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Men want to have their cake and eat it too, when only a niche can have most of "having everything", they get jealous. Very few men are lucky to get a beautiful woman with a low N count or that have kept her promiscuous past low profile....as a result, they become envious and blame the women they want to date, but whom do not live their life as these men would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 01:58 PM
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Thanks, edited
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:09 AM
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Almost 70% of people in US are overweight, men included. But, only women are fat. 🙄 It's their fault that men of similar weight can not get "thin women".Among the 40% obese men, there are 35% obese men, the complaint sounds absurd af. Shouldn't we all look at the state of our grass, if it needs to be mown or watered, before complaining the neighbour's it's greener?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 09:53 PM
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Romania / but this can be applied to most Eastern European block.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 09:43 PM
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You should mention what citizens. In my country, most people make about 5000/year, but our currency is 4x per your dollar. So, the minimum wage is about 400 dollars / 1600 our currency. How does that even count as?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 09:05 PM
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And you swiped left for that lack of creativity?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 09:00 PM
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Are you on the spectrum, sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:12 PM
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Nothing about it, was just an emotional reaction during the moment I wrote the comment. My currenr self grieving over my past 17 years old. After the emotions have become logical, I have realized that had I not been forced to deal with my own issues, I would not deserve the things I currently have. I would just be the sort of person I dislike. Emotions come and pass, what I have felt hours ago for 10 minutes is not what I got in the mind now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:30 PM
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The only thing I am envious of (beside what has been already mentioned) is being treated well, without being made fun of. Being pretty has people treat you better, has them take your words more seriously. It's not her appearence as much as being taken seriously effortlessly. Being short and Introverted doesn't help much either, not looking like a child makes you be treated like a proper adult. I am in my mid 20's and I look a decade younger....etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 11:34 AM
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I have a boyfriend that I only have to say a word and it's arranged, I can go on any car drive I want. His parents love me and are hinting towards marriage, which says about my value as a woman. If anything, I am jealous of her family, growing up with an alcoholic father has left me with certain insecurities. Tell me what person that has been through abuse or domestic turmoil is not somewhat envious of people in normal families. I am envious of the choices some women made because I unconsciously…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 11:24 AM
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I heard the age of 33 is a bad symbol or connotation in Scientology, or something. The age Jesus died or so, there was a whole thread about people making fun of Tom Cruise for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 10:32 AM
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My coworker's 17 years old girl is having a guy that likes her, but she wants to remain friends. Her mum suggested that she told him directly, but the daughter said something along the lines she is afraid to lose the friendship and that he won't be taking her to car drives. The girl is objectively hot, tall, young, curvy, well educated and mannered, good grades, feminine, never had a boyfriend before......what happens when a tall man and a beautiful woman procreate and that raise a daughter well…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 10:12 AM
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Women who sell sex will always be repulsive Nake any actress you like and lets see if you would say "no" to getting anything sexual from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:53 PM
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I am confused. Are wildfire caused naturally by the heat or any fire that burns the wild vegetation is named like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:29 PM
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What's worse is that other people will have to stand for their ignorance. I am a teacher, school starts on Monday and now we have absurd rules because the fuckers around could also not give a damn about wearing a mask. Instead, we have had high number of cases for 6 weeks now. Children are not allowed to share tpys, to play with each other - parents will leave them at the gate, they will be sitting hours at the same table or confined in the same 2m square space. "It's a freaking crowded bus, Kar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:24 PM
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Wait, what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:20 PM
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What happened to him, jeezus? https://i.pinimg.com/originals/c6/c9/c9/c6c9c92909bb95b318371c1029ae3265.jpg I find that to be his most attractive version - easy, laid back style, yet with an artsy vibe like Ed Sheeran...what style made him famous, basically. Not the glamourous style he is digging ever since dating that latina girl. ​ Edit: second picture looks sooo gay. lamo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:15 PM
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Nope, if I was bored my mind would be going back to the reason of my depression. Just for a couple dayals, I want to be distracted from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 05:25 PM
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I am so glad. Give her lots of love. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:45 PM
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How's her leg/foot?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 07:13 AM
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I hope he does not get the infection from the hospital. A lot of doctors and nurses did. Hoping for quick and painless recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 07:07 AM
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Which means women make the effort of getting into a relationship, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:26 AM
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He is sleeping on my lap and I play my fingers through his hair. An hour ago he drove me to the city to get meds for my cramps and period nausea. Other people went for a walk, he refused to leave me while not feeling well. I think he is a keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:11 PM
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Whats wrong wishing your partner has a self esteem? I mean, he is a prize because he is worth of dating me. Ironically, if he would not be somewhat, that would tell I am low value myself and not able to choose a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:16 AM
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And you what makes you think men are not emotional, woohoo? Violence is anger, anger is an emotion. RP is all a reactionary emotion under the desguise of a coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:43 AM
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We objectify whenever anything of sexual nature is topic. There is a difference between being rude about it or just not seeing as anything out of ordinary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:29 PM
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I haven't seen any man get rejected for having a high n There are many ladies here that despise high N count men. NarniaFox is one good example, she was her husbands everything and openly dislikes men with opposite values. Men have been punishing female promiscuity Men have also pushed for female promiscuity and punishing it at the same time, nothing new. Otherwise, there would be no woman raped ever How is it hypocrisy Who contributes to women having a high N count if not men willing to sleep w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:54 AM
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You have no idea what you’re talking about Reality proves it enough so I get an idea. My childhood friend was the slut everyone knew and now she has a stable partner and a baby girl. I hear rumours about slutty girls and yet no guy would deny they'd date them, nor they ever treat them badly. A slut is a woman who fucks many men or has fucked many men in the past So? Ever heard of a slut eventually not ending up marrying someone? It has nothing to do with specific sex acts that she is willing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:42 AM
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Which men do you see having problem getting women Depends what sort of women. High N count man has a tougher time getting a bellow average N count woman than one similar to his own. The opposite is more often difficult to achieve or maintain, more than achieving whats already familiar. I more often see low N count wo men with men like them than the vice versa. investing in a slut is gross for us And has been disapproved along history many times. Men love sluts as long as they will settle for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:40 AM
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Variables prove the malleable aspect of the principle, not it being false.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 09:26 PM
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You have a porn star username, do you also have a similar personality? Would explain why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 09:19 PM
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Because anyone with a high N count is likely to cheat or settle. Men with N count don't suddenly stop being adventurous or stop desiring new partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 09:16 PM
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Zero
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 09:36 AM
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Has it ever occured to someone that some men choose not to have abundance but to date what they perceive as quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:03 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 05:16 PM
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Everyone is entitled to their preferences No, they are not. You have the right to assert your preference but you are not entitled to anything. Simply because you feel entitled it does not mean that you actually are. A fuckboy lost his value the moment he fucked anything he got his hands on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 07:02 AM
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Romania.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:34 PM
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You missed an intelligent chance to attempt a double meaning saecasm, then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:33 PM
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Under the communismlt regime, women had 10 weeks of maternity leave, now they have up to two years of maternity leave paid by the government. Ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:02 PM
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I asked a question, sir. If you are not willing to offer some details, no offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:04 AM
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Why would you? Eastern Europe is the blossoming core of mysoginy or anything good that West gave. Only good things are lower house/land prices and low criminality in terms of gun conflicts / terrorism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 08:31 AM
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So pure. Hope she makes full recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 08:21 AM
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Not really. There is a type that can tase from some meters away
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 08:19 AM
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Yuck. He is obviously handsome by any objective standards, but I habe a feeling we would not get along and that makes me not like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 08:12 AM
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Was just gonna say that lol Has he ever saw posts about about dads left home alone with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 08:05 AM
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expected to be a second mom with a penis And how do you raise an infant if not by doing what usually mothers do - sleep, eat, change napkins etc? Until they start to talk and use toilet on their own, the process is overall the same and not much difference between what parents do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 08:02 AM
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Inb4, those are happening in Eastern Europe where the immigrantion of Indians or Middle Eastern barely happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 07:58 AM
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You know, the more I think recently, the more I find how objectifying male nature is, best seen in casual daily, sexless interactions. And how keen they are to justify it by guilting external factors if that makes their consciousness clear. Not much different than women, I guess we are more simialar than different at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:21 AM
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There is no injustice, women do not get the most desirable men either. This is life, reward is bound to be limitted to our personally created quality and invested effort. No one is going to reward more than we deserve unless we have something rare that is not found around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:19 AM
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Virtue is a universal concept that has also benefited men by adopting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:17 AM
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Hypocrisy, selfishness and objectification, sir. That's all I have to say. Men that see women as a prize to be won or achievement, will treat them as an object. Such men have narcissistic tendencies and goes against society's values, regardless how much they want to pretend having a cake and justify also eating it too. It's in men's nature to harem, but also provide and protect it, not to dump when inconvenient. Even lions watch and protect their pride, same in wolf packs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:12 AM
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There are links about that matter being posted here on a dailt basis disapproving that. Of course, studies apply only to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:07 AM
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And she proved that speaking in general does not always represent the truth. Ask NarniaFox or Atlas about the same matter, raised in different cultures, different dating experience and expectations simultaneously. Seriously, anyone expecting whole world to revolve around American culture is naive. Also, tuat sort of sarcasm is repulsive. Just my cent, which you are free to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:06 AM
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Women view men who don’t fuck around as low value Depends. A woman that has slept around also wants a man with a similar experience. A woman with a low count will also want a man that has the options but chooses not to. Jerks like jerks, sluts like fuckboys and so on. Fuckboys feeling entitled to low N count women is a different matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:02 AM
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Stand up as in comedy? 95% of shows are jot worth the ticket orice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:09 PM
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Fuck no. Order and pay for your own meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:01 PM
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[Here you go] (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1BQ6KwecJK_jol7iCx69GF7YMIZ0oZ1mmdUwLAEXULDI/edit?usp=drivesdk&chromeless=1])
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:51 AM
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If You have to beg it ain't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:28 AM
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Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:23 PM
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That's what I make in a year and I would not afford it, LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:30 AM
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I'll pass, your N count exceeds my imposed limit. I couldn't care less about your house in Italy, I can save for a while and travel there myself. Date women from your league and class, your family will accept her easily too. You don't have to worry about the difference in terms of finance values to raise children etc. Edit: live and dress as if you were not rich. Example: Bill Gates or Mark Zuckienberg. Might help
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:23 AM
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5'7 +, I'd prefer around 5'9 < Intelligent (above average IQ) No dad body + hygiene, good haircut Humour A stable job + makes at least 80% of what I do Intellectual Has good family + good ties with them Similar values as I do Body count not higher than 10 + no children Attended at least two years of university or has graduated. I offer mostly the same. I am lacking in height and I have an average face, but I compensate with my reputation and personality. Lastly, I habe a really low N count by ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:14 AM
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Pleasure comes with responsibility, mate. Either accept the implications or get a doll / fuck a man. Or you think an unexpected pregnancy is a burden women gladly take?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 11:23 AM
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Troy was destroyed for a woman, so there it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 11:19 AM
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😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 05:10 AM
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International adoptions seems such a luxury, while the orphanages in our own countries are packed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 05:08 AM
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You might only have daughters, it's quite common for families to have only children of one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 05:02 AM
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Socialy security and card number, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:24 AM
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If I go for worse further, yup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 04:50 PM
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I was not talking about men nor about you, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:57 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:47 PM
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A label is just accepting the trait as part of who I am, it doesn't have to go further. If given the occasion, I would LTR a woman, but i would not want to have children with her. And thats the extent of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 06:12 PM
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A woman will only chase a man that other women of same value as her want, not lower. And thats all I shall say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 03:15 PM
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How old are you, mate? WhiteKnight has more experience than a lot of us here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:36 PM
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Likely those women won't want to have much to do with him, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:32 PM
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And a man with a high N count is also more likely to cheat, doesn't take much equation for that. Therefore why someone women prefer men with a similar or average count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:28 PM
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😆
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:27 AM
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You are entitled to your own opinion, so feel free to feel whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:42 AM
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OP has been sexually abused at 8 years old and it doesn't take much to see how that affected him. He needs theraphy more than a girlfriend, currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 05:13 AM
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Till, water retention by the evening can be up to 2 kg, simply because she eats and drinks roughly (roughly to remains alive and healthy) . You have some things you should come to accepting, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 05:10 AM
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God bless who raised you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:53 AM
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Hope you realize how dry and resentful that sounds. I have a low count myself, but I would never say about the men I would never sleep with.... "the vaginas they have been in". Anyhowx that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:29 AM
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So, are you Italian or just a fan in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 09:23 PM
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A woman can cheat on you regardless of all those, if that's what she wants. There is inclination to cheat even in virgins. A lower N count does not mean she won't cheat, it simply means it will be someone you know well and not some Tinder stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:17 AM
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The men that take RP as a bible are not valuable enough or secure enough to make sure they can get and maintain that. Doesn't take much to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:15 AM
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Those numbers mean nothing when two people meet and are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:11 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:09 PM
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Whatever you wish, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:19 PM
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Jessica is getting FREE sex from a HVM, how is that "bad Her reputation has suffered because Mike talked around about her. The irony, Jenn is sleeping around just like Jessica is, but the fact she is beautiful, gives her a preferential treatment. Jessica should have done some vetting for Mike before doing anything with him. Now, he will do for Jennifer what he did not do for her. Instead of going for someone out of her league, she could have gone for Brian (6) instead of Mike. She adventured her…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:22 PM
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Do you think the surviving males had his mentality? That was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:14 PM
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I do not really care much what men value, you do got a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:13 PM
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A woman that has chosen to deal with her trauma and raise her child. For an assault victim, having a child is the worsr nightmare, likely she might come to times where she would want to kill it with her own hands. A person that understands that is not a child's fault how he was conceived or that it did not had a choice whether to be born or not. A person that did not put her chile through the hell that orphanages or fostering system is, keeping the chile away from a life of crime and giving it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:16 AM
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Oof, they are now deleted. Ehat were they arguing about? 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:09 AM
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I intend to adopt, so for me the looks matter in so far it gets me horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:17 AM
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My parents have small noses, I fucking got my grandma's big nose with a crooked bone, LOL. Of all the things I could have gotten (aka long, straight shiny hair), I got the freaking nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:10 AM
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I think you might have misubderstood me, here gender roles are a bit more relaxed, especially in the generation under 30. Not always a necessary expectation, but women do embrace motherhood or cooking more naturally. What I have meant that the man is settling for a lesser version of the female, so he can ask for her to prove her value to him through something else. More often the woman will take a more traditional role in order to have her past overlooked upon. Basically, the man is taking the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:04 PM
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And a person to have never dated before or have as many partners as we wish is an ideal, reality is different. People had a life before us, which contributed who they are at the time of meeting us. We can only accept their past and continue with them or reject and move on. There will be people that will accept more or less or directly reject. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:32 PM
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Men can get a vasectomy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:23 AM
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Naaaani?!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:43 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:52 AM
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Ohhh, wow, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:43 AM
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No surprise that low N count men might have different attitude than high count men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:23 AM
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Don't you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:20 AM
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To be expected they will stare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:03 AM
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Take two to make a baby, men do have a choice too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 04:37 AM
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Here is what I hate about these experiments: 1) There are 4 men for every woman on the most used online dating platform. Of course, they will choose what is best for them, it's human to do that - when presented with a catalog of possibilities, chose those that appear to fit you best. 2) On online dating platforms, all people are looking to fulfill their needs, primary. Men to sleep with as many attractive women possible, women to get a date or sleep with a hot man. I do not find women's intentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:02 AM
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So, when mentalk about women in eays that could be named such as mysoginistic, it's just Red Pill. Yet, when women also talk about the nature of men, it is misandry and cynism. It's well known that women here are the object of devaluation here, could have been noticed during the last purge. By whom? By the very men that want to "love" them. There is nothing more that we talk here but group psychology and its attempt to come to power, to take down the current power that holds too much advantage, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:26 AM
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Yall disgusted by... too much sex With too many people, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 02:44 PM
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The ones that I know, usually fuck higher but date their looksmatch. Fair enough, there could be truth in both directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:58 AM
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Personality typology, 16 categories encapsulating cognitive patterns we all have. I am Introverted, orientated through contemplation and abstract thought by using my Intuition. I also reflect on the general Feelings of other people surrounding me and their ethical implications. Lastly, I will make Judgements using my own system of logic when I put together mt intuition and the ethical aspect of the emotional harmony around. MBTI system, though I use Jung's descriptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 08:49 AM
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Women like men that are able to treat them in a civilized manner, while showing the traits of whatever triad was mentioned, to protect her children or in his professional setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 08:37 AM
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Because promiscuity is linked with testosterone, lesser risk aversion, low neuroticism and competitive attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 08:36 AM
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As someone that can be deemed as "good girl", dating a "good guy", I can say s/he ia right. Both of us have a disgust for high N count people and expect similar from whom we are dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 08:34 AM
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Why do men think women will do things "just for him"? They do things for a man that fits what she deems as appealing and worth investing on. When he is not deemed as willing to maintain that, she leaves. Like, you stay in a relationship or marriage as long as it produces what the person defines as happiness. Wr are not that special so someone will put up with all our worst while not gaining anything in return. So, not, she will stay as long as you are a good boyfriend or husband; he will stay as…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 08:29 AM
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Slut are more likely to be more laid back to men's looks, such as gaining weight. There is a possibility that more reserved women have higher standards in this regard. Faie trade, I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 08:27 AM
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Or, how about doing better research on condoms and trying until finding one that fits?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 08:12 AM
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Yes 5'9 - 6'1 Also, feel free to ask about my weight any given time. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:35 AM
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When he is not his only judger, he might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 03:40 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:59 PM
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Why? ;_; ISTP's are the cool skater or bike rider type, girls love those.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 09:24 AM
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You are the first one here to take her background into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 09:23 AM
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What kind of loser doesn't find anything worth in a woman beside her genitalia? Only one that has nothing else to offer beside his own, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 09:17 AM
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So, why is it a surprise that women go for high value men and those might be a third of all men? Especially since some women preffered to be a mistress to what she would consider high value instead of marrying what she saw as low value, along history.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 09:05 AM
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I see it from the perspective of the children, likely they already bonded as brother and sisters. A divorce will do them worse than not knowing they are blood related. Don't we already have enough cases about people having skewed perspectives due to their parent's divorce? Would be different if the pair would not be getting along, but as far as the initial OP said, they are doing well. Imagine ruining your children's mental health and possibly future because your mother is scheming around Person…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 07:35 AM
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Old women are not young and beauty won't last unless preserved through the use of cosmetic enhacement. Why do you think Madonna or Jennifer Lopez look that well at their age? It ain't natural, botox as it gets. Have you even seen Cher and her mum ? The former is 74 and the latter is 94.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 01:45 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:40 AM
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It's a sub that proposes a system. But, who said a system can not be contemplated on and whose structure can not be put under the scrutiny, in order to be convinced of its validity? Or we just take what we are given and follow it blindly? What can not be applied to questioning is called ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:12 AM
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I asked women the question where Jordan Petersen is saying what they implied. If women can not argue their own point but jump to beheading, I concur they are either hiding behind a facade they are not complete sure of either, or they make up lies. Anyhow, I consider that type of person as low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 10:11 AM
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Fuck genders, I argued in the namesake of truth. When you lie and make up things, you are also a Low value woman. Banning someone is not going to change that. Another thread about a girl being ghosted, I said she was got dumped when he ghosted her; that everything that followed, was just his excuse to not feel guilty. Because, sorry to tell, when you are ghosted, you are being dumped. . I got the flair if Pickmeisha and downvoted badly, without checking I actually urged the OP to consider that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 08:58 AM
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Look, mate. I am a singurality here, out there are women that care more or less as I do. The good thing about today's dating is we do not have to settle on the first person. I am also lucky that I get to date guys that are my type, as for other people, let fate be in their best wish
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 02:13 PM
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She is in 10% in all terms of beauty. Those body proportions are rare, she has all the desired shaped or spaces, by women. She is beautiful and thats why she is so popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:35 PM
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She was not pregnant, mate. Get over it. Her body has no signs of such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:33 PM
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And when Americans complain about their freedom, I can't but laugh to their ignorance. Somehow they can't phantom someone across the world the situation is different. When they have it too easy, they find other reasons to be upset about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:07 PM
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Most recently, it has been called a "spiritual illness". They think they should refrain and get married, not act on the impulse. I see the wages are about the same as here. Corruption of minors you should see how it goes here. A vlogger made some commente about raping and beating BSM some minors that dress in a "vulgar" manner. How many people agreed or defended him. He only got two months penalty of not posting anything online, even though he should have been convicted up to 3 years in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 12:56 PM
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A fluffy and cute or a fierce, moody one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:53 AM
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Error OXO: Disco is over. What an inferno!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:17 AM
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That's just who you are, it doesn't have to be related to being INFJ. If that is who you feel as the real you, what makes you happy, continue on. It also computes, if you can have a Victoria Secret model that also codes as a hobby. There are combinations of traits out there. Not to mention, you are also chinese because you are a dragon!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:16 AM
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I read it for entertainment when I have no other sub to waste my time on. Now, I am just aloof about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:12 AM
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First time it was because commented how women can be manipulative towards men by restraining sex intentionatelly. Second time, it was because I argued on Jordan Petersen's favour about how he does not put women down in his lectures, rather addressing some existing problems between men and women. A user insisted how he was mysoginistic and put a line: "best thing about a woman js being 18". I asked for a link and said she is taking a line out of a whole context. I got called pickmeisha and scrott…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:09 AM
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Because I know it gets a reaction and I do not want to be the only one teased. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:06 AM
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An edgy skater that plays video games, the ladies have sinned too much, so God keeps him away from them. 🙀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:57 AM
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How and why are you still a virgin, though? The only and one question of interest atm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:47 AM
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Wait, what? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:45 AM
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Look at Adele's divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 07:37 AM
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Tell me a man buying her the dress she wanted, the exact size she wears, from her favorite shop, at a good price. Then we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 07:34 AM
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You can still have some feminist orientation and agree that there are biological differences between genders. Men have more physical strength due to higher muscle mass and size, are faster and more risk taking. Their first nature is not emotional and nurturing, but they can have a secondary emotional nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 07:29 AM
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You do not get arrested for that here, but you are socially shamed and judged. Its not illegal to be gay, its illegal to get a gay marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:50 AM
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Caucasians fight for Afro - Americans rights, but the latter won't do the same. When you give power to the victim, instead of education and theraphy, it will become the future bully. Why? It has learned their status allows them to get away with things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:45 AM
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As someone that got banned twice from that sub, I say they have a problem with accepting can have more or less intense opinion about a topic. Feels as if they have a forced fraternity under the same illusion of the "queen" pill. It is not red, it is "queen". They will also make up lies about people to support their ideology. If you try to argument your disagreeing opinion, you are called pickmeisha, male orbitting their hive, scrotte... A case of - get the knowledge but do not get entangled with…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:41 AM
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Well, currently there is a debate about a law passing that prohibits even mentioning the "gender issues" in schools. Not sure if this is about gender roles or trans. Regardless, my country is homophobic, feminists are being made fun of. Marriage rape is not punished by law, judges say 11 years old are asking for their abuse.... And so on, at its worst. But, I can see it is slowly changing. A corrupted country lead by connections, balcan mentality of "uwu, I do what I want" and respecting law whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:31 AM
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Men basically try to get some women to sleep with them and wife others, while not giving a 💩 about the rest of men. Nothing new. The difference is women nowadays have control over their reproduction, therefore they have more power of negociation. Given that, men will see women more like men than women since they are not as vulnerable or not vigilante as they had to. Son thinks he has to work more for something his dad got (supposedly) easily, even though likely his dad had traits he currently la…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:25 AM
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I am from Romania. Here being civil means being nice, according to mods
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:20 AM
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He is bored, he will likely say it himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:17 AM
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Question was for her, but interesting. Now I know who I am mistaking you for. Chad_Tdk sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:16 AM
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black hair is actually pretty rare in the West Dunno where you live, here is the opposite. Hair that remains blonde until adulthood is rare, black hair is the 2nd most common after brown hair. More chances to encounter natural black hair rather than blonde. I looked up, on average, my country has around 15% of people with "light" hair and an inclination towards "dark" hair. That changes we move North. Depends what you call black hair, on my dad'z side they all have black hair. Example: male cous…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 07:13 AM
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People are going to line up to try If 15 people didn’t want to buy it after test driving or touring then my first question would be, what’s wrong with it when it’s my turn. So, how is that different? When its your turn you would still question why the previous people were not able to extract Excalibur or whether you are better or worse than them at the hand. Whether it's a house or the extraction of a sword, the question still remains - why did the man fail. Why did he fail at self control and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:48 AM
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a slight How higher is that, though? Brown hair can go from dark blonde to black chocolate. Does not mention an exact tone, which does not disapprove the idea that lighter tones in hair are more attractive. men’s taste is pretty diverse and this was clickbait. For what exactly? Do you think a man will use the same criteria for a ONS as for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:35 AM
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Was proven that women with lighter hair or blonde are seen as more attractive. Tell me a man that does not have a preference for boobs or butts, the porn or nudes subs are full of such individuals I named the physical traits a man first observes in a woman and decides she is attractive, not thats all he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:31 AM
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The movie was written to symbolize reality and the example was a metaphor for cynical behaviour encountered in different individuals. Why even use reality as example? That would be too boring and limitted to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:28 AM
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Men’s taste is far more diverse than that https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5230187/Men-really-prefer-blondes-research-shows.html Pictures of blonde-haired women were generally rated as younger than the others. The attractiveness ratings of female faces changed with age and hair color. Still, only the 30-yr.-old woman with blonde hair was rated as significantly more attractive than those with brown or brunette hair https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18712194/ You misunderstand the concept …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:13 AM
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No, it is hypocrisy for every man regardless of his proteine made muscles, physical appearence does not take away attitude. Initially, it might, but over time it fades away, in some cases not long after. Men and women are different and seek different things in the opposite sex So they say, but it proves to be not so much the point. People do not change over time, a man with a flirtatious attitude won't suddenly stop being like that, unless whom he is dating has a similar attitude, they will be i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:04 AM
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If you can not as a question aka imposing a boundary, you are not ready to date. Imho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:31 AM
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Hypocrisy at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:30 AM
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If he slept with a simar number of women, he can't complain. I put it differently: 15+ he would have slept with many more if he could. And simply becausehe could not, it does not mean his intention was different. Therefore, the inclination is quite similar to her. He attracted someone just like he is, so he can't complain too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:28 AM
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Their fault for not asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:24 AM
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Yes, it would bother me. Anything higher than 10 or that implied hookups /ONS is a no. A FwB that evolved in dating, lets say it is alright. But not sleeping with someone he just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:19 AM
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Men have far more diverse taste in women than women in men Blonde, big boobs or big butt. Thats it, in general. uwu I wouldn’t expect that she makes as much money as I have But you expect her to take other tasks, around the house or raising children. Different in the execution, not different in nature of expectation. don’t need her religion or political views to match mine You kinda actually do to match overall. Otherwise your overall views will clash - example: a career woman vs a woman managin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:16 AM
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Bad memory then. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:56 PM
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Didn't you say you are old? ;_;
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:33 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:10 PM
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The opposite for me. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 09:11 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 02:16 PM
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Second to last comment was refering to you swtiching between accounts, as far as I am concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 02:01 PM
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I asked about you being banned and how mods react
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 01:59 PM
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I meant your personal opinions and how superior they might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 01:56 PM
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Look, mate. I thought it was hilarious you are getting banned, comming back and mods do not think much about it. As for the rest, I do not care too much about it either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 01:56 PM
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I am amused. :))
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 01:47 PM
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How many times did you get banned exactly? XD Noticed the 4 on your username.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 01:34 PM
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It's alright, you do not have to. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 01:17 PM
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I meant dysphoria. Since it is a word I barely ever use, it got corrected to euphoria. There is nothing wrong in disagreeing, except being passive aggressive, which unfortunately is out of my control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 01:08 PM
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0,6% of adults and 3% of teens seem to have gender dysphoria. Which is, roughly a maximum of 4% of population in total. Now, account how many do end up killing themselves compared to the rest of the population. Not saying those are negligeable numbers, but to say those are so important that the majority has to adhere to their culture perception or that the number of people killing themselves for different reasons is to be neglected. Is just ignorant. We get it, gender non-conforming people have …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 12:49 PM
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Why do we care about people making a choice but expecting others to be responsible for it? I couldn't care less about transgender people that post on social media about their difficult life either, for me there are to genders and that's it. They are a bunch of attention seeking individuals narcissists. If I empathized with their issues in the beginning, the SJW of their niche makes me apathic now. Just imagine the audacity of shaming someone for their free thinking simply because that no longer …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 12:26 PM
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1 (guy on the right) 2 You be the judge, I am no longer emotionally attached
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 01:20 PM
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My ex, avid gamer, afforded to have standards when he decided he only wanted to be friends or chose to ask out a coworker 2 decades his senior. In b4 its a matter of perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 01:13 PM
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Nothing stops you from having criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 01:08 PM
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Intp, basically. Not a bad choice, require a lot of patience though. Good to talk the most absurd theories and will still tie you tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:59 PM
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Wth 0_o
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:58 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:04 PM
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marital rape is too nuanced to just throw out like a gotcha It's simple, no means no. Even if it is half way through. When she says "no", you stop. Nothing more than that needed, lets not make a philosophical discussion out of well known thinga. a marital duty It's an act and not a duty. knew before they married that duty sex was a thing I doubt they knew since the topic of sex was more often than not a taboo. Which is supported: "For women of all classes, the preservation of innocence and modes…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 12:01 PM
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I was not refering to the comment, simply to what I quoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 10:51 AM
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Why not? As far s we know, birth control affects women more than it affects men. Pregnancy also affects your body - your waist will never be the same, sagging skin or back pain etc. As far as it is concerned, she has more to lose from a physical standpoint than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:00 AM
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INTJ women are unicorns, hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:38 PM
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Less patient, more polite, talkative and argumentative. Ideas more nuanced and actually more rounded, here I sound like a derated feminist. I rea life I sound more philosophical, for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 08:22 AM
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No, it means we have a list of what chores are reserved for each one and we share child care. Even if he work, he also participates. Even if by just doing 25% weekdays and 50% on weekends, it counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:07 AM
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-1 or +2 of my own age. So, anyone between 24 and 27 is alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 08:24 AM
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Men love to pursue, it's innate. Once a man stops pursuing, he's lost interest, even the most loser around knows this. Men like women that go women's way, not men's way. They'll treat her like a competition. What masculine man wants a woman to do his job?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:56 AM
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I work as a preachool teacher at a small, neighborhood kindergarten. I geniunely think we do more work than some of the parents will ever do. I see this happening in the quarantine - we are sending the materials we would have used at class and how many parents do you think are sending back anything? Maybe 20% and it's the same parents all again. Parents rarelly take them out to play in parks or meet other children, if it's cold outside - forget about that. Here they get to mix and socialize. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:49 AM
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There are astonishing women out there with an IQ we can only dream of. Example: Sharon Stone - IQ of 154, Natalie Portman - IQ of 140( studied and taught at Harvard for a short while, speaks 5 languages). Those are women that few men can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:37 AM
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"only women believe in meritocracy", yet that's how work fields are arranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:34 AM
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Why would you want a marginally employed or a SATHD? Men are built differently and it's not their role to breastfeed. They can try, but they won't ever become women or remember appointments, birthdays etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:32 AM
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Sometimes it does. Also, true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:55 AM
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Poor Bob, his wife found out about his affair. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:44 AM
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Sorry, but that blurry picture made me close the tab before I got to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:26 AM
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Oi, where can I also find gif memes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:25 AM
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Well, she should not have much issue bonding with the kind of man she slept with, to begin with. The issue is at hand when those men stand no chance to even get that priviledge, therefore they don't have a chance neither when she settles down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:21 AM
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Personality typology, philosophy, reading, music, writing, photography and reading about the topics. I have made some attempts at poetry, though I am not sure how good I am. I am tempted to try screenwritting someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:19 AM
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No offense to you, but with a tittle like that, the interest in the description perishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:14 AM
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It's not just the actual rape act in itself, but the fact that a punch can leave you like a vegetable for the rest of your life or even kill you. Assault can be of differenr nature, not just sexual. Lets say that somehow we move on from it (theraphy, abortion), nothing can change being left handicaped for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:23 AM
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Yup, that's the root - the lack of control we have due to being easily overpowered, in case the man chooses to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:20 AM
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Violent content?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 02:46 PM
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Also, you can’t pretend or expect that guys only focus on one woman at a time, because we know that women aren’t doing the same I don't care what other women are doing. He either only dates me or not. Buh bye, boo. Not having time for casualty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 01:41 PM
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Did you get banned? O. O
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 01:35 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 01:25 PM
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You'd make a teriffic serial killer. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 01:22 PM
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That escalated quickly. O_o
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:55 PM
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Women still made out even when it wasn't socially acceptable, mate. Virginia Woolf or Simone de Beauvoir are prime examples. I think it's fair to call those different types of attraction Attraction is atrraction, if it comes in different quantity thats different. Not like women kiss men but will walk on their hands for another women they find attractive. Since we did not account, we do not actually know how many women that do settle down with other women are lesbians or just bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:16 AM
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Simply because someone is bisexual it doesn't mean she wants that publicly known. Either way, not all bisexual people feel the need to experiment, some are simply content to acknowledge the fact and move on. I have my own example and I have a reason to think there are women out there that relate to my experience. I have had bisexual tendencies ever since primary school and unconsciously expressed openess to the idea in teenage years. It only came to my realization last year and ever since then, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:51 AM
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The more dirty, smelly he was. Or the more deformed his face was
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:18 AM
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She got dumped and now he made a clean way out, so he can say he did not ghost her or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:37 PM
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He was in a slow fade of dumping her, the maid is just his excuse to not feel guilty about himself. When a man ghosts you or not contacting you in less than 24h, he is in the proces of dumping you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:34 PM
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The hypocrisy. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 08:38 AM
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I wonder how generous men are in that area too. It's more often I hear men, more than women, complainint about the whole process being exhausting and resorting to masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 08:28 AM
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Im in Asia for most of year, here women wear skirts and no issues touching their thighs when on What'a the domestic violence and job opportunities rate for women there. Women in poor countries grow in abuse and are programmed to not respond to it. Lets put it that way, how many women are taught to not respond to it out of PTSD and how many actually like it? I doubt that happens in civilized countries like South Korea or Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 07:35 AM
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The way you talk about dates, one would say you have plenty if them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 07:04 PM
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He ages with the help of wine. Fixed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 06:50 AM
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I have yet to see a Leo equivalent in our generation Shawn Mendes is a good example - good face, athletic, 6'1 Leonardo DiCaprio is the new George Clooney George Clooney is not even that handsome, he's a 7 at most with a bland face. We can find better examples, in my opinion. Luke Evans, Jude Law, Henry Cavill or the Hemsworth Brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 06:48 AM
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And you can have all of those and still fail simply because people want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 06:34 AM
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I still think timming is most important, noone if ehat you mentioned will happen unless both people will want that. Someone that wants something different from their partner won't have the patience to act like that. Instead, they will continue to play the facade while doing their thing on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 06:32 AM
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Date women shortet than 5', easy like that. There are good looking 4'7 + women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 06:19 AM
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Society doesn't slut shame. I am because I have a pow N count and I expect the same from whom I am dating. Any man with an N count higher than 10 is a turn off. There is some sort of confidence that it's a turn off. I think individuals with low IQ or no good education tend to have higher N counts. Personal hypothesis, so don't bother counter arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:57 AM
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Believe what you want, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:55 AM
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From US. I didn't hear about a study being made in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:55 AM
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I like men too, but I am also aware they can pervade me at any time. Liking men doesn't mean one can't be aware of what they can do against. If genders found ways to replace the other gender's contributions, they would not need its presence. Given that it is impossible, I consider they are a necessary evil for one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 05:31 PM
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Michael B Jordan is Naruto fan. Who would not choose him? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 05:11 PM
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I do not care, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:35 PM
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I have no intention to ever have someone do what you said.... I want to adopt. That's your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:33 PM
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Men use the online dating stats because their target are those women and the hookups they engage in. I even had a man from my own country say - "80% want to get laid and 20% want something serious, but to not lose hope". Don't think he was socialized with the concepts of this sub, so there goes the understanding that men have their own interest and because they are not getting what they dream of, they become bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:53 PM
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Saw RPW and head a mini heart attack, thinking I called you wrongly for a while. Pfew. Arigatou, I am calm now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:44 PM
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You are a woman? O. O
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:39 PM
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Wait, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:18 PM
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The point is, a woman who dresses in a way that advertises sex is more likely to agree to sex with random men Explain why women are being raped even in countries where you can only see their eyes. Case 1: Girl wore a dress to go on a date with her boyfriend. She is a minor, so she can't get a driver license yet. She commutes to the place she will meet him, during which a man touches her thighs and slowly under her skirt, without her permission. Case 2: Its end of winter, I am fully dressed but m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:14 PM
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There is a movement that calls out hypocritical men that have a high N count themselves but act as if that doesn't matter. Based on the mentality that they have the key that can open many locks. I have seen women revolting on the idea that men can sleep around while they have to be prude. Man: uwu, testosterone and I need to get laid to not go insane. Woman: Fair enough, I will do the same but I will be promiscuous only with men I find attractive. Man: What, you slut! Something along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:05 PM
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Women also tend to value masculine traits more during their ovulation. Jordan Petersen mentioned how women are more likely to find a man with a distinct jaw more attractive compared to the rest if the cycle; something connected to testosterone apparently. So, women will lower their disgust but will also find attraction to more testosterone levels. If Jordan Petersen is wrong, I am also wrong as ot follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:05 PM
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That's how I roll too - LTR me or leavs. I can sleep at night with a clear conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:59 PM
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Men have disgust for the idea of marring a high N count girl Depends from individual to individual and how morality attached they are. Someone like Dan Bilzerian doesn't care whom he is marrying nor he eill care to remain faithful. Marriage for him is for the social prospect, meaning she has to be beautiful and build a good status for him, not necessarily virgin or have her past known. What I mean is that depending on how he is known, the world won't mind a man partner's past because it knows wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:54 PM
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Ever heard of a hot guy without at least minor mummy issues? I haven't so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 11:22 AM
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Depends on each one's taste, some Frenchmen and Italians are good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 10:07 AM
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He doesn't, thats why and how he acquired them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:43 AM
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they are feelers Have a look. 30% - 40% of men are "feelers".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:42 AM
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Happy Cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:37 AM
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If he gave her oral and made her orgasm, just as men expect and do, that'd be romanticism without consumerism. But, as far as we know, men do not offer oral without it ending a/on penetration. Complain much on the basis of a different reality..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:35 AM
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I mean, in her heart he is all of those, if she is staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:32 AM
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One learns something new everyday. Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:19 AM
2

Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:06 AM
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The complainers are usually the 40/60 men trying their luck with 60/80 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:44 AM
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Curious about the history of your username, off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:05 AM
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And men signal high value 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:04 AM
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Awww, this is so cute. > ^ w ^ <
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 11:10 AM
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Online? You are absurd, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 08:46 AM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 08:41 AM
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Ask women here and you'll see opinions vary regarding the topic and the women that mind a man's past are not minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 06:58 AM
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Whatevers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 06:55 AM
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Drake is not a saint either. https://youtu.be/Fp5b9dW1nrA He is also known to be texting girls as young as 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:06 PM
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No worries, if I wanted I could have a social life. I knew this for the last decade and since I did not make any change, it means subconsciously I am content the way I am. Was an attempt to self deprecating joke, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 09:48 AM
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Low count women are less likely to like your past, that's the point mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:29 AM
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A smart man knows that given his own past, it's lowering his chances with women that are a good catch. A player knows his past and minds hers less, his superficiality is just as hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:25 AM
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And if he settles down with a churh girl, he will sleep on the side with another party girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:24 AM
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Smart Chads will choose to settle down with low-n women to prevent paternity fraud Brad Pitt chose Angelina Jolie over Jennifer. There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:23 AM
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Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:22 AM
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Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:20 AM
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"conditioned by society" If it's in oir damn nature to want to look well dressed and put together, otherwise we'd be wearing the same ripped or oily pants men have, without minding too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:20 AM
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I am transitioning. lol Also, why is my flair deleted every day?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:09 AM
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And by that she is not giving up the power she has over the situation. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:09 AM
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less Is not "at all" or that they get over it. Studies take two extremes and make an average to make an assumption. emotional cheating Cheating is cheating mate. Doesn't matter of it's nature, once he no longer wants to communicate and makes that step, the relationship is over. this is a debate sub People are from all over the world here, different education or culture. Your presumptions aren't each one's assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:06 AM
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I have a decent social life Till, I am a loner ;_;
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:35 PM
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Wut? You gotta be kidding, you seem ENTP. Infj as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:29 PM
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Are you ENTP? O.o
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:23 PM
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You ruined my joke attempt. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:21 PM
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Women want someone that can maintain a job and can educate their children, that can play their part in the marriage. When she is not able to do something, to cover her back and make sure nothing explodes and goes down. Like, when you are recovering from a surgery and have to lie in bed all day, the children eat and go to school etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:32 PM
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If he just watched, alright. If he paid to watch, I can't see him the same way. I would lose attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:18 PM
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You went off the rails there Not in my opinion. The question is if the woman wants to marry the guy why doesn't she propose The answer was in the comment. No man wants to be proposed by someone that they see as a nagging maternal figure. They already see the woman like that if they did not propose or if they avoid the topic. There is a dissonance of goals and timelines. she doesn't have her shit together She does but he is not at that point yet. Why would it matter who proposes It is a marker of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:15 PM
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Extensive sexual history but no long-term relationships 🚩 Fuckboy, emotionally unavaible. uwu Single instance of infidelity in the past, claims reformed 🚩 There is no such a thing as reformed. Kept under control, sure. Visited several prostitutes but now opposed to it 🚩 He will do it again when he will be in the same circumstance as before. Sexual history exclusively of prostitutes 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Former porn addiction 🚩🚩🚩 The rest were counttless 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:08 PM
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What does the proposal actually mean? Her asking him to mature and get his 💩 together. Thats a parent - child relationship and no man likes to be mothered, it means the woman has no trust or respect for him. And who wants to be proposed by someone that he sees as a mother and not someone he wants to drag and rip clothes off from?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:03 PM
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TDK - Too Damn Knowledgeable? Just thought would be a funny word match.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 04:58 PM
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I bet there have been prior discussions about the topic and the man did not want to give an answer right away. He knew he would not marry her and he did not break up when he had to, putting the dust under the rug. Because he was scared to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 04:57 PM
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it’s still the husband’s responsibility to maintain a quality of living standards Both contribute, but through different aspects. And it would be a lie to say that men are naturally built and inclined to not do so. They take higher risk jobs or spend longer hours at work, therefore they make more than women. . it seems like you might be friendly to most of evolutionary psychology As much as we would like to, we can't exist outside our evolution. I can never get a man's physical strength or low n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 08:24 PM
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the selection for men with workable skills was necessary for survival Still the same, women still go through pregnancy or illness. there’s no clear cut reason for why she must date up There is, nothing has changed instinctually. Women evolved and they look for men that did the same. Considering the efforts, more of a reason to not give a chance to someone that did not at least do the same as you. It is going to bring you down at some point, to hold back. If value is not maintained, it will go do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:33 PM
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Its not an AWALT, its a "all living beings are like that". It's the preservation instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:23 PM
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Women naturally hate men, not just those from FDS. Thats my idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:02 PM
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The point is that women prefer to date up in terms of status and wealth and sometimes looks Bla bla bla. In case you did not know, it has always been like that. No one ever merried just for love, they married for stability too. No one married a man living on the edge of existence or if not, a little short of scrawny man. If he only had what to survive, the man had to be physically apt to work and protect. Decades or centuries ago, women would be set up this way by their own families. But, no man…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:00 PM
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They do, that's why they divorce and prefer to be single mums. Thats why they don't become SAHM/W
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 04:54 PM
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Why the fuck would I care what the future generations say when I would be dead? Without adherents to carry on your legacy you might as well be dead I will be dead one day, regardless of what I choose. So, I will make my own choices and die with a complete heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 04:52 PM
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She is not, but she might be labeled as such for not living up to his expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 07:12 AM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:27 AM
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Similar happened when nobility or aristocracy disappeared and bourgeosie rose. Class is not strictly defined by intelligence, there are stupid rich people out there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:26 AM
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Why would an average man even have a chance with a Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:25 AM
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Because it gives the exclusivity impression, as if they are the only one with the access. Even though many others are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:22 AM
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TRP: teaches guys to give women what women want. ROFL How to appeal women, but to their own interest. Which is what FDS does too. It's a selfish shield put up for personal interest and satisfaction, not a rehab center.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:17 AM
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The loser you keep defining is not different than the other, if anything his inhibition is just as likely of lashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:12 AM
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Women are just like men, they want power and status. But women don’t wanna admit it since it would make then look bad I think now a days they do, which seems to put off some individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:11 AM
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Unless you have an IQ of bellow 70 of anything, you should know of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:01 AM
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So, losers will have to actually get their 💩 together. What's wrong about it? .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:59 AM
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This has happened ever since the early debelopment of mankind. What's so new about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:58 AM
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Women grow more unhappy because often they deal with bad, conflicting partners, in part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:51 AM
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Not all doctors work crazy hours. Any private practice can have its own schedule. Not everyone becomes a top knot position either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:42 AM
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Programmers, teachers, engineers, architects, writers, psychologists. Attractive men and women, with any of those jobs are my sin, even though it's pretty much a Hollywood trope. Blamea the deed on these.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:27 AM
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Who is that woman, again?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:04 PM
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Some sort of viagra smuggling among nurses happening too? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:02 PM
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I read as "we'll all get jailed". Sorry, but was hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:57 PM
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F'ing leave in all scenarios. A vibrator is cheaper than the theraphy I'd need if I stayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:56 PM
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No woman can balance a man into commitment unless the man decides he wants to do so. A virgin or a low count woman can toy men too, some are actually more entitled due to their so called "purity" and subconsciously put themselves as better than some other women. At least where I am from, these virgins from religious background are brought to be proud and pretentious, they won't marry or date just anyone. Before you tell me anything, I have seen it happening to different sects from different citi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 08:47 PM
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Whats your number sir? <sup>Joking</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:18 AM
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You can, it's called Regina George.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:14 AM
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You underestimate what men do as coping mechanism when they start feel guilty about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:11 AM
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Cool story, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:01 AM
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No. He is out of the house the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 09:52 AM
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That is valid for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 09:18 AM
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The sense is my own opinion. If you dislike or disagree, feel free to ignore and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:15 PM
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I was pointing out the lack of attention to that nuance of the topic, same as you. Whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:49 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 09:06 PM
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I simply judge the situation from my own perspective, so of course comes off as presumptious. Which is fine. In my perspective, your support is conditioned. And nothing wrong with it, as long as it works for you. Simply because I disagree, it doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:31 PM
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That woman has more authority on this topic than you have, dude. You contradict my initial statement for no reason than to make men look worse than they actually get it going. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:52 PM
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From to 2 years /optimized butt to 3 years / good butt is a stretch, mate. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:47 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/BklbsVHn6kl/ https://www.instagram.com/p/BqtJQmMg9Zz 2016 vs November 2019 Talk about that. Not every woman is blessed with curves or genetics. She worked her arse literally for half a decade to build it, went to the gym almost daily, lifted as a man. "what a male goes through".... My bad that a woman can do better than some of you. Whats your excuse now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 04:47 PM
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I wouldn't want those guys to kiss me, let alone sleep with me. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:53 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:52 PM
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Doesn't happen. Know "tall white guys" that aren't dating or are engaged to single mums.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:49 PM
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Takes years for a woman to built a butt, that was my point. Look at any avid gym goer, between 2 and 5 years, depending on the genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:39 PM
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What I was thinking. 🤣 Like no offense, if he has an ugly last name, she will keep hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:38 PM
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Water, water. S/he burned him. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:22 PM
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And men think the same about women going to the gym and building a butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:56 AM
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Also: thr man banging he is just as low value as she is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:56 AM
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Reactions are not opinions. Learn and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:27 AM
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Excuses, excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:01 PM
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So because I have previously seen porn? Dumbass argument Because it does not serve your narrative. You know, there is an online debate going - if she did it in the past, why won't she still do it? Men use that argument to get women do what they want. Reverse the genders and boom!, it is not applicable anymore. You are hypocrite. Does that mean I can continue to fuck her? Lame example. Don't need to hear your bullshit girl power bollocks Is this the new method to overcompensate lack of arguments.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:53 AM
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She could actually be and just not be aware of it yet. Never say never. Also do not act as if thats the most horrible thing to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:45 AM
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You did. Simply because you don't anymore it does not mean she has to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:44 AM
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She can be bisexual, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:08 AM
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She started watching porn and in my mind that's like cheating because she's masturbating to another guy that has a bigger dick and a better face than me Oooh, the genders have reversed and the hypocrisy. You were allowed to watch porn when it was convenient for you. Her doing the same is again not convenient for you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:07 AM
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Weight is a must for me, I can not stand dad bods Weight - anything between 5'9 to 6'2, no less or more. Face - at least average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:30 PM
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Is it, though? Weight and body shape also reflect on the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:56 PM
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The face is good if blowjobs is all you want, redundant if when she gets naked you get into "erectile dysfunction" mode. Clothes sit differently too on a good body, make up and hairstyling compensate up to 1 or 2 points for the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:36 PM
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Weight is 60%, face is 40%. At least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:04 PM
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Proof that he “hit her back”? Feel free to search on your own, there are pictures of both with black eyes. Considering that in 2018 he hit a crewman, I don't think it is far fetched he hit her back. If in defense, it is justified, but still violent. He “had it coming” because he dared to marry a younger woman He had it coming, it went public that his family urged him on a prenuptial and they advised him to consider marrying her. When your family tells you to reconsider committing to someone they…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:12 AM
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ignoring easily proven facts Facts are this: she has been the abuser but he also hit her back, he responded to abuse with abuse. He can be impulsive, which was proven by the lawsits he had and his arrests. He married a woman almost half his age against the advice of his family. He did not deserve the abuse but that doesn't mean he didn't have it comming. He wasn't a young guidable man, contrary, he knew well the extent of his choice. He is a low value man and the complains here won't change that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:32 AM
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My opinion is my opinion, he hit her too. There are pictures of that and he also says he would kill her if she continued what she did. He responded to abuse with abuse and would have still stayed unless she went for divorce. He was a 50 years old man knowing what he was getting in, a low value man if I am to say. I won't stand for what I can not respect. I can support but not be an activist for. As far as it concerns me, I wish he won the legal battle, went to reheab. And her, go duck herself an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:08 AM
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Johnny Depp has form as an abuser from his relationship with Winona Ryder Tell people here that he groomed her into addiction and they will scream you don't sympathize with men at all. What they don't get is: even if Amber Heard hit him, he also hit her back. He responded to abuse with abuse. Why? Because at core he also has some narcissistic tendencies, otherwise he would have not married her. Abd I think that's why some people don't care knowing his past, his addiction, his trials of him beati…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:23 AM
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Why are you blaming johnny depp for Winona Ryder's decisions Because she was naive and had no life experience. He is to blame knowing that and still did not refrain any of those behaviours in front of her. You are blaming her choice to become addicted to drugs on him I blame Johnny Depp not being mature enough to date a woman of his age, going to rehab, being a man that starts bar fights. I also blame Winona for dating him. When a woman makes a choice to get a divorce, leave her husband and take…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 09:12 PM
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but say virtually nothing when a man has clearly been victimized by a woman In Mr Depp's case I think it is actually beneficial there is no more coverage. Why? How do you think he feels about himself knowing people put salt on the same wound, not wondering what he feels about. One thing that narcissistic abusive victims feel is shame and self-guilt. He probably feels a lot of shame, he feels lame and has bad self esteem. You think anyone cares that he might not want to have everything publicly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 09:07 PM
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And you think they perceive it that way? There comes the cultural difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 11:03 AM
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We are not sympathetic to everyone, only to those relate to. I can not sympathize with Mr Depp, but I can empathize as I have grown up in abusive family too. I won't feel sorry or pity him, but I support any improvement and decision he makes of healing from the abuse. Sympathy doesn't contribute to any of that, only reinforces the victim status and stagnation. What Mr Depp feels is justified, but we should not encourage him to prolong his misery by being pitiful. Do you think that's what he want…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:19 AM
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he deserves to be abused I did not use those words, don't put them in my comments please. He deserves the consequences of whatever nature those are. Do you think she wasn't abusive before they got married? He chose to deal with her abuse, no one forced him to. they get what they deserve right Why do you use such twisted words, mate? Just to create drama? Makes you sound whiny, really now. It's not about deserving but being responsible for their own actions. Of course, it doesn't take the evil ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:15 AM
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You make little sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:01 AM
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You don't live here to know. That's why women living here are not moved by the complains of Western men. "well, the opposite happens here" but it doesn't really carry a point Here simply because a woman has the legal right it doesn't mean it is fully acknowledged socially. In other words, she has the modern society rights but is expected to act traditionally. shouldn't be a thing Doesn't mean it won't still happen. People live by their culture not what the West considers ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:00 AM
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Also Depp is a fucking addict and I seriously doubt he is an innocent party He has beaten a police officer in 1989, in 1994 he trashed a hotel room, in 2012 a disabled professor was tied up and dragged 40m on the floor by his bodyguards -----> he settled with money, in 2018 he went to trial for punching a crewman. He is no angel, he has violent outbursts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:17 PM
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The country doesn't matter much, the culture is the same in all Eastern Europe. Where women are killed by their partners, marital rape is morally justified, where people consider a woman deserves rape etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:11 PM
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While he has done shitty things, consistent abuse in relationships isn't the same as one-off incidents For me it is. We talk as if he is such a high value man while he is low value. Not only that, he spends a lot of money, he is being fed his scenario through the ear bud because he won't learn his lines. As it appears, he was warned by his family to sign a prenuptial or not get married to her. She has been abusive to him before the marriage, but he still went on. I won't pity someone that made t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:07 PM
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Depp was arrested in Vancouver in 1989 for assaulting a security guard after the police were called to end a loud party at his hotel room. In 2012, disabled UC Irvine medical professor Robin Eckert sued Depp and three security firms, claiming to have been attacked by his bodyguards at a concert in Los Angeles in 2011. During the incident, she was allegedly hand-cuffed and dragged 40 feet across the floor, resulting in injuries including a dislocated elbow. In July 2018, Depp was sued for alleged…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:25 PM
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leave Heard alone Tell me where I have ever used "leave". Both should pay for their sins. ex-wife Ex fiancee** I have seen this dynamic before. They are both toxic towards one another, he hits her and she hits him back. Also, let me tell this: if he left his wife and young children for someone almost half his age, likely he was cheating around his wife for a while. What Amber Heard is now Johnny Depp has been in the 90's I am all for men's rights, but we should not bury their dark side either. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:10 PM
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This removes accountability from Amber Heard No, it is not. Simply pointing out they are both just as bad, both are narcissistic and toxic. What she's done to him he's done before to someone else. No one considers the people he hurt but consider him a victim. What he gets now is just karma. Does he deserve all of it? Maybe not, I am not one to judge. But, I don't pity him as much, he doesn't deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:51 PM
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Johnny Depp is not the saint you portray. As a 27 years old man he dates a barelly 18 years old Winona Ryder. Do you know what happened to her after they broke up? She went on a drug addiction and shoplifting binge, that's how toxic he was. He left his wife and children for Amber Heard, he is a asshole that you try to portray as a victim. He went ahead and married her, to do that he needs to be toxic himself too. It is unfortunate that he went through everything, but that doesn't excuse him of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:28 PM
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A guy with a 100% has higher chances to increase his sexual appeal than a man that has barelly any personality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 02:41 PM
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Assuming you also have a good personality....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:51 AM
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Tbh, I am too much of an abyss even for myself. He will get bored before he gets to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:56 PM
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Seeing OP's comments, would not be surprised to happen the other way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:37 PM
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I do not plan to have children until I would have been at least two years married. So, I am not keeping any child until I have a ring on my hand. I also plan on adopting. I can not afford to waste my life hoping a man might change his mind. He either knows what he wants or if he is willing to compromise while still dating. Men are not babies. The guy I am seeing wants to build a house, he is thinking of the space and architecture while taking into account I want two children. An example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:34 PM
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Why would I care of what he wants of it does not align with what I want? It means there is a fundamental incompatibility between us as both of us has made clear how many children each one wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:22 PM
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I learned by reading some comments and I am baffled. We have worse conditions in the hospitals, but other advantages as well, I see. God bless us all. 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:21 PM
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Expect a thot to go public and create drama, to have people burn with interest and prolong the attention given to the event. Those two deserved eachother!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:20 PM
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Why is empathy for the boy asking this q not empathy, only empathy for the child is Because the father is a legal adult, while the baby is not guilty for the mistakes of his parents. We can not just run away from responsibilities without thiking of how our actions affect other people. Very much Fe, I know. That's how I see it - more often the reaction is more important than the triggering action. People act in patterns, in most areas of their life. He will act similarly with any hardships that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:16 PM
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Ugly and short. A cheating ahole too, from the rumours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:55 PM
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Bezos married her before he started getting rich, she supported him through. She took him when he was a nobody, dude. Edit: Did you see what she looks like compared to him? She also downgraded in looks department, married a short and bellow average man with weird eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:51 PM
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I do not mind a man that only wants one kid and is dating another woman. I have always wanted two children, twins possibly. If I am ever to adopt, it will be 2, not more than 4. I do not want children before 30, so idk about the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:48 PM
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A man is not destroying his life, but he is for sure lowering his value or chances. I am talking about OP that should feel ashamed, not you. The practice you mention is the most common among rich people. Just hoped OP could be an exception, my empathy is naive I know. Also, I know INTJ theory. The empathy is their blind spot and they protect their own emotional side by acting cocky. What you do now is protecting your vulnerable Fi by being brash through Se inferior. Makes sense, your behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:43 PM
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Alpha = creates sexual desire in women Hmm, made me think if a man that creates sexual desire to a niche of women. Would he still be Alpha? Example: personality typology compatibility. No matter how much we generalize, not all women that the same preference or definition of what Alpha is. So, I assume there will be subculures and niches. Or those are a Alpha/Beta mix. Asking as I know men that physically could create sexual attraction aka they are attractive, but they are either Introverted, shy…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:35 PM
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He is destroying it by abandoning his child. Women don't like cowards that burry their head in sand whenever they do not want to deal with reality. Instead, a man that accepts a mistakes and works towards solution. How much is a couple of hours weekly, seeing your child, really? One never knows, he might never marry or have other children, would be ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:28 PM
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A man that has had children in wedlock, sure. 21, drunken ONS. I'll pass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:25 PM
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21 years too late
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:21 PM
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You are not accounting that years from now he might want to see his child. As they grow older, people change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:20 PM
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Keep the custody, over the years you will want to see your child. When you are 30, you will see differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:20 PM
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Do not sleep with a woman if he is not up for the risk of raising a child. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:15 PM
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The fact that you're more concerned with "keeping your 'high' value" and getting laid rather than the well-being of your own child speaks very poorly of your values, priorities, and upbringing It is not just the fact he had a child but this! Women understand mistakes happen, but they also care how men solve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:07 PM
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Where I live, the woman gets up to 2 years of maternal leave without losing her job, receives up to 85% of wage from government. She will maintain the job and return earlier if she is asked. I can not phantom losing your job simply because of staying home for child care. What country is even that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:52 PM
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Wait, what for? 🤭 Edit: you were both the father and the doctor?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:48 PM
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How many times she said she hated you just to forget you were there once the baby came out? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:43 PM
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He was joking by being sarcastic 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:42 PM
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Gotta love INFP's ^ _ ^
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:45 PM
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There are bisexual women too, more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:30 PM
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It's like a man telling a woman he'd stay calm and not be emotional if he were a woman having her period. Periods can be controlled through alimentation or medicamentation. Hormones are also determined by food. If that man cares more about his standing in a group or achievements, sex becomes a less of priority. Like anyone else, men also act on purpose. He can wait 6 months+ while his wife is pregnant because he wants a family, for example. Life asks for sacrifices and hormones are not exception…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:55 AM
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Given the stereotype men don't or at least not willingly, would be a progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:23 AM
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Topic was about gender change, not about self improvement as currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:19 AM
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Or one guy who swore he'd never objectify women only to catch himself turning around to see if a young woman was pretty after seeing her from behind One thing you got misubderstood: I am bisexual, I already do the "man stare". I "objectify" both men and women. 😆 curvy colleague you've never noticed until now comes in wearing a low cut top. Sounds like an animal. Let just say I have stared at women in public, had thoughts of grabbing or slapping bum. I felt the need to act, but I also considered …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:59 AM
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Mate, I would be a man for the first time. 100% women would do that, just to see what it is like. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:48 AM
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Why not? Who wants to stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:48 AM
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So the key is to develop more of a personality. Idk what would be efficient for you, that's my criteria. I don't engage in ONS or hookups, I am completely against those. Might be recommended to avoid me or my comments. Well, you know what they say about ego Sure. For most will be their worst enemy, for one will be what they need. Most men don't like it because it doesn't go their way, there might be one to commit due to that. We can't predict life but it also does not mean he have to get entangl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:46 AM
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If I ever am to be a man, I want to be better than my current self. Therefore, not afraid to be alone and more patient till I find a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 10:44 PM
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Men are disgusting. I would prefer not to fuck than to fuck another guy. 😂 Sorry, could not hold the laughter. I love men's sincerity sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:10 PM
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First thing? Try peeing standing, a must! Then, probably masturbate. Followed by: Read and contemplate. Listen to good music. Dress simple, good taste. Work out, pay attention what I eat. Focus on my degree or job. Do what I would do for myself. Don't waste attention on people that do not enrich my time. Not swipe on every thot if I would use online dating. Search for amateur category, professional is too fake. Not using Instagram or Snapchat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:04 PM
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"You did not favour me, I'll make sure you never favour anyone again." Sonething like that? 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 07:43 PM
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I do not want to assume things about people, so i will refrain. Thank you for picture information, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 02:13 PM
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Where did people post pictures? Couldn't find the thread. Also, wasn't she married? We might confuse the user with someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 02:10 PM
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From what it seems, she is a middle aged woman that has lived her youth without much regret and has been decently married for almost two decades. Doubt that would be the case
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 09:51 AM
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Eastern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:34 AM
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I had a couple men dance with me and try to get me to sleep with or kiss them. Of course I would reject them: the first has never had a serious relationship ever, the second one only talked about and nothing else but horses. They had no personality beside trying to get me go outside, behind a wall and bend. Suddenly, their interest vanished and one even proceeded to insult me for not kissing him. The whole value they saw in me was that, to tell you, that was way underneath my ego. Due to such ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:25 AM
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Just my observation - people that indulge in hookups usually have insecurities and do not know what they want. Those people usually look onesided at the investment and take for granted. If they succeed in the hookup they lose respect for thr other person, if they don't succeed they also do not respect. Why would someone respect anything that is easily obtained? Anyone that prefers "getting laid" over commitment is a superficial person that does not appreciate quality. Personally, I do not want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:13 AM
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You mentioned serial rejection, therefore there are good similarities between the women you chase
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:09 AM
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She could be older than you, some respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:21 PM
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There are, but compared to the number of comments by users....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:47 PM
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Sweets? How do we know is not a conspiration to get them fat? 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:42 PM
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Everything, if it makes sense for you mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:34 PM
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Not really, it is difficult to find someone compatible for the long term
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:08 PM
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Strange is the least thing I care when it comes to mind, if we ever get out of our hometown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:05 PM
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My English is more poetic, bohemian aspiring person here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:02 PM
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This makes a whole new sense, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:59 PM
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You are very smart, aren't ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:52 PM
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Fronmm what it seem, it does not. Take time to contemplate, read. Will be more fulfilling in the long run. Red Pill won't find your inner self instead of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:47 PM
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Give good advice, at least, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:44 PM
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Your username speaks reality, interesting. P. S. I don't care about your person, I care about the ideas you promote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:35 PM
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Is this serious conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:28 PM
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Having an opinion is an invitation to sex? What in the world....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:03 PM
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Why do you think I care? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:53 PM
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You are a functional human being, you want to be congratulated for that? Childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 02:46 PM
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You lead, she follows There is a door on the wall of a 5th tall story building, one goes through the door and falls down the pavement. I'll for sure follow and lock the door after seeing him fall. you need to be the decision maker You don't get to decide over my authority, otherwise you will have what it is yours and I will have what it is mine. Negociate or you out, I don't have time with men that are unable to be man in a group of males but projects his masculinity over me. Go out with male fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 02:42 PM
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On this sub, men are rarelly with a bad trait. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 02:25 PM
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Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:15 PM
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Arigatou > ^ w ^ <
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:14 PM
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The percentage of obese mean due to health conditions such as tyroid disbalancing the hormones, for example, are just as rare as transgender people. Most men are obese because they are lazy. Why should women or anybody else be blamed for someone's poor decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:13 AM
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Women want too, to some degree. But not from men that make sex their life priority, but from men that know sex is an experience not a personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:10 AM
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You go for the same type. Change the type of women you look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:05 AM
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You can be Johnny Bravo and get rejected if you don't have anything else beside "I work out to fuck as many women as I can" on your personality. Change the type of women you look for, go for more serious women. Though I feel that won't work because most men don't want to commit. And that's some of the issues men have nowadays - they are superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:52 AM
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They get laid. After that what? Still the same personality void person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:47 AM
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most men being told they are predatory, lazy pieces of shit who need to “get better”to To which they are. Where I live half men have this "jock" attitude of entitlement, expecting money without work, believing to be above rules, believing they are so cool. I can attesy that 70% of the men I meet on daily basis can be attractive but not interesting enough. women are praised for existing Maybe in US. Here a woman has to be beautiful, a good housewife, a woman with good reputation, to take care of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:16 AM
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We approch people because we have an interest, regardless of its nature. Every effect has a causr.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:59 PM
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When I see a handsome face, I think how handsome he is. I might smile and ask myself if I would make any step. At the same time, I think if I would see myself dating him. Lot of the time, no due to circumstance or not being interested enough. Just because someone is handsome, it does not neccesarilly mean there is more than initial infatuation or that I would proceed towards any intimacy. But, hey, I am quite picky, so who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:48 PM
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What rape is not violent? Penetration without previous stimulation is painful, even in cases of substance induced rape
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:35 PM
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Do not worry, it is not the case. OP can have some serious insecurities and not so moral beliefs, that's all. Most people here are more radical than I think they would be if they were to speak face to face. Anonymity gives people confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:33 PM
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blows the scum away like dust *
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:59 PM
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Women cheat on or dump masculine men too, the argument is lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:53 PM
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I have been talking about the same topic, I still am. I am saying that abusers are before marriage and they are breaking the vows before even making them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:48 PM
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Never said it is post marriage, the woman can stay and marry him because the culture taught her that's how men can be. And before you try to disapprove, I remind it is a matter of culture and it happens where I live, not minority. Lastly, men break their vows and they are not such minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:35 PM
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Radical beliefs - either a traditionalist or a SJW type Entitlement Dad body Facial disformity Arrogance Stupidity or lacking intelligence Codependence Lacking assetiveness Bad fashion Slackness Obesity High pitched voice Jock attitude Mysoginist Losers in general
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:51 PM
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Is veganism asexuality? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:48 PM
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Bellow 15 is not attractive....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:43 PM
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What makes you think she was the one to break the vows? Abusive, cheating or ghoster men exist. A divorce is not onesided, remember
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:37 PM
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He can afford a more open minded person than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:20 PM
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If I have been a person that did drugs here and there, lets say I could keep an open mind. Considering I bever had a cigarette on my mouth ever, big no. Assault charges indicate an impulsive unpredictable person. That's too much for the average person. Genes are passed down, no one wants children with predisposition to misconduct
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:19 PM
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I think men are grateful. I also know that the user that debated you has issues going in his marriage and is stressed about his and his wife's priorities, childcare etc. Both you and him are justified in your belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:11 PM
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Women dying in childbirth is the lowest it has ever been. Everything in life is a risk, it is deeply saddening but also a way of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:06 PM
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At least a 5.5 face and above average body. A face I am not ashamed to be seen in public with, above average body to feel attracted to him. A well above average personality for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:30 PM
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Where do you live, good lord? Average is 23 - 25 for women my age, Eastern Europe. But I feel this will change with the upcomming generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:25 PM
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At the end of the day, experience beats preference. Your opinion is rare, but represents reality. A good face is when you are out with her, a good body is for private matters. She can have a beautiful face if you want her as a friend or for head, but she got to have body too for active intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:23 PM
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I am curious what your rating include.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:05 PM
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Mindblowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:59 PM
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Two years ago, I made a move on this nerd. He had an idea, but he rejected me. Took me to get my heart broken by another INTP so he would finally make a move. Even though we crushed on each other here and there for years now. Wish both of you happiness and good communication. ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:06 PM
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Ofc, who else would engage in humouristic passice aggresive exchange of replies. 😁 I am ENFJ, dating another INTP. I love and hate you guys, but mostly love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:59 PM
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Are you a xNTP type / MBTI?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:56 PM
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Weed makes people sociable, indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:53 PM
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If fear you will laugh if I will and I do not want to bear the moral responsibility of corrupting a good wo/man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:31 PM
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Regretting leaving, Shemar Moore?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:30 PM
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Humour dry as the owner. Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:30 PM
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I use extreme examples to illustrate the point. So did I. Don't forget the lube :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:24 PM
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The terms differ, concept is the same. If she will marry you, that's another thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:09 PM
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Mate, we talk about UK. People are either a hit or a miss, there. How many men do you know be to well groomed as he is. Tue Royals have never been extraordinarily good looking, not even the famous princess Diana. For a product of hundreds of years of inbreeding, he looks handsome (his grandparents were cousins once removed, for ducks sake) Not all rich playboys are handsome, Dan Bilzerian is a prime example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:21 PM
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Megan Markle, despite having a bad body shape, is still in the 7.5 - 8 range. I'll see when you marry a famous rich actress, divorced or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:18 PM
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So, to women of similar "league". Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:13 PM
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What you have inside will materialize through your actions, your behaviour towards other people. You seem to have a different experience than me, so commenting on subjective thing won't be meaningful nor helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:02 PM
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Where are YOU in this case? What defines you in the absence of all external factors?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:47 PM
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You don't have to care of all men to not be single, but care only for those men that would be a good fit for you. As far as I know, men don't have a much different mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:41 PM
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I don't care about most men all the time, so why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:06 PM
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Someone has a one sided attraction for you, you can be nice or a jerk. Doesn't take much thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:02 PM
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TRP is a facade people build, just like a diet. Thank you, but I will not order.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:57 PM
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It is not about presenting something, it is what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:51 PM
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Then after this they must up-keep a certain character to maintain her attraction. So, doesn't everyone have to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:19 PM
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ENFJ would be a better fit than ENTJ, though. I have also seen ENFP being compatible with INFP, and as of recently ISFP (Ben Solo ans Rey I think are a good example).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:54 AM
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What's better than words if not a visual representation of their meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:52 AM
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Yes this is my definition and I do not pay attention to any man that does not fit my standard. Don't think they would mind not wasting time with a woman incompatible to their expectations. Why would you ever be picked? Because I am who I am, anyone that thinks they deserve better only have to tell me. I will rather deal with direct rejection than being lead on and lied to. Of course, it will hurt my ego, but at least I know my self awareness is there and that my principles work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:49 AM
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That test is expensive, mate. O.o Why not study cognitive functions instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:46 AM
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Yes, because him being perfect has nothing to do with me, I can decide for myself by ignoring externak events. I think it is called having some brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:10 AM
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High value men show they have something else going on in their life and they can offer more than sex, saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:08 AM
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If sex is nothing special it means won't hurt you to wait. Also, you better be hot or have an A+ personality to entitle demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:06 AM
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Getting to know a person first is being trapped? Lol I first want to see you tested before you go inside me, no offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:03 AM
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Think of a stranger asking, out of nowhere, to peg you. That's what feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:53 AM
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I think you have just described my previous boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:47 AM
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I have been ignored and made fun by a lot of men (I am short and I was also nerdy) my whole life. Should I also start hating and believing the same thing? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:15 AM
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Are you giving them hints so they will?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:12 AM
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I am a woman that's above average, but without wearing makeup or body fit or revealing clothing. Not that I mind, but I also do not find people treating me nicer than any woman around me is treated. If anything, more than half men find me boring for not being promiscuous and discussing theoretical topics instead of everyday gossip. For my humour and principles, I have been called ranging from "weird" to "batshit insane in a positive way". When you are a plain Jane, you learn you need to cultivat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:59 AM
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You don't get to decide who is who's "looks match". She liked you, not het fault you were a jerk for knowing and rejecting her right away, before she invinted you out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:53 AM
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Sometimes sexual jokes are funny and c'mon, an obvious way of flirting! The difference is who's coming from - the guy you like or someone you don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:51 AM
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A couple years back I have been waiting for the train, anyhow, there is this taxi driver bragging how men cheat for the smallest reasons, giving an example how he cheated on his wife.... Guess what for....a woman having sexier toes! I knew women are more volatile because I have been around them more growing up, but men seemed more reliable. This year, more than ever, I have learned no one can trust man a either, my father's advice to be careful of men started to come true. He was right, men will…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:33 AM
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Men can keep women in any zone, regardless of how much they have in common. At the end of the day, it all comes down to how much he is willing to invest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:01 AM
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I appreciate a good looking face in friends, but for me it has to be face + body for a man that I am actually intimate with. All being said, I care more about weight than height, because I like bodies, touching certain areas. Edit: But, your opinion is also valid and certainly more popular than mine, therefore I shall respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:13 PM
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Thank you, appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:54 PM
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For those jealous men, I will go first and peg them with a passion, everytime they ask for anal. If my ex'es could do it, they should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:21 PM
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For me, personally, intelligence has always been the final checkpoint if someone is attractive or not. Couple years ago I became infatuated with a my college lecture assistant, even though he was faaaar away from what I would usually deem as attractive. He was about 5'7, overweight. You should listen to him talking about poetry, how he dressed or his hair. Had he lost weight, total Chad!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:00 PM
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The first guy is the Johnny Bravo stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:23 PM
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I mean, being a Chad also does not translate in being intimate with every woman that would find him attractive. There is a percentage of failure for every running process in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:21 PM
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No. And I don't stay over until we are exclusive. Why? People have their weird habbits, I have no interest to know if they are strangers. There are layers of intimacy and acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:11 AM
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No, I can stand the effort to deal with loving one man or woman, but two is already too much. I am also more jealous than I would like to admit (I don't react to it impulsively, but I do isolate myself and give up on things), I am also quite territorial - I don't like sharing what's mine unless it is something I won't miss by not getting back. You work to obtain and just share with someone that is not worth or that did not do any work? Idk man, I value my investment and benefit. If I have to inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:57 AM
1

She has a preffered colour palette, who are we to judge? 💩🍺
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:54 AM
-1

5'9 is the least short height I could see myself attracted to, anything above 6'1 is too much. Between 5'9 and 6'1 works for me (4'11 1/2). I do not think I am pretentious, 5'9 is average height in most countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:53 AM
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Some women care about personality just as much as they care about looks, meaning while she finds the man attractive at first and lose the attraction when he opens his mouth. Or he could be attrative yet something about heem seems missing, when he opens his mouth, boom, the spark is there. For me personally body is more important than the face, any average face does as long as he has a skinny body with no belly pouch. Daddy bodies are an attraction killer, no personality can compensate. At least …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:48 AM
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I don't go to clubs, only speaking from an abstract philosiphical way. 🤷🏻‍♀️ If life beats me, can't disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 04:26 PM
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You did not earn the benefit of calling anyone "babe". Alas, quoting a fake Marie Antoinette impression, let them eat poundcake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:59 PM
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women to make themselves attractive for long-term relationships with high-value men You think some men don't have standards? I think it was last week that a few users mentioned they would not even have a hookup with a woman less than a 4. What do you think those women do to compete with 5+ and 6+ for the same men? Lets not forget, those women look for similar men as the more attractive women are. That's my whole point and with this, I shall end. Have a good day, sir / miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:32 PM
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Women can sleep with a lot of men, understandable. But, out of those men, how many she is interested in? They can have many options and be interested in a limited amount. Depending on the quality of those men she wants to chase, she might have to do some investment to make sure that the desire is reciprocated. Some men distinguish between a woman with a headbun and another one with her hair down, straightened. The former wearing sweatpants and a large top, the other one wearing skinny jeans and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:26 PM
1

And choosing quality men to sleep with has not much to do with hookups. She can date exclusively as many men she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:16 PM
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Look up my history, did I ever mention anything about getting laid? I advise on quality not quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:14 PM
-1

I am not talking about any d * * k, but the d * * k that will father and raise their children. There is a difference. Also, for me, based on your comment, you are not more than a 6, let alone me ever sleeping with you. Better women than me have gone through your bed, so am I to comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:06 PM
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It can be harsh at the same time, but I guess reality id what it is and selection's gotta find a way. Someone else would have jumped with insults or passive aggressiveness. Lets just say we were indirectly both like that, but we managed to remain civil. I have to thank you for patience in the discussion. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:39 AM
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Idk dude, I think it is unfair to ask from someone what you are not already yourself or not capable of. Saying....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:32 AM
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Yeah, I am not talking with someone incapable of mental empathy, rather bitter and resentful sekf awareness. To be offered, you have to offer something else beside muscles and sex. And ofc, that applies to her too, if she does not posses those traits herself she can't expect him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:19 AM
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You know, the people we pursue say a lot about ourselves. If you invest so much in yourself but you go after women that do not invest similarly in themselves, that's on you mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:11 AM
2

Every stripper I know can do that How to not contour like a stripper..... Skill, I would say. Makeup blending is something one gains with experiences, it is not learned in a couple of days. a fashion mag and one day of shopping https://youtu.be/djuJdzUV4QA https://youtu.be/FvhWlL2M7Tk https://youtu.be/bs4U4_c-5A4 Examples, there is a science behind dressing well. Takes more than a day and a magazine. The requirement is “don’t be fat Most aliments make us fat nowadays, drink Coca Cola and it will…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:04 AM
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For a woman it takes existing Knowing how to dress, nutrition and weight, make up, skin care, hairstyle take skill too. An attractive woman invests more than your average lady in her looks, this requires skill, not many women have the patience for that. Average women don't get much as attention as a 6+ woman would, they come off as plain and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:18 AM
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grinding their asses against random men's crotches ISN'T sexual. Afraid I lost a couple neurons at this one, too bad I can't get them back. Grinding or foreplay (because that's what it is) is not sexual....How old were they again?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:07 AM
2

In every club out there are strippers, sure dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:00 AM
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That's how they also plant drugs and take advantage of her. Rude of me to say this, but men are not angels and some won't be morality shy when it comes to getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:59 AM
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Women do not grow to love men based on their kink, they grow to love them based on context and attraction. If your condition for them to be in a LTR with you is to act on the ink of being submissive, that's unconventional and risky. Maybe somehow it translates to being submissive in all areas in life? In that case, I do not think a lot of women want to be dominated. Afraid at some point you will have to choose between LTR and the heights of your kink, if you are not willing to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:53 AM
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Not necessarily, I think a user wrote once that he got laid simply because he brought food at a party. Depending on the woman, she might sleep with any dude for anything. I do not think it is out of common that women sleep with men because they have weed or alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:37 AM
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I would not date a TRP man, at least not one from from Internet. I would appreciate if they ignored me too. As for the list, it is a general one for first date I would say. Getting to know the person, it goes further to particular and is focused on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:50 PM
2

Imagine how much I must love myself having to deal with that "unflattering characteristic" daily. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:47 PM
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You do not assert dominance by being violent, that's called defense. She does not respect you and beating her won't change that, she is insecure and fears to be alone. But she would rather fear you than being alone, it seems. I suggest staying away from her, she has been abusive to you and now you also become abusive towards her. For your mental health, I recommend spending some time for yourself. Also, seek some methods to control your anger, some day you might hit someone that is the opposite …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:45 PM
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I get curious at people that reply more than once and I look at their profile. The anime memes got me like "this gotta be a xxNP", saw your post in INTP sub. A Chad among INTP lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:40 PM
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An Extroverted person with high neuroticism will be less agreeable, doesn't take a genius to understand. Also, sarcasm works best when it is subtle otherwise it is just bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:38 PM
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I take the note, check how much I have to pay and ask for how much we should both offer for tip? What's the issue? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:27 PM
-1

How comes I end up running into another INTP?!!! (xNFJ here)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:26 PM
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I am a weirdo, been told before. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:19 PM
2

I prefer my percentage, thank you. When they were good looking, they lacked in personality or were fuckboys. Now I am seeing someone slightly above average but with decent personality. Not difficult to guess whom I'd choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:17 PM
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That's not how it works 🤦🏻‍♀️ If we talk about personality typology, types that are low in Agreeableness and high in Neuroticism will be like that. Extroverts are no less capable of behaving like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:09 PM
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When have been women been different, mate? Ever read "Pride and Prejudice"? You would see that women were marrying for money and status, they would abandon husbands for getting themselves a status (example: Madame de Pompadour). Hundreds of years ago, literaly. The poor married other poor because no one else with better situation would take them. Royalty married royalty exclusively (it isn't until the 20th century that they started marrying nobility or decades later commoners). Nobiliy mostly ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:54 PM
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Respect yourself and block her, you are putting yourself through useless drama. You established boundaries then break them as if they never were there. You promote what you permit - you go back to her, you prove you have no value and she is allowed to test how far she can go. Lastly, I would consider some hobby for your anger release, if you indeed "shoved" her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:45 PM
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The percentages mark how much I value the traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:41 PM
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Considering what I offer myself, a "high value man" would be: average or above average looking, average height (5'9 <) makes more than the minimum wage. has common interests healthy BMI is diplomatic and calm does not drink or smoke accepts that if I ever have children, it willbe through adoption. slept with less than 10 people. I am have a bit more of an equilaterian mindset, therefore I am feminine by behaviour and masculine by thought. I am aware of how difficult it is to find such a man, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:37 PM
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Having good homemaking (both) Ability to lead (both) Fixed that, thank you. Reason: You do not want a man (child) that will let his clothes on the floor, won't pack his lunch or take take off table the plate after he is done eating etc. You do not want a woman that is not able to buget for bills or groceries, that can't drive or spend time without her partner. Conclusion: no codependence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:26 PM
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I would say 40% physical appearence, 60% personality, at least for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:24 PM
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Nah, mate. But agreeing to disagree is alright
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:15 AM
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Thats just playing dumb games, a woman with integrity doesn't play those games.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:09 AM
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I like how men describe integrity as hard-to-get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:02 AM
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Arrogance is universal, mate. You can find it in every female animal, the male has to conquer that arrogance to mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:59 AM
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Had my hair all soft of length, from chin length to down half my torso. Guess what? No matter how much I try to straighten it, the ends always roll back up while it is still straight! If somehow there is humidity in the air, it will go back to the original texture! For weddings, the curls only stay if I use a ton of hairsprsy which makes it look like made of synthetic material of a wig. Cut it down to something similar, not regretting anything. I am not old, I am just sick of my hair being a tex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:47 AM
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You could have googled "NSA What do you think I did since you offered no explanation? YOU wouldn't date or take these men serious In the previous commetn you said yourself how they would not take me serious either. I see no issue since me and these sort of men avoid each other. I reject them, they reject me and everyone moves on, simple dating strategy. I made this post to talk about strategies, not moralism "It's me, not you." Lastly, thank you for diagnosing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:41 AM
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I am seeing one that does, I do that. Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:35 AM
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Someone not knowing every jargon circulating around, much surprise. Why do you think men who look for NSA sex care what women who don't do NSA think? No one ever implied they should, tbh. But this is a post about this topic. We can't have hypothetical discussions without someone virtue signaling my god If you can't be open about different hypothetical perspectives, virtuous one included, don't start a thread. Not all people will agree or have the same view.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 07:17 AM
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NSA?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 07:00 AM
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I am cocky in my knowledge of the book at least. Can be sensed from the Moon. No wonder you are a bitch about sex if becomes philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:30 AM
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Well, Socrates was right, we know we know nothing. Yet we act cocky as we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:26 PM
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This is between the two of you, I will stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:20 PM
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Especially when sarcasm is so subtle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:18 PM
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I forgot to be convinced, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:16 PM
2

You generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:14 PM
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You can agree someone is good looking without personally feeling any special attraction. It is called having a brain and some principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:13 PM
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I meant I could feel his bad attitude beside how handsome he objectively seems to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:11 PM
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I would choose this one over any version of Pitt. Never liked Brad Pitt, something seemed off beside his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:09 PM
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Pitt and Clooney are not that handsome, tbh. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:01 PM
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I refered to the counterparts of "skinny and lean" caucasian men. Either way, you only proved your opinion is at least if not more subjective than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:57 PM
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https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/885859639748841473/omEyhNS-_400x400.jpg https://i.pinimg.com/originals/2d/27/7f/2d277f4ec8ee1b95296e42d43b83f7cf.jpg https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DzerTJJUUAEfKww.jpg https://thepolitic.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/alwaysbemymaybe-e1560095257916.png They all seem masculine. > - >
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:54 PM
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If you think Hollywood or New York are surgery free, idk what to say. For the percentage of good looking men in the West there is similar percentage of good looking asian men. If anything, women rather prefer a slender asian guy than an obese caucasian man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:44 PM
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It does, mate. Kpop stars and actors are the George Clooney and Brad Pitt of Korea. Most are tall, slim and lean muscular build, plastic surgery, nice personalities. They are fabricated to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:32 PM
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The topic is about the 20%, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:30 PM
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Debatable - 6'2 We talk of what would be the elite of Korean looks, the top 20% if you will, that actors and Kpop stars are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:29 PM
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you can not lead somebody if you are at an equal level A relationship is not a race in which one has to be better than the other to feel positive about him/herself. What you refer to is authority and respect, a person can be above someone else and not have those; or you can be 55/45 with someone and find yourself in the opposite situation. Support and leadership are not the same thing They are not far from each other. You can not be a leader without the support of other people, there is a differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:41 PM
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Thought there is a social scale here, I have been here for a couple weeks and I do not know the working. Thank you for reply anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:19 PM
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Leading is not being above anyone or submission but inspiring the person to support and believe. Leadership is also inversable unless you want to be a boss for your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:17 PM
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Was refering to your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:15 PM
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Submission is boring, just saying. A partner being able to work as a team hand in hand is more satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:12 PM
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She is right. My father dislikes my mother's evident masculine tendencies, yet he says thats why he married her to begin with - she is strong, dilligent, reliable and loyal. She does both men and women tasks, she worked hand in hand with him while building our home. He'd not mind her to be more feminine in her attire or attitude, but he is aware a woman like that won't put up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:06 PM
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I have both masculine and feminine traits. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:01 PM
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Sherlock but with actual manners is nice, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:56 PM
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Kpop stars are not feminine, they dress depending on the concept of what they are promoting. Sometimes they can be gay looking, friendzoned guy or Chads. Overall, their presence on stage makes them appear to be humble, polite and respectful aka good general traits. In private, some can be quite some jerks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:54 PM
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I read it as "people hate Trump wasn't fantasizing about Peter Dinklage", hihi Made me chuckle twice this evening, arigatou OP senpai.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:48 PM
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OP seems to argue more why she'd date a Kpop star. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:46 PM
1

Who'd be the first?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:27 PM
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​ homeless wouldn't be as desperate for sex Homeless people do not give comfort or clothes up for sex, they use sex to compensate for the absence of those, to obtain those (food, water, warmth etc). Just as in case of prostitution - people give up comfort foe sex. We sacrifice for benefit, we give what we have for what we need most. I do not know of those tribes, but in case of homeless people is understandable and makes sense - it is mostly survival rather than pleasure. While caught in despera…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:42 PM
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I think in exceptional cases, cheating can have deeper rooted reasons. Some human relationships are more complex than we would like to think, cheating that helps a person escape their abuser is rather understandable than a promiscuous woman. Desperation brings the worst out of people, the phenomenon of unconscious and how it affects is an interesting thing. Either way,not the place or the audience to engage in psychoanalysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:27 PM
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Between those basic needs and sex there are also "clothing" and "warmth", two very big steps (clothes and a house). A person needs a house, clothes and food more than sex. If you are homeless and you are in danger of freezing, I doubt you will think of sex before attempting to solve that inconvenience. I suppose if you are left without a choice of preserving shelter, food or warmth, out of desperation a man would accept the inevitable risk of death and rush into at least fulfilling his sexual ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:20 PM
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Sex is a need to most men A need, not a must like air, food, water or defecation. Without it, most become sad, distracted and unproductive Pope Francisc seems to be doing just fine. not different from a person who eats just barely to survive If you think that not getting laid is the same as anorexia or bulimia, just starvation in general, for example, you are a selfish cunt. Think of those who cannot have the option of sex be by market forces or just lack resources I am also thinking of the men …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 01:57 PM
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I just despise any fuckboys alltogether, I couldn't care less of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 01:00 PM
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The only thing they care about if it makes their dick wet Does it look like I agree with them? Courtship has its reason and I adhere to that. Any man that skips that has no value for me, at least. I like to court a man that is also doing his thing and giving me something to value, not a Casanova.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:58 PM
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I am not excusing cheating, just me just joggling theoretical alternatives of why people do what they do. Looking at the reason can differentiate between women that cheat out of boredom or due to another emotional aspect. I see cheaters the same way and I condemn the same with the exception where there is abuse. I just like to judge people and to see if I can judge some more than others, I guess unconsciously is a way to protect myself from doing it. The more I judge it, the more likely to stay …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:17 PM
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No, the internet is just a modern diary of what is repressed in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:55 AM
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If not here, not even in real life. Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:54 AM
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We respect people's boundaries, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:52 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:50 AM
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Indeed, I am. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:48 AM
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There is nothing wrong to want to have similar achievements as other men, if it makes him become a better person why not. Things change when it stops being about him, rather an issue with others. Some women engages in casual sex / dating under their own condition. Blaming them because you can not get what they have is justified, yet in the long run it does more harm. It makes us blind too - some men are not succesful as a given, they dedicate a good portion on their time to achieve. And sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:45 AM
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Smh Tsk, tsk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:39 AM
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It's refreshing to agree with someone. Yaaay 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:39 AM
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Depends on the man and the kind of woman he wants to find. A woman with integrity and low count won't often settle for a man with the past of a fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:38 AM
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Married women are just an example, I have come across as ignorant without intending. Sumimasen. I think I have refered to married woman due to the mention in the title. My thought has initially been reference to vulnerable women in general and how married women can be among them. But, to keep the topic, I tried to focus on their niche. Edit: I refer to the women that cheat to in times of confusion, escapism. Not the materialistic hoes, those are not better than the (wo)men they cheat with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:35 AM
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What a need to asses control, jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:18 AM
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The guy I am seeing knows what I do and say. Thank you, have a nice day, sir. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:15 AM
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Not that you seem to know what it is like to go on a date for him and not the selfies, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:13 AM
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Married women are taken, intruding and attempting to intrude in someone's establishment and use the vulnerability of someone, he is seeking his benefit without thinking of the implications. Married women that cheat are there because they are in a time of weakness (in general). It does not say much about him as a man, but it does say about his attitude. Cowardly hoping to get something, does not inspire trust as a person, let alone as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:11 AM
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I started dating when I have been with my job for four years, after graduating college. The guy I am seeing had no job when we got together, our dates consisted of hiking, bike riding, watching movies on a laptop, walks and eating icecream. Our first date was a "treasure hunt" - a letter would lead to the next clue. The treasure was a tulip, which he still has dry pressed. I would not give that for any expensive dinner he could have paid for. With a compatible person, some things are worth more …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:05 AM
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Those men will have to resign to the idea that a percentage of women do not want that and do not blame if they do not go their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:57 AM
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Dude, my type is the nerdy alpha-beta mix, programmer type. Now you tell what women with similar preferences like or dislike? Pretending to know more than other people I think is called entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:55 AM
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Personally, I much rather like this sort of activity because it allows to observe the person interacting with the environment beside just the classical questionnaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:52 AM
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The woman that wants to date you will, that's what differentiates her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:51 AM
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I mean, you have to get out of the house from time to time to know how to interact and read social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:48 AM
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Can't the same thing be said about a man - seeinf how much he can get of her too? By this logic, man can also test how willing she is to let him smash. This is dating, after all: testing people to see how they interact with us, choosing one that is compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:42 AM
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As I said, it tests for compatibility. If she does that, she is for sure not a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:33 AM
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What about playing tennis in a park or going in bookstore screams "status" to you? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:31 AM
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Easy: issue with power ballance and mitigating interests or conflicts. Younger people are less experienced therefore easier to convince. Older people will make decisions instead of the person in name.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:29 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:16 AM
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The men that know how to "sell" them do. Example: you play tennis, take her to play. You read manga / comics, go for a library / bookshop tour as a date. Women usually are impreassed by involvement, by a sense of action and assertiveness. Organizing that she shall see a subtle sense of leadership, it tests for interests and compatibility. As far as I know, most men do not do it, instead going for the banal ritual of "dinner + go back at his home". Quality stands out but is also rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:15 AM
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In that case, fine. But be responsible for your nonconventionality and do not blame the majority if they somehow do not turn your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:08 AM
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How about just dating one person at the time as most people do, instead? You make sex sound like the utmost achievement of masculinity while it is not. Focus on your friends, hobbies, education and job. If you do well, women to want to have a relationship with you shall follow. Not the loser that thinks sleeping with many women is a form of validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:05 AM
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Pretty sure those incels are losers in most areas of their life, not just involving women. Also, no one should be blamed for their failure but the person him/herself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:55 AM
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See, I do not get alimony. Unless she was a SAH by mutual decision, why should she get alimony? Anyhow, ignore me, I have an ickling against SAH women without any work experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:54 AM
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Your username is nice. How about this, take that!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:55 PM
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Question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:59 AM
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I hold no beliefs, I make general assumptions based on general observations. Less, I do not assume anything about anyone'a experience because to be honest I do not think it is special enough to give it special observation. Simply pointing the "normies" that do not resolve to any current from the manosphere are learning the same by living life as he would by adhering. Similar content, different source.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:52 AM
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I am more poetic in general, can't translate for the taste of each one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:18 AM
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People learn through experience, through actually living life in the concrete pragmatic way, namely going out and getting rejected, gossip, rumour, seeking advice in other people etc. Older generations had the knowledge these "dating sphere" movements pretend to have, you would be surprised listening to them coming out with the same phisolophy yet undermined by different terminilogy. They also know being "woke" does not fill in for the lack of self awareness, which "normies" generally have more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:18 AM
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Depends on what platform, it is arguable that people spending time on Instagram or Snapchat are less Introspective, Intuitive or Open Minded. They are likely to be SJ or SP types if we talk in terms of personality typology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:13 AM
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Literature touches the heart and the sense is made through open mindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:07 AM
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People being judged for promiscuity is a debatable case due to the nature of that promiscuity or the personal moral perspective of each one. "Internet feminists" reacting is a case of those caring enough to offer thwm attention, to begin with. Just as any manosphere movement can be not far from those you judge yourself (we judge others for our own disatisfaction) . Radical aspects are simple are direct, they gain nuance only when analized why they do not fit with our POV. People react to rejecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:03 AM
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At 23 and I started with a mid-term relationship (8 months), first sexual experience beside kissing. Was my choice and I do not regret it, I was more mature and I kinda knew what I wanted. I did a lot" less shameful stuff after the breakup than after a fling I had in my late teens (which I do not consider" dating"). I chose to focus on school and securing my job, while doing both. Was too tired to consider someone else but me, which sounds selfish, but now I am more independent and secure than I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:27 AM
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I think feminists are "butthurt" by the hypocrisy of men that also have similar or higher count, yet they act prude. Or the man that aspire to a high count number, no less hypocritical, which is somewhat justifying their resent. The cases of men being promiscuous but judging women as "sluts" exist, yet for a reason people are being lenient on them. I will get downvoted for sure, but men aspiring to be promiscuous are not far from those that are, they just have not been given the circustances. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:14 AM
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Risk vs benefit is what goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:26 PM
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I considered adopting instead of cats, but life happened and I adopted a decent programmer that I have no idea at what age I started being friends with. One never knows, had I never tried being in the race, I would be reading adoption law for the celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:18 PM
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You want your dignity respected? Work on keeping it intact and consider the implication of sleeping with a man that is giving you nothing to respect, to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:16 PM
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I would much rather participate in the race and be the last to arrive than not participate at all. Personal opinion though, which younare free to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:11 PM
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Only commit sexually to whom you have committed intellectually first, simple as that. Choose what's more important and focus on that. As for why Chads have both, they don't - they focus on one side. If they excell at both, can guarantee there is work and self reflection involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:00 PM
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The issue you want women that you find attractive to be whom they are not. No Extroverted woman will want to be confined out of of social context, she seeks diversity in experience and topics. You either change where you look for the woman of your dreams oe the type of woman. Higher chances are to look within your own work field or associated fields. These women are likely to hold similar values. All the hassle because your values are highly non conventional, so be patient and hunt or give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:56 PM
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Maybe, who cares? I do not hold on convictions with my teeth, dealt with my own insecurities and been heartbroken to know what happens now happens for the reason of majority benefiting more than losing. Even if the benefit is 5% higher than the loss, people are still content enough to delay change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:52 PM
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I think they are fine the way they are. Democracy is not for everyone, we get the chance to participate and not the outcome of the race. Some people have it better and we have to work to be decent compared to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:47 PM
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I live in Europe. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:42 PM
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Which is the principle of demand and offer, applied to all areas on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:42 PM
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What country?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:41 PM
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Depending on the culture, women with wider thighs, more defined butt were believed to be more attractive due to their body being better for childbirth. From this perspective, the body is a better indicator than the face. Though, if we look at the members of the Hapsburg lineage, their eloganted faces and square jaws were a result of decades of inbreeding. In this specific context, I guess the face could tell why they would not be recommended partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:44 PM
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You can't force attraction to happen if is not meant to be, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:16 AM
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When did satire ever make sense? 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 08:29 AM
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That was harsh, wow. Saying that as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 08:25 AM
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You can use the browser in the Desktop format. Should be closer to the real format than the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 08:23 AM
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One would say he wanted to get away from his alcoholic, narcissitic and codependent mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 08:18 AM
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A woman with a face of 5 - 5.5, using the /r/truerateme scale, will have to use her body to increase her appeal. These average women will usually contrast with either heavier make up, body fit or revealing clothing. The women that you would go casually but keep as an option until a 6 - 7 (30% of women) comes across. Men also do not feel that guilty hurting you it is not that difficult to get a woman with similar ranking. When you have an average face, no one is either nice or treats you badly. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:58 AM
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FwB are ok between breakups and dating again, at least you know the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:52 AM
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Not with someone I have dated, but I had issues with my father and my brother regarding boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:12 PM
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I am bad at mechanics, anything relating to bugs or lifting heavy stuff, I also dislike driving, ironing clothes, cleaning the dust on furniture. Not that I expect anything, but would be nice if he took care of those. Instead, I can do good at finances, buying gifts, doing groceries, cooking, laundry, vacuuming. Working as a team, sometimes one has to do more, next day the other does more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:09 PM
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Traditiona are still preserved to a degree, they have not yet disappeared. Otherwise there would be no cultural difference between the nations of the same stage of development. Language, holidays, religion are being passed down, countries still have national symbols etc. In so far, you have not convinced that someone's clothing asserts how they commit or at what risk they are to transmit STD's. If anything, the example of the man wearing women's dresses is still bad. Men participate in masquerad…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:38 PM
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Liberal today means rebellious That's just one of the meanings the word has, you went to the one that is associated by the popular or young culture. In philosophy or politics it derives a different meaning alltogether. Liberalism lost its meaning in modern world The modern world has simply became more accesible to a wider population, people have also became more divided in smaller groups based on their sympathy. Just because we focus on what comes quicker to the mind it does not mean it is all l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:23 PM
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Liberalism can be imprinted in the cognitive structure, not always in the clothing. Liberty as a philosophy can take any undertone, it does not have to be imbued in hedonism, can be limited to the reflection of a thought state. The belief and the attitude are different constructs. Edit: look at the tribes in Africa, they are the least clothed and can be one of the most traditionalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:52 PM
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Clothes do not tell anything about commitment patterns nor do carry the risk of STD. The example is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:50 AM
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By women that want a husband, they are. I find men with a high count repulsive and no, it has nothing to do with me not engaging on the hookup up culture or being insecure. If I recall, having a high N count is a mark of insecurity in itself. Rather with a character trait of investing in quality vs quantity, meaningful vs superficial. For me, personally, I could accept FwB situations because it is based on mutual agreement and is more formal, it actually involves some responsibility. Anything ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:47 AM
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Misread, my mistake. Sumimasen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:19 PM
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Based on this list, I think women are also entitled to some requests, especially to combat the dog "do not talk back" absurdity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:13 PM
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Because she is pretty, but average. Most likely considered "cute" and attractive only to a niche of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:04 PM
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Basically, be a decent human being with some integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:59 PM
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As if waiting and enjoying time for your career and hobbies is a bad thing. As a dating coach said, you date someone to complement you not to complete you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:02 PM
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Why are those men unattractive in the eyes of a woman? Because the dishes pile up, the laundry bin is full, they leave their clothes around and yet some act as if they do not care much. The turn off is the fact that she has to ask and insist he acts as an adult that contributes. He doesn't have to do all the chores, just to make sure he puts his clothes in the laundry bin, do some dishes, take the garbage out and help clean the whole place once a week. Having to care for a man child is unattract…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:51 PM
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It is not just about lying, but how it was obtained too. Marital rape was not considered illegal until recently, so to assume they had sex due to how less involved they were in chores is to also ignore the social and legal shifts that haven taken place ever since. Not only that but the existence of cases where abuse might have been used to obtain it seems ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:36 PM
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Ironic how things change when we get questioned about our competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:26 PM
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