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It's kind of useless to cry and wallow in self pity, I just get on with life now. Actually made my life way better, looking on the bright side of life and always moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:50 PM
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Probably has something to do with taller people being perceived as naturally stronger and more they're more naturally intimidating. So they're more likely to get their way during business negotiations. Maybe their bigger body gives them a slightly bigger head and therefore brain too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:47 PM
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Oh for sure feminist thought will always be a thing. But if the thoughts will not be fought for, nor are reinforced into society by the people who have those thoughts, then it doesn't matter what you say. The ideology kills itself as it seems to lend itself to self indulgence, hedonism or in the now thinking. Not long term propagation and self regulation. The universe is uncaring and doesn't owe anyone anything. You have to work for results and continue to work for them your entire life. Is what…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:07 AM
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This whole thing is a battle of ideas and women refuse to fight for their ideas by having children and bringing them up ''better''. The majority of western women today live in the best living conditions in the known history of our species and they still want to rest on their laurels and claim victim hood instead of doing something with that privilege. If they claim that women were historically oppressed, then they insult all the women who have suffered and died over eons before them by doing not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:44 PM
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The situation solves itself in a way. All the hedonistic and materialistic women will die childless and their shitty genetics with them. The women who can be sensible and admit their strengths and weaknesses with humility will have families with good men. The only problem will be all the men who will be single because of this causing trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:44 AM
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The funniest take I saw from this ''4B'' announcement went something like this: ''So you're going stop being whores because Trump got elected? Pauses Thank God, finally, if that's what it takes.''
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:21 AM
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If we weren't in a society with controls on male sexuality, in a more natural setting, that would be correct. But as the social protective barriers are broken down by women in the name of reproductive and sexual freedom, you will get more men of a certain attraction level getting most of the sex and most men getting little to no sex. This is playing out on the dating apps right now and not a good thing. Women are organizing themselves in harems for men they find irresistibly attractive, giving t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:08 AM
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All the most competent men I know of are not that good looking, want to be dads and would be great husbands are very sexless. It's a hilarious irony that a lot of pretty men never have to work on themselves therefore making them a poor prospect for a partner. I'm in an LTR, getting married in Jan next year, I did not want casual sex, it's pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:38 AM
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Not the women I've been around? That being said I went to private school out in country Australia. Most of the women looked similiar to her in body and facial structure. All they had to do was not get fat, maybe a bit of exercise focused on the core and legs/butt. The male body standard is far harder to achieve than the female one. I have to workout EVERYTHING. Seriously, I'm lifting weights between comments right now and it's fucking hard, I'm never going to look jacked unless I win the lottery…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:25 AM
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It's just an overall rating based on many factors. But none of it matters if she's an asshole. Maybe slightly better than average just because appears to take care of her weight. Not sure why this matters so much to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:02 AM
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Holy shit yes. They just make it up as they go along. Annoys the shit out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:52 AM
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Reminds me of a comedy bit by an Aussie comedian called Steve Hughes. ''What do want in a relationship?'' Feminine man voice ''I want a woman, all soft and moisturized.'' ''What do you Gary?'' ''I WANNA FUCK A BLOKE! I want a big strong man to f*** me in the a**.'' Finishes the bit ''Straight, it's the new gay.''
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:50 AM
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Poor guy is coping hard (or not) with his sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:46 AM
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She's average looking to me. She's not fat. At all. Make up and good camera angles elevate her to above average in her pictures only. There's a picture in there of her without makeup and a mirror selfie and she just looks average to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:45 AM
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Yeah, walking around a city center @ 2am in the morning is unsafe regardless of gender. I tell my girlfriend (who is Filipino) to get home before sundown, despite the fact we live in Australia. When the Sun goes away, the ferals come out to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:05 AM
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Put them in Emerald/Diamond rank League of Legends. They'll be sobbing in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:01 AM
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I have no sympathy for pathetic attention seekers. I'm not sure what your angle is with your post, but if you want me to feel sorry for her, it's not happening. If she was truly traumatized by the experience, she wouldn't be posting on social media asking for people to hurt her even further.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:42 AM
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Define your problems Don't just define, compare them to the rest of the world. My depression and anxiety sort of just disappeared when I realised how good my life is really. Shit could be way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:03 AM
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Person gets roasted on a sub about roasting people. Shocked Pikachu face
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:00 AM
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It's not that we prefer it, we're not as bothered by it. There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:44 AM
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WELCOME BACK TO AN ALL NEW ''OW MY BALLS!''
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:45 AM
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It defines your life from the time you are born, it colors in all my thoughts, feelings, perceptions, every single aspect of my thought process. It’s responsible for making me the person I am. Admitting that is not “victimizing” myself, it’s being comfortable with myself. Everyone is different, you just put a label on yours, just because it's a little more different than normal limits. But here you are conversing like anyone else. Why do you need the labels? I developed a stronger sense of self …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:08 AM
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I really do have empathy for my fellow mental health sufferers. I've been there, I've cried myself to sleep countless nights. The majority of my tax is fed into my countries health system. I'm Australian and I'm glad for universal health care. But... Ask yourself the hard questions you probably haven't asked yourself and need to. These questions I don't think are considered by even ''normal'' people. These questions snapped me out of my old ways of thinking and forced me to overcome my problems.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:43 AM
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You said I would hope you could recognize that there is a large theoretical difference between your behavior and ability to regulate yourself and people who present more strongly. That seems to lump all autistic people into one big group as far as I can see. I'm trying to make the point that lumping us into one big group does us a disservice, because the public at large only sees people at their worst and assumes the worst across that group. I'm making the argument that you shouldn't let people …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:29 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:13 AM
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Or can't get Chads attention at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:32 AM
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People do notice, they don't care, they have their own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:11 AM
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how easy do you think it is to prove physical abuse? Today? Very easy. There's video evidence, physical evidence, hit marks on the victim, bruise marks on the hands of the offender. how often do you believe someone when they say their partner is physically abusing them? Believe them, collect evidence, make the verdict. Punishment comes after the crime. if it is a fraudulent marriage you can get an annullment Not if one party is deceitful, humans lie. its fair because both people contribute to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:10 AM
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Okay well if you were diagnosed with Asperger's then surely I would hope you could recognize that there is a large theoretical difference between your behavior and ability to regulate yourself and people who present more strongly. They're a minority of autistic people in my experiences. Like, this post is talking about autism in general and you start by saying you are a high-functioning autist. It's like if I went on a post about difficulties dating as a physically disabled person and said hey j…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:04 AM
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Sounds like you've made autism a core part of your identity so you can feel like you're special when you're not. It also allows you to shirk responsibility when it suits you. You are a human being with a complex and varied neurodevelopmental disability I am not disabled, I'm just a little bit different in the ways I think, a genetic variation part of our evolution. I'd go so far to say autism allows me to see and connect things people may otherwise not think about. Some autistic people are quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:54 AM
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Giving someone a job based on the colour of their skin is in of itself racist. Needing equity because of historical ''injustices'' and perceived barriers that can already be solved through current enforcement implies the person is lesser and cannot compete in a competitive arena. That is of itself is racist and condescending. You seem to think that it means giving someone who isn't qualified and capable a job that they are unable to do No, it gives underqualified people positions based not upon …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:34 AM
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If they do not know about it, it won't influence their judgement. It's not outwardly obvious like height is. No one ever has figured it out by just looking at me, yet. I socialize like a ''normal'' person, I blend in seamlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:02 AM
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I cannot believe that equity is even in the discussion these days. Took me 5 minutes of reading the definition of it to understand why it's a shit idea. What are most people motivated by? Monetary gains and status/social increases. What does this do? Rewards people for being productive and innovative as well as good people. What does equity do when taken to its conclusion? Pay everyone out (in money or status) exactly equally no matter how much work they do or how good/nice they are as a person.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:54 AM
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Um wouldn't physical abuse be a legitimate reason to divorce in an at fault state? I'm of the understanding that ''at fault'' divorce means you can divorce a person if they're physically abusing you. So what's the problem here? No fault divorce requires no proof of wrong doing by either party and that opens up both men and women to fraudulent marriages that the other party can do nothing to counter. If they make more money or own more assets. They have to pay their spouse out no matter what, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:48 AM
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It really depends on the severity of the abuse. Some stuff you can work through, other things just destroy people for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:54 AM
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Just like any movement, it's been ruined and co-opted by people looking to push agendas, blackmail, make money etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:53 AM
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As someone who was diagnosed with Aspergers before it was cool and trendy to victimize yourself, I've noticed no difference, because I generally don't tell people about it. I refuse to define myself by this diagnosis. I've also learned to socialize like any other person now. It's kind of fun, the only thing I struggle with is reading body language now. I'm in a relationship with a beautiful woman I love and it's going smoothly, because I refuse to define myself by my problems and I adapt and lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:50 AM
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The dating economy is just that, an economy. The passport bros is a one part of a market correction. Men don't feel wanted or needed in their home country. So they go to where they feel they are wanted or needed. I keep seeing the videos of western women framing these men as exploitative predators. Exploiting poorer and ''dumber'' women. Sure some of the passport bros may be like that. But why don't you give that same criticism to the exploitative women in western nations? Absolute double standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:39 AM
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Depends on what you call nice. I didn't match with many, but with the few I did, only 1 responded promptly and didn't even match up with me in any way in which I wanted. 1 took a month to respond. Makes it quite clear I'm not first on the list. Another got real snarky when I rejected her for being a smoker. Why bother stringing me along like that? Stop wasting my time. I focused all my attention onto the women who did respond, which happened to all be foreign women. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:20 AM
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Yeah looking good is easy you just have to: Maintain a strict structured exercise routine. Balance a good diet and track calories in and out. Be born with the right bone and muscle types. This is very important, make sure you get this one correct. Select the right clothes. You know the ones, the right ones. Select the right deodorants, THE RIGHT ONES! God it's just so easy. Sarcasm aside I have actually fulfilled all those things. I'm lucky to born with good masculine features, but I don't date …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:42 AM
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No shit, but the alternative doesn't get you a relationship in most societies. Men are adaptive by nature and will do whatever it takes to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:41 AM
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If you want to make claims of historical oppression you'd need to figure how to define opression exactly. Some people might not agree on what was and was not opression. Most of the arguments and counterarguments have been already made in this thread. But for example: The majority of women were opressed by their biology, 9 months of pregnancy, death in childbirth etc. Majority of men were opressed by their responsibilities. They were required to fight in wars, do hard labour for most of their liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:49 AM
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Ok, but are you willing to acknowledge that emotional men on the whole are extremely unattractive to most women? The fact that emotional men are uncommon means that emotional men are probably being filtered out through natural selection. Men are raised to emotionless, because that's what's expected and gets results. The change in this ironically starts with women overcoming their natural mate choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:21 AM
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if you dont have iq tests that say only dumb people get addicted, then you're just doing an ad hominem To ignore all the accumulated knowledge of the dangers of excess alcohol and drug comsumption, no matter your IQ is a complete lack of intelligence. I have a high IQ, but I am certainly lacking in area's. But I'm just smart enough to know people are free to make their choices, they are not free of the consequences. Which has always been the crux of my arguments. you were claiming modern conveni…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:00 AM
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imagine not knowing there is data on this: Seems to be more for people under 30 than anything as per the article. Understandable, they've grown up in a shit economy with devices feeding them negative news non stop for a decade. people wouldn't be dying left and right of addiction if they were happy People wouldn't die of addiction if they were smart and introspective. No one forces you to drink alcohol, take drugs or engage in hedonistic pleasures. That's a choice. i linked you to a book that ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:09 AM
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Long sigh Upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:19 AM
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I have had solar panels for almost 10 years now, I drive a car that use E10 Unleaded, which apparently is slightly better for fuel consumption and I recycle very heavily. I have about 1000 cans/plastic bottles sitting in my garage right now ready to cash in with my local container recycling scheme. I know about waste, I'm a garbage truck driver. I tend to vote for sensible climate policy, but I think it doesn't matter what the western nations do when China is opening coal fired power plants, lef…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:18 AM
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It's hard not to be biased on this because I am a man. But I find it hard to disagree with this take based on personal experiences and looking at my small friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:44 AM
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"People are shallow (me included) and they behave in a way that maximizes their odds to f*ck/end up with attractive people". The issue does solve itself over time. It's just a matter of society surviving the lack of children to work the infrastructure. We aren't immune from Darwinism yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:36 AM
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I agree, but I think there's also a lack of the study of history and our quality of life throughout said history. We have it so good now, I find it hard to be unhappy now. I'm so grateful for what I have and want to preserve it now. Sure it's not perfect, but by God is it better than what life used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:25 AM
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humans who are unhappy are not healthy. those things are mutually exclusive in the long term. You're projecting your own unhappiness onto society at large. I find most unhappy people lack perspective and self control. again, many white settlers ran off to join the (less "comfortable") native tribes while the reverse almost never happened. Yes yes, I've heard of the hypothesis surrounding what happened to the people of colonies like Roanoke. Isolated incidents, that don't really prove anything. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:30 AM
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have you considered just not caring that people complain? I care about society continuing on far into the future, I care about my children that are yet to be born. It's far better than living as some peasant without rights, without safety, that farms a field all day doing back breaking labour and dieing at 40 from a preventable disease. so fuck women because the math is hard? what a privileged take. Then you do the math if it's of such concern to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:32 AM
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bc we are literally less happy than our ancestors I didn't say anything about happiness. We live more comfortable, longer and healthier lives. Okay strike out healthier (if you're speaking about mental health), do the other 2 still apply? Comfort and longevity? modern conveniences have come at a cost of community and other things human beings need in order to be self-actualized (healthy and happy) I'd argue the only modern convenience that has harmed society is the smart phone and the COVID lock…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:10 AM
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so are you advocating for women to be paid to settle for men they don't like? No I just don't want to hear them complain when it really goes to shit. Or they can go and build their own society if this one is so bad. That is an option. describe when women's contributions to society should be unpaid while men's contributions are paid? We would need to break down all unpaid labour in the home and it's value to the family/society on an individual level, because every family and person is different, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:51 AM
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Because as far as I can see you're actively looking for taller people to confirm your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:52 AM
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It's actually a miracle we've made it this far as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:14 AM
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No. The main message. Is you as a man need to do better and realize that a woman is not going to accept your flaws and personality. You have to shine. Does your message apply to women as well? If not, why do men have to do better and not both men and women? If yes, what does that mean exactly? Stop shaming them into having to accept or choose people they don’t want to. Even if what women want is completely unrealistic and unobtainable? Even if it means the break down of society and all it's comf…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:07 AM
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Got any criticism? Out with it. I didn't start dating until I was 31 and believed myself healthy enough to be in a relationship. I was an absolute mess in my 20's and never thought I was worthy of love. But that was all externalized bullshit, I needed to change and I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:41 AM
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I've never been directly rejected romantically. I'm 2 for 2 in dating women that turned into relationships. The first one I broke up with due to her insecurities and games. Still in the relationship with the second one and it's going really well (touch wood). I don't really think I'd have a problem with rejection anyway, got plenty of that in school when making friends, so I'm well adjusted I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:37 AM
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Jesus christ on a bike. Looks like I'm the only one who reads shit around here then really sits down and thinks about it to it's absolute logical conclusion. Maybe I have too much time on my hands. Let's go. Humans are animals yes? We are subject to natural selection pressures (like death by cold/heat, injuries, infections etc) and our primary goal as a biological species has been to reproduce so that our DNA can carry on through the ages. We have managed to overcome many obstacles that our ance…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:30 AM
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choosing to work in a dangerous (paid) job for a man is less dangerous than literally just existing anywhere in the world as a woman You act like women have a monopoly on suffering from violence. Men get attacked as well you know? As I've said, men are far more likely to be murdered. You may suffer from more violence, but looking at this from a cold logical view at least you die less overall. "We find that in nearly three-quarters of the cases where a disease afflicts primarily one gender, the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:22 AM
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not you doubling down on making shit up I'm allowed to look at things and make my own conclusions based on data and science. They might be wrong, but I wouldn't make a serious decision if I wasn't 100% sure. i pray one day you learn the difference between your opinion and a "fact" I literally linked you the facts that human behaviours and monkey behaviours are similiar. I then use this fact to suppose that when we as a species revert to a natural setting that our behaviours will too. That's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:17 AM
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There is no arguing or convincing you. You are so traumatized that it's not about finding answers or middle ground with you. You just want to ''win'' against men to try and take back control because it was taken away from you. I see that now. But you will never get there. No one is in control of anything outside themselves. I'm sorry you were hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 06:19 PM
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lmao imagine asserting yourself as the arbiter of what the "rules of nature" are I can look at other animals that are similiar to us and make inferences about our own species. I can look at scientific studies or videos about how those animals and their behaviours and apply them to ourselves. Cimpanzee's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a7XuXi3mqYM https://www.amnh.org/exhibitions/permanent/human-origins/understanding-our-past/dna-comparing-humans-and-chimps Excerpt from the article: The chimpanz…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 09:44 PM
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I don't make the rules of nature, I just acknowledge they exist and that we're subject to them. We are still quite primitive as a species, some more than others. I wouldn't rape a woman, I'm not that pathetic, most men aren't either. If most men were, we wouldn't have the society we do today. But you see the feral piece of shit men that walk the streets, they might when the rules no longer apply. So... As much as you hate it, you need to invest in good men that protect you and your rights. Men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:49 AM
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Let me be clear, I'm not going to force you to have children. You just have to acknowledge that when shit hits the fan that society will be conquered by people who don't give a shit about your rights, or revert to a case of survival of the fittest, in which case no one gives about your rights. Either way you're getting the same result if women continue on their current path en masse. Which hasn't happened here in the west yet, but will happen in places like South Korea or Japan first. If you tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:38 PM
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It's a warning. We all have a duty to society to keep it running. You cannot ignore that duty and be free from the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:46 PM
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Yeah, this happens a lot, fucked up pricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:35 AM
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Don't tell me what to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:33 AM
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Christ America, are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:32 AM
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The women will probably change their tune when the water stops running, power turns off, waste is no longer disposed of and all modern comforts are gone. But by then it will be too late to turn it around, because kids take 18 years to reach adulthood, minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:10 AM
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I think that my woman loves that I have the strength to carry her (although she doesn't want to admit it). Having some muscle strength is definitely a plus. It shows discipline and consistency. Plus it will help you when you're older to have a regular workout routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:50 AM
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Energy drinks, vapes, designer drugs. All this shit is going to leave a vast swathe of destruction amongst many people in the decades to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:59 AM
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My standards. Non smoking, little to no drinking of alcohol, wants kids and not too overweight, but a little overweight is fine. I can't talk shit to being a little overweight, I used to be obese, but got back to a reasonable weight and now lift and run treadmill 3 and 4 times a week respectively. Those are reasonable standards in my eyes and a lot of women can't meet them, but I've found my partner who met them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:43 AM
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Dummies who "use science" to bash trans people are the same idiots who 50 years ago would do the same to homosexuals Homosexual behaviour has been seen in some apes and monkey groups as a means to ''practice'' for mating with females and form bonds. Yeah those people ignored the science back then, but this is different. Trans people can NEVER achieve a gender change with current technology. It is non functional and completely cosmetic. It won't solve their problem. You're not even trying to use …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:14 AM
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We already know that people exist where their chromosomes don't align with their genitalia and have mixed sexual organs And they're a fraction of a fraction of all trans people. I'm speaking to the majority of people who are confused about their gender and in many cases mislead into thinking they can change their gender when it is physically impossible. 100% of trans surgeries fail and there will be a massive legal backlash when this shit comes crashing down. Because people like you can't do wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:26 AM
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It's not about sex, stop shifting the narrative. I'm saying, 100% of surgeries and drug administrations for trans people fail. You cannot change the fundamental biology the human body is built on. Not during the pregancy, not during the egg fertilization stage and not after the person is born. So why lie to them and tell them that they can? Why can't you just tell them the hard truth and deal with that instead of lying to them and letting them destroy their bodies in the pursuit of the unobtaina…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:25 AM
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The ''science'' is just common sense. You can't cut your body up, take some drugs and magically be the opposite gender. What would you rather me do? Tell them a lie that doesn't actually solve their mental problems, renders them infertile and disfigures their body? Or Tell them the truth. They were dealt a hand in life they don't like and that they've got to adapt to that. You're not going to get what you want and that's okay, but don't destroy what you have chasing what you can't get. Also, sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:53 AM
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If you lean into one side or the other (just like politics), in my opinion you are an easily lead moron. Make your own damned mind up and don't subscribe to one set of ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:22 AM
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I don't drink at all. Last time was almost exactly a year ago on my brothers birthday dinner and it was a sip of his beer he wanted me to try for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:21 AM
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I know she's not a virgin but I'm my GF's second partner and she's my second too and I'm loving it. She's easy to get to orgasm and loves to make love. She's not that great at certain things and neither am I, but it's fun exploring each other and getting better at it. I'm now firmly of the belief that casual dating is the worst thing to happen to western society cohesion since it became a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:17 AM
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I'm not sure what men you're hanging around, but you need to get away from them if they reguarly make rape jokes. Like I can laugh at the occasional one if it's clever enough (massive if), but if it's all the time I'll tend to distance myself from that person. Men get pissed at suicide jokes because no one does shit about fixing it, while women get all the help in the world when they get assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:14 AM
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Make a sitcom out of the premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:48 AM
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If (probably more like when) it falls over it's going to be worse than the great depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:49 AM
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I was watching a few videos on this very topic today. I can't remember most of it as I was driving at the time, but the long and short of it is that the overall economic environment right now is worse than the great depression. When it does come crashing down, it's going to be REALLY bad, like history making bad across the western nations. Too much debt, not enough income, not enough wealthy people paying tax, properties are too expensive, inflation is wreaking havoc on people, the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:07 AM
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Personally I don't really have a type. As I've said in one of these before, I'm not that concerned with how a woman looks as long as she's relitively healthy. The overexposure to attractive women through my entire life has desensitized me to a womans looks factoring into my calculations. I'm more attracted to a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:04 AM
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If you're hiding a bank account from someone you are essentially lying about your income to your spouse. Hiding the bank account is worse. A prenup is open and honest communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:24 AM
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Yeah that's a damning indictment of their intellect. You can't look at Russia and all of its history and think ''Yeah I can get behind that.''
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:59 AM
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Man that guy has to have a really shit personality or no personality at all if he's actively pursuing women and can't land anything. Him putting himself down in the title suggests he has some sort of self loathing which may come out in the way he carries himself and speaks. He's a good looking guy, he should be able to get a girl. Far better looking than I am and I got laid no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:10 AM
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The current woman I'm dating and I slept on our first date. We had been talking over text for a week and a half and were really into each other. Conversation flowed and there was plenty to talk about. We both agreed it was probably too quick, but she told me she hadn't had sex in a long time after a shitty relationship and really needed it. It's really circumstance based. My previous relationship we slept on the second weekend we spent with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:00 AM
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You are judging people based upon your own experience alone. I can look at a car accident and know that someone, at some time fucked up and did something wrong. I can also experience a car accident and learn what NOT to do based on my experience. The same applies to overweight people, it's just more obvious what the person is doing wrong. Eating more calories than their body needs, it's just that simple. The amount of people with actual acute issues preventing weight loss is tiny compared to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:29 AM
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Yeah the vast majority of overweight/obese people are that way because of their choices. I was fat for 5 years, lost most of my weight in about 4 months. There really is no excuse and overweight people should pay more tax for health insurance (or higher premiums for those not blessed with free health care).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:04 AM
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The only red pill content creator I take seriously is Better Bachelor as he is the only one who isn't really a chad. I don't agree with everything he says, but he's the only one that feels relatable to the average man, although he did make a significant income in IT in his working years. Aaron Clarey to to a lesser extent is someone I have the time of day for. But I don't know that much about him yet, so I'm not 100% sure. Most redpillers, or those adjacent to it seem to be men who are part of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:56 AM
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BMI calculators are a load of shit. A rough guide and no more. I tried dieting to get below 85kgs (which a BMI calculator says is a few kg's overweight for my height and age) and I just couldn't do it without starving myself and losing muscle mass and having issues with energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:47 AM
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Consciousness is a blessing and a curse. I had no say in my creation and if longevity tech doesn't pull through, I'll have no say in how I end. But despite all my hardships and times I wanted to give up and die, I still found my way through the despair and emerged stronger and happier than ever. I want to give my children the blessing and curse of consciousness, for the universe requires it be so. If only to witness itself for a fleeting moment on the scale of the infinite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:38 AM
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I do, I'm a truck driver. Every day in the morning I see women out running in tight leggings and sports bras accentuating their butts and breasts. The over exposure has led me to a point where I don't really care about it anymore after considering the amount of work a woman who thinks she's top shit could be. I go for mid's instead of aiming for the stars, because it's stress free, although I THINK, I could land a good looking woman with effort. This is a position I've only taken recently after …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:54 AM
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Oh I know if I looksmaxxed I could pull higher status women. But having to sustain the effort would be an exhausting, waste of time for what exactly? A slightly better looking woman? What value does a better looking woman bring exactly? Especially if she doesn't have the mind to match? Sure good looking people generally have it easier in life, but I think intelligence and hard work is going to inherit the Earth, not good looks. Maybe I'm making a wager on the future of the species subconsciously…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:33 AM
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How much porn are you watching None at all now that I'm in a committed relationship with someone who loves me. Before that, maybe a few times a week? I don't know, never really counted. But I never really needed it, I had no problem generating my own fantasies within my own mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:10 AM
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I probably should've expanded on that in my initial post. But I'll leave it as is. There are limits to both ends of the scale. If you're beautiful, it doesn't matter if you're a c*** to be around and talk to. If you're a good person to be around, it can be negated with other negative traits like smoking, drinking, obesity and lack of self control. But what I'm saying is, I'm not going to go for the most beautiful person physically. I'd rather go for someone in the middle ground, who's grounded i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:07 AM
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Yes it does? Like a drug addiction, you build up a tolerance to the drug and need more and more until it no longer has an effect on you and you overdose and die. In this case, it's less dramatic and simpler. Seeing beautiful women has no effect on me due to massive overexposure in all facets of life. You can look pretty all you want, but if you're a horrible human being, I am not going to sleep with you as I don't find you attractive. Now, whether or not I'd get the opportunity to do so, is anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:53 AM
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Like I can get it up easy no problem, but it's not because of physical beauty, it's because my partner wants to make love with me, that's what turns me on. That I'm needed and wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:18 AM
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Like I'm not 100% sure if this is a thing, it's how I feel. That being said, I don't know how'd I react if a nude 10/10 woman was placed in front of me and she was like ''Have at it''.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:14 AM
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I think that I've been exposed to so many good looking women through media (advertising, porn etc) and women wearing revealing clothes everywhere, everyday for a decade plus, that I no longer really care how physically attractive a women is, I value her mind and attitude over said physical beauty. Like I've had to suppress my urges for so long that it's burned out my brain receptors or something. Any other men think like I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:06 AM
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Honestly. On self reflection and assessment of my situation, my life really wasn't that bad and I got over my depression and anxiety. Your life might be different, I understand that, but the only way out is through. I stopped caring about what people thought about me and started working out and eating healthier. A probably unhealthy mindset I have is that, I will no longer let others dictate my own happiness and self worth. I will live on out of pure spite and bring happiness to myself and my fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:01 AM
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so we can now hyper optimize everything Ain't that the fucking truth. Games will be out for less than a day and people will have figured out the ''optimal'' way to play it. Ruins the whole thing. I went into my first relationship overthinking it because of the internet. It was far easier than the internet made it out to be, but I could be more attractive than average in some ways, who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:47 PM
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I'LL TAKE YOUR ENTIRE STOCK!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:38 AM
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This is the exact reason I take the no pill stance. Both sides have legitimate points, but to wholly subscribe to one side or the other reveals a lack of intelligence (in my opinion) and an inability to digest and form your own opinions. Everyone should be a no-piller in my opinion. Same goes for politics. The most unintelligent people seem to need to be told how to think. It's the path of least resistance for those people I guess. I'm not saying I have all the answers, nor am I correct on every…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:34 AM
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Sorry, that's not correct from my point of view. Any man who's been raised correctly knows how to treat women with respect and find said women's boundaries through clear communication. Any man who cannot communicate clearly from the outset has bad intentions or hasn't been socialized and raised correctly (or both). If you prefer poor communication in your partner, you're f***ed in the head and are a part of the problem with modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:52 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:42 AM
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Vegetaaa what did you do? Nuthin'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:23 AM
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Best way I've seen it described is that God is a giant Elephant and every religion has their hand on a different part of the Elephant and they cannot see each other. Weird analogy, but it works for the most part. But the extremists who need to hear it most don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:52 AM
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Probably a better way to frame your argument is that ''Atheists reject the idea of God and religions, but replace it with something else.'' In today's day and age, people tend to worship money and material things. Not all, but many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:26 AM
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I don't dismiss the idea of a God existing, but religions were shaped by the societies they came from and the locations of and pressures on their societies. So I don't buy into religion. Guess we all find out eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:24 AM
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''Got my weenie in a bottle and I can't get it out!'' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFLu8_rEQL0
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:08 AM
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I'm going to guess it's a combination of things. Lack of fibre, a lot of people don't drink enough water, poor diet, no exercise, the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:29 PM
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I really want to know what are the key contributors to the increase in colon cancer are. Cancer runs in my Dads side of the family and I really like living... So if they can narrow it down, that'd be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:04 PM
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I have no fucking idea why people drink energy drinks. You can literally feel your own heart beating in your chest when you drink that shit, that's all the warning you need to know just how bad that shit is for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:58 AM
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Is it death by Snu Snu then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:51 AM
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Motivation of the Gods!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:30 AM
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''Racially diverse Nazi's.'' was not on my bingo card for this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:29 AM
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Mr Money Bags over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:29 AM
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I was raised that sex and relationships go hand in hand and cannot be divorced from one another. Now that I've recently got around to having a relationship with regular sex, I can see the absolute harm having massive amounts of casual sex can do to a persons psyche. It's subtle, but even my inexperienced ass could see that we as a species bond heavily through sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:57 PM
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Quite literally lifting up those around you with pure presence, now that's a bro move.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:18 AM
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Cloudy with a chance of hot fudge rain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:13 AM
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The fact that women don't recognize that men make up the vast majority of a lot of jobs that literally keep the lights on, water running and waste disposed of disgusts me, so fucking ungrateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:12 AM
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The thing is, when the loneliness epidemic really starts hitting women they won't be able to cope at all in my opinion. Women tend to be far more social than men in my experience. The men by that time will either have killed themselves already or be so used to being alone, they will be fine with it/used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:06 AM
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The fact no one is frightened by the coming demographic collapse is fucking wild, why aren't the alarm bells being rung in mainstream media?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:03 AM
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Man I keep trying to expand on this comment, but fuck it's perfect. Don't think we can ram home this point any better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:01 AM
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That's almost certainly your issue then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:22 AM
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What does it matter if you had lost it a few years ago vs a few years in the future? What are you really losing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:08 AM
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How much protein are you eating every day? Even on rest days you need to get about 160g of protein up in ya. Also need to be eating above maintenance calories to put muscle on. I wasn't able to increase my weight until I started eating more. You will put fat on, but then you need to go on a cut. Then eat more again, then cut. It takes many years to get good muscles, which is why so many people cheat with testosterone, steroids and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:49 AM
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Lost mine at 31 dude. Don't panic. Get fit, work hard and save your money. In hindsight, it's probably better in my personal circumstance that I waited and put very little thought towards it until I was older and more mature. I definitely couldn't have raised a child in my 20's if I had a woopsie with contraception. But now I'm financially and mentally stable, so even if I get a woman pregnant, I can take care of that child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:44 AM
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Side loading garbage trucks. Mostly clean job, paying a very good wage for the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:43 AM
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I don't think people realize how quickly things could turn to shit. My company has just run out of young men to hire. There's literally no young men anywhere to be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:38 AM
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Wow... Just wow. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uq-v1TTUyhM
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:14 AM
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As a man, I think the second one is more attractive. Not sure why. Maybe it plays into that long hair attraction thing men have by being wider and therefore looking longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:49 AM
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Would it be better if he had a beard as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:47 AM
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All this comment made me think of was the scene from Patch Adams with all the male Gynecologists. ''WELCOME COLD HANDED ONES.''
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:40 AM
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When you start a relationship, it should be without expectations of ANYTHING. If you're compatible, then figure out what you want from the relationship. Once you've figured out what you both want, take stock of resources available and if they can service your requirements. Then start working together. Love is a luxury belief you have when you've solved all those other issues. The function of a relationship has been forgotten. It's to continue the species and produce resources so that we may live…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:45 AM
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Even in death I still serve. Warhammer 40,000 Dreadnaught, Nope just another stupid thing added to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:32 AM
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The last thing she said before I closed the door on her was ''You never loved me.'' Fucking christ I almost yelled at her right there. But I maintained frame. I shed no tears as disappoint in others is an old friend. I did love her, right up until she complained about the relationship and then refused to resolve anything she complained about. Literally left me on read when I proposed solutions to her issues and then acted like nothing happened the next day. Fucking hell man, women are another sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:29 AM
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Pretty sure I just stuck a girl on her highest setting. I'll never find out for sure. I'm no Chad, but I'm pretty sure I was the best partner she'd ever been with. She was so desperate to make it work, but she exposed herself as manipulative. Had to let her go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:14 AM
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Holy shit I forgot about that thread, straight banger, I even posted in it and my God it still resonates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:01 AM
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What is the purpose of that video? Who is that for? Why should anyone care what you do day to day and how you want to live your life? If she's so happy and content, why doesn't she keep it to herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:19 AM
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I'm not anyone's emotional punching bag. I can help, but only if you respect me and communicate sensibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:47 PM
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Buddy she's 33. If she cannot communicate like an adult now, then I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:46 PM
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Honestly I'm probably over reacting, but I'd rather be safe than sorry in this dating landscape. So few people are honest anymore and with her comments, she filled me with so much doubt that it was no longer tenable on my end. And the fact she went from 0 to 100 like that is not the sign of a healthy mind. My parents agreed that she's insecure and thought I was overreacting, but respected my decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:23 AM
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Just under 2 months yes. Everything was fine and dandy until literally last night. No complaints at all. Talked over text every day, she stayed at my place all through the weekend, every weekend. Went out for breakfast, lunch and dinner regularly. She then just drops several complaints. One about me not loving or caring for her, another that I should be calling her instead of texting her. The literal sentence she said is ''What person doesn't call the ones they love?'' Never mind that she could'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:15 AM
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Since December 25th last year
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:00 AM
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Thanks. It wasn't what she said that was the main issue. When I proposed solutions she didn't answer a single question and ended up ''falling asleep'' on me leaving it unresolved and then acted like it didn't happen in the morning. I was up for like 2 hours longer than I normally am and had a headache all day today because I wasn't rested. Because I was stewing over what she meant. She's never fell asleep that early before and never answered a single question I asked to try and rectify the issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:54 AM
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Just broke up with my GF after she tried to (as I perceive it) play games with me. She had an absolute fucking meltdown. But I'm just so relieved, I don't want to play games (at least not that type), I just wanted to love someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:14 AM
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Oh I forgot to answer your second question. Honestly, I don't know how I feel about it. It was going smoothly until she just blew up at me without warning. I was content, happy and in love. But the sudden change in her has really opened my eyes to the instability of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:53 AM
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Yes I was and it was underwhelming. I never really cared about being a virgin beforehand, don't really think about it after. Nothing changes my dude. Maybe a little weight off your shoulders of ''Phew! Got that over and done with.'' But that's really about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:46 AM
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Mid 20's I think. Basically I'm ending it because she blew up at me over WhatsApp about how I don't care for enough or love her after we just spent the entire weekend at my house. I took her out for breakfast on Saturday and we went out for lunch on Sunday together. We also met on Monday and spent time together after I finished work. She wants me to call her, but won't call me and never communicated as such. I text her almost every morning (some times I want her to text me first) and text her go…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:42 AM
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I had my first relationship at 31, quite literally ending that first relationship an hour from now, but I have learned a lot from it. So it isn't over, but it does get harder as you get older as you fall behind the curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:33 AM
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Hand holding... Disgusting. Spits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:55 AM
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Actually watched a video on this concept today. There's a calculation for the probability of us being ''early'' in the universe's development and it's highly likely due to the fact that we don't see any evidence of other species.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:34 AM
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Awwww man... Are we this universes Old Ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:30 AM
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I'm starting to feel this way too. Why the fuck do we exist? Why does anything exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:06 AM
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Fair enough. That's maybe why I'm struggling to reach completion. I think the condom brand I'm using is helping suppress my orgasm too, but it's standing up to a good 10-20 minutes of use without showing any signs of breaking. I tend to change them mid session when I take a quick rest because of lactic acid and for safety's sake, so I think I'll keep using them anyways. Besides I just bought like 140 of them, gotta make use of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:01 AM
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Same here, 6.5 inches, but with regular thickness, almost too big for my partner, if I thrust too hard I hurt her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:47 AM
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.but it does take more than 3 minutes it's usually a whole process problem is most guys can't last long enough to do it This annoys me to no end, I've found that it's very easy not to cum, no woman should go without an orgasm as long as she communicates with her partner. I went for about an hour on Monday with my GF and I still hadn't cum and by the end she was exhausted and giggling. I could've gone for another hour I reckon. She finished me off in the shower though which was nice of her to do.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:45 AM
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The data reflects your comments on ''but I think it has a definite impact on the ambivalent folks''. I can't remember the study, but the amount of women have 4 children or more has remained the same @ 6%. However, the amount of women who have 1-3 children has absolutely cratered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:59 AM
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If she feels like she needs to make a go bag for the men she dates/has a LTR with, she really needs to sit back and self assess her dating standards. There's just no way you run into men that necessitate a go bag multiple times. The odds of that are ridiculously low.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:09 AM
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Didn't hear a compliment outside of my family until I was about 26-27 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:34 AM
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I often find that a lot of guys who are complete horn dogs, never really know how to act normally around women, they are very awkward and when it is all about flirtation. They’re just not good at it. This is actually something I agree with. I did not have sex on my mind when I started dating, sure I wanted it, but I knew I'd get there eventually if I did everything else properly first and respected her boundaries. I'd say most women can sense desperation and it's why a lot of incels are stuck wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:42 AM
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Only in private. Put them in a public space and watch them fall into a common narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:27 AM
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I find most young people are scared to have an opinion full stop. Conservative or liberal. Social media has really done a number on young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:44 AM
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I don't care if a woman sleeps around. You do you. It only annoys me when she thinks consequences for her actions do not apply to her and we must treat her how she wants to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:48 AM
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You need young people to pay tax for maintaining infrastructure and social programs. If there's more people on the take then there is putting in to the system, it breaks down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:44 AM
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This only threatens the 0.01% at the top who continue to hoard billions for absolutely no reason. The market will adjust accordingly and a lot of people will suffer because of their lack of foresight/ignorance. It's just a matter of whether or not those people will tear shit down in a baby rage because they refuse to adapt or look towards the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:43 AM
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My Dad only had a mustache until he decided to trim it one day (no idea why), but he looked fine with just a mustache and no beard (although he could grow a beard too).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:43 AM
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Maybe try running with just the mustache? If that's all the beard your face is putting out, maybe do away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:17 AM
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I'm not religious and on the fence about God. So is my partner and I enjoy making love with her and bonding with her with cuddles while we watch a movie or even just cuddling for cuddles sake. Sex is the cherry on top, not the centerpiece of the relationship which is why in my opinion incels struggle to get laid. They put FAR too much value on sex to the point it's all they want a relationship for and woman can sense that to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:13 AM
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The weak will die. The strong will survive. Pick a side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:29 PM
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Ones that don't make logical sense or put you in harms way. The other guy who replied to you listed off some banger icks that are just dumb, but I have heard some woman have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:13 AM
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Yeah those aren't 100% effective. The amount of fluids me and my GF exchange is quite significant during coitus, even with the condom on. I also think you underestimate your propensity to mate guard, you will get jealous, maybe not with the woman you're seeing now, but a woman you are attracted to in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:03 AM
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Quite literally the only way to meet people in my small city of 60,000 people is apps. There are no events for millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:13 AM
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Holy shit that's bold. Good luck sir. 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:49 PM
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Honestly, what kept me alive was pure spite. I refused to let the world win and I will be successful in spite of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:43 AM
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Law of averages. Most likely he's an average man and going to have to ''settle'' for an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:20 AM
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Would I just have to accept what I can get Most likely yes. Who knows, maybe once you get to know them you'll be more attracted to them. You ain't gunna land a 10, gotta get that out of your head now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:28 AM
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''A Dog's Journey.'' / ''A Dog's Purpose.'' Fuck man, I'm not a Dog person and ask myself ''Why the fuck did I do this to myself?'' Shit's sad yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:01 AM
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Fellow Aussie here, dating an Indonesian. High fives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:55 AM
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I got the distinct impression my parents thought I was gay. I was a weird child, but I was honestly just not ready to date when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:53 AM
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10+ years of League of Legends Ranked All chat has hardened my soul against any insult. Honestly, I think it might cured my social anxiety. Some of the shit people say on there has made me realize that some people are truly pathetic and there ain't shit that you can do to help them and their opinion doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:52 AM
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Trust me man, got plenty of time, I didn't get my first girl until 31 and I'm glad I waited. I would've made a hopeless partner in my 20's. I have Aspergers and had Social Anxiety. Stay fit, get some muscle and live a clean lifestyle (no smoking, drinking etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:47 AM
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When do you feel like crying? Are you at home? At work?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:41 AM
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Keep soldiering on, it takes time, but the end results are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:14 AM
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Aussie here, can confirm. Almost zero attention from Aussie women. When you hit the major cities on Tinder it's just young women in bikini's on their first picture looking for Chad. Hinge and Bumble are a bit better. Currently in a relationship with an Indonesian woman here on a work visa.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:55 AM
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And the more men that are fit, healthy and overall more attractive, it raises the standards of women even higher. There's no upper limit to hypergamy and it could doom our species. Literally watched a video about this today from Thinking Ape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:19 AM
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Consequences. John Wick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:16 AM
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Fuck man, dating is so damn fickle. I'd tell you how my experience went, but I think you'd hate my guts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:16 AM
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Your error is assuming that anyone can know what is controllable or not. You can't really know what is or is not controllable until it is too late to do anything about it, so you can't condition things on controllable vs. not controllable. Consult other men and even women if you can on what's attractive within your age range preference Experiment with things like clothes, deodorant, hair styles etc. That's controllable variables. It isn't valid to say "you're single now, so that must mean there'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:41 PM
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Some people could change me being single: the woman who I would want to be in a relationship with if only they would also want me. It is their choice. They choose "no." That doesn't justify abandoning me to being single no more than it justified abandoning someone to being raped every day. You just don't get it. I AGREE WITH YOU, IT'S NOT JUSTIFIED. It all fucking sucks. All of your suffering, your loneliness and the suffering and loneliness of others. No one should bear these things. But you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:20 PM
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Yet here you type, on a device with a high likelihood of being made in a factory where the workers are underpaid and overworked. If you were to go to wherever these devices were made and protested, you'd be ignored at best or at worst arrested and prosecuted. That society cannot be fixed by our outside intervention, the change must come from within. You benefit from these inequalities just as much as I do. You are no better than I am. If you cannot bear the weight of that fact, give it all up an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:03 PM
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Look all it boils down to is that life is shit and there's winners and losers. Most people have some say in which pool they land in, but there's always outliers who will die alone, unloved or who are by accident of birth given a shitty hand. There's nothing we can currently do about most of these things as the science/societies to correct them do not exist yet. All we can is work towards bettering ourselves and those around us if we can. Pass lessons learned onto our children (if you have them).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:37 PM
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No it doesn't justify it, but it happened anyway. Right now, as we speak, unspeakable atrocities are happening across the world and there's not a god damn thing we can do to fix it. Some people, societies and systems are just broken and beyond control. You seem crave certainty over your future, when that is just not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:14 PM
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Are you comparing a sex slave to someone who cannot form/find a relationship? The only commonality they share is that there are circumstances outside their control. Okay, then what do you have to say to the people who tell single people "you have to be happy being single"? I really have nothing to say to those people. They're entitled to say that, as they were single too in the past and have maybe thought about their single self vs their relationship self. What I'd personally say to single peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:58 AM
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''One can make no mistakes and still lose, that is not weakness, that is life.''
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:41 AM
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Okay, so the people who complain about being single have legitimate complaints, is that it? I guess it depends on what they're complaining about. If it's something out of their control, I guess they can complain about it, but it's probably not going to help and may even hinder future relationship progress. That's bullshit. If you could still be "happy" then you wouldn't have had an interest in a relationship in the first place. Well it depends on how you view relationships. If you see them as ut…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:38 AM
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I was just saying, you can be happy when you're single, but then you start a relationship and further increase your happiness. You can also want a relationship, not get it and still be happy. You didn't get what you want, but sometimes things don't always pan out the way you want. If you place all your emotional eggs in one metaphorical basket (in this case a relationship) you're setting yourself up for failure. People need to learn that they might not get what they want and be able to deal with…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:16 AM
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I was perfectly happy being single and ready to live my life that way. I'm now even happier now that I'm in a relationship. Happy/sad isn't a binary, it's a spectrum of different levels of either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:08 AM
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Yeah I was kind of nervous going into my first time, but once I got going, I was like... ''Is this it?'' and the weeks afterwards were kind of like: ''Oh right yeah, I'm not a virgin anymore, forgot about that.'' And that's as much as I think about it. I barely thought about it before losing it, barely think about it now. If it consumes your every thought and you put a massive amount of mental bandwidth towards it, it's going to be hard to lose it. Which is why the extreme incels are terminally …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:29 AM
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My Dad is definitely better at fixing things than my Mum, but she can also fix a lot of things. She grew up out in the middle of buttfuck nowhere without electricity, water supply and sewage service. It was a way of life to learn how to fix stuff. She was the only daughter amongst 3 brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:35 AM
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Yeah it's only until the 29th, I'll survive. But she is getting the shit cuddled out of her when she gets back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:39 PM
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Hah fair play. Yeah there's always going to be that concern there. She's like me, grew up religious, but has come to resent religion. She believes in God, I live my life like God exists, but I'm not convinced. So I take what good lessons I can from religion and apply them to my life. She's only had one relationship (which I get the distinct impression she was pressured into socially), which is a good thing I think?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:34 PM
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It is what it is, if she's a cheater she'll reveal herself in time. There's nothing sus that I've seen so far except for a single deleted message on snapchat that she said was an accidental button press. That's literally all I've seen so far. She comes from a religious conservative background, so I'm not too concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:25 PM
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Probably not, she comes from Indonesia and has religious parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:23 PM
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GF is back in home country to visit friends and family and god damn I want her here to cuddle. Like no one told me I'd actually miss someone this much when I got into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:09 PM
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Christ what the fuck is wrong with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:06 PM
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Yeah I'm honestly weirded out by how well it's going.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:04 AM
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Tinder of all places. She didn't like using dating apps (and neither did I), but it's quite literally the only way to meet younger people in my small city. There's no events where young people could attend and meet. Plenty for older people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:12 PM
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I met my girlfriend within 3 weeks of dating for the first time... At 31. I'm probably an exception, but it's doable. These cutoffs aren't as cut and dry as you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:20 AM
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I didn't spill out my emotions on the first date, but I did discuss my plans for the future and what I wanted on the first date to give her an idea of where I'm going. Still dating now, so I guess it didn't put her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:18 AM
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Yeah if my GF wants to be a SAHW when we get married, all the power to her, as long as we can afford to financially. I make okay money and own my home, but it may not be enough when we have kids. So she may have to take up a part time job or something, just for the extra $. I really want to send my children to the local private school I went to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:17 AM
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Hard agree, in a relationship right now. Sex is not as amazing as it's made out to be. Sure once you've done it, it feels like an ''Achievement unlocked'' moment, but it's not the be, end all. When it comes to sex, it's to seal a bond type of thing, not the cornerstone of the relationship, that comes from somewhere else. A relationship based purely on sex cannot last. My girl and I just spent all day on the couch cuddling/kissing, watching TV, sharing music, talking about our lives growing up, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:22 AM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:36 AM
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That'll do it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:34 AM
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Got the perfect clip for this my God. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/zqbJt_T9Pu0 The comedians are Australian, called The Umbilical Brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:32 AM
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Yeah my partner loves the forehead kisses. My beard also tickles her neck when I kiss there. Don't think she likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:24 AM
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I know roughly how much she makes because of what she's doing and the hours she's working. She also let me know that she has a business back in her home country. I'll probably ask her what sort of income that provides later down the line. I think I make way more than she does though due to exchange rates and all that. I don't really care about her income though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:21 AM
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I'm a garbage truck driver and today I emptied a lot of organic waste bins with grass.... Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:13 AM
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How'd you go champ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:02 AM
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I bought it up on the first date. As well as my plans for the future. Get it out of the way early and move on. People really need to stop fucking around with something so serious. Still dating 2.5 weeks later so I assume she's cool with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:01 AM
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Growing up in Australia and witnessing our drinking culture first hand was enough to put me off alcohol and drugs for life. Shoutout to big Kev getting shitfaced when Collingwood won a preliminary final in the 2000's or some shit. Honestly I was so young I can't remember the year. That put me off beer forever with his behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:57 AM
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Being tall is great when you're young, but absolute hell when you're older. One of my distant-ish relatives is 6'8'' and he's getting old now and is really starting to feel the pain in his joints and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:51 AM
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Damn, I don't like seafood, but even that looks tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:50 AM
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There's this weird thing that happens to me when I look at my monitor a certain way some times. I can't force it, it just happens some times. It literally feels like I'm looking through my eyes from somewhere that isn't my brain, which sounds fucking weird typing it out. As if my true self is elsewhere and I'm just looking through the lens of a telescope or something. Man is it strange, every sound is amplified and everything becomes crystal clear and enlarged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:48 AM
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''Hmph women.''
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:42 AM
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Ah, found a picture of you! Image
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:39 AM
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Yeah I really don't get big boob fetishes. The woman can't do anything and has severe back pain. The man can really don't much with them either, they're too big to move and do anything with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:38 AM
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Unless you're in a tight knit group of friends where all the women know each other intimately (and as such would share such details), no one's going to know. That being said, I'm so fucking glad I have a slightly larger than average member, eliminates this type of concern for me. Happy with what I've got and as far as I can tell, so is my partner. That being said, if someone was judging me or my friends characters based on penis size, I wouldn't associate with that person as that is an absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:27 AM
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I don't think it's that bad, but it will be a turbulent time for the next few decades as the generations that are the end result of unrestrained access to the toxic nightmare that is social media really starts to hit its stride. We'll adapt, but there's going to be a lot of growing pains. We'll have a return to survival of the fittest of sorts and those who don't adapt will die or become evolutionary zeroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:59 AM
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Yeah I don't get women hate fucking men as if they're ''getting one over'' on him. That's nothing but a win for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:40 AM
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I wouldn't be insecure about it, personally I'm happy with what I've got and as far as I can tell, so is my partner. I'd be pissed off that they're resulting to what amounts to high school bullying and verbally destroying a man in the worst way possible, especially if it was completely unwarranted. There is no female equivalent to saying a man has a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:38 AM
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Only correct answer. But that being said, it's a damning indictment on a partner if they refuse, or even worse CAN'T cook, clean or help care for a child. Kind of pathetic in this day and age to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:35 AM
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Because it can come across as insulting. Men are taught from a young age that they need to be strong, not just for themselves, but for their future family. Ironically, if you don't teach them this behaviour as a means to try and change the societal norms, the men grow up directionless and weak. Men need to provide and protect, it's what we're evolved to do. That's why men help men in the same way women do. We'll provide practical advice and physical labour to help a man who we perceive is a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:57 AM
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Man here, here's my experience with anti-depressants: I used to be on the maximum dose of anti-depressants. I stopped using them when it cancelled out my brains ability to filter out the sound of myself blinking.... Yes you heard that right, I could hear myself blink. Hard sound to describe... It's like the sound of hair rubbing against a microphone. If it's fucking with my brain like that, what is it going to do to me long term? I asked myself. It solved my depression, but it also solved my hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:50 AM
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I'm 31 and I've just got into my first proper relationship. And I can tell you right now that I was not prepared for how hard it is to drive a conversation and I'm so fucking glad my parents dragged me along to social gatherings when I was younger, otherwise I would be absolutely fucked without those social skills. Luckily she is very understanding (there is a language barrier, she's from Indonesia, I'm an Aussie) and has a lot of questions to ask me about Australian society so there's not as mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:11 AM
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I do believe you are correct. She's basically like me. I'm technically Christian and don't believe in the religion, but embody many of its ideals without it consuming my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:30 PM
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I must be a rare exception then. I'm currently dating a liberal (she says she's moderate, but I think she's liberal) Indonesian Muslim woman. I'm a white Aussie. I asked her why she picked me and she said that I don't drink, don't smoke and I'm nice to her. So yeah....... Edit: Also well aware she might after a citizenship from me, don't lecture me, I'm keeping a close eye on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:09 AM
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Ah a fellow follower of the Chaos God Slaanesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:45 AM
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Thank you. But I'm not 100% sure about any of this, but I've been sitting back and watching how people think and act and the how it all interlinks with their environments. I grew up and currently live in a town of about 50-60000 people in Australia and cannot stand cities. I think cities are horrific places to live for humans, but at the same time they enable us to live the great lives we have and we're at a stage of development in our species history where we're still figuring shit out and lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:55 AM
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I guess my recent experience is relevant to this discussion. I'd just had my first meetup with a lovely Indonesian woman yesterday and was totally upfront with my income and she didn't react one way or the other and that was very reassuring for me. She seemed to appreciate that I was doing over time to earn more, far more than the income number itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:43 AM
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Maybe? It's hard to say. I think that's part of it. I think it's worse if you live in large cities. Commuting to work through dense traffic or overcrowded public transport can take a long time. Then you work long days and by the time you get home you have no time left to relax let alone see friends and date. Western society puts a lot of emphasis on looking after ones self and being productive, leaving little room for the things that are actually important, like family and community. Also the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:29 AM
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Online dating is actually a really good tool. It's just people aren't willing to take it slow and invest in their matches. They want everything NOW NOW NOW and cannot wait and put the effort in to form a bond. This reflects in the people who complain about not having a big house and the cost of living. They aren't willing to give up anything to save money and expect the end game goals at the start. Yes the boomers had it easier, but that was then, this is now, get over it, things change, adapt. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:48 AM
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You function well enough to survive and for many men that's enough. Not sure what you're trying to say about validation. I've personally never needed validation from anyone to survive. I've needed help, but never have I needed to be felt seen by other people. My problem with loneliness was that I tried so hard to help people who didn't want to help themselves nor reciprocate that help and I took that on and thought way too much about others and didn't focus on my own health. When I tried to help…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:13 AM
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Self sufficient was maybe a bad word for it. Self reliant is maybe better? You don't want rely on anyone else as you are unable to open yourself up to being let down again. It's basically a really poor coping mechanism for negative emotions that people are very afraid of these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:09 AM
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I think it's less about clinging onto loneliness and more about getting stuck in it. You become so self sufficient (as a survival mechanism) because you might've been let down in the past or completely ignored by those around you it leads you to hyper focus on yourself and to structure your life to minimize discomfort and avoid the issues that got you to this position in the first place. Interjecting anything different (a partner, a friend, a new job, a change in home) into this structure become…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:42 PM
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For my small local town, I am better than average. I'm an Aussie. The median wage is something like $43000 AUD a year. The median wage represents the average persons wage far better the ''average wage'' apparently is (which is $91000 AUD a year). I'm 5'10'', blue eyes, wide natural shoulders and I'm on track to make around $70-75k AUD this financial year as I work Saturdays and don't mind doing overtime. I exercise every day and eat healthy, still got a bit of belly fat, but I think most men nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:32 AM
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