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The situation solves itself in a way. All the hedonistic and materialistic women will die childless and their shitty genetics with them. The women who can be sensible and admit their strengths and weaknesses with humility will have families with good men. The only problem will be all the men who will be single because of this causing trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:44 AM
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The funniest take I saw from this ''4B'' announcement went something like this: ''So you're going stop being whores because Trump got elected? Pauses Thank God, finally, if that's what it takes.''
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:21 AM
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If we weren't in a society with controls on male sexuality, in a more natural setting, that would be correct. But as the social protective barriers are broken down by women in the name of reproductive and sexual freedom, you will get more men of a certain attraction level getting most of the sex and most men getting little to no sex. This is playing out on the dating apps right now and not a good thing. Women are organizing themselves in harems for men they find irresistibly attractive, giving t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:08 AM
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All the most competent men I know of are not that good looking, want to be dads and would be great husbands are very sexless. It's a hilarious irony that a lot of pretty men never have to work on themselves therefore making them a poor prospect for a partner. I'm in an LTR, getting married in Jan next year, I did not want casual sex, it's pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:38 AM
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Not the women I've been around? That being said I went to private school out in country Australia. Most of the women looked similiar to her in body and facial structure. All they had to do was not get fat, maybe a bit of exercise focused on the core and legs/butt. The male body standard is far harder to achieve than the female one. I have to workout EVERYTHING. Seriously, I'm lifting weights between comments right now and it's fucking hard, I'm never going to look jacked unless I win the lottery…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:25 AM
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It's just an overall rating based on many factors. But none of it matters if she's an asshole. Maybe slightly better than average just because appears to take care of her weight. Not sure why this matters so much to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:02 AM
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Holy shit yes. They just make it up as they go along. Annoys the shit out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:52 AM
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Reminds me of a comedy bit by an Aussie comedian called Steve Hughes. ''What do want in a relationship?'' Feminine man voice ''I want a woman, all soft and moisturized.'' ''What do you Gary?'' ''I WANNA FUCK A BLOKE! I want a big strong man to f*** me in the a**.'' Finishes the bit ''Straight, it's the new gay.''
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:50 AM
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Poor guy is coping hard (or not) with his sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:46 AM
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She's average looking to me. She's not fat. At all. Make up and good camera angles elevate her to above average in her pictures only. There's a picture in there of her without makeup and a mirror selfie and she just looks average to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:45 AM
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Person gets roasted on a sub about roasting people. Shocked Pikachu face
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:00 AM
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It's not that we prefer it, we're not as bothered by it. There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:44 AM
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It defines your life from the time you are born, it colors in all my thoughts, feelings, perceptions, every single aspect of my thought process. It’s responsible for making me the person I am. Admitting that is not “victimizing” myself, it’s being comfortable with myself. Everyone is different, you just put a label on yours, just because it's a little more different than normal limits. But here you are conversing like anyone else. Why do you need the labels? I developed a stronger sense of self …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:08 AM
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I really do have empathy for my fellow mental health sufferers. I've been there, I've cried myself to sleep countless nights. The majority of my tax is fed into my countries health system. I'm Australian and I'm glad for universal health care. But... Ask yourself the hard questions you probably haven't asked yourself and need to. These questions I don't think are considered by even ''normal'' people. These questions snapped me out of my old ways of thinking and forced me to overcome my problems.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:43 AM
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You said I would hope you could recognize that there is a large theoretical difference between your behavior and ability to regulate yourself and people who present more strongly. That seems to lump all autistic people into one big group as far as I can see. I'm trying to make the point that lumping us into one big group does us a disservice, because the public at large only sees people at their worst and assumes the worst across that group. I'm making the argument that you shouldn't let people …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:29 AM
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People do notice, they don't care, they have their own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:11 AM
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Okay well if you were diagnosed with Asperger's then surely I would hope you could recognize that there is a large theoretical difference between your behavior and ability to regulate yourself and people who present more strongly. They're a minority of autistic people in my experiences. Like, this post is talking about autism in general and you start by saying you are a high-functioning autist. It's like if I went on a post about difficulties dating as a physically disabled person and said hey j…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:04 AM
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Sounds like you've made autism a core part of your identity so you can feel like you're special when you're not. It also allows you to shirk responsibility when it suits you. You are a human being with a complex and varied neurodevelopmental disability I am not disabled, I'm just a little bit different in the ways I think, a genetic variation part of our evolution. I'd go so far to say autism allows me to see and connect things people may otherwise not think about. Some autistic people are quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:54 AM
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If they do not know about it, it won't influence their judgement. It's not outwardly obvious like height is. No one ever has figured it out by just looking at me, yet. I socialize like a ''normal'' person, I blend in seamlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:02 AM
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I cannot believe that equity is even in the discussion these days. Took me 5 minutes of reading the definition of it to understand why it's a shit idea. What are most people motivated by? Monetary gains and status/social increases. What does this do? Rewards people for being productive and innovative as well as good people. What does equity do when taken to its conclusion? Pay everyone out (in money or status) exactly equally no matter how much work they do or how good/nice they are as a person.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:54 AM
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Um wouldn't physical abuse be a legitimate reason to divorce in an at fault state? I'm of the understanding that ''at fault'' divorce means you can divorce a person if they're physically abusing you. So what's the problem here? No fault divorce requires no proof of wrong doing by either party and that opens up both men and women to fraudulent marriages that the other party can do nothing to counter. If they make more money or own more assets. They have to pay their spouse out no matter what, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:48 AM
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Just like any movement, it's been ruined and co-opted by people looking to push agendas, blackmail, make money etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:53 AM
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As someone who was diagnosed with Aspergers before it was cool and trendy to victimize yourself, I've noticed no difference, because I generally don't tell people about it. I refuse to define myself by this diagnosis. I've also learned to socialize like any other person now. It's kind of fun, the only thing I struggle with is reading body language now. I'm in a relationship with a beautiful woman I love and it's going smoothly, because I refuse to define myself by my problems and I adapt and lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:50 AM
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The dating economy is just that, an economy. The passport bros is a one part of a market correction. Men don't feel wanted or needed in their home country. So they go to where they feel they are wanted or needed. I keep seeing the videos of western women framing these men as exploitative predators. Exploiting poorer and ''dumber'' women. Sure some of the passport bros may be like that. But why don't you give that same criticism to the exploitative women in western nations? Absolute double standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:39 AM
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Yeah looking good is easy you just have to: Maintain a strict structured exercise routine. Balance a good diet and track calories in and out. Be born with the right bone and muscle types. This is very important, make sure you get this one correct. Select the right clothes. You know the ones, the right ones. Select the right deodorants, THE RIGHT ONES! God it's just so easy. Sarcasm aside I have actually fulfilled all those things. I'm lucky to born with good masculine features, but I don't date …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:42 AM
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No shit, but the alternative doesn't get you a relationship in most societies. Men are adaptive by nature and will do whatever it takes to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:41 AM
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If you want to make claims of historical oppression you'd need to figure how to define opression exactly. Some people might not agree on what was and was not opression. Most of the arguments and counterarguments have been already made in this thread. But for example: The majority of women were opressed by their biology, 9 months of pregnancy, death in childbirth etc. Majority of men were opressed by their responsibilities. They were required to fight in wars, do hard labour for most of their liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:49 AM
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Ok, but are you willing to acknowledge that emotional men on the whole are extremely unattractive to most women? The fact that emotional men are uncommon means that emotional men are probably being filtered out through natural selection. Men are raised to emotionless, because that's what's expected and gets results. The change in this ironically starts with women overcoming their natural mate choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:21 AM
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Long sigh Upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:19 AM
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It's hard not to be biased on this because I am a man. But I find it hard to disagree with this take based on personal experiences and looking at my small friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:44 AM
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"People are shallow (me included) and they behave in a way that maximizes their odds to f*ck/end up with attractive people". The issue does solve itself over time. It's just a matter of society surviving the lack of children to work the infrastructure. We aren't immune from Darwinism yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:36 AM
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I agree, but I think there's also a lack of the study of history and our quality of life throughout said history. We have it so good now, I find it hard to be unhappy now. I'm so grateful for what I have and want to preserve it now. Sure it's not perfect, but by God is it better than what life used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:25 AM
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Because as far as I can see you're actively looking for taller people to confirm your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:52 AM
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It's actually a miracle we've made it this far as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:14 AM
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No. The main message. Is you as a man need to do better and realize that a woman is not going to accept your flaws and personality. You have to shine. Does your message apply to women as well? If not, why do men have to do better and not both men and women? If yes, what does that mean exactly? Stop shaming them into having to accept or choose people they don’t want to. Even if what women want is completely unrealistic and unobtainable? Even if it means the break down of society and all it's comf…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:07 AM
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Got any criticism? Out with it. I didn't start dating until I was 31 and believed myself healthy enough to be in a relationship. I was an absolute mess in my 20's and never thought I was worthy of love. But that was all externalized bullshit, I needed to change and I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:41 AM
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I've never been directly rejected romantically. I'm 2 for 2 in dating women that turned into relationships. The first one I broke up with due to her insecurities and games. Still in the relationship with the second one and it's going really well (touch wood). I don't really think I'd have a problem with rejection anyway, got plenty of that in school when making friends, so I'm well adjusted I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:37 AM
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lmao imagine asserting yourself as the arbiter of what the "rules of nature" are I can look at other animals that are similiar to us and make inferences about our own species. I can look at scientific studies or videos about how those animals and their behaviours and apply them to ourselves. Cimpanzee's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a7XuXi3mqYM https://www.amnh.org/exhibitions/permanent/human-origins/understanding-our-past/dna-comparing-humans-and-chimps Excerpt from the article: The chimpanz…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 09:44 PM
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I don't make the rules of nature, I just acknowledge they exist and that we're subject to them. We are still quite primitive as a species, some more than others. I wouldn't rape a woman, I'm not that pathetic, most men aren't either. If most men were, we wouldn't have the society we do today. But you see the feral piece of shit men that walk the streets, they might when the rules no longer apply. So... As much as you hate it, you need to invest in good men that protect you and your rights. Men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:49 AM
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Let me be clear, I'm not going to force you to have children. You just have to acknowledge that when shit hits the fan that society will be conquered by people who don't give a shit about your rights, or revert to a case of survival of the fittest, in which case no one gives about your rights. Either way you're getting the same result if women continue on their current path en masse. Which hasn't happened here in the west yet, but will happen in places like South Korea or Japan first. If you tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:38 PM
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It's a warning. We all have a duty to society to keep it running. You cannot ignore that duty and be free from the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:46 PM
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The women will probably change their tune when the water stops running, power turns off, waste is no longer disposed of and all modern comforts are gone. But by then it will be too late to turn it around, because kids take 18 years to reach adulthood, minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:10 AM
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I think that my woman loves that I have the strength to carry her (although she doesn't want to admit it). Having some muscle strength is definitely a plus. It shows discipline and consistency. Plus it will help you when you're older to have a regular workout routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:50 AM
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My standards. Non smoking, little to no drinking of alcohol, wants kids and not too overweight, but a little overweight is fine. I can't talk shit to being a little overweight, I used to be obese, but got back to a reasonable weight and now lift and run treadmill 3 and 4 times a week respectively. Those are reasonable standards in my eyes and a lot of women can't meet them, but I've found my partner who met them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:43 AM
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Make a sitcom out of the premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:48 AM
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If (probably more like when) it falls over it's going to be worse than the great depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:49 AM
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I was watching a few videos on this very topic today. I can't remember most of it as I was driving at the time, but the long and short of it is that the overall economic environment right now is worse than the great depression. When it does come crashing down, it's going to be REALLY bad, like history making bad across the western nations. Too much debt, not enough income, not enough wealthy people paying tax, properties are too expensive, inflation is wreaking havoc on people, the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:07 AM
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Personally I don't really have a type. As I've said in one of these before, I'm not that concerned with how a woman looks as long as she's relitively healthy. The overexposure to attractive women through my entire life has desensitized me to a womans looks factoring into my calculations. I'm more attracted to a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:04 AM
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If you're hiding a bank account from someone you are essentially lying about your income to your spouse. Hiding the bank account is worse. A prenup is open and honest communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:24 AM
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Man that guy has to have a really shit personality or no personality at all if he's actively pursuing women and can't land anything. Him putting himself down in the title suggests he has some sort of self loathing which may come out in the way he carries himself and speaks. He's a good looking guy, he should be able to get a girl. Far better looking than I am and I got laid no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:10 AM
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The current woman I'm dating and I slept on our first date. We had been talking over text for a week and a half and were really into each other. Conversation flowed and there was plenty to talk about. We both agreed it was probably too quick, but she told me she hadn't had sex in a long time after a shitty relationship and really needed it. It's really circumstance based. My previous relationship we slept on the second weekend we spent with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:00 AM
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You are judging people based upon your own experience alone. I can look at a car accident and know that someone, at some time fucked up and did something wrong. I can also experience a car accident and learn what NOT to do based on my experience. The same applies to overweight people, it's just more obvious what the person is doing wrong. Eating more calories than their body needs, it's just that simple. The amount of people with actual acute issues preventing weight loss is tiny compared to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:29 AM
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Yeah the vast majority of overweight/obese people are that way because of their choices. I was fat for 5 years, lost most of my weight in about 4 months. There really is no excuse and overweight people should pay more tax for health insurance (or higher premiums for those not blessed with free health care).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:04 AM
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The only red pill content creator I take seriously is Better Bachelor as he is the only one who isn't really a chad. I don't agree with everything he says, but he's the only one that feels relatable to the average man, although he did make a significant income in IT in his working years. Aaron Clarey to to a lesser extent is someone I have the time of day for. But I don't know that much about him yet, so I'm not 100% sure. Most redpillers, or those adjacent to it seem to be men who are part of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:56 AM
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Consciousness is a blessing and a curse. I had no say in my creation and if longevity tech doesn't pull through, I'll have no say in how I end. But despite all my hardships and times I wanted to give up and die, I still found my way through the despair and emerged stronger and happier than ever. I want to give my children the blessing and curse of consciousness, for the universe requires it be so. If only to witness itself for a fleeting moment on the scale of the infinite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:38 AM
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Honestly. On self reflection and assessment of my situation, my life really wasn't that bad and I got over my depression and anxiety. Your life might be different, I understand that, but the only way out is through. I stopped caring about what people thought about me and started working out and eating healthier. A probably unhealthy mindset I have is that, I will no longer let others dictate my own happiness and self worth. I will live on out of pure spite and bring happiness to myself and my fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:01 AM
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so we can now hyper optimize everything Ain't that the fucking truth. Games will be out for less than a day and people will have figured out the ''optimal'' way to play it. Ruins the whole thing. I went into my first relationship overthinking it because of the internet. It was far easier than the internet made it out to be, but I could be more attractive than average in some ways, who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:47 PM
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This is the exact reason I take the no pill stance. Both sides have legitimate points, but to wholly subscribe to one side or the other reveals a lack of intelligence (in my opinion) and an inability to digest and form your own opinions. Everyone should be a no-piller in my opinion. Same goes for politics. The most unintelligent people seem to need to be told how to think. It's the path of least resistance for those people I guess. I'm not saying I have all the answers, nor am I correct on every…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:42 AM
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''Got my weenie in a bottle and I can't get it out!'' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFLu8_rEQL0
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:08 AM
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I'm going to guess it's a combination of things. Lack of fibre, a lot of people don't drink enough water, poor diet, no exercise, the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:29 PM
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I really want to know what are the key contributors to the increase in colon cancer are. Cancer runs in my Dads side of the family and I really like living... So if they can narrow it down, that'd be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:04 PM
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I have no fucking idea why people drink energy drinks. You can literally feel your own heart beating in your chest when you drink that shit, that's all the warning you need to know just how bad that shit is for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:58 AM
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I was raised that sex and relationships go hand in hand and cannot be divorced from one another. Now that I've recently got around to having a relationship with regular sex, I can see the absolute harm having massive amounts of casual sex can do to a persons psyche. It's subtle, but even my inexperienced ass could see that we as a species bond heavily through sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:57 PM
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What does it matter if you had lost it a few years ago vs a few years in the future? What are you really losing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:08 AM
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Lost mine at 31 dude. Don't panic. Get fit, work hard and save your money. In hindsight, it's probably better in my personal circumstance that I waited and put very little thought towards it until I was older and more mature. I definitely couldn't have raised a child in my 20's if I had a woopsie with contraception. But now I'm financially and mentally stable, so even if I get a woman pregnant, I can take care of that child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:44 AM
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Side loading garbage trucks. Mostly clean job, paying a very good wage for the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:43 AM
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I don't think people realize how quickly things could turn to shit. My company has just run out of young men to hire. There's literally no young men anywhere to be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:38 AM
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All this comment made me think of was the scene from Patch Adams with all the male Gynecologists. ''WELCOME COLD HANDED ONES.''
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:40 AM
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Actually watched a video on this concept today. There's a calculation for the probability of us being ''early'' in the universe's development and it's highly likely due to the fact that we don't see any evidence of other species.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:34 AM
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Awwww man... Are we this universes Old Ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:30 AM
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Fair enough. That's maybe why I'm struggling to reach completion. I think the condom brand I'm using is helping suppress my orgasm too, but it's standing up to a good 10-20 minutes of use without showing any signs of breaking. I tend to change them mid session when I take a quick rest because of lactic acid and for safety's sake, so I think I'll keep using them anyways. Besides I just bought like 140 of them, gotta make use of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:01 AM
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.but it does take more than 3 minutes it's usually a whole process problem is most guys can't last long enough to do it This annoys me to no end, I've found that it's very easy not to cum, no woman should go without an orgasm as long as she communicates with her partner. I went for about an hour on Monday with my GF and I still hadn't cum and by the end she was exhausted and giggling. I could've gone for another hour I reckon. She finished me off in the shower though which was nice of her to do.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:45 AM
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The data reflects your comments on ''but I think it has a definite impact on the ambivalent folks''. I can't remember the study, but the amount of women have 4 children or more has remained the same @ 6%. However, the amount of women who have 1-3 children has absolutely cratered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:59 AM
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Didn't hear a compliment outside of my family until I was about 26-27 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:34 AM
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I often find that a lot of guys who are complete horn dogs, never really know how to act normally around women, they are very awkward and when it is all about flirtation. They’re just not good at it. This is actually something I agree with. I did not have sex on my mind when I started dating, sure I wanted it, but I knew I'd get there eventually if I did everything else properly first and respected her boundaries. I'd say most women can sense desperation and it's why a lot of incels are stuck wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:42 AM
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I don't care if a woman sleeps around. You do you. It only annoys me when she thinks consequences for her actions do not apply to her and we must treat her how she wants to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:48 AM
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You need young people to pay tax for maintaining infrastructure and social programs. If there's more people on the take then there is putting in to the system, it breaks down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:44 AM
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This only threatens the 0.01% at the top who continue to hoard billions for absolutely no reason. The market will adjust accordingly and a lot of people will suffer because of their lack of foresight/ignorance. It's just a matter of whether or not those people will tear shit down in a baby rage because they refuse to adapt or look towards the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:43 AM
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I'm not religious and on the fence about God. So is my partner and I enjoy making love with her and bonding with her with cuddles while we watch a movie or even just cuddling for cuddles sake. Sex is the cherry on top, not the centerpiece of the relationship which is why in my opinion incels struggle to get laid. They put FAR too much value on sex to the point it's all they want a relationship for and woman can sense that to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:13 AM
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The weak will die. The strong will survive. Pick a side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:29 PM
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Yeah those aren't 100% effective. The amount of fluids me and my GF exchange is quite significant during coitus, even with the condom on. I also think you underestimate your propensity to mate guard, you will get jealous, maybe not with the woman you're seeing now, but a woman you are attracted to in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:03 AM
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Holy shit that's bold. Good luck sir. 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:49 PM
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Aussie here, can confirm. Almost zero attention from Aussie women. When you hit the major cities on Tinder it's just young women in bikini's on their first picture looking for Chad. Hinge and Bumble are a bit better. Currently in a relationship with an Indonesian woman here on a work visa.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:55 AM
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And the more men that are fit, healthy and overall more attractive, it raises the standards of women even higher. There's no upper limit to hypergamy and it could doom our species. Literally watched a video about this today from Thinking Ape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:19 AM
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Consequences. John Wick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:16 AM
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Fuck man, dating is so damn fickle. I'd tell you how my experience went, but I think you'd hate my guts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:16 AM
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Yeah I was kind of nervous going into my first time, but once I got going, I was like... ''Is this it?'' and the weeks afterwards were kind of like: ''Oh right yeah, I'm not a virgin anymore, forgot about that.'' And that's as much as I think about it. I barely thought about it before losing it, barely think about it now. If it consumes your every thought and you put a massive amount of mental bandwidth towards it, it's going to be hard to lose it. Which is why the extreme incels are terminally …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:29 AM
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My Dad is definitely better at fixing things than my Mum, but she can also fix a lot of things. She grew up out in the middle of buttfuck nowhere without electricity, water supply and sewage service. It was a way of life to learn how to fix stuff. She was the only daughter amongst 3 brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:35 AM
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Yeah I'm honestly weirded out by how well it's going.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:04 AM
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Tinder of all places. She didn't like using dating apps (and neither did I), but it's quite literally the only way to meet younger people in my small city. There's no events where young people could attend and meet. Plenty for older people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:12 PM
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I met my girlfriend within 3 weeks of dating for the first time... At 31. I'm probably an exception, but it's doable. These cutoffs aren't as cut and dry as you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:20 AM
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I didn't spill out my emotions on the first date, but I did discuss my plans for the future and what I wanted on the first date to give her an idea of where I'm going. Still dating now, so I guess it didn't put her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:18 AM
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Yeah if my GF wants to be a SAHW when we get married, all the power to her, as long as we can afford to financially. I make okay money and own my home, but it may not be enough when we have kids. So she may have to take up a part time job or something, just for the extra $. I really want to send my children to the local private school I went to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:17 AM
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Hard agree, in a relationship right now. Sex is not as amazing as it's made out to be. Sure once you've done it, it feels like an ''Achievement unlocked'' moment, but it's not the be, end all. When it comes to sex, it's to seal a bond type of thing, not the cornerstone of the relationship, that comes from somewhere else. A relationship based purely on sex cannot last. My girl and I just spent all day on the couch cuddling/kissing, watching TV, sharing music, talking about our lives growing up, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:22 AM
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Unless you're in a tight knit group of friends where all the women know each other intimately (and as such would share such details), no one's going to know. That being said, I'm so fucking glad I have a slightly larger than average member, eliminates this type of concern for me. Happy with what I've got and as far as I can tell, so is my partner. That being said, if someone was judging me or my friends characters based on penis size, I wouldn't associate with that person as that is an absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:27 AM
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I don't think it's that bad, but it will be a turbulent time for the next few decades as the generations that are the end result of unrestrained access to the toxic nightmare that is social media really starts to hit its stride. We'll adapt, but there's going to be a lot of growing pains. We'll have a return to survival of the fittest of sorts and those who don't adapt will die or become evolutionary zeroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:59 AM
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Yeah I don't get women hate fucking men as if they're ''getting one over'' on him. That's nothing but a win for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:40 AM
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I wouldn't be insecure about it, personally I'm happy with what I've got and as far as I can tell, so is my partner. I'd be pissed off that they're resulting to what amounts to high school bullying and verbally destroying a man in the worst way possible, especially if it was completely unwarranted. There is no female equivalent to saying a man has a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:38 AM
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Only correct answer. But that being said, it's a damning indictment on a partner if they refuse, or even worse CAN'T cook, clean or help care for a child. Kind of pathetic in this day and age to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:35 AM
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I'm 31 and I've just got into my first proper relationship. And I can tell you right now that I was not prepared for how hard it is to drive a conversation and I'm so fucking glad my parents dragged me along to social gatherings when I was younger, otherwise I would be absolutely fucked without those social skills. Luckily she is very understanding (there is a language barrier, she's from Indonesia, I'm an Aussie) and has a lot of questions to ask me about Australian society so there's not as mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:11 AM
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I do believe you are correct. She's basically like me. I'm technically Christian and don't believe in the religion, but embody many of its ideals without it consuming my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:30 PM
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I must be a rare exception then. I'm currently dating a liberal (she says she's moderate, but I think she's liberal) Indonesian Muslim woman. I'm a white Aussie. I asked her why she picked me and she said that I don't drink, don't smoke and I'm nice to her. So yeah....... Edit: Also well aware she might after a citizenship from me, don't lecture me, I'm keeping a close eye on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:09 AM
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Ah a fellow follower of the Chaos God Slaanesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:45 AM
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Thank you. But I'm not 100% sure about any of this, but I've been sitting back and watching how people think and act and the how it all interlinks with their environments. I grew up and currently live in a town of about 50-60000 people in Australia and cannot stand cities. I think cities are horrific places to live for humans, but at the same time they enable us to live the great lives we have and we're at a stage of development in our species history where we're still figuring shit out and lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:55 AM
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I guess my recent experience is relevant to this discussion. I'd just had my first meetup with a lovely Indonesian woman yesterday and was totally upfront with my income and she didn't react one way or the other and that was very reassuring for me. She seemed to appreciate that I was doing over time to earn more, far more than the income number itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:43 AM
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Maybe? It's hard to say. I think that's part of it. I think it's worse if you live in large cities. Commuting to work through dense traffic or overcrowded public transport can take a long time. Then you work long days and by the time you get home you have no time left to relax let alone see friends and date. Western society puts a lot of emphasis on looking after ones self and being productive, leaving little room for the things that are actually important, like family and community. Also the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:29 AM
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Online dating is actually a really good tool. It's just people aren't willing to take it slow and invest in their matches. They want everything NOW NOW NOW and cannot wait and put the effort in to form a bond. This reflects in the people who complain about not having a big house and the cost of living. They aren't willing to give up anything to save money and expect the end game goals at the start. Yes the boomers had it easier, but that was then, this is now, get over it, things change, adapt. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:48 AM
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You function well enough to survive and for many men that's enough. Not sure what you're trying to say about validation. I've personally never needed validation from anyone to survive. I've needed help, but never have I needed to be felt seen by other people. My problem with loneliness was that I tried so hard to help people who didn't want to help themselves nor reciprocate that help and I took that on and thought way too much about others and didn't focus on my own health. When I tried to help…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:13 AM
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Self sufficient was maybe a bad word for it. Self reliant is maybe better? You don't want rely on anyone else as you are unable to open yourself up to being let down again. It's basically a really poor coping mechanism for negative emotions that people are very afraid of these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:09 AM
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I think it's less about clinging onto loneliness and more about getting stuck in it. You become so self sufficient (as a survival mechanism) because you might've been let down in the past or completely ignored by those around you it leads you to hyper focus on yourself and to structure your life to minimize discomfort and avoid the issues that got you to this position in the first place. Interjecting anything different (a partner, a friend, a new job, a change in home) into this structure become…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:42 PM
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