I have let this go on for as long as it did?" I'm not pointing a finger here. Just trying to show you the way. Face the fear of being alone and you will regain all your power back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:27 AM
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Anyone who goes out needing a relationship to be happy will always fail finding one. People who are convinced that they will be miserable when alone are doomed to always be alone, because nobody wants them all sad and needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:15 PM
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Sex and love. Same as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:13 PM
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First of all, understand that there is a mating dance in humans just like there is in animals. You need to accept that and e ready to play the game. That doesn't mean paying games, it means learn to play the game. Here is why neediness and chasing others is bad. Neediness firstly shows that you have no options and you are not in demand. That is one of the first things a woman is trying to determine in a man. That is why a man who is recommended by a girlfriend or a guy she has seen other women b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:35 PM
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How has that been working out for you? Has it actually helped you get the type of woman you've wanted or are you constantly chasing women hoping they will make you happy and fulfilled? Edit: also, I never said that we don't need other people for basic survival. We do of course. But my main point was that love is not an adult human need and that you are perfectly capable of being happy and enjoying life even without love. That actually makes you way more powerful and desirable in the eyes of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:55 PM
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That was not my question. I asked how had that worked out for you so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:03 PM
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Exactly! And once you are happy and radiate confidence and non-neediness, guess what? Dating and making friends becomes exponentially easier, because it doesn't come from a place of sad neediness and lack, but from a place of sharing your happiness and good energy with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:58 PM
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How has being needy and desperate worked out so far for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:57 PM
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That's not what I said. You need some reading comprehension classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:25 PM
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When you tell yourself you need others you come across as needy and sad and that only serves to repel people from you. Telling yourself you need others is probably the single biggest cause of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:25 PM
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Have it a girlfriend is also not a cure for romantic loneliness. The only cure is to stop believing you need others in order to not be lonely and that you can be happy alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:17 PM
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There are no bad reasons to take MDMA and cocaine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:07 PM
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I wasn't referring to autism, just to not being able to socialize comfortably. Men need to overcome their fears and phobias of women. Then just the lack of fear will be a turn on for most women. See, women are looking for a man who will be the best for her genes to mate with. While for men the best thing to happen to our DNA is to mate with a hot woman, because attractiveness in a woman is an indicator of her health and ability to have a healthy baby. What is best for a woman's genes/DNA is to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:01 PM
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I think there are more socially retarded men who struggle talking to women. The biggest predictor of whether a man is coupled or not is whether he is afraid of women or not. I do believe lots of men are afraid of women. There are many women afraid of men as well and tend to sabotage themselves too. But I think there is more men. It's just a hunch though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:48 PM
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Women: Hey men, women have more friends, you should focus on developing male friendships to feel less lonely. Men: men don't have pussies, you dumb bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:41 PM
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Loneliness is not the absence of a partner. Loneliness is the distress one feels from the perceived gap in the relationships they have and the relationships they think they should have. Plenty of people are lonely in their marriages or when surrounded by large family. Plenty of people are lonely on big cities like NYC and plenty of people feel fine single or when alone in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:40 PM
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Well, less men will approach them. But again, if women are so sex averse, it doesn't matter of women approach them and desire them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:02 PM
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I mean she's wearing tight leggings, sweating, it's obvious she's in shape! It's perfect to check out the goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:59 AM
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Or women are women and they get horny and want to fuck just as badly as men. Just probably not the men society tells them they should be fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:48 AM
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I will make sure to tell that to my wife and a whole host of former girlfriends, FWBs and ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:45 AM
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I agree for the most part, but don't get me wrong. I never pursue or chase women. They are welcome to get on my ride when I extend an invitation but I'm going one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:44 AM
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Both can work. You can give out your number but it has to be done in a way where you really don't give an f if she calls or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:43 AM
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Women want a guy who is not afraid of her. If you tell yourself you are not attractive for her and you should not approach her, it tells her that you do not value yourself and don't do what's in your own best interest. Getting together with a man like this, in the animal kingdom would be equal to suicide. Imagine a lion thinks he is not good enough to go and catch a gazelle and as a result his litter starves to death while another lion gets his prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:09 AM
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Stop making excuses and do what's best for you, not what's best for other people. A woman will not likely call you. She will think you don't have balls. Do what's good for you, which is to ask her out confidently and like you are her prince.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:43 AM
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So why did god make women so sexy if he didn't want us fucking all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:04 PM
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How do women manage to smell so good?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:45 PM
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If women's sex drives are so low then why does every major religion try so hard to control women's sexuality? From dressing them like ninjas to striking the fear of god in them if they even think of adultery?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:24 PM
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What do women do for 3 hours in the bathroom before you go out? Why many of you pluck your eyebrows out just to draw them back on? Why do some women use pads and some tampons?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:22 PM
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The only reason there is inequality in the sexual marketplace is because men are too damn needy and desperate. The person who has the most power is the one who has choices. If being single is considered a fate worse than death by a considerable majority of men, then they are essentially removing one of their most desirable options off the table. That also means they are removing their often only source of power. Kind of shooting yourself in the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:31 PM
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Why do they wrap toilet paper around their fingers a couple of times in order to wipe when a single piece would do the same job? Why do they talk about their problems on and on and get mad when you offer an actual solution!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:08 PM
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If you are getting consistent feedback that women are not attracted or don't want to talk to you, then you need to examine what the c wise may be. This is no reason to conclude you are a worthless piece of shit. Again, they do not have the necessary information to judge your quality as a person because they don't know anything about you. Granted, they may be able to judge how you dress or present yourself or how you approach. If these things need adjusting or fixing, then go and do that. But the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:48 PM
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18-24? Girl, I date chicks only between 19 and 19.5. Anything older and it feels like I'm robbing the retirement home. Ewwww
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:05 AM
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Hey it's not my fault women half my age are checking me out and hitting on me. Sorry if things haven't been working out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:12 AM
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Aww schucks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:07 AM
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It all depends. An older man can also be more established, interesting, well traveled, well rounded, more experienced in bed and on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:15 AM
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Yeah but he could only have access to 5 girls in the village and probably all of them fugly. Now he can date all kinds of hotties. It goes both ways you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:29 AM
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It's like the saying: if all you have known is privilege, equality will feel like oppression. For men, it goes something like this: if all you have known is not having any standards beyond "does she have a vagina", a woman's reasonable standards will feel like an insurmountable mountain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:07 AM
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It changes everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:17 PM
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Am I taking crazy pills or are all of you damn high today?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:10 PM
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ESPECIALLY OF THOSE YOU DO NOT ADMIRE
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:08 PM
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A man cannot end up in the friendzone if he shows up as a man and a sexual being. The only way you get into the friendzone is by putting yourself there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:54 PM
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Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:51 PM
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Let's use an example. You go to a bar or other social function and you spot a woman whom you find attractive. You decide that she looks approachable and is not totally outside of your league. So you go and introduce yourself and she says: "what do you want fattie" or "what do you want baldie" or simple isn't interested in talking to you. Now this stranger is someone who knows nothing about you. Not who you are, what your values are, whether you are funny, loyal, a good person, etc. She knows not…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:41 PM
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Did you go to school in the US? I mean I keep hearing that reading comprehension rates are abysmal but this is on another level. I do not consider the opinions others have of me who I do not admire important at all. If the same opinion is being voiced by multiple people whom I do admire, then yes, by all means I will consider it, analyze it and if a change is warranted, I will take action. But no way am I considering the opinion of a complete stranger who may have known me only for a few seconds…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:35 PM
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Reread my comment. Slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:37 PM
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I can't think of anything more diminishing than making the opinions others have of you, especially those you do not admire, more important than your opinion of you. But hey, you do you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:19 PM
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Wrong! The second you try to sell yourself to a woman, she assumes the buyer role. Any buyer worth their salt will be skeptical, kick the tires, take their time making a decision, try to negotiate better terms and finally, because a woman is only allowed to make such a transaction a very limited number of times as far as society is concerned (n count BS, etc), she may end up saying "I like just as a friend". The less you try to sell yourself and impress women, the more impressed they will be wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:51 PM
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Because the guy has nothing else to offer but money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:48 PM
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Not mad. Sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:12 PM
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You are really on a roll here. You must have discovered "The Manipulated Man" and your rage boner seems to have lasted at least several days. You may want to get this checked out by a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:23 PM
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I gotta say there is this young girl in my neighborhood. She's a big girl. But for some reason her proportions are just right. Hip to waist ratio, hourglass figure even though she is objectively overweight. The other day I ran into her in the subway and noticed she had great make up on (pretty face) and had impeccable nails. Well done nails are a really big thing for me as a man. If I see a woman with chipped or gross nails, it's a huge turn off. For some reason when I see this chick I get sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:20 PM
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You want to read the book Intimate Connections by Dr David Burns. Find a PDF copy online. In essence you believe being a nice, sincere and serious guy will get you women but that's not the reality at all. People never want what they can get and always want what they can't get. The nice sincere but also desperate guys is what any woman can get. The men who don't really care about them, are elusive and have other women chasing after them, these guys are what they can't get. You need to accept that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:12 PM
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I'm just going to assume you haven't had the balls to ask any of them out or make any moves, to which the only response can be: Well, d'uh!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:06 PM
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Why do you think being socially awkward is desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:51 AM
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It happens all the time. Women may not like it and will bitch and moan about it, but they'd rather share an alpha than have the whole of a beta. The same way guys would rather have a bit of a super hot 10, the a whole of a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:36 AM
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Actually, the real problem is too many men who think they are worse than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:28 AM
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I mean the other day a young woman tried picking me up in Starbucks, hinting that this was her last night visiting the city. I think way more women are hornier and just want to fuck than any of you would know, but things are more complicated for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:48 AM
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The ironic thing is you will have an easier time getting laid by being honest about what you want. But there is no way you'd know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:44 AM
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Not really. You just need to confront your fears and go for it like her prince. Her prince wouldn't hesitate to approach her even if he didn't know anyone in the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:49 AM
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Most men mistake horniness for loneliness. The issue with feeling lonely is that you end up making bad choices and sabotaging your own efforts to socialize with others. People become so needy and demanding to have others meet their needs, that they also become insufferable, bitter, often anti-social, etc., which does nothing to encourage others to get to know them. They are also very me me me me me me focused. It's all about what others can do for them to alleviate their loneliness. But they pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:15 PM
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Awkward losers are not different at all. They are the norm. Part of the gray masses, all looking the same with the same phobias of women. You may want to go socialize with some women, because the stuff they talk about when men are not around will make even the hardest core porn user blush.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:17 PM
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They do, just like men do. And it's almost all subconscious. If you look and behave like every other guy she is used to, to her brain you will be equivalent to her brother or father. Not someone she would want to breed with. But a man who looks and behaves differently will always be interesting to her .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:59 PM
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Exactly! I suppose it's a really tough delusion to let go of. I suppose they think if they let go of their obsessive need for love and female validation, that they would turn into eunuchs or lose all interest in women and that would be the end. At least if they are desperate and needy, they figure, they would still be motivated to keep trying no matter how hopelessly. Quite on the contrary! They would likely become way more appealing because women will sense these guys are not desperate and need…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:53 PM
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Check my other comments on other threads. I speak about this ad naseum and you'd be surprised how many men cling to the idea that they need women to be happy almost violently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:42 PM
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Sexual attraction is wired in our genes and it is a bit more complex than - me need food, me fuck Grog. If you look at it, men are attracted to certain women because beauty is an indicator of reproductive fitness. A woman's hair, nails, smooth skin, body shape, butt and breast size, her lips, and looks are all indicators that she is better equipped to carry a healthy child. In this day and age, when modern medicine all hit ensures a healthy pregnancy for any woman, it doesn't make logical sense …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:38 PM
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No, I agree with you. I think it's stupid and counterproductive. Is it going to change anytime soon? Probably not. It's becoming a self perpetuating cycle. Who knows who started it. Maybe men lying and pretending to get into a woman's pants drive women to be more guarded. As they become more guarded men assumed they were being bitchy and entitled, so they started treating them poorly. And because they are getting tested poorly or not getting the commitment they want, women start shitting on all …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:01 PM
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I mean that's par for the course. Women are always bitching about the assholes they date and nowadays every single woman has magically dated a narcissist who was gaslighting her and emotionally abusing her, blah blah blah. That's what women do, bitch and moan about men they sleep with who don't want to commit to them. And they will keep sleeping with them and bitching and moaning about them until the end of time. I would absolutely not take any of this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:20 PM
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At the same time, a strange male is her best chance of getting diverse genes and not the ones from her own family which would produce a retarded child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:05 PM
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Of course not. We've only managed to survive as a species for hundreds of thousands of years because every single woman ever alive was raped. Or she had sex for money. Including your mom. Including all your moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:59 PM
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If you are capable of loving others, you are capable of loving you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:55 PM
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Then what are you complaining about?
/r/seduction12/12/23 12:10 PM
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There is a correlation between men who use only dating apps to source women and social retardation, anxiety and other mental health issues. In other words, guys think they can just sit and swipe and a hot girl will show up naked to their door. Go out and do shit. Be a man. Have a mission in life and a purpose. Women will feel that big dick energy coming from you and will be attracted to that. Not to pixels on a screen.
/r/seduction12/12/23 11:58 AM
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Yes...the book itself. It's so ridiculous, that nobody could think it was written seriously or not by a mental patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:43 AM
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The lion and male chimp seem completely capable of fending for themselves and are not breaking down in hysterics and crying on PPD because a female didn't pay them enough attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:43 AM
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What's the last time you were even on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:19 AM
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Just for the record Esther Vilar's book was written as a joke. So take it easy on the quotes. Yes, women care about money because virtually every woman is socialized to seek security. When growing up she was told: Don't date Bobby over there, he is no good, he rides a motorcycle and doesn't have any prospects. Date Teddy over here, he is going to school to be a lawyer and he will take good care of you one day. Or the incessant "You should marry a doctor or a lawyer one day". And so on and so for…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:16 AM
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Sure, we have a lot of natural inclinations and urges. Humans have the urge to eat high calorie foods full of sugars and fats, because we evolved during a time when food was scarce and needed access to fast energy. Humans also have the urge to preserve energy and save it only for energy intensive tasks such as hunting or literally fighting for their lives. But if we take both of those urges to the extreme and we make them a need, we'd get fat and lazy and never leave the couch. The same thing ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:04 AM
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I never said anything about giving up your desire for women. Only the belief that you need them in order to be fully happy and fulfilled. I encourage men to enjoy as many women as they can handle. You should get at least two. They are tiny!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:41 AM
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How? If for example, you hold off on taking a woman out for a nice dinner until you've gotten to know her because you want to see if she will appreciate you for who you are, is that showing lack of character and judgment? And what if you went and spent $500 on a hooker or stripper for some disappointing sex right away? Isn't that the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:04 AM
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Stop making women the be all end all of your life and existence and it will be 10X easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:56 AM
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Because you are too needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:51 AM
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The fastest way for a man to reduce his horniness is to have sex with the same woman day in, day out. The more sex he has, the less horny he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:03 AM
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At least argue with me why you think my assertion is untrue. You haven't provided anything as evidence to argue that point. You just keep calling it a basic human need. So is it like air, food, water and shelter? How long can an adult human being survive without love? 5 mins, 5 hours? 5 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:51 AM
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Completely agreed! There is no black and white or all or nothing. There is a lot of grey in between. Sure; we may lean towards on or the other side a bit more, women are humans and get horny and want to fuck too. If they didn't, no major religion would bother with stuff like dressing them like ninjas from head to toe, inventing chastity belts or putting the fear of god in them for having an extramarital affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:37 AM
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As long as you believe that you need a woman's love to be a fully realized and happy human being, you will always be beholden to and dependent on women for your emotional wellness. And when you don't feel that you have gotten your needs met that you are entitled to, you will feel deprived and slighted. And who is depriving you of the love that is rightfully yours? Those rotten women of course. So there is more resentment and anger and bitterness. And for some reason you think those will make you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:35 AM
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Date multiple women. Yes, women will more likely catch feelings when you are man #1. You want to know what's the experience of man #2. Endless first and second dates, hundreds spent on dinners every month, only to be told "I like just as a friend". And he doesn't even get have much sex. Always chasing, always pursuing, always feeling not good enough and powerless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:21 AM
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What is the big crime she committed exactly that would preclude her from commitment down the line, assuming that she is otherwise a likeable and good person?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:34 AM
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You are misrepresenting what I said. I said GUILT FREE GOOD SEX. Guilt free means non-judgmental, with mutual respect and care for the other person. You are just hearing what you want to hear and distorting my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:03 AM
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Most women are reactive to how a man presents himself. If he shows up and is basically emotionally unavailable and offers one thing and one thing only (good sex), GUILT FREE, then you'd be surprised how many women will take him up on his offer. Since they figure he is good for one thing only, they won't feel the need to play games with him. After all, they don't have to impress him or risk losing him if they are too easy/slutty, because that's the arrangement anyway. Contrast that to the guy who…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:15 PM
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More dick pics you say!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:43 PM
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If nobody swipes right on you, do you even exist? I was was swiped right, therefore I am!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:48 PM
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My question is the competence that is required to talk to women, flirt and ask them out is not something that is outside of the ability of the majority of men. Yes, if you are shy or socially anxious, you may be lacking in some of these skills. So go out there and learn how to improve them. Not super complicated stuff. Men speak of competence as if they have to shoot down alien spaceships and perform brain surgery on a daily basis just to be able to speak to a girl. Ignoring all the years of liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:53 PM
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That's a pretty low bar. You are not learning how to do brain surgery here. Most of us know how to talk to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:25 PM
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Men reducing their entire self worth to a few pixels on a tiny screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:41 PM
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The only explanation of course is that women are having sex with aliens, some third gender we don't know about or large farm animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:16 PM
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Confidence means everything. A leader has to exude confidence in order to be effective. There are a lot of competent people who are bad leaders. Overthinking. Never making a decision. A woman wants a man who will take change and lead them both and who will be confident he can get the job done. What competence exactly do you need to talk to a woman and go on a date and kiss her? These are basic interpersonal skills. You are not solving the theory of relativity here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:10 PM
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If confidence was so cheap I wonder why most people have zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:37 AM
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So you are saying that a person who has been on this earth for more than a couple of decades, who has been who he is his whole life and has developed many qualities over the years has absolutely nothing to feel confident about himself because he is not competent? How about he is competent in being himself, in being an honest, honorable person. How about him being a competent and good friend. Or good at his hobbies and interests. You are telling me most people have nothing to be confident about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:36 AM
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Competence is useless if you don't have the confidence to try things you haven't tried before such as going over and talking to the complete stranger you are attracted to and asking her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:32 AM
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I find this so hilarious and ironic. A guy who spends several paragraphs overthinking why confidence means nothing, at the end of the day unknowingly proving that lack of confidence is indeed the problem. Why? Because you are the type of guy who will see a girl he's attracted to and spend the next 30 minutes debating in his head why he is not good enough for her, why he shouldn't go and talk to her and how even if he did, he would be shot down until some asshole comes along and takes the girl wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:30 AM
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Read the title of the post again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:33 AM
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Well, if you know what you are looking for; it's probably best to ask the person during a conversation whether they value the same things you do. Just blurting out "what do you bring to the table" or "why should I date you" is quite simply autistic and socially retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:10 AM
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So because women say it too it means it's not confrontational and hostile?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:06 AM
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It's confrontational. It implies hostility and bitterness. "What do you bring to the table", but the unsaid part is "you are probably a dirty hoe with a high n count who uses men for dinners and have high standards and will treat me like a loser."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:33 AM
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Honesty, trust and respect. Never use curse words with each other, never treat each other like we are kids, or stupid or nag. Only one person can fit into a pair of pants, so I make sure to be the one wearing them in the relationship. These are the things that I usually bring up front. Other stuff is an extension of these rules and boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:49 PM
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Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:55 PM
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I don't, they talk about their abandonment issues and how every ex has abused them and mistreated them, and blah blah blah. Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:40 PM
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I think on the opposite. They would play into how fragile they are and how they would be broken if I were to dump which is a helluva a guilt trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:41 PM
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The answer to your problems is in my post. Look again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:07 PM
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I see where you are going with this and I will answer your question, but I still think you are looking at the wrong solution. Yes, I was in a couple of relationships with crazy women. I don't know if I would call it abuse, but certainly something I should have never tolerated. You want to know something? The only reason I stayed with these women is because I was telling myself I need to have a woman, I'm nothing without a woman, being single is worse than being with someone who is no good for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:27 PM
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Yes, all the divorces initiated by women. All the stories of men getting their balls handed over to them. I can go on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:26 PM
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Just take a look at the TV shows most women consume. Reality TV, celebrity drama, tabloids. Women love drama and can't get enough of it. It's called emotional tension. The problem is that the boring accountant with a nice 401K and paid off mortgage doesn't really offer any drama. It's like watching paint dry. But the guy who doesn't always have his life together, who's here today and is gone tomorrow and/or always getting trouble or about to get in trouble, the guy her dad would hate - now that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:31 PM
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You were 7 when the show came out. Anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:09 PM
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Oh god. You must be young or live under a rock. That's Tony Soprano from The Sopranos. And early 2000s TV show about mobsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:36 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:35 PM
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Yes, 100%! I think that's what people mean by describing a bad boy. For example, the guy below is fat, balding and has a funny voice. If you described him like this, probably no woman would say he would be her type. Yet, he was voted one of the sexiest men alive:
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:32 PM
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50/50 never works. A relationship is not a democracy. You can't have two people driving a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:36 AM
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There is two things most women want even if they never tell you. If you manage to give them both things, they will rip your clothes off. The first one is the feeling of safety and protection. Let's do a thought experiment. Imagine you are a 125 lbs woman. You now have 1/10th of the testosterone that you have as a man. So you are about 30%+ weaker than the average man, especially in upper body strength. Your bones and skin are thinner. Now imagine you have to walk through a dark alley at night. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:31 AM
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I'm trying to show people why believing that the only way to experience happiness is to be loved is a false belief. If people don't want to give up that belief after hearing these arguments, what else can I do? You can do an experiment and do a pros and cons list of "I need love to be happy and fulfilled". List all the advantages of that belief and all the disadvantages. Note, we are not disputing whether love and relationships have any disadvantages. Of course they do not. That's not the point.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:33 AM
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You are not really understanding the depth of the problem. The problem is neediness and desperation. Needy and desperate people are sooooo unaware of how they come across to others. And it's a very unappealing, very unsexy vibe especially for men. It has nothing to do with "what do you bring to the table". It has to do with what needy people tell themselves they have to get from others. It's like that homeless guy who approaches you and says "nice shirt man" and then you wince because you know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:21 PM
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People who are likable are those who like others and take interest in them. Not the ones who are only concerned with that they can extract from the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:40 PM
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Nobody said anything about selflessness. I am making the point that all needy lonely guys only want to take, take, take. What's in it for me types. They are dull as a 4x4, humorless, don't have anything interesting going on in their lives. They don't actually take interest in others. They just want to latch onto others to help them escape their miserable sad and lonely existence. "Take me, I have no inherent self worth, I can't even stand myself" is the message they send to others. No wonder the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:22 PM
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I mean are women even people? Has anyone actually listened to a woman for more than 2 minutes without picturing her naked? I don't know man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:16 PM
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That's not how the pussy cartel works though. The reason women slut shame each other is because the "slut", in other words the woman who sleeps with whomever she wants for whatever reason she wants, gives it away for free, therefore undermining the market for other women who want to charge for their sex. Most women are trained to exchange their sex only for something of value, like commitment, helping her with her car payments, a couple of dinners and a show at the very least. Or the ultimate pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:01 PM
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I will tell you one thing and you will absolutely hate me for it. But here it goes. There is one common theme with all you needy, lonely, desperate guys. It's all be me me me me me me. Why aren't others showing ME compassion, why don't women want to fuck ME, why do women ignore ME, why aren't women giving ME validation, me me me me me mememmemememememmemememememme. You guys are so self centered and selfish, only looking to take from others. It's all about what you can extract from other people, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:59 PM
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I'm sorry, but I pop blue pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:52 PM
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A want is different from a need. The problem is when you tell yourself you NEED a relationship and a girlfriend to feel fulfilled and happy and the implied: "if I don't have a girlfriend, or if I get rejected, it means I'm a total losers and probably defective". See, the person who has choices has the most power in a relationship. The issue with needy people is they don't have a choice. Not only because they are usually not dating much or have other people interested in them, but because the one…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:20 PM
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If you knew me, you'd know I'd probably end up microwaving my own hand somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:09 PM
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I think women should stay in the kitchen where they belong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:14 PM
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Johnny Soporno said: women crave security like men crave approval. Women will go through great lengths to obtain security, including prostituting themselves out (well, he took me to a nice dinner and offered to fix my car, I guess I will fuck him), marrying rich although they are banging their personal trainer on the side, etc. Men too will go through great lengths to secure the approval of others, whether it is getting into a career they don't particularly enjoy, getting married but not because…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:17 AM
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Right now unhappiness=constipation. Tomorrow? We shall see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:13 AM
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You are not going to let anyone win the Victim Olympics, that much is certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:39 AM
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Young chicks don't want balding older guys and older women are on to their BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:36 AM
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Say it isn't so? Now why would a conservative think tank called then Institute for Family Studies feature an article from mr Brad Wilcox of the National Marriage Project that claims unmarried women are more likely to be unhappy? Surely, those guys will have no bias whatsoever!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:36 AM
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Biology and differences in our brains. If cavemen sat around and talked about their feelings and gossiping about who's sleeping with whom, the human species probably wouldn't have made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:39 PM
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Let me put it to you this way. For a man it is easy to think about new achievements and tasks he has to accomplish everyday. It takes no effort. For a man to think about relationships requires a lot of energy and efforts. For a woman( it is easy to think about relationships and relating to others. For her to think about accomplishments and scaling new peaks requires a lot of energy and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:56 PM
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I will tell you a little secret. When I was a teenager and a bit older, I was extremely shy and introverted. I didn't even think about things like making moves on women or getting them interested in me. Interestingly enough, my first girlfriend pursued me. Women were always expressing interest in me, but of course not many of them every made moves. So eventually I decided I needed to overcome my shyness and start meeting women and making moves. But stupidly, I bought into the pickup artist BS an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:33 PM
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A few things. One - the self defeating belief that you need love/sex/intimacy in order to be fully happy and fulfilled. Therefore, men often see the ability to have a girlfriend or sleep with women easily as the be all end all. Inversely, if they are alone and single, they believe it means they are losers and defective. The problem with this belief is that it's not actually true, but you can make it true about yourself. Meaning, you can actually feel like you need love and that without it you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:53 PM
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You are making the classic mistake of projecting your own sexual arousal mechanism onto women (women do the same in the other direction). Here is the typical criteria that a man needs in order to become aroused enough (get hard) to actually have sex. We can agree that a man is not considered aroused unless he has a hard on and is able to use it, okay? He needs someone that is attractive enough (a fluid criteria, that changes based on the last time he's had sex, how many beers he's had or how lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:36 AM
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The vagina is a muscle. Do you know what happens to muscles when they are not used? Do you think all the bodybuilders in the gym have really flabby muscles because they use them all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:21 AM
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Not only that, but there is evidence men produce stronger sperm when faced with a female that has other male partners: https://mindhacks.com/2005/06/08/mixed-gender-pornography-boosts-sperm-production/ There is no such evidence of sperm competition when the subjects viewed girl on girl porn, but their sperm was better quality when they viewed two men and a woman porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:20 AM
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I'm 42 and with the miracle of modern pharmaceuticals (testosterone cynionate and amphetamines) I feel 12 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:19 AM
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Evolutionary speaking cheating is completely irrelevant. The survival of the species dictates that the strongest genes reproducing gives the best chances of survival. This may mean a woman who has the baby of an alpha male, while having a beta raise the child until adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:18 AM
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What about the ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:16 AM
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You know how guys claim that virgins are "tighter"? Well, of course, they feel tighter because they are usually nervous and not aroused enough in order to relax and produce enough lubrication for intercourse to not be painful to them. If there is one secret to being loved by women and having them come back for seconds, it is to make them comfortable and relaxed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:15 AM
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Men who have lots of sex do everything to encourage women to have more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:38 AM
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Definitely much better than in KSA or Afghanistan or some other shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:04 PM
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Here is a little tip for you (just the tip): I sincerely believe that most repressive societies are the result of a bunch of loser men who can't get laid. Any Muslim repressive regime, any Christian fundamentalist cult, even North Korea. All cause these guys couldn't get some pussy. Sad! I think most redpillers would love to live in those distopias because they will finally feel like they have power over women and will show them their place. Me, personally? I absolutely enjoy today's freedom and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:29 PM
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I think "wanting" something out of women is what is probably turning them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:19 PM
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Why people want to win someone over who doesn't like you? Easy peasy. People never want what they can't get and always want what they can't get. Human nature 101 and AP Masochism 102. I do agree with the advice that if are not appealing to the group of people you want to be appealing to (for example, a man who wants to be appealing to women), then yes, by all means, change what you need to change. If you have trouble liking yourself because of some objective reasons, such as you tend to put on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:18 PM
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Another case of a man who is so concerned with what women want that he doesn't stop for a second to think what he wants. When you figure out what you want and you purse that thing in life relentlessly, women will be trying to get on your program and not the other way around. But until then, keep trying to figure out how to be a pickmeboi.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:34 PM
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The universe can feel when you don't need them and it sends them a message to chase you. Happens all the time.
/r/seduction07/12/23 07:22 PM
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Libido is not the problem at all actually. It's emotional neediness that's the problem. Libido you can take care it with a quick wank job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:48 PM
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Someone who finally gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:45 PM
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People never want what they can get and always want what they can't get. A person who shows too much attention and interest early on, who comes on too strong or too serious can be seen as needy or not having options. A lot of guys treat a date like it's their last chance to ever get love or get laid. Act like it happens to you all the time and it's nothing special and you will be much better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:44 PM
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It's really about flirting. Flirting can be defined as a humorous, playful joking around with a sexual or romantic undercurrent. It can be verbal or non verbal (winking, the way you look someone up and down, the way you walk past them and check them out). This is the romantic sexual language that creates sexual and emotional tension between two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:19 PM
5

People are having less and less relationships and less and less sex. And that's why the human population has never been higher. It all makes sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:16 PM
2

Can't let another hoe outhoe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:14 PM
1

As I always say, the only power men believe that women have in the dating arena is the power that they give to women. If a woman is a spoiled brat who doesn't think her shit stinks, it's because men treated her like this her whole life. It's a hard pill to swallow for men, but we need to look in the mirror. On the other hand, it makes it so much easier to be different just by not doing what all these guys do and all of a sudden you are the most sought after GUY.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:12 PM
6

No. But I do understand the bias towards PPD in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:23 AM
3

Nobody is talking about holding men responsible for everything in the world. The genders do this shit to each other all the time, but again, everyone wants to be victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:20 AM
5

I'm just saying men on PPD do that all the time so the assumption is you do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:56 AM
7

I means it's a bit like the Israel/Palestine conflict. Men here are constantly blaming women for all the ills of the world (hypergamous, chasing attractive tall men, having standards, whatever) and in turn they blame men for the failings of a select few who do indeed murder and rape women. So unless you are prepared to stop blaming women for all your own failings and accept responsibility for not being able to get laid, only then can you ask them to stop being misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:52 AM
1

The people who had the toughest time getting laid in HS were the good boys and girls who followed all the rules to a t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:58 PM
3

I don't even think women really want to be housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:23 PM
2

Not really. The reason he is not anxious with friends or other males really or the old lady that lives down the block is that he doesn't want or need anything from them. But an attractive woman - oh my! He needs her approval, validation, he wants to avoid her not liking him or thinking he is a loser. Give all of that up and talking to hot women will be easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:51 PM
2

Tell me you inform your view on women and dating by watching TikTok without telling you inform your views about women and dating on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:08 PM
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It's the human mating dance. People want what they can't get. A guy who is staring and ogling women is easy to get and therefore of no interest. A guy who is not phased by attention seeking behavior is much harder to get and therefore more interesting g to a woman. He is also in control of himself (as opposed to the woman being in total control).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:17 PM
3

I like how you framed men as wild animals unable to control their thirstiness and desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:14 PM
1

Men are indeed very drawn to specific looks in a woman, because those reflect her reproductive health and ability. Slim women have better pregnancies, large breasts are associated with fertility, the butt contains a fat that is crucial in the brain development of a baby, hip to waist ratio (child bearing hips) is important in how easy a pregnancy will be. A woman's hair, lips and skin also reflect her overall health and access to good nutrition and micronutrients. On the other hand, women seem t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:38 PM
14

I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:41 AM
5

I don't know you tell me. You wrote in a post that you are a part time waitress. I don't know many countries where one can live off of being a part time waiter. Is your husband supporting you? Would you support him if he decided to get a part time job at a record store?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:29 AM
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Sigh! Let me break this down for you once and for all. Women crave attention like men crave sex. Sometimes they will go to great lengths to get attention from men and women, the same way me will go to great lengths to get sex. At the end of the day, the power that women have over men is their sexuality. Wear a tight outfit, something revealing, do their hair, etc., and they know the effect they have on men. And they enjoy having that power. The power men have over women, on the other hand, is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:19 AM
3

Are those...ex girlfriends of yours in the room with us now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:12 AM
1

You don't need to become an eunuch to have your power back. Just work on getting rid of your neediness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:07 AM
0

The only privilege/power women have is the one that men give her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:07 AM
1

Every guy is confident with his friends or when talking to a sweet grandma at the grocery store. But put that man in front of an attractive woman and he becomes a shrinking violet. Why? Because he needs something from the attractive woman. Her validation, approval, love, sex. As long as a man tells himself he lacks those things and that they are essential to a happy life, he will be needy and the opposite of confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:55 AM
6

I have to ask the customary "are you a virgin" whose only experience with women is through TikToks and TV?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:50 AM
2

I would have agreed with you, except, using your own analogy it will be like: "billions upon billions of humans have existed on a colony on Mars for the last several hundred thousand years and yet, I'm the only one who can't get approved to go live there, therefore it must be completely impossible to get approved to live there (except for the billions of people who have done it for hundreds of thousands if hears before me)."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:11 PM
4

Refer to this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/G2qvdWyrNM You guys are not even asking women out, so not sure what you draw all your conclusions about them from is you don't even interact wjth women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:51 PM
16

A lot of people are drawing conclusions on the state of modern dating from a 13+ year old, non-peer reviewed study using data from one of the earliest dating sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:48 PM
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That's one way to miss out on a ton of sex and cute young girlies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:54 PM
37

If you've held hands with a woman or spoken to one for more than 5 seconds you already have vastly more experience wjth women than the average PPD user.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:14 PM
2

That's actually not true. Most men believe everything is black and white. You are either the top guy and get all the chicks or you are incel loser bound to spend your days alone. No middle ground. No gray whatsoever. Black and white. So when a well meaning friend or internet stranger offers advice to the guy who considers himself an irredeemable loser, the person can always say "Chad doesn't have to dress well or know how to flirt. He gets women even if he looks and smells like a homeless guy. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:59 PM
2

Yeah okay that's what I meant 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:21 PM
7

Unfortunately, there is a vicious cycle that happens to lonely people. But firstly, let's define what loneliness is. To me, loneliness is the distress one feels that is caused by the gap between the relationships they have and the relationships they think they should have. This means that someone can be married or in a relationship and surrounded by people and still feel lonely. As long as they believe they should have a different relationship then then one they have, it can be enough to cause l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:11 PM
1

There was a good article from a Harvard professor of anthropology or evo psych or something a while back. But basically his conclusion was this: the bottle neck to the survival of the species is women. They are the only ones who can have offspring. One man can impregnate 100 women, but you don't need 100 men to impregnate one woman. She can only have one child anyway. So it made sense that women should avoid danger and confrontation, because a bunch of dead women didn't benefit the species. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:35 PM
2

I don't think you are quite on the money here. Just like with every animal on earth, humans have a mating dance. A game of sorts to play. Those who refuse to play the game, usually end up alone or they get attached to the first person who comes along and pays them some attention. Pretty much every guy I've talked to who struggles with women, absolutely refused to accept that there is a game to play and they refuse to play it. They all come across as too serious and sincere. They want to talk abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:37 AM
13

Because many men grow up with the idea that pissing a woman off is a fate worse than death. Or close to it. I'm being serious. It's the way many women exert control. It took me quite a few years to realize that I did in fact have the right to stand up for myself and do what I want when in a relationship even if the gf gets pissed off or upset. Or to put in another way, the reason is fear of losing her. But once you get over that fear, women stop having any power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:28 AM
1

I think you have already given up reading comprehension long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:17 AM
8

For men like this the only option is to become outlaws or the types who break the rules and are somewhat unconventional. They need to embrace their unconventional looks and play up to them. Ambitious ugly men get laid all the time. Maybe not with supermodels or even average women, but someone must be producing all those ugly peoples out there, cause there are helluva a lot more of them than beautiful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:51 AM
1

My wife wouldn't like it very much. But on the other hand, I've had women approach me and hint at wanting to go out. So I technically don't even need to ask women out. They are being the aggressive pursuers nowadays and I'm loving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:00 AM
2

You need to be fucking specific here. What is the solution you propose? Empty platitudes are empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:43 AM
1

What kind of solution are you looking for exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:41 AM
-1

Ok. But this is a personal problem. I'm lonely, so I go out and try to socialize. If I suck at socializing, I seek some help with it. Either advice or therapy to overcome anxiety. I look to solve my problems. What exactly do you want us to do if someone feels lonely and isolated?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:09 AM
2

Wow, I have asked out exactly 0 women in the past 12 months!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:08 AM
0

I mean if you are going towards "women something something hypergamy something something dating apps something something", I have nothing else to add to this discussion. I assume this is where you are going with all of this, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:06 AM
10

And here I thought men who are popular with women are....popular with women. I have been wrong all my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:57 PM
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I mean what do you want us to do about it? I'm not the one complaining. I'm married. A hot woman probably half my age tried picking me up today in a Starbucks. Girls check me out at the gym all the time (I blast T and take adderall to keep trim). If you feel lonely and isolated, then get motivated to go out and make friends and get a gf. It's what I did when I was younger. And yes, I did spend years moping around just like you. But I was more horny than I was shy. It doesn't sound like you are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:55 PM
4

The problem isn't necessarily moving too slow. The problem is that you hide your sexual agenda. Meaning, you probably present as some kind of a neutered nice guy who is not interesting to women. You have to present as a guy who is a man and as a man is interested in women sexually and doesn't hide it. NOW; just because a man is interested in women sexually, doesn't mean that he has to jump every woman's bones that he comes across. You can be clear with your sexual agenda and still want to get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:44 PM
1

In case you haven't noticed, it takes two to tango. Does this even need to be explained?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:53 PM
0

The only perception/opinion that has to change is your own opinion of you. That's the most important perception. If that's fucked up, you are fucked. If you are self accepting and happy to be you, nothing can stop you. You will emanate sexappeal, because people want to be around those who like themselves and don't play by the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:37 PM
1

Even worse. Niceness not only does not come from virtue, but it comes from the fear of others disapproving of you. A boy becomes a man when he loses his fear of disapproval.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:29 PM
2

You barking in the right direction but still up the wrong tree. The best advice is for men to stop linking their happiness and fulfillment to whether they have obtained love/intimacy/sex. Making your happiness dependent on those things leads to neediness and it is neediness that causes being too available, accommodating and chasing women, which is inherently unattractive. Because people want what they can't have. Get rid of the neediness by giving up the belief that you need love/intimacy/sex in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:50 PM
1

Literally no one is advising that. You guys are so terrified of interacting and connecting with other human beings, that you cause your own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:47 PM
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