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| 16 | Is the Me Too movement overall good or bad?Or as I refer to it, sexual McCarthyism (the accusation is taken at face value, and the accused is guilty till proven innocent) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/12/25 05:30 PM |
| 38 | Scott Galloway on the masculinity crisis: ‘I worry we are evolving a new breed of asexual, asocial males’ | MenIt is the “men are struggling, women most affected” thesis that Galloway and his ilk are promoting. It was only after it became clear that women can’t find partners that they find suitable that any attention was paid to the “problem”. Not only that, in Galloway’s mind it is as if modern feminism had nothing to do with creating the current state of affairs that he complains about | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/25 06:29 PM |
| 8 | Have You Experienced or Witnessed Mistreatment of Men Based on Physical Appearance or Social Status?A statement applicable to roughly 1/2 to 2/3 of the profession | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/10/25 04:22 PM |
| 11 | Have You Experienced or Witnessed Mistreatment of Men Based on Physical Appearance or Social Status?The same happened to to me throughout adolescence and young adulthood, particularly when interacting with women. It was only when I broke into a powerful, lucrative white-collar profession, and they knew that about me in advance, that they began to treat me as a normal human being. Since then, my adult life has been a fascinating social experiment, since women treat me completely differently when they know that I’m a highly paid professional versus when they think I’m an ordinary Joe. Funny how … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/10/25 04:21 PM |
| 22 | "Teaching men that the core of their identity is inherently flawed isn’t productive." | The “Toxic Masculinity” Lie: How Colleges Are Waging War on MenI had a similar argument in another forum recently, regarding the American Psychological Association’s 2019 declaration that traditional masculinity is by its nature inherently “toxic“. My argument is, accordingly, that the mental health profession has little to nothing of value to offer men in terms of therapeutic treatment of mental disorders (beyond of course handing out psychoactive pills), and it is no wonder that men are looking elsewhere, e.g. alt-right influencers, for guidance on how to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/03/25 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Recognize financial abuse against menThere are more reasons besides the ones you listed, but every one of them is a good reason not to sign that awful, one-sided contract in the first place. I never have, and I encourage all men to do the same until reforms are made | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/12/24 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Fd Pushes The Point That Misogyny And Racism Were To Blame For The Election Loss, Asking To Be Rebuffed. Its The Misandry From The Left That Cost Them The ElectionThx for the assist. My memory isn’t as sharp as it used to be | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/24 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Fd Pushes The Point That Misogyny And Racism Were To Blame For The Election Loss, Asking To Be Rebuffed. Its The Misandry From The Left That Cost Them The ElectionThe WH changed party control for the third straight election. I can’t remember the last time that happened, but it was probably somewhere around 100 years ago | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/11/24 10:40 PM |
| 9 | Fd Pushes The Point That Misogyny And Racism Were To Blame For The Election Loss, Asking To Be Rebuffed. Its The Misandry From The Left That Cost Them The ElectionRather, it was gross ineptitude of the DNC to read the room and take a proper pulse of what swing voters were seeking. This, which manifested itself in a couple of additional ways. First there was trying to run as Republican-light, which they ought to have learned from 2016 was a losing strategy. It didn’t work for Hillary in the Rust Belt states, and I don’t know what made the Politburo think it was going to work this time. Republican voters will vote Republican over Republican-light every time… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/11/24 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Hypocrisy of Therapists,Assuming that it is a “he“, and based on the number of misspellings and bad grammar in its posts, a therapist | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/11/24 01:43 AM |
| 4 | Hypocrisy of Therapists,If you know what’s good for you, do not discuss self deletion with your therapist. You pointed out the reason, that being the duty to disclose. In most states, the therapist can unilaterally decide that you are a danger to yourself or others, and have you locked up. This is the sum and substance of the “help” that they offer, which likely as not will only compound your problems. If you find yourself in that situation for real, I would suggest calling one of the hotlines instead | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/11/24 01:38 AM |
| 12 | Hypocrisy of Therapists,Therapy isn’t geared towards men. Unlike women, we don’t need nor benefit from having an emotional tampon. We’re problem solvers. What we want is the source of the dissonance eliminated and the situation rectified. Therapists of course have an inherent conflict of interest in accomplishing this, because if they do solve our problems and we don’t need therapy anymore, they’ve lost a paying customer | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/11/24 01:34 AM |
| 12 | Men getting in trouble for not interacting with women, is starting to be a serious problem. And this might get worse.Physical attractiveness is subjective for the men in the 5-7 range. For the sub-5s and 8+s, it is much more objective. The data that have been gleaned by the dating apps reveal that roughly 5% men get something like 80% of the right-swipes and half get practically nothing. The phrase “it’s a numbers game” applies mostly to the guys in the middle of the scale; eg the ones that get a right-swipe once every couple of weeks or so | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/24 06:38 PM |
| 22 | Men getting in trouble for not interacting with women, is starting to be a serious problem. And this might get worse.“Creepy” is a Humpty Dumpty word. It means whatever a woman wants it to mean, depending entirely on her fee-fees. You cannot use logic, reason and objective standards to deal with the monumentally irrational creature that goes by the label “modern Western woman” | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/24 06:29 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone have a news source for how many American men go to therapy?I will take that one step further and say that therapy doesn’t help men very much at all. It only helps to the extent that it can provide insight into how to solve the problem(s) that are causing the dissonance in the first place. But it isn’t geared to doing that, especially now that most therapists nowadays are women | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/07/24 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Convicted paedophile teacher appeals to overturn conviction on basis of her genderThat kind of depends on the jurisdiction. In Arizona, Brittany Zamora got 20 years for molesting a 13-year-old male student. I think most people would consider her pretty attractive https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueCrimeDiscussion/comments/1bps04h/brittany_zamora_was_an_awardwinning_elementary/?rdt=47917 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/24 03:10 PM |
| 16 | Hope men here only have issues w hardcore feminists and not women in general!I'm 100% with women who like men, and my considerable life experience (mid-Gen X) tells me there are lots more of them than there are man-hating feminists. The problem isn't even the minority of shrill, hardcore misandrists who seem to dominate the conversation. The problem is that they have been willing and able to leverage the coercive power of the state to make the world a much more difficult place for men to navigate. Granted, there are bad men out there as well. But the species as a whole i… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/24 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Is Male Loneliness Self-Inflicted?Nor was it my job to help a lady who was stranded in a rainstorm and needed me to jump-start her car. She mistakenly left her lights on, and her predicament was likewise self-inflicted. But I did it anyway, and she was on her way in short order. Whatever happened to basic human decency? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/24 10:29 PM |
| 0 | How to cope with the amount of rejection you get as a man?I gave up cold-approaching long ago. I'm autistic, and even though I've got more racetrack behind me than in front (I'm 52) I've never once made it work. My high-functioning autism, I suspect, has a lot to do with that. Mostly I have focused on building a social network. I started with professional contacts and it has branched out from there. If not for the concept of social proof and my ability to use it, I never would have made it this far | /r/MensRights | 23/10/23 04:51 PM |
| 1 | “What does Men Going Their Own Way even mean?” she asksI've noticed that there has been a recent upswing in speed-dating events in LA (of all places). Then when I read further I noted that most of it is due to increased participation by, and events geared toward, LGBTQs (sorry if I left off any letters; I don't mean to slight anybody). Just wait until they start feeling the impact of divorce | /r/MensRights | 22/10/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | “What does Men Going Their Own Way even mean?” she asksWe refuse to be resources to be strip-mined for the convenience of a society that disposes of us like wet snot rags once we have outlived our utility. We have seen through the façade and are no longer willing to be useful idiots. It is no coincidence that military recruiting in the US is suffering for the same reason. Sorry if I made it sound harsh; nothing in this post refers to you specifically. Hence the upvote | /r/MensRights | 22/10/23 06:51 PM |
| 16 | Why do women these days want a guy that treats them like sh*t?I’ve done parole hearings, been to prisons, and been face-to-face with violent sociopaths. I can personally vouch that far, far more often than not, they have very attractive women vying for their attention. In fact, in my state (one of only four that allows conjugal visits), if I can show that an inmate’s girlfriend makes her way to the prison grounds on the regular for their 15 minutes of fun, I have a better chance of convincing the parole board to let him out. There is a word for this phenom… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”WTF did I just finish saying? Do you even know how to read? I said just the opposite of "fat people don't suffer enough consequences". And what to make of the statement "I don't think men actually want a body positivity movement for men". You don't even know what an argument is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”I don't think about her very much either. Then again I didn't give her a "reality" show | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”Of course not. Which is why the advice is, from other guys at least, to lose the excess weight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:01 PM |
| 2 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”Nice straw man argument. Men couldn't give a rat's patooey about "body positivity movements". Our advice to men and women alike is to take some responsibility for being obese, a state of being that is unhealthy and, rightly or wrongly, stigmatized. It might not be your fault that you're obese. But it is your responsibility to do something about it, and suffer the consequences if you don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:00 PM |
| 0 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”False equivalency. All of them achieved success in spite of being overweight, not because of it. No one has offered them acting gigs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”Let me draw you a picture <pulls out box of crayons>. 1) Woman reporter assigned to cover a fashion show featuring male models. 2) Reporter attends said show. 3) Reporter writes article about how there is a dearth of male plus sized fashion models. Get it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”What is stopping straight men from using such silly hashtags on their IG posts, is that there is nobody paying attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”Name the male Lizzo. Without looking it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 01:28 PM |
| 0 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”Wrong wrong wrong. At least according to this fashion writer, who just happens to be female https://fashionmagazine.com/style/plus-size-male-models/ . Now granted I don’t attend fashion shows; I’ve got better things to do with my time than sit there and watch people try to sell me overpriced shit. So I defer to the experts, such as they are. But what this is, is women saying one thing and doing the exact opposite. In other words, it’s Tuesday. And as far as mommy starting a movement for them, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 01:27 PM |
| 11 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”The hypocrisy you speak of will come into existence as soon as there are male plus-sized models, and a “body positivity movement” for men. In the meantime I’ll wait for the average weight of the women in my country (USA), currently about 170 lbs or 77 kg, to drop down to what mine is (70 kg). Until then don’t even get me started on double standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Men's lack of self-respect is part of the reason for their struggle in dating and financial success.The "foodie call", which roughly 30% of Generation Selfie women think is a perfectly acceptable practice (https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/06/190621140343.htm) is good example. But certainly not the only one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 04:01 PM |
| 3 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseSeeking Arrangement, with a ratio of 4 women per 1 man, would like a word. No big surprise there https://healthyframework.com/dating/review/seeking-arrangement/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism?Women now have opportunities that their grandmothers could only dream of. While I have big problems with some aspects of feminism, the idea that a woman can do just about anything, just about as well, as a man can, isn’t one of them. We need all the help we can get and can’t afford to waste talent, regardless of the wrapping it comes in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Are there any women in favor of the passport bro movement?This. I grew up in Brazil, and learned the language, and a bit about the culture. I had to set straight an old friend of mine who became enamored with a girl from Brazil. he intended to bring her back to the US and live happily ever after. I asked him how it went when he met her family--a big deal in Brazil-- in português. He couldn't answer me in português as he lacks sufficient command of it. Plus he hadn't met her family, obviously, and probably would not be able to communicate with them in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Women should not get mad at their guy friends for ghosting them after they reject themYou not only can, but should, ghost narcissists. Which is what I think you were dealing with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | All pills - Is (seriously) dating a single parent off the table for you?I dated one once about 30 years ago. She was the complete, real deal. Super attractive, super into me, her kids were great. Her ex left because he discovered, after three kids and 8 years married that he was gay. But he was still very much involved in the kids’ lives, and the child support checks arrived on time and in full every month. Problem was I was up to my elbows in my career and didn’t have enough free time to devote to the kids. So we broke it off after about six months, and she ended u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 12:35 PM |
| – | Most of the young adult dating divide is caused by the internetOh it’s real. I can’t tell you why it exists, but it does. But if women are saying it is only the damaged women who do this, then there are a whole lot of damaged women out there. I think back to the sackfuls of fan mail that Richard Ramirez (aka the Night Stalker, who raped and murdered 13 women) got from groupies, from all over the world, once he was caught and locked up. He eventually married after he got 19 death sentences. Or the fact that San Quentin, the prison where my state’s Death Row … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Most of the young adult dating divide is caused by the internetIt is you who can’t read. It was you who said, “negative social status is a deal breaker for most women”. You made no reference whatsoever to “bums” in your statement. Sure, a zoned-out homeless person has low social status (duh!). But that is not what you wrote (or more likely, what your mother wrote for you). Putting aside what grade level you read at, I don’t know what you consider to be “negative social status”, but most people do not hold notorious criminals in high social status. That is o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Most of the young adult dating divide is caused by the internetSociopathy is definitely not a deal breaker for a significant number of women. Pretty much very notorious criminal you can name has a bevy of groupies at his disposal, and conjugal visits are very much a thing. I’ve represented prisoners before the parole board in my state, and one of the things I try to show is that the prisoner has some ties to the outside. Often that takes the form of a loyal wife or girlfriend who dutifully shows up on time every month, at which point they are given a privat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | The worst advice dating advice I've ever received.It’s not even advice. It is a meaningless bromide. I mean, duh, isn’t “being oneself” what most people do most of the time? | /r/seduction | 01/05/23 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?After she had initially pursued him. Part of me thinks the whole point was to set him up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?Multiple women with the same man, or if you prefer, unofficial polygamy. With all that implies; there is ample data to show that monogamous societies are more stable https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/01/120124093142.htm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Alpha widow ?Also common is when the guy she blew off when he was younger and not yet established, gets some sort of powerful, lucrative, usually white-collar gig. That one arguably hurts even more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.The number who are overweight (BMI >25) is nearly 2 in 3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Trad Wife TourismDo a little research into the so-called “passport bros”, and you’ll get an earful. As for the foreign women being “exploited”, might that be the exclusive province of the women affected, and not the concern trolls? Let them decide if they are “exploited” or not, and act accordingly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Trad Wife TourismIt sounds to me that a lot of modern Western women are getting triggered by certain men—whom they don’t want anyway—voting with their feet. And their passports. I don’t get why it’s is problem either aside from said women not getting their narcissism indulged | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Question for conservative men: Would you ever raise another man's child?I (62M) am not conservative. I have no children of my own. Never wanted. I would raise someone else's kids only a few rare, narrow sets of circumstances. Ex. the mom would have to absolutely rock my world. The child(ren)'s sperm donor(s) would have to be making their child support payments timely and in full, unless the mom herself is a widow. If said sperm donor is the prototypical sociopath that women can't make it work with, I can't run away fast enough. Don't want to be in the middle of a dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 07:10 PM |
| 2 | What can South Korean Population collapse tell us about the future of gender and dating in the West?The other reason for declining fertility is that pre-Industrial Revolution, when economies were mostly agrarian, having large numbers of children was a necessity. Now, in industrial and post-industrial times, children are more of a burden than a benefit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.Charles “Tex” Watson, who was in the Manson cult and participated in both the Tate and LaBianca murders, fathered four children while behind bars until the state of California finally curtailed his conjugal visits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:37 AM |
| 9 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.As did Richard “The Night Stalker” Ramirez, who raped and murdered 13 women before he was caught, and got sackfuls of fan mail regularly delivered to his cell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of datingBackground: I’m slightly neurodivergent, and had the pleasure of moving to another country at a young age. I gained an appreciation for their culture and learned the language. I’ve since moved back to my native country. I’ve found that I interact better with people of the foreign country better both there and in my native country. I figure that part of it may be, for them, the novelty of it, and part of it may be that the people in my native country are simply not as friendly/accepting of those … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 11:56 PM |
| 5 | Genetic research suggests that in prehistoric human hunter-gatherers, more than four women reproduced for every manIt was for a similar reason-to prevent the sexless males from killing off the offspring-that humans created monogamy, which has only been the norm for the last 1,000 years or so. About 1 in 4 primate species are monogamous, and in humans it is very much an artificial construct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't looking for wealthy guys, they are looking for guys that splurgeDon't know if this is a proper comment for a CMV, but here goes. There is a pretty simple rule you can follow. Ask yourself if the person making the request has earned it. In some of the examples you gave the answer is obviously no. I think you have good enough radar to spot parasitic gold-diggers after some of the experiences you have had. They ghost as soon as you don't accede to one of their demands. So that makes it easy. But in a situation where you two really vibe with each other, and you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:04 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill's AppealAdd to the list of explanations: The decline of monogamy. No-fault divorce has turned marriage into a dead letter. Hookup culture, which has resulted in fewer men getting more kitty while the rest are left out in the cold, has accelerated ever since, and dating apps are ready to sound the death rattle. Pity, because the evidence is clear that while monogamy is very much an artificial construct, there is no question but that monogamous societies are more stable than polygamous ones. Welcome to dy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How many times in your life have you been rejected? How often do you have dates?How many times have you been rejected? Forget about counting. They don’t make numbers that are high enough. More troubling is how women have taken to ridiculing guys who had the guts to approach them, and making videos/posting them on Tick Tock. Or doing something equally stupid or insipid. But as long as you don’t care, you’ll do fine | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 09:16 PM |
| 9 | in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from?This has been more or less true throughout human history. In the course of mapping the human genome-the science from which DNA matching, among other things, was developed-one of the things the research revealed was that every one of us has about twice as many female ancestors as male ones. It showed that something like 80% of all the women who have ever lived reproduced, while only 40% of the men have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Seduction is easier than people thinkThen they shouldn’t be giving advice, especially if they can’t effectively communicate that advice to the intended recipient | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Seduction is easier than people thinkThen when you intend to say, “be the best version of yourself”, say that. When giving advice (to the extent that “be yourself” could be considered giving advice), be specific | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | For those in successful, happy relationships, what advice do you have for the PPD community?If you want a successful LTR, choose for character and integrity and not necessarily for looks, height, status, $ etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:57 PM |
| 2 | I believ that The bar to be considered attractive for a woman is way lower than It is for menI’m also neurodivergent-high functioning autism, and I make good $. But not in tech. Instead I went into law, as one of my Jedi-powers is hyperlexia, which enables me to absorb lots of arcane, seemingly useless detail. I had to develop some other abilities, mainly public speaking, to perform well in my field. It is for that reason that I think NDs can develop adequate social skill. It just takes a shit-ton of work. I still don’t read social cues or deal with social situations well. Also, I work … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 12:52 PM |
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